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'Twas shortly 'ere Christmas, when all through Cerbland Not a client was stirring, not even Cometman; The research was done by many with care, In hopes that SP's soon would be there; The men were all nestled all snug in their ways, With visions of SP's coming their way; And Mod sat in his den, and I in my home, I just settled down to write a silly old poem; When out in Cerbland there arose such a clatter, Mod sprang to his office to see what was the matter. Away to the keyboard he flew like a flash, Threw open his windows and called up the cache; The peace in Cerbland from the newly written posts Gave him pause to reflect on Cerb, coast to coast, When, what to his eyes on the screen did appear, But a cute little image with eight tiny reindeer; With a little old driver, Lee Richards he thought, But surely it can't be, it must really be not? But more rapid than rep points, Lee's coursers they came, And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name; "Now, Gabby! Now, Katherine! Now, Emily and Cat! On, Meg! On Angela! Penelope and Nat! To the East coast we go! Let's go all the way! mrrnice is awaiting ,we mustn't delay!! As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly, When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky, So off to the coast the coursers they flew, Some an acquaintance to make and for some to renew. And then, in a jiffy Mod saw on the screen, Good golly not eight but t'was really eighteen Samantha and Sarah, VJ, Sophia, Isabella and Cleo and could that be Malika? mrrnice dressed in fur, from his head to his feet, His arms opened wide so all he could greet; A bundle of toys he flung to the girls, The vibes and the eggs they each had a whirl. His eyes -- how they twinkled! his dimples how merry! His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry! His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow, And both he and Lee had a toast to the show; He was happy and smiled, just like an old elf, And Mod laughed when he saw him, in spite of himself; A wink of his eye and a twist of his head, Gave Mod to know he had nothing to dread; MN spoke not a word, but went straight to the flock, And hugged each one tightly while having a talk, Then waving his hand he laughed and he said, Have a great flight home its time for my bed; Then Lee sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle, And away they all flew like the down of a thistle. But Lee heard from behind, ere they drove out of sight, "HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A GOOD-NIGHT!" Apologies to Clement Clark Moore, original author!

It's been a few years since I lost my father to cancer, not long before christmas. The first christmas without him was awful, I wondered why people were smiling, shopping, why the stores were open, why traffic lights were working why restaurants were open-didn't they know he was gone! I was angry, sad, empty, and very lost. The thoughts and feelings that come upon you when you suffer such grief are unexplainable, unexpected and simply put-brutal. But I got through and a few more christmases have come and gone . Each one a little better than the last. So to those who are going through this holiday season with loved ones who are ill, or to those who have lost theirs know their is someone thinking of you and wishing you hope, health, happiness and strength and if this message touches and helps bring comfort to just one person then it will have done it's job- as posting it helps me as well.

When you see something unjust happening, and can not seem to do anything about it! I hope this injustice is soon fixed and the person responsible will be held accountable for her actions! Pathetic what some do over jealousy! How do some people sleep at night I wonder?

While not a full-service provider, I am often complimented on my behind...

If I recall correctly, the woman consented to sexual activity while unconscious, but had not consented to being anally penetrated with a dildo. This is why communication is important. This is also a difficult case, because the woman withdrew her complaint, which she said she initiated due to a fight with her partner, but that prosecution proceeded because usually when a complaint is withdrawn it is because of pressure on the complainant. That said, I feel that some leaps have been taken in this conversation in terms of consent. Sexual activity with someone who is intoxicated to the point of unconsciousness is completely different from a non-invasive sexual activity that has been clearly communicated and consent has been obtained (and hey, it doesn't hurt to check in with them when they wake up. Yay communication!). Can we please not confuse the two?

This is me getting ready for a date ! after a few rums before I look in the mirror of course...... ha

As an independent provider, I offer an all-inclusive rate; however, I also appreciate small gestures as an appreciation for the level of service I provide. This doesn't necessarily need to be a monetary amount (although this is also welcome) - I love receiving little things that thank me for the time spent, such as cards with a few personal words, a cup of coffee, a bottle of wine to share, some flowers to decorate my incall, a mix CD of songs you think I'd appreciate... Something that speaks to our time spend together.

mine would be that the shooting today didn't happen

I'll be selfish, I have two. First is for my dad to beat cancer. He's got a positive outlook, his leukemia is the most treatable kind, but it's still cancer and to say I'm concerned is an understatement. One plus, tomorrow morning heading to my brother's, dad and his wife flying in to Ontario for a visit before heading home, family gets to see him this weekend Second, my mom is having eye surgery in the New Year. The surgeon is good, and the surgery isn't considered risky, but still it's your eyes, I want mom to come out of the surgery ok RG

The one thing that didn't seem to be addressed in the article is how the nice guy thought that a woman who was asleep actually wanted to have sex with him at that moment. I understand why he would have thought they were going to have sex eventually, but I don't get how he could think she would like what he was doing and wanted it when a woman is ASLEEP. What is she going to be enjoying, exactly, while she is unconscious? I really feel like this was the wrong case to be having the debate around. It's not a case of them both just being drunk. She was unconscious and apparently that is not debated at all. The man who put his penis inside her agreed that she was unconscious when he did it. So I think that talking about all the mixed signals he was receiving due to cultural factors is a bit moot in this case. Of all the time they spent together, flirting and drinking and all of that, he chose a time when she was passed out to penetrate her. How can he have thought she wanted that? I understand that one will have a reasonable expectation that a series of flirtatious interactions may lead to sex. I don't get how that leads to penetrating someone while they are asleep, and then being so confused as to how that wasn't okay. I think if you really have the expectation that a woman is going to have sex with you because she actually wants to, then you would also expect that she needs to be conscious when the sex happens. It's pretty hard to think she's enjoying it while unconscious. Because, you know, she's unconscious. I'm sorry. I just can't get over that.

last min. cancellations..

I would second that wish ... I'd also wish that this is the last time we ever hear of such a thing. That everyone would put their guns and weapons down, that those who are troubled and mentally ill get the help they need. That the innocent children of this world would all have the chance to grow up, and realize the joys of life! That we really could find a way to find peace on earth. The events yesterday have left me feeling depressed about the quality of humanity in this world!

It is with mixed emotions that I am saying goodbye to the management and staff I have had the pleasure of meeting and working with for the past month. I can not thank them enough for having me and I will always truly be grateful for their support and understanding. With that being said, I am now independent once again and hope that all the fine gentlemen I have met over the past year and still hope to meet will support me in my new endeavours and take this opportunity to revisit my website and get to know me anew this Holiday Season and in the upcoming New Year!! I wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and nothing but peace and happiness and lots of love in 2013!!

Back to my natural hair colour and a stupendous sexual romp!

I want to send a hug to every one in Cerb those whom i have met, those that i have had the pleasure to chat, those whom have visit my profile, those whom i have yet to meet and those whome i may never meet or chat with! Thank you for your welcome to this community and support through out the year! I am happy and proud of being part of such a great group of ppl! Best wishes during the holidays and a new year filled with prosperity, and most of all LOVE!

Hey Cristy, To be loved and admired and missed so much, your father must have been a great man, so don't worry, I truly believe he's in a better place. As a father myself, to have a child think so highly of me after I'm gone is the best legacy I can think of. I'm sure he's proud and happy! ;-)

I almost lost my dad last week as he was rushed into emergency surgery for a very invasive procedure that will leave him unable to return to his current home. He is set to have another surgery within the month and right now the docs are not sure if he is strong enough to survive it but without it he will have a slow and painful death. I know where I will be on Christmas Day. At the hospital beside his bed.

Lost my sister at 44, a female cousin at 32 both in December and an Aunt, my Grandma and Mom within 48 days of each other, my Mom on a Xmas Eve. We carry on, a little bloodied perhaps but unbowed. I am blessed and appreciate all I have. Xmas to me is not about gifts or food or drink, its about warm memories and making new memories and laughing and living and helping others less fortunate than me. Peace MG

Yes you have been naughty Katherine....... and Santa is extremely horny this year ;)

Hope to meet you some time in chat.., i love making new friends :-) We have lots of fun always there!

A long preamble to a highlight. I got home last Sunday from a wonderful trip away. Great driving weather both ways, lovely visits with family, reconnecting with some old and new friends, and a very important life lesson began to take shape in my mind. I was home for one day before receiving word of yet another death in my family, so I am back home again tonight after having been out of province yet again. I was sitting here just feeling blue and down when a good friend gave me the following simple reminder. We can be thankful, at least in my case, that I have a home, I have heat and food, I have family and friends, and I am alive and well. Thanks for that important reminder that puts things in perspective, and this is my highlight of the day.

I think you would love my dramatic hourglass figure. I have a very pale skin, a fit stomach with sexy abs and a BIG and round bum :D Take a look at my website for pictures. xox

Lol.....nothing gets by you, Angela. Thank you and thank you to everyone else here. What a great community of like-minded people. You're the best.

It's heart wrenching,tragic,and so sad when kids at the age 5-10 are wiped out in an instant. On a side note and not debating it here in his thread, but my lord the USA has to revisit their gun control act. Especially when a young man can get that kind of ammunition.

I think that I have a nice round booty... :butt:

For my father to survive the second major surgery he is facing in days that could very well kill him on the OR table and then to recover from it (along with the first surgery he is currently recuperating from).

I am not an SP but I do! all Natural Latin round Booty!

I just wanted to give u all a special thank you for making these last few days of incalls wonderful. After hearing how some of you are looking for that safe, clean, and friendly call girl for regular hosting services; I will defiantly be catering to u guys and girls more often in the new year :D --I'm so sorry for shutting down my in call location. I didn't know u'd miss me as much as I'd miss you. Will u ever forgive me lol-- tee hee I hope u all have a safe and wonderful holiday full of joy, love, and laughter <3 Love Always Miss Madison Sparks P.S: you were all perfect and wonderful, and I was grateful and blessed to see u all again :)

I'm not sure it's new to suggest that good people do bad things (in fact, I'm sure it's not). I think it's great to look at why good people do bad things, so I'm not suggesting this premise is wrong or that it shouldn't be examined. In fact I applaud that kind of analysis. But I thought the point of the article was to suggest that we have a culture which makes it easy for "nice" men to rape women without realising that it's rape. And the issue I have is that they're making their case badly with an example that doesn't prove their argument. The article is suggesting that our culture convinces men that sex is the end game in a lot of interactions with women and that consent is implied in all kinds of ways. So the nice guy who had sex the unconscious girl had reasons to think that it wasn't rape when he was doing it. That's the argument they seem to be making. I think there are plenty of cases where a conversation about explicit consent and the definition of rape should be debated (as mentioned by an earlier poster), but I just don't think this is one of those cases. If the argument were that our culture teaches men that sex is just for them, and a woman's enjoyment isn't important, then I could see the point they were trying to make. At least it would make sense in this context, as there doesn't seem to be any understanding on the part of the guy that the sex he had with said lady should have been enjoyed by her as well as him. From what is mentioned in the article, he seems to have just penetrated her without any preparation while she was unconscious. I just don't see how anyone, drunk or not, could think that a woman would actually be able to enjoy that. But that's not their argument. What they are actually saying that all the signals he received led him to naturally believe that she wanted to have sex with him. I don't think it's really debatable that he would reasonably assume she wanted to have sex at some point, but it doesn't square with the idea that she wanted to have sex with him while she was unconscious. I don't see how our culture made it hard for him to understand that, based on the signals he was getting. It just doesn't follow. The issue I'm having with the article is that the case is poorly made because the example they use is a bad one. These two people didn't miscommunicate, they weren't both drunk but conscious, there was simply no consent or implied consent. There are LOTS of debates to have about rape. This one is poorly done. That's all I'm saying. I guess I am also getting my back up, truth be told, about the idea that sex with a woman while unconscious is something a nice guy would do just by mistake. I know that no one is saying it should be forgiven, or that it isn't rape or isn't wrong, but the argument in the article is that he didn't understand it was wrong when he was doing it. The argument is that it's confusing and hard to tell. I don't think it is and I'm frustrated that so many people (in general, not on here) think it could be. So I'm not trying to suggest that anyone who finds the article interesting food for thought is excusing rape, nor am I'm trying to present myself as a simpleton who sees things in black and white terms. But is this really the case we're going to use to suggest that consent is hard to figure out? (P.S. sorry that all of my posts lately are a mile long...)

Getting laid while listening to Motley Crue's 'Too Fast for Love'. And the look on my carless, single-mom friends face when I surprised her with the real Christmas tree she'd been wanting but couldn't get for herself.

Whether I have one or not, I am not a fan of the poking and prodding required to try to prove to me that it exists. Quite happy with the orgasms that come from clitoral stimulation and those from intercourse.

Yes, It is tired but it confuses so many new members. People GFE is a STYLE of service and that is IT! Don't read into it any more then that. It does not mean specific services are include. NON-GFE = "Wham bam thank you mam" (Simple quick fun off as quick as possible - some refer to this as "Mechanical") GFE = Try to build a little fantasy or chemistry. Not just a quick romp. PSE = What you see in the porn tapes. All STYLES and NOT A SPECIFIC SERVICE! I feel like I too am beating a dead horse here but it is important that NO ONE assumes that GFE includes any specific service. If she advertises GFE and is "mechanical" or "Just trying to get it over with as quick as possible" then either you have done something to make her want to just get the visit done and over with or she is false advertising to lure you in. That is something you need to decide and always YMMV as factors like hygiene play a BIG roll in millage.

Spiced rum and eggnog is delicious...! I'm with MellyBelly on this one. I like making eggnog martinis. The recipe calls for rimming the glass with honey and graham cookies... --drools--

Donating my December "discretionary" fun money to the Xmas Cheer Board. Other donations to Humane Society, Winnipeg Harvest, and a few others. I've got more stuff than I'll ever use. That's my present to me. Peace MG

They've been announcing/advertising it for some time. I didn't go but it was well advertised in the club over the last month or so.

Following Cleo's post earlier this month, i'm adding my voice as the other side of the equation (the client's side of course) on Nikki Thomas' show "Sex, Brains and Money". Enjoy!

Try a shower table massage. the best in the world. I go to Vegas with the boys every year, some times twice. They strip you down and you lay on a table, where they basically wash every inch of your body, and very well I might add. It's very warm water and she soft scrubs every where lol then back to the room for a private "Happy Ending" 1hr for $100 plus tip!!!