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I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks. Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me.

No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process. Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries. I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers. We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety. The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

This! I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that providers are humans. They have good and bad days, just like clients do. Sometimes the chemistry is amazing, sometimes it isnt. Respect goes both ways. I've heard some horror stories from some ladies that makes me wonder what century we live in. I'm not absolving the girls of responsibility either, just pointing out that it does in fact take two to tango. Take the L and move on. Bashing each other just creates a shitty environment for all.

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach. These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

Like why are you so ignorant...it's okay to have a preference but to be so disrespectful is not needed What do you look like? I always just sit back and read through these posts and smh at the way some of you talk about women

God, I can't believe we are still having this discussion on this site after all these years. It's been beaten to death over and over. The bottom line is that there are clients who don't mind screening, and those who do. Luckily there are also both sp's who require them, and those who don't. The people on this site tend to lean toward the former in each category so you are just picking a fight to declare that people are stupid to do screening. Accept our differences and move along so we can stop having this argument over and over ad nauseam. You are entitled to your opinions but you don't need to imply that others are wrong. Enjoy the hobby on your terms and accept when others do so on theirs.

My bone to pick is the denigrating language used against swers. You want to use their services but look at them with scorn the second they want some small measure of knowing who they are dealing with. As if they should just open themselves up to whatever is coming through the door no questions asked. Like I said before. If you don't like the things an SP requires, don't see that SP. But don't go complaining and moaning about the standards she keeps. Move on.

I just want to clarify something. Here, we often see members say they won’t see an escort who screens or who has strict boundaries. It’s fine to have preferences. But we also need to be aware of the impact that kind of discourse can have. When new girls in the industry constantly read that screening drives clients away or that too many boundaries are a “turn off,” it can create pressure. Especially for those who need money quickly. It can push them to lower their standards, screen less or accept things they don’t really want to accept. And that can become dangerous. For their safety and for their mental health. If I’m speaking about this, It’s because this is a reality most of us have experienced at one point or another. I’m speaking here for the safety of women in this industry and to normalize having strong boundaries without fear of pressure, retaliation or coercion.

Who hurt you?

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Just getting silly now. The amount of things you have to identify yourself for in society. Rent apartment rent car airbnb ride share new patient gym membership on and on and on Deny their personal safety all you want, it’s real. There is no profession more justified in finding out who the hell they’re seeing. And for deposits, I’ve shown hundreds of apartments in a past life , every time there is more no shows than people that show. No shows are a colossal waste of time

I'm a curvy woman ....with a dump truck of an ass.....and I agree with Danielle. And as the Forum says If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. I might not be your cup of tea but I'm definitely someone's shot of vodka. Cheers

Dear providers & clients , I am here today to ask for your cooperation and support. As a provider , I am struggling to find a platform that is not only friendly to Sw , but also affordable. Lyla was once , not only the most popular board , but also the most positive place to share & connect. Since it died , what do we have ? We had Backpage , average affordable, but adds were flagged and scammers started ruining it for everyone. We had Kijiji that was not very sw friendly or popular. We have Terb , pricy and it became extremely hard to even post for providers without being flagged for self advertising or banned. I myself got banned. Twitter that turned to X and banned providers hard work promoting with over 10-20-50k Followers. I got my account banned , like so many other hard working providers. We got Tryst that is slowly starting to be somewhat kind of popular. But again , they take a our money to advertise. We got OIC , Bloom ect .. and …. We got here on Lyla [ FREE , SAFE ,SW FRIENDLY & already established ] If clients are browsing & providers posting , it will get alive again. So I am asking everyone to give it a chance. If you are a provider , please post …Start threads and support your peers. If you are a client , please scroll and see what’s offered here. Participate to conversations and be positive. It is great for new providers that are starting because this platform is full of information and resources. It is great for providers that will be posting here instead of paying ridiculous amount of money to other platforms taking advantage of their popularity. Let’s migrate to a better place. Let’s make it strong and revive our Lyla together. Thanks for your support. Kisses Ali

I've been thinking about this. Very sad after all this time we’re blinded to the benefits of this industry. It's because of the laws that the screening burden increases. The moral high ground is being held by politicians, politicians who are in many cases jealous women and wives who see companions as a personal threat, and men and husbands who are only voting no because their wives are watching, white-knuckling through the vote and clearing their browser history the moment they get home. SMH. They make laws to eliminate one of the world's oldest professions, claiming the moral high ground, putting an end to trafficking and exploitation, protecting women. Giving themselves pats on the back and congratulations on the clarity of it all. All while making the very thing they're trying to prevent worse and unnecessarily more dangerous. Denying a basic human need doesn't make it disappear, it just manifests in likely more violent ways. Good grief. The oldest of human desires, connection, touch, intimacy, they don't go away because of a law. As a result screening becomes more stringent, companions have less protection and fewer avenues for recourse. It becomes much more important to know who is coming through the door. THE LAWS MADE THE COMPANION HER OWN LAST LINE OF DEFENCE, RESPONSIBLE FORHER OWN SURVIVAL. There is little talk of the good. I was depressed for years. Clinical settings didn't do it for me. Medication, talking about feelings, no dice. Then one day, from this very site, BAM! Now we're talking gym, diet, reading, appearance, and not to be outdone, fewer vices. This "hobbyist" one replaces those ones, and I think that's a good thing. Been giving myself, you know, all of the positive self care routine. Now that is making a positive change on health care costs for society as a whole, by leaps and bounds. Too bad they wouldn't look at it in terms of societal benefits. I'm proof, and I'm sure there are millions of others. People should be able to charge this shit to Blue Cross and Sun Life for crying out loud. They could look at it in terms of tax revenue, it's a big industry. They did it with cannabis. It would create well paying jobs, though I believe there are very few people who can successfully pull this off, given the emotional intelligence required to be successful. Well spoken, well educated, professional. Able to compartmentalize two lives, deal with clients, uphold boundaries without stepping on toes, very talented human beings. Very pretty. So yeah, all that rambling, I think the laws cause the screening. Please continue to screen, it's reprehensible for people to want to partake anonymously. Shame on those with the inability to put themselves in the shoes of another. 200 plus ponders coming to see hundred and nothing pound angels….anonymously wtf. If you are short on time, apologies if you read this. If you're a companion you will not be compensated for your time reading this, you embarked on this read yourself. I'm bored apparently, but if you're reading this, I am not alone.

True enough, but always started by lyla member, and responded to by providers. You can see why they bite each time, safety, their safety in this wacko world, they are probably sick of saying it, and have much better things to do. While I'm on the soapbox lol, who actually sticks up for providers other than themselves? Still an underground occupation in this so called inclusive woke society, I know there are sketchy ones, but that that isn't the case on this thread. On the upside beautiful sunny Saturday in Scotia.

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔 It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve. I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic. However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning. We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit. Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

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And here we go once again, this shit is never ending Thank fck I ask for a deposit now, the guys that respect our safety and time will send and the ones that don't won't

And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

Just come out and say you dont respect sps or their comfort why dontcha 🤦😂

Rapport is everything, and to establish that with a stranger via the Internet can be tricky, so we screen to establish a smidge of trust. The client should have done his research and somewhat trust us to even contact us at all. Both sides are supposed to do what we can to make these experiences go well, and resisting screening isn't exactly trust and rapport building 🤦 We're humans after all, not service dispensers lol

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Notice that the people who complain the most about screening often approach the conversation with an aggressive or undermining tone. That contrast speaks for itself. That is exactly why we screen.

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short, they too have families.

Hello my love . I miss you all already,see you soon ❤️

That's the lolz 😂 Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

Safety and supply demand. There is not much in higher demand than companion time. There is a lot of supply of hobbyist. All the reputable providers have more or less the same requirements protocols/booking requirements, it’s a simple form. You’re just thinning the heard so to speak if you can’t grasp it, so thank you for that. I appreciate that many have trouble with the protocols if it gives an edge to this old man. Nobody irl gives a shit what my name is and if I’ve seen a companion. real name is Mike btw, please don’t out me

Why would you be so eager to give up real name, ID and a deposit? If they steer the conversation to those things, that's a non-starter. This town is too small to have those things floating around out there. And you're putting it in text. That shit is forever. Try asking them for their real name and ID 😆

When I say YMMV .....this this this Treat me well ....be communicative..........follow up.....and you'll be treated so very well.

Some of the grifters here will never understand that. Any provider who is authentic will have good and bad experiences. Some of us are understanding to that. Others will find the need to come here and cry about it while laying the blame solely on the provider.

I have told many a man before this venture that they were really good looking... ..until they talked.

You're absolutely right. But your delivery is lacking. It's about respect and personal preference. With all due respect....there are a few on here that I will not see as a client because of how they perceive women ...and how they speak on this forum. Then there are others that I message and tell them how much they set the BAR as a client and their content on this forum. You know who you are. Thanks Danielle for saying what you did ...and advocating for us women ...and newbies ....Respect

And that's okay, we like what we like But there is no reason to be ignorant about it or be disrespectful about someone's appearance Someone might not like how you look too How you talk about someone or treat them says alot about you and who you are as a person

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Just TOFTT tonight and took Kaydence up on her hourly specials. Got to know her pretty well and she is a new addition to the local scene. She made me feel very comfortable and had a pleasant bubbly demeanour. Very clean and safe services. Im a very vanilla hobbyists so I didnt demand a lot. You’d have to reach out to see if she fits your wants and needs. Layla profile: @Kaydence knight

You should try to stick to the recommendations and schedules posted in here. These are typically accurate although there have been the odd fake review posted to try and drum up business for a provider with a less than stellar reputation. Usually those are reposted by accounts with 0-Low reputation scores or freshly minted accounts. Leo is a crap shoot. Once in a while you can meet a nice girl, but emphasis is on the "Once in a while" Tryst typically has higher end ladies with high end rates, but are usually very real and reliable. Don't be scared to use the search function on this site. It will save you a lot of time as well as prevent you from annoying some of the other users. Last piece of advice. If it's too good to be true, it probably isn't. If you see an ad with photos of Eva Lovia, or Mia Malkova and think they're actually here selling ass in NS, maybe this hobby isn't for you.

Great idea! One thing I've noticed about Lyla, is lack of moderators. So, new providers cannot get verified, and can't advertise, except in the general discussion areas. Let's face it, the new owners dont want this site to be a successful advertising source. They want us to use their paid platforms.

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Another thing to keep in mind. Any group play I've ever participated in has been with providers I know, and clients we have seen. If you have no references, have never met the providers before, then being included in group play makes it difficult. There was one guy who insisted he didnt need to follow the screening methods, and out of 6 providers, no one had ever seen him. I'm not going to let someone in that has never seen a participating provider. It requires a commitment to participate in this. Paying a deposit, following the rules of engagement, are all necessary. If you dont follow the requested contact methods, it screams red flags for me. This type of play is a speciality niche. But is it ever fun.....

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