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Reaching this milestone, and have thought it through and through for quite sometime now, this post will be my last in the general discussion area,recommendation area and other areas as well. I will keep my profile active, and continue to chat through pm's or profile pages, by saying hello to those good friends, and of course checking out the ladies schedules and announcements and social groups. ;) I'm sorry but I just don't have anything more to say or add into the those sections of the board. My reasoning for staying out of posting here,is that the content on the board has lost some of it's "reality" in why we we all chose to become a member here on CERB. That being a community of people striving to have the same result, good fun,sex of course,how to stay and play safe and play along nicely with each other. The latter certainly has not been happened enough lately in my view, I had read MOD's note to those Elite Members and Sp members in that section.I hope that it is okay to quote MOD here in the general area where some other members can see what was said...I think it is important to all general members as well. The site is suppose to be... 1) a positive side of the industry 2) A fun place 3) A community 4) A place to get friendly advise 5) A place where the ladies can come and not worry about being slandered 6) A place for the "Good clients" to feel at home When I first started here, the wealth of information provided by members was such a huge importance for men and ladies to ensure quality time together and it was always very positive back then and great fun... but not so much lately. Those members that have provided that information of safety/quality time/advise/ health issues etc etc are and can be the key to continued success of this board. So stay positive folks. It has been a fun place, until recent past months,that is my own personal view on the matter Just far too much hostility lately, and I rather not participate in those discussions, and yes I have been guilty myself of doing so, but realizing it is only counterproductive. However I would like to say, I really have not found it lately a place for "good clients" to feel at home at least that is my feeling. I always consider myself a good client with ladies I have met and I of course look forward in meeting new ladies as well in the future. We all see the hostile quotes left in the rep points handed out, we all see the hostile thread comments and even lately comments left on other profile pages. We all have our own interpretation, but that is what happens when you have a diverse community, I guess. I'm sure some will be happy that I will be staying away from posting, and I think some others may not (48 threads started of rec's...lol.. I did give back to community in a way :) ). So thank-you all, it is not good bye, just tuning out, may you all enjoy the Holiday Season, and have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

This is exactly why I posted this in the ELITE/SP ONLY area. A small handful of people are creating a hostile environment for some. Pushing good members like Pete to do things like this! It's bad for the board, bad for the ladies as it makes potential and really good long term clients not feel welcome. I think jealousy is playing a role in this with some and maybe even boredom for some? Not sure but what we need to do is suggest to the council that anyone causing a hostile environment here gets ONE warning then the BOOT! I know myself and the other mod have talked about this for a while now and we both agree... it's a handful of people killing the vibe for many and it has to stop. Those people responsible need to find a new thing to focus on! Pete, I hope you come back and post. Your a valued member here and one many of the guys look up to. I know I appreciate all your contributions to cerb and this post hopefully opens up some peoples eyes. The ladies who are doing this are just making themselves and other ladies loose business. You kill the friendly vibe of the site and kill off the top members and the quality posters you kill the traffic to the site and hurt business for yourself and the others. It's just dumb!

I must ad that it's not solely the ladies creating this atmosphere. Just for the record.

I love love love dogs...and all dogs are puppies to me just like our children will always be our babies... Lets make this the official puppy thread. ...this is what i'd like under my tree.

This is Cara, whom I had the pleasure of spending a few hours with in London. A stunner and a sex goddess. We had been corresponding for a while, and I was quite eager to meet this beauty. Her messages to me demonstrated intelligence and wide-ranging interests, and I knew we'd have fun. We did. First impression: almost aristocratic without haughtiness, that was my first thought. Confident, elegant, model material. Dressed tastefully: quality without showiness. We talked and drank champagne, and I admired the beauty of her face, her smile, her legs, and her long blonde hair. I liked the way she bore herself and the way she interacted with me. Connection. Promising. The promise is soon fulfilled. Off to the bedroom, and she slips out of her dress to reveal a fit, taut body. Nice abs, not over defined but tight (lots of gym time obviously), beautiful breasts. She twirls around for me to admire her. No aristocratic reserve here; she becomes a Playmate, an enchantress. That smile again as she sees my appreciation, and we embrace and kiss. I touch her for the first time, and she presses into me. Electric. Erotic. The sensations pulse through me. As if she knows instinctively what I want, she climbs on the bed and assumes my favorite position, exposing her beautiful bum. A cute, inviting wiggle. Off comes lingerie, and we embark. And what a journey it is, full of passion and eroticism as she receives my oral attention enthusiastically, just as enthusiastically as I give it; and then she indulges me. Total connection. Total release. Total satisfaction. I had to try her in every position I could think of, and she thought of a few more, as we rolled around and in and out for what seemed sometimes like ages, sometimes like a fleeting moment. It's funny how times plays with you when you're at this. So arousing: her energy never flags, and she's there connecting with you, and it feels affirming and genuine and so, so good. This was a very memorable meeting. Three hours of intensity, with a true beauty, eager to satisfy. I only had a day in London, or would have wanted to see her again. I can't wait to get back to Cara. I will. www.toplondonescort.com

I really like the photos that I have seen of Lindsay! But this one really caught my eye!

sad to see you go pistolpete. always loved you're input. you were one of the members i always look for recommendations from.

Sorry to hear this Pete. Your contributions will be missed. Not just for the volume of contributions but also for your willingness to speak your mind (and occasionally "stir the pot" if it needs stirring.) Everyone should always feel welcome to voice their opinions here as long as they respect the other members. Good luck in future endeavors.

Great thread idea!

Blessed Yule! May the promise of returning light fill your heart with warmth!

Emma, Dogs will always be puppies to me too! I don't care how Big or Small, how Old or Young, They're ALL Puppies to Me!!! And I Love Them ALL!!! I'm looking into getting a French Bull Dog. This video sold me on them. So Cute, poor little guy!

Thanks for this thread ,glad to know another dog lover.I am always talking about dogs ,I volunteer at shelters,support rescue groups and hope others will especially through the xmas season,sometimes with all the hustle and bustle they are often overlooked.Also please speak to your local mla concerning the laws about tethering dogs {so we can get this cruel treatment stopped}endless hours on a chain is no way for any dog to live{visit http://www.unchainyourdog.org or http://www.petprojects.ca} We all must be mindful of how all dogs are treated and stop animal abuse.Remember dogs rule!!!

i just got another puppy now i have 3 dogs lol all golden retrievers

Does a BJ count? lol

Its funny you mention this because all of the sudden in the past week I've had 2 people, not SP's, tell me my number comes up "blocked/unknown". I've been using the same phone and # for 5 years now so why all of the sudden. Perhaps it has something to do with their service providers?

I don't do anything big because that would have to be explained, but I get a kick out of how thrilled regular and new clients are when I give them a mini candy cane at this time of year. (The ones I got this year were not nearly as terrific as I found before, which bummed me out, but nevertheless it is fun). Also useful, to have a fresh minty breath later lol. My friend is conscious of the diabetics and so gives out mandarin oranges wrapped in festive napkins. Again, I would stay away from personalized items, and larger items, but these small things put a smile on someone's face it makes my day.

I just recently had a meeting with Alexandra Sky. Making the arrangements for our meeting was easy. She is located in a very centrally located spot but at the same time relatively discreet. As you can see from all the positive reviews, Alexandra Sky provides an incrediable service. She is very responsive to DATY and has curves in all the right places. What really made the experience truly memorable was her great personality and easy going style. She definitely provided the GFE. She is also very intelligent .... at least smarter than me ! LOL I definitely will be trying to find time in my schedule to met up with her again.

I like hfxandy because he has a fantastic sense of humour and he always makes me smile. I like him, and one day, I wanna meet him! :)

An excellent fox song, Lee. Though perhaps bested by this Foxy Lady, and the memorable performance by Garth Alger Party On, Wayne!

I like roamingguy because he's just a small town boy, livin in a lonely world :)

More sex, less arguing. :)

In this season that symbolizes peace, harmony, reconciliation, and new beginnings, I extend to all members of the cerb community my best wishes for a happy Christmas and New Year. May much fulfilment lie ahead.

I like Isabella for the exact same reasons she likes RG. :) Additional Comments: Shoot I was beaten to it. I like Soleil because she's always so sweet on the board. I like Lee's avatar and I like how HB has stuck around with us. hehe! He's a trooper.

I like Isabella because she always remembers every holiday and makes sure she always sends me a message with a cute picture. So thoughtful! :)

I understand what you mean, and while a client can get an anonymous cell phone/identity etc really what the "no blocked number" (in my perspective), is the willingness to comply to the requested protocol of the lady. If a client is unwilling to follow the most basic rule, I feel that indicates that they are less likely to follow other rules that are outlined in the session. If somebody is reluctant to follow the most basic protocol, how are we to trust they will follow any others? It works both ways as well, if a lady you are contacting pays no attention to the discretionary rules/protocol you ask for etc, how are you to trust her further? A little consideration goes a long way, both ways. Just my two cents....

I like RG because he shows me his support when I need it :)

Yes, my wishes go out too for everyone to have a great holiday season :)

There is a social group called Foreign Affairs. Seems like the logical place for this type of thread.

I'm glad you had fun, and she is indeed beautiful, but I have to be a party pooper. This is a CANADIAN recommendation board. International reviews are hardly appropriate.

I resolve to compliment at least one stranger a day. I already started doing it and it's so cool to see people's reactions. Sometimes it makes someone's whole day. :)

Lose weight to my desired goal, and buy a motorcycle next summer.

I would like to get my license, I don't even have a learners license. Posted via Mobile Device

Oddly I've never heard this one in the malls...

I give really great fellatio.....:tongue:

Hey Gents, My opinion is that the majority of women in this industry choose to enter the profession of their own free will. That being said, we also know that there is a dark side of this industry in which women are coerced to work, and in which they may be economically exploited by a "pimp" who keeps the money she earns. Although I hardly ever encounter these situations with escorts/MA's, I got to know many women when I was stripping who were coerced into the industry. I won't go into all the details, but I will give one example. I was in the dressing room and another dancer was on the phone. She said on the phone: "Please can I leave? I've been here for 6 hours and I've only made $200. I really don't think I can make anymore. The club is dead." She hung up and said to her friend: "He says I can't leave until I make $300." I'm not saying these things to make anyone feel bad, or because the majority of strippers are in this situation (that is absolutely not true). But what I will ask is, what do you as a hobbiest do to mitigate the risk that you are participating in the exploitation of another human being? Do you only see reputable indies/agencies? Do you think you can "tell" when you meet her? Have you ever been in a situation where you suspected the lady was not there by her own free will? I hope no one is upset at me for bringing up such a dark topic, but I think it's important to talk about these things once in a while :) Megan

Don't put so much pressure on yourself, and as much as you are an adult, at 20 years old, chronologically, your still very young...it's not like being the 40 Year Old Virgin LOL See another girl, be it through dating or see an escort. As the saying goes, if you get thrown off a horse, just get back on If your worrying about your next time so much, you'll never have a next time Good luck RG

I just want to endorse what WrinkleInTime, Berlin, Carley and Malika have said. Anal sex can be glorious when done with sensitivity. Good communication is the key to just about everything that's new or potentially challenging. If your companion doesn't like it or doesn't want to try it, let it go. But if she does, enjoy! Personally, I love anal sex for a lot of reasons. I like the intensity I feel. The nerve endings are more alert, ready to tighten up or relax--their job is to respond, and they do, beautifully. I enjoy the feeling of having to submit to it, by which I mean that I have to relax deliberately and as completely as possible in order for this to happen. I find it very arousing and I have magnificent orgasms from it that feel somehow deeper and stronger, possibly because the man isn't stroking directly against my g-spot. Anal sex is usually and "end of scene" activity. After oral and regular sex, anal usually is the last thing. Most men find that it doesn't take long to reach orgasm in part because the woman feels much tighter than with vaginal sex. But if you're a guy who feels that he can carry on for hours at this, please recognize that the woman involved probably won't share your opinion. A long ride really has more to do with intensity and heightened sensations for both parties, not a long time at it!

I found this and thought I would share all of you, I don't know if this will help but hope it does. There are so many elements which you need to have a pleasurable, pain-free anal sex experience: lots of foreplay and warm-up, plenty of lubrication, and communication and trust between you and your partner. Anal sex should never, ever be painful. If it hurts, stop. Pain is your body's way of telling you that whatever you're doing isn't working. You should always listen to your body. Your butthole knows what is best for you. At the first sign of pain, you may want to stop all activity or simply slow it down: maybe use one finger only, change to a smaller butt plug, decrease the depth of penetration, or switch to external anal stimulation only. Work your way back up, but never force anything. Go as slow as you need to, continue to add more lube, and talk to your partner so he knows exactly what does and doesn't feel good. I'd also like to address your mention of using products like "Anal Ease" or even OraGel. Anal Ease is the brand name of a lubricant (of which there are several) marketed for anal sex which contains a numbing agent. I absolutely do not recommend using products like Anal Ease ever. Because they have the effect of numbing your anal area, you cannot feel your ass literally and you are in danger of hurting yourself. Using products like these often lead people to go farther than they normally would, take something bigger in their ass than they should and the result is a sore ass, possible tearing and damage to the delicate lining of the anal canal and rectum, and pain after the fact that isn't exactly going to want to make you rush right out and try anal sex again. There are plenty of great water-based lubricants that are thick and work well for anal sex (I like Astroglide Gel or ID), so use one of those. As for the OraGel, common sense and warnings on the label should let you know the answer: no. Just don't go there. Using butt plugs on a daily basis is a good way to get your butt used to having something inside it. Butt plugs don't actually "stretch" your butt; they simply help you learn to relax your pelvic and sphincter muscles. In terms of exercises, many women find that Kegel exercises (which exercise your PC muscles) are very helpful. In order to locate your PC muscles, pretend that you are trying to stop peeing (or while you are peeing, you can actually stop the flow of urine). The muscles you contract to stop the flow are your PC muscles. If you put your finger on your perineum-the area between your vagina and your anus-while you do this exercise, you can feel the contractions. Kegel exercises (named for the scientist who studied PC muscles and popularized the theory of exercising them) can help you to become more aware of your sphincter and PC muscles and learn to control and strengthen them. They will help you get in tune with the feelings in your pelvic area, increasing your sensitivity and responsiveness. The exercises will also tone the pelvic muscles, making them more flexible and more receptive to pleasurable sensations; when you exercise the PC muscles, other muscles in the area are also exercised and strengthened. Women who regularly exercise their PC and pelvic muscles report some very positive benefits: heightened pelvic sensations and greater anal sensitivity; increased pleasure during clitoral stimulation, vaginal and anal penetration; more control over orgasms; and better, more intense orgasms. For more information on Kegel exercises, check out Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin and The Complete Guide to Safer Sex from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. There is also a masturbation tool called the Kegelcisor, designed like a barbell for your pussy, which works wonders on those muscles! But there is another crucial ingredient to great anal sex, the most important one-which may be missing for you, according to your letter: desire. You really have to want to be fucked in the ass. First, you may want to think about why you don't enjoy anal sex. Many people have fears and anxieties which, when kept to themselves, can result in tension and a butthole that just won't let anything inside. Meditate on your feelings about and associations with anal sex, your past experiences with buttfucking, what you liked and disliked about it. Share your thoughts with your partner-sometimes talking about things can help you assuage your fears and relax. If you come to the conclusion that you don't want to do it, then don't do it. All the exercises, butt plugs, and lube in the world won't do a damn thing if your heart's not in it.

Thank you for warning others and please don't be ashamed. If anyone should be ashamed, it's her! Posted via Mobile Device