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A simple solution could be if a gentlemen wants to leave a comment, he can do so by giving rep points and leaving whatever message he chooses there. This way they can show their appreciation/agreement without needlessly bumping the thread. As well, the rec threads will become much easier to skim through being that all posts are actual 1st hand recommendations. Kim

I think that I would tend towards NOT wanting a template as it might result in very quick posts that do not contain the personal thoughts and feelings that might compliment that SP and as well help prospective clients make choices and decisions. I do read reccos, but not as a matter of routine. I also write reccos, and again, not as a matter of routine. I have said many times that I have never had a bad encounter and that is absolutely true. Neither though have I written a recco every time. For me, I take pride in writing reccos. As every single encounter that I have had has been different, so too have my reccos all been different. I believe that if I wrote every recco with the same format, the same words, and using the same pre-defined format, then at some point the reccos would become meaningless. Since reccos are obviously an important factor for many, and since the presence of a recco on the main page does draw attention to that SP, I wonder if Sara does have a point here. Inconsequential posts bring an SP to widespread attention without having anything new being added to existing reccos. Perhaps I am misunderstanding the context here, but I for one when I do want to look at reccos, that is what I would like to see.

The most simple course of action would be avoiding marriage entirely! ;)

So, first up, I have to agree with the main premise of this thread; adding a comment just to say thanks to the reco thread doesn't add much to it, and I think rep points and PMs, as already suggested, are entirely adequate for this purpose. However... Nicki, I'm afraid I have to disagree with you on what should be in recos... I disagree with this as a requirement. It may be useful, within some limits (more on this below) but it also has drawbacks... A couple of things here. Firstly, we guys have very different takes on what we want to do with a reco, and how much effort to put into it, and what to talk about. Some folks write epic tales of their sexcapades and describe everything in great detail and glorious technicolor, and clearly have fun doing so and re-living the encounter. Others just aren't comfortable with posting this sort of thing - personally, while I'm happy to read about the great time someone else had, I simply don't wish to give details of anything that happened with the ladies I've met once the clothes came off. But that's just me, and I'm quite happy that other people have different ideas on this. As for bias... yes, you'll always get that. I'll unashamedly admit that there are some ladies that I've enjoyed spending time with more than others. I've written recos for ladies that I'll definitely go and see again, come hell or high water. I've also written recos for ladies that I probably won't see again, usually because we just didn't connect that well, and I'm likely go back to someone that I connected with better, or perhaps go on and make new and exciting discoveries elsewhere (for which there's never enough time). This doesn't mean that someone I didn't connect with doesn't deserve a reco, or that other people shouldn't go and see her, because the fact that I didn't quite click with someone doesn't mean she won't become the next guy's ATF, and it'd be a shame if he never went to see her because she didn't have enough recos. It should also be noted that when someone's had a really fantastic time this can quite often come out in the way the reco is written, and this sort of feeling and enthusiasm level can be just as useful as anything that's actually written. The problem I have here is that you seem to be equating 'seamless and equal' with 'better'. I disagree on this point, as you can probably tell :) This is true, but this sort of thing really comes down to how much effort guys are prepared to put into researching someone we haven't seen before. If we're just going to look at the length of the reco thread, as opposed to actually reading it... well, fine, but we're probably missing out on some gems. However, this is our loss. Yes we do, and it's still useful. It tells me that someone else went to see the lady in question, and that he had a good time. It all adds up on the positive side of things. And the point is not that anyone could write that - the point is that someone did. That alone seems to be more than most guys bother with, and I'm not comfortable with the idea of being less than welcoming to guys who may not have the time or inclination to write a great deal. I'd far rather have a very quick "I saw X, and it was great" than nothing at all. It should probably be noted also that this may be a function of what previous recos for a lady are like. People probably don't want to make it look like their reco is a virtual cut-and-paste of someone else's, and it's especially hard to add something new and different to a lady's reco thread if she's got a lot of recos already, or if someone has already written a small novel about her (those can be a really tough act to follow), or if you're in the not-discussing-the-gory-details camp. And here we have a good reason for a template. Yes, if a template gives new or occasional posters a prod in the right direction and makes writing a reco easier for them and thus results in more recos, we all benefit and that would be a thoroughly good thing. But it'd be a great loss if the template became mandatory and limited those who wish to offer more, or inhibited those who didn't wish to fill out all of it.

I have been working continuous overtime since April 24th, 2000. I don't think she has caught on yet... other than the whole divorce thing.

Again, thanking him, showing appreciation/agreement or adding a personal comment can easily be done with the rep points option without needlessly bumping a thread. No camaraderie lost? Kim

I do not feel a reco template would benifit anyone, especially not the gentlemen writting them. After all, the gentlemen who take the time to write the recos should feel free to write about their own experience in the way they see fit (according to the cerb rules); if they chose to say "I saw so and so last week and had a great time with her" that should be their choice. If they chose to write a "novel type" reco, they should also feel comfortable doing so. A reco is a reco... On this one, I say to each their own. On the other hand, I do agree with Kimberly on the following:

To all the Ladies and Gents on CERB: Mark your calendars for Thursday, December 8th as the date for the Christmas Social being hosted in Ottawa by yours truly and Old Dog. More info will be posted in November regarding ticket sales for the Gents and Agencies (cost and number of tickets we will be selling), venue, etc. Please note that this is NOT a Cerb sponsored party so please do not bother the Mod about this upcoming event. For discretion purposes, this event is only open ONLY to Cerb members, regardless of what part of the country you are from. Out-of-town members and touring ladies are most welcome. The dress code for this event will be business-casual or Christmas wear. No micro-minis or t-shirts or ripped jeans please. I will be taking care of both e-mail money transfer and cash payments. Tickets will be available the first week of November. At previous socials, we had some generous benefactors for door prizes, so if anyone is so inclined to contribute to this one, donations of gift cards of any denomination would be welcomed. Hope to see some old familiar faces and new ones of course at the next social. Remember Ladies - If you are an SP/MA member of CERB, there is no cost for you to attend. Agency owners may also attend (with paid ticket) and are welcome to bring along up to a maximum of 4 ladies this time (for free of course).

We need to understand that the problem is not the licensed but giving a receipt for an erotic act is the issue. That would be considered a manipulation of the system and no one should have a coverage for a sexual pleasure but simply for a health aspect. It would be as if, escort would give coverage lol... RMT are also people that care for the health of the client and they have a medical hand. Especially in Ontario they have been trained about how to deal in different sexual situations. They have opposite goals of a masseuse. I know a few good massage therapist that dropped their job because they became annoys of guys sexual request. It is just not cool.

it's usually the same guys commenting on the reco ads...if they like the reco then pm the writer or better yet comtact the provider....just my thoughts

Not to pick on the particular phrasing of this, but are we not allowed to be biased towards our personal favourite SPs? And from what you are proposing, would it not just end up being essentially a list of people who have seen the SP?

I want to thank everyone for coming to the social last night! It was great meeting you all! I also want to thank other cerb members for donating prizes which wre greatly appreciated! Your cerb handles were acknowledged when prizes were handed out. Everyone was friendly, welcoming to fellow members almost like a second family which was great. Aside from running around performing my co-hosting duties, I did manage to enjoy myself in the process. And on another note, it is with great sadness to announce that due to other obligations, I will no longer be able to be a part of hosting future socials. I am now passing the torch onto someone else and wish future organizers the success that we had in making these events what they have become today. I hope to attend as a guest one day. :) Take care everyone and thanks again! Love, Nicki xoxoxo As one of the organizers, I find this request to be indiscreet. We do not reveal our location or even the area until you have paid for a ticket. By asking people to PM you this info, compromises privacy for others and I ask that members not PM with these details. Angela and I work very hard to make this private for our guests so no one crashes these events by finding out the location without paying for a ticket. Discretion plays a key role in organizin future socials. Thank-you for understanding!

An excellent question, you should contact MOD about access to the SP section as you would get far more detailed responses imo. I do not offer a list of services. My rule for what I will or won't do is extremely simple... "There isn't a game that I don't love to play, just playmates I won't play them with." For those that need it translated, I am open to all games, twists, bends and naughties always respecting health and safety but I will not be commanded or expected to do anything unless I want to. I will not agree to anything until I have met a guest and there are certain games that are played with only trusted playmates. If you would like to see how certain games are played, check out some of the amateur porn sites. FetLife is an excellent source of information as well. I would be upfront with guests who are requesting a service if it is something you are interested but inexperienced with. Let them know you are willing to experiment with them but you set the boundaries. If it isn't fun, call time and stop the game... cat

Did someone say presents...ohhhh i like presents...i just may have to come...:milleunenuit:

I will actually be off that week and in Canada!!!!! It's about time one of these things works around my schedule!!! So excited!!!!

Honestly, I don't think I would change much. The biggest difference in my life would be I would own my own house or condo downtown or in the glebe.

Can I dress up like Mrs.Claus and Marc Santa???? LOL

Oh I wonder, I wonder. :) December 8th eh? Should I bring presents? Will there be mistletoe? Can I bring a date? Off to check Air Canada and Westjet.....

Went to Applefest last weekend, bought a homemade apple pie. Got home, it had, no exaggeration, no taste Go to the grocery store today, being so cool out, thought an apple pie would hit the spot. The store bought pie tasted, well first it had taste, and second it tasted good. The sucky part, why is a homemade pie, which cost $10.00 terrible (I threw it out) while an "assembly line" store bought pie (costing $6.00) taste good RG

I don't see SPs but I do have lovers, I tell my partner that I'm spending time with my lover and she says have fun. It's not easy but once you get an open relationship working well it's worth it's weight in gold. If I had to offer an excuses to some one, I'd probably sugest a monthly visit to a pyschologist for stress reduction ;)

Aspirational certainly, but as Macchiavelli pointed out, if those with the power find the status quo profitable, then change will not happen. Sad in a way Regards from the Centre of the Universe CB

If you know what this is, you are old:

Elle May Clampett (I'm not picky, either the original or remake)

Shouldn't that be "whose" hands?

RG, is this you?

Chyler Leigh as a punker in the short lived, That 80's Show

Academic freedom does not include the freedom to completely disregard scientific method, or to piss in the Fountain of Truth the way Farley does. Unfortunately flakes who ignore reality to try and prove a politically-motivated point drag everyone down with them and bring science as a whole into disrepute, and it is very much in the interests of professional associations to prevent this as far as possible. I'm fine with people doing this if they're honest and claim to be no more than a politician or a lobbyist or a campaigner; they have no right to claim any sort of scientific mantle or the authority that conveys, and the scientific community absolutely needs to ensure this does not happen.

LOL Good one Steve ;) Thanks to you, Jessica Rabbit is my new avatar inspiration for the month of October!

Good morning good morning :) What an awesome time, thank you Angela and Nicki! What a super turn out holy smokes ...might need a bigger place next time...I just wanted to say thank you again for the invite and the opportunity to spend some really good times with some super fabulous people . I won a door prize too ... I am curious if anybody might of picked it up by accident ...it was a necklace in a black box ... Thank you again and I look forward to the next one :) Vanessa Kelly

Waking up before 7am on a Saturday and just to notice we are is 7 degrees out :( All the smileys posted from mobiles showing as happy ones, us who post that way come across as bad things make us happy lol Posted via Mobile Device

I have learned that the more truth in a story, the better. When I go see an MP, I say I'm going for a massage. When I get home and am asked how the massage was, i say "great". No lies.

I never ask about this, but I do know that the Christmas shopping season tends to be very good for business. "Going Christmas shopping" must be a good excuse!

I recently got a PM from a professional photographer saying he really like my photos and he offered to take some professional pictures for me. Unfortunately I accidentally deleted that PM (along with alot more) because my inbox was full so now I'm trying to see if anyone knows how I can find him or PM him? He did mention that he did pictures for someone named Sabrina and Cindy I believe? Thank you so much in advance! :)

When I first got here and discovered there were people I wanted to know more about, my sequence was (and is) to go to her profile, read what she has to say about herself, glance at the number of friends (the number not being too important, just an item of curiousity), peruse her album(s), check out her website if she has one, then go to the recommendations. Since I was looking for a specific person, the relative ranking on the first page of "R", for example, was irrelevant. The content of the reco's was (is) what interests me and the "thanks" posts were (are) just so much white noise. Having done all of that, I'd check out a sampling of her posts. Then I would have a basis to decide if this was someone I wanted to contact. A lot of work but it results in a lot of joy. :) So Sara, I think I understand what prompted your "peeve" but IMHO, to the in-any-way-serious hobbyist, the "bumps" don't enter into the equation. Personally, I wouldn't be impressed by someone who made their judgement based on someone being higher in the ranking because of a number of "Oh yeah, great!" posts. But, then again, I'm not wired like everyone else.

How do I get into a womens' changing room without being arrested? :grin: CB

What part of PRIVATE message is so hard to understand?

I'm kinda with PistolPete on this, I don't look at how many or where in the standings a rec is...I look for a lady in different ways like looking at her photos, her personality and her ability to carry on a conversation with me.

I think some type of reco template should be implemented where only people who have seen the provider can post without making endless comments. The template would also be more beneficial as I have seen recos where they were 2 sentences strung together and not much of an effort was made whereas the same member would write a novel on another SP which would appear to be bias. By using the template, things would be more seamless and equal. If members wanted to agree with the mmber who wrote the reco, they could give them a rep point. I have heard from both hobbyists and SPs alike that if an SP didn't have at last one page of recos, that people would think something is wrong with her. For new SPs, you have to work hard to get recognition. And on the other hand, I have seen many recos where there were pages and pages but it was all fluff and not too many recos where the member took the time to write something that would give insight into a encounter for potential clients of SPs/MAs. Guys don't want to read a reco that says "Yeah, I concur! She's great!" Well what the heck does that tell someone who is interested in seeing the lady? Not much and frankly anyone could write that. I find that many guys aren't interested in the reco writing process and with the template, it would already be set up to sort of just fill in the blanks.

Through participant observation in the women's change room, I attest it is so! By the way, I swear I'm not creepy ;)

Kennidi, I'll keep your little trip going up the stairs to myself. :sperm:

thanks you so much for the party. had to leave early for my workout this morning but it was a pleasure to be there for few hour and meet everybody again :) take care all and see you at the next social :) xoxoxo mouah

This is strength

As a person who has had significant crutch and wheelchair time in the past, a few suggestions. With the crutches, don't put weight on them with your armpits, ever. Use your hands to support your weight and in a couple of days they will toughen up. It will be more comfortable for you and the hands give you far more control. The motion or swing of your body once developed becomes an aide as momentum and physics play a role. Biggest caution of all is to watch out for water on most flooring surfaces. The rubber tips on water turn the crutch into a slide, immediately with no warning. A wheelchair presents its own issues, however for safety treasons may be a better option for you. Accessibility is always an issue, even in buildings that are supposedly accessible. Ramps are not always to standard, and the lip across a door frame becomes a major hurdle at times. Good luck and once you master the technique see an SP as a personal reward. Incentive. :)

Stopping for a stranded motorist, 12:30 a.m.,on the 416. She's out of gas so drop her off at a gas station. She says many thank yous but her last gesture was to steal my wallet. Noticed it missing when I got home and cancelled cards right away. She had already made 3 transactions in 20 minutes for $200. I don't usually leave my wallet visible but I had not been planning a stop. No cash, just cards. Posted via Mobile Device

Mmm anyone else notice a similarity?

Nice thread.... Kissing, to me, is similar in a way to making love...it's all about the buildup...I like to kiss someone fully on the lips at first...not hard, gently...just to kind of see how our lips fit together...then pull back, look into their eyes and kiss them again, but this time move on from closed mouth to softly biting them on the lower or upper lip...the tongue starts to play at this point...gently probing, taking my time...savoring...then as the passion builds, our tongues and lips start to move faster, intertwined...to me, this is where the passion begins in any sexual encounter...also love to kiss the side and the back of the neck and the shoulders also...very erotic...ok, going to stop here...lol...and as a last little comment, the only thing I do to the ears is inhale when my lips are cupping them...anything else almost feels like an intrusion...but the inhalation is light enough to be very sensuous...needless to say, I love kissing..:)

This is the kind of thing that scares people off from posting and asking questions here, the OP has been a memeber for almost a year. Be it is fist question or 1,000 post he's entiled to ask in a respectful manner, which he did. He decided to ask a question about something that he was curious about. Let's not be so quick to judge about the act but to be more friendly and develop a sense of community rather than judgmental silos. We all agree it's service that some providers offer but usually not to a first time visitor and with good reason, like any other extreme services there is a level of trust and communication between all involved for the event to be carried off successfully. As I suggested earlier perhaps for the faint of heart around here we should refer to the act as facial fornication.

This is an adult escorting board. Sorry to be harsh, but if the word FUCK offends you so much, maybe this isn't the right place for you. Posted via Mobile Device

Now on the flip side, and I know this thread is for ladies!!! but I would just like to say 'that I love having my nipples sucked on,lightly bitten,having nipple clamps on them' It brings out a great excitement for me :) I would like to thank those ladies that have performed this for me, I get goose bumps from it ;) Apparently I have been told numerous times by ladies I have sexy great looking nipples :)