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Thanks to you.. You are such a sweetheart! Yes, sometimes it sad to read that kind of stuff.. But the funniest part is that the one who *always* have something bad to comment about everything are the one who need to look to themselve in the mirror. I have been called "fat" on this *erb by someone who is 3times my size...LOL To be honest, I dont really care as Im comfortable with my body (most of the time.. Im a woman after all! Lol) and there is a lot of men who likes me the way I am.. !! Im honest on my description and my pictures.. If Im not your type, you can keep it for yourself! No? Lol I dont even log into that board anymore.. No time for such negativity! Nobody is perfect after all! ;)

Personally any compliment that is honestly and freely given generates positive energy and can turn any moment into an extraordinary moment. As long as they are sincere they don't come off as creepy. If people react negatively or dismissively, don't take it as a waste, it was simply deflected good energy and the person probably wasn't open to it anyway. The nice thing about this type of thing is that it usually starts a reaction, a pay it forward. If it makes you feel good, you want to make someone else feel good and before long, things are good. Keep it light and playful and most people don't react badly to it. Mind you some react with a blank stare like "what just happened" because they're not used to it. I compliment on cool hair colors, jewelry, clothes, smiles or just someone enjoying a moment. So far, no one has reacted badly. I love it....bring it on!

Its all right, you made a mistake and apologized. Thank you. Now you understand how things work. But don't have any inhibitions when it comes to contacting anyone. We want any gentleman that reaches out to any of us to feel comfortable and wanted when doing so. Be thoughtful, respectful, polite and you'll receive the same + in return. Look at the profiles available when you are here pick who you find an attraction to then contact her through her requested protocol. As we all have different ways we like to be contacted, some prefer texts, some pm's, some phone calls, etc, etc. Then if the attraction continues book an appt:) You can find out more about any of us through reco's, our posts, websites to help with your decision. But please don't feel chased of by a mistake, we all make them, just move on and have fun:)

Hmm. Seems like I didn't think this one through. Just thought it might be an interesting idea, but I didn't think about how the ladies may feel about it. I certainly didn't want it to be taken as a "work for your supper situation" but I now see how it looks in the light of day. I guess I find the initial contact the most stressful part of the hobby, and I thought I could get around it in this way. Boy was I wrong Believe me, I have the utmost respect for the ladies of CERB. You are all truly beautiful women inside and out. I take this as a sign that I have to step back and reevaluate what I say and do. I apologize for anyone I have offended with this post. I am truly sorry

Unfortunately- I have my profile set to private. You must add me as a friend before having access to my page. IF I could hand select specific people of threat or disinterest that I could block I would have kept my profile public and only blocked the few people I rather not have access to anything about me. Some people linger on your page with a hidden agenda or follow the contacts/messages you leave between guestbooks, Some people I just do not like.... etc etc. Until the option of being able to ignore chosen poisonous type people (Usually not even clients) My Profile Will Remain Private. Feel free to add me or message me tho ;)

Before you get overly flamed for this, you should know that sps sending out solicitation type pms and messages etc is against the site rules. Sps place ads, and respond to direct communication. which means it is entirely up to you to read the ads/websites, recommendations and initiate communication yourself. We are not here to audition for a casting calls lol and it is unfortunate to mention that you may actually get some messages due to this thread but the sps you probably should be seeing are the ones who will not contact you and now not want to see you due to having to come up with some kind of over the top performance to impress you, and no one really likes that.

To put it bluntly, these men who say these things still had sex that `fat pig`` , the SP with `gross acne scars`and the chick `with cellulite that looked like an orange peel``. We are NOT models and never claim to be ``perfect``. You are paying us for our time and YOU paid to be with her and did not walk away so to write about this is almost like an oxymoron. What I would say is take a look in the mirror. Are you Brad Pitt yourself. Just because you are paying, doesn`t mean you`re better or holier than thou. To the men who do appreciate us, thank-you! We certainly appreciate you!

Many guys tend to fall in lust ( not love) with the idea of the SP and what *they* think she is or the image she portrays in her business. I am pretty much a genuine person but I also have my faults/flaws and am not perfect. Some clients tend to fall in love with the illusion we offer. It's a fantasy and that is what draws men towards SP. Personally, I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me and for an SP, it is extremely awkward to have to deal with a customer who crosses boundaries and doesn't respect them. Do you really want to know all of me including the not so good side? Most likely not. I once had to deal with this sort of situatuon with someone who isn't a Cerb member and met them as a client through another type of escort advertising. Having to be put on the spot about phrases like "I think you're great and I consider you a friend. I would really like to take you out to dinner or a movie." or "Anytime you feel horny, give me a call." And all the while knowing full well about my personal situation and NOT respecting it by pushing their way in. How am I supposed to respond to this? Shall I be clear, blunt and be a bitch and say "Is this off the clock?" or "Okay, I can go out with you, it's going to be this much." How is a client who is clearly falling for an SP going to respond to this? I know what it's going to be...disappointment, rejection and I'm a money hungry bitch. it will be all put back on me when I'm just trying to do my job but put in a situation where it is only one sided. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or to hang out on the side! I am well aware that some ladies do this and some unsavory women may use men despite the type of job they hold in this industry but I'm not one of those women. I see my clients, give it a 100% when I'm with them and that's it untll they decide to call or text me again. I do not contact them out of the blue, use them to my advantage to get extra money by leading them on. That's not the way I roll. I am not interested in having personal friendships with my clients and maintain two different worlds. Sorry to say but it can only go so far. Having to let someone down isn't easy because they are going to feel rejected either way even if it's put in a nice, polite way. If an SP isn`t being reciprocal in your advances to take time to see each other off the clock, take a hint and understand why. She is doing her job! I refuse to have a client turn this around on me and make me feel bad when THEY decide to blur the lines. if this is the case and my boundaries are not respected, I will no longer take them on as a client and it's not my fault. If a client can't understand the difference between a real friendship ( without being paid) and one with an SP who he pays, then he has to deal with some issues of his own. I've encountered a few clients who really did blur the lines and were in denial and didn't want to think of their favorite SP as someone who was in a business relationship with them. Often times, they have issues going on in their lives and quickly attach themselves emotionally to an SP due to the imtimate intricacies involved in an encounter. Many clients have said to me that they feel when they're with me that they don't even feel like they're with an SP because it feels so natural but they really are with an SP! Don`t get me wrong... I really do enjoy what I do for a living but it`s what I do for a living and I am good at it. It is not something that coincides with my personal life. If my personal life is affected and I feel anxious or awkward every time a clients pushes the boundaries, money is not an issue with me when it comes to my mental and emotional state. They will be asked not to return. Respect your SP..

Its commonplace to here negative stories and aspects of our line of work, escorting/providing. What it can do to "womanhood", how we are homewreckers, that its demoralizing, sinful, the cause of other crimes, blah, blah, blah! So I wanted to state some positive! This business has allowed me to become independent, completely so.:) Its greatly increased my self esteem. Actually, believe it or not its caused me to be more careful about my eating habits. Having to be naked often, causes me to eat less and more carefully than I would if I knew I'd never have to expose myself:) It allows me to be completely uninhibited, has taught me a lot about my own body and sex. I've also learned a lot of very positive things about men and their bodies;). It satiates my high drive, causes me to exercise more than I would normally. As an introvert I probably wouldn't have met the amount of really great people I've met had I chosen another line of work. I am a much more confident and carefree person because of this business. Probably more empathetic as well:) Yes there have been some rough times and some minor bumps but that would happen in any line of work I suspect. All in all my choice to provide has been a beneficial and a happy and positive experience :)

Well you'd think with all the stereotypes held about "the biz" I would have stumbled into a hooker, prostitute, streetwalker, lady of the night or whatever other term of the day is used since embarking on this lifestyle. Well I haven't. I have however met ladies. Ladies who are bright, intelligent, pleasant, sociable. They don't meet society's stereotype of a sex worker at all. In fact, when I first embarked on this lifestyle, the one stereotype I had was this was about anonymous sexual encounters only. Boy was I wrong. First I didn't know how much I missed female companionship, not just sexual, but all aspects of being with a woman. And second, no anonymity, they know my name,(in some cases my address too) whether it is a lady I'm seeing for the first time or a lady I see on regular basis. The ladies have integrity, honesty and are professional. In some cases they are friends. And most of all, their companionship helped fill a void in my life after my last break-up (and last time I dated) None of the stereotypes about "the biz" reflect my experiences. In fact the encounters I have had with ladies have been the most honest no strings attached relationships (for lack of a better word) I have had. A rambling RG

.. that is always easier to bash on people behind a computer!... Fortunately, there is a lot of great gentlemen on here!! :)

Or, more likely, the SP thinks you are mentioning this request in order to get a discount. As Emily J first indicated, perhaps you should lay out that you would be providing regular rates before mentioning your request. Good luck.

just to throw my 2 cents in my 2 favourite ladies in here is SexxxyRebecca and nicolette vaughn are they fat HELL NO just 2 beautiful ladies inside and out can't wait to see them again and yes i can lose 10 or 20 pounds just saying

I think I'm with Ms.Emily on this one. Sometimes I like to just lay back and be serviced. Sometimes, I like my partner to lay back and let me service her. Sometimes it's 50/50. There have been times when my pleasure from the lady has been so intense, I had no energy left to reciprocate. Simply too spent. Just wanted to lay and hold the source of my pleasure. The downside of a busy life, health and the aging process. :(

I've got to admit, I am a giver by nature! While I do like to receive almost as much, knowing and seeing that my playmate is enjoying what we're doing is what really gets my panties wet :p 69 is like the perfect medium, giving and receiving at the same time... yummy!

I don't blur the SP-Client relationship. All of my encounters I realise and recognize are at it's core, a business transaction, and that I never forget. That said, this is a very unique lifestyle and business, one dealing with intimacy and companionship, and has no comparison. For emotions coming into play, actually is IMHO natural. What you have to do, and I do, is keep your head on straight, and not let your emotions run you. I still recognize that the lady is a professional companion who sees other clients, and I have no delusions, I know I'm not the one and only LOL or the man of her dreams, but we are friends and I respect them, and they have shown me nothing but friendship and respect in return. There are for example, a couple ladies I consider friends. But the only time I see them is in scheduled paid encounters. No blurring of the lines here, I still respect the core boundary, that this is a paid business transaction, and that it the only time I will see them. But encounters are two friends getting together, not a SP meeting a client, if that makes sense. Does that lessen the friendship, IMHO no. It is just a unique friendship founded on a ongoing business arrangement. A rambling for what it's worth RG

Personally, I don't like thinking of the relationships I have in the industry as less real than relationships I have outside the industry. I also don't like thinking about this notion of "fantasy" versus "reality". Life is so much more complicated than real/fake or fantasy/reality. I think boundaries are really important between a service provider and client, but they are equally important in all relationships be they in the industry or not. People have different boundaries (sometimes fluid and sometimes not) for different reasons and I think it's important we respect the decisions people make about their relationships and business model(s).

The theme of this thread is sexy black and white pictures of women found within Cerb albums. Sometimes a simple black and white picture is sexier then full colour pictures. Let's see what we kind find :) To start a fairly new member to CERB, she just posted these pictures recently : from Eva Pearl's Album some very sexy pictures : She also has some very sexy colour pictures too :) check them out.

So I had an appointment today with the lovely ebony Adryanna today and I have to tell you the anticipation was off the charts. You see our last encounter ended in the usual volcano eruption and seeing stars that she usually generates but we had a little time at the end and chatted about likes and dislikes. This can be very interesting when you get to know your SP. Especially if they open up a little about what they'd like to try. I always find that the interim correspondence for the next visit will always reference the fantasy and build up the anticipation for it. Well the last visit yielded a great deal of information about how much she really does enjoy Greek (cue the cheering from all the fans of the act) and how she'd like to get fucked in front of a mirror standing up. She really wanted to watch the act and see if the visual sent her over the edge. Just the thought of it sends me over the edge! So today, she greeted me with a mischievous smile and matching thong and bra and she led me past the full length mirror in her room. I immediately sprung to attention thinking this fantasy is not just hers, it's mine too. Just to keep this a reasonable length...foreplay, foreplay, foreplay...then we're standing in front of the mirror with her delicious booty wiggling toward my eager dick. We both had a fun show in the mirror and if you haven't seen her gorgeous ass swallow your dick yet, this is NOT to be missed. The lady loves her Greek and went at it until her legs gave out. Didn't achieve the desired result yet so we washed up and proceeded to the next round of lazy doggy style. This is my favorite with her because her perfect ass slaps up against me enhancing the experience. If you're closer to fifty than thirty like I am, you appreciate all the stimulation you can get since the condom dulls the senses a little. Needless to say, volcanic eruption and stars again. And she came too! Fucking awesome sight with her cumming and pushing back on my dick! This lady gets better and better with every encounter. She even knows how to treat us not-so-young-and-not-a-stallion anymore guys. Just the little things like getting me raging hard before the condom get on, fun foreplay and lots of good encouragement. I will continue to have fun with Adryanna whenever she comes to town. Sometimes twice when she cums to town!

In my mind and limited experience it is WAY better to give, than to receive. Example: One of my first girlfriends, we never had intercourse bit I did get a handy once and that was it but I would pleasure her for hours and that was our relationship. Now I don't even get to do that and I suppose that's one reason why I'm here. I desperately want to experience those feelings again, even at 1 hour at a time. Now that I'm older, I would expect the SP to have the same feelings as I so I guess if both parties want to please the other then everyone is happy. Yeah?

Faster then a speeding bullet, Thanks for the many humorous, sexy, silly posts! Love your no BS approach too:) Looking forward to reading more in the future:)

It's sad to say but true. Some people are really "brave" when hiding behind anonymous board handles submitting posts to put others down. Guess that's how they can build themselves up On the bright side, not only are there a lot of respectful gentlemen here on CERB, there are a lot of great ladies here too. RG

Wow, 500! Congrats.

Luv my new set of Ellen Underwear. Very soft cotton.

Way to go! Keep the party alive and the good reads coming!

Good Afternoon gentlemen, I'm a young fit MA who loves to massage and can do it for hours. My sensual erotic GFE massage will relieve your tension while I provide you with sexy teasing fun that will lead to an explosion of heavenly pleasure, just tell me what your into.. I'm petite 5'4, athletic 120 lbs, perky b34 bust, dark hair, golden tan, seductive lips, hazel bedroom eyes and very open minded fun and comfortable to be with.. Join me for some hot steamy fun 613-614-2117 -Sasha xxx

Exactly!!! I have been in this business for over 30 years. I seen many SPs/MAs all across Canada and abroad and I never met any that were not willing to put there hands on my wiener. I even had to mention a few times its not an orange, no need to squeeze it tight to get the juices out lol As long as your willing to pay their regular rates, Ladies will just sit and talk if that's all you want.. Therefore the OP must be coming across as wanting just a hj for a lower rate!!!

Really man? So it's up to the ladies ?

Loosing a good friend and a sister because of a simple misunderstanding.

Well the way I see it....when I'm a givin' I'm a gettin'.... It's all good!

Curvy! :) Xoxo

Very,very nice......yummmmy.

Cant see it all ... but mmmm meee! :)

And I like emiafish because he also contributes to the CERB community. No comments on the dirty old men sticking together though, I hate being considered old LOL RG

Decided to go for a drive with no destination. I ended up stoping at a farmers market and picked up a few things. Since farmers market aren't really local to where I live I haven't gone in years. Omg the berries I picked up were so good, don't know if they are organic but certainly orgasmic. What a huge difference in taste and freshness from my chained owned local grocery stores.

My son(24 yrs old) visited yesterday and he recently got is M2 (motorcycle) license so to congratulate him on it I offered to let him ride my second motorcycle. It was fun to have him ride beside me and not behind me like when he was younger. My wife took picture of both of us on HOGS and it will be something I will cherish forever.

I believe I have heard of operations in Canada, but the thing is hun, they are baiting for UNDERAGE workers( the pimps/agencies who hire them). And the MEN WHO ARE wanting to book minors. As long as you are not wanting to book with minors, then there is no problem. Even the bust in the States were only busting child/minor prostitute rings. Not responsible providers of age.

I just hear the word "diet" and all i can think is chicken,tuna, brocoli and egg whites...:( yeah that was what i ate the most when i was preparing for competition! i know its not like just watching your diet and eating healthy...its a bit...hum...a lot more drastic and can drive you crazy and very irritable :vatefaire:!! One good thing though It taught me good eating habit...5-6 smaller meals instead of 3 big ones, It's a life style change! It took me at least a year to accept that i will not eat peanut butter toast in the morning anymore lol (when preparing for a competition) and its funny how our brain works...now that im not competing i can eat whatever i want but i dont! tell me i can't eat a burger and i will crave for it:confused: To answer the OP...I have tried them all...the best diet is no diet...smart and moderate eating habit...IMO

Midnite-Massage, nice to see your welcoming post as I look to emerge from being just a lurker here on Cerb. I gotta say, your Tumblr page really has no equal. The images and gifs you find are phenomenal and you do a great job keeping it updated. I've been a frequent visitor since finding it months ago.

Not foolproof, but if the poster is a longer term member, has numerous posts, and has posted information on other providers that corroborates your own experience with them, then you ought to give the comments made by that member some weight. It is not unusual to see positive comments provided with low post count members (1 to 5 posts, for example). I place far less credibility on the comments offered by 'low' post count members. It is easy for an sp's close friend to become a member and post one or two positive remarks for the girl, to help her out. Call me a cynic, but it does happen. Personal preference will play a part. I may be looking for a kinky provider, but a reliable member who has vanilla interests may not enjoy or value the service in the same way as I would. Conceivably, we could provide different perspectives or comments on the same provider. If you're curious and interested in a provider, and if the reviews are mixed, then maybe you should pay her a visit and see for yourself. Lastly, and most important; read between the lines. If someone is on the 'no fly' list, it is because a member has either been offered or experienced highly risky and unprotected sex services. Keep Safe, Have Fun, and Happy Pooning! :)

I just love this thread, I've read every post and everyone has had some good points. And for the posts about not lasting that long, I've been with clients that lasted only a few minutes, but then we would cuddle, talk, some foreplay, then have another round so on. Thank you for this great thread.

Very well said cristycurve. It's great that you share your positive experience with everyone. Like any line of work, you must enjoy the job. If you don't like what you do, it may not be so easy to watch your diets, exercise more...

I hate to admit But before I entered this hobby, I never saw the good in it and sadly I am guilty of believing some of society portrait they've tried to make you out to be. After my life fell apart and enter this world it been nothing but positive. Not only has it help piece back some of my life but it has changed my views in both life and towards you woman. Many of you have offered advice, some have chose to listen. I've gained a bit of confidence in myself. Heck I've never felt so normal in my life.

Fair enough, that is your view and you are certainly entitled to it. It is a true story that actually happened, so I make no apologies for telling it as it is. I did not give any info that would give away her identity and I never will. Just because it is a sensitive issue doesn't mean we should just sweep it under the rug and never talk about it. It is a discussion forum after all. This post was not specifically about her and her issues, but about SP-client relationships. If you find that the thread is too gossipy or slanderous, then you are welcome to ignore it. It original intent of the thread was not about her, so please stop directing attention to that particular issue.

Let me clarify then. This woman obviously has allowed you into her private life and it is now being written about in a public forum with a PM system. I view a post like this with all of it's implications akin to a quilting bee, rumour mill or a gossip circle. Even if it is true, it is none of our business and without her direct consent should not be a topic of conversation on a business internet forum. When a provider allows a client insight into her personal life it is a given that it is a privilege and therefore the information is not to be disclosed to the general public unless she herself has posted about it previously. Just because one person is privy to private information doesn't mean the community is in need of knowing. I do realize that you didn't give out information that would identify the SP to us but I'm sure you have received (or will) PMs asking who he speaks about. We never know who will say what to whom which is why we guard and protect all that is precious to us from clients. Just don't go there. She has obviously fallen into difficult times, it needn't become the topic of the week. Discretion is a verb and it goes both ways... cat

And gentlemen wonder why SPs lock down their personal lives or just outright lie about their situations... cat

Boundaries can be blurred for a variety of reasons. Life is complicated and relationships are sometimes complex, including those we have in this industry. While the blurring of boundaries isn't the norm, people are people, and sometimes people meet in this profession and become friends, develop relationships, get married, break up, reach out to each other for help and/or support and genuinely enjoy each others' company. We're all vulnerable, and our hearts are tender. This isn't the only profession where boundaries can be and are sometimes blurred. Any caring type profession has these issues as well (nannies, nurses, care-givers, therapists, doctors, etc.). It's an interesting question for sure, but I doubt you'll get much response. When those boundaries are blurred it really is a privilege and a gift. It should be respected as such. :)

Well I am a newbie to this community and have never been with an SP but have my first encounter booked in a week with a very respected lady from this site and this thread was very helpful in trying to understand what is expected. I could not possibly imagine having an encounter where there is not mutual satisfaction because I know my biggest turn on is pleasuring a woman. There is no greater arousal then knowing the woman is turned on, aroused, pleased and climaxing ... that's what it's all about for me. If I know she is pleased, I am pleased and I'm sure I will enjoy the encounter.

What I took issue with was the incredibly homophobic, sex-negative, and whorephobic approach you took in your post. To recap: I would love to see your stats on this "guess" of yours. Stoya is a well-spoken porn actor who speaks to this subject quite frequently: http://stoya.tumblr.com/post/32205235912/testing-vs-condoms-in-pornography Emphasis mine. Racism, homophobia, and assumptions of drug use. Awesome. Again, I would love to see your proof to these claims. What on earth is a "meat and potatoes" std? Again with the homophobia. You know that people who have sex with other people of the opposite sex engage in anal sex as well? It's not a "gay thing". Again with the assumptions. Did you know that STIs are on the rise in the senior population, and they have theorized that it is because these individuals who are now finding themselves widowed and are engaging in new sexual relationships were not raised in a culture that promoted condom use and safer sex? Another assumption. Sorry, what? Again: source please. Actually, the transmission rate is about the same for oral sex on a person with a vagina, whether they are on their menses or not (it is considered a low-risk activity regardless of menses). Source: cdnaids.ca Someone's sexual identity does not put them more or less at risk of contracting an STI, it is the sexual activities they engage in and if they use safer sex practices.

Friday August 6.. was an interesting day. I just had a busy week filled with appts, a large SP gathering followed by a number of duos with a visiting lady from Toronto. After having a good night's sleep and raring to go again, I found myself at my incall location on my computer reading a cerb thread when lo and behold the person who I was reading about called me! While one could consider this a huge coincidence, I knew it was fate. It was one of my favorite clients calling me. His name here is emb3750. I told him that I had just been reading about him when he asked if I was available later that afternoon. He said he would be by later with some wine. Upon his arrival and exchanging plesantries, we went to the room and the temperature quickly rose. While I'm not a girl to kiss and tell I must say he is a true gentlemen who is very passionate with a perfect mix of impeccable orals skills and a great lover to boot. He definitely knows to please! I am always left satisfied and exhausted ( in a good way) when we part. It was by chance that he was able to meet the other ladies Jessi and Angelaofottawa who had just come back from running errands. We decided to have a drink with the other ladies and shoot the breeze for a short period of time before he became enamoured with Jessi. He is a great conversationalist and we had a few laughs. Before we knew it, we found him and Jessi heading off into the GFE room (lol) for more some action. We left them to their privacy and when he emerged an hour later, Angela and I both wondered how many girls in a day could a man see? We could say he is the energizer bunny that keeps going and going. All in all it was an interesting day but one that is not typical. It was an experience that won't soon be forgotten. Thanks Emb3750!:-)