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I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.

Again I agree that the "best of" threads are unfair and subjective but my point again is that those who are referring to this being an inappropriate question are some of those who thanked and seemingly appreciated the best bj / ultimate bj thread, to me this is inappropriate and hypocritical. Can you like one and not the other, I suppose, as you can like what you choose but I just find it unfair. Yet again, just my point of view:) Also this is a new member, someone who isn't a seasoned hobbyist so perhaps it might have been nice to pm him as to appropriate questions instead of a somewhat public scolding. We all want new members to feel free to come here to enjoy and post. :) In his defense, if I were a newbie and I looked around this site and saw other posts saying this person is the best at, or is great at and many thanking them and ads outlining their talents and what they love, why would I think asking a question about the same subject inappropriate? Thanks for your input I hope you appreciate mine:)

I don't like shallow or phony people even if they are paying me. It's a total turnoff. Looks are not what does it for me. I like people who have personality and who are genuine. I don't want a guy visiting with me who thinks he is the cat's meow and bases the entire encounter around that. Arrogance is another turn off. I prefer clients who seek out qualities of a lady aside from looks. Everyone has their preferences but as a service provider, I cannot be judgemental based on a client's looks. However, respect, cleanliness and personality go a long way. Looks aren't everything and I don't base chemistry of an encounter based on them either.

We all do what we have to do. I had this discussion with a friend, regarding escorts etc. His take was "using their body for money". I asked him, and any of you, what is the difference then between and escort who uses her body sensually and someone like me, who was a truck driver and abused his body for years? Broken feet, toes, hands sore backs, knees, hips. I am 48 and feel 68 some days. I used my body, size (6'3 250) as a means to an end. I was an ape who lifted heavy things for years. I call that abusing myself!! I guess the difference is I can say I was a truck driver, while ladies often have to use caution in revealing their profession. I for one, am thankful there are ladies providing comfort, companionship and intimacy.

Beer. There is nothing better on warm days than to consume beer. Okay there are better things to do, but beer should be included. Wait. Wait..... WAIT!!!! Brilliant idea!!!! PATIO CHAMPAGNE ROOMS!!!! I love my brain.

I personally have never been a fan of the best of threads...be it who gives the best (fill in the blank)______, who is the most beautiful etc etc etc Companionship, even paid companionship is about two people getting together for a private intimate encounter. And no two encounters, even with the same two people can be exactly replicated, each encounter is unique. Companionship and encounters are definitely YMMV. Making it about who's the best makes it a competition between ladies. Best of threads demeans, IMHO encounters which can be very special and intimate A professional companion should be focused on providing the best companionship she can provide. She shouldn't have to worry if she is as good or better than another lady. Put another way, I know when I see a lady I try, and hope I am, the best gentleman and client I can be, I don't worry about what some other guys do. And I wonder how many guys would be fans of the ladies putting out best of threads such as "who's the best client" and so on. A rambling RG

I would compare looks with food..., we haveva saying back home..., "food always comes i. First through the eyes...". And this is the explanation..., as being human beings our any first impression we are attracted or not by the our vision.. Ex: two plates on the table one with gorgeous presentation and decoration, and one thta just have food on plate nithing fancy..., what would you choose? most likely the one with the beatiful decoration..., but lets say.., next u open up to the rest of your sences... And you start discovering that even if the other plate has better outside looks.., the one that is not so pretty has a better aroma, texture..,etc... So is same whit people, we have a tendency at looking the outside, but the more we explore the inside, you can start liking or disliking a person more..., and that person that on first look impressed you may not so much anymore and that person that you never expected end up really winning yoir heart! In conclusion: to make a long story ahort..., looks do affect but at the end like many said before, personality, intelligence, good sence of humour, inner beauty can be much more important!

I don't want to speak for anyone here, but I don't think there's as much disagreement here as it may seem. Emily, no one would deny that everyone has the right to express their opinion, and you've a lot of wisdom to offer. And yet Cristy's original question is a fair and well meaning one, I would say. I'm quite new to posting here myself, and before I made my first one I read through much of the "new to this" section. As you suggest, it was very helpful and probably saved me from a few missteps. But there is a *lot* of information in there, and it can be easy to miss things. And things are more confused when you do indeed see many other threads asking for opinions. It may not be easy to know where the line is drawn, or at least how to best phrase questions (and answers) so that no unintended offense is given. Again, I'm new, but one of the things I appreciate about CERB is how helpful people are to clarify and gently nudge one in the right direction when needed. And of course things are made even more difficult when expressing thoughts in writing, where tone can be hard to convey. I do think we can all agree that no one in the discussion has intended offense. Virtual hugs to everyone (as an aside, I give the *best* virtual hugs :redface:)

True true, question is a question, a thread is a thread. Not sure if this is CBJ VS BBBJ tho? I personally do not really care for the " best of " threads, as it can exclude some SP's ( unintentionally) and leave some feeling hurt or left out:( This is where it usually goes all astray, with hostility and feelings of competitiveness rather than comrades and support.

Dont really think that is an appropriate question, as services depend on the lady offering them and what one finds the best another may not.

My biggest celebrity crush is Louis C.K. That means, if I could meet, have lunch with or suck the cock of my choice of any celebrity it would be him. 'Nuff said! ;) I have always appreciated the qualities in men that are less easy to spot at first glance (sense of humour, among others), but especially since I started fucking such a wide variety of men, my tastes have definitely broadened and I find myself checking out all kinds of different guys when I am out and about. At the grocery story, waiting in line, I'll be checking out the chunky balding dude with his wife ahead of me, who is joking around with the cashier, and seems very friendly and polite, thinking to myself... I wonder if he likes to eat pussy...? ;)

Well you could have a toads head and the body of a cow, I could care less. What I do like is a well dressed person, something very sexy about a well dressed person, and someone who exudes confidence, kindness and understanding- a well rounded person, someone who has their shit together is what I find the most attractive, looks fade, body's expand and shrink, our outer shell is just that a shell, what it houses is what I find most important. :)

Yes...well said. As people strive to be politically correct with this query, the post above saying beauty is subjective and beauty means everything sums it up well too. Of course, given a choice, my pick will always be to be with a pretty lady, and fortunately there are lots of them here on CERB to choose from.

I find that the better looking she is, the better we get along :)

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I do see what your saying Cristy, however, I feel that this is such a subjective topic, that it is difficult to say who gives the "best" . For some, gaging is hot, for some it is a turn off. Some like sloppy, some like a bit of teeth, where other's shiver at the idea of teeth. In this case, I think it is a trial and error, and be sure to communicate to your SP what you like the best. This is the same for any activity. But dont think asking a question is stupid at all, we all learn from asking. But perhaps a less subjective question would produce more accurate result? As RG said, best to look in reco, then PM the lady that you feel would be your ideal playmate:) Communicate with her, then give it a try:) I am sure any kind BJ is going to ultimate experience:)

I think if we are honest there has to be some attraction before we start to look beyond the physical. Unless you are in a position to spend time with someone (say a friend of a friend) how would you get to discover these deeper qualities? That being said we do ourselves a disservice if we stick only to a narrow physical ideal. As the previous posters have said there is some much beyond looks that becomes important if you are to see someone again. Fortunately for people like myself who don't make a great first physical impression it is the nature of the buisness that SPs are more tolerant.

This is a great thread. It points out that when some guys ask for just a "hand job", there is much more to it than just a HJ.

Honestly for me I think looks would be about 20% factor for me. For example if that person reminds me of someone I know in real life it may be awkward. The person can't look too young or too old it just doesn't feel right. I've worked near at colleges and universities and I've seen students that looked like they were 12. Nor do I want to be with someone who looks old enough to be my mother. So ya looks play a small part but personality and chemistry mean a lot more to me.

I've recently learned how unimportant looks are to me with playdates/partners.. After realizing "my type" wasn't quite working out as such, personality wise, I'm not so picky with looks now, even in my personal life, provided the gent is hygienic, respectful, and has a good personality. My experience, especially in this industry has been that the coolest, most fun people I've met, were not always who I would have thought from physical appearance, they just have awesome personalities. I'll take my average Joe who's a great time, than the cocky or rude man with the sculpted body anyday :)

Well I have to join those who say this is not a double life. I have been involved with SPs/MAs for many years in Canada and abroad ( some that will read this weren't born when I saw my first SP lol) and I am not ashamed of that. I might even add that I have develop some great friendships with some of the ladies I met. I actually had one SP over to visit my family last year. Sure never told them she was an sp but that's just so she could be judge for who she is not what she does to earn a living. I strongly believe in judging people by who they are not what they do. Unfortunately society in this part of the world is not there yet. Many would learn from travelling to Europe as we seem to be 30 years behind here. So although I don't talk to family about this part of my life, I cherish and am damn proud of the friendships I made over the years!!!

A confession, yes I do look at the ladies' photos. But what is it that attracts me to a lady, and makes me want to meet her? It is her personality, and it is personality more than anything that makes a lady beautiful. I get an idea of her personality through her posts on CERB, and our subsequent emails/pm's back and forth. And for the most part it has worked. It is fair to say that I have been fortunate to meet many beautiful ladies in this lifestyle. That they also look beautiful is just for lack of a better word, a bonus. A rambling from a middle aged, bald, eyeglass wearing overweight, average looking guy RG

That's a really loaded question. Looks could mean anything from the way you maintain yourself, the way you carry yourself or the lucky numbers you received from the genetic lottery pool. As Mr Green has pointed out, "to each his own taste." What I may find stunning may do nothing for someone else, and conversely what you find gorgeous may do nothing for me. My preferences? A beautiful person. It's a combination of everything mentioned above, not necessarily balanced but magnified by a beautiful personality. That beautiful personality shines through every veneer of external beauty; conversely, an ugly personality will tear down beauty to a point where nothing exists. The providers to whom I am most attracted generally possess a charm that is endearing - it's that intangible element that intelligent women possess. There's a playfulness, a wit, and a sensuality that supplements natural beauty. It forces you to see the positive in everything about them. It blinds you to what they may feel are their imperfections. Oh... and nice boobs. I like nice boobs.

I love a nice firm grab on my ass. And a kiss on the back of my neck.

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This is Juno; eight weeks old today. She arrived on Friday. She's full of energy, hardly slept at all on Friday night, but is settling in. Last night was MUCH better! She's with my son in these photos.

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Might I suggest looking through the recommendations for Halifax...it may, and I say may, be mentioned in some ladies' recommendations although many do prefer to leave intimate details of an encounter private But discussing intimate details of an encounter publicly on a board, seems IMHO somewhat inappropriate. And reiterating Emily's point, isn't who's the best really subjective A rambling RG

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My real name brought up Sweety Bangz, and msmanda would be Lynn Hardon lol Not too shabby.. MsManda with caps makes me Doctwhore Sproing.. Very original, I sorta like the doctwhore part :p

I was never huge in to comic books, but my two favorites were Green Lantern and Green Arrow for some reason. Still a huge fan of both!!!

Being an SP is like being in the Mafia. Deny, deny, deny is often the name of the game for many as SPs and hobbyists. I'm sure many SPs who have friends and family who know but outside of that, no one knows the secret. Looking over my shoulder is something I've learned to deal with in my time as an SP. Bad clients, stalkers, jealous competition or just plain haters. They are all out there...Take me as I am and accept who I am as a person and not what I do for a living.. otherwise you won't be included in my life. I am a mature enough woman and have come to realize over the years that I do not need approval from anyone but myself to tell me I'm a good or bad person. I know better... Your job does NOT define who you are as a person whether it is morally acceptable in society or not. We all do what we do for various reasons. People can talk but unlike the Mafia, I can't shut them up or shoot them. In some cases, I wish I could! lol. So carry on...

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Women- For me when I first see a girl definitely the looks of course are the first thing to catch my eye especially if she is walking by and I do not know her. But ultimately what I REALLY truly adore is a girl who truly is confident and smart in a conversation and really can pull any look off looking sexy even if it is with zero make up and sweat pants! I have known the most BEAUTIFUL girls who are plain BORING, snobby, insecure, stuck up and constantly complaining about millions of things at once and would not be caught dead with out make up on, even at the gym!! I would pick a cute, pretty, fun-loving girl over a cocky model ANY DAY! Unless of course it is for a one-night sort of deal for sex than obviously the hottest girl can be orgasmic to look at but if she is bland and bitchy she may not be the funnest in bed ;) haha Men- I ALWAYS LOVE a man who can REALLY be confident but maybe a bit shy if he likes me it shows he is real and SPECIALLY a man with a goofy and fun sense of humor who does not take himself to seriously! For both men and women I really appreciate someone who takes care of them selves, this is wanted in my personal life as I take very good care of myself, I am not talking about 6 pack abs and eating only salad and gym every day, I am talking both physically and mentally, simply just loving and respecting yourself and your own body and making a little effort to look and feel good!) Looks definitely do not matter as much with men for me as I find the metro boys are a bit into themselves from what I have HEARD from my girlfriends, but I could be wrong! I definitely appreciate a very sweet, and kind man but also a man who is manly and can take charge and make me feel like the young lady I am :) On the SP-hobbiest point of view I am sure men pick SP's initially for their looks and then read their profiles/websites/advertisements unless there is some talking in the message board etc, but it is very great and refreshing when a girl-man who is pretty can also have a spectacular personality, that is really the best thing and can feel amazing if it is real and genuine :) PS, I think we can all agree that woman are 'sexier' than men because of their femininity and gentle softness and of course their boobies and feminine features. Are I wrong? lol Just my personal opinion! :D xoxox

I have had the double life feeling.., but at this moment I think i feel more like cdn traveller, ias an MA is just a part of my life i dont share with everyone, I have already lost friendships because i was honest and told them what my job was about, their decision was they coukd not be friends with me anymore, some of them i respect because it could affect them in their proffessional lives but even at that today i also have friends that do not care what i do..., then i have realized WHO MY REAL FRIENDS ARE... Being an MA does not make me less than anyone else, it was my choice, is what pays for my bills and puts food on my table... I still dont have to pubicly scream it, but at this point of people is to find out, it would not change my mind, is what i do and if they want to accept me great of not... Too!

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Wow, this has been a very helpful read. I am in same position as these 2 guys were and have been trying to get the courage to finally meet up with an sp in my area. After reading their experiences, I am even more confident to go through with it. Now if only Peachy would make it down to NB, I would be all set!

I like it when a lady uses parts of her body to further build the excitement and kissing the shaft or a few licks of the shaft can do wonders as well. It is sooo erotic!

Such an awesome thread, thank you . I hand job is a very personal thing and ever one likes it a certain way. As a SP I am very open to suggestions and would never be offended if a gent tells me what is preferred style is.

Its the same thing if someone is fingering a lady. It always feels so much better when someone else is doing it. xoxo

Cool topic idea:) I have been told I give an extremely nice hand job. I think that if you are creative, and putting alot of visual stimulation to your hand job it helps in the art of teasing and pleasing. Visual stimulation is the key to any kind of session. I will use my breasts, rubbing the head of the penis up and down between my breast, on my nips, and always lots of good lube:) This is a good way to start it off and returning to this method a few times throughout. Visual stimulation is also shared by almost touching the penis to my lips, not really doing it, a mere warm breath is felt, and this is great arousal!! I find many men like it when your hand covers over the head, and not stroking down, but rather stroking up wards. Changing your grip and pressure is a must, so that you are not boring your participant. When done proper, this can be so much fun and your participant will be so excited and aroused that all other activities are forgotten about, and the satisfaction is certainly felt:)

I would never expect a gentleman to leave a tip although we are always appreciative. I know some men bring a tip for the first encounter or sometimes on the second encounter to show appreciation. This is always such a sweet gesture. It really is the best thank you an SP can get. However, if a gentleman does not tip his service should in no way be affected. We as service providers have set up our own rates and should never 'require' a tip to keep service at a certain level. Early in this thread Cat mentioned some of the additional expenses that SPs have and a tip does definitely ease some of those bills. Are they expected though? No. While a tip is always appreciated, the best tips an SP can get are courtesy, a sincere thank you, and repeat clients. :icon_biggrin:

Unfortunately many of us hobbyist from KW use other boards, but after recently using this board to find one of the finest ladies I've ever met I feel compelled to share the wealth. Roxanne's & Manor as suggested above are both nice enough strip clubs but don't meet the standards of Pigales for hotties. Manor is higher contact, Roxanne's better eye candy. If you're looking for any other info or recommendations feel free to PM me.

Spring definitely start to trigger horniness. I would like to take a moment and talk about a serious medical condition which can cause serious injury and in rate cases death. This medical problem is called HWHS (horny when hot syndrome) some of you may be laughing right know but it is serious as the body temperature rise the layer ad clothes seem to disappearing which has a serious impact on those who suffer from HWHS. The following scenarios are not fictional and a real people. So please do not try this at home they were all trained professional dumb ass's. luckily in the following scenarios no one got seriously hurt, well maybe their pride. So things to avoid. Rules 1 when waking keep you're eyes in front and not veered to the side to check out the woman in short skirts. Consequences may vary but for this instance it was a light that he walked into cause severe laughter and humiliation. 2 do not pass gas in an elevator? When all off a sudden elevator stop and the secretary we would fantasize about walk in with a few extra button undone. 3 when playing football keep your eyes of the giggling cheerleaders. Cause that 275 pound guy you forgot will blow any chances of getting lucky for the foreseeable weeks to come as you recuperate from concussion. 4 when doing any sort of martial art stay focus ignore the women who can bend in ways you can only dream of cause you will not seen that kick in the ribs you just received. Construction workers are particularly at risk for these 5 when hammering keep eyes on you object you are hitting cause hit a thumb hurts like hell when staring at the girl not wearing a bra. This goes for when using a sledge hammer especially if someone else is holding the object. 6 this one is critical do not attempt to work near a college gym class full off hot sweating woman doing yoga. Cause that window that you didn't install before lunch. You can lean on an empty frame and fall through look like a dumbass. 6.1 this is similar do not try and lift a window when partner is staring at bouncing boobs you may pull you're back. 7 my favourite almost fell off roof laughing to hard. while on a swing stage do not assume the windows are tinted and that woman in her office in actual fact she can see you pissing in a bucket. 8 yoga pants are a deadly on while staring to long at the derrière of them to long ma cause fantasies and when that person turn around you realize you're related to that person or worse it could be your mother. 9 this is a classic do not lean or you're chair to find out what colour of panty she's wearing under that skirt cause when you fall of your chair everyone know what you were doing. 10 when warring tight jean be sure your zipper is up cause someone else is happy to stare. I've witnessed all of these and ashamed to have falling victim of maybe one or two. Ok that last on maybe from a tv commercial but it can happen. My point is this is all due to HWHS and serious injury can occur. I think we have a duty to fix this and my solution is all woman should dress hotter this way we are a custom to see this and we build an immunity to HWHS. Ok maybe I didn't think with the right head on that one but we may have an epidemic on our hands.