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Rocket science ???? Nope. Basic instructions 101 Great thread and awesome comments. Two things that really bother me in this world is... a:) inability to willingly follow very basic rules and b:) extreme arrogance. And I think both come in to play many times here. A couple I will comment on Quoting Em: "When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever." To me this is a huge discretion issue, a danger issue and total common sense...it can seriously jeopardize the safety as well as personal wellbeing of Emily ....as well as the gentlemen that may visit with her in the future at this hotel. I may not be the sharpest tack in the box perhaps...but that is a pretty simple instruction to follow I am thinking and a very very important one :icon_rolleyes: Quoting Samantha: "Some of the disrespectful ones object to being screened and, rather than saying so politely, insult me by pointing out that I'm just a whore, that I must be planning to set them up somehow or that I'm desperate. These guys are no loss to me!" This I love Samantha !!! The fella can go :aol_poundit: "insult me by pointing out that I'm just a whore" Ahhhhhh yes....the guy that thinks because he has his wallet out and is paying then he is better than you.... that attitude spells SCUM....and once again he can go :aol_poundit: or get one of these perhaps:aol_fakepussy:

I feel the need to start this thread, due to the lack of respect and attention to following simple instructions lately. Ive worded this in reference to no one, just a generalization to a few things. You contact me, we go through screening and agree on the date and time. You are told you will be contacted a few days prior with details to confirm. 3 days prior you are emailed with detailed instructions with a number and a date and time frame to call and confirm on. Scenarios as follows: Scenario A) You don't call within time frame - Encounter is cancelled and time is available Scenario B) You email letting me know you cant call within that time and we agree on another time in which you don't call - Same result as above - encounter cancelled. Scenario C) You call and confirm and encounter goes ahead as planned Scenario D) You email the morning of to ask if we are still on, yet I never heard from you - What do you think the answer to this question is? Scenario E) You leave a voice mail with we emailed and Im calling no name, number or anything else in the message - Chances are the encounter will be cancelled as its very rude to call a number back and say Who's this? And Ive asked you to call me, for discretion I would rather not return the call unless I have been given the ok to do so. We have a system in place that works for our own personal business, if you dont wish to follow instructions, dont waste our time. I value your time and respect your wishes on privacy, discretion and everything else. If you value mine, why does one feel its okay to not follow the simple instructions that I have given. I can be flexible with my confirmation policy when you let me know in advance. I ask you to call as that is how I confirm my dates, I wont email or text you any details so you have to call (my confirmation email is very clear on this), at this point if you don't like this policy it is your time to say that you are declining our date, I wont get mad as I would prefer your honesty over wasting my time and that of someone else who would have enjoyed the visit, but due to the games someone else has played they were unable to visit. When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever. You provide me your number and ask me not to call, I follow your instructions so how hard is it to show the same respect to mine. For an industry where discretion is key, I am just astounded as to why it is expected from me, but not returned by you.

A BIG hug to Nicollete....I am sure you need an extra BIG, strong hug. My heart goes out you hunni!!!!

Days have past, I can not seem to forget my past. I think my love will forever last. The way you touched me. You set my spirit free. I can't seem to forget, the way you pulled me close when I was on my knees. Begging for you to give it to me deeper, please. Talking dirty in my ear. Do as you wish to me, as I have no fear. I love it when you say, " Take all of it dear". Your body against mine. I love it more each and every time. I love it when you tell me, " God damn girl you are fine". I miss your taste. You know me, I never waste. I love it when you shoot it all over my face. Take control of me. Or let me set your body free. I will open your eyes and it will be as if it was the first time you have ever seen. I have naughty thoughts. I mean lots. I don't even ever expect you to tie the knot. I just want to please you. I want to tease you you. I also know, these are things you already know. I am twisted and naughty. I have a tight body. I want you now. We will make this happen some how. My dreams tonight, will be very fowl. As I said, " I want you now". Missing you Carley xox

On one of the news clips i saw the girl was young and said "i had a drink and dont remember a thing from the rest of the night, woke up the next morning beside him dazed and confused". had she been herself that night she never would have been in his video. He claims to love native girls because they have none in hawii and targetting them. but targeting the young, financially struggling girls and feeding them drugs is a problem in wpg that we were moving past over the years and he set that and the industry back years. all they end up leaving, well the girl i know has left him with a bad addiction and made no money. He is not a good man who as a sp, i am looking for to the day he is in custody being everyones sp there not making any money. give them a little time to extradite him to finish up his warrant and do some more free sp work there :) The number he put on the dirty, posters and adds on bp are all the same number so be careful!! i dont feel these girls are in a safe place or you calling is putting yourself in one. on the same note if anyone has a friendship/seen the girl in the past and keep in touch please let her know she can call me anytime to show her how to independant and NOT need this 80's wannabe pimp and make money independantly. i would love to help them out at no cost or favor!! and mrjetz.....i hope you see this, my number is on my add and love to talk to you in person to tell you what i think. :)

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I don't mean to cause any panic amongst all the lovely SP's (especially the one's who offer outcalls) but if you do a quick search on the internet it's not hard to find a wide assortment of spy cameras. Actually it would probably be a good idea to familiarize yourself with the different kinds so you know what to look for. You just might be on film in some shady guys private collection and not even know it. As for me the last thing I want to see is my fat ass on film. Even if I did put it on the internet it would just be confusing to most people,they would all be asking themselves "Why is that walrus attacking that sexy lady?" LOL. But seriously be careful ladies cause you never know.

I am continually amazed at how in one breath somone will ask me to be discrete, but later refuses to provide me with the same. Remember that we are above all business owners, as well as real people. Give me the same respect anyone else deserves. I might be a whore, but you're the one that wants to play. Be nice.

To eat Mcdonalds naked, with Keissy and some very lucky gentleman.... " Wifey, I think you dropped some ketchup, let me lick that off of you" Just Kidding, as much as that would be fun... I LOVE romance, so intimacy with candles, soft music playing the the background and a great bottle of bubbles, all amidst some mind blowing intimacy that goes on for what seems like forever....and heck if there is 3 of us, even better....

Just some quick additional comments. I make initial contact usually by email, unless the lady has another preferred method of contact My personal preference is text over phone call, only because if in public, a text message is private, where as phone calls, depending on where you are, or the lady is, can be overheard by other people. And you can reply to a text at your convenience. That said, if the lady wishes a phone call, I'll happily oblige, I'll just ask what is a good time to call...and me, maybe overcautious, but I leave my apartment, and find an area to park away from everyone to discretely make the call And I use text messages usually for final confirmation, giving room number etc (usually I do outcalls)...but I'm not one of those texters (or sexters) looking to strike up conversations....not only do I have a life, I respect the fact the ladies have a life too. The ladies have simple instructions designed for their comfort, safety and scheduling needs. They allow us...yes allow us to be alone with them intimately, the least we can do is follow simple basic instructions Some ramblings RG

Although always welcomed and encouraged as being a member of this "recommendation board", no client should feel obligated or pressured to write a reco for anyone. And it's just plain tacky to ask them to do so. Period.

Despite my best intentions, my punting activities have been much reduced in scale since Christmas, but I was able to see Roksi yesterday during her visit to Ottawa. I had a very, very good time with her. I'd been eager to meet her since first seeing her pics on the Garden of Eden website. Voluptuous, gorgeous body, amazingly attractive and desirable, with a narrow waist, and great curves. And a redhead in her pics. Perfection. So we met yesterday. She was wearing THE red dress, the one in her pics. SO beautiful. And the face, lovely, youthful, smiling, just as I had imagined her. The eyes: green-grey, with a sparkle and twinkle that never left during our time together. Enchantment. That's what I felt. Her lyrical Irish accent added to the charm. Her hair does have reddish overtones, but she has gone back to her natural brunette colour. We talked for a while, feeling comfortable in each other's presence, before I asked to unzip her dress, and admire its contents. This admiration became heated, and turned into a long kissing/DFK session, before we went off to the bedroom for more playtime. I got lost in the ensuing orals, as she carried me away to heights of enjoyment through her skills (by the way, she has a tongue stud, her one piercing). As I in turn performed oral on her, I wound up accidentally turning on the television with my foot through our contortions; this didn't really break the mood, as we were laughing and playing throughout. It was intense but fun at the same time. I love the way she tosses her head, and her sounds, and her thrusting. Main course was great, in various positions, always with that smile, that knowing, delightful look that she does so well, with the constant sparkle in the eyes. And tight, very tight. More oral, she knows I love it, and we go at it again with a passion. Then cuddling, more laughter, and a farewell, but a definite repeat for me. Thank you Roksi and GoE. My first GoE experience, a really good one. Halifax, treat her well. She'll be there today. And give her a kiss for me.

My 15 year old cat Alex passed away early this morning after dying in his sleep. He seemed fine yesterday morning eating with his brother who is from the same litter. I questioned whether or not to put him down yesterday and by having these concerns, I think subconsiously I knew he was ready to die. He was a kind and gentle cat and in some ways he had similar characterisitcs to his owner. Always there when you needed him but never put up with any crap like when he became confrontational with a Siberian Husky when walking by my property. He always used to run out of the house and climb the tree and once saw this dog sniffing around leisurely walking on the edge of my lawn. He chased him right down the street as the poor owner who was pregnant was trying to regain control of her dog while my cat was fighting him. He was the alpha male of my household and he was stubborn. As a young cat, he was hit by car and survived with a crushed lung and broken leg. As a result he walked with a limp and had arthritis which is what ultimately slowed him down for good as he progressed in age. When they say cats have nine lives, he would be that cat. He once rode to work under the hood of my neighbor's car unscathed when he could have been severely injured or killed. He took a turn for the worst last night in the early evening and looked like he had given up. He was basically limp with a blank stare and had shallow breathing. As I held him in my arms sobbing uncontrollably, I knew his time was up. I took him to my bed, wrapped in a blanket and he slept there beside me. I woke up in the middle of the night and he was gone. He led a good life and had been with me since I lived at home as a teenager. He came from a litter of 4 by the family cat. He had been with me when I had my first apartment, when I went to school, got married and had my first baby, my first home and when I moved to my second home. He was there through some rough moments in my life and always offered unconditional love. And he loved my hair as he would always sit beside me on the arm of my sofa when I'd get home and snuggle into me. He was always there. As I sit here writing this, although I cannot help but be sad, I also have to think that he did have a good life and that this should be celebrated. He was a special cat as all of our pets are to us and he will forever be remembered. He was a part of my family and won't apologize to those who just think he was a cat or some animal who is now dead and to just get over it. I'm glad he passed the way he did at home in familiar surroundings and with those who cared about him. R.I.P. Alex. You will be missed.

:ThankYou:LOL Should I change it?

I am impressed with the agreement of the gentlemen on this issue, I have been asked for discounts in lieu of service quality, services, length of time as well as for economic reasons. I do not lower my quality of service or length of time and I would say I am experiencing the same economic trends the clients are. In addition I do not receive paid sick days, paid vacation or paid stat days, any time I am not working is unpaid time. Two memorable experiences for me are: the client who told me times was tough and expenses high but agreed to required donation and then arrived in a Cadillac SUV. I bit my tongue in suggesting to him that he could lower his expenses by obtaining a less expense vehicle and save on payments, insurance and fuel... but my favorite of all time was the potential client who suggested he could forgo the gf experience for less money. I offered the ultimate gfe in that i wouldn't shave my legs, dress in track pants and nag him about where our relationship was going, he turned me down... I provide you my service options and rates in advance, I do not ask you for an extra "tip" do not ask my for a discount

As of a few months ago, my latest fantasy is: Part 1 Part 2 :biggrin:

What is the male equivalent of "Chatty Cathy"? LOL Way to go my dear friend!

That poem touched me, I have never met you before Carley but now I think you and I could have an excellent connection. I want to touch you, talk dirty in your ear, have my body against yours, I want you to taste me, take control of you etc..

I would be Lollipop Bradley. Hilarious. or my cat now and teen years house street name- Kittannah Lacroix. Oh and if I were to change my cerb name.....I LOVE the name Sunshine. ;)

No discussion of monsters under the bed would be complete without these guys. And one of them was called Maurice. Coincidence?

I'm so, so sorry to hear about the loss of your little companion. I know how hard that experience is -- it's full-on honest-to-god grief. Good for you for writing about it here. Big hugs. I'm a huge lover of dogs, and I've lost two in my time... in my case, by having them put down. The first one was a dog I brought home from the Humane Society, a little broken-down stiff-limbed little middle-aged dog who had been in a puppy mill all her life. They weren't even going to put her up for adoption she was so sickly, but I discovered her at the groomer's where she'd been cleaned up after her rescue, and took her home. She had a few good years, with probably the most love and care she'd ever had, before her past caught up with her and her health failed. I thought I was ready for the experience of putting her down, having watched her decline, and knowing it was the right decision... but no, it was much, much more wrenching and sorrowful than I had prepared myself for. Lots and lots of whole-body sobbing. The second time was a dog given to me by a relative, who found her "too mischievous". I got her at age 6, and she lived with me for seven years. Finally she started to fail too -- heart problems -- and while I was able to treat her symptoms and keep her happy for almost a year, things eventually got worse. I made the hard decision, but once again her health was so poor that it was clear it was time, for her own sake. I was a bit more braced this time, and got through the injections and her death with moderate sorrow. But then... I'd arranged to have her cremated, and so I returned to the vet's a week later to collect her ashes. While waiting at the desk for the little box, I found myself looking over at the waiting area where people were sitting patiently with their pets, where my dog and I had waited together so many times over the preceding year during her illness. Felt it coming... and just managed to claim the little box and get out to my car before I totally lost it. Grief for all the years we'd had, and that were now over. I tell you all this not to intrude on your grief with tales of my own... but just to say I really do understand, and feel for you. I waited many years before getting another pet. I have two dogs now, both three (I got them at 8 weeks old from the same litter -- brother and sister!). They're in great shape and I love every hour I get to spend with them. And knowing how the end goes, and that it's inevitable, really does make me value this time I have with them that much more. I hope that, down the road, you can find a new little companion too.

Well I have already competed as a bodybuilder at the Nationals and won my class but alas no ProCard was ever awarded to me. So my dream would be to have already received my ProCard and compete with the best pros in the world. The biggest dream would be to emerge the winner amongst all these fabulous bodybuilders. Go big or stay home....

I think the only way I could ever do this is if I have headphones in my ears with the John Williams Superman theme blaring! That would be awesome! .........on second thought....maybe not......because then I would forever associate that music with shitting my pants... And then there's THIS fuckin' lunatic who in 1960 free fell from the edge of SPACE! As in OUTER Space! As in "A long time ago in a galaxy, far, far, away; boldly going where no one has gone before" kind of fucking Space! This was his view as he jumped. This illustration is not an exaggeration And here's the actual video of the fall from his POV Totally barf inducing if you don't like heights What. The. Fuck?!

I tend not to look at these books to interpret my dreams, as what an apple may symbolize to me, may not be the same for you. But instead I look at the emotion behind the dream and apply it to what may happing in my life..

I feel so much compassion for those who have shared their stories in this thread. So many of these trials are difficult for me to imagine. But what I do understand is that we all struggle. Everyone knows pain. Everyone could tell a sad story. I think the act of sharing these is very powerful. My pain has been largely internally generated. One of the hardest but best things I ever did for myself was to admit that I was struggling with mental illness. You could call my particular demons depression and anxiety. I had to, and continue to have to reassure myself that this doesn't mean I'm weak or pathetic, and to fight the messages my brain is sending me- self destructive thoughts I no longer believe, but that I generate anyway. Fighting mental illness- like most other illnesses- is incredibly exhausting. It can feel like your brain is against you, when logic tells you one thing but your emotions are louder. It's hard but necessary work. Even now I hesitate to post this, but I'm telling myself that my story is important too. Partly it's the fear of stigma around mental illness. Many people do take it as a sign that you are broken or damaged somehow. But the silence and shame around this issue is part of what makes it so much harder for people experiencing mental illness to seek help. 1 in 5 Canadians will experience mental illness in their lifetime. That's not small potatoes. It's important for me understand that even though I sometimes go through bouts of feeling like hell, I'm still a complete person. Someone worth knowing, with fabulous insights and exuberance and love to share. This particular kind of trial doesn't define me. I am much more than my pain. I wanted to share this for the others on this board who have similar experiences. Because sometimes it's incredibly hard to move forward and face your pain when shame and fear of appearing weak confounds your already confounded brain. But mental illness doesn't make you weak, and the process of healing can make you understand how incredibly strong you really are. This thread humbles me. It reminds me of exactly how much moxie us humans can conjure when we need to. Much love and thanks to everyone who has shared- and to those who have not, as well.

Well these are for you Erotic Emily. ( They are easy to find but it is hard to find ones that will not get me banned for being too explicit) One of the best places to search in on www.bing.com go to images and enter what you are looking for. I just looked up the title of the thread!

My brother had this poster in colour back in the early 70's of Disny characters behaving out of Disny character. Not as easy to see in this two tone version but we have Pluto peeing on Mickey's picture, Goofy is doing Minnie at bottom left. Mid left the 7 Dwarves are taking turns with Snow White right beside Huey, Duey and Luey looking up Daisy Duck's skirt. Dumbo is taking a dump from the air. Mid right, Prince Charming has disocvered Sleeping Beauty's other charms while just above them the Big Bad Wolf seems to be threatening the Little Pigs. Bottom right Tinkerbell is dancing for Capt. Hook and the boys. I believe this poster was actually banned so I wish we still had it. I remember my Dad not being too pleased when he saw it hanging in our room. I think we had to move it to the basement.

I was going to try to stay away from this thread but over the last 24 hours I seem to keep coming back to it, reading what others have said and empathizing with those who have shared their stories. What has ultimately brought me back here is the wisdom of Spud when he added his thought that writing and sharing is therapeutic, and truer words may never have been spoken. Since joining CERB I have made references to my personal story, but never did speak about the one thing that was perhaps the most difficult for me to 'do'. My wife, purely by chance discovered that she had a massive brain aneurysm. The doctors were amazed that it had not burst previously and she and I considered ourselves very lucky that it had been discovered, because there is in fact a 'fix' for it. The fix is a relatively new procedure, and we knowingly went into it being aware of the risks which were quite high with death and a debilitating stroke being the primary ones. It involved placing platinum wire coils the width of a human hair into the aneurysm in order to fill it and strengthen the walls of the blood vessel, and this is all done remotely without invasive surgery by feeding the wire through the blood vessels from the groin and all the way up into the brain. We even joked about the end result - that she and I would be the bionic superhero duo, her with her platinum brain and me with my extra little bit of titanium that lets me walk. The surgery did not go well. The three hour surgery stretched into seven hours before the surgeons came out to see me. I knew long before then that we were in trouble. The artery had ruptured above the aneurysm, in effect causing a massive stroke. By the end of an additional five hours in surgery three neurosurgeons were working on her. In that interim period occurred the first of several things that I had to do that were the most difficult things I have ever had to do. That was to call two of my daughters who were in Ontario and BC respectively, to explain what was happening, and saying yes, you better come home, now. Technically she survived the surgery and the surgeon tried to be positive with me that there was still a chance that with time and rehabilitation the woman that I knew might survive, but that she would be a very different woman from the one that went into surgery. This brought a situation whereby for the second time in hours I had to do what was one of the most difficult things that I ever had to do. That was to respect her wishes and tell the surgeons that her wish and mine would be to not prolong her life if it was being maintained solely by use of extreme measures. I still do not know if the staff protected my mental health by telling me that as the next hours progressed she deteriorated more to the point that they declared her brain dead or did they respect our wishes and allow it to happen? The saving grace to this story, which I have written about previously, is that five people received organ donations and we have been in contact with several of them and they are doing well. Two other people who had been blind can now see. Life can change in the blink of an eye and what may be my biggest and the hardest thing to ever do in my life is yet unaccomplished - to be able to accept, and live a useful life from here on out. That is a work in progress.

So I decided to TOFFT once again. Got home from work this afternoon in a pretty bad mood once again, been like this since I got back to Canada, and thought I should get rid of some of this stress somehow! Now what better way than to do a bit of shagging!!! ;) I wasn't really getting anywhere to solve the situation, so I thought I would take a look on a couple of sites to see what was happening. Noticed an ad that said, "Mary, NEW 22". So I checked it out. The pics were clearly taken at home, and not the best, but you can clearly see what a spectacular body she has from them!!! The ad said to text, so I did. I wasn't sure about how the conversation was really going, but got the answer back I was looking for and decided to book an hour. When I got to the hotel door, I was stunned as to how good looking this woman is. What a bombshell!!!! She's about my height, 5'7 long lean legs with short blonde hair. Beautiful crystal blue eyes, and rock hard body!!! We started a conversation and I could tell she was nervous, told her not to worry it wasn't exactly my first time!!! LOL That's when she told me it was her first night working as an SP, and I was her first ever client!!! No worries, I kind of took things over at that point. I know a little bit about this game and made her feel at ease. This woman loves to kiss, and can she ever kiss!!! Delicious!!! She is very much a safe GFE, but totally worth it. Lots of energy and did Mary get right in to it!!! Very responsive and playful. It's always YMMV, I don't like to over set expectations, but I will repeat for sure! Happy I could be your first ever client Mary...look forward to next time!!!! MUAH

what about one of my duo lovers..hehe miss Gabriella or Lou

I have been a member of CERB for a while now and relied on recommendations here to find SPs. However, I never write any recos and I realized lately it will be problem if it (the recos) dry up. I decided to start contributing and I will write my first reco soon.

Writing a recco.....quite frankly I suck at it ! I can tell a long joke in a minute but almost have to take a day off work to have enough time to write a recco ..... the words don't flow it seems....funny how that goes. I have read very few so I guess that factors in too. I realized a few months back how important it is to you ladies so I try now. I don't believe in explicitly detailed recco's but to each his/her own. I also see it as important because I am seeing so many posts now ...... "have you seen so and so and how was she?....please post or PM me please" As said previously a short recco or addition to a previous recco ie.... "I had a great time and will definately repeat" or "a must see" ..."she is hot" ;) anything will help the both the ladies and the fellas ! Well I guess that's Lee's opinion on this topic in a nutshell :) Have a great day and for God's sakes keep your stick on the ice ;)

Recommendations are lovely things, but not essential for a companion's success in this industry. The great majority of clients either don't know about review or recommendation boards or they know about them but don't post on them for all kinds of reasons. The character of reviews on some of the boards is so mean-spirited and destructive that I'm not sure it's to any woman's advantage to be reviewed on them. Indeed, there have been more than a few notorious campaigns on some of the review boards where a cadre of members have chosen to target some of the best-reviewed ladies, posting so many unfavourable reviews that the companions were eventually driven out of the business or forced to re-invent themselves and start over after taking an enormous financial hit. At the same time, positive reviews are too often dismissed as shill unless posted by long-standing members who have written a great deal on the site. Paid companions who are over 40 or who are larger can do very well in our industry, but usually won't be reviewed anywhere nearly as often as young women. This is not because there's anything wrong with them, but because clients seem more interested in keeping their liaisons with them private for a host of personal reasons. While recommendations and reviews can help identify a potentially suitable companion, there are many ways to find us. Some paid companions don't purchase a lot of online advertising, usually because we have a network or client base that's large enough to keep us busy. Even so, Google is a great resource since most companions' websites are optimized for search engines. Everyone is different, of course. What one man enjoys won't interest another, or the way that a companion expresses herself may be more engaging for some men than for others. The best thing is to take a bit of time, exchange some e-mail and perhaps a phone conversation or two. With a bit of thought and care, you should be able to find a companion who can provide you with the kind of experience you want to have.

This is a recommendation board? what? all this time i thought it was a bunch of people getting it on...hahaha..kidding

To speak from the other side, I offer this opinion. Juggling personal and professional lives is no different whether a lady tours or is local to a city. Life happens whether you are in one city or on the road, and lets be honest WE have all had to cancel at one point for one reason or another, I have and its a part of life. Things come up on both sides its something no one has any control over so we must just learn to accept it. I'm on the road 22 days a month, and yes if something happens at home, I cancel my trips and leave - family first and foremost ALWAYS. I would expect anyone that i spend time with to have the same priorities. We as companions off companionship and lasting memories, not brain surgery so this is a case where real life takes precedence. This is a luxury to indulge in for some men, for others it is a way of life. For some ladies this is a business and for others it is an occasional fly by night endeavour. I reference is no way to describe a ladies level of professionalism a reference is about safety END OF STORY.(a reference is given from one lady to another, when you provide the ladies contact info to the lady you wish to visit) A recommendation on the other hand is something written to vouch for a ladies accuracy in how she describes herself as well on the experience you provided to you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the experience provided is 99% based on chemistry. Each lady is different and what works with some will not work with all. The best way to find what you are seeking is search the ladies you are interested in, follow their preferred method of contact and communicate - if she wants to know about you, tell her as well in return if you have questions that are not answered on her website, now is the time to ask in a respectable manor. And just maybe you should take a second look at where you are finding the ladies you visit with, if the only web presence they have is on CL or similar and they don't advertise her (its free too, so the cost is no excuse)That being said I am sure there are some reliable ladies there, but do you really feel like TOFTT every time on that site? If they dont know of this site, tell them....No one will refuse free exposure from a welcoming site and positive place. This board is about positive feedback and discussion. If the lady you are interested in has no feedback, do as others do and ask about her - some people need a nudge to post the recco or they forgot. Others will PM you as they want to keep their date private. Possibly no one has met her either, if she is new that is also a possibility. If someone notifies you to cancel on either side, I look at it as a sign or respect, sometimes no notice can be given due to the nature of the situation.

Well Andy I have finally changed out of my Tux and taking a break from the partying ...... Just having a little trouble with the my eyes still ..........

It's taken me more than a year to see Roksi. Not for lack of trying. It just seems that life and circumstances conspired to keep us apart. Finally, last week, we met for the first time. The wait was well worth it. I had arranged a 9 AM breakfast rendezvous... my preferred appointment time. Making my way up to her room, I contemplated one last time what it might be like to have Roksi for breakfast. As she opened the door and I stepped inside, there standing before me, looking seductively demure, was the girl of my dreams. Picture perfect too! Wearing the same pink bikini featured in her recently posted (new) indy pics, Roksi looked like she had just stepped out from one of them. Beautifully shaped, toned and nearly flawless, I could see immediately that her photographer must have had a very easy time with her touch-ups. Still trying to convince myself that I was no longer dreaming, reality landed with a 'smack" as we embraced for a warm hug and a sweet-tasting kiss. For the first time I was able to look into Roksi's sparkling and slightly mischievous Irish eyes. What a beautiful woman. After a quick shower and some chit-chat, we got comfortable on the bed and began what became nearly an hour of mutual exploration and exhilarating lovemaking. I soon discovered Roksi's eyes betrayed her slightly mischievous nature and her penchant for playful teasing. Our fun physical session was sprinkled liberally with naughty quips and sexy banter. Knowing this was my first taste of Irish Cream, one by one, as I acquainted myself with her more intimate charms, she would ask me whether I liked her Irish "this" or Irish "that". A very fun down-to-earth girl. A sweet lass indeed. While Roksi appreciated the attention I gave her, it was soon deliriously apparent to me that "giving" is a turn-on for her too. Her oral skills are among the best I have ever received. I especially enjoyed the way she seemed to relish playing with me; commenting whenever she could feel me responding to her actions. With Roksi there is lots of eye contact. It was as though she took delight in watching me twitch at every flick of her deft tongue and writhe each time her eager mouth slowly engulfed a part of me. I could have easily spent the entire session at the mercy of her talented hands and mouth. I could have, but I didn't, because that would have meant forfeiting the rock'n finish we eventually shared. Face-to-face, missionary style, gazing into her beautiful smiling eyes and kissing her soft delectable lips (now aroused, they were feeling slightly fuller). Magnificent. Afterwards, a little pillow talk, where I gained further appreciation of this woman's intellect and ambition. It turned me on just listening to her and looking at her gorgeous face. I was ready to start over again, but alas, time was up... past due in fact. When we began, Roksi had "warned" me there would be no going back after getting a taste of Ireland. A wee bit of tongue-in-cheek, yes, but certainly prophetic of my intention now for many repeat visits to see this gem from the Emerald Isle. Thank you Roksi. Once again I find myself dreaming about you. However, this time it is about next time. See you again soon.