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1)Many women just are not as horny as men. 2)Most of those who are, are not comfortable with their sexuality and don't express it freely for fear of being attacked and ostracized for being a "slut" and being undisciplined. And I do believe that #1 is an indirect psychological result of #2. Society is a judgemental c---. The brave few don't give a crap about them, and live their lives on their own terms. And BTW, as long as your not a douchebag, it's fairly easy to get laid on CERB. ;)

Daenarys and Margeary I'd give up everything I own to have a 3some with them. They are both equally beautiful in really different way, Daenarys is a feral beauty and Margeary is a more traditional renaissance type of beauty that you don't really see each days. Both characters are strong willed and that make them way more attractive to me and boobies.

After almost every encounter I send a thank you email to the lady. It's just a small way I can personally and privately show my appreciation to the lady for the companionship she provided. My public thank you comes in the way of a recommendation And I am happy to write both RG

I can't sleep so I'll answer your question ;) I always send a thank you note to the gentleman I have spent time with after an encounter. Sometimes I am not fast enough in sending my thank you email and my gentleman beats me to it. Does it annoy me when I see a thank you note in my inbox? Absolutely not because I love reading those special notes :)

On the side track issue, yes I don't actually know of any doctor, chiropractor, or dentist or other similar professions that don't have 24 hour notice requirements, before charging the client for the appointment that they no show or cancel on the same day. In these days of medical insurance, I would hazard a guess that those who don't know about these standard policies just don't know about them because they don't pay out of pocket. I book appts for a friend for a chiropractor that has to be paid in cash, and get reminded on the phone that if the patient is too late to make the appointment and the doctor can't see him he will be charged for that appointment anyway (because he is chronically late) I also get involved in booking hotels and exhibit booths, and some hotels and all exhibitions require prepayment. The exhibit is paid half in advance, and the other half closer to the date, but definitely prior to set up. Some hotels require payment of the first night, which is non refundable unless changed 24 hours in advance. So if the party arrives to the hotel and doesn't want to actually stay, they will still be charged for that night regardless. Lots of examples of such nonrefundable or cancelation policies are out there. Like it or not. And the difference here of course is that sps who do not have the good reputation or professionalism are not the ones coming up with cancel fees. We are talking about sps who incur costs to provide that appointment, who have solid experience, history, and reputations, good business practises, good ethics and good attitudes. These are the ladies who not just deserve to be compensated for that no show or late cancel, but need to be because they are the ones who went out of their way to accommodate the client's requests. Same with some sps require deposits for longer appointments, travel arrangements etc, non refundable as well. For other sps, we work on short notice, same day bookings, use confirmation calls half hour prior to the appointment time, and other ways to reduce the impact of no shows or late cancelations. We are unlikely to ask for or need any cancel fees, because we are unlikely to be out of pocket just setting up the appointment for the client in the first place. Some sps do cancel last minute, and some maybe should be offering a discount on a future visit, but when they cancel the majority of clients are not actually losing the appointment fee. It is, for the most part, still in their pocket. It can still be used to see the same sp, another sp, or go towards the bills. When a client no shows on an sp who has a more involved booking process, lost income cannot be recovered most of the time. They don't have a waiting list of guys to call in the event they get some time freed up. And that is really what we are talking about in these cases.

I am a picky eater and if I don't like the appearance of something or think it will taste a certain way I won't like, there's no way I'll eat it and for some reason there was something about cherries that made them be among the food I would never try. Yesterday I decided to break that rule and I'm glad I did :)

I don,t always send a message after an encounter but i do love receiving them and i will reply for sure! It is greatly appreciated :)))

I always send a thank you note to the lady I've seen. I feel it's a thoughtful gesture which also reiterates how much I value the privilege of having been able to spend some quality time with her.

I don't send thank you notes, when a gentleman leaves my company I have made it clear that he is welcomed to come back and appreciated, so anything after that I feel is up to him. I appreciate getting a thank you, as it shows that the gentleman liked the time he spent with me and its very thoughtful. As long as he is being truthful;) when he sends it:)

i can't sleep either lol. yes, always send a thank you note...always appreciate the provider's time and hospitality, and it's a nice thing to do. Nothing to over think, just acknowledging a great time :)

The cutest thing EVER just happened. I could hear little Cleo Catra behind me, making little trilling, confused mew sounds. I looked back, and could see her on the floor, stretched out, paws under the shut bathroom door. Wondering what she was doing, I opened the door - to find Ozzy Pawsborne, her boyfriend from the day she came home, stuck in the bathroom! She had me rescue him, but now they're swatting at each other and fighting, lol!!! I love my kitties!

Umm... I think he means his underwear.... and I corrected his GENDER (but I am not buying the whole story) ladies name, sex marked as "Female" and he claims he must have been in a rush.... sorry I don't buy it. Why does no one every tell the truth. He must change his name to a MALE name or GENERIC name and I switched the SEX in her profile to MALE.

Why does cof have to be YOU jacking off? Women have hands too! And I've had many a cum-splatter on my face while my tits did all the work... Just saying.

Lexi, you're very creative and naughty! It appears I may be a little vanilla. I do try to let things happen naturally, but enjoy starting a sex romp with some kissing, caressing, then an erotic massage, first with strong hands to relax, then I'll start and tease him with light touches on his inner thighs, around his balls, down his legs, rubbing my nipples up and down his back. Then I'll have him turn over, more kissing, caressing, offering him to suck and nibble on my nipples while my hand explores his body, the rest I'll have to leave for those curious to find out in person;)

I am going to age myself here but, I remember tv without a remote or cable. We had a landline and needed to actually talk to each other! Now a days, what with texts, emails and online forums, the art of communication has become almost robotic. Gone is the chance to be funny/sarcastic. Gone is the chance to be succinct without reproach. Gone is the emotion that makes a statement valid. The above is replaced with judgement. The above is replaced by not being able to read between the lines because the body language and facial expressions are not present. Not all of us are able to express ourselves adequately in words but yet we may be very adept in person. Before jumping all over someone's post, perhaps we should ask the OP more questions so that they may attempt to verbalize their intent. Some people try to inject humor but it comes off wrong online. Some people have a bit of a language barrier and may unintentionally post something they really didn't mean. Cerb is a positive place and therefor benefit of the doubt should prevail unless blatant negativity exists. My nickels worth. How has technology let you down?

women on top. I hate being on the bottom unless I am doing BLS or something, I can't properly do a BJ without cranking my neck and hurting myself, even with a pillow under

On the issue of referrals, it might be a good practice to ask a lady, perhaps via e-mail after you've seen her, if she'd be willing to provide you with a reference. This clearly signals that you are planning to see other providers, although to be frank, I can't see how this would be a surprise to her. The reference system is an important vehicle for enhancing safety and security. I can't see many providers not being willing to provide a reference to a good client because they are upset he's seeing other providers. This is the nature of the business, even with regular clients. Ideally, she should want other providers to also see good clients. That, it seems to me, is good for everyone's business.

Well I can literally count on one hand the number of SP's I've seen in the past few years, and they're all awesome so I don't have to worry about leaving anyone out :D In no particular order I have had FREAKIN' AMAZING times with Cleo Catra, Redseductress, and Penelope Davis! (Penelope is NS based but she used to occasionally visit Ottawa. I never miss a chance to see her when she is here). There is another wonderful lady I used to see but she recently retired so I won't mention her out of respect for her decisions. I also had an awesome time with MalikaFantasy once before she moved to Toronto. Unfortunately, that was the only time I ever spent with her. My schedule never seems to mesh with hers when she's in Ottawa but hopefully one of these days I'll be able to see her again! Only had one encounter with her but it was definitely memorable!

One I'll say don't bother watching is the remake of True Grit. Saw it last night on Cogeco On Demand. Wish I had watched a rerun of the original True Grit instead RG

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Today is a Sad day for any and all Sens Fans.... our beloved Captain Daniel Alferdsson has left us behind He wants to pursue the Cup and feels Detroit is the way to go Although I wish him the best.... He WILL NOT be hoisting a cup..... Go SENS Go!! I need Extra attention to sooth my broken heart from this loss.... Wanna HELP??? We can Comfort each other with some sexy Sensual fun!! ;) Contact me by PM, text me at 613-277-4328 , or call the Spa at 613-274-7073 to Ensure My Availability Schedule Friday July 5th: 4:00pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Sunday July 7th: 10:00am - 4:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Check out what others are saying about my service!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731 Sexuality is not a Leisure or Part-time Activity It is a way of Being -Alexander

I've had policies about deposits and cancellation fees for years with very few problems. It does make a difference that I'm an established professional companion: many of my guests come to see me because they know that I'm not some newbie who may not be willing to work or may not be as discrete and considerate as she should be. I don't take last-minute appointments. Same-day opportunities may be available to established clients, but there's never a guarantee. A new client might get to see me in a couple of days if we establish a good rapport very quickly, but I give first priority to returning visitors and may not be available without a bit more notice. I often book anywhere from a week or two to several months in advance and most of these engagements are several hours long. If someone is coming from out of town and booking well ahead of their visit, I do ask for a deposit. I require deposits from anyone who books long engagements--perhaps they want to meet daily for 3-4 days or a weekend. Plans and circumstances change and I am cheerful about refunding deposits when such things happen, although that's rare. I have had clients who needed to re-schedule and have asked me to hold a deposit to be used against a future meeting. That's not a problem. If someone in the Lower Mainland schedules a meeting with me and then cancels abruptly, I don't make a fuss about it, but the next time they want to book a meeting I will ask for a deposit. I've never had a problem with this. I also think that things have to be taken on a case-by-case basis, as others have said. I'm not here to complicate anyone's life. If we're planning to meet tomorrow but your child is in an accident, your mother suddenly goes into hospital or you've had a car accident, I will understand. Life happens at the most inconvenient times and I prefer to be thought of as considerate, kind and understanding.

I love receiving emails saying thanks for the great time. I do reply to them. However, I generally don't send out emails if they don't send me one first. I am always worried that if I do send out an email, its not at the right time for him and he has someone looking over his shoulder at that moment.

I always send a brief thank-you note afterward (well, unless the thing went disastrously, but that's almost never happened). If I try to break down my reasons for it, I guess it's a combination of: - a nice way to add a little "P.S." to the encounter, during that period afterward when I'm still thinking about it and smiling; essentially, "even though our time is over I'm still carrying the memory with me, so thank you for that too." - a way of saying "I know I said thanks while I was there in your presence, but that could have been mere politeness because we were in the same room; let me thank you once more now that we're apart, so you know the feeling is genuine." I suppose it's part of the way I manage the emotions involved in the experience, putting the last feelings away somewhere safe and then moving on.

If you're losing you hair, just go bald! Or at least really short. I was eighteen when I started losing my hair so one day I bought a trimmer and a Mach 3 razor and I went to town! That was thirteen years ago and I've never looked back!

I love sending a thank you text or pm after an encounter. It's a fun way to sort of keep the flirty fantasy going and it shows the lady you appreciate the time you spent with her.

I always choose to send a passionate thank you as well to the lady for the pleasure of her company. I personally consider ladies I visit with to add a great deal of value to my life beyond the physical of the moment. It's a gesture that I would consider CENTRAL to a client being able to consider himself a "gentleman". Besides that, hey it's just polite etiquette.

I generally always send a thank-you note of appreciation to the lady and let her know how much I valued and enjoyed her company. I think that's a nice gesture and will usually (I presume) be regarded as thoughtful. Usually it results in a reply and optionally it can lead to getting to know one another or just keeping in touch in between encounters. FR

Always, either via text or email. Peace MG

Yes I like receiving thank-you notes whether it's a PM or a text. I don't do email because I don't like it. I will send a thank-you Pm here on Cerb but once a client has left my company, I will not send a text for discretion reasons and I respect their privacy. If they text me, I will respond back if I am able to answer right away. If not, I send them a PM on Cerb.

I like to receive/send a thank you email after an encounter, especially if it is a first time meeting.

Going to get all hot and sweaty tonight. Ottawa Blues Fest + The Zac Brown Band + 40,000 screaming fans + a humidex reading > 40C = hot & sweaty. The best part? Cooling off with my sweetie in the shower then getting all hot & sweaty all over again! :makeout:

AWW, please don't feel weird, this is a great and discreet place to discuss, reply and view all kinds of people. Most here are non-judgemental, accepting and welcoming to new members and want you to feel comfortable and part of this community. If you view profiles your handle will appear on that persons profile, they may choose to leave a thank you for visitng message on your wall/profile page. If you choose to leave a comment on someone's page keep in mind that comment will be visible to all who visit that profile. If you want to send a message to anyone that you only want for your eyes and theirs send it by a pm. If you want to comment on a thread just hit the reply button. Or if you just want to thank someone for their comment hit the thanks button. It takes a bit to get used to it, when I joined I made mistakes but its through those that you learn. If you have any questions just ask, or post a thread for multiple responses. The main thing is for you to enjoy and feel like you belong, those are my wishes for you:)

I personally send a message after each encounter and I encourage email exchanges after our date so YES I am all for them.

I remember being initially confused as to what counts as a post and what doesn't when I first started participating. One thing to clarify is that leaving a comment on someone's wall (on their profile), private messages, commenting on a picture, or commenting in a social group do not count as a post. Basically, you have to leave a comment here in a forum subject. As MOD says, if you click "reply to this thread" you know you're posting. :)

Lol I take it my comment pissed some people off. Sorry for that it was tounge in cheek. I get it its a community for all..... my bad for not looking at it that way. New here. Thanks to some of ya for getting my comment ( meg ) and my sincere apologies to those that didn't. Was not my intention to trash the thread. Love ya all. I'll write out " I will not trash posts with my comments" a 100 times for punishment.

Had to add a pic, because I am loving all these pictures of beautiful REAL women with REAL curves wearing sexy lingerie. :bowdown:

We should all be thankful for Nikki's advocacy. Her fearless, articulate and persuasive style is what will get results. The sadness is that there are so many brilliant voices that can not be heard but who know the truth. I hope someday Nikki will be seen like Henry Morgentaler - condemned during the fight but a respected hero in the end.

TODAY 3:30 TO 11 WWJD? Fellow hobbyists If this is your first visit be sure to check out.. RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591 PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 I am a M/A with an INCREDIBLE drive.. A nautarlist at heart <3 ME in the buff = YOU leaving happy I am petite but my presence and personality are larger than life. I have a soft approch and a HARD finish. My techniques are magical And I love to entertain. Lucky you ! My Schedule: Thursday 3:30 to 11pm Friday 10 am to 11 pm Sunday 10 am to 9 pm Exclusively @ Angels

Back when I was younger, my girlfriend at the time really wanted to be fucked in a bed with satin sheets. I was game and so we somehow found this pair of read satin sheets. We get them on the bed and proceed to fooling around. After a sweaty round of DATY, she gets up to get some water. After she comes back to the bedroom she sees me lying on the bed, gives me this wicked smile, runs toward the bed and jumps beside me. It is at this point that we discover that satin is very slippery. She slides the length of the bed right into the wall, leaving a rather large hole in the wall (especially when she barely broke 100 lbs). Luckily, she was okay. Just some minor bumps and bruises along with some stiffness the next day. The fucking session was halted for a few days while she recovered but from then on we always used regular cotton sheets - for traction purposes LOL

Salt & pepper hair is a sign of experience and wisdom :) I think it's sexy, personally. Even pure grey or white can be sexy on a man who wears it with confidence. A confident man will accept all aspects of the aging process with pride and make it look graceful. I have always liked older men though, so that's just my opinion, but I know I am not the only one who feels this way. :) Embrace it! :biggrin:

One week ago today I was just getting out of the hospital from being quite ill and having pneumonia and a body full of infection. My business partner's good friend had died from pneumonia the day before. My very young son had Menangitis at the time and in a different hospital, very scary ! and my mother was in a different hospital still from heart issues and my dad was in Winnipeg for cancer tests. Today I am happy and healthy and working and living life, and my son just went to the lake about an hour ago with my mom and dad for a day or two :) For me this is a highlight and my family is once again very fortunate. My heart goes out to those Cerbies that weren't so fortunate as of late and you are all in indeed in my thoughts because family means everything !!

I think I end up ingesting calories...... Slurp! :) There's more to life then calorie counting and burning. Eat and be eaten ;) Bon appetite :)

Your comment was negative. A "Warning" is negative.... Please focus and share the positive stuff (not dwell on the negative/bad stuff). It's easy to vent and complain (and warn others) when something is not great but it's a lot more valuable to tell other members about the positive and good aspects of the industry. Cerb is not the place to warn people of bad things (those sites are REVIEW boards) cerb has a different approach as a RECOMMENDATION board that only focuses on the positive attributes..

If you look at Jessica's post history, you will see that he says he is a guy: Isn't "having a tent in the pants" just another way to say he had an erection? That's what I thought when I read his post. Maybe I am wrong... Could be a French/English thing...

I'm new to this - very new in fact. That said, all the ladies who I've viewed who had websites detailing their preferred etiquette/policies put them there for a reason - so I read them. It doesn't matter what field you're in, you have policies and terms of service for a reason. I don't care if you're delivering a package or servicing someone's "package" - rules need to be followed. :)

A gentleman understands that despite the interpersonal and pleasurable nature of this lifestyle, and also realizes that it takes a very special woman to be a professional companion, for the man this is an escape, whereas for the lady this is her livelihood. When a lady agrees to schedule an encounter with a prospective client after that prospective client has contacted her for a date, she is setting aside a block of time based on the belief that the prospective client will honour his commitment to see the lady. When you cancel at the last minute, the lady is out not just money, but income...income used to pay bills, rent, car payments etc. And it is time the lady could have used to see a paying client instead of having a no show. Paying a cancellation fee shouldn't be a problem for a gentleman. He should have the money for the encounter already set aside, so he should be able to pay the lady a cancellation fee. If he doesn't have the money then he shouldn't be making appointments with a lady And no one is faulting a gentleman when he cancels. Life throws everyone a curve at times. But if a gentleman does cancel at the last minute, he needs to do the right thing. The lady shouldn't have to pay for a curve thrown at the man My quick morning rambling RG

I just wanted to do a quick review on Asia. I gave her a call with very short notice and she was very friendly. She is only doing out calls for now. She came to my place and was very punctual. As soon as we got to my room, she was wearing quite a sexy outfit which didn't take long for me to remove. 2 things with Asia. 1) she has an amazing booty, I'm talking about a booty where loonies would bounce off it and 2) Oral skills are wow, very talented. Asia gets very wet, and I mean WET! she really enjoys pleasuring you. Take my advice, try this sexy milk chocolate. Of course keep in YMMV, and treat her well and you will be rewarded. Cheers.