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To each their own. We should all focus on what works for each of us individually. Variety, after all, is the spice of life! :)

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

Public client recos are kinda redundant: 1. We already have a bad-date section. 2. There is also the note feature. Also, it feels weird to me to reco a client. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, as long as you did nothing to warrant being black-listed, and your hygiene is good, you're ok by me.

I'm not sure how cost effective it is but I know my parents found a washer/dryer they liked, and while they actually went into the store to view it, they ordered online, arranged delivery and install and was a very good price. While I love online shopping and finding a great price, for many things, especially big ticket items, I want to be able to feel it or open it or sit on it. Just because it looks pretty doesn't mean it's built well or comfortable. For me, nothing will replace being able to see it in person before you buy on certain items.

I haven't been here long, but I do like the fact that everyone has a common interest, and I am learning to be the Escort that I want to be, and there is no shame on that! I love what I do, and have met many interesting and sweet men, who have lifted me up beyond words, and I have had gratitude from them, not just for activities but for listening and helping them through personal issues, this to me, is more fulfilling then anything else! Lyla has helped with this, in introducing me to knew people, and friends, in which I greatly appreciate! I agree with Christy, Ottawa is the capital of the planet lol and just because we are on Lyla,doesn't mean we are better or worse then anyone else:) unfortunately I think people when it comes to posts,, need to be abit more thoughtful instead of making accusations and telling people to be quiet , that needs to change, but as a whole, I do enjoy the site :)

Kind sincere words from a friend when I really need them. My three Siamese cats, My 11 year old nephew, I get to relive my life again and he reminds me of the joy and mystery in the world. The hope of spring and plans for new flowers, gardens and just the joys of learning about gardening . I'm a late learner with an expert teacher. A better relationship with my mother, neither of us are here indefinitely, I am cherishing out time together. My belief in the spirit world and the comfort it brings, truly this is the area that makes most sense to me. The possibility each day brings. Additional Comments: All good points Cristy, I love my cats because they don't drink my wine. They look at me like I'm the smartest person ever and all they want is love and to sleep at my feet. Can't beat that!!

I would tell the person contacting me that it was an ad from another day when I was offering specials, but am not anymore!

Victoria, I find this thread to be distasteful and not in the spirit of this site. I truly feel an apology is warranted. It's one thing to discuss bait and switch (which you have indicated to not be the case), but you are critiquing those that photo shop their pictures to "an extent of changing how they really look". It airs on the side of airing out dirty laundry. I can just see the pm's you must get saying "who are you talking about". Since you have read the sticky on airing out dirty laundry, you understand this is not ok. Especially after posting this: If you can't support others, don't complain about those YOU feel are doing something you don't agree with. Either support others or stay silent please. My civilian look is totally different then my business look. I'd hate to think that someone is going around saying I look nothing like my pictures. My pictures are 100% me. No retouching and no photoshop. I do crop them but that's it. I admire those that get professional pictures done and have no issue with them enhancing them. I've never lost business because of someone else's business practices. I do my thing and do very well. I would never post a critical post like this. If you know of someone who is blatantly posting pictures on THIS SITE that are not accurate, AND you have proof, post in bait and switch or notify mod. However insinuating otherwise is not cool.

Years ago when I traveled more and I was looking to meet a lady in whatever city I might be visiting I would always pull out the phone book and the local paper.... the reality now is that I can't recall the last time I looked in the paper or yellow pages... now that might just be me because I enjoy using technology. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I think the Yellow Pages is going to dry-up pretty soon. Every year, the book gets thinner & thinner. I haven't used one in years. A waste of trees and advertisers money IMO. Old technology.

I may be an escort but first and foremost I am a woman. Yes this is business BUT it is one of the most intimate businesses out there. It seems sometimes that a gent I may meet thinks I am some sort of machine or borg with no life beyond that ,with no emotions. But tell me this would you want to meet with someone cold and detached or is that small intimate connection even for that moment in time the reason you hobby. You can love your significant other like they are your last breath but lack that bedroom spark. People don't marry based on how the bedroom goes they marry their personality their habits and dreams. We are woman if you treat us right we bloom and warm and that moment spark can be explosive and you leave with a smile. We are in a business and that should never be ignored,like you get up and go to work every day we get up puy on our mask(make up) and clock in. To each their own as one lady already said,ask her but always keep in mind even if you do connect outside that at the end of the day you go to bed with your wife and we take off our masks and go shopping or pay a bill. Ok enough from this peanut gallery good luck and happy moments for all.

I have been on this wonderful site for just over a year, and I have to say that I find it incredible. There are so many supportive people, great information, wit and candor that it makes my day just reading some of the posts. We are a community that helps each other, is supportive of one another in every way. What have I learned from Cerb/Lyla? I have learned: - to be less self critical - to listen intently to others - to encourage others - that I am not to everyone's taste nor they to mine (but politely said, lol) - that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what I choose to do as a hobby - is that there are wonderful people in which I can be friends with for a few hours and have lots of fun with, no strings attached - to give advice to someone of something they ask that I may have great knowledge of - to be welcoming and more passionate in my personal life - to celebrate all the little flaws that make me who I am I found out about this site from a friend, and I am so glad that it was shown to me. It is the best decision I ever made to be a part of this wonderful community. I give thanks to all of those that have helped me, and I hope for continued reading and learning on here.

it seems pretty obvious from the lack of SPs that have availed themselves of this have not brought it to fruition that it is indeed a dead issue. I personally don't want to 'rate' clients. If a lady asks me about a client that has used me as a reference, I will tell if I have or have not seen the person. I don't go into precise details about the tryst, I may say enjoyable, punctual, courteous, etc. But, only if a lady has asked me. Like Tempted Monk states, I wouldn't want to put clients on the edge by 'rating' them, as it seems. Best to leave the recommendations to the clients themselves.

ha! touché ;) lol

Oh Cristy, I am going to bed shortly . That is the highlight of my day. What a wonderful gesture and I am sure it meant a lot. I never lose faith , nice and kind people exist close to us , we just don't know. Love you, love you!! Awesome. :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile: Additional Comments: Can you imagine the dancing now??!!

I was in a store to day and a customer was short $, he asked his friend for $ but his friend didn't have extra, so he went and put back some of his purchase but still fell short. I felt bad for him so I paid for his purchase, it wasn't very much. He offered me what $ he had but I asked him to pay it forward instead when he could. I felt good for doing this and hopefully someone else will benefit as well.

There appears to be some who just don't find something appealing until it is no longer available. I'd tell him to stop contacting you. If he hasn't booked yet I'd say he isn't going to.

I watched the last episode tonight...I had recorded it...it was amazing!! now we have to wait for the next season....:(

Ask yourself -do you really want this client? If so, tell him it's no longer available and if he wants to book he'll have to pay todays rate. If he wants the old rate he'll have to wait until it's offered again. This happens often to me as well, when I advertise my 1/2 hour , because so many request it, most want it after I stop offering it, lol. Just the nature of the beast:)

Hello!! I'm not sure where you are, but I'd love to take care of your dog:) I'm sure you won't have a problem finding someone to go to Aruba. By the way that is one of the few places where you wouldn't have to quarantine your dog.

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

This is where I have an issue. This site is about positive issues. By "venting," it changes what this site is about. We are not allowed to vent. I'm sorry this issue bothers you, and you feel it's important to point out what others are doing (again this is your opinion not necessarily shared by others, and I still don't understand why you felt the need to vent about). Now, if you were talking about public figures (like Halle Berry making herself appear white in her recent pictures), that's an entirely different matter. However, to mention being 20 pounds heavier, buck teeth and such, sorry, it's not ok ON THIS SITE. Unless you have something positive to say...Please stay silent about these types of issues. Thank you for apologizing.

You've given no real examples of ladies using photo shop overkill as you put it, hence it comes across as any lady using professional photographers (who use photoshop) are misrepresenting themselves. It does a disservice to many ladies out there, and leads prospective clients (especially newbies) to think professional photos are misrepresenting the ladies If you could cite facts to back up your opinion, then the response you're getting would be different. But you've cited no facts, just posted an unsubstantiated opinion And your unsubstantiated opinion has to be offensive and disrespectful to each and every lady who invests in herself, time and money, getting professional photos done. Said as someone who has been fortunate to see many ladies who have had professional photos done, and the ladies in person, if anything are much more beautiful than the photos they use to represent themselves RG

It been 2 years on the 11th that I have now belonged to Cerb. So I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned, especially of late 1. That is: Who some say is a good client may not necessarily be for me. If I get the sense that the person interested in seeing me isn't my type best not to follow through. I've done this to many times resulting in wasted time, no fun and regretful moments. I used to get the feeling just because someone, especially a Cerb member, wanted to see me it was necessary to book. I guess I was afraid of the repercussions of refusing:( One persons champagne is another persons beer! 2.Just because someone is a Cerb member doesn't mean their character is golden. I am grateful to be here and thankful I'm accepted by a lot but I have realized that there are unreliable people everywhere, cerb is no exception and, trust has to be earned it isn't guaranteed by any site. Nothing is. :) 3. This is a great place to discuss sex and to dirty talk. 4. We are lucky to have a Canada wide FREE advertising site and I'm happy and thankful to be a part of it:) 5.Thankfully, a site where there can be no bashing, some still make digs, but hey, they have to have something to do:) 6.That perhaps Ottawa is the center of the universe, lol. 7.Research, research ,research- this goes both ways. 8. Being a provider isn't anything to be ashamed of, it can be like actual dating and sometimes surprisingly nice things can result from it. Never be afraid to go beyond your boundaries. Its my time, my body and, mine to share and to do with as I please:) 9. Ignore, ignore, ignore maliciousness. When you do, good things happen:) 10. Most importantly- ENJOY- its alright to have a good time with a date. It is after all about having fun and wanting to give someone else a sample of "you" and that needs to be beneficial for both sides:) 11. Recommendations are nice but they are just an opinion 12. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm the best at just being myself, to some that'll be great and to others not so good, win some lose some. I've learned that its okay not to be liked by everyone . Well my last sentiment-I've been bad-I've been booted out a couple of times-live an learn-move on:) and I've been good-have lots of rep points now:) and cerbie friends- so thanks for letting me into your neighbourhood:)

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One other thought here. Yes we are all, ladies and gentlemen alike part of the same lifestyle, opposite sides of the same coin if you will. But for the ladies, it is their livelihood For men, it is their escape The reason for writing a recommendation on a lady is to help her business, her livelihood Why would I as a client want to be rated/judged in comparison to other clients for what is supposed to be a private escape And what gets rated/judged. Isn't part of the reason for the escape to be in a judgement free zone if you will Also doesn't this open the door to a client telling a lady "give me a good public recommendation and I'll write you a good recommendation too" A rambling RG

Well I'll toss out a couple answers for you ;-) 1) When you set up a date with a lady tell her you would prefer her to be in control of the session...keeping in mind in all communications, you are paying a lady for time and companionship only. Don't discuss specific activities, just that you'd like her to be in control. 2) When it comes to duos, often a lady's website has links to ladies she has as duo partners. Also, this thread, granted from last year, might help http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=162123&highlight=thread And when you have your encounter with a lady, tell her that a duo interests you (assuming the lady you are seeing is one of the duo partners, nothing than a worse faux pas than asking one lady you'd like to see two other ladies)...does she know of any lady interested 3) Maybe I'm misunderstanding your question. The biggest hurdle for meeting any lady, at least me is not stumbling and falling weak kneed when I hear the knock on the door Seriously, contact the lady using her preferred method of contact, provide all screening/verification information, and book a date with her A couple ramblings Hope they helped RG

She is difficult to get in touch with but definitely worth the wait. Sampled her once and wish she would come back to SJ but alas she won't.

Cato Does that remark mean your going out to buy a boat !!

Don't think I've looked at them in years. At one time I might look if I was in a motel in a smaller center to get the lay of the land.

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The reality in most retail operations now is that for major appliances you pick out what you want in the store and they then order it in so the online purchase and delivery is not that much different. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I decided to try one of the Asian ladies, turns out, they're all the same one. She posts multiple ads with different phone numbers. Experience: She is VERY attractive, so if you like cute Asians, she is. (Photos are not real but she is comparable to those). She is big on security so just take it easy. once inside her style is opposite of how you would get a massage. I think it's Thai style, where you get right down to the action first and release, then she does a very relaxing massage after. She says why relax you when at the ends, you have to get your level up to release. It was a good session, I will be going back as she gave me her set of numbers she uses. Worthwhile everyone. Not a waste of time.

I did my home work (thanks to Gabriella's recommendation) and came to a couple of conclusions. 1) There are 71 posts altogether in 3 threads from different years on this topic. Only 9 of them are posted by SPs. It looks like Ladies are not interested in this idea at all, even in the discussion of it. Obviously, without Ladies support, this idea is dead born regardless of any reasoning or "grey" legal area. So, nothing to discuss here and probably additional explanations are not required. 2) The style of discussion (based on the same subject) evolved over years. Nowadays it became more informative and multidimensional: OP has the opportunity to learn a lot of new things about him/ her-self based just on the suggested subject :-)

Oh my on this topic, we need to be nice, time to go to bed...... :wink:

oooohhhhh, handcuffs can be ssssoooooo much fun! I have both, the regulation ones, and the pink fuzzy play ones. But I do agree, they are definitely not for a 'first date' scenario, but rather when you have worked a trust between the two. I can't decide which is better though, handcuffing someone, or being handcuffed, hhhmmmm, something to think about, lol

I feel so sorry for him, and it's true, at least for myself, yes there are times when I don't feel good enough, rather it be one thing or another, when you mentioned "a post " that made you feel bad, yes I can attest to that, my opinion got me into a venting and firing squad! Although I'm not allowed to vent, others are! Yup certainly makes you feel bad :(

I was going to say something like this, For example, we see a picture that is obviously photo shopped. But there is no reason why we also must assume that the photo is not longer representative of the sp herself. That was the point i was trying to make. There is a style of photographs that are meant to attract a specific type of clientele, this is what i was referring to when i said professional photos tell a type of client that the sp is heavily invested in her reputation and her business, and for that type of clientele, it signals that she is the exact sort of escort he wants to see. This is not a client who is impresses by selfies, he is impressed by what professional photos & marketing tell him more about the escort. There are escorts who know who this clientele is, and you can see from their pro photos that this is their main target market. Some agencies are aware of this as well, so they have a tendency to use that same style of photography on all their escorts pages. it isn't misleading, it is doing exactly what it intends to do. i haven't met the sps who use this type of photography, so it isn't my place to decide that they are using photo shop to mislead. If i met face to face all of the escorts who have chosen this type of photography (as in that type of client) then maybe I could claim that i know it is all misleading to use retouching. This is a different market, it is not one that i make claims to try to access. However, I can recognize that the style works, and it is meant to draw in that kind of client. Also that these clients are comparing sites/photos/info from many different escorts or agencies, and all of those are using the same style photography. if the word 'elite' has meaning, this is where it would show up. Elite (wealthy, traveling, business class) clients seeking elite escorts (discreet, professional, attractive, mature, able to blend in social activities, and so on).

Today is the first day since I got a flu that I feel myself. Slept a whole night with no coughing and slept in my bed ( was on couch to stay upright) Also is now 6 days with no smoking:) Have no plans to start either! Yay, blessing in disguise:)

Good evening everyone! I've missed you all TERRIBLY!!! (I was a bad girl AGAIN!) I owe many apologies in regards to my previous ad's, they were only meant to be smart, cute and unique, but new rules ban this creativity and each one has been deleted. Everyone here is trying to adjust to the best of their abilities with these changes, and so am I. That being said, from now on I will just have to be short and sweet :) As many of you already know, I have moved into my very first house in Kanata. It was a very big endeavour for me and I want to give a whole hearted thanks to those here who have supported me well beyond any expectations I have had. I can only hope everyone will be so kind :) Gentlemen, thanks to all of you, over all these years, I am at the prime of my life! I wouldn't be the woman I am today without you! My reviews here are FANTASTIC but instead of dwelling on the past, I want YOU here with ME now to generate NEW levels of insurmountable, immeasurable happiness for each tomorrow. *insert BIG HUG here* I'm overwhelmed with excitement to be back!!! :) Please call/text/email me ANYTIME you need to share a smile, I'll always be around from now on. 613-8l8-o993 [email protected]

taking my daughter shopping and buying her a ton of cloths and also some sushi. ( I did not eat the sushi)

Seeing my daughter smile and hearing her laugh. she has had a real hard time suffering from depression. she is off her meds and the old daughter I missed is coming back. she even took a long bath and got all cleaned up for school tomorrow. those that suffer from depression or know someone that has it I am sure can appreciate that these are big steps for her and I am very proud of her.

I'm ready to answer another question...lol Bianca xxx

For me, kissing is seductive, it always turns me on... Especially if you remember that I love kisses on the neck as well ;) Kissing is something natural when connection is shared. I also think it makes the date more fulfilling and fun. Who will say the opposite ? Who doesn't like to feel the heat raise, one's body getting warmer and the atmosphere becoming more sensual... ? You know when you think: omg, he/she is into it, this is going to be really nice and fun !! This being said, each his own and I understand and respect people that find it too intimate or engaging. For those who like kissing, a magical date might be what will come next... ;)

Ok, so let me add, a nice warm meal shared with great company Doing something nice for another person, with no expectations Taking care of loved ones... My dog makes me happy... And chocolate never fails ;)

I have a few game acquaintances that for a variety of reasons I most likely will never meet and we kibitz a bit through email and twitter. There a couple of companions that I have seen and communicate with but most likely will not see again professionally or socially for that matter but we do banter, communicate and have a similar world view. I'm open and genuinely interested in people and have learned lots of personal stuff but by no means do I consider these to be friendships. After all it's a business relationship and when the business ends I have no expectation of anything else. Peace MG

Her username is SUMMER LOVE If you like to contact her directly

I feel sorry for people who don't drink. If he had been wasted he'd have kept on dancing while giving them the finger and maybe even belly bumped them! For all its perils, moderate binging can be great fun, even when older, overweight, bald, and making a damn fool of yourself on the dance floor all by your lonesome (and yes I'm speaking from experience, lol). But yeah, poor guy.

You know your own answer: you just have to reverse the order you've said things. It shouldn't be: "Because my rational side is telling me that from the MAs perspective it is a business transaction after all. But I just can't help but feel a genuine connection with some of these amazing girls I've met." Rather, think to yourself: "Because I just can't help but feel a genuine connection with some of these amazing girls I've met. But my rational side is telling me that from the MAs perspective it is a business transaction after all." There are several very pleasant and exciting women on this board (at least one of whom is reading this thread!) with whom I would happily chat regularly because I've enjoyed my time with them, and I don't take them to have been merely pretending in seeming to enjoy my time. But that has occurred in the context of a professional relationship. I see a physiotherapist frequently who is a very affable young woman, but I wouldn't expect her to carry on even casual non-romantic conversation with me on an ongoing basis by text or email. I think she likes me well enough, but as a *client*, not as a member of her social group. It is the same thing with anyone on this board, though they might provide companionship rather than physiotherapy. Personally I would feel like I was simply exploiting an MA's expectations if I carried on regular private social conversation but did not have relatively short-term plans to engage her professionally. I don't mean I wouldn't banter here on the Board or wish someone a happy new year privately, but trying to establish a social relationship is, I think, either misunderstanding the situation yourself (by thinking that's what they want) or misleading the other person (by creating the impression you are planning to seek professional services). (now to hit post and see whether I've inadvertently included banned words!)

Not something I have ever tried... it does sound interesting though. In regards to doing it with a SP it would have to be someone I had a long standing relationship with....lol pretty sure it us not a first visit suggestion lol