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To return to the OP's questions... :) The ladies who have very active reco threads tend to be new to the industry, and younger. The ones who have been around a little longer (by which I mean more than a few months) tend to get recos far less often. This doesn't mean that they suddenly became bad at what they do... Bear in mind also that some SPs seem to actively solicit recos, whereas many don't, and some seem to actively discourage them. Bear in mind also that a low-volume SP will necessarily have a much lower pool of potential reco-writers. Finally, I think we guys are far less likely to write another reco for someone if we've already written one, so SPs who have a larger proportion of repeat and long-term clients are also likely to have far fewer recos. Of course, it's also possible that someone doesn't have recos because there's a good (ie negative) reason for that... but you won't find that out here, as the rules of the board dictate that the negative stuff doesn't get said. But if someone's really worth avoiding, people will say things like "can't comment publicly", or "PM me for details". That's often a bad sign. So, to conclude... you can't actually tell much from the fact that someone doesn't have a lot of recos.

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thx for the kind words and support sorry for all lower case, keyboarding...hunt and peck with one hand doc took out about one inch of bone,2 inches of muscle and scraped the tendons and ligaments believe they got the "hot"spot, fingers crossed in sling for six weeks, then physiotherapy ??more chemo?? coming off pain meds, damn! lots of ice, no single malt until off the heavy duty meds take care! theliquor

I've never had a client arrive who is visibly sick, but I have had gentlemen cancel due to having caught a bug. If someone did arrive and was visibly sick, I would politely ask that we reschedule our time, as I would never risk my health, and possible loss of work due to illness, for an appoointment.

I saw Roxann's ad tonight. And since this was her first time in Winnipeg, I could not find a review. Her pics looked very sexy. All I can say is guys, please make sure you see her before she leaves and hopefully with good experience from us, she will come back again. Her pictures are 100% accurate, the tattoos and piercings are to the tee. This girl is beautiful and her french accent is sexy. If you don't see her while she's here, your definitely gonna miss out. I emailed and texted Roxann Sunday night as I was feeling very curious. She responded within a very good time and quite friendly I must say. We set up a time to meet, I booked a half hour to try out a session ( I regret not booking the full hour). When I arrived at her location, she greeted me at door wearing very sexy underwear. I got very excited right away seeing how much more sexier she was in person. The tattoos and piercing were hot on her. She helped me undress as I observed her sexy body. I immediately started to explore her hips and ass as soon as I got the chance. I got on the bed and she immediately gave me full attention and explore my body. Roxann is not a clock watcher and took her time pleasuring me, she really really enjoys what she does. She gave me an amazing bbbj with excellent bls, It felt so good I asked her to 69 with me as I wanted to return the favor. I went to town on her sweet shaven kitty (probably one of the nicest pussy I have ever seen). I could not get enough of how good it tasted. I almost blew my load in her mouth, which rarely happens to me, so I composed myself. That's when I knew I had to put it inside her. She got me suited up and rode me like a champ. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. I loved looking at her sexy body and gorgeous ass as she filled me with pleasure. I couldn't take it any longer and put her in a lazy dog position as she had the perfect butt, and I wanted to pound it hard. I thrusted deep into her pussy. I played with her asshole while I was inside her. Experiencing all of this while watching her pleasured reaction made me explode while balls deep inside her wet pussy. WOW! I definitely should have booked for an hour. I went over the 30 min time and didn't even ask for MSOG. Even after going over the time limit, she didn't rush me at all, she was very sweet. She joined me on the bed as I relaxed, and chatted with me while still being sensual and exploring more of my body. I actually had to make myself get dressed because she was starting to get me hard again. I'm gonna assume YMMV is a given, however, this girl is phenomenal. She has taken over the #1 spot on my list. Next time its in my budget, I'm gonna book her for more than an hour. I'm also gonna assume she is open to DFK, that's just one of the things I'm not really into yet. I only do recommendations on ladies that have exceeded my level of expectations. Roxann is very gifted in the art of pleasuring a man. Guys, go and make an appointment with her while you have a chance. And learn from my mistake, book a full hour. Cheers

I recently had the opportunity to visit with Nathalie. It's been my great pleasure to have had several meetings previously with Nathalie and when I was planning this trip to Ottawa I contacted her to see if we might coordinate our schedules. Luckily for me it all worked out. As always she was prompt with her replies, very easy to communicate with and she went out of her way to accommodate me. She is a most delightful young woman with a joie de vivre and personality second to none. On this trip I was fortunate enough initially to see her for a few minutes at the social and when we met it was simply reconnecting with a friend. The following day we spent a significant amount of time together and every moment was a delight. She agreed to my request and we went for our second visit together to the Nordik Spa, a quiet, romantic and indeed spiritual environment . We enjoyed several cycles through the hot baths and saunas, interspersed with walks under an ice cold waterfall before relaxing in the meditative atmosphere of a chalet where we warmed up in front of a roaring fire. Leaving the spa we enjoyed an informal meal together and then proceeded to her location. Sipping wine and conversing made the evening slip by far too quickly. She is quick to laugh and that along with her smile is infectious. As always I do not share much of what happens behind closed doors. She and I have shared some wonderfully sensual and incredible make out sessions in the past and equally sensual and incredible experiences beyond that. On this occasion I felt a degree of intimacy that touched me deeply and the evening will be one that I shall always recall. She is indeed a sincere companion and once again I feel privileged for having the opportunity to have shared so many things with her. Gentlemen, if the opportunity arises and you can arrange to spend time with Nathalie you will be indeed fortunate. She is a unique and special person with a heart of gold. Thank you Nathalie for all that you have done for me not only on this visit but over time. Until next time..... MN2

I would hope no one would be that inconsiderate. As that would put the sp, at least myself in the awkward position of having to ask him to leave. That is if it were obvious. We obviously need our health to do our job and being resonsible I wouldn't work until I wasn't contagious. Hobbyists should do the same. What if I needed to work because of up coming plans or for any reason. No one can be that horny that they couldn't wait and if they were, use your hand.

For a client to attempt to see an SP when he is sick is simply disrespectful and rude. Anyone trying this should be shown the door, but not before giving her a hefty cancellation fee for effectively wasting her time! Respect is a two way street - to turn it around, how would a hobbyist feel if he booked an appointment and the lady showed up at the door with a bad flu/cold? Just my two cents...

Hey Gents and Ladies ! Just want to begin this by saying that this is not directed at anyone or meant to be anyone's point of view. These are just a few etiquette pointers to make things smoother .. Here are a few tips that may make a first encounter easier or make another visit go a bit more smoothly. When contacting a lady you shouldn't ask them to lower their prices. When a lady sets a price it is what she feels she is worth. Don't try to bargain that with her. It can make it so she doesn't want to meet you or she may take offense to the question. I know I can't speak for all but I know it bothers me a bit. Donation (a rate set by an individual lady).. I don't know about any gents, but there may be a time when you thought, "How do I go about paying her? When .. Before or after? " .. Well the answer to that is have the donation in a white envelope. Give it to the lady within a few moments of greeting and introduction. Some SP's even prefer you to put the envelope in the bathroom or on something that's in plain sight. That way the lady doesn't have to feel rude by having to interrupt the conversation to ask for her money. Get things out of the way smoothly so the time together can move on without that interruption. Also after you get to know someone and they become a regular companion the donation may be left till the end because of a mutual trust or agreement made. The time spent between a Gent and a Lady, much enjoyed by both, has to end. A set time is usually discussed in advanced. When the time does come be courteous of the lady's time and save both from a tense moment. Also a lady shouldn't ask Gents to be coming over and shouldn't be contacting the gent for dates. When a gent wants to see you he will contact you for a date. Personally I enjoy getting to know each other and keeping in touch in between encounters. But I do not ask for anyone to make a booking with me. During the visit the lady should make you feel comfortable, relaxed, cared about and sometimes make you feel you're living out a wild fantasy. She meets your every need while providing a non rushed (no one likes to be rushed lol) and genuine experience. She may even be providing a clean and safe environment where the encounters take place. Conversation is key from booking a session, to the moment you meet and to make the date comfortable for both individuals. Try to avoid touching personal subjects. Remember discretion is usually a must on both parts. Be a bit awkward if the conversation gets going and you guys end up knowing the same people or even may happen to know each others spouses (ouch right ? lol). Most importantly respect. We are all real people. We all have unique bodies, views and personalities. Give respect and it shall be received. I'm sure with everyone you may encounter. And may the ladies do the same. Appreciate each Gent for their unique qualities and personalities. I respect everyone I meet and respect has been given back. Hopefully this thread will help someone out ! Ashley xo

Phew!! Sure glad I don't live in Papua, New Guinea Holy Crap, 18ft splooge! When I was a teenager living at home with parents, I would stroke it at the bathroom sink and shoot jets about 3ft to the top of the bathroom mirror. I didn't clean up good enough though, cause Mom told me I owed her a bottle of Windex! lol Wish I still had that much jizz power. Additional Comments: Wouldn't that be called "Dink Eye"?

You are absolutely rigth! I use them aware ofthe risk involved.., the key word here MODERATION... is like everything in life, excess is never good! Everything in moderation has benefits but in excess can be harmful!

i love the sun and to tan. that is one of the reasons i go south in the winter. i have tried tanning beds before i went south but it really didnt help as i got a sun burn. now i take breaks by gonig in the shade for a bit and the pool. but i do love teh feel of the sun and its warmth.also the natural vitamins you get from it.

Someone who picks up the tip left on the table by another person in their party, intended for the server.

Guys if haveing a second bio dink around gives you the willys, find your self a second woman with a strap-on and have some fun.

seen bella on pink kitty cam set up a appointment for sunday call satruday to confirm it they was easy to talk to sunday come i was at her door it open and omg she is a goddess try to say hi how are you but not sure what come out lol she was great awesome body we take turn in pleasing each other damn she was good then we start in cowboy then doggy then it was break time i lay on the bed and saw a thing of lubrication and laugh and i said we did not need that i had her wet i 2 minute i ask if 10 am was to early for her she said she work late at night and dont have many early in the morning but she fucking love it the best breakfast she had i said next time is 10 ok she said fuck no be here for 9 lol then round 2 was fucking awesome she easy to talk make you feel at home then fuck your brains out about 5 or 6 times she said the best breakfast she had i made her a breakfast fucking machine and she love it guys she work on weekends go to her at the end of a hour she had a bigger smile than i had lol till next time my breakfast fucking machine you are awesome see you soon

A friend of mine wrote the Better Built Bondage Book and gave me a copy as a gift for helping him edit it. It's a DIY book on making your own BDSM furniture. It's been sitting unused on my bookshelf for years and it occurred to me that someone here might like it. It's a first edition so it looks a little different than the picture but it should still be the same content. If anyone wants it (free), just send me a PM.

Portebello Mushrooms stuffed with feta cheese, diced tomatoes, and red onion RG

There was a mother with may be a new one-two month old baby and possibly 1yr old twin girls who got stuck in the snow leaving the parking lot and not one soul came to help push her out, she was crying and in a panic, there were men and teenage boys/girls just walking by looking and didn't even offer to help WTF??. I grabbed my shovel and dashed across the street, calmed the mother and dug her out while some of those people still walking by kept looking or stood there watching. Some people these days have no compassion for others. I never leave the table until the server comes back for this reason or I ask them over and I always leave a personal little note of thanks.

As much as I look better with a tan, and could use the extra Vitamin D in the winter, I don't use tanning beds anymore. I think I left well over 200 minutes in my account at the last place I went. But it's been years, so I'm sure they're long gone. Being in my thirties, I knew it wasn't going to help preserve the youthfulness of my skin, so I just stopped. But I do admittedly love the Sun and prefer to be by the pool than anywhere else when it's hot. Waterproof sunscreen!

I am glad we both agree on the importance of awareness of the risks and moderation.

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todays breakfast is 2 poacked eggs and leftover pork snitzel with a bottle of water. trying to use things up in the fridge as i am leaving for the dominican on wednesday for 2 weeks .

The Ministry of Health in Ontario says to stay home if you are feeling sick with the cold or flu, so stay home!!!! How inconsiderate can one be? Why would you go and see an MA or SP and spread the bug when you are supposed to be at home in bed? Personally, I have always cancelled when I have had either the cold or the flu in the past and will continue to do so in the future!

Someone very close to me played this for me and said it reminded them of me when they heard it......it's the vocals are beautiful;) It's still makes me feel great everytime i hear it............

I'll add to Emily J's and include another song from Led Zep from the same album - WHEN THE LEVEE BREAKS - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlPjlFQQ3fs When i hear this, i just like to sit back and listen.

Very interesting reading, Emily. Not to hijack the thread, but for some, if you get semen in your eye, you can end up with pink eye, so Gents, for those ladies who allow facials, give us fair warning before you blow.

"How to save a life" The Fray "Never too late" Three Days Grace "My Immortal" Evanescense and "Bring me to life" "While my guitar gentle weeps" The Jeff Healey Band http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJh3KaIKDAw "Chasing Cars" Snow Patrol

My grandparents meant the world me. They were loving and caring, to me kinda like parents. Whenever I wasn't staying with them I would visit almost everyday. I would get off the school bus few stops early just to stop by to say hi. When I was 12 my grandfather suffered a stroke which left him paralyzed and most of his memory was lost. He didn't even remember his own children but me his grandchild who he took care of when I was even younger. As sad as it was him losing most of his memory it touched me that he still knew me, I felt special. He past away shortly after and it was hard on me. At the same time he had his stroke my grandmother was also ill but appears she was going to be fine. But once her husband died it changed for the worse. She past away a little after my grandfather did. I wasn't even done grieving for my grandfather when she past. I remember it was feb 14 valentine day after I was able to spent a few moments with her before she past. I was in the hallway crying, and one of the nurses who new me came up to me and told me that I shouldn't be sad. That instead of being sad that they are gone to be happy for they are together once again and that today was valentine day, the perfect day for them to be reunited. From that day on I say valentine day as a day to cherish to one you love. This year ill probably be alone so I thought it would maybe it would be a good idea if we could share a memory of a past valentine you may of had. Something you did for your special someone or vice versa and perhaps it may even give some one an idea. It's only fair ill go first. A couple years ago I decided I was ready to have children. My wife had been wanting them for a while but I alway wanted to wait. So I decided for valentine day I would give her what she wanted. To start a family. So I decided to buy her a gift card to a maternity clothes store. Along with a gift card for some lingerie to get in the mood. (ok more for me than her) but I wasn't sure if she would get it so I also bought baby booties and put the card in there and then I wrapped it up in a baby blanket and topped it of with a little teddy bear. It worked perfectly when she opened it and looked at me I just gave her a nod yes and said I was ready. She then had a few tears roll down her cheek then ran into my arms. That to me that was my best valentine gift to give and to receive the joy it gave her was great. So what's your moment?

I'm not much of a romantic. So alot of my valentines days are spent like many others. When I am seeing someone, going out to dinner and some good sex is usually the norm. I would just like to say thank you to you Empty for sharing your touching story. I appreciate you being so open and am sorrry for the pain you had. Bless your heart.

Well put Ashley!! There is nothing more uncomfortable then those awkward moments. Most of us ladies want a good connection from the start with the gentlemen we see, it makes more of a pleasurable experience for the both of us;). The worst is being asked for a deal..really? We are not running an auction here, it is a business. We do not get time off with pay, sick days with pay or benefits. Also, I like to add; Think about what you write to us ladies first when you PM us, be kind and respectful with your questions, there is no bigger turn off then a rude and/or blunt question and your name. I take that as a insult and will not reply or see you. Take time to introduce yourself to us and say hello:).

I personally would not want to live somewhere that I couldn't work out of or have a personal lover over for fun.

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A few others I can't get tired of listening to - Guns N' Roses - November Rain Prince - Purple Rain The Cars - Who's Gonna Drive You Home

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I'm not a real religious guy, but respect those that may be in this industry,or may not be in this industry. I look at religion from this point of view.... and it is my own thoughts which deals with religion from another view.. I have prayed ( asking for someone to listen and help me) for those that are taken away from us, not for what they might have done in the past, we are good people and are here for a purpose, finding ourselves and finding that life path itself, whatever the entails making us smile and live life to its fullest. I often ask myself, if there is a true belief in god, or there is a god, why would he take those we love from us at a early age? I've lost both parents( a number of good friends as well) at a relative early age,we pray during their sickness to help them to get through it, but that never happens does it? We say things like we will "Do anything for you god to give them that extra time on earth" and then we say.... "why couldn't you help us out god "? I know that god has no control over sickness, but when prayers are made and they remark it was time for them to meet their keeper, then who has the rightful choice to say it was their time? Cancer sickness,and accident or what ever, that itself is part of life I guess. So why would we ever be judged, while in this industry? I think there is no judgement other than society. I look at this industry, and myself and have never had any regrets or think that god is frowning upon me for my choices, cause I would look up and say to him "Then why would you make choices of allowing family and friends to be taken away from me far too early?" I moved on in my life and travels, always thinking of this poem and thinking of those I love and dearly miss, I keep it simply by paying attention to following that I read during my parents eulogy years back.....as my parents always would be smiling when they were alive, and I'm sure they are still smiling down at me now,regardless of what I'm up too ;) A SMILE It cost nothing, but creates much. It enriches those who receive, without impoverishing those who give. It happens in a flash and the memory of it lasts forever. None are so rich they can get along without it and none so poor but are richer for its benefits. It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign of friends. It is rest to the weary, daylight to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and nature's best antidote for trouble. Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is no earthly good to anybody till it is given away! If someone is to tired to give you a smile, leave one of yours. For, nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none to give. -----Anonymous So smile folks, whatever you might be doing in your life, as we made these decisions and I don't think anyone is looking for approval or forgiveness.

GNR - Knocking on heavens door http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tmc8rJgxUI Kiss - Beth Foreigner - I want to know what love is

by Hinder Feel By Robbie Williams -U2 Volcano by Phillip Phillips I love raspy voices! shivers just thinking about it..There are so may I love that give me chills there just a few.

Sometimes overplayed and maybe a tad cliche, but still and always will be a classic and the best rock n roll tune of all time! Stairway To Heaven - Zeppelin In particular from the 5:55 mark onwards gives me the most chills and goosebumps. Oh, and I want to fuck Robert Plant's brains out. Also, this will give you crazy goosebumps too... At a recent tribute to Zeppelin, Heart performed Stairway to Heaven.... A full choir and orchestra, Jason Bonham on drums... Plant and Page in the audience watching... (I'm pretty sure Robert Plant shed a few tears). Not to mention Ann Wilson's pipes, holy crap. Everything about it is perfect. It's incredible. (Oh, and Barack and Michelle are there, rockin out too! :D)

CH, considering the fact the OP joined a week ago and this is his first post, a little friendly gesture wouldn't be so bad, would it? ;) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=29657&highlight=Sacha Welcome to CERB, PL :)

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere. I'll maybe going to hell but at least all my friends will be there :icon_cool: "I'm on the highway to hell No stop signs, speed limit Nobody's gonna slow me down" AC/DC

It's the difference between an arrangement that says "I'll give you this if you'll sleep with me", versus one that says "sleep with me or I'll take that away from you"... when "that" is the place you live. This isn't just "an alternative to convention"; it's threat and exploitation. For a client-SP relationship to be ethical there needs to be freedom of choice on both sides, at all times. But the OP was setting up a situation where someone made an agreement at one point in time in exchange for a place to live, and would then be held to that agreement at least weekly or be thrown out of her home. For some people -- especially someone willing to sign such an agreement in the first place -- being thrown out of a home can be extremely serious, and she may feel she has no choice but to compromise herself seriously to avoid it. I thought at first that he'd missed that coercive element of the relationship. But then it turned out that he was specifically interested in her dependence upon him, because of the leverage it gave him over the terms of her service. I sometimes pay women to (hopefully) have sex with me. That doesn't preclude me from condemning, let's say, human trafficking in the street trade. Nor from calling out a plan for exploitation when it's laid out so nakedly.

same as above, the words in the title don't really do too much for me. Much more interested in the person sounding intelligent and can get her message across. I will say i do like witty ones, such as Emily J, Isabella Gia, Gabriella and Nathalie's...def get my attention, all come across as funny and smart.

I very much enjoyed my first whirlwind tour of your blog. Bravo, Nathalie! Touch

Danger Will Robinson, DANGER... cat

I think the ladies who last longer in this business are people who are sexually comfortable with themselves and while it's a lucrative business, I'm a firm believer in the fact that if you don't like what you're doing for a living then don't do it. I don't do anything I don't want to do and yes, while --some-- do it for the cash, they are usually in and out of this business fairly quickly. I treat this like a business but at the same rate, many ladies provide good service and are not revolving door when it comes to seeing clients. As for women enjoying sex with less partners, then please explain why married men come to see us? Some wives simply no longer enjoy having sex so that puts that theory right out the window. For the record, I'm not judging married men for doing that as that's what we are here for. In fact, I believe SPs do in fact save many marriages.

I don't think that these generalizations apply to most of us, Harrywatch. Speaking for myself, as one who has had more than "many" partners, I have no difficulty whatever enjoying the sex. I often enjoy it a great deal. Perhaps this is because I take time to get to know the men who visit me and to create an atmosphere where we can be comfortable together and our mutual pleasure increased. In fact, I think that time and experience has enhanced my ability to enjoy everything that goes on between us.

Some days? People in general are enough to make you say WTF. Ever have one of them days?

This is the most WTF thing I've read for quite a long time...