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  1. The past few days my focus has been on a lovely gentleman. Definitely where I enjoy my attention most however I would like to give some love to a few ladies I feel I would have an absolute blast with if we ever connected. 

     

    @StephanieMystique once again I would like to give you some love for the courage and strength I have noticed shining from you.

    You spoke out to protect the community and that is something that is not easy to do.

    You strike me a brilliant and intelligent woman. Often things that shine too brightly people try to snuff out.

    Never let them dull your shine 💋

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  2. 5 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

    We have our third winner! Congratulations @Kitten, I'll send you a DM so you can claim your prize.

    Today I would like to nominate @conquistador as my Valentine ❤️ 🌹

     

    Thank you incredibly to everyone who voted for me and to everyone else who was a part of this contest. The amount of love I see bouncing around in them is melting my heart. Makes me want to just have a big cuddle puddle with everyone on this board 💋💋💋

     

    Today I cast my vote out for @Phaedrus who will be my Valentine ❤️

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  3. 36 minutes ago, SamGaines said:

    Yes, I am based in Ottawa 😛 I travel all over but base myself there.

     

    Excellent and noted 😽 

    Do they call Ottawa the city fun forgot because most of the fun people in Ottawa are travelling? 

    Covid has me a bit more stationary these days but I need my ass on the East Coast again soon!

     

    I appreciate your response Sam 💋

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  4. 14 hours ago, SeekingMistress said:

    I would like to nominate @Kitten. I had the pleasure of meeting her in July of last year and we have been seeing each other regularly ever since.  I posted a recommendation about her in the recommendation forum for anyone who might be interested in seeing her. You won't regret it!

     

     

     

    Words are not enough to appreciate your admiration @SeekingMistress! That will be rewarded 💋💋💋

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  5. 19 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

    I would like to hear a different opinion from Sharpe.  This is the first time I read the interview of a male escort and read his comments.  Such an eye opener and much more complex than I thought originally.  Love to hear different opinions from you. 

    We are all adults here.  As long as we respect the differences, having a different opinion or point of view will be totally fine imo

    I am happy you asked this @Allie Zeon as the raging feminist in me was quite curious as well. I am a fan of differing perspective and debate. Thank you Sharpe for sharing his.

    Although I can understand how those words may seem insulting, deep down those are the things that women want and helps us feel calm.

    I do very much like it when a man holds me and I can literally feel myself melt into him. We may not admit it but we do like to be vulnerable.

    Allie had the best point when she had brought up that he is marketing towards lonely women and feel hes hitting the target quite well there!

    I did cruise through the site a little more and this whole God thing might throw me off a little bit. Women do like to feel disneyfied and I feel that is what Sam is delivering here. We like your strength very much. Sadly more men (at least the ones I have known outside this type of work) use it to destroy then to protect.

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  6. Leolist has definitely become a bit of a shitshow.  Never been a fan of combing through those places for work. Caveat emptor however still very much applicable. Especially in an element like that. There are ways both sides are responsible for protecting themselves. It's not just on one or the other. This is an interesting thread and I'm happy it's a thing. I do feel there could be a lot more discussion on this board in these respects. Was happy to see someone else mention the same.

    I think what is really important to keep in mind however that looks are completely subjective. What is gorgeous to one maybe a complete turn-off to another and I think we need to be careful with the guys who complain to other providers about these things. We should also be careful that their expectations are not getting the best of them. My mind can't help but to see a possible in for someone to take advantage.

    Much can be said for screening and deposits. If this information is so important for providers, why have I seen little to no education or awareness for fellow SW's? From what I've noticed there isn't much of that out there at all. Thankfully I am capable of establishing my own process. As much as they can help tighten security, I do feel we should also be careful that they are not being used to discriminate against others as well.

    If brainstorming together to develop a system to help protect those being scammed is possible you can definitely count me in on that process!

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  7. I adore surrounding myself with these books, however I'm starting to miss attention!

     

    I've been considering having some visits again.

     

    My mind is as open as it is dirty and intelligent. Wild, sensual and curvy woman with long brown hair, hazel eyes, tattoos and loves a reason to slip into something sexy and bring out my huge and beautiful smile.
    My open mind can cater to many things, adornes a friendly/outgoing personality that will put your mind at ease, and I am genuine with what is provided.


    I would adore sneaking you into my clean, safe, smoke-free and discreet environment.

    Contact me for my rates and availability

    Email- [email protected]
    Phone/text- (819) 801-3453

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  8. Ugh that place. The place that doesn't deserve your traffic and anyone who pays it attention  doesn't deserve yours. Only trolls and idiots would take that source seriously. 

    Five years ago I ended up on it twice, by people incredibly close. That betrayal took a while to manage.

    Sadly without a lawyer not much can be done. Even the DMCA notices are usually ignored unless coming from an attorney. 

    Good news however is that it will fade from the SEO after some time as you cant find my name in the search anymore.

    I have been curious however how the FOSTA-SESTA laws apply to the dick responsible for this horrible place. 

    I doubt any good employer scours the dirty to assess prospects and if they are that's likely a team you do not want to work for anyway.

    Sending strength as I know how much this hurts.

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  9. Imagine if the mughals did pull out and a Canadian startup launched its own social media platform. Would it be bound to the laws and rules that have been placed in the US? Perhaps it might be time for a startup to assume that type of responsibility within our own Nation? It could open up the opportunity to allow marketing/advertising for not just this type of platform, but cannabis as well to become a little more acceptable or tolerant?

    I adore your links on Section 230 and would greatly encourage you to share more!

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  10. Was incredibly thrilled to see Phaedrus' words for the next interview shared!

    Thank you for sharing with us ❤

    Your avatar is one of the most familiar on this site for me, and I am flattered to have you follow me both here and on Twitter.

    This topic I can not be a fan of enough. Super happy that it was chosen to be discussed.

    What's happening with communication on the internet right now kind of reminds me of the fight against censorship in music back in the 80s/90s. Controversy has always been something I loved as I feel it pushes us to question ourselves, the way we think and why we feel the need to control others in their expressions. Something I feel I I've been victim of and judged for, well, since the 90's! I am the definition of a loud, wild and liberal personality. The fly by the seat of my pants/DIY personality has definitely helped me learn quite a bit these last few decades. If I had listened to how they wanted me to be, I don't think I would know half of what I do now.

    Even to this day I still have those I have chosen to share the side of me with try to throw a construct at me to have me question the choices I make. I do my due diligence and know how to take care of myself. I don't need my friends to remind me of what to worry about and how to protect myself. I just need them to accept me as I am. There are a lot of conservative fearful people out there who try to control. Instead it would be nice if we could just focus on our own selves and fears instead. The focus just shouldn't be on them however as there is a lot of control that happens within the scene well. A good reason why I usually keep to myself. 

    A comment that really struck me was when Shape mentioned 

    "Somehow the goal of helping gets twisted into judging and condemning".

    This reminds me of why I enjoy working as a dom. It's good to test and assess those who claim they want to help as most of the time there is very likely other motive. Those who can genuinely help often continue to do their own thing, until such help is sourced or requested.

    I do agree however that there could be more done to separate the kind of work we do from one another.  This thought is interesting and wonder if brainstorming ideas and applying them may help others fear it less? There is some content I may not be interested in creating or providing myself however I don't feel it's fair to judge those who do choose to partake in it. Provided it's consensual and enjoyed. Even us kinksters have limits. Some things I am not interested in seeing at all. Hats off to those who may.

    There is just as much work to be done on the other side of the pendulum. Just as much as we are judged for expressing ourselves, we can also tit-for-tat and judge others for being so controlling.

    Young people are curious. Sheltering them too much will only pique their need to explore more. It did mine 😼

     

    The quote I enjoyed most in all of Phaedrus' amazing perspective

     

    "Even if you approve of someone you don't like being shut down today, what happens when the censors decide they don't like you tomorrow? You'd be amazed how likely that is, given that most of us hold views about something that are at odds with what's approved of by mainstream society. The only way you can guarantee your safety is if you're the one making the decisions, but there's only room for one at the top".

     

     looking forward to more of your amazing work next month @lydiahardwood 💋

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