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Not that I want to indulge your arrogance, again, but this post is completely unnecessary. Okay, so maybe she is not completely technologically inclined, and doesn't know all this stuff like you do, but do you think that it's okay for you to out her Facebook here like that? What you just described is not everyday common knowledge. Ladies try very hard to keep their identities separate, and I find it very inappropriate and even disrespectful for you to publicly post this, and then call this woman ignorant. The only ignorance I see here is you. I'm sure ladies are just jumping over each other now to take your virginity, knowing how you carelessly use the information of other SPs. Most ladies wouldn't have seen you anyways, given the nature of all your previous posts, and now, highly unlikely. This is a website and community of SPs and hobbyists who support each other. Different opinions and variety is welcome, but your approach and attitude is completely out of whack.

I would honestly have to say having sex is my favorite rainy day indoor activity!!! :69::bddog::Cunning::hump::makeout:

And yet you advertise yourself in your other posts as a "forever-alone virgin." There is wisdom in realizing that you don't know everything. Especially when you're entering a world of which you have no first hand knowledge. The world is nuanced and everything is shades of grey. You would do very well to ponder carefully how you present yourself here. CERB is a very friendly place but it can also be very unforgiving and harsh to those who are disrespectful of the community and its values. By making a blanket judgement and calling all SPs who don't have websites unprofessional, you've just offended a significant percentage of ladies whom you might be incredibly lucky to encounter. Is that really a reputation you want to cultivate? Spend some time. Read the forums. Educate yourself in the style and tone of this community. Perhaps a more humble viewpoint will allow you to use a more diplomatic tone. I'm not saying your opinion is wrong, only that your tone and presentation are harsh. Which is nicer to say? "All SPs without websites are unprofessional and not worth seeing" or "I prefer to see SPs with websites because I feel that I can learn more about them and feel more confident that their services are as advertised."

My suggestion hun is to go Saint John then Fredericton, however, Moncton is on your way to either PEI or HFX, so It is convent. I find in Moncton I have more issues with " bargain shoppers" Probably because there are many agencies and more ladies that are INDY, and have dropped rates too low. Which has off set balance scale. Most Moncton men, if they really want to see you will make the trip to Freddy or STJ too. IMHO . No bad feeling meant for Moncton, lol...I love that city, I am from there:)

PurpleHaze I think it would be wise for you to rethink your approach to this hobby and reason for doing so. Your uninformed opinions and attitude (ignorance) is very apparent. When you couple that with the tone of your writing it comes across as offensive. Social skills (or lack of) translate into the online world easily, sometimes too easily. The true "ladies" in this profession can be found here and deserve to be treated as such. Many of them are articulate, educated, cultured and caring. Most of the ladies I have met, genuinely want to have a great experience "with you". People participate in this hobby for many reasons providers and hobbyists alike are able to come together to provide something for each other, whether it's learning or trying a new skill, time away from a stressful personal life, financial reasons or simply the mutal benefit of enjoying someone else's company. The members on this board respect the ladies for who they are and what they do. In turn the ladies respect us back. All anyone in this hobby asks is that you use some common courtesy and respect each others privacy. After all that is often more valuable then any currency. I have found some great information on this site and met a few wonderful ladies. I spent a lot of time researching etiquette before indulging myself in this world. I believe you should do the same. There is great information to be found here. Also some less obvious lessons learned by just reading the posts of others and observing the kind of respectful etiquette in different threads and how they are received by others. There are other sites out there that tolerate rude uninformed opinions, but the amount of quality ladies is not as proportionate on those sites as it is here. I hope you take some of the advice given from the other members of this board and use it to better inform yourself before you continue with your venture any further, should you want it to be a good experience. Respect and discretion are of the utmost qualities you can give or receive in this hobby.

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Your posts show a lack of knowledge of basic etiquette and discretion involved in this lifestyle. Not only do you come off as arrogant, your post shows your ignorance, and yes, I'm using the word with your definition. We have CERB members here with much more experience in this lifestyle and are much more knowledgeable yet they don't make arrogant posts. They chose to share their experiences and knowledge with others in a respectful manner. You would do yourself a world of good to use CERB to learn about this lifestyle instead of coming across as some know it all. Just publically posting about Facebook and finding a lady's real identity must have all the ladies on CERB wondering how safe and discrete you really are, and how safe their privacy is with you RG

That's funny, because you are actually coming across as a huge arrogant one. So, good luck with that. :)

Be aware of what? "Throat cancer is considered to be uncommon and a small percentage of people with HPV develop cancer because of the virus. The finding does not suggest abstaining from oral or vaginal sex." Pretty sensationalist headline for something that we don't really need to worry about don't you think? Ladies, just so you know, for every pussy onesquared doesn't eat, I'm going to eat two! :-D

Today is the National Day of Action to support Sex workers. I'm sure many people will be participating in the events planned across the country. In anticipation of the Bedford case going to the Supreme Court of Canada, this mobilization is fantastic and very important. I realize that not everyone will be able to participate, but if you can't, I'd like to encourage you to do something positive in support of the wonderful women who work very hard, sometimes struggle, and always enrich our lives in so many ways. To that end, this thread could serve as a place for people to voice that support and commitment. Porthos

As said by the guys before, I believe for what I have read in other threads that this is a choice a living style, gebtlemen single, married or in any kind of relationship can have the freedom to be with the lady of their choice without having a commitment, or lik expressed before drama! In most cases has nothing to do with being "ugly" or "uncapable of meeting a lady" in any other way! I have met so many attractive and intelligent gentlemen being an MA, men that would have no trouble meeting any woman they would like! So yes I am a true believer that hobbying is a choice!

My advice is to meet an SP that you click with and ask if she has duo partners. If you can, meet her separately even if it's just for a half hour if your SPs offer this choice of time slot. Chemistry is important for an MFF to be successful and also to make sure all parties are on the same page both in attitude and service. While this takes time and can definitely be costly, the MFF will be amazing! This is what clients of myself and my duo partner have done and it was a lot of fun since all of us were already acquainted with one another. Or at the very least, myself or my duo partner already knew the gent. If you go into it not knowing either of the SPs, tell them it is your first time and if they are good at what they do, you will be relaxed in no time. Like Roamingguy said, let the ladies take lead and go from there. As for etiquette in a duo, never focus on just one SP. This isn't due to jealousy and insecurity issues, just out of politeness to both SPs as everyone wants to feel comfortable and not left out. Ask all questions before the appt and arrange it in advance to allow for both SPs to be available. And finally...here is a good resource for duo hunting in Ottawa...http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117343&highlight=partners Enjoy and have fun!

Asking how it works is like asking how an encounter works. Each encounter with a client, even the same client on a repeat encounter is unique. Really your ménage is dependant on the ladies, their chemistry with you, each other, and your chemistry with them. If you have a ménage a trois, let the encounter unfold naturally but let the ladies take the lead. RG

My son and I took our 12-week old puppy to the vet for vaccinations. Juno so enjoyed hearing that she's completely adorable that she didn't seem to notice being stuck with a needle. After that, we went to an outdoor café for coffee and more public admiration.

I had breakfast at my favorite place, with a long time friend. The server there knows my order and always gives me a hard time. Feels like Cheers except its breakfast. Then stopped for gas, and an elderly lady was having difficulty with the pump. Still drives at 83 but her hands are too weak to handle the pump properly. I wasn't going to stop, but something made me. I pumped her gas, and walked into the Esso with her, holding the door. She was ahead of me in line, and told the cashier "I'm going to pay for that nice young man's gas as well as my own". I'm 48. I had only put $20 in, and protested, but she said that was the first time ever anyone had stopped to assist her. Now, I am not fishing for praise telling this story. It really feels good to help someone a little less able than yourself. I think you get more out of it than they do. Free gas was just the sprinkles on the cake!

I usually curl up with my puppy love on the couch and watch some movies. I just downloaded Oz the great and powerful

Harper's got to get his house in order ( and it's in a fucking mess) before he and is government worry about shutting down bawdy houses and challenging whatever comes about from the supreme court decision.

9:00 movie night with my daughter and our Skittles, Starburst & Hot Tamales :) :) :)

Thank you to everyone who has replied so far. Occasionally random thoughts will pop into my head prompting questions to the community. I left this one a bit vague on feedback criteria to see what options are seen. I have always enjoyed the feedback loop especially in situations where there is so many variety and experience contained in the people and this certainly qualifies. Not only are there intelligent, thoughtful smart ladies but there are brilliant men with so much experience and goodness. This is OUR industry and we all come at it from a different perspective. I love the ability to think of something you never considered before. As with anything, if approached correctly and with respect, applied personally and used pro-actively, the sky is the limit.

To me, it's one thing if someone asks for an opinion or some advice. It's quite another thing to have someone offer it, unasked. That said, I don't think that any two clients can expect to have the same experience with me except in terms of the roughest of outlines--as in, dinner + playtime. The quality of engagement is a highly personal thing that depends on our respective moods, the rapport between us and that indefinable je ne sais quoi that happens or doesn't. If I want advice about my business model or some aspect of what I'm doing or considering, though, I would discuss that with one or two of the ladies I know simply because we're in the same business and I think that means we understand a lot of very subtle things about one another and our work that other people simply can't appreciate.

Congrats on hitting the big 500!!!

You just love smacking balls around:) lol

Love minecraft!! As well as many other xbox games, I play when time permits. I was never a gamer but I'm starting to really enjoy it. I'm getting quite good at NBA2K13 :icon_redface:. Additional Comments: I love pinball!! Take me to an arcade, bowling alley or movie theatre and off I go!!

Dunno a thing about Xbox....But I could talk pinball all night ;)

My profile page had visitor #500 today.

Young man, I think you are seriously lacking of knowledge in terms of etiquette and manners. That is obviously what Emily meant by using the word "ignorance". Knowledge is like rasberry jam: the less you have, the more you try to spread it. Now if you don't learn to behave, we will send you back to your mom so she can give you a good spank and send you to your bedroom, with no computer games. If you don't apologize when you go out, you will have no dessert after dinner!

How to break one of the first rule about privacy. You are doing it right! TRUST ME, no SP want to receive a FB message from a stranger saying hey I saw that pic on BP in the escorting section.

Those who know me, know I love silly poetry, so how could I resist Renegade's tempting offer? I have a tendency to go on and on with rhyming verses, so I'll keep it to 4 lines. You'll be so glad that you did Of this I can assure Just look around the site She's here, your perfect girl...

not all sp's like to pre-book. not all customers are able to "commit" to a certain time so they end up not calling anyone at all - assuming that people only see them "by appointment." sometimes they are not sure if they will have the "free time." I don't pre-book with anyone I do not know - I let them know that I work "short notice" & I advise them to call within 1-2 hours of their desired time. many people have to cancel as things can & do change when someone is in town for business. They may have to deal with bosses, dinner plans may change - meetings & training can go into "overtime." there isn't anything they can do about that. schedules have to be "flexible" so I found pre-booked appointments had to be changed - so it was easier to work on "short notice."

But...but....then you miss out on all the delicious pussy flavah....mmm...pussy. "You can eat all you want and never get fat. Where else can you go for a meal like that?" - Madonna

Look, I approach the website issue the same way as you, but try not to be so harsh in your opinions. If and when you do see an escort, especially one on this forum, you might be carrying a lot of baggage that she's going to be extremely concerned about.

As this is a subjective thread, aka one man's meat is another man's poison, I can only speak from personal experience. Truly, many of the ladies who frequent this site are Masters of Oral Arts. He is my list of truly memorable oral encounters... in no particular order. redseductress EmilyJ Sexxxyrebecca Cleo Catra Sara MQ Taylor Munroe Sin Cindy Nicolette Vaughn Peachy Vanessa Vale Hoo Boy, I get around. :givemehead:

My goodness. You're awfully sure of yourself aren't you? I remember being that age once, seeing everything in black and white. There couldn't be any reason why a legitimate provider wouldn't have a website? Perhaps they find their page on CERB to be sufficient for their needs? Perhaps they only do this part time or seasonally? Perhaps they're very tech unsavvy and don't know how to make a website or do web design? Or just don't want to? Making snap judgements about groups of people based on limited information is not wise and only demonstrates small mindedness. --edit-- Oh yeah, one other reason. Some people prefer to be VERY private and low profile. For the same reason some prefer to not show their faces in pictures. You know there are actually escorts who have families and significant others? And some of these people don't know what the escort does for a living? Shocking I know but it's true I promise you.

The longer you play with them, the harder they get. LOL Thank you for visiting my personal profile. My companionship is well-suited for distinguished clientele who prefer confidentiality and privacy. You will find me a rare, special blend of exquisite beauty, integrity, and solid character. I am well-educated, articulate, genuinely kind, and possess a great sense of humor. I am also ultra-sophisticated, extremely feminine and posses a down to earth charm. I believe in treating people with dignity and respect, as this is very important to me. Taking extreme pride in my body and appearance, I am always impeccably groomed and dressed for any occasion. Most of all, I believe beauty comes from within then shines through on the outside. These qualities are paramount to a true exclusive luxury companion. I prefer to spend time with a very selective, mature man who enjoys a woman with an effervescent personality. I don't take anything for granted that life has to offer. I am a soft-spoken, passionate, and sensual woman who possesses a mixture of incredible sex appeal combined with a charismatic personality. I strive to put you at ease in any situation and this will be evident when you meet me. I enjoy intellectual conversation and laughter. If you are an affluent, distinguished gentleman who prefers a lady with a great attitude and demeanor, and who also enjoys quality over quantity, then I am for you. :spank: I like to kiss slowly, forgive quickly, laugh easily, and enjoy every moment to it's fullest. I have a very warm and caring personality that will make you feel like we've known each other for years. I have a college education and can appreciate intelligent conversation. I believe that intelligence, humor, wit, self-confidence (somewhat humbly so), resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn are incredibly important qualities to have and share so I tend to gravitate toward those who possess them as well. I would like to think that I'm the kind of woman who can awaken passion and stimulate the imagination. And I can only hope that others enjoy my company, as much as I will appreciate theirs. HERE UNTIL 9pm:shehot:

This is a tricky subject, i know some people can be "over critical" when trying to be constructive and others can be really helpful. I think i could be, i come from a management background myself and find it easier to be constructive rather then demeaning or condescending, which is how i find a lot of people come off as when trying to provide criticism.

I should hope so too. You'll have to visit again soon so OD and I can check your adherence to the FB-BBM diet :)

Kingdom of Anal (Heaven) Anal (Spring) Breakers Then there's the Chilean film No!, that could become No Anal!

And on that note, I can't believe nobody's mentioned My Big Fat Anal Wedding :)

Hmm, that's tricky. My initial thought is that 'd be entirely uncomfortable. After all, it's a natural instinct to want to do better and get genuine feedback. And doing so is, indeed, generally good business sense. Thinking about it though and being honest, I guess it would depend on the type of feedback I was being asked to offer. Depending on the topic, I would probably worry that I may end up saying something that would unintentionally offend, and so I'd probably stick to discussing aspects that were done well and emphasize the positive. Making suggestions or discussing things that could be improved seems like...treacherous territory. :) There's an extra tricky aspect to gathering feedback in this particular endeavor. More so than with most things, people's opinions, preferences, and suggestions are going to be much more personalized. What I mean is, for each person that gives feedback in one direction, there's going to be another person that prefers it the opposite way. For every change you make you're as likely to turn away as many people as you attract. So keep in mind if you do start asking for feedback, that just because a person suggests something doesn't mean you should automatically make a change unless you decide you agree with the assessment and are more comfortable with it. It seems to me that, generally speaking, you're best off focusing on your own style and way of doing things and letting those that appreciate it gravitate to you, rather than trying to change yourself to fit another's expectations. None of which is to say you shouldn't feel like you can ask your questions. Just that it's probably best to only do so if you're comfortable shifting through it to decide what feedback works for you. Hope that fits what you were asking! (if not, you can take my above advice and ignore it. ;) )

Congrats, Areez. Thanks for the posts and chat room antics and all you do to help keep this place humming. :) FR

"I like my men like I like my steak - thick and juicy" ... pretty much sums it up for me hahahaha

Congrats on reaching the big 500 and keep up the excalent job you do here on cerb

Congrates on 500. We joined CERB in the same month and year. Like you I lurked a while and once I decided to try my first encounter while visiting Toronto I joined up. I have had a blast since then and have met a few of the ladies on here and a couple of the guys for a beer. Keep the posts coming.

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Cash is king for me. As a business owner, the POS charges (3-5%) are a killer. I'm sure the ladies would soon find how quickly those charges accumulate. For the record, Canada has the highest credit charge charge rates in the world (my rave for the day). As some one else mentioned previously, credit/debit cards would take away from the moment IMHO as well.

Something Personal: To finally further my education. As well, I would want to be a bigger risk taker and really go for things that I desire or would make me happy instead of being afraid of failing Something that affects everyone: People would actually follow the damn golden rule and not just pay lip service to it! Or as Abe Lincoln once said in Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure: "Be excellent to each other"

With respect, why would using a dam be awkward? I know a number of SPs who have dental dams on hand, or who know how to make one using a condom. As someone who has used them personally, to me it is no more awkward or difficult than putting on a condom (and sometimes less so, hehe). Open communication is key, if this is something you'd be interested in then do let your provider know ahead of time so they can get some dams or acquaint themselves with using a condom as one, if needed.

I'll step in here and provide my experience as an SP that is website shy. I built my business on EC with occasional ads here. For a long time I didn't even have pictures! I do have a website but I don't publish the url, it is available only to those that contact me directly. I seldom advertise but when I do, I want to open up a dialogue with my guests. I want to answer the questions no matter how inconsequential they feel the questions may be because this conversation we develop gives me valuable clues to who they are and if I want to see them. I don't want men to look at my website, decide they want an appointment and arrive for me to find out we aren't a good fit. I have learned the hard way that money earned when it isn't fun isn't money worth having. Not publishing my website for the world to see is simply another layer of verification for me. If it makes me appear unprofessional then so be it. Those who I have chosen to entertain will attest to the fact that I am unsurpassed when it comes to hospitality and entertaining. I take my career seriously, having been involved for over 25 years and I don't think having a website determines ones level of commitment or professionalism. Over the years I have more providers than I care to count who had outstanding websites and were subpar providers... cat

In terms of creativity I've thought that Emily's use of her toys to be quite cute and creative. Although I'm a little concerned about the big black one down in the left corner. Yikes! Additional Comments: Here's another one from Nathalie Lefebvre and her vintage black and white album. The cropping of the photo to just show the delicious curve of her bottom and arch of her back combine for a fantastic erotic image. Additional Comments: Another picture that I've always felt was a beautiful image was this photo of LolaCherie. The lighting is soft and natural and evokes the sense that this was a picture that was taken without her knowing. However, the smouldering sideways glance and her face framed by her arm combine for a very sensual image.