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I say: "Oh sweet! The penis picture exchange game! Here's mine"! Then I send the picture of a penis twice their size. Or I send a very nasty one, the medical record type of nasty one. I got this idea from a lady here, but I don't remember who. I just thought it was brilliant, hahaha! They see me trollin', they hatin'...

I think some of the attachment problems may be due to people being young or inexperienced or even just in a bad place in their lives. When I first got started 3 or 4 years ago, I was starved for love, affection, attention, etc. So much missing in my life caused me to develop inappropriate feelings that led to much grief. I wasn't able to separate sex and chemistry from real love and attachment. Experience makes such a huge difference. I totally understand what ER means. If there's no chemistry there's no point and there's no way to force it to happen. Only experience, however, will let you understand that you can have tremendous chemistry and really like each other while never forgetting the true nature of the relationship. I enjoy this hobby so much more now that I have no confusion in that regard. I would definitely walk away from any situation in which I felt un-reciprocated 'feelings' were being developed by EITHER party.

Chemistry is not emotions or feelings its a connection. You can't buy chemistry or pretend its their. You either have it or you don't. There is a HUGE difference between chemistry and feelings and the two should not be confused with one another. I won't spend any amount of time with anyone that I don't have chemistry with, there is no point. However if you choose to wreck great chemistry with the confusion that you love me - its bye bye. No amount of money or great company is worth the problems feelings cause. If you had feelings for your doctor you would probably find a new one, same goes with a companion. I hate having to be blunt and to the point, but there are ALOT of people out there who this its ok to cross the line when it comes to feelings.

So many things. First of all I am sitting in my greenhouse where it is 29 degrees. Just about ready to strip down - no wait, not good imagery. My road is open to traffic but only one track with 12 foot banks on either side but I am free! I went to Veseys yesterday and got my first seeds so may plant them today. My house disaster is almost cleaned up. I will be in Halifax soon for about a week with all Of my kids there and my baby grandson. And so far, it's only a rumour of another snowstorm on Saturday. Lol.

I laugh, shake my head, then have a "yurk" moment, mark as spam, delete, and forget about it. Dick pics are a turn off! Additional comment: And no, Lee, you cannot send me one either lol

I think this is a great attitude. With some clients' postings, I get a distinct impression that they are projecting onto the sp, then get either hurt feelings or anger when they finally realize that the sp is not swept up in mad love & emotions for them. They may read 'signals' that are not there, or the sp may be unintentionally giving off a 'i want more' vibe, or something they say is misinterpreted. She wants to let him know she appreciates him as a client and wants to ensure he knows he is welcome to contact her again, and he sees that as her falling for him. And she is put on the spot, fear of confrontation, conflict, backlash or just hurting someone's feelings, disappointing them, etc. Loss of income, of course, as well. an sp who does screen well doesn't want to lose someone who went thru the process and started off as a good client. Additional Comments: I firmly believe you shouldn't stay unless you are the type of guy who is willing and able and ready to just go with the flow. Something attracted you enough to get you to the door, and it wasn't just the photo in the ad. So you may be a guy who proceeds with a now lowered expectation, but maybe allow her to do her thing, and see if her thing does something unexpectedly good for you lol i just had this happen recently, i would have been happy enough had he decided to go, he decided to stay, and I thanked him for being a good sport, actually. But he was super nice, polite, generous natured, not rude, condescending or crude, otherwise i would have been the one to show him the door. i doubt if his uncertainty could have affected my personal self esteem on any day, but even less so on that particular day. I know i am not a match for everyone, but i don't expect to be and i don't try to be. I don't tell new clients i am the 'best' or 'number one' or 'great at' anything in particular, i don't tell them they will be 'blown away' or even that they 'won't be disappointed'. i don't hype myself up, and if they still decide to show up, I'd rather they choose to stay because they want to, not because they feel obliged having taken up my time before they got there. it wasn't a lot of notice, he didn't take up more than 15 minutes betwen phone call and arrival, if he decided to go, no one was turned away to accommodate him.

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

I know lately I've actually received a few dick pics literally out of the blue from guys. :icon_rolleyes: So, I'm wondering personally how everyone handles these! Out of curiosity, ladies (&service gents), how do you react to this? Personally, I have a habit of either ceasing contact or getting angry at the guy in question. Gentlemen, why do you send this, if you ever have? I mean only if you've sent these photos without any indication that she wants one-- do you feel like it may be expected of you to send? :ThankYou:

Block! How rude is that?

I can't begin to understand why anyone could feel obliged to send stuff like that. Do any of the ladies text pics of their rack or other regions?

On second thought..... humor people who aren't afraid to express themselves....... honestly men who are kind to and thoughtful of animals humble intelligence those who are giving, helpful and understanding.... without expectations acceptance men who can cook well.... ultra sexy!

Maybe it's me or this early hour LOL but when I hear the term feelings used it conveys the idea of like and affection beyond just chemistry/connection and even friends. Feelings to me means the "L" word....yes love. Whether real or puppy love This is supposed to be no strings and drama free. A lady wants a good client, not a boyfriend And most gentlemen like this lifestyle because there are no next day phone calls etc Love implies lots of strings and a drama in the making and in this lifestyle would usually be one way without feelings reciprocated A early morning rambling RG

Hi darling, I remember way back that a French lady friend of mine that was visiting and that after I had told her so hot stories told me 'well if they say French ladies R hot, Québécoises R boiling hot!!' and that's what I provide in my companionship times!!! A very boiling hot lady and just aiming at pleasing U and just wanting to make sure U R having a great relaxing and pampering time babe!! But just should U be aware I am a size plus beauty which mean I am not a Barbie darling and LYLA has many Barbie ladies that R very sexy. I am not there to try to divert U from that fact. I love my curves and they can be very pleasurable chéri !! I am an open minded lady that really loves to please in many ways. I am Barbara, an artisan of pleasure and I hope I will get to meet U very soon darling! I am pretty with mid long flamboyant curly red hair, sexy green doe eyes, natural 38D and curvy as suggest my pics. Sexy week of March 23rd to 27th From Monday to Wednesday available from 9 am to 4 pm. Thursday, March 26th from 9 am to 8 pm. Friday I will be off. If U would like to see me at a later time let me know babe with enough advance and I will probably be able to see U love. Beginners welcome! To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Thanks darling! Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

Not wearing any.

I'm having this problem as well.. I'm not getting any emails from Lyla. (Not that I mind having to sign in everyday, but email notifications were quite helpful..) -P

I do prone a certain degree of relationship with clients and other SPs/MAs. But not the GFE kind. Just a certain level of intimacy to get to know to what point my regulars are willing to try new trends or what kind of play they like. Also in different events (i.e. socials) I get to meet to know what kind of personality my eventual encounters have, so if it does not click with so or so, I know what I'm dealing with... We are just strangers aiming for the same goal: Play. Why not doing it with somebody you enjoy being with, no strings attached?

too soon; it ain't over till its over. I just think its some politician jumping on the band wagon to get his name in the news.

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

no image search is full proof no matter what you do. They can also write bold text across like a ph# or Name "CANDY" and that often can throw it off. It still is a valuable tool tho because not all fakers go through the trouble because there are so many suckers out there. I am surprised Google doesn't watch for the flip though... disappointing.

FEBS MONTHLY DISCOUNT WINNER HERELOOKING, PLEASE PM ME IN TWO WEEKS TO DISCUSS APPOINTMENT. Shelia 32 D size 7 1/2 feet size 2 dress 22 years 5'7 120 lbs Green eyes Black hair NO PLASTIC SERGURY ALL NATURAL XOXO Details: Hello Gents, As many of you know Ive been around for three years and love what I do, I offer a deep massage and a wonderful MA experiance. Hands ONLY. The rules are very simple and are implimented by the spa. It is an MA experiance ONLY! There are many advantages to the my regular clients as follows: 10% off all prebooked appointments (in room only, door fees do not change)- a prebooked apoint is booked the week before.Upon your third session booked with me you will recieve a 20% discount on that session. All prebooked appointments MUST be canceled 24 hours in advance, if not the 20% discount will not apply to the third session. All prebooked apointments MUST call if unable to make it on time. There is a 15 mintue grace period, after which your appointment will be canceled and classified as a no show. After three appointments missed. All discounts are no longer applicable to you. THERE IS A BANNED LIST! NO SHOWS WILL BE BANNED AFTER THREE MISSED APPOINTMENTS IF NO CALL! After your thrid apointment you will be entered into the monthly draw for a 50% discount on your next session. One client will be drawn each month. And will be anounced in the daily thread. Next lets talk about sessions I do offer fetishes I will tie you up and dominate you! But don't worry I offer some of the best sensual sessions around Wink I do allow the use of toys such as vibs, ribbion(to tie you up), and a ridding crop, other toys may need to be requested in advance. RESPECT IS NOT A CONDITION! CLIENTS MUST RESPECT ME OR BLACK LISTED AND I ALWAYS RESPECT THEM! The most important aspect of all sessions is it must be fun! FOR EVERYONE! Don't be shy asking a question is never a bad thing -Love your intellectualy stimulating and kinky MA Shelia xoxox This weeks hours Today - 1-10pm booth Thruday- OFF Friday 1-10pm booth Sat 10-6pm Triple A spa Sunday - NO AVAILABLE BOOKINGS Prices- Door fees: 50$ half hour 60$ 45 mins 70$ Hour

And the Punishment is ?

Getting a great price on some upcoming flights....

Your senses were not mistaken and didn't deceive you either... but actually you saw an extremely beautiful and captivating lady! I will fascinate you from the first moment we meet. You will learn that I am a woman who not only has stunning looks, but also has every possible desirable quality you could wish for. With intense seductive charms of a true woman, being both wild and passionate but also able to be softly seductive and delightfully romantic. You will become addicted to my velvety skin, which becomes warmly and infinitely sweetly sensual in the heat of my desire. I love varied and sentimental moments of intimacy. You can be assured your wonderful moments alone with me will put in the shade everything you have ever experienced before. Breathtaking attire transforms me into the vision of heaven. With dedication and tact, I will grant you your deepest and most desirable encounter. I hope you will give me the opportunity to pamper you and cater to your every need and wish. Allow me to help you relax and put a smile on your face. My goal is to provide you with an unforgettable time with an appreciative, unrushed experience. I am visiting: Halifax, March 27th - 30th Encounters will be possible at a discreet location, by pre-booking only. Kindly view my website, prior to contacting me http://www.emilyrushton.com If you would like to get better acquainted, I can be reached at [email protected] Take a moment and introduce yourself, for compatibility is as paramount. Your privacy is important to me and discretion on both parts is held in priority. All information shared will be kept private. I prefer to establish a connection via email prior to any encounter, and I enjoy getting to know who I will be visiting with. Therefore short notice or last minute requests will be declined. I look forward to hearing from you, Emily

What loneskater doesn't know is there is a camera there and a projector inside LOL

I met with Aura solo about a month ago, and was very happy. She is very hard to get a hold of though.

I think there is a distinction between feelings and chemistry. I personally screen on chemistry, so that we both have a fun time and it's not "mechanical" as you said - but do we want feelings involved, meaning someone hurt down the line? No!

After much putting off I finally decided to give one of the very very few Asian SPs a try, having a thing for cute Asian girls made this a very very desireable encounter to persue. Well i am glad to say I was not disappointed by Sasaki, her pictures are real and she has a very cute personality and a wonderful appearance. Transforming from her very nice clothes to a sexy white bikini with designs on it and a garterbelt. I was not rushed out and she even engaged in coversation with me before I left, I will surely visit again.

I don't quite understand when you say "flip " the image. Do you mean someone actually takes a picture , then flips it as if it was a mirrored image and somehow this may allow said picture not to be found. Wow what a scam....this is what BP makes us resort to :(

One of things I love about Emily..... is ....like me she lives by Alan Jackson's words.... It's always 5 o clock somewhere ;)

Never heard of any protocole...it goes from no tip at all to very generous tips and gifts... You decide ;)...whatever you will give will be appreciated. Bianca

I would say, I will find out when he stops contacting me for appts. He doesn't owe me an explanation. I don't deal in emails, phone calls only, so it is unlikely someone is going to call me up and tell me, or announce it in their 'last' appt. I've had guys disappear for a year, then show up and let me know they moved to another province for that year but came back. Others may be in ill health, a long break they tell me they were in hospital. A much longer break with no contact, I can only assume the worst, but even still it is no one's business but theirs what they do with their time. Some may lose their job, their last appt with me indicates that, and i don't hear from them again. I used to have one semi regular after a break would let me know he'd been seeing someone for a while, lol. if i enjoy someone's company that doesn't change just because a situation changed. I've worked other jobs that i connect with coworkers, and customers, and other relationships, but when the job ends, so do these connections with no hard feelings. They were always business relationships, not BFF friendships, they don't owe me anything, i don't owe them anything either. we interacted due to one specific reason, without that reason, there is no connection.

Looking forward to attending my first social with my girlfriend, Malika Fantasy....see you there ;)

It is still too early to determine if it is gone forever. A good lawyer could probably get it open again soon. They could also go the "non-alcohol" route like a lot of US clubs.

Sens in the playoffs!... For now lol Was at the game tonight, got a bit concerned at the end of second that they would lose the game, playing very lackluster for me. But pulled it off in the third!

I don't know if I would call it ending a relationship, but a couple years ago under my previous cerb handle I had a moment where I decided I wouldn't see Emma Alexandra again, I had seen her twice both two hour appointments. The first time I saw her was amazing we got along, she put me at ease it was the first time I would say I had the prefect intro-appointment. I remember I went home and wrote a glowing recommendation about it, even said something I shouldn't have (toothpaste). A few weeks later she announced another trip on her birthday no less, I made an appointment right away. I found the thought of seeing her again a little consuming, I worked double shifts so I could get the time off and so my budget wouldn't take a hit. The second appointment was even better then the first. I remember near the end sitting on a couch with her and deciding that I wanted to take a back from the hobby, it was because she was occupying my thoughts a little to much and I wanted to try to find something real. In my mind I had the highest expectations of her this second time around and she blew them away, she lived up to the fantasy that I had created in my mind. I decided that no matter what I wouldn't see her again, I saw her twice both times were prefect even now those two appointments are the best I have ever had and I want to preserve that memory, where do you go from 10, not up. I never told her that and I hope it's OK that I put it up here. Now years later I'm kinda back at the hobby, I take long breaks between appointments. Few and far between make it better for me. Posted via Mobile Device

Lets be frank here, my response is as one sided as yours. If a lady ends the relationship 99% of the time the client has done something - plain and simple....A client ends the relationship when he has moved on or wants more. Yes, relationships are complex but a business relationship is one that does not require feelings and should not result in resentment. Im firm on my belief that if your resenting things, you crossed the line. A client should NOT develop feelings for a companion and if he does he should walk away instead of making things weird.... One can't compare this lifestyle to a real relationship, this is how lines get blurred and how problems start. You keep mentioning drama, do you enjoy it? a relationship in this lifestyle should be drama free....

Emily with your depth of experience you are an eloquent advocate for the many wonderful ladies working in this industry I do hope however that you will forgive me if I suggest that your response is somewhat one sided ... To suggest, as your post does, (unless I am misunderstanding it and maybe I am) that escorting relationships end only because of the behaviors of the client or that they are the only source of the drama ignores the fact that there were two parties involved and while I general accept your premise that us men might be the more frequent culprit I think it is safe to assume that from time to time it is the ladies behavior or even more likely both parties behavior that lead to the problem and the resentment especially in arrangements that have extended over longer durations. My post simply suggested that relations are complex and difficult and that when the lines get blurred (which takes the acceptance of two parties) it can cause drama and that both parties need to restrain their emotions and seek to take the high road.... not always an easy task but certainly the desired outcome. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

And today Sunday Boston lost to Tampa Bay so they are still just 1 point ahead of Ottawa but Ottawa has 2 games in hand. Go Sens Go.

I note to say thank you so much you wonderful kind generous gentlemen of Ottawa... I truly enjoyed myself in your great city for one week... I will return in summer!!!! Best wishes to you all.. Stephanie xo

Spent some time with this Lady last evening and can verify the pictures are real. In fact she is better looking in person. Had a great time and would definitely recommend Her.

Well a few comments. First the STD risks...if anything, my experience in this lifestyle is that the ladies are absolutely religious about safe sex. I would hazard a guess that the STD risks are more than likely less in this lifestyle than in random bar pick ups. And my personal experience, clean bill of health STD wise since embarking on this lifestyle in July 2010, and I've seen since that time exclusively professional companions Second, why are there social responsibilities needed in the actions between two consenting adults in this lifestyle. Partners should be responsible to one another, but social responsibility??? Do you propose the same "social responsibility for bar pick up's. Companions are very religious about safe sex, far more than any ladies I met in civilian life. That said, if your focus is on social responsibility shouldn't it be more directed towards the civilian dating scene As for your assertion about sex addiction, who warns whom. Does a prospective client warn a companion about sex addiction because a lady may be a sex addict. Or does a companion warn a prospective client about sex addiction because the client may be a sex addict. We are all adults and will choose to do what we like, making adult choices for ourselves. Unless you want us to all have warning labels like cigarette packs have written on us across our foreheads. What you want isn't social responsibility. It is infantilizing all adults for having adult sexual relations because maybe, just maybe a few adults have sex addiction, and of those, likely even less in this lifestyle have sex addiction Finally, nothing done in this lifestyle will make it be considered normalized. As for legally normalized, it was until very recently, legal. And so called social responsibility as you see it wouldn't have changed them from changing the law. I as of yet haven't seen any evidence from you substantiating your arguments. Just you posting your unsubstantiated opinion and wanting us to accept social responsibility as you see it. Just my opinion but I get the impression from your posts you have some hidden agenda or something in your personal past and you want to blame sex addiction and this lifestyle, and not take personal responsibility RG

Wire transfer? He made me shovel his snow to get in the last time!!!

Having sex with a stranger. Wait! I do that already. Lol

I normally see the lady in the evenings. So my fantasy would be waking up the next morning to breakfast in bed. Made by her. Followed by morning sex and a shower for two. ;)

A few things for me...guys that don't come showered and sparkling clean. People that play games with us..example: booking and no showing. People that think we are all on drugs...AND last but not least ..dick pics...lol

from Nicky in Paradise album: Very Beautiful woman :)

I would hope no one would be that inconsiderate. As that would put the sp, at least myself in the awkward position of having to ask him to leave. That is if it were obvious. We obviously need our health to do our job and being resonsible I wouldn't work until I wasn't contagious. Hobbyists should do the same. What if I needed to work because of up coming plans or for any reason. No one can be that horny that they couldn't wait and if they were, use your hand.

I have been working continuous overtime since April 24th, 2000. I don't think she has caught on yet... other than the whole divorce thing.