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I though i would bring this subject as it seem that new pooners and more experience pooners forget that it apply for both parties. More than often i have gent been very hesitant to provide the info i request and ask me to be discrete..No to contact them without their permission,etc.. It doesn't mean because we are escorts that we don't have private life.. It is not appropriate to approach a lady in public..Even if you have met her in the past..You shouldn't.. To call her escort name out loud..She may be with friends,or family.It is an invasion to our private life..I am sure that if a lady would approach you on the street meanwhile your SO is next to you ..You would be extremly angry. Also it happen more than often that a gent that inquire to see and provide me a reference of a lady gave me her real name..If the lady decide to share with you it doesn't mean she want the entire world to know..Otherwise she would be working with that name.It happened also that i had gent gave me private number of ladies..If her number isn't publish it is that she doesn't want to unknown people to have it. To approach a lady that you have an app later or you recognize her, at the bar of the hotel Those are big no no It also apply to ladies..i had a lady giving my personal number to a client i don't know without my consent. Remember if you expect discretion,you should also be discret yourself and respect our privacy Thanks Victoria Jolie

Do some people have rocks in their heads? To approach someone while with their family whether it's an SP or a client? Seriously? If this were me, smoke would be coming out of my ears, I would be furious. When you stupidly approach an SP like this, you don't know how they will respond to you whether it's through words or actions. Good or bad. And I'm thinking it won't be a very good scene. Please respect a person's privacy if they are SP or client. Imagine an SP coming up to you with your wife present saying how they had a good time in the sack with you last week. I think the divorce lawyer would be ready to be programmed onto the wife's speed dial. I'm still shaking my head.

I have thinking about how much I have accomplished in the short time I have been here on cerb. It hit me! OMG! I have accomplished so many things that I thought was out of reach for me! In this time I have raised my credit score! I have now been approved for morgage:) When I started here, I had absolutely no credit. So just to travel and get a hotel room was a challenge. I started off with a pre paid card. Which I could only book hotels off Expedia or Hotwire, as this did not require a cash deposit on the room or Credit card number. Even then, at times hotels would ask for up to 250.00 deposit. Ths was a big inconvenience to say the least. But with diligence, I have been able to raise my score, got up to date with taxes, and now approved for a morgage:) I have always been a cash kinda girl, but now, no longer! I owe a big thanks to myself for the hard work I have put into this. But also have to thank all those who have given me a helping hand with advice and support! Also became certified in various massage courses, which has helped my self esteem and give me direction in my life:) Now in a position to help other's!! When I took Jersey under my wing, she had almost nothing to her name. No place, had to get a place to raise her boy's, needed independence and sense of accomplishment! NOW....she in 2 weeks has gotten her and her boy's a place that is secure and appropriate for her boys! She says she never felt so much in control of her life! She truly has come along way in 2 weeks! I am hoping she accomplishes all that I have too! I would love to hear from other SP's how being a SP as given you independence, security and self empowerment!

Understood. (Although I still think that it is easier to replace a good financial advisor than it is a good fishing boat! ;-) ). Good luck on the sale RG. Hang in there.

Last time there were more newbies than returning guests, the vets wiped the floor with the newbies. Just like will happen this year, even tho they have the prior example. I like the After Dark because I find the actual shows twist what is really happening behind the scenes. They leave an impression that isn't real, like that Boogie is all bad, and Janelle is a victim or even that she is a nice person. None of that is true. Boogie is working hard to keep someone in the game, even at the expense of an alliance that could get him further. He isn't and wasn't interested in that. He feels he'd win at the coaching title, what he really wanted, if he can keep Frank in the game and to the end. He's willing to be nominated and expelled to help that happen. Janelle is ready to put up her own team members, and promise anything, in order to keep all 4 coaches in the game. The only alliance she is interested in is the 4 coaches. Dan is sneaky because from last night's After Dark it seems clear that is also what he wants. This is probably the only opportunity anyone will ever have to get Janelle out, and he is trying really hard to tell Danielle (who really really wants to do it) that it actually won't be a good idea. She is right, J will be after her and Shane. The thing is will she trust Dan? Because she shouldn't. He has no intention of taking her to the end, but she is useful right now. He only wants to be Boogies partner, and the only way to get himself there is to get Frank out. It makes no sense to not align with Boogies suggestion, which is Frank, Shane, Brit, Danielle, Dan and Boogie. If they don't, Boogie will go to Janelle, and work to get them out, he is unlikely to work with Dan and Britney as a coach team. That's my thoughts after staying up until 2 fricking AM last night to watch the full 3 hours lol. With the After Dark, I think you have to PVR it (I do and I don't usually watch the whole thing), and I think that you have to commit to all the shows or nothing. And yes, there are times when all they show is Danielle in the tub shaving her legs, or 4 guys sitting at the table staring at nothing. And Wil needs to take out the extensions. They do not look good, and he's picking at his scalp all the time. It is really not attractive. :)

I don't believe in restraint!! So if/when we see each other I expect a torrent of good fun swearing! Porthos

I'm surprise that some here think that those things don't happen..:frown: I post it, as i withness it and leave part of it... I also post it as i have seen treads on "other boards" asking other pooners if he should approach a lady he has recognize.. Worse i have seen a post where the gent assume that his room neighbour was an escort and though about calling the room or knock at the door. Like you could knock at a door where a party happen and invite yourself because you heard some noise.:icon_rolleyes: -I had a gent..ex client that became a mod and as a joke posted my name on the board -I had clients been paranoid about providing me some infos..Heck!They actually never met me and i end up having their wifes harassing me because they neglected to delete the infos in the computer at home or because my phone number showed up on their bill(it had then a nyc number) All this should be common sence but unfortunatly it isn't and sadly by my own experience it has been experience pooners that has done those things. VJ

And privacy is a sacred trust. May sound like a rigid pronunciation to some but most on here both ladies and gentlemen have lives outside this lifestyle. Should it ever be disclosed because of a cavalier attitude towards privacy (either accidentally or intentionally) it could have devastating consequences, such as marriages breaking up, maybe loss of career (some jobs may have morals clauses), estrangement from family and those are just a few I can think of off the top of my head. And I say this as someone who is single, unattached, and pretty much if I was outed would suffer compared to most, little if any harm. RG

Congratulations Sophia. I think the the really positive thing about this story is your willingness to share. I think there are many hard working women who struggle in this business and could use your example and smarts to improve their situation. A little knowledge goes a long way.

Saw Jessie at Angel's yesterday for the first time and i'll be back to see her again!!! She's definitely an angel and like mentioned previously her pics dont do her justice. She's incredibly HOT, gives an excellent massage, has a super personality and the happy ending is incredible:grin: She's an incredible lady.... :grin: She is so Hot, Gorgeous, Sweet and fun!!!!

You're definitely NOT the only person who has kinky fantasies! lol If you check out my website, and an ad I posted here on cerb a week or two ago, you'll see I cater to both! M-M-F and a threesome with my tranny, Floosie Flawless are both available. Hard part is choosing which one. ;)

Like these This last one works for me!!

Old school rules, you or the time up bell, which ever came first. Today, providers and clients use time as a way to gauge value for dollar and quality of experience. It's really quite simple, just clarify with your provider upfront what is more important, sog's or quality of experience. Like Nikki, if you treat a woman like a blowup doll, that's exactly what you are going to get. As an agency girl I gave a demon grudge fuck when I had been disrespected by a client's attitude. You get back exactly what you give... cat

After 3 weeks of working out at the gym. I was ready for round 3. Finally got Claire to except my challenge. Previous matches. Match 1: Claire won, I was new I did not know the rules :(. Match 2: Someguy won, I cheated and made her roar. Now the 3 Round. We both know the rules and knew the other weak knees by now :). Let's get ready to rumble. I had my game plan on, but when I opened the door, I saw Claire with dark red hair, this threw my game off, Then she introduced me to her friend Lily who is a beautiful sexy blond of the same height wearing just a bra and panties. :). She gave me a nice hug and kiss. Claire kept wanting to make this a 2 on one match as I could see the fear in her eyes on meeting me one on one in a fair match. I was tempted, but my game plan was made, one on one. So off to the massage room, we go. I offered to massage her first. I wanted to get her good and relax first so I could take advantage of her heee hee. She was enjoying herself and then I made my special move on her. She fought for as long as she could, I could feel myself tiring, but eventually she roared and roared she did. It was a TKO, 1st point to me. She needed a few minutes to recover as he looked a bit wobbly and cross eyed. I think she was seeing stars :). Then it was her turn to massage me and try her moves out. It was tough going, but eventually I could not hold out any longer and had to give in and roar. We decided it was a a tie and Kissed each other in celebration. Another rematch will have to be made in the future to decide the champion. :0 Another place another time Claire. Back to my training. Let's get ready to Rumble and Roar again.

I'm really surprised that some SP's are not only giving out their real names but also giving out their private numbers. I agree though, discretion is a 2 way street.

Always show discretion. For me, I'm not ashamed of the ladies I see and most time have no problems (within the confines of an encounter) being seen in public with them (ie going out to dinner) There are certain cities that's just not possible, I might run into family or friends of family. By the same token, and in the case of one lady, part of our encounter was dinner out. So I asked and she agreed that making our date ,instead of her home city was more appropriate in another city, just so she wouldn't risk a chance run into someone she knows. But I would not want to be outed because of a accidental run in with a companion, even if the outing was unintentional. Yes I'm single unattached, but I may be with family members, some who may understand, but one or two who are judgmental. Boils down to common sense and common courtesy. If you walk by a lady in public you have seen maybe a subtle nod or wink only she'd notice, and the same by the lady to the gentleman. Or if not possible, maybe next time you are on CERB, a pm saying hi, and you weren't being rude Finally privacy is sacrosanct. The ladies as part of verification require you to provide personal information to them. Which they protect, they don't, at least so far, in my experience, blab your name around. Ladies deserve the same respect of their privacy. And as a footnote to privacy, it may be talked about loosely as a concept here, but where I work (federal government), and in many other organizations, breaches of privacy are considered very serious, resulting in suspensions and up to a loss of your job. There is no official professional code of conduct for this lifestyle, and gentlemen and ladies alike need to remember how important and sacred a trust privacy is, and that includes discretion, if that makes sense RG

Thanks for the shout out Nathalie! I'm thinking the best option here is Roxy and I as a strap-on duo...

I would like to say congrat's to Holland and to who ever the lucky guy is. We will miss you terribly but I for one wish you all the best in your future.

I've been on hiatus as ordered by my doctor because of a impact trauma to my, get this...trachea! It started Thursday evening with a sore throat but I chalked it up to all the air conditioning going on. Friday I popped into see my doctor who agreed and we decided that lozenges and Tylenol should do the trick. Saturday morning I headed to Montreal for a much deserved weekend away but my condition worsened. My glands began to swell and I knew my weekend was over. Sunday afternoon my support team arrived to snatch me up and take me to Emergency here in Ottawa. The doctors were baffled as my swabs came back clean but my glands were huge and my throat was closed off for swallowing. They scratched their heads debating amongst themselves how my trachea could have impact damage but there be no external visible signs of trauma? I am sitting there with the answer but not sure how to explain it so I said nothing. I knew exactly what happened, it has happened before. Thursday I had been requested to do a "face fuck" and decided that given the guest was a valued client, I agreed. It was just a little one, nothing crazy or remotely PSE. I don't provide this service often because of physical fallout. My doctor and I have had this discussion many times, he refused to believe that oral sex can cause this response unless there is a bacterial or viral element involved but I know a good ff will do it as well. So Monday morning I'm with my doctor reviewing the weekend tests and he finally agreed after looking at the x-rays that it is indeed possible to have strep like symptoms due to a blow job. cat

BIG FAN SINCE FIST YEAR!!! Well im not liking the coaches this year! There arfe players that deserve to play and win on their own...that same way its always been played! I voted NO to the coaches joining the game..they had their chance..too bad! There is a point to something Ian mentioned again on After dark...some years the game is played for 82 days and some years ist cutt short at 72 days...wonder what this year will bring! I have watched the after dark alot and I must say that it can leave you alittle confused as the talk is a few days ahead of when its on TV. There are things that were said the other night that still didnt happen on tonights show! Might be good if you are going to miss a few nights and want to keep up. Well Boogie...been there done that...only everyones on to him and his anticks!!..Frank will be the biggest target bec\ause of him! Brittany...well i must say she seems to have come along way since she played but not at a coaching level..considering who she is up against. Janelle...shes Back!! And shes on her game..but another one that everyone knows her game ans I think she will be scrambling back and forth to make and maintain deals as she is not the most loved player ever! Dan...I think no-one sees him as a threat..I believe he is another one that will need to aline with a strong coach to carry on any farther with his One player. I dont think he is at coaching on BB level...maybe high school sports...yes. All in all in enjoying this year but dont like the coaching thing..the best so far was Willy, fuck the first week he made BB history!!! HA HA I look forward to all out thoughts and disputes (friendly) as the season goes on!!! Ya its Summertime and BB time! Kisses my fellow BBers!

Roaminguy hasn't quit swearing yet !! Tsk tsk RG !!