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Good for you Zoe. :) Personally, I would never consider offering a 15 minute appointment. I don't even really like 30 minute appointments, and have considered only offering 1 hour and more. I do occasionally get a request for a half hour session, but thankfully it's rare. For the intimate and incredible experience I offer, 30 minutes is hardly enough time. Fifteen minutes would definitely make me feel cheap. But then I like to be consistent in what I offer and the kind of SP I strive to be. I take so much time to prepare for each encounter, a 15 minute session would be an insult to my time. Besides that, without time to properly enjoy one another's company by taking our time to get to know one another a little, I don't think I would like how I would feel after a quarter of an hour. I like to try an offer an unforgettable experience, and I know I'm not able to deliver that in a mere 15 minutes. I'm sure there's a market for it, and I don't judge anyone who does offer it. I just know I wouldn't feel good offering a 15 minute 'quicky', so I never will. :)

Not to hijack the thread, but I noticed that some ladies do not offer shower facilities or they charge an additional fee for this which I find surprising. I kind of figured offering shower facilities with clean towels and basic toiletries (light scented liquid shower soap, hand soap, mouthwash, spray deodorant) was the norm. That's the way I have always worked. Unless someone wants to take a 15 minute shower, I have no objections to letting the time go over a bit since I am low volume and do not book my calls back to back.

Gotta like Old Dog, sense of humour, upbeat positive posts...he's one of the ones that makes CERB a great community RG

I like RG .....well because he is just RG....and like me he loves fishing :) The "big one" is still out there.....waiting for ya !!!!

What's this "Shower" you speak of? Such a novel idea ... any lady care to show me the ropes? Kidding aside - hygiene always adds to the experience, and enhance repeat-ability. When I think about ladies I'd like to revisit, the first criteria is, how clean she was - especially in strategic location. Also, cleanliness of location as well. As for myself, I prep by strategic location scrub down where I'd like attention the most consistently over at least a 3-5 day period. As for time, technically speaking, shower time is on the clock. But most sp don't watch the clock to the minute when you play ball. Cleanliness is Godliness

Two new series this season caught my interest: Person of Interest - Orwellian high tech hi-jinx in the hands of two characters that play a rough game of vigiliante on the bad guys, on a pre-emptive basis... Jim Caviesel plays the cold heavy hitter that serves up brutal justice and can survive a shit kicking at the same time.. Michael Emerson is quite good as the billionaire nerd brain of the operation.. Unforgetable - a cop story with kinda silly plot line about a female detective with an eidetic (photographic) memory. I usually get past the weakness in the plot by concentrating (sproing) on the lead female character.. Poppy Montgomery.. and she has some interesting character flaws that show some promise for the future..

Being back on CERB after not being around much for aaaaages. But there's sooo much to read....

Don't be ashamed of your Corrie addiction, I've been hooked for more than 20 years, although lately I'm loosing interest. I don't watch much TV but when I do I enjoy these shows; Two and Half men Big Bang Californiacation Arrested Development and a guilty pleasure is House Hunters on HGTV, I have to know will it be house #1, #2, or #3

He was given six months to live when he was born, so my highlight of the day (well yesterday) was celebrating my nephew's eighth birthday RG

I'll quit when I'm bored. I'm just getting warmed up.

Do I belong here? Do you really want me here? Is it really going to be a problem that I'm not currently advertising or working so much due to my deteriorating health, that I can't actively participate in this forum? Is it a big deal, having worked 10 years in the field, take a break now and can't be apart of it still, here? Do you really think I'm a man trapped in a woman's curvacious body? Should I be thrown to the fringes because I'm a defective non-advertising service provider? Have I been rude on the forum to any specific individuals, fought or gnawed at anyone for a difference of opinion, disrespected or slandered someone's good name? I've come to learn the ropes and play nice. I've never been suspended. Okay, I have an infraction! Now everyone knows "kick her out". Is this really how the forum works, that I need proof that I am female? It's too bad that the Moderators of this site have to deal with theses groundless accusations. Heck, the Mod's are too busy for this, I can't even get my cute pink icon saying I'm special for my +2 votes. This is some serious venomous witch hunting from where I'm standing and it's not funny. It's actually quite hurtful. Can't y'all play a game or get laid instead of pick on me lol (that was meant to be funny) I know the majority of the members here are awesome sweethearts. This evening I had the pleasure to speak with Miss Emma Alexandra, we had a great conversation, what a peach! Thanks for the faith and the laughs Emma A. Thanks for people like you. It's sweet people like that make this site Great! I feel like I could be Courtney Love at Kurt Cobain's funeral except I wanna yell "I'M A GIRL" but, I'm not much for yelling, more like slow head roll, hair toss, loud exhale, scratch my head then tap my finger nails on the table. Well the word is out I'm a female. I have lovely lady lumps. I'm simply not working as much right now and no that does not make me a man. And because of that should I be subjected to harassment, alienation and vile accusations? I take tonnes of meds and I'm in pain most days and hope to have surgery soon. JuliasUndies is not my working name it is F.A.K.E. So that if/when I am better, I can resume working under my working alias. I love you guys, you make me very happy and I'm blessed to have found Cerb, it makes it easier for me from going from working-to sick-to not working so much. It has made the transition that much easier for me coming to a place that I recognize and can relate too. So thanks for all those that have welcomed me with open arms, you have been terrific. Now, if we can all just get along again without "JuliasUndies Controversy" Smile, let's all smile together okay :) SMILE, JUSY DO IT!! IT FEELS GREAT! :) Cheers! :) :) :) :)

It has and she send me some verification photos (She also changed her avatar to reflect this) so as far as I am concerned the lady who said she was a man is in hot water as that is rather insulting and slanderous since she did not seam to have any proof. For now lets let this cool off and move forward.

I like RG... solid man, solid community member and a good friend. CERB could only benefit from members like him!

I have missed most of the discussion on Sydnee's situation , which is a shame because I am not sure there are many that are in a better situation to defend her against the many attacks than I am. It is wrong, but it is understandable that the media tell a one sided story based mostly on the information given to them by the L.E.s . What I find ironic is people who did not know the real situation , many that never lived here or met her, or had anything to do with her ; taking upon themselves to judge her based on what the media has fed them. They all should know better. Sydney was no saint, but in some ways she was a bit on an angel. Lord knows she and I did not see eye to eye on many thing ; mostly about running a " brothel" out of your home, and how safe it was to hold parties at your home. You know what; we weren't even a very good match sexually but I respected her. That is one of the great things about Sydnee; you didn't have to agree with her 100% to consider her a friend. This talk about 'trying to redeam herself somewhat by volunteering' is nonsence. Sydnee did tons to good work. Gathered food for the food banks at her party. Contributed and encouraged others to contribute to animal shelters, especially in our unforgiving Winnipeg winters, work at the woman's shelters, on her website she started a blog that was more or less ' how unselfish I am, with a prize bassed on the contribution voted the best, it may have inspired more good deads) the list goes on....... Some one said that they considered that auctioning of a ladies 1st SP experience distasteful. Well me too a little bit, that is why I didn't participate, but you have to have known what inspired this. Does anyone remember a young lady somewhere in the United States auctioning her virginity. It huge media visibility. That is what inspired this and that was typical Sydnee. It wasn't anyone's virginity , it was their first S.P. experience. Maybe it ment something special to the lady to think that her first experience was special not just to her but to some guys. Maybe it was. I don't know , I don't live in a ladied head. I do remember this. The arrived price for 1 hr. as a little less than a regular fee for 2 hour, so no big deal but if it made the lady and the guy feel special I am ok. with that It is suggested that she recruited young girls while doing her volunteer work. Did you ever think that maybe young girls we already in this buisness and planned to continue. She offered them a safer place to work. Screened their clients for them. Upped their fees to a real professional level so they weren't being take advantage of on the street. Sometimes some of "Sydnee's girls" were 19 but more often the ages were in the 20's or 30's. Was it a co-operative? Maybe not exactly. The ladies had pretty much controle over when they worked. They had Sydnee's screening and with that, controle over who they saw. The ladies choose what services they wished to offer and what services they wished to provide. There was no up selling. There wasn't a no-shows, because Sydnee set the appointments and the ladies didn't have to tell the guy ' I'll be there, when they didn't want to, and there was no switches. Some people think that the ladies were forced to show their faces in the ads. I don't know , it may have been encouraged (maybe to prevent the appearance of switching), but I know that showing your face wasn't manditory because the lady that I saw a number of times always appeares in mask or with her face turned to the camera. Compared to any other agency in Winnipeg , this was excellent service for both clientele and S.P. Not every lady needed Sydneys support to run their buisness. Ladies came and ladies went in her opperation so naturally she was recruiting. Often I suspect that they were only there long enough to get a good sence of what they could do on their own. I am sure that she missed a well established lady and popular lady when she moved on but I never heard Sydnee complain about that and her services of screening clients, setting up appointments and seeing that the ladies only worked the times that they wanted suited some ladies very well. Once established with Sydnee a guy could alway use her for a reference when dealing with ladies not in Sydnee's flock. I am certain that after an appointment with ' one of her girls' there was a post appointment report. I was certainly o.k. with that. I never heard any lady, not with her. say that Sydnee refused a reference. She considered this profession, a real profession with no time for selfishness. Certainly she pushed the boundries. I believe that she felt that it was what was needed to push this profession out of it's darker edges and into accepted main stream society. She pushed harder and moved faster than many of us would have, but her intentions were good and they were honest. We should not judge her on what is feed to us by the media and we need to be carefull about judgeing her by what her competion has to say. I judge her by what she was , and I say she was a lady ahead of her time. A time that we yet might see.

I've never offered 15 minute appointments and can't imagine ever doing so--it's just not my style at all. I only offer half hour meetings to established clients, and that doesn't happen very often. But if I were to consider this, I would be concerned about volume and its implications. I work in a very discrete setting and attract no attention here. But if I were to have many clients coming and going throughout the day, I think discretion could become more difficult!

I have to say descrimination is wrong and is very hurtful to experience. But these women are not a Wal-mart store who aren't allowed to deni doing buissnes for what ever reason. The sugested opinion's that a women working in the sex industry must have any type of sexual relations with anyone she does not wont is so wrong. This is treating them like worthless meat. Its outright scary for women in this indury and is causing This is starting to turn into a rant and needs its own thread under womens rights and human trafficing. so I'll stop hear. All women need to be treated like respect and dignaty. Rubs

I would not really pay attention to it. It is only 5-10 minutes in the difference!

99% of my clients shower first & about 80% of them shower after too...I do not include the showering as part of the time...I never book back 2 back sessions anyway, so there is never any need to rush...I have to say all my clients are very respectful of this..and do not go overboard with the time. I personally , strongly prefer to have my clients freshly showered beforehand, so that is also why I do not consider this as part of their time...unless of course I am in the shower with them :boobies: I think it's simple little gestures such as this...that makes my clients happy :biggrin: