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Open minded can also mean that they are open to specific kinks and fetishes usually with a non judgmental attitude. They may or may not offer such a service but you can feel comfortable asking about them and not like you'll be lambasted for it. Open to communication. As Meghan said, always be open about sharing your needs and desires as it will guarantee you the experience you're looking for!

Kylie - She puts a ton into all of her shoots but this photo easily moves from the escort/companion marketing into fine arts... there is a message beyond the photo that elevates it.

First, if acting out this fantasy makes you uncomfortable in the least, don't do it. If seeing him as a client thinking he might have a predilection towards underage kids, makes you uncomfortable don't see him. Stick to your boundaries and comfort zones Also, a pedophile will always be a pedophile, you cannot cure them (well except one way, but that will get you locked up in prison LOL) So acting out a underage fantasy with him will not curb him of wanting to see kids, nor will it make him more wired to want to see kids. Good luck whatever you decide RG

Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

I am definitely in! Looking forward to seeing my cerbie friends.

Two days ago I decided I would be too freakin busy to go......yesterday I was well maybe I should go anyways cause I will need a stress relief getaway by then....today it was fuck this shit ! I am going to Otown baby !!! Flights and hotel just booked and would like to attend if you still got room. I promise I will ..........behave ;)

I just want to underscore the importance of recognizing and staying within your own boundaries. If you're not comfortable with this scenario, there's no reason for you to go through with it. That said, many men come to us to explore or engage in things that just aren't available to them with other partners, or that they're nervous raising with them. Erotic play can take many, many forms but not everyone's comfort level or repertoire is the same.

Losing SaraMQ. Yes I am obviously happy that her personal life is more full and that she has a "normal" day job...but I miss seeing her posts on Cerb:( or having her hyper-caffeinated self in the chat first thing in the morning and laughing with her... :(

From time to time clients will ask me if I like my job. They typically follow this question with the comment "You must get all sorts in here!". And indeed we do! I'm very open minded, and I think exploring one's sexuality is an important and enriching part of life's journey, however there are some clients whose requests go beyond the norm. One such request has brought on an ethical dilemma for me and I hope CERB members can offer some insight. There is a client who would like me to pretend that I am a very young girl. Now I am 20 and can dress to look high school age, but there is no doubt that I am at least 16, even in pigtails. I do not personally feel too uncomfortable with his request because I am just role playing, but someone mentioned that accepting this man as a client may be a decision with ethical implications. Will indulging his fantasies potentially fuel his imagination and increase his desire for the real thing (a criminal act)? Is my involvement beneficial as I act as a substitute and divert him committing a serious offense? Or do my actions only encourage his fancy, thereby normalizing the behavior, potentially causing the desires to escalate to the point where he feels compelled to act out his imagination with a real life subject? Moreover, is this even an issue I should be concerned with? He has not spoken of doing this with any real girls, and I do not know his profession so cannot comment on the risk he poses to children around him. Is it possible that this is just a fantasy and nothing more? Thank you in advance for your replies! I am new to the industry, but surely I'm not the first to ask this question. Any help is greatly appreciated :)

I like a long session (90 mins at least) so that I can enjoy ALL of the things I like to do. Though no two encounters are ever alike, an ideal session for me would go something like this: greet with sexy outfit and a warm embrace, nice ice breaking conversation followed by some playful making out, move to the bed where she undresses me for a nice back massage, when I'm fully relaxed, I turn over for a mind shattering blow job to completion. I always like to give as good as I get so after I've released I like to reciprocate with a full body rub down followed by as much DATY as she can physically stand, by this time my little guy is ready for round two! I don't know that I have a favorite position but I truly enjoy watching a woman ride my cock. Just the look on her face, the bouncing of her breasts and the mesmerizing movement of her hips...it's really a treat to watch. After the second shot on goal we should be physically spent and I like to use whatever time we have left for some playful pillow talk and light cuddling. Any variation on this general theme will leave me with a smile on my face and a spring in my step for days!

Generally this refers to those options she is willing to perform. IE, open minded about kissing - she kisses, or open minded about greek, she performs anal. Still remember if there is something specific you crave, ask her if she is open minded about this. Some people use this term, but in fact still have some restrictions.

Looking forward to another great time together with friends!

aHAHAHAHA... sorry, I'm just trying to imagine that conversation. GUY 1: "Hey, whatcha doin'?" GUY 2: "Playing Killzone 7... just came out." *pew pew boom* GUY 1: "Huh, cool." (pause) "Hey, you know what GUY 2? You should totally get out of here and go to a brothel." GUY 2: "WTF?" GUY 1: "Seriously. You've captured the other guy's flag, like, three times while I've been watching. Knock that off. You need some action." (pause) "At a brothel." GUY 2: "Dude, my girlfriend will be home in, like, an hour." GUY 1: "Look, here, take this..." *gives paper* "Just call this number and go to this address. Seriously. You should totally do it." GUY 2: "Uhhh...." LATER: GUY 2: "Dude! That was awesome!" GUY 1: "I told you! Now... make sure you go back several more times this week." GUY 2: "You know what? I'm totally doing that, because you've just convinced me that I should." HANDCUFFS: "Click!"

I'll be there for sure!! :D as far as door prizes for the ladies.. these have been some nice ones in the past: gift cards for la Senza lingerie, LCBO etc... i also think that even something as simple as a gift card for Shoppers drugmart...you can buy ANYTHING there and they have a great fragrance and cosmetics section. :)

I dont have any pics on cerb of my boobies...but especially since losing weight I'm now even more a part of the itty bitty titty committee ;)

I've said this before, I have no fear of arrest, much less prosecution. I don't rip men off, do drugs, act wrong in a hotel lobby, or do car dates. I am under no illusions that I am on someone's radar, somewhere but I imagine the police & the courts have more important business to attend than me. Also, Cerb & many other sites have been around for quite some time. If we & our lifestyle were of paramount concern to those with powers of arrest & prosecution, it would have happened long ago. So I never worry about it. Sandi

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

xenodocheionology I don't have it all the time, but on outcalls I do...but it is more because of the encounter I'm about to have than where I'm going to have it In case your vexed, it means love of hotels...and I love a good hotel when I'm seeing a lady for a outcall Yes, I looked it up RG

Consider my calendar marked! :-D And on a night with a beautiful full moon, too! :-D

Zack and Miri make a Porno,, how come I always get the zees?

you're clothes are making me uncomfortable ... Please take them off ;) Cum get naked and wet with this tall blonde. I'm just waiting to have some naughty fun with you today. Don't miss out , call 613-523-6199 :) Not a member ? Pm me personally and find out how you can be my special guest of the day ! :) Schedule July 23-28 Today 3-10 Wednesday 9-10 Thursday 3-10 Friday - Cmj luau party!! Saturday 11-6 Sunday 11-6 if you haven't heard yet this Friday is Cmj's Luau party! Non members , this is your chance to cum check out all the ladies you have yet to meet ! Please Rsvp!

"I realize that bartering is considered the norm in other cultures and countries but for lack of better words, you're bargining for what is supposed to be an intimate service and this is insulting." I want to preface this by saying that I NEVER try to bargain -- on anything -- it goes against my Anglo-Saxon upbringing. Definitely have never tried that with SPs. With one exception. A couple times I've asked for something special like asking her to wear the skirt in her photos... and tipped for the added feature... That is I am prepared to pay more, but never ask to pay less. But I wanted to point out that intimacy really doesn't have anything to do with the issue of negotiation. In my experience, marital sex is pretty much always a negotiation, LOL. Rings, jewellery, retiling her bathroom (the soaker tub in the ensuite that I never use), cooking dinner, taking her to Nevada, or Paris, etc.. (I'm joking).

..::w i n k::..

Haven't been to her latest incall location yet but in my experience Cleo Catra always keeps her incall locations clean, comfortable, discreet and inviting. (Disclaimer: She has mentioned in her ads that she has a little dog and cat which she keeps with her at the incall, albeit in a different room than the "fun room" lol, not sure if this is still the case but if you have allergies this might be something you may want to ask her about before booking)

Oh, we still have room, you are more than welcomed to attend!! Shagadelic, baby!

Awww I wish I could even consider going :( darn school! Ps. I totally just read your entire post in the voice of Austin Powers ;) "Oh behave!"

That sounds like a good time!

http://www.oa.uottawa.ca/journals/aporia/articles/2013_07/Commentary.pdf

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The fact you expressed doubts demonstrates that something about the request doesn't sit quite right with you - and that's the key. You need to be comfortable in giving informed consent. If after this discussion you have even the slightest doubt, simply decline the request.

I really don't know. However, if you do a search on this forum, you will see several threads started. Here is one. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=131440&highlight=brittany

Agreed, morning sex is great, I do this once in a while with my regular SP, I even get her to wear jammie pants and a shirt for the overall experience... just follow the lead of those replying and you'll have a successful rendezvous!

Pete.....loves women with curves and BBW too :) All women are beautiful,does not matter about size,race etc....you just simply have to appreciate all women.

32A here! Okay not in Ottawa, but I visit on a regular base :D

Anal Decision or Executive Anal (Executive Decision) New Anal City or New Jack Anal (New Jack City) Meet the Anal or Anal the Fockers (Meet the Fockers) <... personally think Anal the Fockers is great Two for the Anal or Anal for the Money (Two for the Money) Mamma Anal (Mamma Mia) Saturday Night Anal (Saturday Night Fever) Pretty Anal or Anal Woman (Pretty Woman) Scent of an Anal or Anal of a Woman (Scent of a Woman) Despicable Anal or Anal Me (Despicable Me) The Phantom of the Anal or the Anal of the Opera (The Phantom of the Opera) Charlie's Angels: Full Anal I love this game

I finally managed to spend some quality time with Jenny in the cr this week. It had been months. I've missed her. My God this woman is a beauty. The face, the eyes, the back muscles: I could catalogue all her parts :)... The total package is overwhelming. Really good cr dances, too, and her sexy conversation adds to the effect... And we reminisced about other times and other dancer duos that we've done together. Outstanding!

From Layah's album:

That has been discussed before. Read the forum before embarrassing yourself further. If you cannot find the answer then phone them ans ask, then post your findings along the lines of " I called and asked about couples and was told ..." Senior posters here have invested a lot of time, effort and money developing their knowledge of the local scene. To just show up here and start asking for the benefit of that knowledge without making the effort to read through past posts or making any contribution simply will not work.

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

Kathryn Bardot has a lovely B-cup http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=59857

It is an interesting phenomenon, and sometimes what you will see connected to sp's moving locations and changing their names will be the same age is used for the new persona even tho she is technically 2 years older. It is a difficult business to be in to show older ages, for sure, and sometimes there is an old school mentality that says "younger is better", and sp's working for agencies feel that the most. They may be 30, but the agency posts them at 23, something they cannot pull off, but they are the ones face to face with client.s If that sp goes indy, she may be stuck with that age range, and have a hard time posting a more accurate one. Also, there is a sense that the age is already inaccurate, so those who use their actual real age have guys auto adding 5 years to it, and assuming their 30 is 35 plus. So some sps got into the habit of posting an age they can pass for, knowing that someone is already adding the 5 years they deduct the 5 in order to post an accurate age that someone will believe before they call, And then you have the ones who actually use their real ages, and comment that they do, and know that at least half the readers are saying 'yeah, right', and adding the 5 plus years to it already, if not more, because she's so adamant it is her real age. :) But, you also have to keep in mind the younger young ones. The ones who were actual 16-17 posting as 18 or 19 when they started. So are they staying the same age 5 years later, or are they simply now posting their real and legal age now.

I hope to make it :) I had allota fun last social !! Now that I know Mr T's secret maybe I will bring some baking too ;)

I know people that will negotiate all services. What I find amusing is they feel that they got a "deal" to begin with and then complain when they didn't get all that they wanted or needed. Negotiating multi-hour rates like a court case or a custom built house is one thing, taking 5-10% off $100 000 still leaves a viable cash flow and small excess can be trimmed where needed to accommodate the discount. Asking me to take a 40% pay cut on my fee that has not increased in 9 years for a luxury service is simply arrogant and insulting. Pussy is not a poor mans hobby and if a man needs a discount because he genuinely doesn't have it in his pocket then he should realize that he genuinely CAN'T AFFORD to be hobbying and needs to get his financial house in order... cat

If really are short of funds and want to use a credit card, you could always get a cash advance. This would solve the disputing issue.

Mod is absolutely correct. Instead, what you could do is take advantage of electronic money email transfers. It works like a charm too! If you don't know how, have a look at this thread.

I had a chance to see Destiny. Great session. Very tight body and super horny. Had to 2 SOG. Service is GFE/PSE but more PSE in my experiece. Very tight pussy. The view from behind is awesome. She encourages you to get it up ASAP and she knows what to do to make it happen. Being with her is like watching a porn movie unfold and you are the star. All that is missing is a camera to say hey I was with that chick. Would definitely see her again and again.

If this is the same Kayla that was at Bodybliss... (Zens palaces name before ) Due to the rules of the board I can not comment further.

Some of the most amazing eyes I have seen are right here on CERB. Sandi