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Agree 100% :) The body is an amazing wonder, with so many things constantly going on inside us... sometimes you can't control all these functions as perfect as you wish. I think a quick "sorry!" and a laugh would be appropriate for sure. Quiffs, sneezes, farts, coughs and giggles... sex is not somehow magically exempt from these things. Our bodies are magnificent and we should not be ashamed of them in any way. :) I actually posted a video and wrote a short piece related to this subject last night on my blog. Titled, Sex is not a Fairytale, which says it all. Sex is human, raw and so very imperfect. It's not always, (or ever) like in the movies with chocolate dipped strawberries, fireworks and simultaneous orgasms. Sex is what it is. Sex is sweaty, with different smells, uncontrollable motions, funny noises, funny faces, and that's okay, and that is how I like it. :)

I have watched this thread and sat holding my tongue but my edit button has imploded so here it goes... Miss Gabriella, thank you for starting this thread! To the ladies who have weighed in, thank you. Pistol Pete, your hygiene is not in question here. You are far to much of a gentleman to be so blatantly ignorant of such a delicate detail. But... I personally know of a cerb member who claims to have impeccable hygiene which I know for a fact that the times I have met him, it was intolerable and I could not say anything for fear of offending as he is a lovely human being. After the last visit, I decided I simply cannot do it anymore and will not see him professionally ever again. Thinking that it might just be my olfactory perception out of whack, I followed up with other providers who know him and they all had the same experience with him. From his point of view, his hygiene is ticky boo but in reality it is an obstacle most of his providers can't overlook without gagging. This shows me that these threads are necessary, not just for the newbies but the seasoned hobbyist as well. If it saves one provider from having to deal with the gut wrenching smells of putrid B.O., crack chunks or the remnants of a human cheese factory, so be it. Providers are a sensitive lot and we avoid saying anything that may offend. What we can't say face to face, we bring up here. If it seems repetitive, so be it. Dealing with foul odours over and over and over again is more than redundant, its repulsive and repugnant and my second greatest challenge in my work... cat

Ok, I'm gonna be blunt (big surprise!) Guess what? You stink. You may think you don't stink, or that I can't smell it, but you reek. There's no polite way about it. We all need deoderant/antiperspirant/WHATEVER, so for the love of god, do something. Maybe no one told you because they didn't want to hurt your feelings, or embarrass you. I know I don't usually say anything--but I won't see you again either. So just trust me on this one--you smell.

Just feel the need to mention that most SPs wouldn't say anything about it to you as insulting gentlemen will not promote repeat business. That being said, if I encountered someone who's hygiene was a real issue, I would simply not be available to him in the future.

With respect, here's how it looks to me. The first time you see a lady, you steal time that she hadn't agreed to spend with you. If she doesn't know how to assert herself, she's probably inexperienced and has little or no support for maintaining her boundaries. If she pretends to be an enthusiastic playmate, you book another meeting. She agrees to see you because she doesn't know better. You still run overtime. If the time creates problems for her, it doesn't matter because you paid more, this time. Since you didn't compensate her for stealing time at the first meeting, you have a net savings for the total time. You feel like a winner because you've imposed on someone by ignoring your time agreement and essentially forcing her to appear to enjoy doing what you want, whether she likes it or not, while paying less than you should. Based on many years of experience, it's my professional opinion that men who behave in this way are a danger to inexperienced companions because they prey upon their fears and uncertainties, demonstrating a deplorable lack of respect for the women and the intimate care they receive. Such men are not really interested in a fun and playful erotic romp with a lovely lady. They want to exert power over women who aren't able to refuse them. My consistent advice to new, inexperienced paid companions is to establish clear boundaries and not to allow those limits to be violated. Once given an inch, some men will not settle for less than an entire continent. I tell these ladies never to fear that they won't get enough business: there's plenty to go around. Tolerating abuse often encourages abusers to continue to be abusive.

The talent is becoming to much for me. Its hard for me to pick a nail polish color. The duo I had with Old Dog and Lee Richards ( Recco on the way) was outstanding, now Notch? As a Nova Scotia gal I do like plaid, so.... Guys I am planning a visit in the fall and will be sure to give you proper notice as is expected. xoxo

I prefer being complimented on who I am rather than lied to. Nothing more flattering than being with a beautiful woman who, irrespective of this being a paid encounter, enjoys being with you. That to me is the biggest compliment this guy could get RG

What a remarkable thread! In the sheer diversity of responses and suggestions. The overall common theme and advice articulated thus far is: "Client, know thyself." Clearly everyone is different in almost every emotional aspect, and there are no hard and fast rules. Everything can and will happen. But clients and service providers alike must be more aware of their motivations and boundaries than the average person is. I suspect those who choose freely to be involved in the sex industry, as a group, are more emotionally matured. This is not meant to sound arrogant or judge mental of the mainstream, but consider the thoughtfulness which is gone into the preceding posts. Others on the "outside" may consider these things, but they are not discussed sincerely and openly.I wouldn't be at all surprised if we have a higher than normal number of people here with degrees in the various psychological disciplines. Apologies, for going off the thread topic but I just wanted to knowledge the tremendous amount of sincere consideration people have put forward on the issue of falling in love with a service provider. In appreciation of the "University of CERB" faculty and alumni. PatrickGC

That's so awesome Samantha.. I have had a few clients quit smoking too in order to improve our encounters and it's fabulous to be the one who spurs them over the edge to that decision. Something interesting about pheromones. Several years ago (about 15 now I'd guess) I was at a bar.. and went up to a guy who I found very attractive. I told him so... He asked me on a date and we were subsequently in a relationship for 6 years. Here's the interesting thing. The night we met he was wearing Obsession cologne. I absolutely can't stand any strong smelling spicy heavy cologne. I asked him to change it early into our dating.. but I loved the natural scent of his skin so much and it was his scent that attracted me even under (or over) the obnoxious cologne scent. That's how powerful pheremones are. What did I get him to change to? Cool Water.. I loved that cologne so much I'd wear it myself sometimes (the guys version.. not the women's). He only wore it when we went out for dinner/dancing etc.. not at home for general hanging about. But with or without cologne.. man I loved the smell of his skin. That can't be changed with cologne, soap or the like but diet and sure can and of course genetics plays a role.

While I enjoy my chosen profession, my SP relationships and my personal relationships are completely separate. I didn't embark on this adventure to find a mate. I really hope I don't come off as sounding too harsh because I do understand that feelings can surface. Sage advice has been given and though it may not help heal the heart, it is necessary to move on!

Today I make my blogging debut with some reflections on the nature of life as illustrated by my seashell collection: http://pixietryst.com/life-is-like-a-tin-of-seashells/

There is already lots of people who don't fallow those social expectations. (open couples, swingers, polyarmori, etc) The problem isn't really the expectations, but the people who aren't honest about what they want and decide to enter a situation they know they won't like anyway. Usually, those who aren't afraid to tell what they want end up being happier. :P

I'm new to the massage business and already, after only a couple weeks of work, I notice that my sessions vary greatly depending on the client. Of course the basics are all there, I don't cheat anyone out of what they paid for, but depending on the vibe I get from a client the session may change. If a client is immediately aggressive once the session begins, and continues to cross my boundaries even after repeated requests for him to stop, I will be more cautious about where I stand and how I maneuver my body. If a client is very respectful and perhaps a little shy, I may move in a way that will allow him to touch me more easily and feel less intimidated. I don't think any MA or SP should feel guilty about providing different sessions to different clients- we're not robots, clients come in for the human connection, and our decisions in interpersonal relationships are always subjective.

Today is a great day to enjoy a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide that will have you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes I am here today to heighten you senses today from 3:30PM - 11:00PM at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073 or Private Message to book.

I just want to say to all those write in their blogs, I really appreciate it. I'm not sure what it really does for anyone else, but for me it adds another layer of comfort with this industry. I think it's also really professional, a great method of marketing, and has time and again surprised (in a nice way) about the topics I've read. So thank you to all you fabulous ladies.

It is very unfortunate that subjects such as this one must continue to be brought up but one cannot deny the fact that since they do, there must be a valid reason! While I appreciate those of you who always put your best foot forward when visiting a provider, there are those who don't. Be it laziness, cultural beliefs or simple ignorance, the fact remains that body odor exists and sometimes it is offensive to others. Would you not want to get the MOST out of an encounter? If the simple task of being as clean as possible (including the use of deodorant or antiperspirant) is not worth the time then why should making you feel special be worth our time? It's quite simple, really! We want to please you! Please just take the small step to ensure that we can; happily!

Perhaps I am old fashioned and this is just my personal opinion. This falls under the same category for me as not eating garlic, onions or strong food prior to a date. I don't like to smell these things so why would anyone else. I realize the body has a mind of its own and may even ad some humor to any situation but for me that is quite a no no. It would just never happen.

One thing overlooked... colognes and perfumes are not meant to be used to mask a prevailing bodily odour; they are best applied to clean, freshly washed skin. In other words, if you spray a wet dog with Polo, it's still going to smell like a wet dog. As for nice light clean scents? The ever popular Acqua de Gio is good... Bulgari Aqua Issey Miyake - Summer Armani - Code Hugo Boss - Soul Lightly applied, they all make you feel just a bit more clean.

This is service provided by a woman from her home. She gives the massage on a table and it is undraped. She gives a light type of massage, more sensual than therapeutic. She gives a very nice finish. I have been several times over the years but it has probably been about 2 years since my last visit. She is a slender older woman, about mid 50's I would guess. This is my age range so I am very comfortable with it. Any mutual touching is done over her clothes. When I first started going she would wear dresses but the later visits she wore lingerie. She is a new age type and I think considers herself more a healer than SP. I did enjoy going there but as always YMMV.

I want to start the long weekend with a bang! Lets get all over each other in a slippery shower for two ;) Then we can have our party that ends with some very special explosions!! Call me at 613-523-6199 or PM Kelly Xoxox

What Cato said goes for me as well. Additionally, I think seeing the ladies, some of who I may have seen previously, interacting with other men would shatter some of the girlfriend fantasy. Intellectually, I understand the women I see also see other men. But I fear when confronted with visual confirmation my ability to suspend disbelief would be compromised. You should know this has nothing to do with jealousy. This is more about sharing something unique and intimate with a provider and not wanting the uniqueness tarnished. Additional Comments: As far as my comfort level on the board, at first I was shy; essentially a lurker. But after reading many informative, funny and erotic posts, I started to test the waters. The warm reception from the board members encouraged me. Now I feel very comfortable sharing thoughts and observations with this community.

I don't think we disagree at all. When I speak of the "dreaded L word" I mean it in the narrow societally accepted way ... love as defined in a certain way and largely in terms of monogomy. I think it's fully possible to love different people in different ways. And I even think it's possible to love multiple people in a romantic and deeply passionate way. It's not easy, but I think as humans our capacity to love is nearly infinite. The world would be a far better place if we could rid ourselves of all those societal hang-ups and realize that. This thread connects with a lot of thinking I've been doing lately about my relationships with people in my life who are very important to me. So I'd like to thank everyone for their thoughtful comments.

Had a lot of fun this afternoon with Jenny, & Sara. Ariel was there also. Thursday afternoons are looking WAY better now! Just need to get Bridgette in then too!

Great thread. Glad it was brought back to life. The thing I love about this site and these ladies and gents is the same as what Phadreus said. The people I feel I connect with on here are the people who let their real personalities show up in their posts. I'm a people person, but as I have grown older, I let people into my personal inner circle more slowly. I like to gauge people before I commit to some degree of friendship. I absolutely enjoyed the Halifax social because it gave me a chance to meet some of the same people that I enjoyed on CERB. They were as nice a bunch in person as I suspected from interacting with them on the forum. These are the type of people I enjoy meeting. When I give to or receive a compliment from a friend, we both know it's genuine. If it is a fabrication, we both laugh our asses off. I've met some terrific people on here of both genders.......the type of people I'll always think of fondly and look forward to seeing again.

I've gotten compliments on mine, but I have no idea what it is (lol.....good call, Cristy). Call me psychic, but I have a feeling that if you shower at the time of the appointment and, therefore, smell like the soap or bodywash that the SP provides, you're off to a good start.

i always wear "Axe Bodyspray" its supposed to attract women (according to thier ads), and so far so good. everytime i see an SP or MA, they always ask "what are you wearing? its smells sooo good!!! so that works for me, and makes me feel more comfortable when they say that!

Did you know... ...The Clitoris is the only body part in either females OR males, in which it's only function is pleasure? :) ...the "glans" which is just the tip that you can see has over 8,000 nerve endings, nearly twice the amount on the head of a penis? ...only less than one quarter of the clitoris is visible and the internal parts rival the size of an adult penis? ...the clitoris will grow up to 4x between when a women hits puberty up until after 30 years of age? ...ancient cultures used to worship the divine vulva as the gateway for all of human life? Yup, it's pretty amazing! :) <-- All that yellow is the clitoris!

I agree that sps run their biz the way that suits them. I do things with my sessions that gives that extra care and attention that someone paying 100plus dollars should expect and receive. I think about the only thing i would take issue with in situations is where clients expectations go to excess because they might be left with an impression that an sp who actually stays on schedule with the agreed upon and paid for time is now considered a clock watcher or worse, rushing lol I don't mean the times where sps are actually shortchanging agreed times but simply providing the agreed time. At some point that that isn't good enough, but are we now expected to provide 10 to 20% extra off the clock time in order to avoid being accused of clockwatching etc? Things I ponder over the years. :) And of course, we can't forget that when these things are provided, on a regular or infrequent basis, someone is going to put it into a review or discussion topic and the sp will be inundated with calls and appts from people who won't respect the time paid for, and they will be difficult for her to get to leave on time, or compensated for the extra time not freely given?

I used to use this stuff, but just can't seem to find it. Came with a warning and everything LOL Seriously though, I don't use aftershaves/colognes etc. One I have to be careful, my skin doesn't react too well with some after shaves/colognes. Second, a lot of people are allergic to scents...be terrible to see a lady and she has an allergic reaction to an aftershave I'm wearing. Third, the scent may in fact not smell good to the lady, but be strong and offensive I'll just stick to a shower with soap and hot water, dry off and apply antiperspirant Just too bad I can't find soap on a rope anymore LOL A quick rambling with flashbacks to the 1970's LOL RG

I really appreciate this good discussion, Charlotte. More than guys who want to haggle over prices, arrive early, try to stay late or, after they've arrived at the meeting place, pressure us for things we hadn't agreed to do, basic hygiene is the number one thing companions complain about. The guys who refuse to shower, the ones who shower but somehow don't get cleaner, the ones who seem oblivious to fecal matter clinging to their bodies are very challenging and sometimes impossible for us to engage with as well as we want to. A little over a year ago, a prospective client scheduled a lunch meeting with me. He wanted to get to know me before booking intimate time with me. Lunch was great. He had a sparkling personality and a great sense of humour. We talked and laughed, complained about politics, moaned about the endless Vancouver rain, told stories and otherwise quickly developed a very good rapport. When we left the restaurant, he walked me to my car. I offered a hug and he happily embraced me. That's when I smelled the strong cigarette smoke clinging to his clothes. I gave him a gentle kiss on the cheek. I could taste cigarettes on his skin. I didn't want to ruin the date, so I didn't say anything. I'm particularly sensitive to cigarette smoke. Heavy smokers often don't realize that the smoke and chemicals are absorbed by their whole bodies and exude from their skin. Without being too gross about it, the aroma is particularly pungent where there are major concentrations of sweat glands--that is, under the arms and in the groin. When he contacted me the next day to arrange a meeting time, I asked him about how much he smoked. He admitted that he smoked about three to three and a half packs a day. He was bashful about it, knowing how bad this was for his health. I had to tell him that I wouldn't be able to tolerate the smoke that oozes from a heavy smoker's pores. It's not a little thing, for me. I've tried to ignore it, but I can't: I quickly feel very ill, and a simple hot shower doesn't take care of it. I was very sorry to lose what I was sure would have been a great engagement with this very charming, personable fellow. He wrote to me a couple of weeks later, asking for another chance. He said that he'd taken steps to remedy the problem and that his wife was happy with the results so far. He wanted to meet me and, if the smoke was still a problem, that would be that. No hard feelings, no harm done. We could enjoy some social time together instead. I agreed to see him a week later. In the interval, he went to his health club and had a long sauna, followed by a deep tissue massage from the club's expert male masseuse. He did that twice that week, including the day before our meeting. The difference was incredible! He still smoked. He said he was trying hard to cut back. I could still detect a bit of smoke on his jacket. He took a shower before joining me in bed and everything was fine. He's become a very good, regular client. He sees me about once a month. He's continued with the sauna-and-massage routine. He's cut back his smoking to less than a pack a day and soon expects to give it up completely. He's feeling much healthier. I'm not the reason he's cut back on smoking, but I may have contributed to it. Whatever is true, he makes his own choices about such things. But I have truly appreciated being taken seriously.

I have to comment on this as I find I have a different perspective. I believe in many different varieties and depths of love. I also believe that many of our problems concerning love is the way we were brought up, the way society views it and how as a whole it's pushed as this very strict thing. By that I mean we're taught that you can only love one person (intimately and romantically) and that if you stray from this recipe you are inviting disaster and it's wrong. If we were simply to follow our hearts and feel and do it in a way that is respectful of everyone (not hurting others, pushing our love on others etc) the world would be a much different place. We have this expectation that one person needs to fulfill all our needs and that is JUST NOT POSSIBLE and more importantly, it puts unnecessary stresses on our relationships. Most people have friends to fill the gaps that a SO relationship doesn't meet but in many of these cases, you LOVE your friends. It's different than your SO sure, every relationship is but that doesn't diminish the emotions felt. Just like some of the relationships people talk about with an SP. The emotions are no less real and they are meeting a need not filled somewhere else. We should all have a commitment to ourselves to live life more fully, in the moment and happily which means having our needs met. Sometimes it's a case of can't or won't with an SO, sometimes it's just not there. Doesn't mean there still isn't love in the relationship but it's changed or is different. It's when we start putting rules on relationships that we get in trouble. For example, if you believe that if you're in intimate love with someone it should be a 24/7 you may be imposing a very negative boundary on the relationship. Why can't you be in love with someone you see occasionally? The only boundaries relationships should have are the ones agreed on by the people involved. Monogamous, poly, married, SP, it doesn't matter, they are all relationships involving people which means the basics should be the same. Communication, respect, consensual, do no harm, support etc. Sometimes it's not what we feel that's the problem, it's how we think!

This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.

Wow, clearly you are new around here so I'll hold back a little but you should know this isn't the place to come and brag about such accomplishments or conquests, this isn't the clubhouse locker room. Put yourself in the providers shoes. How would you like it if you were doing your job, very well in fact, both your boss and clients were happy and impressed but your boss came up to and told you "Sorry Luv269 we can't pay you for last friday even though you worked late, we really appreciate it though, oh yeah from now on, we need you to work 5 days a week, but we're only going to pay you for 4, keep up the good work Luv269" How exactly would you feel ?

Dear one.... Are you saying that you book 30-minute meetings and then always go overtime, getting that extra 50% for free, and that you're proud of it? Has it occurred to you that these ladies may not feel that they're able to tell you to leave or to ask you to pay for the additional time? Surely you're not advising others to engage in such exploitation. That's not how gentlemen behave.

I'm sure they exist, but I'm not into that sort of thing. I prefer to just be myself and be genuine. It's a lot easier! Posted via Mobile Device

Honesty, Discretion and Trust... three of the most undervalued, but naturally assumed facets of the industry. It has always been my thought that the first of these, honesty, is one of the cornerstones of a client/provider relationship. We don't give it much thought - but it is the essential element that drives this business. Taking it down to the bare bones, it is perhaps the most honest relationship a man and a woman can have. Think about it. There are things that you would not ask your significant other to do - not because they are immoral or degrading - but because of the potential for conflict, looks of contempt and accusations of deviance MAY be the end result. You love your SO but to preserve the delicate balance you may bury desire(s) and leave avenues of exploration untravelled. That's where the relationship with the provider blossoms. It's simple. For a nominal fee, you can express your desires and within reason, have them fulfilled. There is a comfort in relaying your desires. You can be honest with her. You can be the man that you want to be. You know that it is in your mutual interest that discussion be frank but polite, and that again within reason, she will not mock you for the simplest of requests. On the basest level it is a transaction; but on the spiritual side, it's miraculous. You have fulfilled a fantasy or just a natural desire and it was simple. That's the beauty of the honest relationship. (cont.)

Samantha, you do know they have a pub right on the premises? Here's a pic for your information.

I'll be in Toronto next week if ever! My friend Emma Alexandra will join me at the end of the week so you can also have a duo with us and our big beautiful natural breast. Lou xox

When two hippos are about to fight, they point their anuses at each other, wag their stubby little tails vigorously, and flick feces at each other. Never fight a hippo.

I've been told enough lies in my life that I prefer the truth. I don't see the difference from someone calling me stupid or someone saying I have the biggest dick in the world, they're both bs statements. Honesty is the best compliment you can give me even if its constructive criticism. It's like giving someone false hope. Stick to sincere and honesty for me please much more meaningful. If I want to role play ill ask for that service.

Hello Peachy For me personally and I suspect others in the community, our comfort level predisposes us to appear to others as introverts initially. This however is an incorrect assumption. People in this community tend to be more sensitive and aware on average and this means we require more personal space in my case literally to recharge emotionally. To answer your question specifically my comfort level requires the following: My comfort level would equal "A Mild Introvert". Emotions and nuances of environment have always had a big impact on me. So while being a disability activist I can speak with and for people on various causes-sexual rights for all being one of them-I need regular downtimes to reflect and consider on all the levels. Sometimes being physically disabled is like a name tag which has to come off. One needs time and space to disconnect from all the issues just so you can find your center again. This has the nasty unfortunate effect of driving many people crazy on the outside so to speak ["outside" refers to those not part of my immediate group of close souls.] when I close the doors to reassert my space. Surprisingly, Internet sites like face book do not hold much of an attraction, even though I am a geek and have five old computers tied together. Sometimes I find a dialogue on these sites,CERB is an exception, just as draining as going to a party. Perhaps that is because real dialogue or debate is very much appreciated, whereas hyperbole is not. So there it is, my comfort level in a nutshell. Apologies if I rambled somewhat. PatrickGC

I find that most ads on cerb are in general interesting and attention-getting. I also feel that I tend to pay more attention to the ones belonging to ladies I see regularly, have seen before or interested in seeing. In particular, Peachy...... beautiful presentation, eye-pleasing and professional formatting, interesting and innovative contents, Emily J.......witty, sexy, honest and not shy to state what she wants Cleo Catra...witty, sexy, interesting and always purring with pleasure Nathalie Lefebvre ...beautiful photos, thought-provoking, sensual Georgiana Sweet.....beautiful photos, sensual, sexy Julie Wilde .............classy, mysterious, sensual I am sure there are a few more which I can't recall at the moment :icon_redface:

While I appreciate a man whose chemistry mixes very well with a particular scent, some people tend to apply a bit too liberally. The application of any scent (other than body wash) should be subtle. The only people who should be able to smell it is someone in your embrace...that is sexy! I used to have a girlfriend whose choice of perfume may have been exquisite but she put on so much that the office staff was nauseous every time she entered the room. Less is better imho. But then again, back to the thread, everyone over the age of 14 should be wearing deodorant or antiperspirant when engaging in social activities.

Someone who opts not to see you unless you give them the exact address up front. Calling from the nearest intersection is a pretty common request, no?

Cerb gentlemen are that exactly GENTLEMEN! They know how to treat a lady, they respect us as providers, as friends, as women!!! They are definetely in a different league from the clientele you get from other advertising sites, even thou there is still some gentlemen that have not yet discover CERB, but certainly you guys here are the BEST!

I have to admit I like reading some of the ads just cause they catch the eye or sound interesting. One person that come to mind is Gabriella Laurence. She can make some of the most unique ads I've seen. So good job to her. Also Claire heavens always has a good catch phrase.

I took out some of the numbers form the phone number just in case the mod took exception. The SP's name is Nikki, she is one of the Quebec girls with the black pimp. Total Bait and Switch I was at work, horny and stupid. Broke several of my rules. Booked a girl who was only on BP. Was at work, so couldn't search her name on PERB for warning, spidey sense went off several times and ignored it. They use an Alberta number, but they are from Quebec. Girl at door was not girl in pic. Services offered in text were not offered in session, upcharge for basic services, was told no upcharge from when I first inquired. When I said "Keep $100, give me $140 back I am out of here" (after about 10 mins), she calls her black pimp and the fun begins. I won't go into all the details, but they refused to give me my money back. STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM, THEY ARE CROOKS. B&S specialists. I was finally taken. I feel like such a rube