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Change is inevitable. Of late there have been a number of high profile people who have made decisions to either leave Cerb or to adapt their role within the community, and it has caused me to consider again why people do quit and make the decisions that they make. Most recently is WIT, whose leaving I know has left many of us feeling a sense of loss. Less then a week prior to WIT's decision, Spud 271 left. I had met Spud at socials in Ottawa and always enjoyed his humour when we were face to face but I also enjoyed his writing and his posts. Previous to them Pistol Pete chose to limit his participation in Cerb by declining to write threads or comment on threads and restricting himself mostly to reccos. Prior to that stevecurious left and when that happened his departure was for me the first time that when a member announced his leaving that I felt a sense of loss. Steve later reconsidered and has again become a valued member of this community. I am sure there are many others who have left for a whole variety of reasons. First let me say that I am not wishing to delve into the whys and wherefores that may or may not be reasons for which some of our notables have decided of late to leave CERB. I do not want to be speculating or have this thread be used to air speculation. It is a thread that I have had in mind for quite a while but from a purely personal perspective. I know of course of women that have left the board, but will restrict myself in this post to the male side of it, because of the mixed feelings that I have myself, about myself. The rationale for joining and then for leaving is no doubt unique for everyone. I have been a member of CERB since January of 2011. In that relatively short period of time I have seen people come and people go and of course I have seen many a reference to well respected members who were well established on CERB and left before I ever even heard of this board. I have learned many things from CERB, but in reality I have learned many things from the PEOPLE of CERB, as it is the people that make this community what it is. Some will think I am sure that my thinking is ass backwards, but when I think first of what I have learned I think of life lessons, not sexual encounters. I think of stereotypes and how they have been shattered, at least for me. I think of the law and what I have learned and about aspects of the law that I had never even considered previously. I think of the semantics of the business. I think of trans gendered people. I think of respect, both given and received. That list could go on and on and on. My world has changed in the last year and a half, much more than probably most of you can appreciate, and most times I think that it has changed for the better, because of the circumstance that I found myself in. Of course I think about the sex - about the beautiful women that I have met. I think about the very special experiences that I have had, and I have had many. I think about that special `relationship` that I have developed with some of you, both men and women. I think of friends that I have made, and I do consider them friends. And I think of quitting. I did quit once, about three months after I started here. That quit lasted for all of twenty four hours. As soon as I wrote it, as soon as I stated it publicly not in a thread but in one of the social groups, as soon as I clicked on submit, I knew that I had made a mistake. The mistake was that I did not have a plan in place of what it is that I would do to replace the void that Cerb had been filling for me. So, I reversed that decision, really fast, and have been here ever since. So why then do I continue to consider quitting? Reality is a huge issue. What is real? What is fantasy? What is role playing? What is make believe and what is illusion? You know what, that can become very confusing for a client. I am real. I honestly think that I act and write and behave in the Cerb world both online and in person as I do in the rest of my world. I am not used to interacting with people for whom that is not also true, but I know that I do here, very commonly, and for me that is the Catch 22, because that is probably a fundamental truth/requirement of the business, and oh yes indeed, I do know that this is a business. There are many threads on this aspect of Cerb already. I said above that I have broken out of my stereotypes, and that is largely true, however the one big one that I have NOT broken is the feeling that I must have something "wrong" with me for paying such large sums of money for social companionship, and for me it is the social companionship that I have cherished the most. What is most curious is that I don't feel that way at all about any other male member of CERB, only towards myself. It causes me to question myself, which I suppose is a good thing ultimately. I am old fashioned, and yup, probably old too. I am not going to take up the bar scene and be picking up women in that way. Reality check. It just isn't going to happen. I am not asking women out on 'dates' in the non-Cerb world for fear that that would be construed as a desire for or have the potential for a long term relationship. That's the old fashioned part of me. So I might leave CERB in a heartbeat if I had a solution to my dilemma but I do not have a solution, I don't see a solution and until I do then here I shall remain, as it has been an awesome experience and an awesome community for me to be a part of. Another fundamental reality is that for each of us there will be a time to leave that is the right time for us. Our reasons to be here are unique to each of us and when we decide to leave those reasons will also be our own. WIT and Spud and so many before them have their reasons and whatever the reasons are they are valid for them. I am just throwing this post out there in large part for myself as writing often helps me to clarify thoughts in my head. Perhaps some of it resonates with others and perhaps most of it is unique to me. It is just that at the moment as I see people choosing to leave Cerb it causes me to wonder about whether their thinking is in some ways in line with my own or rather whether it truly is a unique individual decision that each of us makes for our own unique and individual reasons. I am not quitting Cerb. At least not today.

Where to begin? Well let me explain my situation as it relates to your question both now and THEN. To begin let me assure you all that I attempted to write a thorough and well balanced statement that reflected my beliefs while being contrasted with theory and possibly speculation but nonetheless a fact based response. However, the more I attempted to write said piece the more I kept coming back to the honest truth of the matter, truth as it relates to me and my situation. I left for the simple reason that the board dynamic had become hostile and toxic to the point that the only threads I felt comfortable in responding to were the "funny game" type threads. Threads where responses couldn't be twisted and controversy was easily avoided. At the time I had attempted to justify (to myself) that the reason I was leaving was due to a recent bad experience, lack of interest, time, etc. but in reality it was the atmosphere of Cerb at the time! I no longer had the urge or desire to contribute. I lacked the motivation to read and/or respond to threads. To be honest I felt as though we had to walk on eggshells lest we say something that was even remotely taken out of context. Yes, the envrionment that I had been accustomed to was no more. It seemed as though the self righteous had inherited the earth sort of speak. At that point it was time to leave as quite frankly I am on Cerb to get f$&ked...not get f$&ked over online. My departure was close at hand! I will not get into the details of who or what caused these changes as that topic has been discussed and dealt with in other threads and other places. I will say that the environment here on the board in recent months has been much, much better and I hope it continues to be this way for a long, long time! We all have our reasons and while I can not speak for anyone else listed in your thread I can and will speak for myself. I left for the reasons I stated above and I returned when I heard Mod was starting to address this situation. So let me wish all the departed members best of luck and let me also say thank you and goodbye...your contributions will be missed. If you wish to reconsider the porch light will be kept burning and to those who may never return we will respect your wishes by not speculating or prying into YOUR reasons. Please don't take this response as an attempt to pick a fight or be catty as I answered mrrnice2 in the only way that I know...honestly!

I agree with the last bit of your post... I too have thought of not using cerb,due to others and not being able to say your peace,even ask questions without being told your hostile or out of line to say that when in fact this site is Canadian Recco Board is it not? Hope I do not cause any conflict by posting my insight to this thread.. I also know that people and there desires in life change with time,so perhaps persons leaving the site is them growing in there personal lives??

Roaminguy hasn't quit swearing yet !! Tsk tsk RG !!

Yes decision to leave (and lets not forget about some come backs too) is personal and every departure is a loss for cerb and the community. I have had my share of ups and downs on cerb too. It was a time that I was so addicted to this board that logging on to cerb replaced all other entertainments for me like TV or movies and then there was a time that I didn't wish to even hear the board name because it reminded me of hurt feelings and stressful time (and I have enough of that at work lol so thank you). The end result for me was to quit cerb and have a long break was among those who later decided to come back (as a non-poster initially) just to test the water and see how it will go. Bearing in mind (as I mentioned) that every departure especially at elite membership level is a big loss for the board, the community and the industry, we, as individuals have a responsibility and obligation too, to do our best and our share to make the environment here on cerb friendly and pleasant. We must refrain from hostile debates or posts or be too opinionated and worse (God forbid) make personal attacks on other members who may hold different views or different likes or dislikes. After all it is the variety of our lives, looks and views that makes us all humans rather than programmed robots. We must do whatever we can to make cerb such a great and pleasant place to be so that the community grow larger and stronger by attracting new memberships and returning (active) members.

You will be missed greatly. You have helped me personally a great deal over the years and I always valued your opinion and contributions, i hate to see you go and hope one day you come back (your always welcome back). Best wishes.

Yes and me (and I) too :).

Actually I think most people don't. I have noticed a few people seemingly "disappear" without a formal announcement and then when you start to wonder why you haven't seen a post or received a PM from them in so long and look at their profile you realize they have left us. Announced departures aside for a minute I think the "problem" is much bigger than we know until we start digging. That's why I think this thread has merit, not to lament WIT or Spud's departure (a big loss for sure and they will be surely be missed and most members have no idea why) but that can't be changed and everyone that wanted to got a chance to wish them well on other threads. A case in point: I logged into one of the other CERB like boards and there was so much negativity I only went back once or twice and then not since. Here we have (or had - perspective) a community of regular members (for now) that are very knowledgeable and helpful, outstanding in fact by comparison. Something not found elsewhere (or I haven't found it elsewhere).

The only one that I know that offers it regularly is Jessica... there was one other that did for some but she doesn't anymore. I'm thinking that it's a bit more expensive than the normal oil used but the difference is amazing... try Jessica and if you don't like I'll refund your money, BUT you do like and you owe me one Nuru massage from her! LOL A very safe wager for me! LOL

I very recently had an unforgetable opportunity to meet in Winnipeg with the lovely Emma Alexandra and her super sexy friend Miss Amelia Middleton ! Emma and I met before and I was very much looking forward to seeing her in Brandon ! Then the message came that Amelia was coming to Wpg too and "maybe" Brandon... After about 5 seconds thought, I began to change my plans and head to Winnipeg for an extended visit duo....because it would be a cold day in hell before I was gonna miss meeting Amelia !! An Emma and Amelia duo was the perfect recipe for Lee to relieve all sorts of stress ;) The day came and I drove to the big city. Excited and nervous and excited and nervous...... I got to the hotel, a very nice and upscale downtown hotel. I knocked on the door and was greeted by a hug and a big kiss from the always beautiful Emma. Like hooking up with an old friend and sexy lover. We chatted for a bit and got caught up and laughed and joked. Then out of the other room comes a stunning, sexy and vibrant Amelia !! Wow, ! I finally met her Royal Hotness in the flesh !! An amazing smile and infectious laugh. I knew instantly this was going to be a remarkable and memorable evening. It was just that :D I had a permagrin laying on the bed between these two beautiful gals getting both re-aquainted and newly aquainted, slowly piece by piece our clothing vanishing and ending up on the floor. Casual conversation promptly ended when a very sexy and HOT lapdance performed by Amelia got the juices flowing !! She teases you with her erotic movement of her body and seduces you with her ohhh so naughty look and smile .... until you can't take it anymore !! What followed was a very memorable, sexual, erotic, experience that I will never forget with two beautiful, fun and very very sexual women ! Emma and Amelia are both very intelligent gals, have amazing and fun personalities, awesome senses of humor, and are incredible lovers !! :) For you fellas that have not met Amelia or Emma....Whether you can see them individually or as a duo...both ladies have my highest possible reccomendation. Go see them and enjoy....you won't regret it !!! Thanks for the most amazing time Ladies ! I look forward to our next visit !! Amelia http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=48783 www.stateofamelia.com Emma http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=5891 www.emmaalexandrapage.com

I believe asking questions is a good thing, it is not disrespectful to ask a member why he or she is quitting this board. I, as an adult, can ask the question and the person who I am talking to can, as an adult, chose to respond or not respond. I did ask why WIT was quitting and actually I'm sorry I asked it WHERE I asked it. It was his thread to say goodbye and I shouldn't have said it there. If this is a board for ladies to advertise and men to recommend and that is all then that's fine, I really believe that people think it is more than that. It is a place to discuss sexual issues, personal issues, political issues mixed in with some fun stuff. The idea that one shouldn't ask questions just accept what is said is not an open way to have discussions. Of course if the questions are rude or disrespectful than that is a totally different situation. Maybe one of the reasons people are leaving is because open discussions are discouraged, one hint of disagreement and a thread is shut down.

From what I hear, this stuff is slippery enough to make you slide off the table if you're not careful. ;)

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IMHO, CERB is best used as a knowledge base, and for some Q&A, about the Hobby and sex in general, mixed with a little chatroom spontaneity and of course, generous helpings of humour - ignoring the insecure jealousy of pretentious egotism and the clique, while being mindful of the selfish greedy underbelly of the industry and people in general. CERB is not unique as a forum re: high contributing members leaving due to the lowering quality of overall participation, as the sense of community dies and no longer holds the return on value it once did to be a frequent participant here. (This is a trend across the web and many forums; an evolution of live and learn, if you will.) In general anywhere online or off, without a moderated balance of the rules being applied equally to everyone, it doesn't take long before people continually become marginalized as part of the popularity contest de jour rather than maintinaing "...if you don't have anything nice to say... Please don't say anything at all" (as I once read somewhere). Ironic sometimes how hard it is to find maturity in the 'adult' business sometimes. (Now, of course, like everything in life, we all have our moments - just some people have more moments than others.) Tis the life of trying to mask a capitalistic profit machine as a caring and sharing community. Welcome to the Internet. ...but quit CERB?? No TY - just use it for what it's worth. ...even if it's only to check a schedule, enjoy some photos, find a phone number and have a quick chat to see if luck be a lady tonight ;) As they say: It's not the size that matters, but how one uses it. Enjoy CERB in whatever way it floats your boat :) Largely or smallly.

I'm quite fond of a cuban heel myself. If SuicideGirls hadn't made the cuban heel tattoo so popular, I'd probably get it done myself. The lovely Jezebel Valentine (from Toronto) is the model in the second photo.

Congrats sexy!! You are a gem and a beautiful person in many ways!! Hope things continue to go well for you - u deserve it!!

I love my tatts I only have a few select small ones, but they are completely a reflection of my personality! I hope someday to get more, but will have to wait until my health allows it. I think tatts are sexy on both men and women if done tastefully. I have seen some that I don't like but as long as the person who gets it wears it with pride that's all that matters. This is my idol: KAT VON D

I'll start a list! Stay tuned!

...in no particular order. First up: if you're going to blog, I'd strongly suggest that you do so regularly. That doesn't mean that you have to post every day, or even every week... but if people come back to see nothing new too often, they'll just stop coming back. If you're going to take a planned break, leave a post to say when you'll be back (and then make sure you start posting again when you said you would). And remember the cynic's golden rule: if at first you don't succeed... destroy all evidence that you tried. :) Seriously, there's nothing sadder than a link to "my blog" that's been abandoned after half a dozen posts, the last of which was months or years ago. On the "would I read it" question... yes, I'd absolutely read an interesting blog by someone I knew from CERB! Although I must admit that I don't particularly go looking for them, and there are quite possibly some gems out there that I'm unaware of (like yours, Nathalie), so ladies: maybe adding a link to it in your post sig or on your profile would be an idea? I've read blogs by various sex workers in the past, although I don't read any at the moment - and the ones I used to read were primarily because they were good blogs by people with interesting things to say, rather than the fact that they were about sex work. I still read quite a few blogs - some are daily visits - but they're in other areas of life. As for what to post... well, yes, it depends. How much of yourself do you wish to reveal? Is this really a personal thing, or part of your overall marketing? How do you want to come across to readers: do you want to stick to positive/interesting stuff, or are you going to be melancholy and/or negative if you feel like it? And if so, does that just make you a more well-rounded and realistic person, or does it imply a "take me as I am, or not at all" attitude to potential clients? If you really get into it, perhaps you should have a "professional" blog on your website and run another blog under a different pseudonym for the stuff that doesn't gel with the image you wish to present to current and potential visitors? Of course, there's no "right" answer to any of this; it depends hugely on who you (really) are, how much of that you wish to project in your SP alter ego, and how you wish yourself to be perceived.

It is wrong and inconsiderate, yet it is the truth...It sucks to hear it...I will say yes there are probably a couple great clients in Moncton, but unfortunately those few clients don't cover the expenses for a trip. While a lady can ask for a deposit, at the end of the day that 100$ really does not cover much and if you times that by a few people well you see where I am going here. I encourage ladies to tour Saint John, in New Brunswick and I wont recommend any of the other cities in the province due to the drama, no-shows, games and time wasters. I gather as of late the games have not stopped. It is hard for me to encourage ladies to tour a city where I know that they wont make any money and will not be treated with respect. The same goes for other cities in other provinces, it is not just a bash Moncton thing. Understand we run a business and if the business is not profitable we don't offer our sevices there. How many bad trips to a city do you expect a companion to make before she snaps.... And for the record, there are a great local ladies in NB - dont forget Carley Chase, Myself & Selina. I feel bad that the nice people have to miss out on great ladies touring their city....

Actually Angela and Cat were with me on the last voyage of the boat before it went up to the marina to be sold Seriously, it was a hard decision, but done on advice of my financial planner. But once the decision made to sell, I want it sold. I'll miss the boat, but I won't miss the monthly payments on my line of credit. Just hoping the guy gets financing to buy the boat...keeping my fingers crossed RG

When I first took a look at this industry, I went to the agencies in Winnipeg. The conversations and interviews scarred the shit out of me. Very direct and blunt questions about that left me feeling like a piece of meat. Not for me. About a year later, by coinsidence i met a retired sp. We hit it off as friends & she told me how to go independent. The best advice I've received is from other indy SPs and my clients. I shared an incall appartment and we often chatted safety, techniques, condums and all kinds of girly sex questions. Lastly, answering your own phone & emails gave me a chance to flirt and get excited about my dates. In Winnipeg, i believe that to be an independent service provicder is the safest and most fun way to be in this industry. Just my 2 cents .... xoxoxo Porscha

Nikki is an absolutely wonderful woman. We have had the opportunity to speak on a couple of occasions at Ottawa socials, and the warmth and confidence she exudes is infectious. She is a tireless advocate for the industry and a beauty to behold - truly a complete package. The OP merely wanted to know what "TGirl" meant - I don't believe it was an open call to pass judgment on those who appreciate and partake.

WIT, honestly, I think this is a mistake. Don't let a few opinionated people sway you. You are a model of fairness. You have never been anything but respectful and valuable. Don't make me have to miss you :( Love A

Such a huge loss to the Cerb community. I must respectfully disagree with " But things have long-since evolved to the point that folks have become just as tired of hearing my voice as I myself have become tired of sounding like the broken record I am. " You have added a depth of knowledge and wisdom that really is beyond compare and I am sure that the members of Cerb would echo my sentiments. I wish you all the best of the future and you know where we are, as I would like to think of this as a brief hiatus and that you will return to us. Cheers

I'm sure there would be many providers who would be happy to give you a free kick in the balls if you asked them for birthday freebies!

The only way I could imagine a lady doing this is if perhaps if you were a regular client who came to see her consistently at so many intervals for at least a year or more. I don't think it's polite to see someone a few times and then expect something for free just because it's your birthday (or any other type of anniversary). But even then, it would be up to her. I think it would be extremely rude to ask a lady for a freebie of any kind.

...unexpected!

Like gravity, karma is so basic we often don't even notice it. (Sakyong Mipham) People are entangled in the enjoyment of fine clothes, but gold and silver are only dust. They acquire beautiful horses and elephants, and ornate carriages of many kinds. They think of nothing else, and they forget all their relatives. They ignore their Creator; without the Name, they are impure. (Sri Guru Granth Sahib) The life I touch for good or ill will touch another life, and that in turn another, until who knows where the trembling stops or in what far place my touch will be felt. (Frederick Buechner) The person who is basically evil by nature will always be averse to virtuous deeds. He is always engaged in bad karma. (Sri Guru Granth Sahib) You can't put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories. You can't buy Love. Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need to be deserved. The successful revolutionary is a statesman, the unsuccessful one a criminal. ( Erich Fromm) When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. A mind at peace, a mind centered and not focused on harming others, is stronger than any physical force in the universe. ( Wayne Dyer) .

I learn about it in the news one day. The places where they might accommodate travellers can most commonly be affected and perhaps some appartement building complex. The exterminator is usually called right away. For those who might have this problem, here are some other way and natural remedies to get rid of these tenacious intruders. It is said to be efficient and not that costly. Some people can report infested hotels and buildings in the internet in dedicated website. Rubbing Alcohol: While not a definite fix, spraying rubbing alcohol where bed bugs thrive may contain the problem by killing some on contact. Fruit and vegetable Insecticides: Some insecticides comprised of pyrethrins and canola oil are sometimes used by those who wish to lay down a home remedy that is safe for children and pets. Steam Treatments: It is not uncommon to see some pest control companies use steam treatments to deal with mattresses and other pieces of upholstered furniture. While very limited effectiveness is associated with this type of remedy, it shows great promise in treating items with less than ½ inch of penetration. At home, one may use small steam cleaners to care for their mattresses and other bedding selections. Dry Heat: Placing clothing, footwear, rugs, toys, stuffed animals, backpacks and other non-launderable items in the dryer for a certain length of time can conveniently remove bed bugs. When an average clothes dryer is run for five minutes at low, medium or high heat, they generate temperatures of about 140, 150 and 180 degrees (respectively). It is believed that when drying a bundle of infected clothes, high temperatures are able to kill bed bugs. It is suggested to run the dryer for more than 20 minutes. Hot Sun: Since temperatures over 113 degrees are said to kill bed bugs, it is suggested to wash and dry clothing and linens at high temperatures. When living in a hot desert climate, you may hang your bedding and clothes in the beaming sun to destroy lingering bed bugs. Bed bugs don't like sunshine light. They prefer darkness. Boric Acid: It is suggested to spread boric acid powder about the places where bed bugs choose to frequent, feed, and hide. This natural cure should never come in direct contact with a mattress or box spring. This remedy is often used to control the migration of bed bugs in a home. Clean your car: While you're treating the problem indoors, don't forget your car. Vacuum your car thoroughly and treat it with an herbal preparation or insecticide. You should treat your handbag and coats with an herbal spray to make them less attractive to bed bug freeloaders when you're out in public. Bed bugs aren't just hanging out in hotels. They're in restaurants, department store dressing rooms, movie theaters, busses and anywhere else people spend time. The more you can do to make yourself unattractive to them, the less likely it is that you'll inadvertently bring a few of these insect invaders home. Black Walnut: The National Park Service suggests that using the leaf teas consisting of black walnut provide an astringent effect, as well as serves as a decent insecticide against bed bugs. Herbal Approaches: There is a range of natural cures that people have used to treat their bed bug problem with varying degrees of success. A few suggestions is to try include spraying lavender, thyme, *tea tree, *neem (oil or infused leaf), henna powder or oil, rosemary and eucalyptus on bed linens, clothes and in other locations where people sleep in the house. Using these herbal sprays will help repel bed bugs. You can try lemon juice or apple vinegar as well. Add 20 drops of lavender essential oil to the final rinse when you wash your sheets, blankets and nightwear. Placing lavender flower buds in a sachet bag under your mattress and pillow will help too. You can also add lavender flower bud sachets to your luggage to discourage bed bugs when you travel.

Well not much can be said to this thread that has not already been discussed in another one last year mostly in regards to Moncton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=49878 To be honest, I hate more than anything to remove a city from my list of places I travel too, but it is hard to want to visit in a city where you get disrespected, haggled and treated like a piece of fast food. I travel, I pre-book and I DO NOT visit last minute (as do MANY other ladies) Why do we work this way? to ensure that we have bookings to cover the expenses as well to allow time for ourselves. This may be our means of a form of work right now, but we do have lives outside the hotel room. When I travel I do a heck of a lot more than sit in my room and wait for an email to come through. If I book spa time or a dinner date with a girl friend that time is spoken for as is any time reserved for a date. I like to plan my day - as do most people and when I plan personal time that time is taken. Three different ladies have posted on this thread already, and I can only guess that any other ladies that post here will be adding to the disappointment with their Moncton experiences. When I have had a not very postive trip to a city - I do go back a second and third time as timing and other factors can be a big deal in some cities. With that being said if it does not get any better I wont be coming back. When I am asked from other ladies that travel about cities I am very honest about the experiences and when they have been disastrous (like Moncton) I share as last thing I want to hear about is another lady getting no-showed and disrespected. What is a great client to one lady can be the chronic no-shower to another. It's not the case of a few bad apples in Moncton, it's more like almost the whole garden. We write ads, all the details are in them (and in some cases up to a month before we visit) so I dont get what the issue is with Moncton all I can say from a personal perspective is in Saint John and Fredericton there are no issues, people keep their encounters, follow instruction respect us making it enjoyable to visit those cities. I guess since the situation clearly is not getting better in Moncton, the option is to head to one of the other cities for an encounter, and if you make an appointment I sugget you keep it. This is one of those cases where the reality of the situation is worse than you realize and I don't blame ladies for not wanting to visit there.

I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.