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Awesome topic. Also, related question: which "date" you thought went really well was actually a disaster without you realizing it? Like: - you left the SP's place and immediately called your buddies and said "oh yeah, oh yeah, I just banged that girl and I was all, like, bang bang bang and then I went for the kill!" - but in fact, after she closed the door behind you, the SP was thinking "Christ I'm glad that's over. And who the hell WAS that guy?" Then she took a quick shower, returned a call from her sister from that afternoon, worked on a term paper due next week, made a grocery list, then put on a bathrobe and warm fuzzy socks, and curled up to watch the Daily Show while snacking on a pint of Haagen Dasz. They're people, dude.

Im sure we can ALL relate to this. Even Men. They seem to leave men out of these campaigns supporting self esteem. Men have heart, brains, and soul too. Only I guess it's less socially acceptable for men to have 'feelings' or 'body image issues'. Either way just wanted to share this link on how self critical people can be on themselves, yet the world sees them differently. ;-) Everyone has SEXY in them ;) Giddy Up!

An anthropologist proposed a game to the kids in an African tribe. He put a basket full of fruit near a tree and told the kids that who ever got there first won the sweet fruits. When he told them to run they all took each others hands and ran together, then sat together enjoying their treats. When he asked them why they had run like that as one could have had all the fruits for himself they said: ''UBUNTU, how can one of us be happy if all the other ones are sad?'' 'UBUNTU' in the Xhosa culture means: "I am because we are"

http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/clay-nikiforuk/sexism-at-us-border_b_3112638.html What do you do when you're detained by powerful officials, everything you say is presumed deceptive, arbitrary "evidence" is held against you, and you're treated like a moral deviant? And what if its 2013, you're a woman, and the "evidence" is that you possess condoms? It happened three times in two weeks -- being detained by U.S. border officials on my way to or through the States. First I was held by Vermont border guards for two hours in the middle of the night on my way to visit Nashville. They searched my bags at least five times. I could not help but notice how often my lingerie and "sexy underwear" were mentioned, how often the condoms they found were looked upon scathingly, and how most of the four male officers' questions pertained to both. I was baffled as to why this was any of their business and unsure of what their objective was, other than fondling lady's undergarments. In the end, having nothing to go on, they gave me a limited stay visa of two weeks and let me go -- at 3 a.m. in the middle of nowhere. I missed my bus and my plane, had to pay for a $90 taxi to the nearest airport and then book a new flight the next morning. The next time it happened was two weeks later in Montreal's airport. After scanning my passport, without being asked a single question, I was immediately led to a back waiting room. When I was summoned into an office, the officer cut to the chase: "How much is he paying you to go on this trip?" He was referring to the man I was travelling with. Confused, I just stared back at him for a few beats. "N-nothing?" The next question was whether this man was married or not. The answer, unfortunately for me, was yes. He asked whether I was planning on sharing a hotel bed with this man. I'm not one to sugar coat things and decided that now would not be a particularly good time to be found lying. Again, I answered yes. Righteous, the officer demanded what exactly I was doing in a bed with a married man. "That's actually none of your business." I had kicked the hornet's nest. Inflamed, he raised his voice at me that it was his business and that adultery was a crime in America -- a crime that he could deny me entry for. He made me tell him my partner's name and date of birth and threatened to detain him, too. I pointed out that we would be in Miami for a total of 40 minutes to catch our next flight to Aruba; hardly enough time to run to our gate, let alone commit adultery. The next thing I knew he was searching my bags, pulling out condoms and waving them in my face. "I could have you charged with being a working girl! The proof is right here!" All I could do is shake my head. This can't be real. "This is absurd," I murmured. But he was on a roll. "You want me to call his wife? I'll tell her!" I raised an eyebrow at him. "She knows." He stormed off again, leaving me shaking. When he finally emerged from an office, he held my passport and tickets in hand. He told me he was letting me go "this time" because I had told the truth. But that I was an educated woman and should change my life to reflect that. I blinked at him. "What?" He looked at me meaningfully and repeated himself. I nodded, eyes downcast as if I was taking his moralizing into serious consideration, and took my documents. I was afraid that he would change his mind otherwise. Later, after a very short Internet search, I found that adultery isn't illegal in Florida, and even if I had been paid for the trip, mixing sexual and non-sexual activities constitutes a relationship and therefore makes any money exchanged a very legal gift under the law. Travelling together to Aruba to get away from cold Montreal, I would think, signals a non-sexual activity. A few days in the sun later, it was time to face the same routine but in the Aruban airport. Again, I would be spending all of an hour in Miami's international airport and then carrying on to my home in Montreal. This time I had left the condoms behind. But it was too late -- there was a detailed profile of me, in which my nefarious condom-carrying behaviour was noted. Again, I was told to sit and wait for further questioning. I watched as my entire flight's passengers whizzed through customs in front of me. I was shaking. By the time someone got around to questioning me, I was told my flight was leaving. I was detained, yelled at, patted down, fingerprinted, interrogated, searched, moved from room to room and person to person without food, water or being told what was going on for what seemed like forever. Just as I thought they were tiring of me and going to refuse me entry but at least let me back into Aruba, a 'Bad Cop' type took me to a distant, isolated office and yelled at me that I was full of shit. He had found information online that in the last couple of years I had been modelling and acting. This, he concluded, was special code for sex work, and I was never going to enter the U.S.A. ever again. I tried not to laugh and cry at the same time. I told him I'm currently writing a book on the sociology of sexual assault. "Are you looking to be sexually assaulted?" I blinked at him. I couldn't breathe. "Was that meant to be funny?" "No, it wasn't." "Ah, no. I'm definitely not." "Well, it sure seems like you are." "...How so?" He wouldn't elaborate. I was with the U.S. officials for six hours. After two more hours put through the wringer with Aruban immigration, I was finally let go back into Aruba. I was told that if I even so much as approached the U.S. border again without a waiver I would be banned from the country for five years. My partner and I, both shaken, had to book a new flight to Canada that didn't pass through the U.S. (approximately $900) and a hotel for an extra two days until that flight. For me, carrying my own condoms (in purses, wallets, camera bags; everywhere) is a routine act towards safer sex. For someone else with the power to not only deny passage but judge, moralize and intimidate, it has become enough evidence to put a woman through hell. My story has brought a number of women out of the woodwork stating that they have had similar experiences. Whether border guards are copying police in New York and their condoms-as-evidence-of-prostitution model, or are simply so stuck in their gender stereotyping that a woman with condoms can't be a good person ("We've been told that there's nothing good about you," said one Aruban official), I'm also not sure. I do know I won't be travelling for some time, until my name is cleared. Or until the puritanical, power-tripping, slut-shaming witch hunt is over. I won't hold my breath for either.

Okay. How about these questions? Are the gentlemen you see in the business from all walks of life or from a particular class (such as lower, middle or upper)? Why do you think society today still frowns on such behaviour (visiting escorts) as it has been part of various societies for thousands of years? Do you think that this profession should be legalized and if so why? How has being in this business affected you in your own personal relationships? Is this a business that a lady could do for a long time, or is there only a window of opportunity depending on her looks? Why did you get involved in the business and would you recommend it for other women? How long have you been in the business? Have you had any bad experiences and how do you protect yourself? How safe is the industry in your opinion?

Lol.....I'll let others discuss. I think I hear the theme song from Jaws on this thread. Emly J....... cute response! I know where the ladies are coming from. I'm old enough to slow down, smell the roses, and appreciate the finer things life has to offer........like the company of an amazing lady for awhile. There's another 4 letter word for intercourse..."talk"... and I can talk the ear off most people.

I totally agree with the above (and Samantha's post) and I am quite surprised to see that such a double standard exists when it comes to an "sp falling for a client" versus a "client falling for an sp" or one that would like to change the terms of the current relationship; I sincerely doubt that if a gentleman expressed the same concern as Karina did, that the answers and advice offered would have been the same... Good luck to you, Karina! I hope it all works out for the best!

Absolutely Jethro !! We are trippin out there....nothing disrespectful in your posts ? WRONG !!! And hey ...when you maybe become a MAN someday you will figure out how these posts really sounded and made the ladies feel. Wow that's brilliant jibberish !!! and the expression is "in a groove" Dorkus Wowzers there are some ignorant idiots in this world.

There is no reason for paranoia. If you stick to reputable providers with good reviews, chances are that they haven't gotten to where they are by being loose-lipped. That would travel pretty fast and ruin a reputation and business. If you want to see a lady, it will serve you well to get a pre-paid phone, or else find another lady that has a different procedure. I do not want to tell anyone how they should run their business or how to pick a provider, but IMO it is the ladies that don't have an effective screening process that may also have little regard for your own safety and overall experience, and it is they, not the well-known professionals, who you (or any client concerned about discretion and safety) should screen out. If you stick to providers on this board, you more than likely have nothing to worry about. Just have fun! My nickle's worth. FR

I have to say, Jenny with naturals was awesome, she didn't really need to enhance them, and then to do it again. Head shakes, don't get it with her.... Oh well, some guys love them I am sure.

My nomination today is the very sexy Serena Blake. Here is her profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=73033 Here is her pic

Get off my lawn before I take you out and kick with a newspaper :D and be nice! peuh! :P

She truly is a NB gem!!! I am so happy to have got the chance know her, she is a breath of fresh air for NB!

One website works well because..... Schedules for both locations as well as photos of MA's that work at both locations are conveniently located on one site! As they are both under the same management, and the girls rotate to both locations it is easier to have it all on one site both for us as MA's and for you as Hobbiest. It is way more convenient to manage one site then control pics/schedules for both sites. If you go to Paradise Spa you can portal over to the Angel's touch web page easy to see schedules and albums. If you a client has any other questions they can call either location to get the information they are looking for. Hope that help Babe! Kisses, Tiffany xoxoxo

Thanks for that post!!! I would have to say, the best part of being in this service is when you encounter an individual that is feel blue, or suffering from low esteem, weather is it cause from body image or from years of spousal abuse( yes men get abused as well!) then they leave feeling good about themselves! Chin up and feeling like a strong man! This is when I feel most satisfied in my career, and it helps to re-iterate my feelings that this is a form of touch therapy is something that us humans need! Thanks for opening this discussion, as I feel that the men in our socity are overlooked in the issues of self esteam, eating disorders, and abuse:(

Thank you all for your concern. I did report it to the police as well as my insurance carrier. Spent a few hours at urgent care and, yes, mild case of whiplash. Ouch! Thankfully I am a quick healer!

A lady I met recently and unexpectedly I must say.....although for just a brief time I had the pleasure to have a little chit chat with her across the table. She is strikingly gorgeous, the type of lady that will cause heads to abruptly turn by her natural beauty. She is bright, intelligent, talented, witty and has an awesome sense of humor, amazing smile and ohhhh soooo sexy !!! She oozes sexy actually ;) I truly hope to spend more time with you one of these OTown trips my dear !! Hopefully some of it nekkid ;) Annessa UNFORTUNATLEY.... I didn't get a good look at these buns ;) Maybe next time........

Yes!! Hi. I would love to see you again when you visit O-town

Our own peace of mind is important but getting the word out is too which is why I wanted to bump this thread. The more people getting tested, the safer this hobby is for all of us.

I had exactly the same experience a month ago but I must say that yours seems to be a lot more fun! :icon_wink: Seriously though, you are absolutely right; in a little less than an hour and including driving time, I was done - no fuss no muss! No calls in three weeks means I am good to go, lol. The peace of mind is - priceless!

Not a stupid question Places like Wireless Wave, or cell phone providers such as Virgin Mobility offer prepaid cell phones. One thing about a place like Wireless Wave they deal with a few different cell phone companies What you could do is buy a cheap cell phone (if used for just this lifestyle all it needs to do is phone and text, you don't need all sorts of bells and whistles on it) Tell then you want a prepaid phone, what you do then is to top up (put money on your phone) is buy a phone card (usually in denominations of $15, $25, $50, or $100) No monthly bill, just top up as you need to RG Just as a postscript, and not endorsing anything, just an example, here is a pay as you go (prepaid) plan from Virgin Mobility through Wireless Wave http://www.wirelesswave.ca/virgin-mobile-plans-features-and-coverage/atlantic-canada/plans.asp?Category=61

And that's why the logo for the Ubuntu Linux distribution is so cool. It's kids holding hands in a circle.

I like the word "plunge". It makes me think of cock plunging into pussy. Makes me horny.

Please speak for yourself and not all men. I don't 'bang bang and get out'. Nor do I 'go in for the kill'. I prefer to be a gentleman and treat my companion like a lady and with respect!

This thread should be close before it turn even worst.

I should probably just leave it alone but...wow..umm...just wow! Pretty sure I've never 'killed' a partner before. I'd be curious to know if the SP you 'banged the best' feels the same way about the encounter! A little class goes a long way.

A couple more that just came to mind... Coger Comer... That's ur spanish lesson for today kids! Hehe

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Perhaps it is just me but some one that "banged" me the best ? Not my personal interests or in my mind would make the nicest date but hey it an open discussion so,,, lets discuss.

Discretion, issues with phones, never has happened to me. All the ladies I have seen are and have been discrete with all information I have given them, (even the few, thank god only a very few unprofessional ladies) BTW the companions I see require far more information than just my unblocked phone number, they require full verification/screening. I will say I trust the ladies far more with keeping my personal information private than I trust the government (which is legislated to keep private information private) with my personal information, and I speak from experience Trust is a two way street, if you don't trust the lady to be discrete and you contacted her, don't expect her to trust you to be a good potential client, and expect to be declined for an encounter. Get yourself a cell phone for this lifestyle and tell the lady your number, you really have nothing to fear RG

So, what are the little things in your life that give you happiness and put a smile on your face each day?

I like Megan because she is straight up and honest. What you see is what you get, no pretense or BS. What a treat!

I love Va Va Vroommm Vitto - she gets everyone's motor running with her oh so sexy demeanor. Vitto got me so distracted I forgot about Old Dong (I mean Dog)...

Japanese toilet This or this I've only seen an one "in between" toilet in my 23 days trips

I absolutely love this commercial!!! I'm very big on helping promote self-esteem and have worked in the past with several campaigns and groups back home in the UK on this and it was a great privilege to do so!!! Also, it is very true that men suffer from self-esteem issues as well. Have had many conversations in chat with male members who lack self-esteem and I hope I was able to help them in any way possible.

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Reading the following in a review for a lady: "Went for the half hour option. It was very rushed..." Need I say it? lol

Thank you RG. Well said and very important. Had a call this afternoon from someone who called from a blocked phone number. He did not want to meet my most basic screening and of course I would not book him due to this. Interesting as this post is here in NB. His loss, not mine! xoxo

the infamous "coitus"

Wow! That's a great video. Very powerful. They should play that in schools. I have nieces in school that suffer from body image and self esteem issues. They're physically attractive and nice kids but still pay more attention to what they perceive as their flaws. Even as adults, too many people derive their self worth from what others think of them, yet don't fully take to heart the compliments they receive. I have a cousin who weighed almost 200 pounds. She lost 65 pounds and gets lots of compliments but says when she looks in the mirror, she still sees herself at 200 pounds. She thinks the compliments are just people trying to be nice and not necessarily sincere. I'm much more comfortable in my own skin now than I was a few years ago, yet I'm still somewhat uncomfortable receiving compliments. It doesn't matter what people say, you have to feel it yourself. Hopefully videos like this will help people feel better about themselves.

While I have no problems with women average size, I do prefer bigger woman in general. More cushion for the pushin. I love curvy girls.

Porthos, I think that these situations can succeed. Things don't have to be "that way". People are infinitely varied and capable of so much. Being physically disabled I am aware of several relationships between service providers and clients which defy the common assumptions people make. However there is place for them tell their story. So these unique relationships can become isolating in themselves for all concerned. I only mention disability because that is the grapevine I am plugged into. But this happens across the human spectrum. This thread is a marvelous beginning! Perhaps it's time here on CERB to create a new forum dedicated to these untold stories. I am sure it would help a lot of people out and thought-provoking for others. Take care, PatrickGC

In my case.., i do not have a website, and i m always willing to reply to txts, emails, pms.., etc as long as the questions are being asked with respect..., for me the most important thing is that both the gentleman and myself are happy at the end of the massage session, is better to be clear and know exactly what to and what not to expect.... So i believe there is no dumb questions, as long as they are presented respecfully :-)

It's funny I was just thinking of making a similar post. As of late there are so many gentlemen that call that want to book an appointment, ask questions such as how much,where am I,ect. When in all of my ads I ask for them to first view my web page for rates, booking protocol and other details. But no one seems to bother. I try hard to remain polite as I am appreciative of any and all the men who take interest in me but I fail to understand why such easy instructions cannot be followed.When you want to come and see me I take the time to prepare myself and my locale so please take a minute to familiarize yourself with me and my booking requests:icon_biggrin:

For me, it depends on my partners approach. Rough, aggressive hands and behavior will immediate be stopped and my bottom will become off limits. Playful, sensual teasing attention will extend mileage and is thoroughly enjoyed! Even if I am asked up front about services by a new client, I am always hesitant to say yes because if they arrive with the wrong attitude it isn't going to happen. That goes for all services negotiated in advance when meeting an SP for the first time, not just ass play. Bite my clit and you'll never see my cookie up close and personal again, twist my nipples till they hurt without prior approval and you will get smacked, pull my hair, leave your hand imprint on my body anywhere without approval or fuck me so hard that I can't walk straight for a week and you'll be asked to leave and will never be invited back. But if you are someone I know and have developed a trust with, all these activities can be great fun. I have guests that I have no fear with because they have proven themselves to be trustworthy. The key is trust. Once you have it you may be pleasantly surprised at how much fun you can have with some of us... cat

Interesting discussion and viewpoints, the way I see it hetro, homo, bi doesn't matter to me , we are human and we are sexual, no matter what the prefix. Also as humans we tend to have the need to categorize or classify which is a shame really, what turns my crank may not turn someone elses and vice versa, I don't judge them and I would hope they wouldn't judge me. So long as it's between consenting adults then I'm a strong advocate of whatever floats your boat!