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Sky, I completely agree with what you've written. Although it's everyone's personal choice to disclose their involvement in this industry, it can have a very power humanizing effect. It's a very similar strategy that queer people took a few decades ago. "Come out of the closet and into the streets" they chanted, because we all know someone that's queer, just like we all know someone who is a part of this industry. I told my father I was a sex worker approximately 2-3 months ago. Throughout my life, I've let him 'know me' in all of my facets, and have had nothing but unconditional love as a response. "Why should this be different?" I wondered. To my delight, it wasn't any different. My father's response was two-fold. "I'm surprised you didn't start earlier" he said in a non-judgmental way. I obviously laughed at this response. Secondly, after reassuring him about screening mechanisms, and how the industry functions on a day-to-day basis, he said "I trust you to be safe, you don't need to reassure me about how you're enabling that". It was surreal to have my father trust me to be safe. Rather than be paternalistic, assume to know what's in my best interest, and judge the choices I've made in my life, he just took my declaration at face value and loved me for all of who I am. I think we can all benefit form disclosing our status (as either hobbyist or sex worker) to our loved ones if we are in a position to do so (not everyone is, as Sky mentioned). My relationship with my father is that much more authentic now, he knows all of me, and loves me.

I know I may not have been on and in the cerb community for long, and my contributions may not be public, but i spend hours upon hours every single day speaking to so many amazing curious people. Men and Women, whether it be to come see me, ask questions and the more the better, or to communicate back and forth with people i would never have had the pleasure of having a cerb-ship with ;) I am not at in the least bit asking for this nomination, just want to clarify that although my contributions cant be seen by EVERYONE, I take the the time to reply to and get to know absolutely everyone, 1 person at a time. I give everyone an equal part of me. I am sure someone else will graciously accept this award, but i am forever grateful to Cato for thinking I was worthy and deserving enough....even for a split second! ;) Thank you, xoxoxoxo

My "personal space" is my body which I choose to share with those I feel safe with. I would recommend anyone who has an issue with an SP's booking requirements spend a couple of hours naked with a person who outweighs you by 100lbs, has the ability to do you serious personal harm if they decide to and you know nothing about them but their alleged "first name" and a potentially disposable phone number. After this experience you will be in a position to decide whether or not having reliable, verifiable information is a good or bad business decision. :) cat

Wow, I'd never thought people would go so far as to "fake book" to throw off someone else's business! Incredible! Maybe I am just to naive.

I dont think you were out of line, she was but please understand every lady and what she requires to arrange an encounter will vary from companion to companion. If you dont have a reference, I for one have other methods to screen you, one being work info ( but keep in mind I will ask for this if you have made me unsure about things or something does not feel quite right). If a ladies policies are not for you, there are plenty of others who book encounters differently and as long as you know what your comfort level is too book you will have no issues next time. Sorry to hear you had a bad first impression on trying to book with someone.

Actually, my son is well aware that I am involved in the hobby and have been for a very long time. Of all things that piss him off about me, that's the one that doesn't bother him in the least bit. He admitted to me that he also enjoys the hobby after a visit to Amsterdam. As far as telling people, it really doesn't bother me. Just because one likes to hobby, does not make one a bad person. I hate sterotypes that come along with being involved with this, though it does tend to be more of an issue on this continent. It is considered to be very normal in most of the world and not something to be ashamed about.

Kubrickfan absolutely belongs to be among the valued members nominated list. I would like to therefore nominate kubrickfan for 2011 valued members award for his very valued contributions to cerb and fair and balanced and friendly posts making cerb a much better place to be.

I was always under the impression that you never mention you have seen a gent, unless you're sure he's okay with it. The only gentlemen I would mention having seen are those who have written a recommendation for me, or otherwise mentioned they have seen me. Am I wrong in thinking this? I've noticed quite a bit in chat that providers will proclaim to the room "Hey Hobbiest246, it was great meeting you yesterday!" I can think of quite a few reasons why a gent may not appreciate this: -He may have inquired with a few different ladies, and booked with the one he preferred. The other ladies may be annoyed/offended when they realize he didn't choose to see them after inquiring and booked with another lady. -He may have a regular provider (or two) and want to keep who else he sees private. -Some people prefer to keep their activities private (even if it's just attached to their CERB handle). Anyway, just some thoughts! I'd be curious to know what others think because I realize I by no means dictate CERB etiquette. Megan

Smoked oysters on black peppered triscut crackers, with very aged cheese. So good!!! Also Pizza, little secret I eat it almost 3 times a week :) xox

I agree with what people have written so far. Another option is to offer the SP you're trying to see a reference (especially if you're reluctant to provide certain information). This can alleviate a lot of misgivings on the part of the SP/MA. This person can hopefully vouch that you aren't a bad date and/or a no show. If you haven't seen anyone yet, than I would suggest moving onto someone new as well. As WiT mentioned, our safety is paramount, and we all have different ways of assuring that based on our own experiences.

Emily You have received not one, but two nominations from established and contributing CERB members...thats good enough reason right there Your contributions on CERB, whether public or private are contributions, and it's the contributing members that make CERB a great board So all I have to say, congratulations on your deserved nomination RG

My fantasy is a little different, and it's just that for now, a fantasy. If you've ever been to a Moxie's restaurant, you may have noticed that the hostesses are very attractive, and they are very scantily dressed. They typically wear a very, very short form fitting dress, which has spaghetti straps, and reveals plenty of cleavage. Well, my fantasy involves a Moxie's hostess and me. I arrive at the restaurant after leaving from a long day at work. The hostess at the entrance is a real stunner in her tight dress, and she immediately greets me with this inviting smile. She asks me what I'm stopping by for; just drinks or to dine as well. When I look at her, all I can think of is one thing. I want to eat her as she is gorgeous and is dressed to kill. I tell her I've stopped by to have a quick drink and possibly a bite to eat, so she leads me towards the dining room. As she leads me to my table, walking in these sexy high heels, my eyes are totally fixated on her firm butt. Then at one point she stops, turns around and gets very touchy-feely as she puts her hand on my shoulder, and looks deep into my eyes and says 'have you been here before?'. I didn't know what to say as I've never been so captivated by a woman so quickly. So as she continues on we get to my table, she pulls out the chair and helps me sit down. She describes the specials on the menu, but all the time I'm looking at her gorgeous figure and her inviting cleavage so I'm not really hearing much of what she's saying. She walks away for a minute then comes back with a glass of water for me, then says 'you looked thirsty, like you needed this'. I said thanks, thinking all along that there was really only one thing I wanted to taste, and that was the sweet juice from her p___y. Next thing I know she's pulling up a chair and sitting next to me. She starts to come on to me, playing with her hair, licking her lips, and caressing my inner thigh. At this point I can feel myself getting hard as a rock. I can feel her fingers caressing across my stiff member, and as I look at her face she has this devilish smile upon it, like she wants me, and wants me in the baddest way. I started to look around the restaurant, then I realized there was no one else here but us. I said 'where is everyone else', and she replied 'that this section of the restaurant is closed off for now, don't worry babe it's just us'. She then stands up out of her chair and raises one leg as she straddles me, sitting across my lap as I feel her fit, tight body close to mine. She looks deep into my eyes and lays her full lips on mine, resulting in an electrifying, passionate exchange. I could feel that she was getting really turned on, and she needed to have it now. We continued to lock lips and I can tell this girl is just driving me crazy, to the point where I want to taste her. I squeeze her by the hips and raise her off of me so she is standing right in front of me, and order her to raise her dress. I remove her string thong to reveal a glistening wet p___y that is just begging to be sucked and licked. I tell her to raise and position one foot up on my chair, while bringing those beautiful lips closer to my waiting lips and tongue. I begin to feel her moist p___y against my lips, and immediately I can hear her soft moans, and the second my tongue pokes out to slide between her, moans and groans, and she is starting to cry 'oh f__k, just like that, don't stop babe!'. I'm loving every minute of this as I taste her, but it's time to switch up so I get her to sit down in my chair while I stand in front of her. I say 'ok, let's see what you can do with those beautiful lips', and she starts to undress me to reveal my stiff hard c__k waiting for this sexy hostess. She doesn't wait a second before swallowing me down, and I can feel her lips tightly sliding up and down my shaft, causing me to moan with pleasure, especially each time I feel her tongue flick over the head of my c__k. This hostess knows exactly what she's doing, and she loves the control she has over me right now. For me, I'm loving every second of it but I'm beginning to imagine myself inside this wild one. So I start to stand up to signal a change but this hot babe doesn't want to stop and starts sucking me back so intense I feel I'm gonna loose it. The touch of her hands over my body at the same time is really turning me on. I can't take much more of this and need to feel myself inside her. I stand her up, and remove her tight dress, kissing her all over as I undress her. With my own clothes quickly removed we are both naked and holding each other close as we engage in another deep, passionate kiss. Then, I take her, turn her around, and bend her over the table so her ass is pointing out at me, waiting to be taken. F__k, she's got a gorgeous ass and she looks fantastic from this end. Then I tell her 'take each hand and spread your ass wide for me. I want you to expose your p___y for me to enter'. I can see those pink p___y lips beckoning me to probe them with the head of my c__k, and as I slide it in it feels fantastic. The harder I penetrate her, the more she cries 'F__k me harder', so I enter her harder and harder until I can feel this warmth building in my balls, and can start to feel myself about to cum. With each thrust I can feel this explosion about to occur, and I moan 'oh f__k yeah, I'm gonna cum!', and I hear her immediately say 'don't cum in me babe, I want to taste you'. And just as I withdrew from her I squeeze my c__k as my lovely hostess gets down on her knees and I unload my hot cum all over her warm moist outstretched tongue. Oh man, that's the best service I've ever received in a restaurant by a long shot! I'm going to have to leave a fantastic tip for sure!

Think with the right head boys...there is a reason why they are posting on the other site and not this one or ones like it.They would be found out. If it seems to good to be true then it most likely is.

Although this thread was not started by me, it was initiated as a result of a comment that I had made elsewhere. To this point I have been merely reading and digesting the thoughts and opinions expressed by others, and it does seem as if there is a consensus developing. I am going to present a dissenting opinion, dissenting in the sense of a viewpoint that takes into consideration some very personal aspects of my situation. Every person involved with CERB has their own very personal reasons for doing so and everyone's situations are different. What I would like to express is going to cause some to think that I am living in a fairytale world and to others it will probably just appear as being corny or too much. I am widowed with three adult children. I have always been close with my girls, but until recently never in the way that they were with their mother. They were like four best friends rather than a mother and 3 daughters. Since my wife passed away I have become closer with my kids than at any time ever in our lives. They have introduced me to the world of texting and there are constant little messages back and forth, and yes, they are watching out for me and watching over me. It is pretty touching actually, but as it relates to CERB, rather inconvenient. None of them live with me or even close by. For me to visit an SP normally requires a minimum of a four hour trip each way that often results in an overnight. My kids know that I am not home, and I lie to them. I HATE that. I hate making up stories, I hate even lying by omission. So with certainty, my first reason for wanting them to know that I am seeing SP's is 100% selfish, it will make me feel better. My biggest concern is that I also know that initially they will look at this as a betrayal of their mother, by me. THAT is why I am thinking long and hard about this and have to ask myself if it is worth it. My kids are smart. It won't take too many "mystery" disappearances before they will be talking amongst themselves. They probably already are doing so. Yes, I am parent, and the idea of a parent being sexual may not be their preferred image, but they saw the intimacy their mother and I had and they know that it extended to the bedroom. They have to be wondering how I am coping with that aspect of my loss already. My kids are smart. With proper preparation on my part, and yes, with time, I am confident that they would be OK with this. A bottom line for me is that I am not looking for or interested in a girlfriend, or a relationship, or a wife. I had my soulmate and I know it as do they. Several SP's have recommended a book to me entitled The Ethical Slut, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy as a means of further educating myself but also as a resource for my kids. I have only recently started to read it, and I shall consider that information as well. A whole new paradigm for sure. Am I going to do this tomorrow or next week. No. Am I going to think long and hard? Yes. Have I decided what is best for them? No. And ultimately, what I think is best for them is where I shall go. It may well turn out to be that the 'unspoken secret' that they will figure out all by themselves is best for all. I really do not know what I shall decide. I have received a few PM's from CERB members when they saw this thread, wondering what good could come of it, and just cautioning me to think about it. It is those sort of little PM's that have made this community a special place for me. This sounds corny, but is very real. I want to be open and honest. I trust my kids and that they will accept what is best for me . I do not want to lie. I am not ashamed of meeting such amazing women as those that I have met. Every time I lie to my children I am in my own way putting the SP's that I have met into that stereotypical nether land of being people to be ashamed of. You don't deserve that from me. Thinking, thinking, thinking. Learning, learning, learning. Thank you Cerb.

I agree with you 100%. Unless a gentlemen has written a rec for me, OR he has commented on my page/somewhere else on cerb indicating that he's seen me, I keep it between me and him.

Pickles of anykind Miracle Whip and crunchy peanut butter sandwiches chopped up tomatoes mixed into cottage cheese with tons of pepper Pepperettes dipped in cheeze whiz Cheesies with peanut butter Yup, coleslaw, especially St. Hubert original or my mom's Raw vadalia onions...eat em like an apple So many more but I don't want to gross anyone out LOL Yup, I have odd taste buds :)

After missing out on several chances to see Elle this summer (she works so rarely), I decided to give Emily (Elle's friend) a try. OMG. And was I glad that I did for she is that true GFE/PSE combo that I like so much and which I've only ever found in abundance in SPs like Amanda Ryan and Belladonna Black. Like them, Emily is a beautiful and sweet girl but don't be fooled by that. She has a ravenous sexual appetite that surges like an unstoppable wave. When I arrived, I was greeted with lots of kisses that very quickly turned into LFK and DFK with a little groping added in here and there. While this was going on, she maneuvered me towards the bed, pushed me onto it, and then quickly removed my clothes. I was wearing something "special" for my first meeting with her and she remarked that it was HOT. She must have meant it because there followed the wettest and sloppiest of BBBJs I've had in a long time. Her hand-lips-tongue-and-teeth technique was so spectacular that I had to ask her to take it easy lest I deliver the goods right then and there. To take a break from it all, I reciprocated, first with digits while we stood side by side, then, after pushing her onto the bed, with lips and tongue. When we got to the main event, she confessed that she liked it rough, and I did my best to accommodate. We tried out various positions taking breaks in between with more BBBJ and digits. The finish was in mish with me spraying her boobs. I wanted to take advantage of the CIM/SW option, but alas didn't make it there in time. After we cleaned up, we laid down in the bed together...she was ready to go again but alas, my time was up. I must say that Emily is an excellent addition to CC's lineup. She is (or seems) genuinely into it and is also quite vocally responsive. I know I'll be seeing her again, for a longer session during which we promised to take each other to another limit...

Just a quick reminder that us dollar and canadian is at a different rate.. 600us dollars is no longer 600 can...so when you travel to see an sp in Canada please adjust the donation to make the equivalent in canadian of her requesting fees or provide it in Canadian dollars VJ

The Rep System has been a bit of a thorn in my side for a very long time. There has been many times that I have wanted to give rep points or just give a positive comment through the reputation for this post button. recent example on a particular post but I keep getting this insistent message that I must spread it around. Arggh !!! I am a long time member, please allow a little more flexibility to us. I am not necessarily on all the time, so it makes it hard for me to spread it around. I would hope that I'm not suspended tomorrow for bringing this up again but It really needs a change for the better.

I understand your point, face2face, and, on the surface it does seem reasonable. But we're not talking about potential customers in a store. You gentlemen are not interchangeable, nor are we ladies. What we're offering is not an ordinary commodity that we both know can be found just as easily down the street. As I see it, the men who do not accept my screening requirements are not part of my potential client base. The only men I will consider meeting are within a particular age group, comfortable with my limits or restrictions, ready to pay my stated fee and willing to provide the information I ask for. I have a very good, established client base, feel no desperation or anxiety about whether there will be clients to see, and I make a very good living. There's no need for me to relax my screening or expand my client base because I'm achieving the results I want.

How could we forget the Green Mile?? Great call Carley!!! "My name is John Coffey, like the drink only spelled different."

Hey Mr Nice... I believe we will have about a week to get our votes counted. To echo your sentiments, there are so many worth candidates... here are just a few of my own! Angela of Ottawa Nicolette Vaughn Sara MQ CleoCatra Malika Berlin Alexandra Sky Sin Cindy Isabella Gia Kimberly Shea... All of the aforementioned providers have spent that past year enriching our board with thoughtful contributions, heartfelt opinions, lively debate and their own brand of humour. CERB would be a lesser place without out them and all of the others that contribute to our daily fix! The gents? Wow.. so many to choose from. SteveCurious RoamingGuy Scott the Canuck Daniel 17 FacetoFace Notch Johnson Wrinkled in Time Secret Admirer Phaedrus Castle Surf Nazis Must Die Mr Green The gents are the salt of the earth and the spine upon which the gentlemen's contributions are centered - all are deserving candidates - Kudos and the best of luck to all of you!

I believe that it would be redundant for me to post my nominees as they have all I believe been previously nominated, and most multiple times. What a nice gesture it is to be able to participate in such a positive aspect of CERB and to have found myself in such rarified company. Thank you for that! I have not been involved in this previously, so I am now wondering about voting. I see that the date is Sept 5th, and I know that I shall be away and with less regular access to a computer. Is it a one day procedure or is it held over a period of time? Perhaps Mod will let me vote in an advanced poll? :)

woke up to the craving of MacD hashbrown ... omg! hahaha

I am one of those that you helped make my day (never met but you communicated with me). For this sweet post alone and above reason I nominate you too Erotic Emily. And I agree also with WIT that this is not a competition but a feel good positive process and the chance for us to express our gratitudes to our valued members.

She called you a jerk and made a veiled threat. Seems to me your response was cordial. She is the jerk. Like who would want to give their information now after hearing you best beware of her. Eventually someone will write her up on one of the other boards. Business Suicide.

Not all cravings are for food. Suddenly one day I had an intense craving to watch "Groundhog Day" again!!! -- I don't have any idea why, but I am glad I did (forgot how good and strange it was ) -- this time with some CD extras showing the director didn't really want to film it the way Bill Murray insisted on doing it. For some reason this movie keeps coming up in conversations totally without my bringing it up...

You've actually gotten some really complete replies already. I have never had someone request where I work, but I had someone request a photo. That, too, would be a non-starter for me as would giving out my full name. No, by no means were you out of line, but the rule of thumb is that the ladies can ask whatever they want and the guys can decide whether they are willing to do that or not. Another way to view this is that you need to understand that the ladies need to feel secure, but you shouldn't do something you are uncomfortable with or feel you have to give up whatever anonymity you wish to have. As long as you are polite, you should never be called a jerk, nor would I consider a lady a jerk if she asked for a full medical and credit history. A callback number is an almost universal prerequisite and a request for references from other SPs is perfectly reasonable. One great way is to contribute to a forum like this over a period of time so the ladies get to know you a bit and see you're not nuts (smile).

This is not a negative comment, just a statement that "there's always a bad apple in every barrel". I think we can all agree that CERB is the best environment for establishing an SP / client relationship, BUT we shouldn't dismiss everyone on the other boards which have been discussed here. Some SP's may not be aware of CERB. I previously introduced someone to CERB who currently has an account here now; she simply was unaware of CERB at the time.

:icon_idea:Black corset, latex mini skirt and thigh high boots sounds fantastic to me and it's not BDSM equipment technically :icon_wink:

Then Zoe or Soliel would be good choices:biggrin:

This could just very well be a disgruntled exbf or ex client making up bs, to cause trouble. The location of the ad itself is immaterial. CL has no ES section anymore, meaning the ad might have been in therapeutic. To discount all CL TS ads as bogus or whatever other words and condescension seen above is really over the top. ' I have mentioned before, probably will many times over lol, but dissing an entire advertising site at the expense of the legit advertisers who use it is really mean and petty. The site has nothing to do with the quality or perceived lack of quality, just because it may be free to post on it. It is like saying anyone who uses/used it is low class trash, and frankly as a user of that and any other site, that is really offensive. We all know that paying for ads does not make an sp a great sp, and not paying for them does not make them trash.

Ladies: Sensual Erin Samantha Evans Megan"s Touch Berlin Guys: Old Dog Roaminguy Mighty Pen Daniel 17

I dont know how you ladies can eat like that and still look as good as you do (smile). Sometimes Chocolate Mint ice cream followed by a few potato chips and a scotch and water, but that's about it.

Although I don't have kids, I can sort of respond to this thread by relating to the thoughts I have about telling my parents about my work. I acknowledge that I'm in a relatively privileged position on this, meaning that if I decided to tell my folks about my work, I would be risking things that wouldn't necessarily affect my ability to survive (i.e. I'm completely financially independent etc) and therefore I have little to lose if I told them and they reacted negatively. I mean sure, they can stop talking to me for a bit, but if that did happen, it wouldn't last forever. I think for people who can and want to, telling other people that they sex work/hobby can be a very powerful thing. Given that almost everyone knows a sex worker or hobbyist (often times, unknowingly), putting a face (especially a face of someone you know) to a hobbyist/sex worker can slowly start to humanize people involved in this industry. I think it would send a powerful message to my parents when they know that their scholarship-student-activist-independant daughter is sex working. Sure this might not happen right away, but eventually I think it'd help them get rid of some of the myths and misconceptions out there about sex work/hobbyists. Having said that, I think it's everyone's choice to disclose or not disclose their involvement in this industry and I totally respect everyone's decision regarding this matter! With love, Sky

The only licensed establishments I know of are Massage parlours. There are some cities where escorts are required to buy their own licenses, but we have yet to see a licensed in-call (brothel). No offence to the OP (Boomer), but this is technically second hand information and even though it may be true, I still think it's up to the member to post the information because he is riding on your reputation. Also, this does not belong here, but in the warnings section.

Clarks shoes has a line of shoes called Un-Structured that are very comfortable. They have choices from formal to casual. I like the "Un.Sheridan" http://www.clarkscanada.com/product/Detail.aspx?prodId=21324&Level1=M&scroll=0&page=1&Level2=12 and the casual "Un.Emmett" that goes very well with khakis and jeans. http://www.clarkscanada.com/product/Detail.aspx?prodId=22027&Level1=M&scroll=0&page=1&Level2=12

Breathing glass shards is pretty accurate as to how it felt! I was working there that night and giving a lapdance to a customer...he started coughing a bit and then two songs into the dance so did I....till 4 songs into the dance we were all coughing so hard and uncontrollably we were almost vomiting.....they evacuated the club and we all waited for police to arrive. They found the canister outside and I heard that it was bear repellent but dont quote me, lol someone said that whoever it was sprayed the whole front of the club outside and then drove off leaving the can behind....not very smart seeming as how there are 2 cameras in the front and now their prints are on the canister ;)

Ladies: Sensual Erin Alexandra Sky Sophia Varoushka Nathalie_Lefebvre Men: Toine Old Dog Stevecurious Men/Women Mod

Gentelman: Cato PistolPete scotthecanuck LeeRichards hfxandy mrnice2 WIT notchjonhston romainguy winnipegcub castel olddog secretadmirer Ladies: Emily Rushton Angel Star There are many more of you but you are already nominated! Everyone else I could not mention, you all deserve it :) xoxox Love Always Carley xox

I would like to nominate the following: Emily Rushton Angel Starr Kyra Graves Malika Nathalie Levebvre Soleil Etasman2000 Mrrnice2 Notchjohnson Phaedrus I wanted to nominate more members but they have already been mentioned by others ;) SA, thank you for the nomination :)

Ladies: Samantha Evans, FortunateOne Nicolette Vaughn Cleo Catra Megan's Touch Soleil Shortcake Gents: Wrinkled in Time Roaming Guy Old Dog Steve Curious Scott The Canuck Etasman

I've noticed this too and I do think it is a reflection of the board's mood of late. Most frowns seem to be in response to bad behavior, which is okay in my opinion. However, a few were used to convey disagreement with a poster's stated opinion. In my opinion, this is not proper use. If you don't agree with someone's viewpoint or argument, then you should post a proper response of your own. This will allow for a possible rebuttal and (hopefully) a healthy discourse.

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The first tattoo on a woman I fell in love with was what is called a tramp stamp, it sits on her lower back like this. And I could not stop staring at it. Now I look forward to see more tats but there is a limit to how much.

From a technical standpoint....At times I have tried to give someone a rep point and the box would open and then close before I could even type in it. Not sure what that was all about.

When it is possible to be together at the same time I offer duos with my very sexy friend Bobbi Victoria! And of course, the insatiable Gabriella L! Mmmm, living the dream!