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Beautiful ladies here on Cerb? Since my initial start date back in 2007, I don't believe I've ever seen so many gorgeous SP's and Ma's. I'm not just talking about Ottawa area, but from the East coast through the West. It isn't just about the photo's (But I do love the photo's) it is about the interaction with many as well, that I find so great. But it often leads me astray ;) as to what lady I like to spend time with, if I could, I would try and see a lot of you sweet ladies in a heart beat. Your genuine personality goes along way in this industry, I just think you ladies here on Cerb, are ALL so BEAUTIFUL. I would like to say thank-you to you, for the friendship,intimacy and here's to future intimacy with you beautiful ladies. Happy Valentine's Day to each and everyone of you ladies! Warm hugs and kisses from ME :)

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The comfort factor is HUGE, for everyone. This is why I will, professionally, only offer it in two circumstances: One, with two clients that I've known individually for some time, and can show that they know each other well. I will not 'introduce' two clients in a DP session, and I will never meet two new clients in a MMF session. THe other, is with my male friend that I offer MMF sessions with. This can be quite successful, because it's NOT another client. It's someone that I know well, and who is so comfortable with sex and being naked, that it can encourage the client to feel comfortable as well. We're not nervous, so it helps eliminate nervousness for everyone. And, it eliminates the awkward (or even, impossible), situation of trying to ask a friend to join in for a DP :) Comfort is the biggest factor in these situations, by far! But when it's there...my my my it can be fun :D

I agree! Let me anticipate the real thing! I also hate the perception that I must be into or tolerate drug use during a session.

the oftenness that people seem to think I want a pic of their penis. yes I get it you own one like 95% of my customers --yawn-- i think I've seen one or two

Hey Gents and Ladies ! Just want to begin this by saying that this is not directed at anyone or meant to be anyone's point of view. These are just a few etiquette pointers to make things smoother .. Here are a few tips that may make a first encounter easier or make another visit go a bit more smoothly. When contacting a lady you shouldn't ask them to lower their prices. When a lady sets a price it is what she feels she is worth. Don't try to bargain that with her. It can make it so she doesn't want to meet you or she may take offense to the question. I know I can't speak for all but I know it bothers me a bit. Donation (a rate set by an individual lady).. I don't know about any gents, but there may be a time when you thought, "How do I go about paying her? When .. Before or after? " .. Well the answer to that is have the donation in a white envelope. Give it to the lady within a few moments of greeting and introduction. Some SP's even prefer you to put the envelope in the bathroom or on something that's in plain sight. That way the lady doesn't have to feel rude by having to interrupt the conversation to ask for her money. Get things out of the way smoothly so the time together can move on without that interruption. Also after you get to know someone and they become a regular companion the donation may be left till the end because of a mutual trust or agreement made. The time spent between a Gent and a Lady, much enjoyed by both, has to end. A set time is usually discussed in advanced. When the time does come be courteous of the lady's time and save both from a tense moment. Also a lady shouldn't ask Gents to be coming over and shouldn't be contacting the gent for dates. When a gent wants to see you he will contact you for a date. Personally I enjoy getting to know each other and keeping in touch in between encounters. But I do not ask for anyone to make a booking with me. During the visit the lady should make you feel comfortable, relaxed, cared about and sometimes make you feel you're living out a wild fantasy. She meets your every need while providing a non rushed (no one likes to be rushed lol) and genuine experience. She may even be providing a clean and safe environment where the encounters take place. Conversation is key from booking a session, to the moment you meet and to make the date comfortable for both individuals. Try to avoid touching personal subjects. Remember discretion is usually a must on both parts. Be a bit awkward if the conversation gets going and you guys end up knowing the same people or even may happen to know each others spouses (ouch right ? lol). Most importantly respect. We are all real people. We all have unique bodies, views and personalities. Give respect and it shall be received. I'm sure with everyone you may encounter. And may the ladies do the same. Appreciate each Gent for their unique qualities and personalities. I respect everyone I meet and respect has been given back. Hopefully this thread will help someone out ! Ashley xo

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A Valentines Day Viewpoint With Valentines Day upon us it causes me think about many things. Valentines Day is traditionally a day in which love is expressed, flowers and chocolates are given to a loved one, sweet nothings are whispered, one may choose to go out to a nice restaurant, all lovely things. I really never enjoyed Valentines Day because I found it so artificial. All of the things mentioned above I really did do on a very regular basis, not because I was 'expected' to do so but because I liked to do so. Now when Valentines Day comes around for me it is one of the saddest days of the year.

i visit saint john, moncton and fredericton regularly... i notice plenty of girls there when im visiting... maybe take a better or bigger look around doll!!

Dead? are you sure? In my experience Saint John is a great place to hobby in view of the visiting and local ladies. As well, I believe the ladies find Saint John as a great place to work.

11 pages, so this may already be there... But, I find people in such a rush these days that they try to barrel their way on to an elevator the moment the doors open rather then leaving a little room, taking a breath and allowing passengers (if any) to exit first. It's a small thing, maybe not a WTF, but annoying

The ingredients to make crack. It is an awesome desert we nicknamed crack because it is soooo addictive. Scor chocolate bars, condensed sweetened milk and ritz crackers. Omg...just crush the chocolate bar and crackers, mix in milk, place on baking tray and put in 375 oven for about 20mins. Break up like brittle and enjoy!

I saw Roxann's ad tonight. And since this was her first time in Winnipeg, I could not find a review. Her pics looked very sexy. All I can say is guys, please make sure you see her before she leaves and hopefully with good experience from us, she will come back again. Her pictures are 100% accurate, the tattoos and piercings are to the tee. This girl is beautiful and her french accent is sexy. If you don't see her while she's here, your definitely gonna miss out. I emailed and texted Roxann Sunday night as I was feeling very curious. She responded within a very good time and quite friendly I must say. We set up a time to meet, I booked a half hour to try out a session ( I regret not booking the full hour). When I arrived at her location, she greeted me at door wearing very sexy underwear. I got very excited right away seeing how much more sexier she was in person. The tattoos and piercing were hot on her. She helped me undress as I observed her sexy body. I immediately started to explore her hips and ass as soon as I got the chance. I got on the bed and she immediately gave me full attention and explore my body. Roxann is not a clock watcher and took her time pleasuring me, she really really enjoys what she does. She gave me an amazing bbbj with excellent bls, It felt so good I asked her to 69 with me as I wanted to return the favor. I went to town on her sweet shaven kitty (probably one of the nicest pussy I have ever seen). I could not get enough of how good it tasted. I almost blew my load in her mouth, which rarely happens to me, so I composed myself. That's when I knew I had to put it inside her. She got me suited up and rode me like a champ. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. I loved looking at her sexy body and gorgeous ass as she filled me with pleasure. I couldn't take it any longer and put her in a lazy dog position as she had the perfect butt, and I wanted to pound it hard. I thrusted deep into her pussy. I played with her asshole while I was inside her. Experiencing all of this while watching her pleasured reaction made me explode while balls deep inside her wet pussy. WOW! I definitely should have booked for an hour. I went over the 30 min time and didn't even ask for MSOG. Even after going over the time limit, she didn't rush me at all, she was very sweet. She joined me on the bed as I relaxed, and chatted with me while still being sensual and exploring more of my body. I actually had to make myself get dressed because she was starting to get me hard again. I'm gonna assume YMMV is a given, however, this girl is phenomenal. She has taken over the #1 spot on my list. Next time its in my budget, I'm gonna book her for more than an hour. I'm also gonna assume she is open to DFK, that's just one of the things I'm not really into yet. I only do recommendations on ladies that have exceeded my level of expectations. Roxann is very gifted in the art of pleasuring a man. Guys, go and make an appointment with her while you have a chance. And learn from my mistake, book a full hour. Cheers

To the wonderful women of Cerbland a special thank you and Valentine's kiss for all the fun, pleasure, intimacy, and laughter we've shared. I love Valentine:s Day because it gives me a chance to say how much my friendships here mean to me. But my friends know that already!

this is the highlights of several days I am on day 6 of my 11 week drive (wander) around the USA I spent the weekend with good friends in upstate NY and had a great time catching up (as it had been too long since I had seen them) and taking in some of the area's points of interest (museum, symphony, etc.) then I backtracked slightly to Cooperstown and the Baseball Hall of Fame then I drove the backroads of NY and PA southward ... the scenery is a lot like driving 327 south from Mont-Tremblant ... hardly a straight piece of road longer than a hundred metres ... it seemed like a good idea until fog settled in and my speed was reduced to a crawl and I didn't get half as far as I planned that evening then Philadelphia ... if you have never been to the Philadelphia Museum of Art, get there ... it is amazing ... and of course, it has a statue of Rocky out front and, an hour ago I arrived in Washington DC

If I was 18-25 I might be intrigued by explicit words in a title. Now, I'd much rather see a confident woman who values herself and who wants to connect with me. I find that much more arousing. When you add transparency on top - rates, availability, location, and a real description - then I'm hooked. When I see a lot of "I will not do..." statements, I get turned off. I'd rather leave those parameters for our discussion one-on-one as we discuss a potential meeting. Beyond that, a professional photo goes a very long way to setting a mood. Hope that helps.

For this week only, take 20$ off all sessions! The perfect opportunity to try a Nuru experience, or see me for an extended sensual massage, or go all the way with a 90m combination of a 30 therapeutic rub down accompanied by a 60m Nuru. You'll find me discreetly located in upscale and private accommodations or see me as an outcall at your residence or hotel. Schedule this week with so many rare occasions to get together. Monday 10h to 22h Tuesday 17h to 22h Wednesday One possibility at 10h & 16h to 22h Thursday 8h to 20h Friday 10h to 22h Saturday 10h to 22h Sunday 10h to 15h Monday 10h to 18h Call: 613-482-1553 Email: [email protected] (You can even reply to this newsletter) Text: 613-909-8336 Private Message me here on Cerb Click Here to book online and Check availability Please note that after this week, I will be unavailable until March. During this time I'll be taking an intense course and need all the time to study. I apologize if this poses any inconvenience. I will post a new schedule as soon as I can. Thank you so much for check out my post! Your's truly, Jessica xoxox

Gentlemen Hi ! Im Lola beautiful,classy and sexy 23 y/o ;) and i will be in Ottawa area Feb 14 to February 16. I'm an exotic half french, half spanish beauty with chestnut brown eyes and long brown hairs.... Im a petite lady with nice curves and a skin soft as silk ... I'm a spontaneous and very warm girl, i love making the room temperature really hot : ) Making you feel like a king as it should be . . .with a magic touch and erotism, you will have an amazing time in my company. . . let your curiosity get you!! Copy the link below to see my recommendations on CERB (Canadian Escort Recommendation Board ) ! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=L&t=120370 You must be respecful, well groomed and looking for a very special moment! Please if you have others questions regarding my massage or my services be discreet about it, the best and more appropriate is to discuss in person. For Appointment: Call at the spa (Business line only ) at 613-820-8887 ask for session with Lola OR You can reach me by email [email protected] or private message me. My availabilities : Thursday and Friday 9h to 23h / Saturday 9h to 21h See you soon for some cuddling !!! Lola xoxo

Hello :-) I have moved to CMJ east location. (closer to home now) Call to book an appt. 6135236199

I do a lot of searching and planning for dates through my mobile device and use the mobile site of CERB. Not only is the screen small, older iphone, but a lot of the nice features and links get removed. Would the lovely people of CERB please add their webpage link as a separate line in their adds please .. This would make looking at their sites for extra information so much easier. I thank you in advance Posted via Mobile Device

Come get a relaxing massage by a hot little vixen xoxo About me- Sexy petite 20 year old with long red hair, sparkling green eyes! Out going, bubbly and ready to rock your world!! Providing- Flirty and dirty relaxation massage Soapy sexy showers Reverse4 massages Body slides- Duo massages(4 hands, 2girls) Hotub session9s & you'll leave happy. Schedule TODAY: 10-6 Rates- Single Massage 30mins: $55 45mins: $65 60mins: $80 Hot Tub Sessions 30mins: $70 45mins: $85 60mins: $100 Duo Massage rates also available upon request Location- 65 Bentley, Clean & cozy Contact-To book an appointment please send me a PM

Wednesday Crystal 10-6 aka "Crystal" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Hannah 10-6 NEW aka "Hannahxo" Jenna 6-11 aka "Jenna69" Lexi 3:30-11 NEW aka "Sexy Lexi" Kelly 6-11 aka "Kelly2010" www.angelstouchmassage.ca NEW WEBSITE with PICS & Schedule :smile: 3 rooms, 3 sexy ladies on per shift! Private Dance shows available upon request! Click here to see NEW pics of room: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3340 New Sexy Pics of our Hotties http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=52117 Full Body Relaxation Massage Single Massage: --------30 minutes $50. --------45 minutes $60. --------60 minutes $80. Couples Massage: 1 Attendant --------30 minute $60. --------45 minute $70. --------60 minute $90. Duo/Couples Massage:2 Attendants --------30 minute regular $100. on special for $80. --------45 minute regular $120. on special for $100. --------60 minute regular $160. on special for $130. ------HST included in prices. Longer Sessions available @ Discretion of MA ------ Tips Accepted------ ATM on site------Spacious Rooms with Private Showers------ NEW LOCATION: 65 Bentley 613-274-7073 Kelly Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=120424 Crystal Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=82862 Kennidi Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=K&t=62190

All the best - have a speedy recovery! Your fighting spirits are an inspiration to us all!

Your last words above were typed "take care" I think you, sir, should take care. As I said earlier, keep fighting the good fight, and I wish you a quick recovery and much less pain going forward. In a couple of weeks you will be pouring that single malt. ;)

As Always Babe Thinking about you!! Try your best to stay comfortable, and listen to the Dr's!! Your the best for keeping us all posted..... Kisses here until in person next, TXXX

I'll go all Canadian... Cowboy Junkies - Sweet Jane Indio - Hard Sun

Brooke is amazing! Friendly and beautiful 19 year old with the hardest body I have ever felt. I went for several dances with her.

Lucy,Kaytlyn,Stacy,Scarlett,Courtney & Misha Call Now: 613-523-6199 http://www.clubcmj.com Wednesday Feb.13th 9am-2pm: Stacy 9am-2pm: Kaytlyn 11am-6pm:Jordyn 12pm-6pm: Scarlett (Training) 2pm-9pm: Courtney 2pm-9pm: Stacy Thursday Feb.14th 9am-2pm: Kaytlyn 9am-2pm: Courtney 11am-6pm: Stacy 2pm-9pm: Jordyn 2pm-9pm: Courtney Friday Feb.15th 9am-2pm: Misha 9am-2pm: Kaytlyn 11am-6pm:Stacy 2pm-9pm: Lucy 2pm-9pm: Courtney Saturday Feb.16th 9am-2pm: Stacy 9am-2pm: Courtney 11am-6pm: Misha 2pm-9pm: Stacy 2pm-9pm: Courtney Sunday Feb.17th 9am-9pm:Courtney 9am-9pm:Stacy Misha,Stacy,Scarlett,Kaytlyn,Lucy & Courtney

I go tanning about once a week @ iTan, like the old saying goes moderation is key. Tanning outside in the sun is just as dangerous but we still do it.

I'm with Isabella ... it's Shrove Tuesday, so it's gotta be pancakes. We had fabulous blueberry pancakes, extra crispy bacon, and lots and lots of real maple syrup.

Zucchini boats stuffed with ground chicken, peppers, onions, tomatoes, spices and topped with cheese!

Valentines Day is cumming and I wanna be yours or you can be mine. Treat yourself this Valentines day and allow me to give you the MA session of a lifetime. I take my time and love what I do so guaranteed to be everything you want! I take the time to get to know exactly how you like whatever it is that you like! Schedule Wed-noon-11pm Thurs-7am-midnight Fri-7am-10pm Sat-9am-10pm Sun-8am-9pm Call, PM, or Text Lilly @ (613)-302-3007

The Scoop on Semen A few fun and interesting semen factoids! :biggrin: (Click to enlarge) You can learn more about this warm n creamy subject in my latest post on my erotic blog: www.SweetEmilyJ.com/blogasms.html

there are three really great shows coming up I thought I'd share. the first is on Valentine's day at Babylon heroes and Villains featuring Bourbon & Spice burlesque and many other numbers: http://www.facebook.com/events/495998363777031/ the next one and my personal favorite is the Sin sisters Va-va-voom post Valentine's day show at Rainbow...this one promises three full sets of acts all night of Burlesque so come get the most bang for your buck (not literally though) on Saturday: http://www.facebook.com/events/60107...ref=ts&fref=ts the next one is on Sunday and this is actually a burlesque and BRUNCH show from noon-3pm...brunch buffet will be served upstairs at maxwells lounge on Elgin. perfect for those who cant make the later shows: http://www.facebook.com/events/47614...ref=ts&fref=ts

As much as I look better with a tan, and could use the extra Vitamin D in the winter, I don't use tanning beds anymore. I think I left well over 200 minutes in my account at the last place I went. But it's been years, so I'm sure they're long gone. Being in my thirties, I knew it wasn't going to help preserve the youthfulness of my skin, so I just stopped. But I do admittedly love the Sun and prefer to be by the pool than anywhere else when it's hot. Waterproof sunscreen!

People who fail to tip some poor soul in a resteraunt or bar that provided them good service. WTF?

Someone who picks up the tip left on the table by another person in their party, intended for the server.

thx for the kind words and support sorry for all lower case, keyboarding...hunt and peck with one hand doc took out about one inch of bone,2 inches of muscle and scraped the tendons and ligaments believe they got the "hot"spot, fingers crossed in sling for six weeks, then physiotherapy ??more chemo?? coming off pain meds, damn! lots of ice, no single malt until off the heavy duty meds take care! theliquor

It's amazing to me how quickly my views are changing after such a short time on this site. I was a pretty conservative, vanilla kind of guy who had never really considered anything more that straight up guy-girl sex. Maybe it's seeing everyone being so open about different things but I find myself actively fantasizing about things like this. FMF isn't much of a stretch for most guys I guess but I'm finding myself thinking things like, "Another guy in the bedroom helping me work over a hot lady? Why not? Bring it on." I think it's more like I'd love to help fill someone's fantasies than an active fantasy of my own if that makes sense? Like, I don't fantasize about it for my own pleasure but more because it might totally rock some ladies world. Does that sound weird? Especially providers. I wonder if maybe they can get a little jaded...seen it all, most encounters are kind of ho-hum with the occasional great one thrown in. I don't know if that's the reality but I kind of fantasize about being the great one. The surprise. I've sometimes SPs comment that I look different than they expected so I guess there might be a feeling about what the encounter will be like before it happens. So you book a couple date and show up on a providers door with another super hot guy or girl and just try to rock her world. Give her an experience to remember. I'm not talking about some sort of ambush by the way...obviously it would all be discussed in advance...I'm just talking about trying to REALLY exceed expectations. Starting to think I don't have any of my own kinks or obsessions or desires...I want to learn what the other persons wants and then deliver that to them. Turning people on is a huge rush. It's a great avenue for imagination and creativity. So double pen, hells yeah. Giddy-up. It was only Ghostbusters where you weren't supposed to cross the streams but they did in the end anyway and it all worked out right?

Beautifully said and so very true. I respect everyone that comes to me and I will not deal with anyone who doesn't respect me. I also agreed greatly with the discount bit. We are not items; we are beautiful women (in all our shapes and sizes) and what we provide is important and so are we. I have no respect for those who try to wheel-n-deal a price and I do not entertain them. If a person does not respect me then they are not worth my time. Thumbs up sister!

Guys if haveing a second bio dink around gives you the willys, find your self a second woman with a strap-on and have some fun.

With the Oscar's coming, I could not resist to offer you a ANN HATHAWAY picture. for sure, an unconventional one.

As a long time fan of being trampled, perhaps I can add to MightyPen's excellent insight. I used to think that I was very alone in this, but I've researched it pretty thorougly. It's not nearly as unusual, nor as straightforward as you might think. The fetish typically begins in childhood. Very early, like age 5 or 6. Think of a young boy crawling around the floor playing with his toys while the women who love and nurture and protect him, like his Mom, Grandma, aunts and older sisters either walk about the room going about their business, or are sitting chatting or watching TV or reading. Who knows what happens, but somehow their feet and legs get imprinted on his sexual psyche. As the fellow grows older, the fetish takes its own twists and turns, so some guys will ask for a slow, loving trample, some will want a disinterested bitch who doesn't care about what she is doing, some will want a pse-type of trample that really seems to get the woman excited (perhaps as a prelude to her sitting on him and taking him), some will want the pain of your heels digging in, and some will want to experience the crushing weight. So in your role of trampler, the first thing to do is figure out what the guy needs. Almost every guy will want more than he can really take. That's important for you to understand. MightyPen's suggestion of starting slowly and gradually buillding up the intensity is a good one for several reasons. First, it's safe, secondly it wll give your client a great experience even if he can't take as much as he hoped, and finally it will allow you to guage how much he can take. You will be very much in control of everything that happens, so it is important for you to really pay attention to him; not just to what he says, but also to his beaviour and body signals. Twice I have been unable to talk when a woman stood on me. Give the fellow time to warm up. Like any atheletic activity, you risk injury of you don't. The first time you step on him, place your foot on his stomach and slowly transfer your weight onto him. Try not to stand on one foot for too long as you are stepping up; when you're on one foot, you are doubling the pressure on that spot on him. Only stand for a few seconds the first time. Give him a moment to recover, and then step on him again, longer this time. Each time stay a little longer, or start gently walking about. There are more muscles in his stomach than his chest, so he is likely to take your weight on his stomach easier. As soon as you step off, the cool air rushes into him, and in many cases, he will be ready to receive your weight again with 10 seconds or less. You can use that knowledge to vary the intensity. Some fellows may want you to walk on their pelvis, penis, legs, arms and even their head. Start slowly until your get to know the guy. Some guys try to hold their breath while you are on top. Discourage this; he will take you longer if he dosen't hold his breath. It's also safer since his blood pressure won't build up so fast. I've been told that smaller men seem to take trampling better than larger men. A man who is fit will take it better than a man who is out of shape. The newer the fellow is to being trampled, the less he is likely to be able to take as much as he hoped. Keeping your balance while standing on someone is hard to do; it takes a fair amount of core body strength on your part. If you do this long enough, you will work up a sweat. If you don't have a strong core, you will fidget as you try to keep your balance, and that will make it difficult for him to take. The less you fidget, the longer he will be able to take your weight. Don't stand with all your weight on his heart. If you aren't too heavy, a few seconds there will not be a problem, but if you stay there for too long, he could have a real problem. It's a good idea to have something very solid to hand onto, like a kitchen counter, a solid chair or couch, or a wall. A hallway trample or trampling in a doorway is good. Avoid hanging onto something that might topple and hurt you both like a bookcase. Barefoot trampling is easier and safer than trampling with shoes or boots. You can keep your balance easier, and you will not leave any marks with bare or stockinged feet. With boots and shoes, it's not just the sharpness of the heel that you have to think about. If you twist your foot on his skin, the tread on the bottom of your shoe could bruise or tear his skin. Also the edges of the heels of even chunky shoes and boots can be quite sharp and could tear his skin. Your weight is obviously a factor, but not as much as you might imagine. I've been fortunate to be trampled by women in the 130 to 300 lb range, and each experience is unique and enjoyable. (When the 500 lb woman stood on me, I saw blue stars for a couple of seconds before I passed out.) If you are of average size, where you stand on him (upper chest, lower chest, chest and stomach or all stomach), how long you stand on him, how much you let him warm up, and how much you fidget will really determine how long he can take it. Oh, and if he's quite erect, he will probably last even longer. If you both get really revved up, you could be amazed at the jumping and stomping that he will enjoy. But start slowly!!! I always ask the woman to tie my hands at my sides or slightly behind me, for her safey and mine. A collar and leash is great, too! Look on youtube for femdom trample; there are some gems there. And of course, if you would like a personal introductory lesson or someone to test out your technique, I'd be glad to oblige!

Good question! Trampling isn't really one of my "things", but I understand the mind-set and I've experienced it a bit in the past. 1. Why? For the "why", you have to start by wrapping your mind around the fetish itself: and like any other fetish, here some object is imbued irrationally with immense sexual significance. We all "get" that spike-heeled shoes and boots are sexy; they're presented that way in our culture all the time. Now just magnify that symbolic role immensely. For whatever reason, the shoes or boots in this case are extremely powerful sexual tokens all by themselves in the mind of the "enthusiast", and even moreso when "wielded" by a woman who herself grasps their sexual power. (That last bit is an important point. In my experience, an oblivious and uncomprehending woman saps the sexiness out of the fetish object when she tries to wield it clumsily and without understanding. Yet who can blame her? The fetishy aspect of something can be completely weird and incomprehensible to those who don't share it.) So, if sexy footwear is the absolute pinnacle of lustful sexiness to a guy, then having a woman "use" them on him is deeply exciting. Maybe it will help if you imagine that you've acquired a penis, except it's a boot. ;) (And you've got two of them!) Now... what are you going to do with it? 2. How? The actual standing on top of and trampling part is a way for the guy to submissively experience the footwear fetish. The power is all in the boots and the woman wearing them. Specific acts that appeal vary with the guy, but don't imagine that you're going hiking on his body and tromp about. You've got a sexual tool; use it seductively and a bit threateningly and you're on the right path. Go slowly, don't just jump on. Start with one foot while standing on the other, and then apply more weight to the "active" foot. Lean on something that will take part of your weight and work your way up to applying more pressure. You standing on top with both feet and without other support will be the pinnacle of the process, not the first thing you leap into. That kind of buildup is sexy in itself; the rising threat and tension, nursed and drawn out to maximum effect; think of it like building up to an orgasm. 3. Isn't this dangerous? Very good question. I guess the right answer is "well yeah, a bit." Keep in mind that people can have cars roll over their chests and suffer just some fractured ribs. The two most important parts are knowing where to step, and spreading your weight about; never put all your weight on a stiletto heel because yeah, just like it's namesake, that sucker is going to go right through someone's ribs. The chest and back are well protected and can bear considerable weight; but I've just decided I'm not really qualified to say what's safe and what's not, so seek some online resources and work it out with the guy before starting. Despite all those admonitions... just be reasonably careful, and have fun with it! I'm jealous of all the tools women have in their toolkits. ;)

Even as a seasoned escort I do occasionally encounter a client who steps over the boundaries or attempts to.. so I sympathize with your situation. It sucks.. especially when the client is much larger than yourself. It's such a delicate exchange/dance we engage in sometimes...How to set a boundary without changing the flow too much. Even if this fellow had 10 reviews stating an act or position or length of time of appt even never mind pms.. it NEVER entitles a person to the exact same experience. It takes two to tango. Unless you've bought yourself a blowup doll (or real-doll for 1000's more) it's always YMMV. I mean outside of the obvious.. not making it a bait-n-switch with regards to services. The first time for instance someone accidentally tries to slip it in the backway.. I make a joke.. (it's normally an accident) but if it happens again.. I will not think it's a joke and be direct and firm... make eye contact (or suggest we switch positions so it's not really an option) and confirm that that particular act is never on the menu for me :) But seasoned or not.. something that's never on the menu for me is a slap across the face.. and a client did that to me a couple months back. A colleague of mine has had the same experience out of the blue and with a totally different client! Nowhere was that advertised or talked about in Pm.. Sometimes people are just freaks. lol.. I can laugh about it now.. but I sure wasn't laughing at the time.. and I marched him out of my house with a heck of a lot of noise and definitely no refund.

ugh....its annoying enough that some guys think we think of them for their wallets....its even more hurtful to think that some guys will just define a lady by "money well spent" or not....and not as a person. Sorry your customer didnt get the hint...No means no. no matter what dollar-sign is attached. :(

Same here. This is an ongoing issue that you need to be able to roll with the punches so to speak. No amount of reminding, scolding, airing dirty laundry or getting upset about these "minority few's" behaviour is not going to change the ignorant, rude and stupid. We have to know how and when to be assertive so that things to not escalate. Paying attention to the so-called red flags and following your intuition are very important right from the beginning during the screening process. Not always a guarantee, but it's usually a good indication of whether it is something I feel comfortable seeing. I am fortunate that I can count on one hand the number of so-called dates I have had. I thank my luck stars that my good clients make up for the odd bad one that tries to unsuccessfully push my boundaries.

There are only sex acts and people with particular preferences. If you identify as gay, awesome. If you don't, awesome. Sucking a dick doesn't make you gay. Whether or not a person identifies as gay is not a call others get to make.

Wow. Stopped in here this afternoon for the first time in years. The only good thing that could be said is the smoke room is well lit enough to make you realize you really dont want to go for dances here.