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It's entirely possible for men and women to be "just friends". But you need to dump the "just"; by itself that word betrays a bias within the question. They're friends. The first step in maintaining a quality friendship between a man and a woman is to recognize that friendship by itself is highly valuable. Sometimes friendship *is* the ultimate and most rewarding relationship for two people; you can't think of it as some kind of lesser, consolation prize you settle for instead of sex. The vast majority of the most important, deepest, and enduring relationships in my life have been friendships, and several of those have been with women. And these were not, if you'll accept my word for it, cases of either party settling for friendship instead of a secretly pined-for sexual relationship. Friendships let you explore each other's minds, attitudes, hopes, fears, and enjoy each other's company foremost as two human beings who just happen to be of different genders. Lifelong friendships endure through all kinds of dramatic changes and transitions, and your friends can know you deeper than lovers through accumulated time and experience. It's a different way of engaging with another, whole person that doesn't depend on scheming to bump crotches together. The video might have produced different results if the people polled were older. As samples go, hyper-hormonal college kids who are just starting to figure themselves out and find their place among social hierarchies is a tad biased.

A detailed discussion about screening potential clients is better suited for the SP-only section than the public boards. While some men may be reluctant to provide personal details early in the discussion, there are other ways to qualify them, whether from verification services, references from other companions or other information. The men on this site are like men everywhere. Most are good guys who want the same things we do: the opportunity to spend some mutually-enjoyable time together on terms that are acceptable to both parties with no strings attached. Always recognize that membership in and reputation with a board or website is no guarantee that someone will be a good or a safe client. Similarly, a man who has never contacted a paid companion before and who doesn't belong to any board may be a fabulous client. Everyone starts somewhere! In general, my advice is to take your time screening prospective clients. Be wary of those who insist on meeting right away without giving information about who they are unless you're both very sure that this is the way you want to work and you have help available nearby if you need it. Take a pass on anyone who argues about your rates or demands extras or special consideration. Most troubles begin over conflicts that could have been avoided with clear communication, so make your limits and expectations extremely clear from the outset. For example, if you use condoms for everything (including oral sex performed on him), make sure you say so. Never relax your limits just because you need the money badly, because it's late at night, because you've had too much to drink, because you're tired or depressed or because you're already late paying the rent or another bill. Nothing is more important than your safety at any time. Ever.

Standing on the scale and discovering I have lost 7 pounds since I started my diet. Yay!!

Now that I'm off the cigs, I'm feeling it in my brain as well as my body. I've got many tutorials and documents to review for a personal business goal. I'm absorbing it more efficiently without the smoking effect and distractions. This I didn't expect and thrilled about it. My brain is finally inhaling the oxygen again. :)

Religion is about fear. Our ideas about hell and damnation are usually both about the things we fear the most--pain, alienation, isolation, meaninglessness--and our beliefs about God or gods. Add into the mix the notion of a moral universe, where everything happens for a reason, where the good guys really do win in the end, and where there's some kind of balance or settling of accounts, and we have a very potent concoction. I believe in hell sometimes. When I feel at my worst, I may think I'm living in a corner of it. When I feel misunderstood or lost or angry, I may hope that someone else will end up in whatever version of hell I might design for them. But I know that these are just mind games I'm playing. Ultimately, I don't know about heaven or hell. I do know that the future is an imaginary thing. It doesn't exist. I have only now, this time, this moment, this breath, this heartbeat.... what I do now is what matters.

In light of recent events, I feel compelled to write this message. There has been much talk lately about the increasing prevalence of negative commentary and in-fighting amongst members of Cerb. My history as a hobbyist dates back approximately thirteen years. In that time I've had the pleasure of meeting many incredible ladies, as well as corresponding with many like minded individuals through forums such as these. I have spent a fair amount of time in cities such as Toronto, and as such I am also a member of other boards. Without going into specifics, I can tell you that they have had, and some continue to have their share of problems. In part, that is why I chose to distance myself from them and join the respected Cerb community. Lately, I have begun to feel that those difficulties endemic to other boards have slowly filtered into our own. I would hope that we as a community will take it upon ourselves not to allow this to transpire. Some of the most endearing features of Cerb include acceptance, non-jugement, unity and community. In some sense of the word, Cerb may even be considered a loosely knit family of sorts, albeit (at times) a bit dysfunctional. This is really the situation I'd like to avoid. Our collective intellect, knowledge and sense of togetherness surely merits more than being reduced to petty squabbling. We ourselves are not the enemy. If anything, we should be rallying together to support initiatves such as the constitutional challenge and other such pursuits that hopefully will strengthen the foothold and legitimacy of the adult entertainment industry. Let us be mindful of the fact that we are here for one another. Cerb is not an entity in and of itself; Rather, it is WE who are Cerb. We make up our community and it is we who are ultimately the authors of our success or misfortune. As the dawning of a new year approaches, let's take it upon ourselves to reflect and resolve to rise up and overcome these issues, in order that we may all benefit the community as a whole. To do otherwise would be a disservice to ourselves and the industry we make up and support. Thank you for reading.

Maybe, but I'm sure they - or any others - will contact the OP if they're interested. DoubleN, one thing to say - AFAIK a lot of ladies aren't keen on bachelor parties because of the potential for things to get out of control; this is often made harder by the fact that the person organizing the event probably doesn't personally know everyone who'll be there. I don't mean to imply anything about your friends, of course, but there are some unpleasant people out there, and the ladies have to be careful and ensure their own security is looked after, and ensure that sufficient safeguards are in place to guarantee their own well-being. Also - Tremblant would be a fair bit of travelling, so as poolasaurus said, expect to cover expenses. That may include hotel rooms if you want them in the evening and it'll be too late to travel home the same day. Good luck!

This is a reccomendation for a lady that has been one of my favourites. It is going to be sort of a general reccommendation based on all four of my encounters with her, and specific based on my latest (fourth) encounter with her. Lonna, (formally Pretty Paige) I first met in Toronto in September 2010, under her previous name. I guess what makes her somewhat special to me is that while she is the fourth lady I met when embarking on this lifestyle, she is the first that was a great lady, providing a great encounter. There was nothing about it that needed improvement. I never wrote any reccommendations about her before, at her request. Now some changes have taken place with her, and she is ok with recommendations. Lonna is a GFE, actually an unrushed GFE. Photos on her website are accurate. Our first encounter was, as is usually the case in this lifestyle, more SP/Client, but she made me feel at ease right away, and we got to know one another. But as our encounters have continued, the relationship has evolved, and is more like a friends with benefits than SP/Client. She arrived at my room last night on time, mind you she always arrived on time. As always I was greeted with her nice pleasant smile, a hug and kiss. We sat down, over drinks, and got caught up on old times. Well it seems like old times, last time I saw her was in May 2011. We talked about things going on in our respective lives. Then as things progressed, well we went to the bedroom, for the benefits side of the encounter (although seeing Lonna again is benefit in itself). Details of the benefits are private between Lonna and me. But we both were smiling, 'nuff said. And as I discovered, with Lonna (and some other ladies I have seen on a repeat basis) the intimate side of the encounter seems, at least to me, is much more enjoyable with a lady you have got to know. As we were lying in bed, Lonna turned to me and said she hadn't had a thing to eat all day, and asked if I had supper yet. I replied no. She asked if I'd go downstairs to the hotel restaurant (won't name restaurant or hotel) and have dinner with her. It was an unexpected surprise and bonus. Our time was about over, and she wanted to eat yet didn't want to rush off. We finished off the encounter over a nice dinner. At dinner she gave me a sneek preview of some things to come. It was a very pleasant dinner with good food and great company. With dinner over, we parted with a hug and kiss, looking forward to our next encounter I have seen Lonna four times now, never disappointed, in fact each encounter has been better than the last one. I have an upcoming encounter, a sleepover, with her in February, which will be our fifth time together. If you are looking for a great lady to meet, contact Lonna, you won't be disappointed. And a bonus, she is a travelling lady, so she may come to your city too. As with all ladies, treat her right, like a gentleman should treat a lady

Is there any younger spinner type body girls in ottawa do outcalls to a hotel? I am visiting this friday and would like to meet up. Any suggestions?

Good Evening All, Has anyone seen Kim or Aleksa from EH? I can't seem to find any recos and they intrigue me :) PM pls.

Loved Horrible Bosses!!! Awesome movie.

Extra large coffee :) :) Yum.......Spill on laptop AND Blackberry :( :( F**k

The local Food Bank, mostly via cash donations. They are always on the look out for large freezer bags and empty egg cartons if you want to donate something other then food.

Okay... heeding Cato's advice, I went to the BF. Dead night, but there certainly was one hottie, who was with a gentleman (perhaps even the illustrious Cato himself?). Of course, it was Ariel. After *somebody* monopolized her for a very long time, I finally got my chance to talk to her. Her looks have been described in detail: suffice it to say that she is amazing. What struck me is how good she is with the conversation. Not rushed and very natural. After our fantastic time in the CR, the club had filled up. She could have easily worked the crowd, but stuck around for a drink and small talk. Classy girl...and in case anybody is confused...HOT.

Angelina and myself would be PERFECT for that as we are both bi-sexual and LOVEE pleasing eachother and I am amazing at dancing, but like everyone else said travel expenses would definitely need to be taken care of prior to leaving. You can check out my website www.wix.com/mirella_romania/gfe for all my info and pictures of us!

I will be interested in your comments after the Patriots win next Saturday :)

Why do I get the feeling a hourly rate hotel you need to bring some of this for those into bdsm one of these designed for a person and big question do you get fresh sheets or is the bed still warm from the previous person LOL Kinda posted half tongue in cheek and serious too RG :-)

Ok so no virus on my pc. I did not want to reformat DrLove since my burner won't work anymore and I'm out of memory sticks lol but not to worry, it seems to be contained to my email and my address isn't listed to the recipients. I have changed my password and changed everything to say "this email has been hacked" for my name, city, ect. then I signed up for gmail as suggested. :) I won't open that yahoo addy again and my account should be automaticly deleted in 90 days. Not much fun. I must have opened an email I shouldn't have. It was just used for 'work' so not that big of a deal. It does seem like my mail was being used as some type of spam-what etasman2000 said. Thanks for all your help guys, this tech section on CERB is faster and more helpful than google search! :) Much appreciated!

Dere mister olde dawg, Ma misses done seen yore commershell on yore websight and wen she read about two haairy back gentlemens she done got herself all cranked up. You sees, she aint never been with a hairy backed man, and for shore not with two at the same time. It is are third anniversury and too celebrate she wants me two try to set her up wif these fine loking gentlemens. For ma honey, enything she wants is wat I will gets her. She is a litle shy so I kould only send are photograf taken from behinds us. But, she is a little tiger in bed and bein with a man with a haairy back is going to give these gentlemens awl that they kan handel. So mister olde dawg, kould you please help my litle chikadee? mn2 PS: She only likes the finur things in life so she only looks at the BBM websight, not those oneses like Cerb. PPS: She done jst wispered a sweat nothing into my ear:). she wondurs if YOUSE mite be avalable too? The name Olde dawg sort of turns her on. PPS: Dont thinks you that just bekause we are from litle PEI thats we are kuntry bumpkinses. We knows are way around this techernology and lifstile. PPS: Wood you prefers cash or coulds we trade for a lobster or a bag of PEI taters? She is alredy loooking fur yere responses.

We just wanted the clients to get accustomed to ... ummmm.... ermmmm... ahhhhhhh.... okay, we have a couple of droolers. For the purposes of full disclosure, we actually have three droolers, one of whom is pretty gassy. One other really gassy guy. We think he ate something last year that just won't go away. One of our guys kinda lactates. He won't talk about it. On the upside, he doesn't drool and he is not one of the gassy ones. I mean he does pass wind occasionally, but we haven't had too many complaints. We have two hairy back guys. They usually keep their shirts on except when we have a FB BBM gala; we use their backs to build up static electricity so we can stick balloons to the walls. One of them is a drooler and gassy, the other is the one that ate the scary thing last year. So if you book one of our sasquatch brothers, you know that you will be warm under the sheets. One of our part timers cries a lot upon.... completion. He is getting help. Don't go near the cat. The cat is rather contrary. In fact, don't look directly at the cat. The only one that the cat likes is our milky friend.

wildstallion, some companions may be willing to consider your idea. Keep in mind that most won't travel outside the province or the country with, or to meet, someone they haven't seen before. If you're wanting the lady to travel to the same place as you and your SO, and be available to meet with you privately there, expect to pay for her travel, accommodation and expenses in full, in advance. Most of us won't risk being out of town and suddenly responsible for such costs if your plans change suddenly or your SO finds out what you're up to!

I was thinking about the wonderful members of CERB today and wondering how so many people are doing. So I thought I would start by offering an update on how I am doing with the hopes that I'll hear from some old friends (either privately or publicly). 2011 has truly been the best year of my life. I married the man of my dreams and, after suffering from infertility issues, I finally became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. It happened quite suddenly with an engagement in the new year, an unexpected pregnancy (as we were starting to believe it wouldn't happen for us), a wedding and a Christmas baby. :-) For those of you who have enjoyed the experience, having a baby with the love of your life is the most beautiful thing a person can go through. We wanted a child for so long and shed many tears believing it might never happen for us. Thankfully, God blessed us with the most beautiful baby I have ever set eyes on. She is a wonderful baby who doesn't make a peep unless she's hungry. We're keeping our fingers crossed that this doesn't change. Our newborn is a few weeks old now and just the absolute pride and joy of our lives. My older child has surprised me by being very loving, helpful and mature towards the new baby. The concerted efforts of my husband and I to make sure there is no sibling jealously have worked. :-) We're very sleep deprived (as all parents are) and will be hiring a night nanny shortly to help. Other than the sleep deprivation, I'm the happiest I have ever been. I would love to hear from the wonderful people I had the chance to get to know in 2009. I think of you often and most of you fondly. :-) And to the wonderful friends I have made from the Ottawa area (you know who you are), I'd like to extend an invitation to have you over for dinner and to meet our little angel the next time you are in Toronto. There are a lot of fabulous delicatessens nearby our home and it would be a pleasure to order something and have you over for dinner and to meet our new baby. :-)

That is the hottest thing to watch 2 girls doing that to eachother, I am lucky to have her sexy ass in my face ;)

The Tim Tebow story has certainly captured the attention of fans and media and the attention is garnered on two fronts. Football wise, the man has found ways to win, and the wins have come in a consistently thrilling way by leading the team to 4th quarter and last minute comeback victories. He won at Florida and may be bringing that history with him to Denver. It is the very rare NFL quarterback who steps into the position in his rookie season and becomes dominant. He is not a probowl quarterback by a long shot, but one cannot take away the fact that he has led the Broncos into the playoffs. In the long run for him, I wonder if a quarterback in the NFL can stay healthy with the style of game that he plays, where he is also perhaps their primary running threat. The other reason that he has gained attention is for his overt religious nature. The praying on the field and his quiet manner of speaking of the role of religion in his life have certainly rubbed many people the wrong way. Personally I have a difficult time with those who will not accept that the man has his beliefs, and will not recognize that he has every right to hold them. Religion is a personal matter and he, as with each and every one of us, has his personal right to practice as he sees fit. What is more bothersome to me is the double standard of the media and fans. A prime example even just today is that his team is playing the Steelers, led by quarterback Ben Roethlisberger. THIS man has multiple histories of involvement with underage girls, yet there is little said about that and the NFL has done nothing more than give a slap on the wrist. If you look at the two men and their histories and the media attention as it is focused, it makes one wonder about where our priorities as a society are! I have always been a Packers fan, and of late a Viking fan, but right now, I am pulling for the underdog - Go Tim Tebow and the Denver Broncos.

See, we CAN all get along :)

This is true. In fact at this point I've personally seen more threads about overcoming negativity, or of people succumbing and throwing themselves noisily upon their virtual swords, than I've seen instances of negativity itself. Most of the lamenting posts mention vaguely and broadly that there's been a bunch of something going on, somewhere... but aren't specific. I think this makes the problem seem larger and more persistent than it really is. I'm glad for the statements of determination to keep things positive. But as others have said several times... "let's move on". The best way to keep things positive with each other, is by posting positively. It's a worthy commitment for 2012.

Looks like the twitter feed plug in also puts a cool live twitter stream on your profile as well. See Alexandra-Sky's profile here for example. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?do=getinfo&u=39777