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I wanted to send all my cerb friends, correspondents, and social group members my very best wishes for the weekend. I enjoy being on here with you, and there's so much to be grateful for. Time to celebrate. Thank you all for enriching my life.

Because saying "X is the best SP" is not the same as saying "X is my favourite", and neither of those is the same as "X is very good and I recommend her". The last of those... a simple recommendation is uncontroversial. It says something positive about the person who's recommended, and nothing at all about anything else. But both of the first two are making judgements... they're judging that not only is X good, but that everyone else is inferior - and that's what annoys people. At least someone announcing their particular favourite is implicitly acknowledging that this is their subjective judgement, and the potential consequences of implicitly putting down everyone else are theirs to bear. But announcing that "X is the best"... I see at least three problems with that. First, as with a personal preference, it puts down everyone else. Second, it assumes that there is some objective definition of "best", which I think is an assumption that most of us would question. And thirdly, it's arrogant in its assumption that any one person actually knows the objective definition of "best". Any of these might annoy some people; the combination of all three pretty much guarantees that you're going to annoy a lot of people. On other questions that get asked... people asking for specific recommendations/suggestions on who to see are often (not always, but often) looking for something quite specific. People are asking for an ethnicity, or a particular service, or in a particular location (or some combination of those) The request being made quite often naturally excludes most of the people here, and most of the SPs who do fit the requirements will often be suggested (at least, that's been my experience of threads like this where I've actually had a good idea of what the possible answers actually --are--). But yes, sometimes we get much more general questions (like "looking for a SP in Ottawa", for example), and when things like that come in the collective answer is often a far more general one ("go read the reco section and the ads") than suggestions for particular people.

Well, cerb is a great place, but it sure seems we have reached a very, very weird place when a "who's the best escort" thread gets closed on the Canadian Escort Recommendation Board. uggh. Cmon guys ... we are taking ourselves waaaaay too seriously around here. Also, any response to a "best" thread is obviously nothing more than an opinion as these aren't objective measures. My opinion as to best (which I respectfully decline to offer because I personally dont want other ladies that I have seen on cerb to think they are somehow not as good ... which isn't true) is going to obviously differ from others. Topics like this can get to be a lot of fun, with great stories attached. And as to a "best clients" thread, I'm all for it! That way, the guys here can harrass the other guys who get mentioned. (wink)

If I were any good at monogamy, I would have never found this site! LOL. I suspect that the same is true for many here.....

Why not read the laws (section 212-214 crimnal code) prostitution is legal (paying or sex) you just need to do it right. No picking up streetwalkers or discussing anythng in a Public place, no usng a common bawdy house (brothel) and make sure the lady is over 18. ....and Stop watching american tv and movies too you live in canada! We do not have the same laws.

Nope. not in the least. I love Meat. ;) My twin sister is a vegetarian tho. i was just being silly about the turkey. haha.

If an SP does that, she needs to do a reality check and realize we don't own our clients. If a client comes to see me and I know I provide a good service, he will repeat. Then if he expresses a desire to see someone else, I encourage him and even make suggestions for SPs who I think would be a good fit. If he has a good experience with them, he's likely to see me again anyways. And if the SP finds it positive as well, she will in turn refer me to others. If a client is determined to see other ladies, there is nothing I can do to stop him, but if I can recommend someone to him who I think he'll click with, I do not hesitate to do so. I'd rather send the business to someone I know will give him good service than to dissuade him thinking I can keep him to myself and him possibly having him go to see someone regardless and possibly have a bad experience. Appreciative clients and SPs will always make sure they let me know they are grateful even if it's just a simple "thank you". Recently I have been the recipient of been treated to dinner, two road trips, reiki treatment, clothing donation, gift cards, and referrals. The only time I might have a problem is if a client promised to see me and cancelled the appointment in favour of another lady. That might sting, but hey it happens as well. Additional Comments: I am so glad that I have you as my "neighbour" in Orleans. You are one of the classy ones!

I find they have alot more affordable escorts vs escorts Canada. Also I think I found one off back page that I like. She said she offers gfe, will this include sex? because I can't afford to spend it if doesn't

I must confess to not having paid too much attention to this issue, but I don't see the thread being closed as really having much to do with the question of whether it was about the "best" SP in Winnipeg. I also don't see it as being about political correctness. It seems to me it had to do with the tenor of the posts, which were becoming rather rude and disrespectful. Essentially, a fight was developing, and the MOD decided to shut it down. Correct decision in my opinion. The fact that the OP, who was the primary bad actor in terms of disrespectful discourse, has been suspended would seem to confirm that.

Well I was going to address your post point by point but I'll just address it generally. I just think way to much was made about a word, best. I started this thread for a reason and now I'm glad I did because now I understand the real genesis of the issue. From previous posts there is an aversion here to using the word best, there seems to be a history with using the word as well. I think Kubirckfan and bewlayb made great points, people shouldn't get too upset about using the word best. IMO best=fav because it's an opinion, if you disagree then we have a disagreement, no need to go back and forth I've stated my point of view and you've stated yours. It also seems the men of the board are more concerned than the ladies are about this. Maybe some guys feel the need to be protective but I have no doubt that the ladies here on CERB can fend for themselves. There's another thread here talking about jealousy between the ladies and generally speaking most have no issues because they are confident in who they are and the services they provide. I'm sure if I stated who my best/fav SP was they wouldn't be hurt. They know there's a lot of their clients who would pick them, they show their fav/best SP that by being a regular. Btw I appreciate all the feedback, whether we agree or not.

Pay as you go is to costly for a SP to use. I remember months of 100-200.00 in buying minutes to keep up with all the call's. I went on a contract for 50.00 a month, unlimited incoming/outgoing, texts, & some data usage, which I prefer my computer to my phone answering emails. There are different contracts as well. You don't have to do a 3 year, they offer you less now. I deal with Telus & have for 7 years & have always been happy. Chloe, when I get to Calgary we'll hit a Telus store or any other store you'd prefer & see what we can figure out to fit your at the moment budget. With Chloe being new here too, her phone will be ringing like crazy, she'll be forking out a pile in buying minute's. It's all great for you pooner's to use cause it's not a phone you regularly use other then to make a brief call to set up an appt.

I have been fortunate to have met a few wonderful ladies over the years in this adult entertainment industry. Some have retired and some have continued to work in the business. These were ladies that used to see me or stay in contact outside of the client/SP environment. Dinners, movies, etc were on our chill times together. Some went beyond that with no expectations, just spontaneous passion for each other. In all cases we still see each other from time to time, and always keep in touch via phone text or email aorund holidays, birthdays or just to tell each other about things going on in our lives. They have all been and are very special relationships that I will fondly recall in those quiet moments as I reflect on times in my life. My feelings are, no matter where or who you meet, treat each other with respect and friendship develops. Those friendships can all be very different, but then isn't that just the way it is???

Yes. Nuff' said.

Morning Cristy Go to your recommendations on CERB. Once there, go to the browser window which has the link (likely starts off http://www.cerb.ca.............) Highlight the complete link. Right click on it once highlighted. Click on copy. Then go to the post/message you are writing, right click and paste the link. Voila Hope that does it :-) RG

Ha, funny. Good answer! I think there's a bit of a difference ... a SP should never complain if a client sees other clients, but she has every reason to be upset if plans are made and then a client sees another lady who becomes available and then the client lies about it. But that's lying, and that's different, but it sometimes gets intermingled into these sorts of issues. By the way, the thing about the client lying and seeing another lady ... that also works in reverse ... if a lady lies to a client that she had set up an appointment with in order to see a different (more profitable?) client ... well that's not right either.

I still get nervous every time I meet a lady, even if its a repeat. I don't know why I'm not a shy person but the fact that I'm going to meet someone and we will remove our clothes and present ourselves to one another is always been nerve wrecking for me. But I love doing it, and you can't stop me.

Safe to assume that this is her new Cerb profile? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=75046

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websurfer I understand worrying about budget and how much to spend. I only really jumped into this last month. I did sit there and think about it for a long time. I was looking at BP and some other places. One thing that I noticed was that there is going to be a basic range for a lot of SPs. If someone was a bunch lower than that range all I know is that warning flags would pop up for me. When I did decide I wanted to start doing this I gave myself a budget for myself per month. I also personally like to meet a women for a 1 hour date. I find this is enough time for both of us to get to know each other and relax. I know when I first meet an SP I am nervous, and even if they are not showing it they are most likely a bit nervous as well. That time gives us a chance to talk and relax a bit. Remember when looking at BP you can also check the recommendation board here and you might find the SP listed. This can give you an idea that others felt the time they had was worth mentioning to others. Look in the ads and check for what they are offering. Read the "help with abreviations" thread here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311 Also read the " New to this? Things you should know..." section. There is a lot of good information in the threads that are stuck on top. It takes a while to read them but it is well worth the time.

I think it's been discussed before, and very recently. bp is like any other ad site. You can't automatically assume all ads are fake, or that all rates are cheap. Any savvy business minded sp is going to use any and all advertising sites that work, and bp is known by far more people and covers far more territory (and countries) than many other sites. It is a paid site, not free, so keep in mind also that the person choosing to advertise there has spent money to do it. Even so, you don't assume the advertising site itself is vetting or checking the sps for your safety, or even being a good match. If rates are the issue, believe me there are sps advertising on this site who have rates in all ranges as well. We don't assume that the lower rate advertisers here are scammers, but we assume that and worse about bp advertisers. Even when many of the advertisers here (or similar sites) use bp to advertise on a regular basis, we are still all lumped together by both clients and sps who are too good for it I guess. And yet everyone seems to know what quality of advertiser is on it, and how risky it must be to use it, even tho no one actually uses it? But check this out: two years (or so ago), all of these kinds of comments and threads discussed CL (erotic services ads). At that time, bp was never mentioned as such a lowbrow advertising site. You'd think if it was a bad site for ads, that it would have always been a bad site for ads. But it wasn't, it's only since there's been no CL that all the advertisers are bad? Doesn't make sense to me.

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I read the previous thread, I see nothing wrong with asking questions of others, and the question was fine, and I do think that some gents have favourites, maybe not just one, but perhaps a small handful. As to general protocol, I think if you are asked a question, and you don't personally feel you can or want to answer it, because you don't want to be in an awkward position, then the easiest thing to do is just not reply. It is not like you have to reply to every thread. Maybe we should think of the general motto of the board, "if you don't have something nice to say, say nothing", and apply that more broadly than just the recommendations. Just my perspective on things.

Cab blend or a Malbec with hot italian sausage and pasta.......what to do...what to do Peace MG

I want people to be with me because they truly desire my companionship, not because I've created an environment where they don't feel safe to explore with other providers. I think the CERB community is truly beautiful in that sense. Of course when a regular patron decides to see someone else I have a little moment of "ah..." but it usually lasts no more than a couple moments. When the moment passes I move on to being happy for them and the provider in question. I think that's simply a normal human emotion... It's not the feelings themselves we should be concerned about, but rather, how we manage those feelings. In these instances 'grace' seems to be the most appropriate response. Also, I would never (ever) sabotage a reference, or engage in catty behaviour. This is about safety and solidarity amongst services providers, and for me, that's of the utmost importance.

I have always had the opinion that as providers and women we should help and encourage one another. This buisness is hard enough no need to add any emotional conflict, yet still some do. I have always suggested another lady to my clients, some have questioned me for doing so, they wondered why I would want to give away my business, my feeling on that is if they liked me and my service they will return if they would like a change then hopefully they will like my reference. In the end we all choose who we would like to see, it shouldn't be taken personallly and it is my belief that alot of men like variety so why not recommend another lady. It helps her and him. That should be how this business works. Share and share alike!

...is... Amelia! She's a very talented MA. She's lots of fun to be with. She's sexy as hell. Her posts on here are always worth reading. What more do you want? Another pic, you want? Okay, that I can do...

Wow! All of your preamble is very complimentary however I am not sure of, and I shall be curious to see how many will respond to this with a single name. For myself there is no possible way that I could answer that question because I have been so incredibly fortunate with the women that I have met. If I could answer it I would not. Women come in all shapes and sizes and temperaments and with various beliefs, attitudes. idiosyncrasies, ways of doing things, and their own likes and dislikes. The women that I have seen have been amazing but all of them are unique individuals who differ from each other in ways that make each of them a very special person to me.

I wish people would focus on the present and the future and what we can do to prevent history from repeating itself. No time machine required.

I wish I had a time machine to go back in time. Those who have committed crimes against women and children and historic dictators and mass murders and those guilty of genocide need to be stopped by any means and at any cost before they commit.

Hi Ladies, probably the same guy again back from last year who was offering ipods to the ladies in exchange for services. I have removed his latest account but if you get a PM from someone trying to trade you services for ipods it most likely is a scam so please flag it.

Ximelolagnia is defined as "the urge to stare at women who are sitting with crossed legs."