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I debated just throwing this into the Randomness thread but I think it raises enough important points for a discussion. uses food to demonstrate the difference between porn videos and real life in less than 2 minutes. Pretty well done. I know a lot of new guys are a little insecure when they're starting out so it might be helpful for them to know that many of the experienced ladies on this board won't find this video surprising. So don't get stressed out...go see someone. They're probably way more understanding than you might imagine.

Personally, I don't like thinking of the relationships I have in the industry as less real than relationships I have outside the industry. I also don't like thinking about this notion of "fantasy" versus "reality". Life is so much more complicated than real/fake or fantasy/reality. I think boundaries are really important between a service provider and client, but they are equally important in all relationships be they in the industry or not. People have different boundaries (sometimes fluid and sometimes not) for different reasons and I think it's important we respect the decisions people make about their relationships and business model(s).

Let me clarify then. This woman obviously has allowed you into her private life and it is now being written about in a public forum with a PM system. I view a post like this with all of it's implications akin to a quilting bee, rumour mill or a gossip circle. Even if it is true, it is none of our business and without her direct consent should not be a topic of conversation on a business internet forum. When a provider allows a client insight into her personal life it is a given that it is a privilege and therefore the information is not to be disclosed to the general public unless she herself has posted about it previously. Just because one person is privy to private information doesn't mean the community is in need of knowing. I do realize that you didn't give out information that would identify the SP to us but I'm sure you have received (or will) PMs asking who he speaks about. We never know who will say what to whom which is why we guard and protect all that is precious to us from clients. Just don't go there. She has obviously fallen into difficult times, it needn't become the topic of the week. Discretion is a verb and it goes both ways... cat

My take is that I enjoy seeing a new recommendation, I put all if myself into every encounter, I wear my heart on my sleeve and love to provide pleasure to my guests. Seeing them moved enough to put the feeling I left them with in writing just makes me smile. Although I do see many people on a semi to very regular basis that do not or have not written a recommendation for me. Although I know they are enjoying our time together they may be more private with what they feel comfortable sharing. Others, sometime make me wonder.... From there reaction post session I know they have had a great time and yet no recommendation but will write one on others... Hey the way it goes. :) I have had many guest tell me they have chose my services because of what others have said about my me. Although there will always be the ups and downs of recommendations when reviews are not allowed, I still feel that if many say the same sentiments over and over again... You can feel pretty comfortable that the provider offers great service. :) Kisses all XoX

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I would have to say that for me, my acceptance of a visitor is based mainly on respect, personality and maturity (maturity as in language skills, personal interaction skills...I think you get it). I have seen people of many different ethnic backgrounds and many different age groups. My decisions to carry on communications are based on how you present yourself to me. Race, religion and age are never my first worry. It is unfortunate that some people have made a bad name for certain races and you can never fault a lady for deciding who she wishes to be intimate with; it is after all ultimately her decision. Fortunateone is right, look for restrictions on a ladies site and seek out those who meet your desires :)

This takes place already in PM's and I do not moderate the social groups but it could easily take place in a INVITE ONLY social group right here on cerb as well (I am not aware of any right now but it is completely possible). I agree a handful of guys get off on posting outright lies about the ladies (to slander or just bully them) and on the flip side a handful shill and do other unethical things (happens in every industry not just this one) but the key is having a community (AND MODERATORS) that will not stand for the unethical stuff. I would hate to see negative "Reviews" or "Reviews" in general where guys pick apart a ladies service. I would like to just avoid what I listed above.

Recommendation and reviews, if they are good, will most likely help a girl. Each time I personally get a new one, I do see the views on my website going up, more people looking up stuff on me...I will receive a few more inquires email. On the other hand...I participate on some boards where reviews are allowed and I have some reviews on me that while they are really good...it's pretty much penthouse worthy. I actually found that the overly graphic reviews will push some people away from seeing me compare to the more toned down one.

Speaking for myself, I'd need to have an vote option where it says recommendations can be one of several factors in my decision to see a lady. Much of what has attracted me to several ladies here are their posts and contributions. A lot of the ladies here have a wonderful history of thoughtful, witty, fun posts that I respect and enjoy. Others will communicate very via pm. For them, whether or not they have recommendations would barely matter to me at all. Some ladies will have a detailed website and profile that can provide a pretty clear sense of her. For them, recommendations would be nice but I wouldn't say mandatory. Still others don't contribute to the forums at all, don't have a website/detailed profile, etc. At that point, recommendations would become a much larger factor. Though honestly, even with recommendations, I can't say I've seen anyone that falls into this category. So basically I'm a believer that there are a number of ways that a lady can catch my interest and make me feel confident about enjoying some time together, and it's the combination of them that is important. So while I do read the recommendations they are to my mind only one possible avenue, and not the most important one at that.

I just want to say, if it's not clear from what I've said already, that I don't consider this to be an adversarial, me vs. Mod or Council or anyone else kind of thing. I had an idea and wondered what people thought of it. The participation has been fantastic and constructive! I don't know that Cerb needs to change, but we do come up against this question fairly often. Having a discussion is a good thing to do. I am always concerned about credibility given to anonymous people. Always. Anons who think they can get to meet me without disclosing anything about themselves never get very far. For whatever reason, companions who are younger than I am and usually new to the business contact me fairly regularly, wanting advice. I don't like to give advice too often, especially to people I don't know. But I do pay attention to the similarities in the stories I'm told. I do agree with the importance of identifying the negative players on Mod's list--absolutely! And I know that I and many other ladies here do encourage others to use the reporting system when they have trouble with a member. Some do. Some don't. It's hard to help people when they're not able to help themselves. Anyway, I'm genuinely valuing this discussion and the many thoughtful responses.

I'll just make a quick posting here, more echoing what I've said earlier. CERB is a community where both the ladies and gentlemen are equal participants, opposite sides of the same coin. And CERB's current policies make this a community where the ladies feel safe and welcome. My concern about allowing negative reviews, even if clear cut policies about who could write such reviews were made up, is that we could find a drop off in the ladies membership here on CERB, with many closing their accounts. Also, there are many boards out there already that allow negative reviews, in fact seems to thrive on them. Do we really need another escort review board? Or does CERB fill a very unique niche, as a escort recommendation board, and maybe it should continue to occupy it's unique niche, and we not fix what isn't broken. Anyhow, a quick rambling for what it's worth RG

I always tell a prospective provider that I am black. It is her RIGHT to refuse to see a black person. Disclosing my race serves two purposes : (1) it allows her to come up with a good excuse (for example, emergency in the family) to cancel the date and (2) avoids placing her in an uncomfortable position should she honour the appointment only to meet a black man. Brother, why are you confused? Don't you have confidence in yourself? NEVER allow any one to make you feel inadequate. If you are turned down, find another date. Cheers.

Whenever two people spend time together the sky's the limit - but paying by the hour for the girlfriend experience is totally different from the real thing. The women here are service providers like any other, except instead of doing my taxes or providing legal advice they're building a fantasy. It's remarkable how good that can be, but rule #1 is that it's a service. Losing sight of that would be bad for provider and client alike. Relationships can still happen, but real ones form outside the bedroom.

As always, Cleo nails it! If the SP/client relationship is going perfectly, why screw that up by letting things potentially get messy (and not in a good way :p) ? SP's live double lives just as much as we hobbiests do. And for good reason...they can't be "on" 24/7. The whole purpose of this lifestyle is fantasy. By definition, fantasy is the opposite of reality. The reality may not be something you like or were expecting. How they are with clients is not necessarily how they are all the time. I know I act differently when I'm with an SP. Same way I act differently if I'm on a regular date. Sure it's possible a great friendship (and sometimes even more) could develop out of it. But it could also blow up in your faces (and not in a good way ;) ). If a more casual relationship/friendship develops naturally, and outside of your control (as will sometimes happen) then great, by all means roll with it. Our time on this planet is too short to pass up any opportunity for a meaningful connection. But personally, I wouldn't try to force it to happen. If it goes south you've just lost yourself a great SP. If it ain't broke, don't try to fix it.

I realize what I'm about to say has been said in one way or another in this thread but here's my view...sexy is in the eye of the beholder. What I find sexy might not be what you find sexy. So be yourself and there will be somebody out there that thinks you're sexy!

It is not just the amount of recommendations that a lady has, but you also need to look at the constancy. That can tell you a lot about her style and quality of her service. And as mentioned, credibility of the author is sometimes qustioned...then again look at the constancy. There will never be a for sure way of catching every fake rec, or what have you, but I think this site does a good job at weeding through the junk.

Like Il Re said, you'll have a lot more luck with responses if you post here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=54 On to your questions (And congrats on your upcoming anniversary) Of the top of my mind, I can't think of anyone who does offer this service. I know that there are ladies who do see couples, just check here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=315 and look at their ads and websites. I don't think I could do justice to this question since I've always visited a lady solo. I don't know what her approach would be with a couple, but if I were to guess, you can expect to have a good time. Let her guide you two. Just remember a few simple guidelines to make it all better. - Pay her as soon as possible. Before the festivities begin - Be clean, and keep in mind scents. While you two may be used to each other's perfumes and colognes, she may react strongly to it. - Be very polite, it'll just make things easier - Be clear with your expectations. If you want a certain kind of ending (oral/fs) let her know well in advance (in the email part of contact). She may not provide that service. That goes for any other sort of requirements you have. This is something you can clarify with her directly. Paint a picture of what you're looking for, it might help her a lot. Tips are never expected and but always appreciated - common response on the subject. I've tipped from $10-$40. For Christmas season once, I got her a bottle of Wine (a certain type that she said she likes, some ladies have a certain part of their website dedicated to special considerations, should you wish to do so). Ask away!

I would love to offer you something different... A session with me is not about what services I offer you. It is an honest experience. We both bring ourselves into that moment. The feelings and experiences you have with me are uniquely yours. There is no script, these are the experiences of two people enjoying each others company in a moment just for us. I truly feel fulfilled in that moment. I cherish the opportunity to relax my inhibitions, and explore that special sensual moment with you. A session with me is a seduction of your body mind and soul. Each experience with me is built upon a real connection and respect. I guide our experience to something that is natural and fulfilling... A true gem with a 32DD 24 34 toned body with soft feminine curves waits for you. Matched with a charming personality, and an empathetic soul. A true escape for your physical, mental, and emotional stresses. Come see me tomorrow at Club CMJ west 10 - 5 Let your inhibitions go and let's explore together! 613-523-6199 or PM

Ahhh!! I friggin love someecards!! :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: This is my new favourite thread!

I'm so stuck on the comment that an sp with less than 10 reviews/recos will be passed over I can't read the rest of the thread lol. Imagine being, as Samantha points out, amongst a group of sps who simply will not ever get 10 recos, let alone more than that, in a 10 year history of work. I understand if it is the cutoff point, but come on now, there has to be a point at which the recos become a crutch and not an aid, a hurdle that someone cannot get beyond, and to be quite honest, letting everyone else make your decisions for you. When you see sps, you get to know what you yourself are looking for. From your hits, misses and other people's reviews, you get to understand what you are looking for in ads, posts, and reviewers, as well. When you allow negative comments on any site, the BS level increases exponentially. If people are not believing the positive recommendations on this site, why would the presence or ability to post negative comments change their level of disbelief? And worse would be that these negative comments and reviews be hidden from view from the sp, in a way she can't defend herself and can't present the other point of view as well. I don't know how many negative reviews I have read where the guy is a bold faced liar, and many where all there was was miscommunication, and where as Samantha mentions, there is a genuine intimidation and threats to post bad reviews of sps who won't comply. There is a reason sps try and then leave most review sites, or use them only as necessary evils. cerb is definitely a place where the majority of sps, the ones who don't typically trash other sps, or post their own lies about them, or climb onto the bash wagon to attack other sps, that is why we are here, along with the general positivity of this site versus every other one.

If anyone ever tried that I hope the SP would immediately let us know about it. At this time I don't think anyone would do this, I am sure people rumor it to happen but no one has reported another member for anything like this. We dealt with a situation where a guy was trying to trade a good recommendation for a discount in the past (that was squashed quick) but I doubt the ladies would stand for such a thing. To boot... if say some lady took someone up on an offer like that and down the road it was found out cause he tried with with the wrong person... well... the truth would come out in the end. If this was to happen I think this probably would happen more with the "If you don't do this I will slander you" side of things rather then the "do this and I will write a glowing recommendation" seeing that it is a unethical (bottom feeder) thing to do. Some will, and I am sure it goes both ways. We have the SP ONLY area and say a lady is pissed at a regular client for some reason. He could be a true gentleman and they have had a falling out and she decides to tell everyone how horrible he is (it has happened) but on the flip side 5+ ladies will jump in and defend the same guy in the same report thread saying they find him to be a gentleman. I think the same would be true with the guys here on cerb. The bottom feeders don't last usually (always exceptions to every rule) but they don't usually make it to 100+ posts on here. If by chance they did and tried to slander someone I bet 5+ male members would come to the ladies defense just as quick as the ladies come to the guys defense. When you have reputable people and good solid policies and rules it all becomes greatly self moderated as the members will step up and vouch for one another. I would never want REVIEWS on cerb. I don't want to see RATINGS and I don't want to see complaints that end up being from some drunk dude who could not get it up and is mad he wasted his money and wants to frivolously blame someone other then himself. (I am well aware this happens a lot - EC gets these complaints all the time) ... stuff like she was only her 55 minutes and I paid for 60 I want you to shut her ad off cause she is ripping people off (Just makes me want to smack the guy and you know he is on every board posting crap about her wherever they will let him). I however would like to see more reports of the ... bait and switch Dangerous encounters (Guy hiding in closet with dog crap) Credit Card scams 10 minute one shot out the door stuff dirty gross incalls might be acceptable to post from high level members drug use (Not weed but needles, crack pipes, etc...) bad attitudes (mean, unfriendly, etc..) Basically the stuff that our good male "Gentlemen" members would not want to deal with. As for automatic graduation into a higher level access... maybe we need to do it like we do for the SP ONLY area if we choose to go that route. Vouched in by an existing member Voted in by existing members Reviewed by a moderator (Manually look at contributions to see if they are a good pick) Vouched for by so many SP's etc.... (lots of options to consider and explore) again... not for reviews and posting about a lady being a little think in the ankles (Man I hate those comments!) but true things people should know about like the stuff mentioned above.

Early on I hung out with a client or two off the clock. I will never do it again. While I am out in my real-life, believe it or not, Cleo and 'me' are very different, and I want to keep them separate, always. Cleo is a part of me that I love, and I love being her. She is always flirty, always happy, always in the mood, doesn't gossip about others, is always attentive, etc. I truly love being her. The 'real' me can be grumpy. Tired. And, believe it or not - gossipy. Talkative. And she can get pissed off if you comment on her tits and ass. And this me is one I want to keep away from people who have met Cleo. I do truly connect with my clients, and when they ask me for dinner, it sometimes can be hard to decline. Or to tell them... yes... but I'll charge my social rate. It is a bit of a mood-killer to bring up money when someone is trying to offer me a friendly meal. So I'd rather just not do it.

In highlight of recent thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143465 I got to wonder; Yes I have heard it from multiple sources both hobbyist and provider. I am wondering about how important is recommendation to you? Discuss - be anonymous and just vote on the poll if you wish. Maybe I got it all wrong. I don't put too much value in recommendation - as it could be skewed. I make my decision on seeing a lady based on how we connected through chat/pm/her post. Not counting how many recommendation she have or when the last time she got one. What about the rest of CERB? I added the last two for the ladies that wishes to participate - how does having lots of recommendation helped you? Did it make your career take off? Is it that important? If we had a great time and I saw you again and again but never wrote a recommendation would you be disappointed? (first time posting a poll... hope this work.)

I'm a serious animal lover, but I think my puppy is going to win awards for unexpected adorability. She's losing her baby teeth. Yesterday, I noticed one of them on the carpet where she'd been working on a Kong stuffed with food. I picked up the tooth and told her she was a good girl. A little while ago, she came over to me and nudged me with her nose. When I reached down to pet her, she dropped something on the floor. Another tooth! She was very proud of herself, wagging her tail and having trouble keeping all four paws on the floor because she really wanted to jump up and wiggle! So now I have two canine pre-molars on my desk. I wonder whether the Tooth Fairy might want them?

I've had many people comment they heard good things or read my reco's and this is when I appreciate them because it has helped someone make a decision. I enjoy knowing about our time together from the other side as well. I believe reco's, like many things, are "to each their own". Some enjoy writing/reading and others do not. I appreciate everyone who takes a moment to create one but it doesn't taint my thoughts or memory about someone if they chose not to. As Brad said, this is merely one avenue available for interested parties to research. Thankfully CERB has many avenues available to its members so you can utilize as much or as little as you feel necessary. As a tool, it's wonderful. As recognition, it can be lovely.

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Thanks, Eric. This is amusing and good for Newbies that might waylay some of those fears/jitters the first time. In my experience I've realized that porn videos are essentially the "how to guide" for BAD sex.

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She's got no recommendation post; Does not affect any of my decision. I go by PM's back and forth, posts that I see by the lady can certainly tell me if I would like to spend some time with her. Sometimes I go on a gut feeling, some call it the little voice inside which is usually correct 99.9% of the time. When I see posts by long term Gentlemen say they've had maybe 5 or 6 not so good experiences who have been in the life style for many years, I think it is pretty safe to say at least on cerb that you are going to have a pleasant experience.

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Very interesting thread indeed. From my view I do not see any merit of paid member having privileged access or ability to post negative review. There is no credibility - one can easily pay for membership for the sake of shilling and/or leaving negative review. I could see that membership would cost less than an average encounter... I'm glad the mod stated that he would like to see more stuff reported as seen fit. Of course no slandering the lady; And if this does happen I surely hope another gentleman would step in and chime in staying as civilized as possible. as for the last point the mod makes about giving this privileged access; maybe a system calculating approval from certain amount of providers and regular member would be good and keep it unbiased. One could be well liked by the guys -- but hated by the providers. say for example - to have this privilege one require 10 ladies approval and 10 gentleman approval... will keep following this thread to see where it goes.

As you can see from the response to my post, it is not only myself that felt it inappropriate. Perhaps if the initial post had been worded a little differently to indicate the intention was to discuss interactions, my response would have been unnecessary. Alas, the entire first paragraph was focal and I feel comfortable saying the indiscretion displayed was unpalatable for most Cerbians. I simply said publicly what others were thinking privately or discussing amongst themselves which is how I found out about the thread to begin with... cat

Mod, thanks for outlining your thoughts about this general topic. It's helpful to have your view of what's possible here at Cerb. I really don't know if there is a best way to qualify someone to have the right to post negative reviews, here. My original idea has centered on the problem of anonymity which I do believe encourages some very negative, dangerous and destructive behaviour. While earning the right to more privileges sounds reasonable, and would be in many cases, we have had long-time members with high post-counts, some of whom had received awards from the membership, who had to be permanently banned from the site because of serious misconduct. And, time-consuming as it is, there are men who do bide their time, engage in discussions, post frequently and make a reasonable contribution to Cerb only to use their perceived status as a means of pressuring companions to provide free services or to engage in activities they didn't want to be doing. Younger women and those who are new to the industry or who have recently joined Cerb are particularly susceptible to this kind of pressure, particularly if they believe that a good review is essential or that their earning capacity can be seriously damaged if they have a bad reputation circulated in the private groups here. Well-established, reputable ladies are not immune to harassment, either. I've recently had a very troubling situation with someone who seemed to think that being able to frighten or hurt Samantha Evans would be an accomplishment he could be proud of. We regularly see threads started by members purporting to be concerned about something that they say they experienced with a companion who, for the sake of discretion, they don't identify. I know that I'm not the only one who takes a jaundiced view of such threads. I'm certain that the original posters receive a flurry of PMs asking about the identity of the woman referred to. I also have concerns about ladies being pressured to verify clients. Positive statements are never a problem, but who will be the first one to issue a warning or a cautionary note? Clients know who they've seen. Women are often reluctant to complain about even significant amounts of violence, harassment, theft and interference because of their legitimate fear of retaliation. And while it is extremely difficult to point to even a handful of cases where a paid companion has stalked a client or caused harm in his personal life or employment, unfortunately that kind of thing is so common that we ladies spend a significant amount of time supporting one another, sharing ideas and resources to help protect each other. Again, where anonymity is available, people will use it to their own destructive ends. Just my concerns.....

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Just a quick note..... All providers have "real lives" and many aren't sitting around waiting for last minute inquires. Many of us prefer low volume planned dates as well. The majority of us do like to spend our time living our lives and aren't generally found scantily clad beside the telephone anticipating your short notice inquires. With the exception being when we are no showed, which unfortunately is a increasing trend here in winnipeg.

And gentlemen wonder why SPs lock down their personal lives or just outright lie about their situations... cat

What LGBT are currently suffering in Russia. kids are being lured into traps on the internet, with homophobes waiting to torture them and then add the recorded torture and humiliation to video streaming channels... It's just. I can't. I wish we could do more.

I understood what you first meant about her decline. My brother is a chronic alcoholic. I just saw him recently after 3 years, and I was devastated at the change in both his appearance and his personality. So I understood what you meant. Sometimes wording comes across differently compared to verbal expression. I don't believe in "off the clock" time with my gents. My personal belief. My own real life is different then my work life, and I choose to keep the two separated. This is the only way I can remain sane and continue this business. I have no issue with those that choose to see gents outside of work, but my experience, it rarely works. I have seen a small few that have been able to make it work, and even some that have married and are still in love years later. It can work, but both parties need to have their eyes open, so that boundaries are not crossed. Just like she would contact you for money all the time. To me this is crossing the boundary. This is why most gents see sp's, so that when they want to play they do, but other times, they can go about their lives free of someone hounding them for money.

If your wording in this isn't meant as I'm taking it then I'll apologize for what I have to say, but I find your statement so blaze that it caught me off guard and offended me. She was worthy at her 10 position but know that she is a "shadow" oh well! Surely at the beginning this person must have displayed some evidence of her addition or did her beauty just blind you? I find with some men, and not necessarily you, if a girl is a rocket any other negativities about her will be overlooked and possibly fed, when the beauty is gone well so is the mans desire to be around her, she's used up so time to move on to the next. I see you have tried to help as you said you drove her to a rehab clinic and dealing with addicts is a long difficult struggle but never just an oh well. It is very sad to see anyone fall into despair, drugs or other harmful behaviors but these people are still worthy, beautiful and valuable just in need of help, support and understanding. I think client sp relationships are best kept at the professional level, but that's just my personal opinion .

Boundaries can be blurred for a variety of reasons. Life is complicated and relationships are sometimes complex, including those we have in this industry. While the blurring of boundaries isn't the norm, people are people, and sometimes people meet in this profession and become friends, develop relationships, get married, break up, reach out to each other for help and/or support and genuinely enjoy each others' company. We're all vulnerable, and our hearts are tender. This isn't the only profession where boundaries can be and are sometimes blurred. Any caring type profession has these issues as well (nannies, nurses, care-givers, therapists, doctors, etc.). It's an interesting question for sure, but I doubt you'll get much response. When those boundaries are blurred it really is a privilege and a gift. It should be respected as such. :)

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Wow, you have a lot to say!! Thankfully it is always great words of wisdom and more. :)

I agree Malika, People will ask me what they should write. I just say, simply explain what your experience was like with me without going into graphic details. Putting more emphasis on how I made you feel, what was my location like, etc... On another note, I get bothered when I see as comments " wow, that's cool" or " Nice rec" Even if it is a comment on my rec, or another lady. I feel that this makes others think someone is getting bumped on purpose for their own gain. I have even asked mod at times to remove these 3 word sentences from my reco thread, as I do not want people thinking I arranged it just to bump another ladies rec off of the top of the list. Also, I had a rec done, which was nice and all. But the problem is this person seen me a year ago. This caused a problem for me, because I no longer am SP, I am now MA. I had not even heard of this fellow for a long time and didn't even remember is name. I PM him to ask why would he write that, as I do not remember him visiting me and certainly didn't offer GFE. He then explained he was just going threw the rec's and remembered what a nice time he had a year ago . Then I felt bad for questioning him, but he understood what a difficult position that put me in. He wasn't aware of the changes I had made in my services.

This past Christmas Eve, I was wrapping presents at the dining room table and saw an old man standing on my staircase that looked like my Uncle who died 8 years ago. He was also my Godfather. I wasn't scared because I've experienced this before but it was startling. And just before Christmas 2012, it happened to be a full moon that night. I was sitting at the dining room table again on my laptop and had left my dinner plate on the kitchen table. No one else was in the kitchen and the plate was nowhere near the edge of the table when all of a sudden it crashed to the floor but did not break. A family member who was sitting on the sofa also witnessed it and we were both freaked out. Both cat were upstairs sleeping. Late at night, I always see my cats eyes roaming across the room like someone is walking in front of them. This happens on almost a daily basis. A couple of times they chased whoever it was. Most likely my cat who died in my house last year. On two separate ocassions, I've also felt someone tuck me in tightly when I was sleeping and it felt so real that I woke up. One was in a really old hotel. And when I was 5 years old, I remember seeing a woman in a long white gown walking past my bedroom. I could see her because the bathroom light was on. I wasn't asleep at the time. My mother is psychic so all of these things are not new to me. She once told my ex bf through a reading about his dead grandmother's glasses and a turkey platter. His parents called her up and couldn't believe the accuracy because no outsiders knew about these small details. She has channeled a few deceased people that way. I've also lived in a haunted house from the time I was born until the age of 5 and at another house when I was 7 or 8. My parents were once sitting in the kitchen and could hear footsteps up the stairs. No one else was in the house. They believe it was the man who had previously lived there and had died a few months before.

Well your story got me smiling before going to bed :spank:....im picturing you doing this but to a mosquito...:icon_lol:...thanks Lee! Good night :)

I just assumed when that happens that most of the people who normally leave reviews have already done so. And every so often, the odd guy might write up another review. I don't think a gap in reviews after a flurry in the beginning is any indication of something wrong.

A few things here that I would like to address: It seemed like any other post other than recommendation is viewed as negative? Also - the "not fix what isn't broken" philosophy. I see this as a chance for CERB to attract new and more members - nationwide; the new proposed idea - moderated properly (not as poor as the other *erb) boards - will appeal to the other than Ottawa/Ontario members as well as provider to be using CERB instead of the lame excuse of other board. We have a very strict policy and good enforcer (Thank the MOD(s)) Which is something other *erb boards do not have. This could be constructive for the ladies too; I don't see the harm in taking feedback and improving one business model. No-one is perfect - I certainly am not. -- Lets put this in perspective imaginary way: -- Provider A just got a review - her place is in the shoddy part of the city which is about the only thing that was bad about the whole experience. Provider B just started; by reading this review - Provider B should be aware that location does matter. Making the same mistake could be a bad move on her end and risk her potential client. In CERB - having no recommendation could be viewed as a bad thing because of this sole reason... No-one is allowed posting negative review. What if the lady is so low volume and none of her client actually take time to write any recommendation? Hell I don't write about every single encounter I have just because I don't know what to say: "She's great?" is vague and relative. Well - what if she doesn't have any negative review either? Wouldn't this still intriguing instead of writing the whole chance of seeing the lady completely off? Few things to consider and discuss...

Thank you RG and I can answer your question honestly, when men have emailed me with explicit details but also with complete info about themselves, I've responded. Professionalism +dirty details is sexy, imo. They caught my interest and made me want to see them, however if I just got an email form a random anonymous man with a bunch of explicit talk I would just ignore it. I like sessions where I can talk, get to know the man as well, it makes all the rest that much more exciting;) Additional Comments: Well thank you! I think we would have a lot of fun, take a trip then I could take you for a long, slow ride;) My suggestion to anyone writing ads, let your personality shine through, if you are a dirty talker and love it, say it;) if you are romantic, display it. If you are other or both don't be shy give it all a try:)

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