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There is a simple solution. We ask the MOD to kill the poll/thread/award... NOW. Ask yourself, "Is it worth risking the continued health of this community for such a trivial matter?" Take a few steps back. Hold the poll in December, January... whenever. Clearly define the attributes of a "Member's Choice Candidate" or a "CERB Valued Member" in the interim. If a candidate does not meet the merit criteria, they can't be nominated. The key contributors will STILL be the key contributors. The most deserving candidates will be nominated, and the eventuality is that someone will get a fancy banner on their profile. In the meantime, EVERY member is a VALUED member; EVERY provider is a VALUED provider. Let's let this go... book with each other and enjoy what everyone brings to the table. After that, we can all go out and buy me a beer.

Ok. Here goes. (wincing) I'm going to do something I've been really scared to do since it's happened. But I'm going to brave and speak up. The fact that true contributors to this board are neck and neck with Erotic Emily is negating the whole point of the Poll and Award. In no way am I attacking you Emily. You are obviously a sweet, friendly, sexy and enthusiastic member here. But to win this award, it needs to go to someone who publically shares their thoughts, musings and opinions so that we all benefit. That was this award is about. To honour the people on here who have put in the time to share with all of us, their struggles, triumphs or even just questions. From my understanding, you haven't been on here long enough to have had time to do any of this. Your private flirtings and advertisements should not, in my opinion, garner as many votes as some of the women on here who we feel we know and can trust from their time here with us. This could certainly come for you with time, but perhaps your nomination should have been held over until you've allowed yourself the time to get to know all of us, not just potential clients. Make sense? We all welcome you to cerb with open arms Emily, but to bear the seal of Favourite Service Provider, you deserve more time to truly earn it. :)

Miss Emily took the time to participate in the thread to explain her contributions to the CERB community by posting the following: Originally Posted by Erotic Emily I know I may not have been on and in the cerb community for long, and my contributions may not be public, but i spend hours upon hours every single day speaking to so many amazing curious people. Men and Women, whether it be to come see me, ask questions and the more the better, or to communicate back and forth with people i would never have had the pleasure of having a cerb-ship with I am not at in the least bit asking for this nomination, just want to clarify that although my contributions cant be seen by EVERYONE, I take the the time to reply to and get to know absolutely everyone, 1 person at a time. I give everyone an equal part of me. I am sure someone else will graciously accept this award, but i am forever grateful to Cato for thinking I was worthy and deserving enough....even for a split second! Thank you, xoxoxoxo I think what is being overlooked here and feels "unfair" is that ALL (most) other CERB ladies (including myself) do just that: We spend countless hours responding to private messages on a regular basis (you can also add emails and phone calls for the independent ladies), we provide our potential clients with information about ourselves and about everything else you gentlemen are interested in fiding out (it's what I call being a responsible and effective business woman in order to generate business- I certainly do not see this as a contribution to the community), we give the gentlemen an unselfish equal part of ourselves in many ways, we also spend multiple hours corresponding with gentlemen whether we are going to meet with them or not (I know I do), etc... I think the general feeling is that the voting guidelines were not respected. It has nothing to do with the beautiful and sexy Emily ;) Hang in there Emily! :)

Guys, it's all pretty clear... The award rules mention that this is "a recognition award for the ladies who take time to participate and contribute in the forums and chat areas." Forums and chat are both public areas. This isn't about community-building anywhere else. Clearly, what's happening here is a problem with the members not bothering to vote for the SP who fits the description of who this award is meant to honour (based on the award description itself). I was going to recommend that the mods make the rules a bit more clear, but now that I've read that line, it's clear as day! Additional Comments: No no, it's got nothing to do with you. :) Honestly, it looks like it's just a misinterpretation of what qualifies a person for the award. The guys likely really appreciate your private contributions but the issue at hand is that award is meant for public participation. But in the end, who knows. Maybe it's a clear indicator that the members want private contributions included in this. So in a way, this is a good thing - it's either an evolution or it will require clarification for the next one.

Okay I am taking a little break. Quite a bit of reading here since I went to work !!! Many valid points by many great Cerb members and everyone that has read this thread I hope has learned something from this. As one of the members said, I think Pete, it makes this community stronger. Now I think it is time for everyone to just ponder this and move on to the vote and the fun part of this annual event. For the sake of the beautiful lady that is going to eventually win this well deserved honor....:) This guy is smart ;) George Bush once said "a low voter turnout is an indication of fewer people going to the polls" deep thought George !

I respectfully hear and understand all sides to this debate and believe me when I say I truly didn't want to start a shit storm. I love being a part of the community here and I did not want to alienate myself as someone who sounds like she's got sour grapes towards Emily. Not at all. I know I won't win, I don't deserve to. My contributions haven't come close to others who have been nominated, but the fact I was nominated tickled me pink all over anyway! And I sincerely wish Emily the very best and applaud her for her time and effort towards those who have communicated with her. I just wanted to clear the air and I mean no disrespect whatsoever to Cato for nominating Emily, and certainly not to poor Emily for being thrown into the middle of this. I really do apologize to you Emily. I realize you did not ask for all this controversy to be surrounding your nomination. But as someone already said, any publicity is good publicity! Perhaps this has all gotten too serious. Anyway, I still stand by my own opinion, but I have a much better understanding of the opposing side and have to agree on many points. In the end, may the best and most valuable SP cerb member win! That's it from me. :)

I have to agree 100%. I believe we need to take a step back because this has turned in to a total disaster and feelings are being hurt and this in not the CERB way. I too hate drama and this is suppose to be a positive and fun thing that we do as a community and I'm very saddened by the way the direction this has gone. It just plain sucks!! I hope this poll gets closed and redone in a few months. The fun has been destroyed and that's not good.

Here's a suggestion. And I'm being serious. How about instead of this whole voting business the awards be based on rep points and post nominations instead. For example at 1000 rep points you get a special little "value member" or whatever icon. At 5000 another little icon thingy and the highest award for 10,000 rep points. Something like that anyway. It seems to me that would be a much fairer, less biased system. And would effectivly avoid this kind of squabbling. Just my 2 cents for the mod. Posted via Mobile Device

Remember Hun there is no such thing as bad publicity, I guarantee that this discussion has made many people take notice of you......that's a great thing!

As one of the people who nominated Emily, I should probably intervene here, though I do so reluctantly, not wanting to stir up more controversy. As WIT's very insightful posts says, there are many ways to contribute to a community, and it's up to the community as a whole to judge what it deems most useful. That's the point of this exercise, after all. It's also a feel-good exercise, to thank and congratulate all the nominees, all of them. It was in that spirit that I originally proposed Emily's name, to acknowledge her spectacular entry into cerb and the positive, galvanizing effect she had had in a very short time, winning approval and friendship from many members, and having a huge network of correspondents. That took time, effort, and caring on her part, communicating with members and establishing the personal rapport which, as it turns out, has given her a substantial number of votes. I hoped by nominating her that she would win some public acknowledgement for her efforts, recognition as a nominated valued member that was, I thought, merited. She deserves to be among the nominees. Whether she deserves to be poll leader is not for me or any individual other member to decide. Again, this is intended as an activity that strengthens the community, not one that divides it. My thanks to all on the list of nominees. Your contributions, different as they are, are what makes cerb a valued community.

Awwww crap! After reading all the drama in the ladies' vote I was hoping for the male equivalent here! I have my popcorn ready and everything! I feel totally jipped now.... Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: WTF??! How the hell did the Archduke of Crossover get as many votes as ME?? Pfft! This vote is total BS!..... (There....that ought to get the ball rolling)... :p Posted via Mobile Device

From what I see, there is no stipulation on how long an SP should be an sp here on the board before she is nominated for the award( other than 10 posts??) It is about involvement, which I would think it should be publicly. It is the impact we have to be a positive influence and a safety net for each other as well. Through sound advice, or cheering someone up what have you. I can see, from the little I know on Emily, that she must have made a wonderful entrance to us here on cerb, even being a new member, she defiantly has our attention. She seems to be bright, well spoken, kind and that is a good representation of our community here. I do hope to see more involvement to have a better sense into her beautiful mind. however, for her to have been nominated, that would suggest to me that she has these great qualities that would deserve such an award, otherwise people would have not nominated her.....as for the votes as well. The math speaks for itself here. Admitingly....for those who have spent so much effort in publicly being involved, perhaps it may sting just a bit, but you know....at least you made a difference here! Our efforts are not lost if we have helped someone through tough times, or to help them learn etc... I am so thankful for all the members here for what I have learned form each of you!

I don't think any of the posts where made to "bully" anyone. The way I perceive it is that Soliel is simply posting her opinion. I know her well and she is as far from someone that would bully albeit thru a post as anyone could be. I'm proud of her for posting what I think many girls where thinking. Does that mean feeling this way is right or wrong I don't know. But if people cannot politely post their opinions then the point of Cerb is lost. Cato and Wit have gotten me thinking....I'm nominated and I think it's more from my helping girls behind the scenes or in the lounge rather then a high post count. We are all nominated for various reasons and from what Cato has said clearly she has touched members behind the scenes since joining, perhaps like I have with ( or think I have lol) I'm thankful to Cato for speaking up as we would not have known this otherwise. Good luck to everyone!

It is sad to see this thread and voting going this way but we are all human with our own opinions and views. This award is suppose to be something positive and go to someone who deserves it and there are so many that do. This is not high school or a popularity contest. It's an award given to a Service Provider who does exactly what the statement below says. Best of luck to all that have been nominated!! Just my thoughts and views on this situation. This is not an award for best service (that is what the recommendations sections are for) this is a award to recognize the service providers who join in the conversations, help answer some questions and give you a little view into the other side of the business! Additional comments: My post was about how negative this thread has become and not about any single person, that just not my style and then to be singled out for what the award is about when I was not the only one to post it and my whole wording on it being sad to see how this thread and voting is going and my positive words were left out. That is fine because I'm a very positive and kind person and was not saying anything mean or wrong. It was an attempt to say stop the negativity and just get on with it. I still stand by my words that "This is not high school or a popularity contest", it's suppose to be a positive thing and award. So best of luck to all!! Positive and Big Hugs All Around, Lexy

WIT, I'm sticking my neck out here but I respectfully disagree. I've been here since Jan. and am surprised I made it to the nominees. I'm very thankful and humbled but my presence here lies on the integrity, humor and support I have known of this board since I have joined. I'm still not seasoned enough to step up to the plate of a few ladies I know in this poll. If it wasn't for the ladies that participate in the forums, it would have taken me much longer to have my questions answered. Many of the ladies voted here are selfless and help direct both the hobbiests and providers in the right direction. This award should go to the ladies that contribute as a whole in the forums and from what I have experienced, welcome the new ladies in and give their seasoned advice. Emily looks like a great girl. I welcomed her here as a fellow MA and wish her so much success. In time, she will know the other ladies as well and share recommendations and advice. However, what about the ladies who answer a question you may have in the SP, MP, General forum? This is a board where public questions are answered by these members with the experience to help the one's that need advice. That is what this award is about in my eyes, publically and privately. Not everyone privately messages and if someone has a question about a particular request, these members are there to help. I feel this award is earned in time and experience. My last two cents. ; ) This is not an award for best service (that is what the recommendations sections are for) this is a award to recognize the service providers who join in the conversations, help answer some questions and give you a little view into the other side of the business!

I thank Soleil and WIT for their posts. This is a very difficult situation to comment on as emotions can easily run high. I will also attempt to make a comment without offense intended to anyone involved. One of the great features of CERB is that we, as a community, have embraced a culture of positivity. No reviews are allowed, only recommendations. No ratings are permitted, only positive experiences. I say this because, on the whole, the CERB community is a place without judgement. Yet, this one time of year, we are essentially judging each other. It remains in the spirit of positivity, but the result is that we are judging who makes the best contribution to the culture. As WIT outlined, there are many ways to contribute to the community. In an effort to be democratic, the nominations and voting are open to all members of this board. Under those guidelines, there is nothing to stop any member from winning a poll, and it is difficult to say that it is not in the spirit of the rules, when the rules are being followed. If the community as a whole feels the rules need to change, then that is a separate discussion. Lastly, I want to say that I think some anger or frustration has been directed at Erotic Emily. I feel that is unfair. She did not nominate herself, nor did she repeatedly vote for herself, nor did she, to the best of my knowledge, court or encourage anyone to directly vote for her. If you are upset with the results, the "blame", so to speak, falls directly on the voters, not the person they voted for. I wrote this message with a positive mind and I hope it will be received as such. I intend no disrespect nor offense.

Ever wonder why people who post complaints about CERB and the policies of the board keep coming back, reiterating their gripes in threads.... Why do they come back? Because it's a good board. They get something from being here. If that weren't the case, why would they log in, read threads, disrupt and moan... Far be it from me to say that these people are anything less than intelligent or reasonable... They just have different opinions. My point is not to insult them at all - simply to point out that even despite their opinions, they're here... A lot. Assuming they're sane, it's because they get value from logging in, reading, etc. So clearly, CERB is doing something right. Right?

CERB is dynamic. It is understandable that as the players change, some of the older members and even some of the newer members will find that the content and conversation is not to their particular taste or sensibility. This isn't new nor is it likely to change; all boards go through growing pains. We go through phases of widespread jocularity, of community unity and of community compassion. We also go through phases of community discord, politicization and polarity. Some members, like an old guy at the bar or that old-timer at work, will spend their time pining for the good old times; others will go with the flow and adapt. There is absolutely nothing wrong with either stance. We do need to find a middle ground. People need to be able to express themselves without fear of being ostracized for something that was acceptable yesterday, last week, last month or last year. We have all seen it - someone says something and within hours there are flames all around them. It has become the fashion of late to pile on people who disagree with our political mindset. It sucks. CERB is a place where industry women, and men who are clients, can meet, liaise, chat and have a little naughty fun. It's important to get the issues that the industry faces out there so that everybody understands the pressures that providers are facing. It's also important to understand that CERB is about sexuality, sensuality and the packaging thereof - if you need a plain brown wrapper to separate yourself from that fact, maybe this isn't the right place for you. So in answer to your question, no, I do not ever wonder why people come back and gripe. They miss the days when CERB was fun for THEM. They miss the days when they could look at a CERB provider, see her beauty and make a comment without worrying about accusations that they were objectifying her. The CERB they knew was about connecting with a woman that tickled their fancy, and not so fancy parts. It was an escort recommendation board, first and foremost. My legs are getting a little tired... I am getting off the soapbox now.

Well I am glad to know that. For me, my criteria for voting is for those who make real contributions to the board: lounge posting, thoughtful comments, funny stories, passion for this industry, classy, commited, and also very very supportive of those of us involved in providing. It's because I get to "know" them that i want them to know I appreciate what they have done to help make this such a nice place to visit. I am sure that that is what this kind of voting is all about, yes? To acknowledge the real contributions of the ladies, rather than say a popularity contest or just a pretty face? Nice to give thanks to someone who takes the time to share their thoughts, is what I'm getting at here, lol.

I just wanted to imput my two sense in thinking that it is extremely WONDERFUL that emily has made enough of an impact here on CERB that she had enough love from all to be nominated in the first place ( should that not count for something)...I think she is wonderful for someone so new and from what I am seeing she is trying her danged hardest to be a big contributer on here!!! It's a shame the road this thread has taken considering all the wonderful women on here in the first place :)......

I hate drama...but I like boobies! and each and every lady on this thread have nice boobies:D Additional Comments: if I buy you a beer at the social, will you shut up asking people to buy you a beer? and you call me Pinky if that make you happy:)

It is what it is, a popularity contest and that's always sure to heat things up a bit!

Every single one of us ladies knows this vote is total bullshit. No offense to Emily herself, as this has NOTHING to do with her personally, but she should not have been nominated, her so-called contributions are the exact same contributions the rest of us make on a daily basis. She has not contributed to the public forums IN ANY WAY. She has not gone out of her way to post or contribute to the public forum discussions and as the rules clearly state, to be nominated you must have contributed in the forums and in chat. Posting ads is not a meaningful contribution, no matter how you want to slice it. Paint me however you want, at the end of the day, I still stand by what I've said. This forum has completely devolved into an "us vs them" mentality with a few members derailing important conversations (such as this one) by either completely disregarding our concerns or by trying to paint us as "bitchy" or whatever else. But let's face it guys, you don't come here to wank off with other guys, you come here so you can interact with all of the wonderful ladies who make up a part of CERB. Keep pissing us off, and many of the wonderful ladies you see here, won't be here anymore.

To be honest, I am mortified with this whole thing. I understand most peoples views and opinions, but really, does there need to be this much discussion regarding my relevance here? Do I need to ask to be removed from the poll? I apologize to the voters out there who have voted for me and are being penalized for doing so. somebody said "this is not high school....." yet, it sure is starting to look that way. I am at a loss for words with this one. But I do want to thank everyone for repeatedly saying my name! Keeping saying it! Erotic Emily. Not bad for 6 weeks of learning on here, but I do spend more hours on cerb then anything else in my life. I will keep doing what I do, it makes me happy and those in contact with me happy. Have a sexxxy September! xoxoxoxo

Here's my take on it as a new member to CERB. When I first started out posting in the forums or in private convos, I noticed the Member's Choice graphic next to some of them. Without having any idea what that meant, I assumed that these women had won some sort of award for being highly respected by CERB members. It was natural for me to assume that I could trust them more or that they were veterans here on CERB. Now that I'm seeing what's happening here, I'm thinking that the guys are shooting themselves in the foot. New members won't know that someone has been voted in because of private participation or because they somehow got some publicity through discussions like this. They'll likely be like me and see that badge as evidence that this person has garnered the trust and respect of members through long-term community-building. I would personally prefer to see this kind of award going to someone who engages the community publicly rather than privately. Otherwise, it's no longer a community - it's email.

I think we should agree that all of the nominees do this in one way or another. Let's leave this now to the voters, please.

There is having sex, which is one thing, and being pounded for an hour--which is something totally different. Sadly, the latter is not a fun experience for anyone but the guy and frankly, I'm not a blow-up doll. If that's all you want, please just wank off. We are human beings and just because you are paying for my services doesn't mean you get to do whatever you want. I offer the services I am comfortable offering, and I do not view full service or sex as simply being pounded. As I said in my original post, I am aware that you are paying for a service, but you must remember that you will be satisfied within the boundaries of the service provider. Paying gets you in the door, what the two of you get up to is still largely determined by the provider. So let's not forget that.

Emily, As you are a new member and also as someone who has been nominated on this poll, I do hope this will inspire you to make some contributions to cerb on your journey and will follow in the footsteps of the other ladies here. We all look forward to reading your future posts. Best of luck! Nicki

ladiitrill: For the record, I would wholeheartedly recommend you, and have no problem telling the world. When I commented on you in one thread the reaction was "we don't know you, so your comment does not count." I completely understand the desire to not be "taken in" or allow negative changes to the board's tone to happen by making it easy for someone to intentionally manipulate things. Blocking the instant results/instant gratification from attempts to deceive helps keep things in good order. So all in all I believe it to be good overall, but it does make it difficult for me to help you out. I did not write you a recommendation even though I am allowed now because I was worried it would hurt your reputation by virtue of me not being one of "the guys". My worry is if my recommendation is the first, someone will point it out and then someone else will point out I am not one of the regular circle and then all of sudden suspicion is cast upon it and by extension you. If you still want me to write one, I will. Otherwise I will wait and when once one of the accepted members writes a recommendation to get the ball rolling in a credible way, I will write one as well. BTW, several people sent me private messages asking about you. I said good things and sent them your way.

It is a slow process and that can be good and bad. I have watched people join Cerb, take the board by storm only to fade away quickly. If you take your time and eek away at growing your buisness it will happen. Its a combonation of you keeping your own personal standards high and then a little luck perhaps of getting a strong recommendation from a well known hobbiest. If you stick with it you will have many recco's before you know it. This has been my experience at least. The most important thing is to deliver the highest level of service you are able to and let the rest take care of itself. All the best!

How time flies. I've been on this board for about four years now but I've only started posting in earnest about a year ago. It's taken me this long to reach a hundred posts, of which this is that centenary number. To mark the occasion, I've written a tale that is truly fitting in that it couldn't have been written without my being here on CERB. Enjoy, my dear readers. -- bb ................................................................................................ Long ago, I was in one of my peculiar moods. I wanted something different. Something out of the usual for me. I knew exactly what I wanted. I wanted tattoos, piercings, ink writ large on a hot body and an angel's face. I wanted a crazy time with an alt girl. I found what I was looking for right away. She had bright, unnaturally red hair and creamy white skin. And of course, she had many tattoos and piercings. I dug deeper, and found her posts showing her spirited and spunky side. I read on into the night and knew I had to meet her. She would be my walk on the wild side, a suicide grrl that would give my the fun fun fun times I was looking for. But when I finally walked through her door, it was fun of a slightly different flavor. Oh, I wasn't quite as anonymous to her as I had thought I would be. She had read me like a book, as soon as she set eyes on me. She knew what I really wanted even better than I did. And without a word, she slipped that pierced tongue into my mouth, and we kissed tenderly like long-lost lovers. I hesitated for a moment, then changed gears. I was gentle, undressing her slowly, kissing every inch of that inked skin. I discovered her paint, read her personal credos, explored every piercing delicately with my fingertips and tongue. When I finally entered her, it was the homecoming for a place I never knew I missed. We lay back, afterwards, nestled snuggly between her sheets. I intertwined my fingers with hers and we chatted for a time. I looked at her tattoos one at a time, touching each one for emphasis as we talked. They told the story of her life, vignettes rendered in multicolored ink, and every one had a special meaning. She was genial and good natured, until I reached *the* tattoo. I felt her tense up as I ran my fingertips over it and I felt the tiny ripple of scar tissue. I saw the uncomfortable flicker in her eyes and changed the subject then, in the best way I knew how. I kissed her, softly, sensually. Too soon, it was time for me to go. I thought about her for days afterwards, closing my eyes and remembering her soft touch, her gentle kiss, the feel of her hard metal on my tongue. I called her and she was glad to hear from me. And soon enough I was in her arms, tasting those kisses, stroking her fine fine inked skin. We lay back afterwards. Her tattoos fascinated me, and I stroked and kissed each one of them in turn. I glanced down at the tattoo on the inside of her wrist. The tiny ripple of scar tissue it covered was barely visible in the dim light. I looked at her for a moment, then took her hand in mine. I traced her fingertip on the ridges of scar tissue barely visible on the suntanned skin on the inside of the wrist. My own wrist. "I have one too." She looked at me in surprise, then opened her mouth to say something and thought better of it. "I was young." I tensed as she ran her fingers along the scar and looked more closely. It was a little souvenir from the lowest point of the most trying years of my life. It was a small scar, barely visible. The plastic surgeon was a good one and most people didn't notice it unless I pointed it out. I remembered the blood, the wild ambulance ride, waking up bandaged with my family and friends around me. But that was just the proverbial tip of the iceberg. Sometimes the scars and the tales that are most meaningful are on the inside, not scattered in Technicolor memories on your skin. She watched me for a moment. I could tell she was thinking. She held me close then, soft kisses, her warmth and gentle perfume wafting close. She reached down and started to stroke my cock and in spite of the intensity of the moment I started to get hard. She climbed aboard, slipping me inside her. She was warm and she was tight, and she held me down as she started to ride me hard. I forgot about.. well whatever it was I was thinking about. I was getting close. I rolled her off of me, mounted her doggie. I rammed her hard, again and again. My eyes were squinched tight not only in the mad fury of the moment but also to hold back the tears. I pulled out and sprayed my fear, my pain, my years of regret all over the elaborate tattoo on the small of her back. I looked up to see her watching me. She mumbled something in that cute accent of hers and ran off, returning with a towel. Huh. It's funny, I thought. This is what I thought I was looking for at the beginning of all this, and yet it came when I was least expecting it. Sometimes true intimacy starts in this world, not with a gentle kisses and caresses but with something wild and rough. For it's only when you trust, that you truly let go. And sometimes what awaits you is not quite what you expected. Something special happened then. We shared not just the good, but the worst that had happened with each other. Our stories spilled out of each other. Every wonderful, sordid, evil detail. We held each other close, each wanting to shield the other from the world. We met into the fall and winter, sharing our lives, our love, our little tales. But sometimes you can become too close. Sometimes you can share too much. And in the end, the hurt and the pain that we had shared with each other defined our relationship and pushed us apart. Because some secrets are too big, too horrible to be contained in more than one heart. I think about her sometimes, my inked beauty, and wonder where she is and how she is doing. But she left me one gift I'll always treasure. Sometimes when I'm feeling lonely or sad I'll feel the faint white scars on my wrist with my fingertips and it'll make me think of her. She had taken away the bad memories and shame that those lines meant to me and replaced them with memories of her instead. I dream then of her smile, her pale creamy skin, her pierced tongue on mine. I smile back at her memory. And everything is alright in the world again.

"How many times a day?" is more like it for this gal over here :)

I'm sorry for this one Peter Frampton-I'm In You RG

A great day to be alive! I think I may have to watch the trouble with tribbles episode now

In term of being an SP...yes I do like light spanking, but no lasting marks...(which is fine as I heal quickly!) and also...no offense to some gents that spanked me in the past...aim for the butt, not the lower back! everything below my tattoo is fine...not over! in my personal life...yeah,I am kinky as fuck:D and I love, love getting spanked/giving spanking...Sometime this is the reason why I am posting i am not available for a couple of days...bruises on the bum are not the most attractive to some people:P ON a side note..to those that love to get spank, and more then the really light one, I would suggest to use a gel call Arnica, they sell it at shoppers for about 15$, a bruise that would normally take 1 week to heal take 2 or 3 days...it work wonder!

Eminem - Not Afraid

Ooh Sophia, sometimes we say MORE by saying LESS.;-)

I have trumpeted the virtues of Isabella before, both publicly and privately, and although I may not go into specifics again that is not to say I can't. She is a wonderful, kind lady who has that certain je ne sai quoi. Although I have yet to have the pleasure of a face to face meeting that is indeed on my coming Christmas list.

Nathalie and Alex are exactly right; the uneducated stigma that surrounds the issue warps necessary (and correct) responses. Education isn't the entire solution, but it's the niggest part. The problem, I fear, is that ignorance will always outweigh enlightenment. Fear will always be more powerful than understanding. How many Americans bought the entire "death panel" myth that the opponents of health Care reform spread? How many still accept it (trust me, I've even argued with Canadians about it)? The roots of this probelm infect every major challenge we face, and those who meet these problems with tolerance and courage, as well as open minds, almost always form the minority.

You are right RG nobody here has to start a thread or post on threads and I don't think is what Nicki was trying to say. The way I see it is she was making a point on what a contribution to the community is vs. a 'contribution' to a particular person in private. I myself have exchanged PM's a couple of times responding to a comment made in a thread but that I found too personal to respond in public but then I'm not contributing to the community but having a gesture for a particular member of it.

I see some of the gripes and grumbles on other boards, and quite honestly the gripe and grumble is complaining about the main principle: if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Many of the grumbles have to do with trying to turn it into a review board, where they can gripe and grumble about bad encounters. For some reason, they seem to have never been able to have a good encounter, and are suspicious about all the recommendations. They learned what is a review from review boards that focus on everything bad, and cannot seem to comprehend that anyone could possibly have had a good even great time. And yet it makes one wonder why pursue this activity at all if not to have good even great times? Don't recommendations of sps who are capable of providing that make more sense than a multitude of nasty belittling comments typical of a "review"?

Ahhh yes....Salma Hayek, aka, my future wife! Hey...laugh it up if you want, but first she was engaged to this guy, And now she's married to this guy, So I think it's a safe bet that even I have a shot. Clearly her standards are pretty low...and that's A-ok with me! Mark my words I will marry this woman one day :p Malika, you're more than welcome to be the first ever person to tag along on someone else's honeymoon if you want ;)

That is where i disagree with the cerb rule. A stolen photo is a stolen photo regardless of where it is stolen from why is a stolen text only a stolen text if it is stolen from a cerb ad?

Bad dog !!! Bad bad Dog !!!! I suspect you are already sitting so....Lay down boy !!! I most certainly am not buying you a more than one or two drinks now !!

Thank you Nikki ;) I too hope I can learn to be as creative, witty, and as outgoing as these amazing ladies with their threads. To be honest I have a hard time deciding what people will find worth while enough to start a new thread over but I am always enjoying the threads I see and learning as I go. I have spent the majority of my time here so far communicating back and forth privately and through chat but I agree it is time I find ways to make bigger contributions publicly, for all to enjoy ;) Thanks again xoxoxo

As much as I agree would this include a cold ? How about influenza ?

Guys, guys, guys. Now, where else would you get the chance for $30 to meet so many lovely nice ladies. Think about it, stripclub and one dance, you are there. And you wouldn't even have had the chance to socialize with them. If you aren't sure you can go, that shouldn't stop you from stepping up and putting up the cash. If you go great, if at the last minute you can't make it, you bought a couple of ladies drinks... Never will you have a better chance. :-)

The girls have done a lot of work on this, so it's time to show them the support they deserve by picking up your tickets now. Takes a lot of uncertainty for them to get the tickets out of the way. If you're sitting on the fence get them anyway, it's a good deal and pretty cheap for a well organized event

I find it unfortunate that the "minority" in this case can ruin things for the the majority. Peace MG

If you've read the previous posts, my review will sound a bit like a broken record. For a twist see the last section...some juvenile silliness on my part. LOCATION AND SETTING The downtown location is convenient (at least for me). Her place is discreet, cozy and clean. Candles, dim lighting and music create a nice atmosphere. MEGAN -Very friendly -Calm and cool -Professional -Intelligent -Mature beyond her years -Pretty -In excellent shape -Lovely, soft skin -Takes the lead - helpful for newbies like me who have no clue what they are doing -Never a hint of a negative tone from her -Engages in relaxed and pleasant conversation -Offers plenty of eye contact and smiles, both of which really add to the GFE aspect THE SESSION I was quite nervous when I arrived. Chatting with Megan helped calm me down somewhat - a feat unto itself! Admittedly, I'm no massage connoisseur but the massage felt great, so don't let the fact that she is not professionally trained deter you. The other parts of the session I'll keep to myself (lap dance, body slide, etc.). I'll just say that it was "all good". MARRIAGE PROPOSAL ;-) This was my bold and shameless attempt to get free sessions for life. Since we'd already known each other for more than an hour I thought it would be ok to ask. She did not accept. Note to self: Do not propose to your MA. Someone needs to add this to the FAQ for newbies.