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Counter point. I hand my ID to people all the time. Some ask for it when you pay by CC. Some ask at the liquor store or a bar. Car dealers take it and photocopy it. Tattoo shops make a copy. I've sent pictures of my ID via email (which is not secure). I've uploaded photos of my ID online for various reasons. Hell people lose their IDs all the time and they don't panic. They just go buy a new one and don't care what happened to the old one. So ultimately what is a provider really going to do with your ID? Don't send it to some random provider on LL you don't know but if you've done your research on a specific provider and they are reputable like several in this thread (Ms Manda, Pamela Luscious, etc.) you really think they are going to try and ruin your life over $500 just for fun? No. Because it looks bad on them too and how they conduct business and it will impact them. They will only use it if they have to in situations such as assault.

Just checking in. I've been away for so long. I'm considering seeing those I've met previously. Let me know if you're interested. Pictures for respectful inquiries. Pre-booking only. In-call and out-call with screening.

So DONT contact someone that requires I.d or deposit problem solved!!! It's really that simple

The escort verification debate boils down to two sets of risks: clients worry about being scammed, blackmailed, or losing deposits, while SPs worry about being stalked, assaulted, or worse. From the client’s side, the safest move is to choose established providers with a consistent online presence—websites, socials, and reviews—so that verification isn’t even necessary. If you still want reassurance, it’s fine to ask once, politely, and keep it minimal—something like a non-face note photo. Demanding nudity, special outfits, or endless free verification is just exploitation and a waste of time. If the provider requires screening or deposits and you’re not comfortable, the solution is simple: move on and book someone whose process fits your comfort zone. From the provider’s side, the best practice is to publish static proof once—via ads, socials, reviews, or a website—so you don’t have to repeatedly prove yourself to each new client. Setting clear boundaries around deposits, screening, and acceptable forms of verification cuts down on friction and weeds out time-wasters or power-testers. Both sides need to respect each other’s boundaries; asking isn’t inherently wrong, but bad asking is. In the end, if the fit isn’t there, walk away without drama. And beyond all of this back-and-forth, there’s a blunt reality: by participating in this activity at all, both SPs and hobbyists knowingly step into an environment with inherent risks. Each side chooses to accept that exposure, and while everyone wants to minimize the danger, the truth is that no policy, deposit, or screening process fully eliminates the gamble. Good luck figuring this out—because the risk never disappears, it only shifts.

Texted pic of her.

Unclear at this point hence my first comment. And then Robert turned it into a witch hunt again...

You should be more worried about your wife going through your phone and having to sleep on the couch for a week than worry about us screening tbh. Be scared of your own wife, not us.

I think it should be left, for the post history, for both sps and clients, for future reference

You can probably book a flight for Montreal and find similar hot women for very reasonable rate and get gfe and come back home and it would still be financially better decision. I always say to guys, no nut is worth that much guys. just jerk off before you book so you can think clearly. 90% its just coz you are horny LOL.

Hi baby💕💕 I’m Sweetie! Just like my name, I’m as sweet as can be😋 Being extremely skilled, and with passion for what I do, I am a great choice if you want to come get your mind off life and relax for a while… 😍 ‼️DUOS AVAILABLE. I am happy to announce that I will be working with Natasha and we will be offering duos along with a variety of extra services upon request.‼️ 🥰We have booked an upscale private residence, please come visit us🥰 I will ask to verify and make sure you are legit before disclosing the address 🥰. Tantric duos available, regular FS duos also available. If you want to see me alone I only offer Tantra. Looking forward to hearing from you💋💋💋 ABSOLUTELY NO UNSAFE SERVICES - NON NEGOTIABLE 929E3374-4FED-4AF8-AFD7-3664214B6B26.mov

Yeah I was hoping to get some clarity from the original poster before commenting but, others clearly didn’t feel the need to wait for that lol 😂

Uhm.. Peanut gallery here 🙋 Did the op mention that the provider in question asked for a deposit or cancellation fee, or was this person merely posing a hypothetical question about cancellations in general? 👀

Robert please stop turning every thread into a "SPs are evil" conversation. I've never had a provider cancel when I had paid a deposit before. Typically providers will say deposits are non refundable and if they have to cancel they will apply the deposit to another booking time. In some cases you may be able to get a refund but it's up to the specific provider and situation. I have had providers no show or cancel last minute when there's been no deposit. Never been offered a discount and wouldn't ever expect one honestly. End of the day it's a service offered and shit happens. Sleeping through an alarm is a shit reason but shake it off and move on.

Can you clarify the issue here please. You don’t say anything about having paid a deposit in your message but the latest replies (e.g., from RobertDion) are implying a deposit was paid. Are you asking about whether a deposit should be refunded if an appt falls through or are you asking if you should be compensated for time lost due to planning and showing up for the original appt, which fell through due to an issue with the SP? Different issues I think…

I've been following this thread from the beginning and for me it always comes back to the same thing - I have a choice. No one is making me meet with a provider who requires ID, a deposit or both. But what really irks me is the 'issue' of providers having control and hobbyists not being able to do anything about it. That doesn't seem to sit very well with some folks. It is being dressed up as some half-baked policy discussion when really it's about power. I also think language matters...'hobbyists'. For me, this is fun, exciting, a bit of sexual therapy, sometimes it's emotional therapy or some mix of all of the above. For many if not most providers, it is their livelihood. It is a profession and a business. This industry was here long before us and will be long after we're gone. I am just grateful for the many lovely human beings I get to spend time with. The way I choose to go about my 'hobby' is to manage my risks through research. I also realize I don't get to make the rules. If I don't like it, well, that's my problem.

Y’all worried about handing over ID, meanwhile you expose your whole life, real name, location, and family, on social media every single day. Make it make sense 😂😂 Hack our phones? Then what? A thousand burner numbers with random IDs. It’s literally no different than the old yellow/white pages phone book that is public. 😂 And let’s be clear, what’s actually illegal here? Buying, not selling. That law exists to protect providers, minors, and to fight trafficking. Two consenting adults aren’t at risk. Nobody’s getting dragged to court for paying a consenting legal provider. Facts.

That’s all non comparable to someone offering services at their most vulnerable state (naked) especially ladies inviting strangers into their personal space. It’s understandably very dangerous and valid as to why SP’s would ask for ID (which I never have a problem providing) And just to add, everything you’ve named off has booking processes, to go to get a wax you need to give your name and history many personal health questions on those sheets. They may not be asking for ID, but they still want to know exactly who their client is. The only way for SP’s to do so in this industry unfortunately over text would be to ID someone to make sure they are giving valid info.

She does facetime verification, no deposit required and I got GFE (for extra)

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I had the pleasure of spending time with Natasha this morning. I had an amazing time with this gorgeous woman! I suggest you meet her while you can! Because Nsman had drawn my attention to the age she has posted on her ad, I asked if she would show me her ID (enough to confirm it was hers and see her age). I can confirm Natasha is of legal age. No worries there guys!

In the very rare chance this would possibly happen to me, I'd refund the deposit and offer another spot. It is a tough business. I know not everyone holds themselves to high professional standards for conducting their businesses. Mistakes happen and we are human. Best paths forward are leading with integrity and accountability.

Isn't the rule everyone lies so add 5? Likely mid 20s. Especially where she knows Sweetie and other known providers I'm sure she is legal.

The pic Billy posted is her 💯 😯

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Oh my!!!😀 I may need to take a trip to Moncton...

I refund deposits through Amazon gift card or crypto if I ever need to cancel or reschedule. For example, I once had a gentleman ask for his refund via crypto. When I asked for his wallet address so I could send it back, he ghosted. I'm guessing he doesn't know how crypto works. Just as an FYI, for crypto transfers, we can’t return funds without your wallet. That being said, if the lady didn’t take a deposit, she doesn’t owe you anything. Do you expect her to send you money out of pocket?

I think the why is fairly obvious. Getting confirmation that she is extremely hot and spectacular is a great starting point but, sharing information and promoting great SPs are what this site is about so, recommendations can provide more complete info. Recommendations can address accuracy of photos, communication style (quick or need to be patient), location (obviously not exact location but maybe hotel/private residence, part of town that you are comfortable with, maybe condition of location if it impacted your enjoyment of the session), quality of time spent, and maybe something about services offered (although ymmv but something about restrictions could be useful for us and the SP). If you had a great overall experience let us know so, we can learn and explore possibilities for ourselves. Good recommendations benefit us and also the SPs that deserve them! I can’t comment on how hard it is to post in the reco section or barriers/delays by mods but, I assume if you are posting a true “recommendation” it will get there. Sorry to hear you’ve had trouble with that. Having said all that, if we want to discuss the merits or pros/cons of posting recommendations further, let’s take the convo to a new discussion thread so, this thread on the gorgeous Natasha doesn’t get hijacked by this tangential topic!

But why? Are these not enough of a recommendation? This board is ridiculous in how the reco section is moderated. I tried to post there once and it never showed up, so why even bother?

THANK YOU!!!!😀

If the provider says it's a non refundable deposit then what do you expect? Again if you can't rebook I don't think there's anything wrong with asking for it back if they are the ones who cancelled but you took that risk knowing it was non refundable. If they don't say non refundable then you should get it back without question.

Either way, you'd be refunded the money, or, if she's ghosting you, then she took your deposit and ran, like many do. It's the double standard discussed here many times before. They want a deposit to ensure you're serious and to make sure you don't cancel and to pay for their prep time, and to lock in your appointment. She SHOULD refund your money or re-schedule and not charge you a deposit again, obviously. But if her intent is to just collect deposits, then your sh*t out of luck.

Google it free. Selling sex is legal in Canada. It’s the purchasing that’s criminalized under PCEPA. If you’re unsure, here’s the government’s own wording. you can read it yourself: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/c36fs_fi/

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Are you hoping for an orgy?

Definitely real and definitely incredible. This group of Bea, Sweetie, Natasha and Bianca are connected. Would love to know who else and how to identify them, as Bianca and Natasha are two of the hottest new providers by a lot. Considering also Bea and Sweetie, this is quite a crew.

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I'm full of tattoos and piercings and I've never had to do a health screening, like the one listed above. But I could see the reasoning behind it. As for IDs, if you don't want to play by the SPs booking requirements then move on to the next SP. The free market is an amazing thing, go enjoy it.

I don’t think I’ve said anything to indicate who I’ve seen and had lacklustre experiences with. I was simply giving some information as to why I personally didn’t book with Mika when she was in Halifax but adding to the conversation that from my understanding she is real. I feel most if not all of my posting on this forum has been fairly professional and I don’t get into the negativity and immaturity that others on here do. Yes I understand that there are two (or more) people involved in these encounters and that any negative experiences may be my fault, her fault, or a combination therein. No review policies happen for various reasons and unfortunately one of those reasons is when a provider sees an increasing number of negative reviews so they adopt the policy to remove and slow the spread of negativity around their services. Now there are of course some other valid reasons as well such as privacy or even just not wanting the overly detailed descriptions some people go into being written about publicly. This is a space for sharing information which is what I did. I’m happy to hear you’ve had great experiences with no review policy providers but that has sadly not been my experience so far but I would love for that to change! Maybe if Mika comes back I’ll try to book and see for myself in spite of some negative posts on other boards.

Funny, I’ve had just the opposite experiences. Some of my best experiences were with a couple of ladies who have a no review policy. You do realize a lacklustre or poor experience can be caused by something we the client do or don’t do.That’s why I’ve never mentioned such things here. I just move on. Good and bad experiences take two. We aren’t every escorts cup of tea just as some of them may not be ours. No sense in mentioning it unless your goal is to just shine a negative light on a particular escort and who does that benefit? The immaturity I read on this forum from time to time is embarrassing.

Service providers get assaulted and murdered everyday. All it takes is a quick Google search and you’ll see this happens here in Canada, the US, and globally. This is very much a real fear for us and I wouldn’t doubt almost every woman who’s posted here on Lyla, if not all, has been harmed, stalked, or assaulted by a client in some way. Don’t bother arguing with me on this forum, you aren’t changing my mind. I’m speaking from lived experience. What’s low, is denying that this is the reality of participating in this industry.

Get a tattoo? You need ID, deposit, and health screening for Hep B, HIV, etc. Get clinical esthetics like microneedling or microblading? Same thing. ID, deposit, and health screening. See a sex worker? Obviously we require the same. Stop comparing our job to hairdressing, waxing, massages, or building a patio. Sex requires being over 21, being healthy, and yes, a deposit.

Maybe not "petite", but close enough.

There is a section for BC. This should go there.

That’s a great idea, never thought of it! Thank you so much for this!

She is real and amazing

Cindy was in PEI briefly, and spoiled me lavishly with her excellent nuru massage, shower for 2, and lovely playtime. Cindy's attentions to the subtlties of a partner's needs are extraordinary. She is kind, sweet, and oh-so-much fun. She has a variety of options for the discerning gent to enjoy. I see that she is also including Moncton in her maritime tour. For me, she is a Can't Miss sweetheart.

We're actually looking for an assurance that you won't try to stalk, assault, or try to kill us. Most of us have experienced somethinggg that's made us need to add more screening protocols 🙄 It's not just because it's just great for business to reduce accessibility to us lmao Studies for decades have shown that this simple thing saves lives But go on, booking randos from LL who don't know to screen yet, and preaching on here like the risks with those sps are the norm among the entire industry You can control your blackmail risks by not seeing unverified providers with no established online presence. Just like we control ours by not putting ourselves in (literally THE MOST) vulnerable positions with unscreened men. AND if I hear one more thing about that oneeee provider who was scammy 🙄😂 Most of us sps have had more than one absolutely horrible experience as well. Y'all know not to book her, the same way we've learned how to screen out some of the bs that we don't want to deal with Beating a dead horse here, to the same 5 people every time

I actually agree. The first few times I went to see her were great. But now her service just sucks. And she wants to do less for more money. The last time I seen her I saw her for her bbbjcim and she was like if I don’t cum in 15 minutes I don’t get to cim. And I’m like well that’s new especially considering you never had a problem before….and it’s just bad it feels like a rush.

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