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Open minded can also mean that they are open to specific kinks and fetishes usually with a non judgmental attitude. They may or may not offer such a service but you can feel comfortable asking about them and not like you'll be lambasted for it. Open to communication. As Meghan said, always be open about sharing your needs and desires as it will guarantee you the experience you're looking for!

Kylie - She puts a ton into all of her shoots but this photo easily moves from the escort/companion marketing into fine arts... there is a message beyond the photo that elevates it.

First, if acting out this fantasy makes you uncomfortable in the least, don't do it. If seeing him as a client thinking he might have a predilection towards underage kids, makes you uncomfortable don't see him. Stick to your boundaries and comfort zones Also, a pedophile will always be a pedophile, you cannot cure them (well except one way, but that will get you locked up in prison LOL) So acting out a underage fantasy with him will not curb him of wanting to see kids, nor will it make him more wired to want to see kids. Good luck whatever you decide RG

Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

I am definitely in! Looking forward to seeing my cerbie friends.

Two days ago I decided I would be too freakin busy to go......yesterday I was well maybe I should go anyways cause I will need a stress relief getaway by then....today it was fuck this shit ! I am going to Otown baby !!! Flights and hotel just booked and would like to attend if you still got room. I promise I will ..........behave ;)

I just want to underscore the importance of recognizing and staying within your own boundaries. If you're not comfortable with this scenario, there's no reason for you to go through with it. That said, many men come to us to explore or engage in things that just aren't available to them with other partners, or that they're nervous raising with them. Erotic play can take many, many forms but not everyone's comfort level or repertoire is the same.

Losing SaraMQ. Yes I am obviously happy that her personal life is more full and that she has a "normal" day job...but I miss seeing her posts on Cerb:( or having her hyper-caffeinated self in the chat first thing in the morning and laughing with her... :(

From time to time clients will ask me if I like my job. They typically follow this question with the comment "You must get all sorts in here!". And indeed we do! I'm very open minded, and I think exploring one's sexuality is an important and enriching part of life's journey, however there are some clients whose requests go beyond the norm. One such request has brought on an ethical dilemma for me and I hope CERB members can offer some insight. There is a client who would like me to pretend that I am a very young girl. Now I am 20 and can dress to look high school age, but there is no doubt that I am at least 16, even in pigtails. I do not personally feel too uncomfortable with his request because I am just role playing, but someone mentioned that accepting this man as a client may be a decision with ethical implications. Will indulging his fantasies potentially fuel his imagination and increase his desire for the real thing (a criminal act)? Is my involvement beneficial as I act as a substitute and divert him committing a serious offense? Or do my actions only encourage his fancy, thereby normalizing the behavior, potentially causing the desires to escalate to the point where he feels compelled to act out his imagination with a real life subject? Moreover, is this even an issue I should be concerned with? He has not spoken of doing this with any real girls, and I do not know his profession so cannot comment on the risk he poses to children around him. Is it possible that this is just a fantasy and nothing more? Thank you in advance for your replies! I am new to the industry, but surely I'm not the first to ask this question. Any help is greatly appreciated :)

I like a long session (90 mins at least) so that I can enjoy ALL of the things I like to do. Though no two encounters are ever alike, an ideal session for me would go something like this: greet with sexy outfit and a warm embrace, nice ice breaking conversation followed by some playful making out, move to the bed where she undresses me for a nice back massage, when I'm fully relaxed, I turn over for a mind shattering blow job to completion. I always like to give as good as I get so after I've released I like to reciprocate with a full body rub down followed by as much DATY as she can physically stand, by this time my little guy is ready for round two! I don't know that I have a favorite position but I truly enjoy watching a woman ride my cock. Just the look on her face, the bouncing of her breasts and the mesmerizing movement of her hips...it's really a treat to watch. After the second shot on goal we should be physically spent and I like to use whatever time we have left for some playful pillow talk and light cuddling. Any variation on this general theme will leave me with a smile on my face and a spring in my step for days!

Generally this refers to those options she is willing to perform. IE, open minded about kissing - she kisses, or open minded about greek, she performs anal. Still remember if there is something specific you crave, ask her if she is open minded about this. Some people use this term, but in fact still have some restrictions.

Looking forward to another great time together with friends!

aHAHAHAHA... sorry, I'm just trying to imagine that conversation. GUY 1: "Hey, whatcha doin'?" GUY 2: "Playing Killzone 7... just came out." *pew pew boom* GUY 1: "Huh, cool." (pause) "Hey, you know what GUY 2? You should totally get out of here and go to a brothel." GUY 2: "WTF?" GUY 1: "Seriously. You've captured the other guy's flag, like, three times while I've been watching. Knock that off. You need some action." (pause) "At a brothel." GUY 2: "Dude, my girlfriend will be home in, like, an hour." GUY 1: "Look, here, take this..." *gives paper* "Just call this number and go to this address. Seriously. You should totally do it." GUY 2: "Uhhh...." LATER: GUY 2: "Dude! That was awesome!" GUY 1: "I told you! Now... make sure you go back several more times this week." GUY 2: "You know what? I'm totally doing that, because you've just convinced me that I should." HANDCUFFS: "Click!"

I'll be there for sure!! :D as far as door prizes for the ladies.. these have been some nice ones in the past: gift cards for la Senza lingerie, LCBO etc... i also think that even something as simple as a gift card for Shoppers drugmart...you can buy ANYTHING there and they have a great fragrance and cosmetics section. :)

I dont have any pics on cerb of my boobies...but especially since losing weight I'm now even more a part of the itty bitty titty committee ;)

I've said this before, I have no fear of arrest, much less prosecution. I don't rip men off, do drugs, act wrong in a hotel lobby, or do car dates. I am under no illusions that I am on someone's radar, somewhere but I imagine the police & the courts have more important business to attend than me. Also, Cerb & many other sites have been around for quite some time. If we & our lifestyle were of paramount concern to those with powers of arrest & prosecution, it would have happened long ago. So I never worry about it. Sandi

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

xenodocheionology I don't have it all the time, but on outcalls I do...but it is more because of the encounter I'm about to have than where I'm going to have it In case your vexed, it means love of hotels...and I love a good hotel when I'm seeing a lady for a outcall Yes, I looked it up RG

Zack and Miri make a Porno,, how come I always get the zees?

you're clothes are making me uncomfortable ... Please take them off ;) Cum get naked and wet with this tall blonde. I'm just waiting to have some naughty fun with you today. Don't miss out , call 613-523-6199 :) Not a member ? Pm me personally and find out how you can be my special guest of the day ! :) Schedule July 23-28 Today 3-10 Wednesday 9-10 Thursday 3-10 Friday - Cmj luau party!! Saturday 11-6 Sunday 11-6 if you haven't heard yet this Friday is Cmj's Luau party! Non members , this is your chance to cum check out all the ladies you have yet to meet ! Please Rsvp!

"I realize that bartering is considered the norm in other cultures and countries but for lack of better words, you're bargining for what is supposed to be an intimate service and this is insulting." I want to preface this by saying that I NEVER try to bargain -- on anything -- it goes against my Anglo-Saxon upbringing. Definitely have never tried that with SPs. With one exception. A couple times I've asked for something special like asking her to wear the skirt in her photos... and tipped for the added feature... That is I am prepared to pay more, but never ask to pay less. But I wanted to point out that intimacy really doesn't have anything to do with the issue of negotiation. In my experience, marital sex is pretty much always a negotiation, LOL. Rings, jewellery, retiling her bathroom (the soaker tub in the ensuite that I never use), cooking dinner, taking her to Nevada, or Paris, etc.. (I'm joking).

..::w i n k::..

Oh, we still have room, you are more than welcomed to attend!! Shagadelic, baby!

You know what's worse than negotiating ??? Agreeing to a pay a fee for a service and then just not paying it all. That's really insulting and it happens a lot, not just in this biz. As a freelance contractor I find it personally insulting when I do a job, deliver a product, the client get's what they want and yet I still don't get paid. Actually more insulting is when I calmly raise the issue after considerable and forgiving period of time, only to be told "oh yes I intend to pay" and once again not come through. Sorry just had to through that into the mix!

Wow, best reply ever! Additional Comments: Both are awesome. CIM is a more satisfying way to end a long, slow, deep blowjob. But COF is somehow feels more intimate - nothing says "I'm into you" like begging me to deliver a load of cum onto your face - and smiling and moaning while I do it! So, I guess it depends on the mood I'm in that day...

http://www.oa.uottawa.ca/journals/aporia/articles/2013_07/Commentary.pdf

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The fact you expressed doubts demonstrates that something about the request doesn't sit quite right with you - and that's the key. You need to be comfortable in giving informed consent. If after this discussion you have even the slightest doubt, simply decline the request.

I really don't know. However, if you do a search on this forum, you will see several threads started. Here is one. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=131440&highlight=brittany

Have experienced probably ten different girls here over the years. Now that Maya is here full time though I've found my spot! She's the best and never fails to invigorate the senses...

These are interesting examples, but I don't think they "debunk" anything. Some of these examples when applied to the sex industry are like comparing apples to oranges. Others, might represent a negotiating opportunity, if they are properly understood in terms of the limited and specific application they have to the sex industry. My comments on each example are included below.

Phaedrus, my friend, you don't see it because your interests are very different. Those who insist that it's good to haggle with or put pressure on us to cut them a special deal aren't really interested in negotiating as much as they're interested in control overall. In my experience, the question is not so much about negotiation as it is about who sets the fee? Who has the right to decide what a lady's time and intimate companionship is worth? Underneath this question are a host of control issues. Who decides what is or is not acceptable; what we will or won't do; what we should or should not expect; how we're going to work, where and when; how many people we may entertain and under what conditions; what risks we should accept as unavoidable for ourselves; how much our safety and security may be risked; what we should expect from neighbours, friends, family, our community if we're discovered to be paid companions--these and many other related things are all about the rights that we women have to determine our own actions. Some men don't accept that we have a right to as much autonomy and integrity of ourselves as persons as they are and so they want to control us, to limit us, to deny, dehumanize, depersonalize, degrade and demean us beginning with our essential worth as human beings. Those men never make good clients. As Sandi pointed out, above, by announcing that they expect special considerations, they communicate that they expect to be the ones who control their time with us and everything that happens in it. It's not about the fee. It's about our right to make choices and decisions that could result in them not getting what they want, on their terms, when they want it.

I finally managed to spend some quality time with Jenny in the cr this week. It had been months. I've missed her. My God this woman is a beauty. The face, the eyes, the back muscles: I could catalogue all her parts :)... The total package is overwhelming. Really good cr dances, too, and her sexy conversation adds to the effect... And we reminisced about other times and other dancer duos that we've done together. Outstanding!

From Layah's album:

My CERB handle pretty much says it all. Give :cooter:, receive :bjs:, give & receive :69:, rinse and repeat. :cool:

That has been discussed before. Read the forum before embarrassing yourself further. If you cannot find the answer then phone them ans ask, then post your findings along the lines of " I called and asked about couples and was told ..." Senior posters here have invested a lot of time, effort and money developing their knowledge of the local scene. To just show up here and start asking for the benefit of that knowledge without making the effort to read through past posts or making any contribution simply will not work.

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

Kathryn Bardot has a lovely B-cup http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=59857

Thanks for asking this! I'm a huge fan of older women!

I hope to make it :) I had allota fun last social !! Now that I know Mr T's secret maybe I will bring some baking too ;)

I know people that will negotiate all services. What I find amusing is they feel that they got a "deal" to begin with and then complain when they didn't get all that they wanted or needed. Negotiating multi-hour rates like a court case or a custom built house is one thing, taking 5-10% off $100 000 still leaves a viable cash flow and small excess can be trimmed where needed to accommodate the discount. Asking me to take a 40% pay cut on my fee that has not increased in 9 years for a luxury service is simply arrogant and insulting. Pussy is not a poor mans hobby and if a man needs a discount because he genuinely doesn't have it in his pocket then he should realize that he genuinely CAN'T AFFORD to be hobbying and needs to get his financial house in order... cat

If really are short of funds and want to use a credit card, you could always get a cash advance. This would solve the disputing issue.

my personal fave is a mix of CoF/CiM -- just spray it everywhere!!! :D

Most sex workers who have been involved in conversations with municipalities say that the focus has been on multi-staff brothels, not on independent women who work quietly. To be sure, the brothels will face stiff licensing fees and restrictions about locations, at least. There may be other things, such as inspections, health checks and safer-sex practice requirements. I, for one, think that many of these things will benefit all of us. For example, to return to the general requirement that all sexual contact must be done with condoms establishes that as the norm for companionship engagement and eliminates a lot of the pressure for uncovered contact that most of us experience now. While it may seem that licensing individual, independent escorts would be a good idea, the notion is largely unenforceable. The great majority of women who enter the sex trade leave it within six months and another huge proportion work for less than a year. Trying to track down every provider who's decided to make this her summer job before going back to school would be a by-laws enforcement nightmare. It's much more likely that licenses of some kind may be required but only enforced if there are complaints made about noise, late-night traffic and so on. It is essential to recognize that Canada is NOT Sweden. The Ontario Court of Appeal heard a great deal about the so-called "Nordic model" and its outcomes. The OCA was not impressed. Canadian courts in general have been very reluctant to adopt uneven criminal laws such as allowing for something to be sold, legally, but making it illegal to buy it. Even more important, however, Sweden is not known to have experienced anything like Picton's activities. In Canada, the recognition that sex workers were preyed upon by a serial killer because they worked in the most unsafe conditions in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside is not going to be forgotten anytime soon. We all need to recognize that for the last two and a half years the police in most regions have not been arresting or charging independent sex workers who have been working quietly from their own homes or rented apartments. Some ladies have been harassed by former clients who have attempted unsuccessfully to have them charged. There have been sweeps of some massage parlors and there has been some interest in investigating situations in which temporary foreign workers may have been pressured into providing sexual services. But because the prostitution laws were coming up to be examined by the Supreme Court of Canada, and because some things are certainly bound to change once the SCC makes its decisions, it's not a good use of police or judicial time or resources to prosecute anyone under laws that may be overturned. This respite is significant because it's gone on so long. For two and a half years, women have been able to relax a little bit, feel less fearful of being arrested because they entertain at home. And yet there are no significant increases in the deterioration of Canada's moral fabric. Brothels have not been spring up across the street from elementary schools, nor has there been an obvious increase in the numbers of lust-crazed men prowling around otherwise respectable communities or neighbourhoods. Things have been pretty much okay. Meanwhile, plenty of us have been making money and taking care of ourselves and our clients, as before. This is the status quo. It's going to make an enormous difference to Canadian voters as well as to the SCC that what might be considered to have been a temporary suspension of the prostitution laws has not obviously caused any harm, anywhere. The SCC usually returns decisions within a year of hearing a case. Sometimes more quickly. Most of us expect the court to make rulings sometime in 2014.

Yes, these are mine. :)

If the gentleman tells me he just showered, I trust him, and do not require him to take another shower (unless of course, there is visible signs that he wasn't telling the truth, but luckily I've never encountered this). But, if he is not freshly showered when he arrives, I do request he take one. And this does count in the appointment time, but as Malika said, unless he's taking 20 minutes in there I've never had it be an issue. Unless she's a mad clockwatcher, or the man is taking ages in the shower, I can't see a few minutes rinsing off causing the timing to be skewed.

Some of the most amazing eyes I have seen are right here on CERB. Sandi