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OK, everyone step back and count to ten. I love opinionated people real people, with real opinions. As someone objective to this discussion I can see the points that are being made by all parties and do find valid opinions that I can agree with. However, bickering and not knowing when to let let something die just because you feel that there has to be a right or wrong opinion is a turn off. Just saying. Now as far as making newbie mistakes and knowing appropriate ways to post to look for information and interact with SP's. I actually PM'd RG directly to ask his opinion about interaction with SP's and on the Board when I was new and had a lot to learn. I saw that he is almost always a voice of reason and level headed I appreciated that and decided that the way he conducts himself was a way that would work for me. Newbies will make mistakes, experienced clients will make mistakes all that is important is that we learn from them. By all standards, I try to be a good boy here on cerb and I've still managed piss people off and get an infraction through stupidity ;) It happens! So hopefully, the OP will realise that posts similar to the one he made can possibly lead to some opinionated headbutting and will learn to rephrase his posts to avoid causing unintended (I'm sure) bickering on the board.

Like literally two hours ago, and it was great! As of this morning, I was a 26 year old virgin. I never felt ashamed or unaccomplished being a virgin, I had reached this point as a choice. But I was not confident with intimacy, most if not all girls I've met have been pretty sexual or have a sexual past which always intimidated me (I never saw them lower, but felt a bit in awe). I avoided relationships because I was worried about the physical intimacy part, I was going to fall flat on my face. And I created this mind block. I noticed a few threads on this forum about guys who are virgins looking for an SP, but there was no mention if they went through with it, and if they did, how they felt about it. So I thought I'd share for anyone who are in the same shoes I once was. In a nutshell, I loved the experience, and I have no regrets. I got in touch with Peachy a week ago, and explained that I was a virgin, and that was something I wanted to change. She was incredibly thoughtful, and put me at ease with asking her to take me to the other side so to speak. I was nervous, actually, I was anxious for her to come. I booked 3 hours, and I asked her to stay an hour longer once she was here (I was having a great time and didn't want to rush it). So my reasons for doing what I did. 1) I'm more confident with safety when it comes to the women here then the general public. If anyone knows about safety, these ladies do. This was my number one priority always (even before I came up with this idea) 2) I wanted a positive non-judgemental environment (at least in my mind). I didn't want to think and over think everything I did, and with her, I was more then comfortable. I was able to explore, try out stuff that I wouldn't have done with maybe a girl I was dating. 3) I was confident in asking her how I could be better. And I took everything she said constructively, and it was a lot better then I imagined! 4) Confidence! I met this girl a couple of months ago that seemed to be very interested. Back then, the old me kept things between us friendly but non-sexual. I think given the situation now, I'd act much differently. My confidence in this department took a massive beating the last couple of years for reasons too long and boring to share here. I feel as if one evening took all of that self doubt away. Downsides? I don't feel as if there were any. I don't feel any regret, or remorse or anything of that sort. I was hoping when I asked Peachy was that she be someone awesome (I've read some stories here about people having soso dates). Peachy was AMAZING in that she was so understanding about my fears, and newness. I bring this up because I found her through going through pages and pages of reviews. There are some awesome women here, but I found one with very complimentary reviews, and it worked for me. Which I guess leads on to my next part. Would I recommend a virgin meet an SP? To each their own. I wrote down a list of reasons why this would be a good idea vs a list of why this was bad. My bad side of the list had some religious objections, but then the good side had religious support for getting help any way possible (my confidence was shot). There are some that say that this experience should be with someone special. And I think that applies for some people for sure, but I treated this as a learning/therapeutic visit more then anything else. The rate I was going, I was not going to be able to meet that someone special ever. Recommendations: 1) Take your time, read reviews, talk to who you are interested in 2) Take your time, don't book just 1 hour. For the first two hours, we took it slow, talked a lot, and made it more intimate. 3) Figure out your reasons. I was brand new at this, and I think if this is your first time, trying to go into this to fulfil a fantasy might be putting too much pressure on you and her. Just explore the sensation, explore your body (I discovered things about my body I was pleasantly surprised about). 4) Tell her you're a virgin! And that's when you first get in touch with her, not when you meet. I can't think of anything else. This being a recommendation board, this is mine :)

A true Canadian classic pooch, The Littlest Hobo!! :biggrin: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFZKlfRrGbw Maybe tomorrow I'll wanna settle down, until tomorrow I'll just keep movin on...

Hi there everyone, First of all I would like to say thank you for all of your kind words. It is the men like you that make us love what we do as SPs. I do want to clear a couple things up though... 1. I know that it has been said that I offer BBFs. This is not a service that I provide (no exceptions) so please dont ask. I also dont swallow (sorry guys). 2. I definitely apologize if I have ever kept anyone waiting. Being fairly new at this it took me a while to figure out the business aspect including scheduling. I will only see a couple of gentlemen in an incall day so often my excellent clients are made to wait until the next incall. For that I apologize as well. 3. I do feel bad for the fact that I AM fairly hard to get a hold of sometimes. I generally do most of my bookings online as my phone was constantly ringing from morning to night with fake calls and texts. Through emails we can kind of get a feel for one another better than a 2 minute conversation. 4. I have been asked why I dont work on the weekends...I do. I will work any day a gentleman needs me, I just pre-book all weekend sessions. SPs have a very different schedule. We are on call at most times. Pre-booking weekends is just a way to have a social life along with working. I hope I have cleared a few things up. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. And again, to all of you men who love to have a good time while treating a lady right, I applaud you and thank you. And to all of my regular gentlemen a special thank you for helping to make this experience a great one for me I only hope I am returning the favor.

The romans also had specific coins for use in prostitution, Spintria. Each coin depicted a sexual act. Some speculate that these could have been tokens presented to the lady indicating which act you'd paid for. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spintria (one of the tamer Spintria)

Of course the did Chuck! Of course in Pompeii, GFE meant GIANT FLAMING ERUPTIONS. Pretty much put a damper on the whole trip to the brothel....

I am willing to offer my hands.. hehe if you need one or two.. LOL

My thoughts are this, why do we need another demeaning thread on BJ's when we already have one started in the same section in the same city(A simple search on BJ's would have found it). Some women are fine with being objectified regarding services and others like myself are not. For someone to come out and ask what ladies thoughts are on BBBJ's is sort of a catch 22, I mean do you say hey BBBJ's I hate them but offer them for the money, or do you reply I only do it as I have no choice or do you say I don't offer them or yes I love them. This is a question with no real right answer but the one you provide. Really one's reasons for offering them or what they think of them is their own opinion and thoughts and something that is better left for a 1 on 1 conversation.

This is me playing with Nuru gel in my bikini! :) it's fun!

Here's me splashing about in the Windigo Falls in the Laurentides!

I just lose my uncle a few weeks ago. my siblings and I were very close and when I found out the sad news, I was at work. my bf wanted me to go home. But I tried my best to focus on work. I barely survived. But when I got home. my bf by literally ran to the door, while i was going the door. and gave me a hug. I just started crying. For me, its hard to talk/show about my feeling. I just take it one day at a time. I miss him greatly. And I know, he and my other uncle are watching over me.

I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.

Well , I dont so many recommendations but I had the good fortune to meet with Camelia from MGF this afternoon and I have to say she was GGRREAATT. A sweet and tiny college student she is articulate , intelligent and has amazing skills. She has beautiful eyes and a rockin booty. Game for almost anything we had an hour long multiple position porn star experience all over the room and the classic PSE finish. After that I think she was game for more but she chatted about life in general for another 20 min or so ( absolutely no rushing with her ). Guys I would give her a 10 so if you have the chance she is for sure a repeat . Thanks Camelia ( you are so cute )

anyone ? thanks.

Browwwwwnies Mmmmmmm brrrooowwwwnies omg! I am dreaming awake! Lol

No idea who it is.....but love the pic :icon_razz:

OMG OMG OMG this is exiting!!!! I am already tasting the bacon hehehe

If may is masturbation month, I'm guessing that we also have June: Jerking off month July: Jacking off month August: Auto-erotism month September: Self-pleasuring month October: Onanism month ...

ahahahaha what's the sound of one had clapping? I'll have to charge up my batteries and enjoy myself for a few hours :D

Two hot new cerbites that I've been chatting with and can't wait to meet: Destiny Xu and Sierra-Rae

Welcome Gents, my name is Tiffany. I am 5'11" tall, Athletic Build with Brown hair, hazel bedroom eyes, and a smile that will drive you crazy!! I believe in the simple pleasures of life, and love sensual experiences!! From the moment I walk into a room with you, you will feel the connection between us. From the first soft flirty move I make to a finish that will leave you weak in the knees, you will be thanking yourself for spending time with me! You will always leave my room felling relaxed and with a smile on your face!! Contact me by PM, text me at 613-277-4328 , or call the Spa at613-274-7073 to Ensure My Availability! Check out what others are saying about my service!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731 Schedule Monday May 6th: 1:30pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Tuesday May 7th: 3:30pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Friday May 10th: 4:00pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Saturday May 11th: 4:00pm - 9:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Sunday May 6th: 4:00pm - 9:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Lifeis to be enjoyed. not just endured -Gordon B. Hincley

The count is at four and that is when Kimmie & I will cum through the door!!! See Ya All Then!!!

Monday Robyn 10-2 Welcome Back aka "robynxoxo" Last Day before vacation Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Tiffany 1:30-11 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" 3 rooms, 3 sexy ladies on per shift! Private Dance shows available upon request! Click here to see NEW pics of room: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3340 New Sexy Pics of our Hotties http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=52117 Full Body Relaxation Massage Single Massage: --------30 minutes $50. --------45 minutes $60. --------60 minutes $80. Couples Massage: 1 Attendant --------30 minute $60. --------45 minute $70. --------60 minute $90. Duo/Couples Massage:2 Attendants --------30 minute regular $100. on special for $80. --------45 minute regular $120. on special for $100. --------60 minute regular $160. on special for $130. ------HST included in prices. Longer Sessions available and @ Discretion of MA ------ Tips Accepted------ ATM on site------Spacious Rooms with Private Showers------ NEW LOCATION: 65 Bentley 613-274-7073 Robyn Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591 Kelly Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=120424 Hannah Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=125137 Kennidi Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=K&t=62190 Tiffany Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731

"Clitoraid is proud to announce its first annual International Clitoris Awareness Week, May 6 to May 12," said Nadine Gary , Clitoraid spokesperson, in a statement released today. http://www.news-medical.net/news/20130505/Clitoraid-announces-first-annual-International-Clitoris-Awareness-Week.aspx

The swinging community in St. John's and Newfoundland in general is very private. Being that everywhere is either a small city or a small town, people talk. Everyone has to live and work here, so things are hush hush. Emily and Chuck are both absolutely correct in that you must know someone to be invited into the group. And even then, visitors aren't normally considered. There are places you can post that you are visiting and looking for fun, and you can PM me for more info as I won't share such things here. Hope you enjoy your visit to St.Johns, and find what you are looking for :)

I'm sorry for your loss. I too was like, never talked or shared my feelings. You hold it in until you can't, sometimes burst into tears when its too much. You often can't explain what you're feeling or find it difficult to discuss with the ones we love. I can assure you if you keep too much in for too long you are making it worse for yourself. I've learned that lesson the hard way, too much pain, stress and grief caused me to have a mental breakdown. What helped the most is talking. I found it easier to talk to complete strangers than family members. Cause who cares what they think of you, you don't have to ever see them again if you chose not to. Honestly cerb has helped me so much, there are so many kind and caring people here.

Happy birthday Boom Boom. I hope your day was filled with joy :) I apologize boomer if the date is wrong I just finished reading the rest of this post and the last birthday wishes were 09/26-27/12 so I'm not sure if its an error bringing this post up today, or maybe you get two birthdays, lol. Either way have a great one:)

haha...umm.... no, the distractions lead to the _lack_ of cookies at the end of the night....remember? but a proper donation will definitely put you in my good books ;)

I'm all alone at work tonight, need some company. If you do too, then stop by...even if its for the half ;) My pictures speak for themselves. A little tidbit? I'm a tall blond, like the coffee at Starbucks but Id like to think i'm more satisfying :) ...you be the judge. And bring your smile too. XOXO Salina

mistert's baked goodies never disappoint! :D I lost my take-home goodies last time cuz it was my pre-birthday celebration and i got very...err....dru- I mean distracted ;) there was sadness that followed upon realization :(

I love bikini season!! ; )

Again I agree that the "best of" threads are unfair and subjective but my point again is that those who are referring to this being an inappropriate question are some of those who thanked and seemingly appreciated the best bj / ultimate bj thread, to me this is inappropriate and hypocritical. Can you like one and not the other, I suppose, as you can like what you choose but I just find it unfair. Yet again, just my point of view:) Also this is a new member, someone who isn't a seasoned hobbyist so perhaps it might have been nice to pm him as to appropriate questions instead of a somewhat public scolding. We all want new members to feel free to come here to enjoy and post. :) In his defense, if I were a newbie and I looked around this site and saw other posts saying this person is the best at, or is great at and many thanking them and ads outlining their talents and what they love, why would I think asking a question about the same subject inappropriate? Thanks for your input I hope you appreciate mine:)

Every blasted day of the year for me! I guess it must be my Viking blood!

A little late this year but that spring horniness finally just kicked in! Ladies..... strap yourselves in, keep your arms and legs inside the vehicle at all times.....Aaaaaand....BLAST OFF! I am man!....hear my sexy man roar: I WANNA :Cunning: AND THEN HAVE MY :bjs: AND THEN :jackoff: AND THEN :bj2: ALL OVER SOME PRETTY FACES !! .....That was my sexy man roar. That is all.....carry on....as you were. ...nothing to see here ;)

I don't really think of hobbying as a double life...my actual life is already one!!! It really doesn't bother me anymore who knows about what I do on my personal time. If they don't like it, than they do not have to associate with me. Though my experience has been they almost always come back to you over time. As for my real life, those I have told the truth to I trust them never to mention it to anyone. So for those of you I have told, you mean enough to me to know the truth! :D

My personal favorite soundtrack is from Garden State (2004). Zach Braff did a brilliant job putting the soundtrack together. It fitted the feel of the movie perfectly!!! http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0333766/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1

There are a couple of different ways to look at this question. For instance the twin peaks, lord of the rings references, These are great scores and original music. I'd put the classic spaghetti western like the good, the bad, and the ugly or Fistful of Dollars in there too. The music is essential. On the other hand there are soundtracks, usually not original music, but after you've seen the movie you can't hear that song again without thinking of the movie. Your probably own the soundtrack and listen to it on its own. This is my favorite and a couple of directors are masters at it. - Stanley Kubrick - music is core in clockwork orange, 2001 a space odyssey - Quentin Tarentino - especially in reservoir dogs and pulp fiction Then there is the soundtrack to 'stand by me' and 'big chill'. Wow. I listen to both of these on CD regularly, no movie required. For the more modern listeners (its still 20 years old) we have the soundtrack to Clerks, or The Crow. Both stand on their own. Then there is Apocalypse Now! You have the opening scene (The End by the doors), you have the greatest image for the ride of the valkyries (Wagner) ever. And you've got 'can't get no satisfaction' on the riverboat (matched admirably by the opening credits to the tv show, 'tour of duty' which makes paint-it-black iconic).

I love the soundtrack to the television show Twin Peaks and the prequel follow up Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Angelo Badalamenti is an amazing composer that has done not only Twin Peaks but also Mulholland Drive amongst others. Fantastic music to play in the background whilst entertaining : )

Very well said Soleil. Although I 99% of the time ignore texts, & the reason for it is because of their approach. U available, or where you located. Not a single hello or an introduction. Eventually what I see having happened here was him getting a lot of pm's wondering who this apparent racist SP is. You asking him to tell him a bit more about himself is far from being racist. He seems to be quite hung up on his race & unfortunately he thinks that the ladies will decline him an appointment due to it. That won't be the reason to decline the appointment, his attitude & how he treated you when you'd like to know a bit more about someone that you are providing your body & time to. Wow Joe is all I can say. The majority of the ladies I know would have ignored your text altogether, zero response. Soleil was nice & patient enough to respond then you play a blame game with her. She is a very sweet & kind hearted woman, who probably doesn't have a single racist bone in her body.

joe64 contacted me yesterday with a text that read.... '3pm incall?' I was at the Dentist's and responded to him as soon as I had turned my cell back on. I explained myself and apologized for missing his text. But I also went on to tell him he would have to include more than what he did in his next text for an appointment. I sent him an example of an appropriate text here on cerb, and he responds by complaining that I didn't text him back right away and wasn't available when he wanted me. My next move is to ask him for a reference. He says he already sent me one. He didn't. Finally today he tells me 3 ladies he has seen but then berates me for not valuing him as a client and that I'm putting him through too much hassle. Ending his PM that he would be looking on BP for someone serious. I'll tell you right now joe64, it has less to do with your race, and a lot more to do with your approach. You want me to give my body to you and you think ' 3pm incall?' is sufficient as an introductory first text and that my asking for a reference is a hassle? I think you may have a couple of things to learn before you start worrying about your race. I know for myself, if you properly introduce yourself and conduct yourself respectfully towards me, race is not an issue. I believe that gentlemen come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

Its called..BOOZE then convince her!lol

Then maybe it's time to combine the two websites into one, and have the Paradise Spa site be just an alias to the Angel's Touch site? That is, it'll redirect itself to the other site automatically.

Nikki Thomas! and whoever female duo partner she has? I do believe she does offer it with Cleo Catra (at least from a reco they had)

I'm always craving french toast but never make it. Might make it in the morning with lots of cinnamon! :)

Hi there :) I'm new to cerb and thought it would be a good idea to introduce myself here! I'm Jessica Rayne and I've been a SP for just over a year now, and it's been a good year! ;) I'm looking forward to contributing to the boards as well as meeting and chatting with new friends! I'm an easygoing sweetie so don't hesitate to say hi :P

Yes Ladies do looove flowers :)

all the more reason why you shouldn't be inquiring about the lady. You totally provided her location in your first post ever, which is likely why it would appear she has retired (my assumption, but she has not advertised since) If she isnt advertising, you should take that for what it is. She has likely moved on to better things and would likely not appreciate someone who thinks they may know her inquiring about her past.