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I was rather disappointed that all of the gentlemen who practically begged me to come to Fredericton and Saint John did not contact me while I was here. And I do see gentlemen same day, time permitting, so it's not like it would have been difficult to book with short notice. I now understand why touring ladies insist on deposits. Sad, but true that if you intend on seeing a lady and then don't even bother to follow through, it does not instill a lot of confidence to return to that city.

Guys who practically beg you to come to their city and when you're there, don't follow through. Next time, deposits, for sure!

The magic has no age. For me it's all in the attitude. Of course grooming etc....is important but personality turns me on. I am bubbly and full of energy, go with the flow. If you have no flow and are mechanical, I will respond in kind. As I write this I realize that I can't find the words to describe how the magic actually happens. For me, age is inconsequential as I have had wonderful experiences with 20yr olds right up to 75yr olds. A connection of some kind makes it wonderful and I am so sorry that I am unable to articulate my exact meaning.

I think that ultimately you are the only person who can decide if you were "foolish" to lend her the money. You refer to her now as a friend ....how many of your male friends would you lend money to for an evening of gambling if they were "tapped out" ? Here's a couple of thoughts for you to consider 1.There's 2 types of cons...the short game...and the long game. Make sure that she's not priming you for her "victory lap" 2. What exactly are your intentions in this friendship? Are their issues of co dependancy lurking here? You seem like a very intelligent guy....Be Careful!!! This from someone with too much experience (unfortunately!!!!) (from my mobile)

Well not much can be said to this thread that has not already been discussed in another one last year mostly in regards to Moncton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=49878 To be honest, I hate more than anything to remove a city from my list of places I travel too, but it is hard to want to visit in a city where you get disrespected, haggled and treated like a piece of fast food. I travel, I pre-book and I DO NOT visit last minute (as do MANY other ladies) Why do we work this way? to ensure that we have bookings to cover the expenses as well to allow time for ourselves. This may be our means of a form of work right now, but we do have lives outside the hotel room. When I travel I do a heck of a lot more than sit in my room and wait for an email to come through. If I book spa time or a dinner date with a girl friend that time is spoken for as is any time reserved for a date. I like to plan my day - as do most people and when I plan personal time that time is taken. Three different ladies have posted on this thread already, and I can only guess that any other ladies that post here will be adding to the disappointment with their Moncton experiences. When I have had a not very postive trip to a city - I do go back a second and third time as timing and other factors can be a big deal in some cities. With that being said if it does not get any better I wont be coming back. When I am asked from other ladies that travel about cities I am very honest about the experiences and when they have been disastrous (like Moncton) I share as last thing I want to hear about is another lady getting no-showed and disrespected. What is a great client to one lady can be the chronic no-shower to another. It's not the case of a few bad apples in Moncton, it's more like almost the whole garden. We write ads, all the details are in them (and in some cases up to a month before we visit) so I dont get what the issue is with Moncton all I can say from a personal perspective is in Saint John and Fredericton there are no issues, people keep their encounters, follow instruction respect us making it enjoyable to visit those cities. I guess since the situation clearly is not getting better in Moncton, the option is to head to one of the other cities for an encounter, and if you make an appointment I sugget you keep it. This is one of those cases where the reality of the situation is worse than you realize and I don't blame ladies for not wanting to visit there.

I've met both Nathalie and Megan before, separately, so when they recently started offering massage duos... well, there was only one sensible thing to do. Sign up! And so I did. Making arrangements was quite ridiculously easy. And so I arrived at Megan's incall already breathless with anticipation... which meant that I had precious little breath to spare when this happened. And then this happened. Okay, that's not quite how it was - you'll have to imagine less underwear. You're OK with that? Thought so :) Well, the ladies didn't take long getting each other naked... and me too :) Off for a shower with Nathalie, and then back for a massage, which was awesome (I'm sure Nathalie and Megan had their hands on each other as much as they were on me, but I got to watch, so I wasn't complaining)... and then bodyslides. Lots and lots of bodyslides. And then an interlude so that Megan and Nathalie could give each other bodyslides. Which was... well... I'd say it was incredibly sexy, but it was so far beyond sexy that we're going to have to invent entirely new words for it. Hell, we're going to have to invent an entirely new language, 'cos the incoherent noises I was making at the time just won't cut it. There will now be a short pause for... recollections. Okay, thanks for waiting :) So... where was I? Yes, what happened after that... suffice to say it was the stuff dreams are made of. I know this with absolute confidence, because my dreams have been made of it ever since. Time for another shower to clean up (with Megan this time) and then, alas, time to go. But there will still be happy memories... lots of them.

I am sure there are some gentlemen in Moncton and surrounding areas that make keeping thier appointment a priority or even bothiering to book an appointment at all. On my last visit I was lucky to meet one respectful and kind gent. Unfortunatly this is not enough to warrant a trip to a city and I am in the processs of deciding if I will ever return. This is not my first visit where I have been cancelled, no showed, and had my donation bickered about. Last trip I even had one person have to leave half way in to the visit and he wanted half his money back. These are just a few things that turn a SP off to visiting an area. These problems exist everywhere to a degree but in Moncton it is the absolute norm and not an exception. I have also noticed another prominent lady that has posted she will no loner be touring the Moncton area. This is not the first person I have heard complaining that there is a lack of SP's in Moncton, perhaps gentlemen if you start to make seeing us a priority like any other appointment you have scheduled you will be fortunate enough to see quality ladies on a regular basics. The way I feel right now I thnk I"d need to have any dates in Moncton prepaid before I get there. Many gentlemen in other areas do this anyway so perhaps this could be one way to show good faith and have your city visited by touring ladies again. Otherwise and sadly you appear to be lonley and it may just get worse.

Well, I have been a member here for a good amount of time but it was only today that I realized you could see who gave you rep points by using the User CP. (Never scrolled down to the bottom of the page lol) It always puzzled me when people thanked me for giving them a rep. I thought to myself that perhaps I should spend more time viewing the posts that I made so that I could thank someone if they had given a rep to my post. So, for anyone who have given me rep points and I didn't notice (and therefor did no thank you) a great big THANK YOU!!! Blond moment (err couple of years) over for the day!

I'm going away for a few weeks from this coming weekend, and won't be checking into cerb till late July, so I wanted to say farewell to my friends on here, and to apologise for any pm's that go unanswered. I'll catch up with you all later. Meanwhile, have fun, keep those social groups bubbling on here, and enjoy the summer. I'll miss you all. Thanks for a great time lately (you know who I mean :)), and I'll see you soon. (I'll be around till the weekend though).

I suppose it "was" an interesting idea :) The "now-closed" kind of says it all (to me). I'm not sure what kind of clients they would attract for free and even though a brothel is definitely not my scene I'd be sure to avoid one with cameras :)

Well going to a brothel isn't my cup of tea anyway. But if I knew it was wired to videotape encounters and stream them on the net, I sure as hell wouldn't step foot in that brothel, even if they "promised" not to videotape me. To me encounters are private between the lady and gentleman, not something for the world to see My two cents RG

So glad to hear that everything worked out for the first Halifax get together. Sounds like it was a great time. Sorry I missed it. Congrats everyone.

I don't think the ladies question that there are legitimate reasons for cancelling an appointment, the problem is when guys book when they know they probably won't show up. Maybe sometimes it's malicious and maybe sometimes they just don't realize that missing an appointment costs the lady money, pisses her off, she doesn't come back and tells other ladies of her experience here in NB. No shows are bad for all of us.

No... we just love to text with you lovely ladies! ;)

Yes, happens often. Sometimes someone will contact me with a bunch of questions and when I direct them to my site they say never mind. Laziness?

Get down, baby!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v41sEavtJ3E

Spending time with Angela, taking her to a few favorite spots in Fredericton:) Roof top patio, walk along STJ River....Finally some sun!! Poor girl must think the sun doesnt shine in NB...lol:)

Au contraire, Meg......you articulated it perfectly. It doesn't matter if you're the giver or the givee, "it's" either there, or it isn't. I cannot remember who the lady is, but in her ads, she states that she has that "je ne sais quois". That's what we all look for.

Amelia found something I posted funny. Made me feel awesome that some gets my odd sense of humor!

I guess I would say this is the highlight of my night. I'm sitting in my backyard with the fire pit going, a blanket, a corona and my laptop. It's smells so nice and it's so peaceful. Feels almost like I'm camping.

Quite apart from that, quite a few companies keep track of what sites their employees visit, and how often and for how long. They're allowed to, since you're using their network and probably a computer they own. There are some things that my employer simply does not need to know :)

Wow!! Not a chance may I ever going to go even near CERB or even my CERB-related gmail at work. My office layout is sort of open-concept, 3-4 people can slightly turn their heads and clearly see my screen.

Dementia patients denied sex in nursing homes People diagnosed with dementia may not be able to make some financial decisions but still consent to a relationship. The sexual expression of people with dementia in aged care homes is being needlessly denied, say researchers. A team from the Australian Centre for Evidence-Based Aged Care at La Trobe University in Melbourne reports its findings online in the Journal of Medical Ethics. There is no reason why people can't enjoy a healthy sex life until the day they die, an Australian researcher says. "There is no reason why people can't enjoy a healthy sex life until the day they die and it's been shown to be hugely important to psychological and physical wellbeing," first author Dr. Laura Tarzia tells the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. And yet, she says, sex between people in aged care homes is seen as a bit taboo, especially if they have dementia. When staff notice a resident developing a relationship with another resident they often take the advice of the family on what to do next, says Tarzia. She says if the family is uncomfortable with the relationship then the staff will keep the resident apart from the person they want to have a relationship with. Tarzia says the family may be uncomfortable because they feel the other parent is being "replaced" or because they are concerned about the wellbeing of the elderly person. "Obviously sexual abuse needs to be avoided, but we shouldn't assume that someone with dementia who is having sex is being abused," says Tarzia. She says research shows many people think that sexual expression should not be a priority for elderly people. Tarzia says this ageist attitude persists despite the fact sexual expression is known to be very important to many people throughout their life, into their 90s. Consensual relationships Tarzia says people can be opposed to relationships between residents with dementia because they are concerned the sex may not be "consensual". People with dementia are often declared unable to give consent when it comes to legal and financial decisions, says Tarzia. For this reason, she says, it is often assumed they are not capable of giving sexual consent either. "We're arguing this is an inappropriate way to address the issue of sexuality," says Tarzia. "Just because someone has dementia doesn't mean that they can't consent to having a relationship." She says staff should be able to tell when people with dementia are in a consensual relationship with someone. "It will be clear from their behaviour that they're happy and that they're enjoying themselves," says Tarzia. She says she appreciates that aged care facilities have a duty of care, but harm can also come from denying people the fundamental human right of sexual expression. "You have got to remember these people are adults, they're not children and yes they do have a diagnosis of dementia but that doesn't mean they can't make decisions for themselves about a lot of things," says Tarzia. "People should ask themselves whether they would want their own children telling them whether they could have sex with someone. I think most people would say 'no'." In 2007, a study of Americans aged 57 to 85 living in the community suggested that sex remains an important part of lives for many but sexual problems often aren't brought up with physicians.

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Just saw Katrine and she was amazing. The atmosphere was erotic, she made me feel at ease. The massage was followed by a body slide that generated my blood circulation all at the same area. A glamour girl that needs to be visit. I will be back real soon. Thank you Katrine for your expertise :P longer next time... XoX

I should clearly be training for a triathlon, because yesterday I ran, swam, and biked for hours. And as soon as I finish these oats I'm going to go do it again. Ah! It's a good day to be alive.

This is more a highlight of the month to come. PEI being PEI, company is the norm through the summer. I have already had visitors and it starts again today. Friends will be here along with my daughters, my sister and her husband, and I pretty well know that I have only a few free days between now and the end of July. More than one person has said I should open a B&B, and actually that has sort of a nice feel to it. How about a CERB friendly B&B on my Island? :)

It was a great time and a well organized event, even the band was awesome!!! It was so much fun to just let loose and meet everyone, some of you for the second time....hobbyists I mean, from the Ottawa social lol The only unfortunate part of the evening was that some who were registered didn't show up, and since the numbers were so limited to attend some members who would have shown up could not be invited....:( If anyone thinks twice about attending, don't, this is my second one and I am already looking forward to the next one.....:)

Today I have released anything and anyone negative from my life, I'm forgiving all that have been mean and unkind to me and anyone that has done me wrong in one way or another. Today was a new beginning. I have always known who and the kind of person I am but I truly realized today that I am a good, sweet, loving lady with a truly kind heart and will only allow positive things to come my way and positive people in my life. Today I will look at the future in an even more positive way, as in the glass is half full and not half empty. There will be days that just suck, that's life but I have the power and positivity within me to see a brighter and something more positive in anything negative no matter how much something may suck. A new and even better, positive Lexy has been born and I'm loving her more and more as the seconds go by. The realization and forgiveness that I came to was the Best part of my Day!! All my Love and Big Hugs, Lexy

Getting my gym bag back today. Someone stole it out of my car in a park where I run. This happened over two weeks ago and a park worker found it in a garbage can. He looked inside and found my gym membership card, then phoned the gym I work out at. Everything that I had packed was still in the bag including a necklace my father gave me very shortly before he died. Yes I am very, very happy!

I love sheer thigh-highs that end just above the skirt's hemline so either she or I will need to raise the hem to expose that tantalizingly close, soft bare upper thigh flesh... Although I have to admit just a sliver of exposed thigh can also be very arousing. But it can be difficult to pull off successfully if one is going out in public and you don't want to look tacky. This is nice! Oh, and did I say I love contrasting Black and White: I'd be her deer in the headlights at "Hello"!

Lexy....I'm on the next plane to Halifax...lol. Have a great day!!