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That assumption is incorrect. There are many SPs on this board who have little or no recos and it has nothing to do with their reputation or skill as a provider. I can think of at least 2 ladies who have many regulars and no recos. Sometimes it's just not something a client feels comfortable in doing. For me, I would rather not have any, but it is a condition of membership on CERB that a lady allow recos. Those ladies who adamently insist on no recos are on the DNR (do not review list) and hence not board members. I would rather have no reco than a lukewarm one.

The first question I have to ask which you have NOT cared to provide a specific answer to is WHY you are asking these questions? And why do you feel the need to know? Are you a journalist? Are you writing a book and need material? Or do you just have guilt issues with seeing SPs who are in relationships and/or those who have children? With the personal questions you are asking on an internet forum and SPs here not wanting to answer, why would she tell you point blank when asked in person? With the way you are acting right now, I would be scared too if I were the SP that you visit! And just to speculate here, if she felt open enough with you to tell you the truth about her life, she would have told you little details here and there. It's only natural when you feel comfortable in someone's company. Obviously there are reasons why she hasn't. She very may well see you as a threat. I've had one client in particular trying to do this as even went as so far to get my license plate but I really don't care. Equally important, I know enough pertinent details about him and I stopped seeing him because of certain tendancies like this. No escort likes secret agent/creep/stalker clients who feel that it's their mission to find out everything about them because they happen to take a liking to them. SPs definitely can get vibes from clients and feel them out. I have clients that I don't feel threatened by and they know a few things about my personal life. Others know nothing so what does that tell you? I am also not dating these men so this info is out of bounds if I don't care to share it. And this is where the line is drawn in the sand. I am under no obligation to disclose my personal details. And your job is very different than mine where you do the opportunity if you choose to be open with coworkers/clients about yourself. And why would an SP send you a PM with her personal private details instead of posting it here? And please don't send me a PM. Why would she even give you that info? It is posts like this that make a lot of SPs use cover stories and alot of reasons why we are viewed as being dishonest instead of being able to be ourselves. We do not post details about our private lives if we don't want to because it doesn't apply to the service we're offering. We're providing a fantasy and real life relationships and children basically ruin this fantasy. And we don't want to be put in an uncomfortable postion either. No one wants to hear how many kids you have when you're in the middle of something hot and heavy. The SPs that are professionals know NOT to do this. I really don't think you're going to get the answers you're looking for from SPs here or the SPs you see. And yes, your questions are inappropriate whether you'd like to believe it or not. This is one of the rules of etiquette in this business and the info you're looking for again is on a need to know basis. I don't need to know if clients are married, how many children they have, etc and vice versa. As long as I provide a good service, they have a good time and I get paid is all that is really important. This is the way this business works. Educating yourself on the protocol of a business that demands discretion can go a long way. )

Sometimes professional help is warranted.

To the comment "more reviews=sure bet". Not necessarily. As Angela said, some ladies prefer not to have recommendations. While a lady can't be a cerb member if she chooses to be on the DNR list, I am sure there are a lot of ladies who turn down the offer of a review (for what ever reason). Every single person who has given me a review has asked my permission first and a large majority have sent it to me before posting it. My recommendation is to forward the review to the lady prior to posting it and getting her opinion on whether or not it is post worthy. Lets be honest people, there are ALWAYS three sides to the story and messing with a lady's reputation is not only financially damaging to her but so very wrong on so many levels.

Of course, none of us had to answer the question, what I think everyone is trying to say is this: some questions just shouldn't be asked. This business cannot be compared to any other. Not ONE other kind of business, seriously. So the rules of what is right in a restaurant, or an office, or anywhere, simply do not apply here. In this job, we share ourselves with you. And it's a wonderfully rewarding job. BUT, at times it's hard. And one of the hardest things is keeping your personal life, and your work life separate. So don't ask these kind of questions. Always remember, and respect, that we are real women, with real lives, who choose to share certain parts of ourselves with you. And the parts that we don't choose ourselves to share, are to be left alone. Because they're ours, and prying into those parts will always come off as invasive, whether that was the intention or not.

Personally, I don't like when some people take for granted that it is as easy for us to expose our body as it easy to expose our soul and heart.

Got to agree ... man you need help. And to be honest, the first thing you need to do is break up with your fiance. I fully admit to being a married man, and seeking the comfort and intimacy of SPs. But I KNOW where the boundary is. I love my family, and they always come first. You are not just deceiving your future wife about an occasional hour or two. You are deceiving her about who you are at a fundamental level. And moreover, you don't seem to even love her. I'm not at all sure how you can maintain this with her, when you spend every night out and about at strip clubs. Sorry if this is harsh, but I really feel sorry for her if she marries you. I'm not blaming you for this though ... you do have a serious addiction. And you do need professional help to deal with it. Gambling addiction is bad enough ... but the world of strip clubs is all about fantasy and unreality. It's unreal for the girls who work there ... who spend their nights at the club, getting drinks bought for them, having men offer them gifts for their time (and their bodies). But it's equally unreal for the men who go there. You've fallen into that world, and it's become more real than the real world. You've got it flipped upside down, and you'll need help to get it (and your head) turned upside right again. Good luck to you ... the money is gone. Forget about it. Now concentrate on helping yourself. Stay away from the clubs. Start doing what ordinary people do in the evenings. Going to movies and restaurants with the woman who you say you want to marry, staying in and watching a video with her, going for long walks holding hands. It's not as exciting as strippers grinding all over you, but it's REAL. And you need a dose of real!

My two cents. CERB is not a review board, it is a recommendation board. And as the motto at the top of the page says, If you do not have anything nice to say...Please don't say anything at all If the purpose of your review is to not recommend, but to criticize (saying something not nice) then don't post it here, it doesn't belong on CERB Critical reviews, well there are other boards for those type of postings As for ladies with no or little recommendations, well I saw one lady who personally doesn't like reviews. But the recommendation I wrote she liked and approved me to post. More recently another lady I saw has reviews on other sites, but seeing that this board is the only one I frequent, well I posted the first recommendation on this board of this lady. But if anyone looked at just this site, they would say, gee only one reco, is she really a good SP...no she's not, she is one I'd categorize as a great companion. Point making low or no recos doesn't necessarily mean a bad provider A rambling RG

Totally inappropriate. That thank you could have been conveyed via pm or email, if it was truly heartfelt and in a timely fashion (not 2 weeks later). She was fishing for an appointment. I have some clients I am allowed to text because of the relationship I have built up with them over time. But I never initiate texting. If they text me and I can't respond within 15 minutes, I don't take the chance. They know this so as to not think I am ignoring them. SPs should never text a client out of the blue. Bad etiquette all round. No excuse for it.

If to you, open minded means additional services then check with the provider who has caught your eye. For me "open minded" can mean any number of things... 1. You want me to drip honey all over your body, slash a feather pillow and coat you in down then remove them with a pair of tweezers? Sure I can but you're cleaning up the mess! 2. You want to slip into something more comfortable like a pair of my Pradas? Not unless you wear the same size as me and come with a gift certificate for new shoes! 3. You want to hang upside down by your ankles while I play ringtoss with your erection with donuts then have me eat them off you? Sure, you bring the donuts. 4. You want to play naughty librarian and rip my clothes off? Absolutely but advance notice is required so I can get disposable clothes. 5. You want to shave my head and play V for Vendetta? Ummm, that requires serious advance notice and a very hefty envelope. And maybe a gift certificate to a wig shop. 6. You want to have your bottom powdered and diapered then fed a bottle while getting rocked and serenaded "Sleep little baby" while masturbating you thru leak proof plastic diaper guards? That can be arranged. Open minded simply means that we are not judgemental and whims with fancy to you are really nothing to blush about for us so go ahead and ask... cat

In light of needing to lift my spirits these days, I thought this would be a good thread to start. Basically, the way this will work is that everyone will post something they like about the person who posts before them. Even if you don't know the person, maybe a good suggestion is to look through their photos/posts or even commment on the very post before yours. Hopefully this thread will be ever-lasting and people will feel the ongoing love from their CERBies! Love and care for yourselves. Xo Sky

Although I have never had the privilege of meeting you RG, I can tell you that bald is indeed beautiful. And guess what? The best part is that if you hate it, it grows back! ;)

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There are quite a few sex workers who have participated in IAmA threads, in different aspects of the industry. A quick google search for reddit IAmA sex worker (or escort, prostitute, etc) or a search on reddit itself will show you more discussions :) I am a fan of Stoya, reading her IAmA was a lot of fun!

Thanks for the advice, but I wasn't confusing anything, and I most definitely have never confused a cop with a lawyer. I mentioned my conversation with the police simply as a way to assure the OP that incalls are not risky. Not to say that the cops are the end word on the law. But to say that the cops DON'T CARE. As far as the cops here are concerned, it's not illegal anymore. The bawdy house law was declared unconstitional in March. 12 months from that date, it will be completely invalid. And from the mouths of the cops I spoke to myself, it's already gone. So no, incalls are not risky. That's all I was trying to say.

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Of course I am not a doctor but may I strongly suggest you see one ASAP for your own good. Realy thughts like this do not filter in overnight and I wish you all the best!

The year and a half I've been here I've met more men that don't post reco's then do. There are simply to many men that prefer to keep who they visit private, so to judge any provider on their limited number of reco's would be unfair and uninformed :icon_biggrin:.Wether you decide to post and what you decide to post should be between you and your provider but it should always remain positive as per the rules. I've noticed some men post when asked if they have any info on a lady they reply " my mom says if I don't have anything nice to say -don't say anything at all" the same as a negative review, but that is just my opinion.

I like Touch because he posts some of the most stunningly beautiful pictures on the board. Awesome stuff.

An addendum to Porthos' post above; it should be noted that the bawdy-house law has been struck down in Ontario, and the whole thing is now going to the Supreme Court... so the law at the moment can probably be best described as "uncertain". But even before that, nobody was interested in prosecuting it unless there were other reasons for doing so (drugs, underage or trafficked SPs, complaints from neighbors, etc). Visiting an incall has always been a bit like driving at 101 on the highway; technically illegal, but nobody gives a damn.

While 80-90% of the time this is true.. I'm going to throw some reality on the situation. The only time I've heard of this is actually during a duo when a 2nd newly invited sp will offer the client a lower fee or 'extra service' behind the 1st sp's back to 'steal' him. It fortunately or unfortunately usually blows up in her face when the client informs the first lady. That's how we find out another sp might try to 'steal' a client. It does happen.. but those girls usually don't last in business too long that way. More recently however I've seen it happen with newer girls getting help or referrals from more mature sp's (outside of a duo) and doing this exact same thing. Again most of the time they are smart enough or have enough integrity to not do this.. it is a rather small town :) but I've seen or heard of it happening enough to know it's not all 'kittens' and roses out there.

I agree completely ... I only write a reco if I would, in fact, want my friends to see the lady. I wouldn't write a reco for a lukewarm experience. I've also never had a lady ask for a recommendation. But if asked why I didn't write one I would, politely, explain my reasons.

I think there is a grey area to this and often timing is the issue. I myself will send a thank you email (email is my preferred and often only form of communication) to my dates after having met them, not a week after but often an hour or day after. Sometimes if I have had extensive communications with someone then I am well aware that sending a message is not only okay but often welcome so I will send a message at a random time, simply because I saw something that may be of interest to them but that is a date that I've been exchanging a number of messages with and I know it's a welcome thing. Some ladies message after a date to genuinely thank you for your business and for spending (quality) time with them, this is likely their way of letting you know you were an enjoyable guest. Other ladies likely message you after a date as a marketing tool, a way to drum up business when times are slow, if you find that it's an unwelcome way for a lady to market herself then you may want to let her know that you are not in a position to receive these messages and in future would appreciate no longer being contacted. You can also decide if it was a serious enough violation of your privacy to no longer see her and eventually she will see that it is not an effective marketing strategy. If however you believe it was a genuine thank you then perhaps give her the benefit of the doubt and take it as a compliment, she likely does not reach out to everyone and you can smile to yourself that you are one of the few that 'made the cut.' You can still let her know that though you appreciate the thank you it put you in an awkward position but since there was no harm this time (it doesn't sound like you were caught by anyone) then just smile about the thanks and enjoy the ego boost that she felt the need to write you a personal note of thanks. :-)

For me if I was to receive a text I would not care. However I am single so it doesn't matter. I don't believe a SP should be texting someone without having talked to the person beforehand and knowing it is ok with the person. Since a lot of others are not in my situation, discretion is an important part of the business relationship between client and SP. As a client I am asked to be discrete when going to a SPs incall so as not to draw attention or cause and issues for here. The same thing has to be returned to the client by the SP. In this case it would mean not contacting them unless they know it is not a problem for the client.

I'd be careful about relying on a police officer's interpretation of the law. You would think they'd know, but frequently they don't. Outcalls ... where the client has the SP come to his place of residence or hotel room, are perfectly legal in Canada. No issues at all. Incalls, where the client goes to the SPs location, even where it is a hotel room, may be a violation of the keeping a common bawdy house provisions of the Criminal Code. Those provisions basically say that the keeping of the bawdy house (a location where prostitution takes place) is against the law. In theory it doesn't matter if that is your actual residence. It doesn't have to be a separate place kept only for the purposes of your business. Similarly, it can be a hotel room, even if you don't use the same hotel room, or same hotel, all the time. There are actually cases of hotel owners being prosecuted because they knowingly let SPs use rooms in their hotel, but those cases are really old and reflect a very dated morality (1910s and 20s) The thing is, it becomes very difficult to prove these things, especially against independent SPs. The transactions all take place behind closed doors,and unless there are other reasons for complaints ...drugs, unruly behaviour, underage girls, pimping, etc. the police generally are not interested in incalls. Often, massage parlours, because of the volume of business, and locations in residential neighborhoods with high volume, often attract the attention of the police and this may result in bawdy house charges being laid. But, one should be aware ... technically under our current prostitution laws incalls are a violation of the criminal code. And there is the provision that being "found in" a common bawdy house is also against the law. Having said all of that ... I almost exclusively do incalls, and have never felt worried or concerned in the least. An independent SP, in a discrete apartment tower/condominium complex or large busy hotel, is ideal. Stay away from sketchy hotels!

I personally wouldn't ask an office mate if they were polyamourous or into kink, or how many one-night stands they've had; that's not my business. If they choose to disclose, that is their choice, but usually that level of disclosure comes with more than a passing knowledge of the person. Honestly, questions like this raise red flags for me, especially when it's someone I don't know asking the question. I get the curiousity, I think it is only human nature to be curious about others, but you need to be aware that while this is a very intimate profession, a lot of us don't want to disclose our personal business. Perhaps if you've established a relationship with someone, they may choose to disclose some more personal information, but I doubt that you will get much response to a question posed on a public message board.

These are all incredibly intimate and potentially invasive questions. But this in particular rubs me the wrong way: Just like everyone? Perhaps you didn't mean this to be offensive, but I certainly find it distasteful. Would you ask your coworkers about their sex lives? Your clients at work? The barrista at your coffee shop? As Nicolette said, WHY do you want to know these things? http://not-a-jerk.blogspot.ca/2011/09/how-to-interact-with-sex-worker.html and because I really enjoy reading this: http://shittheysaytosexworkers.tumblr.com/

I'm sure these questions were put out there with innocent intentions and with simply curiosity in mind. But they can be easily perceived as rather intrusive. I have had SP's volunteer this kind of personal info to me, but as Cleo says, only after a mutual trust and friendship had been built over time. And when I say they volunteered the info I mean exactly that. I did NOT ask for it. If I were to make a point of asking for this kind of personal info, IMO, that would be stepping over a line and would potentially damage the solid, trusting SP/Client relationship which both parties have worked hard to establish over time. Long story short....if the ladies wanted everyone on cerb to know this kind of info about their personal lives...it would be included in their ads.

Take a look at what you're asking. The question is so very broad, and as there are a wide variety of ladies who have different motives and situations for this type of work, there are probably an unlimited variety of answers. These women are quite normal and represent the aspirations of any women, and not necessarily in this industry. I suggest you take some time to explore the site and I'm sure you will find many of the answers already discussed here but asked with more limited parameters.

But asking other women their personal info wouldn't give you any answers about --that-- girl. Because every woman's life is different. And also, every woman's real life is her real, and personal, life. Questions like these are ones I may feel comfortable answering to a client I've developed a friendship with, but asking women to share this info about their real life on a board devoted to their work life seems invasive to me.

If you think ladies will feel it inappropriate during a session to answer these questions.. I think most ladies will feel rather uncomfortable disclosing their personal business online to the whole world. Just letting you know why the responses will be minimal. I'm one who is fine discussing it in person.. but it's a tricky thing I'm sure to figure out whether it's okay or not. I have no interest in spouting off about it here. You might say.. why answer this at all then? Because I know many of my fellow escorts and most of them are less open than me :) However.. I will say. I'm single at the moment by choice.. but when I'm in a relationship I'm very open about what I do. I don't date often but that's simply because I have no interest at the moment. When I have done.. I either do it online or someone I've met through friends. My last serious relationship was with a client who I asked out right after our first session ended. I don't have kids.

On my list: Peru (Specifically, Machu Picchu) Southeast Asia (will hit Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, and Vietnam) Another trip to Australia, to spend time in Tasmania, and do the Overland Track. Likely visit New Zealand too, and scoot over to Fiji while there Rather than backpack around, I'd love to actually spend a month or two just living in Barcelona/Madrid All of these destinations will involve a lot of $$$ and time away, so they're a bit out of reach for while, so my next feasible travel destination will be Morocco in the spring, with a stop in Paris on the way

As a teen in the 80's (omg) I hated the music and to this day listen to the 70's channel on Rogers. Today, I decided to listen to the 80's crap and lo and behold I know the words to most of the songs lol. So my highlight is that the 80's didn't suck as much as I thought.

If you CLICK on the photos they increase to full size (except the avatar - profile photos) the album photos and the post photos will open into a large view. For example Click on it. If it does not get larger then you have turned off javascript in your browser (or have a bug) download www.firefox.org and use it instead of I.E. or Safari (or whatever browser you are using) if your on a mobile device well... your sort of stuck with what your device can do.

This a interesting thread. Relationships are part of our daily lives, and we entertain so many different levels with so many people. For instance, when we go regularly to the bank, the bank director or the bank clerk may "know" you and a mutual nice and warm kind of relationship can happen, in a more "personal' way. It's the same with a co-worker where we can develop a very nice and, in a way, a profound relationship that goes over the strict purpose of the job. It may also lead to a personal friendship. It may most of the time end when the job, the purpose is over. Real friendship, the one that goes over a purpose, a job, a reason, is rare and, and in a way, a gift of life. But it is rare. I'm not saying that a friendship between a Sp and a Hobbiest is not possible, but it's a rare thing, and we cannot expect that because we develop a true connection within this hobby that this will lead to real friendship. And the true connection is a crucial part of the relationship between a SP and a hobbiest; without this kind of connection where would be the pleasure to hobby ? And one of the specificity of this hobby is to have a sexual encounters without the commitment between the two persons. So we are in the middle of a paradox; at the same time we want a connection, and we don't want it. I look forward to hear from others, either SPs and hobbiest on this thread.

I agree with Backrubman that certainly a friendship can be established, based on mutual respect, fondness, and enjoyment of each others company, exchanging of thoughtful gifts, including of course, the physical pleasure. But my real life friends know ME, my real name, job, family, hobbies and recreation, share in my stories, secrets, and problems, as I do theirs. True, I share parts of my life, thought and feelings, with certain SPs, but not to the threshold where they really know me, or me them It's quite true though, that, I feel, even the bit of insight I get from seeing an SP in this fantasy realm is enough that I can determine whether or not I would (and do) "like/luv" the whole person, and would be their friend, casual or otherwise outside this context. There are times when I have felt that SPs' I am fond of, had, or are having some turmoil in their personal lives, under their own real names and as much as I feel compassion, and even an urge to ask, and then offer help, I hold back because I think it crosses the boundary of the "friendship" lines that are defined in this particular relationship. I have adopted the motto here that I may not know the real answer to a question I may want to ask, so I dont ask. If they want to discuss something, I hope they are comfortable enough with me to bring it up. But YES, a friendship can exist, albeit unique.

I meet really nice girls who are awesome. I always see the same one now as she is awesome!! I believe you shouldn't see a service provider if you can't afford to pay them well. Look what they do for us! I only go when I've saved up well more then they ask for and am treated very well! Fred

Agree with Cato! Once spent 3/4 of an hr session doing daty and dato and dont regret it one bit. I consider it mandatory and on the 1 time it was refused I almost cried, What the hell is a dental dam and has there been a more unsexy device ever named? Get in there and enjoy the moment! When I was younger I hated the idea of giving anal and now that i'm an older perv I feel like it's tame! Tastes change and desires are fluid depending on who you're with! Much like the YMMV it applies to the ladies as well

Some of the most amazing eyes I have seen are right here on CERB. Sandi