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In light of recent events, I feel compelled to write this message. There has been much talk lately about the increasing prevalence of negative commentary and in-fighting amongst members of Cerb. My history as a hobbyist dates back approximately thirteen years. In that time I've had the pleasure of meeting many incredible ladies, as well as corresponding with many like minded individuals through forums such as these. I have spent a fair amount of time in cities such as Toronto, and as such I am also a member of other boards. Without going into specifics, I can tell you that they have had, and some continue to have their share of problems. In part, that is why I chose to distance myself from them and join the respected Cerb community. Lately, I have begun to feel that those difficulties endemic to other boards have slowly filtered into our own. I would hope that we as a community will take it upon ourselves not to allow this to transpire. Some of the most endearing features of Cerb include acceptance, non-jugement, unity and community. In some sense of the word, Cerb may even be considered a loosely knit family of sorts, albeit (at times) a bit dysfunctional. This is really the situation I'd like to avoid. Our collective intellect, knowledge and sense of togetherness surely merits more than being reduced to petty squabbling. We ourselves are not the enemy. If anything, we should be rallying together to support initiatves such as the constitutional challenge and other such pursuits that hopefully will strengthen the foothold and legitimacy of the adult entertainment industry. Let us be mindful of the fact that we are here for one another. Cerb is not an entity in and of itself; Rather, it is WE who are Cerb. We make up our community and it is we who are ultimately the authors of our success or misfortune. As the dawning of a new year approaches, let's take it upon ourselves to reflect and resolve to rise up and overcome these issues, in order that we may all benefit the community as a whole. To do otherwise would be a disservice to ourselves and the industry we make up and support. Thank you for reading.

The difference between sex and all the other Charter Rights, is it is fundamentally a biological function, hard wired into the brain as a need, just as is hunger. The only difference between sex and eating or peeing, is that it involves, as often as not, another individual. Leaving the latter element aside for the moment, how on earth can anyone conceive (pardon the wording) of enshrining a biological activity in law? From a teleological point of view, the pleasure of sex is almost irrelevant, yet that facet is the driver behind the sex industry. Whether the pleasure appears to come from intimacy, "chemistry" or ejaculation is secondary to the biology. It is the involvement of the other individual which generates the heat. Since the dawn of social communities, for the most part sex has involved some kind of expense - see Foucault or look at the mother in law. I would argue that the concept that sex is somehow "free" exists only as a delusion in Western Society - where we are today. There are bills I can pay today, and those which will be managed only by The Grim Reaper: both have their roles. The problem comes with those unfortunates who have no capital to invest in either approach. Simply renaming it as a Right will not help them. Happy New Year - it comes half an hour earlier here!! CB

a level of understanding, compromise, peace, trust and best of all happiness here on CERB? I think we are well on our way towards it, Thanks for everyone coming out and teaching and influencing this great step to the betterment for all our benifit! I have learned alot from these past few weeks, and also know that I have a genuin consern for how fragile our community is here, must be handeled with care.

We all have things that make us cringe or make us scream in ecstasy when it comes to sexual encounters. Briefly name one of each. I get turned off when daty is being performed and when I am moaning and telling you to keep going, you stop! I love being caressed ALL over. Touching my hair, face, body...sends chills up my spine.

In another thread discussing the genuineness (is that a word?) of the encounter, I mentioned that I thought that sex was a basic human right. Kubrickfan suggested I start this as a topic, so here we are! My reasoning behind the assertion that sex is (or should be) a human right is that on a very basic level, everyone requires touch and intimacy. Sex doesn't have to be something that is limited to marriage or relationships and it's not a bad thing if you like to fuck all the time (join the club!). It's an emotional and physical release. I know when I'm cranky, a good fuck will make it better. I tend to think the world would be less fucked up if certain people were getting laid more! Society often puts restrictions on sexual behaviour and what makes a person worth sleeping with and that means that some people get the shaft when it comes to the sexin's. That's totally fucked up to me. Why shouldn't everyone be able to enjoy sex, when they want and how they want? So Cerbies, what do you think?

http://www.bedroomeyes.info/index2/ In the past year, I've had the pleasure of meeting several of the women in this agency, all spectacular, during my trips to Australia. The agency specialises in spinners (though the term isn't used in Australia, or wasn't till recently), and provides outstanding service. No cim, I've found, but the women are beautiful, and they're all very receptive to oral attention. This suits me just fine. In the past year or so I've been very fortunate to meet Amelia, beach babe extraordinaire, sweet, smart, and sexy. "The most beautiful girl on the beach was mine," I said in my review elsewhere. Cara, amazing lean fit hard body. Totally into it. Prize-winning cowgirl Sophie, a sex goddess, a firecracker and one of the most enthusiastic oral recipients I've ever met. Certainly in my top 10 ever. We clicked, and I loved it! She even came in from a day off work to see me when another sp (not from the agency) cancelled, and she brought me a gift of a bottle of champagne. So amazing! And the tan lines on all of them are such a turn-on. I love tan lines, and running my tongue along them....Ah the memories :) Macy from the agency is a pleasure to deal with. She and her partner Alex go out of their way to make sure everything goes smoothly, and follow up to make sure that the experience was everything you'd hoped for. If you're travelling down under, I recommend Bedroom Eyes highly. You won't be disappointed.

Looking at some of the threads Cuba is not the place you want to be hobbying. Much safer to wait until you come home. Foreigners can end up in jail for these types of activities. Best to stay on the resorts and do not stray.

Could play out a sex assimilation fantasy...might be scary at first, but rewarded later Resistance Is Futile :-) RG

I like Roaming Guy because he's going to take me fishing next summer! Enough said.

I am a Jelly Doughnut!!!! (it's a history joke... sorry) Congrats hun... I am a devotee!!!!

Congrats Berlin - I really enjoy your posts - often a little naughty, often a little saucy - keeps things interesting

I wish I had been with multiple women today but alas no... I'm working on next week, though :)

So I gets up at 5. Boil the kettle and make instant coffee. Set the cup on a box on my step. Put my boots on to go to work. Checked an email that just came in on my blackberry. Then in all of my wisdom picked up the box to put it away and spilled a full cup of boiling coffee down my shirt !!! ..... F*****k. !! Believe it or not I think my Austin Powers hairy chest saved me from a more severe burn ;)

My highlight is a bit cumulative, but I have had a great week and a half with the kids home for Christmas. They have now left and the house feels rather empty again, but tonight I am going over to my brothers for NY Eve, they have lobster and seafood in, and of course there is the hot tub outside on their deck. The whole holiday has been a highlight.

Play nice, please. If we could try and keep the trash-talking to a minimum...?

It is a shame that Pete chose to no longer post. And it may be a wake up call, reminding us why we are here. No one is trying to sweep things under any rug Here is but an example of some of the positive threads. One is older, but is a ongoing positive thread, which is why I included it. If any other threads have been missed, my apologies, and feel free to add. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=75581 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=75235 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=75779 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=58683 It's not sweeping under the carpet to want to return CERB to it's positive self. And as much as Pistol Pete will be missed (and he's always welcome back) dwelling on his departure will just feed into the negativity and accomplish nothing It's time to move forward RG

Short notice is a trickey one to pull off at times. Sometimes I could be out for lunch with my mother...or perhaps my house is not ready or at least up to my standards for company, etc.... I do take short notice, if the timing is right. It may be easier for you to get to know someone through chatting and post often, then the lady may be more at ease to see you just fresh from a shower and her regular day wear, natural with hair in a ponytail, lol. But For me, I really want my first meeting with you to be proper and does take more prep time. I am often told," ohh you dont have to do all that for me"....but I feel more comfortable when everyting is perfect for our first date. Usually after we have gotten closer, then I dont mind to invite you over a la natural look for a quick nooner. Also keep your eyes on the times we post that we are avail, so like for me if you call at 10pm, chances are you will not get a booking that night. As I usually will only go till 9pm. The shout box is a great tool to see if she is ready and able. hang in there, and certainly try to form connections VIA post, chats, and PM...Best of luck to ya:)

2011 has been a year of transition for me. I am finally coming to terms with being single again, and trying to be a better father, friend, sibling, and coworker. Somehow in neglecting myself I have neglected those most important to me as a result - I will strive to do much better in 2012. Thanks, Sky, for starting this thread and for, ummm, starting the healing process for me.

What you may want to try is, knowing that you usually don't know when you have free time until the last minute and given that you're only available to play at night time, send an SP of your choosing an email... Let her know your situation and she may agree to screen you with her screening process.... if you pass, that way when you contact her for an appointment, if she is available, then she will agree to meet you. Doing the screening in this way may save you the hassle of not finding anyone at the last minute. I'm not sure if all the ladies would be ok with this process but some may and ask them politely.

Woohoo....members embracing the concept of positivity! Makes me happy :)

Don't tempt me!!!

I like Alexandra. She's a caring and thoughtful person, and one of the ladies who is a positive influence on the CERB community. I look forward to what she has to say RG

This is exactly why I posted this in the ELITE/SP ONLY area. A small handful of people are creating a hostile environment for some. Pushing good members like Pete to do things like this! It's bad for the board, bad for the ladies as it makes potential and really good long term clients not feel welcome. I think jealousy is playing a role in this with some and maybe even boredom for some? Not sure but what we need to do is suggest to the council that anyone causing a hostile environment here gets ONE warning then the BOOT! I know myself and the other mod have talked about this for a while now and we both agree... it's a handful of people killing the vibe for many and it has to stop. Those people responsible need to find a new thing to focus on! Pete, I hope you come back and post. Your a valued member here and one many of the guys look up to. I know I appreciate all your contributions to cerb and this post hopefully opens up some peoples eyes. The ladies who are doing this are just making themselves and other ladies loose business. You kill the friendly vibe of the site and kill off the top members and the quality posters you kill the traffic to the site and hurt business for yourself and the others. It's just dumb!

Stockings are pretty much Universally sexy! As for shoes...I have an entire closet dedicated to them! Not every lady dislikes shoes, stockings - and don't forget the garters! :icon_wink:

I had a terrible nightmare years ago that my Grandmother had 3 breasts! :icon_eek: I thought I had put that behind me - thanks for the reminder. lol I call my boobies my Teddy Bears because they are so nice to cuddle with! :boobies: