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I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks. Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me.

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process. Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries. I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers. We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety. The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach. These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

Don't buy it... At all

Random thought from someone who learned this the hard way in business and… yeah, also as a client , lol In my own work, the people who wanted the lowest price were ALWAYS the most work. Time watchers, constant messaging, pushing boundaries, never happy. I finally raised my rates thinking I’d lose business… and instead all those people just disappeared. Income went up, stress went down, life got better. Fast forward to me on the other side of the equation, and it finally clicked: every time I walked out of an appointment thinking “meh,” I was usually paying on the lower end and expecting something different. So I stopped doing that. Started seeing providers with higher rates. Night and day difference. Better communication, better vibes, clearer expectations, way less weirdness, and I actually leave thinking yeah, that’s what I was looking for all along . Anyway, not telling anyone how to run their business—but there’s definitely something to be said for pricing that filters out the headaches. The clients trying to pay the least… tend to cost the most.

Hi to everyone that follows this thread and thank you for all the reviews!! I just want to announce that I am changing my name as an SP so that it matches my online presence name. I have been keeping them different since the beginning in an attempt to keep the WWW from knowing I am in Halifax. However, after living and providing here for a year now I am comfortable connecting them. I no longer go by Rhyan, it is now Maddi (short for maddison leah). My number remains the same. I apologize for any confusion this may cause I just felt it best to unify myself going forward.

Melody has been the best that ive had she can swallow a sword with ease

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

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And here we go once again, this shit is never ending Thank fck I ask for a deposit now, the guys that respect our safety and time will send and the ones that don't won't

Well, I think I’ve finally hit a hard wall and I’ll tell you why…….. so in the last few years I’ve seen quite a few ladies all in that $300-$400 an hour range. Sooo you know I didn’t go cheap, they always said good service isn’t cheap and cheap service isn’t good, right? Well I’d like for some service providers to please chime in here because I think I’m miss understanding something. Out of allllll these ladies, some local and some not. (Probably 20 or more) All with good reviews. Only one, ONE acted like they wanted to be there. GFE? Eh? Well you guys are acting more like a wife tbh. If I wanted someone to starfish and act like they would rather be somewhere else I’d stay home. For the price we pay, which some of us is hard earned money! I and many others that carry lunch buckets everyday. Could you please act interested for an hour? Could you act like you want me and want it? Like is that too much to ask for? lol and before you go saying blah blah blah maybe its you maybe maybe maybe. It’s not. I treat all the women I meet like gold and I’m not a bad looking dude. I dunno maybe 300-400 is not enough anymore maybe I need to spend a little more? I’m just tired of meeting women for companionship and y’all just act like you wannna take the money and run. Do better please! Also if any service providers on here read this and feel like this would definitely not be them, message me! Please! I’d love to meet you!

My first time with an SP I didn't know what to do so I showered with soap and everything and then put my clothes back on. She kicked me out 🤣

Wtf is the point of coming on here to say this person wasn’t for you. Are some of you that in need of attention. Who gives a f* if you didn’t like a provider. If she’s not your cup of tea move on. She provided you service, is attractive, her advertising isn’t misleading. She didn’t rip you off. So who cares if she wasn’t your cup of tea. How does coming on here to say she wasn’t for you benefit anyone other than your egos?

It's hilarious how bad some of you local men down talk local ladies, probably WHY you have problems seeing anyone Some of your attitudes are shitt🤮 most of YOU are the problem Thank God I travel throughout the maritimes they treat you much better....I highly recommend it ladies TOUR Have some respect when contacting a lady start there!

Legalization wouldn’t necessarily make us safer. It usually just means more regulation, licensing, and government control over our work and identities. What many of us actually support is decriminalization, not legalization. They’re two very different things. I’d suggest looking into the difference. Here’s a start: https://www.instagram.com/p/C_zdei5puVp/?img_index=9&igsh=MTd3cDcycG92bm1sdA==

So I made a date with a Locanto SP. Not Angelina who would be my regular but I believe might be retiring. Another girl who does not post frequently and I won't name because I am not sure of what I experienced today. Everything was arranged in advance, rate, service, time etc. On the way there the SP messages me : "Are you ok with my girlfriend (romantic not just her buddy) being here?" I'm fine with this but I do ask if the girlfriend is going to be ok with what's going to happen when I arrive? Apparently everything is cool and the GF is just going to be hanging out in the living room while we do our thing. No big deal to me. I arrive at the location right on time and text to say so. SP says give her a few mins. Typical and not at all concerning. Then she suggests for an additional fee I can have both of them. I am not prepared for this. As a rule I only bring as much as I need to secure the date, never more. She suggests E-transfer. I'm not interested, but the way the SP is pushing and hasn't invited me in is already making me second guess this encounter. I am parked immediately outside the location, so close that they could look out the window and see me there. The SP then asks me to send her a photo of myself. Right then a car with two men in their 20's pull up immediately behind me. One of whom I can see through my rear view mirror is pointing to the house and texting at the same time. Spidey sense is going wild and I start the car and get out of there. I don't know for sure that anything nefarious was about to occur but I was rattled. The SP messaged me to say she will never see me after this episode and if she was legit, I don't blame her. The point of this story is to let you guys know that it's ok to pull out at the last second if you feel unsafe. This hobby is not worth being robbed, beaten, or worse. Stay safe ladies and gents

God, I can't believe we are still having this discussion on this site after all these years. It's been beaten to death over and over. The bottom line is that there are clients who don't mind screening, and those who do. Luckily there are also both sp's who require them, and those who don't. The people on this site tend to lean toward the former in each category so you are just picking a fight to declare that people are stupid to do screening. Accept our differences and move along so we can stop having this argument over and over ad nauseam. You are entitled to your opinions but you don't need to imply that others are wrong. Enjoy the hobby on your terms and accept when others do so on theirs.

Notice that the people who complain the most about screening often approach the conversation with an aggressive or undermining tone. That contrast speaks for itself. That is exactly why we screen.

My bone to pick is the denigrating language used against swers. You want to use their services but look at them with scorn the second they want some small measure of knowing who they are dealing with. As if they should just open themselves up to whatever is coming through the door no questions asked. Like I said before. If you don't like the things an SP requires, don't see that SP. But don't go complaining and moaning about the standards she keeps. Move on.

I just want to clarify something. Here, we often see members say they won’t see an escort who screens or who has strict boundaries. It’s fine to have preferences. But we also need to be aware of the impact that kind of discourse can have. When new girls in the industry constantly read that screening drives clients away or that too many boundaries are a “turn off,” it can create pressure. Especially for those who need money quickly. It can push them to lower their standards, screen less or accept things they don’t really want to accept. And that can become dangerous. For their safety and for their mental health. If I’m speaking about this, It’s because this is a reality most of us have experienced at one point or another. I’m speaking here for the safety of women in this industry and to normalize having strong boundaries without fear of pressure, retaliation or coercion.

Who hurt you?

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And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

Just come out and say you dont respect sps or their comfort why dontcha 🤦😂

Just getting silly now. The amount of things you have to identify yourself for in society. Rent apartment rent car airbnb ride share new patient gym membership on and on and on Deny their personal safety all you want, it’s real. There is no profession more justified in finding out who the hell they’re seeing. And for deposits, I’ve shown hundreds of apartments in a past life , every time there is more no shows than people that show. No shows are a colossal waste of time

Rapport is everything, and to establish that with a stranger via the Internet can be tricky, so we screen to establish a smidge of trust. The client should have done his research and somewhat trust us to even contact us at all. Both sides are supposed to do what we can to make these experiences go well, and resisting screening isn't exactly trust and rapport building 🤦 We're humans after all, not service dispensers lol

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Did you ever feel like there is too much “ what’s in it for me” in society? Honestly, there is a lot of “i need my boxes checked” before going into a date, it starts out very transactional. Treating other human beings like a vending machine ,press the button, receive service. Maybe showing up trying to extract your predetermined experience is jeopardizing your chance at exactly what you are looking/hoping for? Worth a try to find someone you want to meet, whether from photos, the way she writes her ads, a combo of the two plus *A GOOD REPUTATION* Go with open mind and go curious about the other person and go comfortable with not knowing where things will go. So yeah, try leaving the checklist at home. Avoid trying to control and specify what you want from the date. Chemistry is hard to achieve, harder if you try to script it. Rather than going just to claim your specific , predetermined services/wants/needs- it’s an encounter, go encounter the person, let them be their authentic self in your presence. Perhaps you will have a richer experience. Embrace the unknown of where it will go. Ideally also, if you’re able, book more than an hour to truly get to know each other a little better at first. could be worth a try if menus and shopping lists are not working out… Just my 2 cents

Send the newbies to tha Asian aunties

The ones constantly complaining about rates and screening are usually the same ones complaining about the experience and treating SPs like rental blow-up dolls. Gentlemen who see us as humans and want the real SP experience don't complain about rates or screening. The pattern is pretty obvious if you’ve been around long enough.

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Money doesn’t buy consent. You’re paying for her time, not guaranteed acts. If she decides certain services aren’t happening, or even chooses to end the session early, that’s her right. Comparing a human interaction to ordering a cheeseburger is exactly the kind of mindset that misses the point entirely.

She is beautiful and all the boxes check. But if I’m being honest she was unenthusiastic. It’s a huge turn off for me but maybe not for a lot of em. She was on her phone most of the time during the session and no eye contact what so ever.

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I've been thinking about this. Very sad after all this time we’re blinded to the benefits of this industry. It's because of the laws that the screening burden increases. The moral high ground is being held by politicians, politicians who are in many cases jealous women and wives who see companions as a personal threat, and men and husbands who are only voting no because their wives are watching, white-knuckling through the vote and clearing their browser history the moment they get home. SMH. They make laws to eliminate one of the world's oldest professions, claiming the moral high ground, putting an end to trafficking and exploitation, protecting women. Giving themselves pats on the back and congratulations on the clarity of it all. All while making the very thing they're trying to prevent worse and unnecessarily more dangerous. Denying a basic human need doesn't make it disappear, it just manifests in likely more violent ways. Good grief. The oldest of human desires, connection, touch, intimacy, they don't go away because of a law. As a result screening becomes more stringent, companions have less protection and fewer avenues for recourse. It becomes much more important to know who is coming through the door. THE LAWS MADE THE COMPANION HER OWN LAST LINE OF DEFENCE, RESPONSIBLE FORHER OWN SURVIVAL. There is little talk of the good. I was depressed for years. Clinical settings didn't do it for me. Medication, talking about feelings, no dice. Then one day, from this very site, BAM! Now we're talking gym, diet, reading, appearance, and not to be outdone, fewer vices. This "hobbyist" one replaces those ones, and I think that's a good thing. Been giving myself, you know, all of the positive self care routine. Now that is making a positive change on health care costs for society as a whole, by leaps and bounds. Too bad they wouldn't look at it in terms of societal benefits. I'm proof, and I'm sure there are millions of others. People should be able to charge this shit to Blue Cross and Sun Life for crying out loud. They could look at it in terms of tax revenue, it's a big industry. They did it with cannabis. It would create well paying jobs, though I believe there are very few people who can successfully pull this off, given the emotional intelligence required to be successful. Well spoken, well educated, professional. Able to compartmentalize two lives, deal with clients, uphold boundaries without stepping on toes, very talented human beings. Very pretty. So yeah, all that rambling, I think the laws cause the screening. Please continue to screen, it's reprehensible for people to want to partake anonymously. Shame on those with the inability to put themselves in the shoes of another. 200 plus ponders coming to see hundred and nothing pound angels….anonymously wtf. If you are short on time, apologies if you read this. If you're a companion you will not be compensated for your time reading this, you embarked on this read yourself. I'm bored apparently, but if you're reading this, I am not alone.

True enough, but always started by lyla member, and responded to by providers. You can see why they bite each time, safety, their safety in this wacko world, they are probably sick of saying it, and have much better things to do. While I'm on the soapbox lol, who actually sticks up for providers other than themselves? Still an underground occupation in this so called inclusive woke society, I know there are sketchy ones, but that that isn't the case on this thread. On the upside beautiful sunny Saturday in Scotia.

I wonder if this discussion will ever end 🤔 It's a rinse and repeat conversation that constantly comes up; just change a few of the characters and it starts all over again with no resolve. I'm actually amazed at the time it takes for some people to type out the length of reply they post, good for you, shows you're passionate about the topic. However, history is doomed to repeat itself and here we are again, sigh. Until the end of time (in Canada anyway because I don't see any laws changing soon), we will always have clients who pay deposits, clients who don't pay deposits, each has their reasoning. We will also have swers who require a deposit and we will have swers who don't require a deposit. Pretty simple, not rocket science, let's move on and stop beating this dead horse.

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

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Forums would be positive and helpful if we stopped making threads complaining about our rates and SP'S who choose to screen.

Pretty sure moderators are pretty non existent here. If anything you should be contacting the Police.

Apparently there needs to be more discussion concerning what ymmv actually means. Even repeat encounters with a favourite regular provider can be lackluster. Lots of reasons for a lackluster session. Some of which can be attributed to something we the client did or didnt do. We should consider that before coming here to complain that a provider wasn’t as great as someone else found her to be. I also find it annoying when it’s assumed that because a provider hasn’t any reviews or any recent reviews that we should be dubious of them. Not every provider wants to be reviewed and most established providers don’t need new ones to affirm their professionalism or legitimacy. So many here have been hobbying and members for many years and yet continue to ignore the basics of this industry and common sense.

I am handsome and do this because, as Charlie Sheen so eloquently said “I don’t pay for sex, I pay for her to leave after we are done”.