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I give complements regularly and am motivated to so for a multitude of reasons. If I see someone who is looking a little down, I find something about them that is worthy of a complement; it's not hard to find one thing that is praise worthy but it is never based on genetics. I find myself complementing women more than men, I'm not sure why I'm drawn to them more. What I always find amusing is when I get a complement about my looks. I feel that complementing young women on their looks encourages them to remain image focused which is a genuine problem in our society. I have a standard reply that I started using as a teen... "Thank you but I can't take any credit for the fact that I have good genetics and my parents were attractive." I don't see why I should be praised for my eyes, my smile or my figure. I drew the long straw in the genetic lottery and for that I am truly thankful but complementing me on my features isn't really a credit to anything I have done. I will complement on attire, make up, attitude, wit, humor or accomplishment. Those are all things the person has control over, not what they were born with. Unless there is tequila involved, I usually am not mesmerized by appearance. I have met far too many beautiful people with black souls to be fooled into thinking how they look matters. What has been lost in the art of complements is the ability to give praise with genuine reason and intention; not just as a conversation starter. Complementing the obvious is an easy way out and is usually seen as an attempt to open a dialogue which can be creepy. What a man chooses to complement me on gives much insight into who he is. If the only good thing he sees about me is my looks then he obviously is visual and won't be someone I want to start up a conversation with because I am far more tactile and cerebral in my interests. Keep it simple, genuine and look for something a person has put effort into. It will contribute more "feel good" in the long run. It's not that hard... cat

I will often offer a smile or a compliment to strangers, regardless of age or gender. My actions are sincere. If a smile and a kind word are perceived as creepy, then that changes nothing. Perception has nothing to do with who you are. However, if I were to suddenly selectively compliment pretty young things to the exclusion of all others, then I think it would not be inappropriate to question my intentions. Happily, I'm an equal opportunity admirer.

Giving a compliment is a lost art....and something most men have been shamed into not doing any more. When you receive a compliment....thank the person.....just thank them. wether or not you think it real or genuine...... just thank the person.....and take the compliment. Most women often reply with... " I am not that thin...I could loose a few pounds...." " you are just saying that because you like me....." " my ass does not look that good in these pants......." when a man gets this type of response they often start getting gun shy....and shy away from giving out compliment... I give them all the time....to the girl cashing out my groceries...for her nice eyes or smile.... To the lady in the seat next to me on the bus.......for her nice shoes or dress.... Hell I even told one of the Directors where I work she had great legs..... so guys...don't be shy....do it in a tasteful way.....even if the shoes are ugly...hehehehe

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I've never had the nerve to do it, but I've always thought it would be fun to get some random business cards made up with quick phrases like "you've got an awesome style", "this is to inform you your laugh is great", "the bearer of this card is one nice person". I figure I'd just keep them on me and give them out randomly to people if I happen to spot them doing something nice, get good customer service, notice they've got an original outfit that works for them, etc. Just hand it to the person, smile, and walk on. In my mind this kind of thing would give someone a smile (I'd know I'd love to randomly receive one) and since I'd be halfway down the street by the time they finish reading it there'd be no worries they'd think I was just hitting on them or something.

I do always say thank you when I receive a compliment out in public. I do appreciate it every time. But the best compliments are ones that aren't based on appearance. Someone recently told me, after meeting my little dog and spending a tiny bit of time here, that he could tell there was a lot of love in my home. That was the best compliment I have ever received, and is one I'll never forget. While I do smile and appreciate it when people tell me they like my tattoos or something when I walk past them, to be honest, I do forget them. It's the ones that are specific to ME, not to my looks, that I'll always remember.

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The compliment should be respectful, not creepy. It should make the person feel good after receiving it and kinda happy she met you. It shouldn't for lack of a better word, make her feel dirty or wish she never ran into you A compliment should make a persons day, not ruin it. Will your compliment make her day A rambling RG

Personally any compliment that is honestly and freely given generates positive energy and can turn any moment into an extraordinary moment. As long as they are sincere they don't come off as creepy. If people react negatively or dismissively, don't take it as a waste, it was simply deflected good energy and the person probably wasn't open to it anyway. The nice thing about this type of thing is that it usually starts a reaction, a pay it forward. If it makes you feel good, you want to make someone else feel good and before long, things are good. Keep it light and playful and most people don't react badly to it. Mind you some react with a blank stare like "what just happened" because they're not used to it. I compliment on cool hair colors, jewelry, clothes, smiles or just someone enjoying a moment. So far, no one has reacted badly. I love it....bring it on!

Although i don't know the situation, Sometimes it just takes time for some people to realize their mistake. I hope things eventual work out.

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

Photographing a BBW is not as easy as everyone thinks.Just because you have a camera dosn't mean you know what you are doing.And not just because you have a $3000 camera does not make you a shooting star either.I have come across all types of people,professional photographers and some of them really don't know what they are doing.So figured I would give a few tips on shooting a BBW & Plus Size woman. You cannot and should not shoot a BBW girl the same way that you shoot a skinny girl or spinner as most us "Cerbians " say (Is That a real word) It will just not work.Many have tried and failed.I have used professional photographers to shoot,And guess what - lol they failed!! Some of them even go as far as saying that they have shot for" so and so" company.But I tried them out and was very disappointed.Wasted my time and money. Please dn't get me wrong I am not an expert with photography neither am I a photographer.I am just speaking simply based on my experienced over the years. Spinners have many advantages over BBW Girls in the photography department no one is questioning that.But at the same time BBW Girls have several advantages over Spinners when it comes to being in a photoshoot. Let me elaborate for you here that a Spinner can stand (full frontal ,back or side) anyway she likes and still do not have to hide or tuck anything in.Thats one reason why spinners can look good in a bikini almost all the time.That same pose cannot allways work for a BBW or Curvy Girl.Lets not fool ourselves thinking it can be done ..because it can't I have tried it myself. One simple fact that people fail to realize is that BBW ladies come in many shapes and sizes there are many variations within a BBW,Whilst Spinners have fewer variations. BBW Girls have the main 3 shapes: Pear,Apple and Hour Glass.But within these 3 shapes you have variations of each shape even to point of extremes.There is even such a thing called extreme Peas ,Apples & Hourglasses.In my opinion photographers should not photo shoot these types of BBW ladies the same.There are no rules Im sure of it - just saying it makes it easier if they didn't.Each shape has its own way of photographing,thats if the photographer takes his or her craft serious like they claim. The single and most important factor in photographing a BBW is the Pose. I have seen many photographs that "spinner" photographers have shot of BBW ladies and they are just that... Photographs.No love,No Dept,No feeling.Just a simple photograph.As far as I am concerned they could have photographing a glass of water or the Great Wall Of China.When I do come across a photographer from time to time who knows photograph a BBW you se it "in" the photograph.No jokes just plain and simple seriousness,love and devotion. Another important factor in photographing a BBW and this factor applies to everyone else is to focus on the eyes.The eyes are the window to the soul.So when you have captured the woman's eyes in the photograph everything else will fall into place if you pay attention.This is simply achieved by having her look directly into the eye of the camera (I do own a camera btw its a NIkkon D7000:-).When you feel her looking at you then you can take the picture.Nine times out of Ten you will have a great photograph.Bearing in Mind if you followed the most important factor of all ,the pose.If the pose and eye contact are there you will have an awesome photograph.If not,take the photo again.It does not really matter what the BBW is wearing.Hopefully she is enthusiastic about taking photographs.I'm sure nothing is more annoying than a BBW who dosn't want to take many photographs because it will show in her eyes.Never force a BBW to take too many photographs because you will have the worst pictures ever,thus making you look bad as a photographer...lol and trust me she will get so really aweful photos . Now that I have pointed out the dos and donts of taking photographs of BBWs lets examine "BBW" Facial Expression And trust me you have to practice this.Its not easy.So everytime you look at the mirror try several expressions.Its going to be weired at first but believe me it works.Stare at yourself in the mirror and and hype yourself up whilst doing that.Talk to yourself in the mirror ,in your mind not out loud.Its self building and builds confidence.Works for me.I look into the mirror and I say to myself ,mostly out lous that I am awesome.Been doing it for years and said it so much and everyday that I actually feel that I am awesome. The Posing The best pose are the most uncomfortable.Whatever is good for you in life is always is always the hardest thing to do.Why,I have no clue.In my experience when I say that a certain pose hurts,its usually the best shots.And of course the photographer have to take these shots fast as cause def cant hold it for long.So Ladies remember that beauty is pain. Chin Tucking Its when you tuck in your face so a double chin becomes more visible.It makes you look fatter and have no neck.Secret to overcoming this is simple.Everytime that you are being photograph poke your head out and tilt forward or to a side and feel confident to the point of outright dominance. Background Leave the background as it should be a background.Do not focus on the picture on the wall If you are trying to shoot certain parts of the BBW.Nothing is more annoying than looking at booty shot and theres your grand parents pictures in there or other stuff. As I always say Real Woman Are Curvy :-)

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Yes its unfortunate in this day and age that people can't just take a compliment without thinking you're only giving it because you want something from them. As has been said its a bit of a lost art, as most people are so afraid to give them for fear of coming off either insincere or creepy precisely because people don't know how to take them anymore. Media, and society in general have been tearing people down for so long in order to make us feel bad about ourselves that when someone says something nice about someone else they automatically think there has to be an ulterior motive. They become uncomfortable, so they dismiss it with an offhand comment, or ignore it altogether, or in some cases become a bit hostile thinking you must be making fun of them or whatever. Sure there are still some people who understand that a compliment can be just a compliment and will thank you, but unfortunately there aren't as many people like that as there used to be. That being said though, maybe if everyone who is reading this thread began to compliment at least one person a day we could turn it all around! Viva la Revolutione!

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Sounds like the blocking functionality is screwed up to me. I'd have assumed that this was pretty high on the list of things it'd do. May be worth asking Mod about this? For future reference (and anyone else who may be thinking about doing this), the best way is just to drop Mod a PM and he'll change your handle for you. That way you get to keep the account, post history, friends, reputation, etc. AFAIK that's actually less work for Mod than creating a new account, because many people who create new accounts when they already have existing ones do so for nefarious reasons (they've been suspended, or maybe they've got a deservedly bad reputation with the ladies).

The case with now magazine was dropped because the laws specifically state a "public place" and a "place" is a physical location not a newsprint or other media publication (such as the internet) until the law is redefined the internet is not a public place.

No... south of the border they run stings on both clients and SPs all the time, and it doesn't even make the headlines unless someone notable gets caught. But that's because the exchange of sex for money is illegal there (mostly), whereas it's legal here.

Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors and races. Men come also come in all shapes, sizes, colors and races. Women accept us and marry us because of who we are are on the inside. And we should also accept the women for who they are on the inside. These women come from all sort of backgrounds, some abused, some are single mother, and some from backgrounds that you could not even imagine. Some do this job out of the joy of sex, and some do it out of necessity. Scars, stretch marks are just battle scars of life that they should wear with honor. Women love their men and children, no matter what they have done or will do in their lifes. Most men are kind in nature, but many men are inconsiderate and treat women badly. These women share their most intimate moments with us, and for a moment we feel loved and needed. We should respect these women for what they do for us and the kindness and love some of them demonstrate to us. All they want is respect and to be treated with kindness in return. Treat them like ladies and you will be treated like a king. Having a gorgeous sp, does not insure that you will have a great time. People have to look at the inner beautify of the person to truly enjoy the person. That's all I have to say on this matter. Thank you to all the women of Cerb who treat all us men like kings, regardless of our race and color and size and shape.

I can't add to the words already expressed, I'm pretty sure everything's been said. For the ladies, I'm sincerely sorry you have to tolerate such nonsense. But as for the "men" who make such assinine, irrelevant, ignorant, knuckle-dragging comments, well, these walking wastes of flesh are the kind of mouth breathing vermin that give men everywhere a bad name. Most likely racist, homophobic high school dropouts who think a beer gut and a limited vocabulary make them "real men." Their barely literate opinion should never been given more weight than a laugh and the only thoughts I'd encourage anyone to spare them is disgust and the sincere hope that they fail to bread. My couple of pennies.

All the ladies I see are goddesses, and I am thankful to them for looking past my physical imperfections and still are willing to see me. You ladies are all beautiful and we men should appreciate (I know I do) the companionship and intimacy you provide us. A rambling from an appreciative gentleman RG

OK Now my turn I'm a single middle aged man (52 years old) who joined CERB in Feb 2010 and embarked on this lifestyle July 2010. I guess I would be described as quiet and easy going. But not a pushover. And principled. I have a few close friends, but they are real true (through thick and thin) friends In my younger days I did travel (while with the Armed Forces) to Europe, I have no desire to travel now. Well except to Toronto, Kingston or Ottawa, but that is to see ladies I like the outdoors, well fishing. While financially selling my boat made sense, I regret it at times now. Oh well, likely next year buy another one...I hope I used to date, looking for Miss Right. Never worked out. But over the past few years I found I'm a happy single guy and like my life. Now I don't think I'd ever get married, too set in my ways I guess. I'm master of the remote control I enjoy this lifestyle and the connections, sometimes friendships (within the confines of this lifestyle) I have made with many wonderful women. It has turned out to be a very important and enjoyable dimension to my life Think that's about the quick highlights off the top of my bald head RG

Many guys tend to fall in lust ( not love) with the idea of the SP and what *they* think she is or the image she portrays in her business. I am pretty much a genuine person but I also have my faults/flaws and am not perfect. Some clients tend to fall in love with the illusion we offer. It's a fantasy and that is what draws men towards SP. Personally, I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me and for an SP, it is extremely awkward to have to deal with a customer who crosses boundaries and doesn't respect them. Do you really want to know all of me including the not so good side? Most likely not. I once had to deal with this sort of situatuon with someone who isn't a Cerb member and met them as a client through another type of escort advertising. Having to be put on the spot about phrases like "I think you're great and I consider you a friend. I would really like to take you out to dinner or a movie." or "Anytime you feel horny, give me a call." And all the while knowing full well about my personal situation and NOT respecting it by pushing their way in. How am I supposed to respond to this? Shall I be clear, blunt and be a bitch and say "Is this off the clock?" or "Okay, I can go out with you, it's going to be this much." How is a client who is clearly falling for an SP going to respond to this? I know what it's going to be...disappointment, rejection and I'm a money hungry bitch. it will be all put back on me when I'm just trying to do my job but put in a situation where it is only one sided. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or to hang out on the side! I am well aware that some ladies do this and some unsavory women may use men despite the type of job they hold in this industry but I'm not one of those women. I see my clients, give it a 100% when I'm with them and that's it untll they decide to call or text me again. I do not contact them out of the blue, use them to my advantage to get extra money by leading them on. That's not the way I roll. I am not interested in having personal friendships with my clients and maintain two different worlds. Sorry to say but it can only go so far. Having to let someone down isn't easy because they are going to feel rejected either way even if it's put in a nice, polite way. If an SP isn`t being reciprocal in your advances to take time to see each other off the clock, take a hint and understand why. She is doing her job! I refuse to have a client turn this around on me and make me feel bad when THEY decide to blur the lines. if this is the case and my boundaries are not respected, I will no longer take them on as a client and it's not my fault. If a client can't understand the difference between a real friendship ( without being paid) and one with an SP who he pays, then he has to deal with some issues of his own. I've encountered a few clients who really did blur the lines and were in denial and didn't want to think of their favorite SP as someone who was in a business relationship with them. Often times, they have issues going on in their lives and quickly attach themselves emotionally to an SP due to the imtimate intricacies involved in an encounter. Many clients have said to me that they feel when they're with me that they don't even feel like they're with an SP because it feels so natural but they really are with an SP! Don`t get me wrong... I really do enjoy what I do for a living but it`s what I do for a living and I am good at it. It is not something that coincides with my personal life. If my personal life is affected and I feel anxious or awkward every time a clients pushes the boundaries, money is not an issue with me when it comes to my mental and emotional state. They will be asked not to return. Respect your SP..

Hi, I am looking for Toya. I saw her a few times at the beginning of last year. I think the last time was back in February of last year after I quit my job. I really miss you Toya, if you are out there reading this I hope you get in touch with me. I was the guy who would some times pay with pre-paid credit cards and I would bring over Patron tequila and you'd keep it there for me so I'd have some thing to drink when i came over. Every time I came over, we had the really long sessions. You once told me I had a lot to learn about how to treat a girl the right way. I hope you remember me, and I hope to hear from you I have been trying to find you and the 2 numbers I have for you are never in service.

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I see what you're saying...To answer your question, a connection has to be developed. This can be evident from the first encounter through chemistry but the good connections develop over time. I have many great connections with my regular clients but *they* know it doesn't go further than the SP/client relationship meaning they come to see me with anticipation, we have a lot of fun and we go our separate ways until the next time. I wouldn't view having a connection with a client as leading someone on as long as both parties know what the score is. Most of my clients are married and have no interest in an emotional attachment with me outside of what other than we do during our time together. My clients have an affection for me and I know that they care about me to a certain degree. I had one recently boost my vehicle with his after the light was left onside all night. Imo, a connection cannot be considered role-playing and that to me implies that it is something phony. There has to be some chemistry there to begin with. I've had clients come and go where there wasn't much going on in the chemistry department at the beginning but they returned again and again where a connection slowly developed over time. I've also had clients come and return just for the service where it is friendly but we both know that they want the service without te connection. And in my experience there are varying degrees of connections. Some are friendly, some are hot and heavy and some are intense but the key is the connection that occurs during that time stays within that time until both SP/client meets again.

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I think that Nicolette makes excellent points here. The distinction for SP's is, I think, between what they do 'for' a living and what they do with their life. Many clients would benefit from recognizing that there are two different personae here. Perhaps we should realize there is a difference between what we do to to keep us lively and what we do with our life. waterat

Congrats, SteveyK!

Chivalry is definitely a lost art. I say go with it! Maybe the trend will catch!

This post warms my heart and reminds me why I love my job-it's because of guys like you-the ones who appreciate us in our diversity and the ways that we are all unique and beautiful. I think it takes a special type of person to be a SP, someone generous, open-minded and caring-these are some of the most beautiful qualities a person can have in my books! I am so glad I found cerb, and this post! Thank you! xxx Julie

just to throw my 2 cents in my 2 favourite ladies in here is SexxxyRebecca and nicolette vaughn are they fat HELL NO just 2 beautiful ladies inside and out can't wait to see them again and yes i can lose 10 or 20 pounds just saying

Thanks to you.. You are such a sweetheart! Yes, sometimes it sad to read that kind of stuff.. But the funniest part is that the one who *always* have something bad to comment about everything are the one who need to look to themselve in the mirror. I have been called "fat" on this *erb by someone who is 3times my size...LOL To be honest, I dont really care as Im comfortable with my body (most of the time.. Im a woman after all! Lol) and there is a lot of men who likes me the way I am.. !! Im honest on my description and my pictures.. If Im not your type, you can keep it for yourself! No? Lol I dont even log into that board anymore.. No time for such negativity! Nobody is perfect after all! ;)

Before you get overly flamed for this, you should know that sps sending out solicitation type pms and messages etc is against the site rules. Sps place ads, and respond to direct communication. which means it is entirely up to you to read the ads/websites, recommendations and initiate communication yourself. We are not here to audition for a casting calls lol and it is unfortunate to mention that you may actually get some messages due to this thread but the sps you probably should be seeing are the ones who will not contact you and now not want to see you due to having to come up with some kind of over the top performance to impress you, and no one really likes that.

Curvy! :) Xoxo

I agree, in terms of women being as fixated on appearance, because I was almost totally ignored by women until I was in university (ok, maybe it was my creepy personality as well, but I'm pretty sure it was my rather mediocre physical appearance, LOL). But women also do look for deeper qualities like that size of mans bankaccount, LOL. My best friend also had incredible problems finding love... until his income surpassed 6 figures.

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I just want to say that I am shocked by the level of hobbyists saying they are approached by SPs to "come visit me,I need money" or "Haven't seen you in a while, miss ya"... Seems highly unprofessional! I would have to think that if these particular women cannot exude discretion, they may have chosen the wrong profession. JMHO, discrete is the first thing an SP should be, and reaching out to clients is not discrete. In these cases, even if they are soliciting you for paid visits, they are already blurring the lines by initiating contact. Most of the lovely ladies here will tell you that isn't classy. I won't even reply to a missed call or text if I received it more than 30mins ago! DISCRETION, DISCRETION,DISCRETION! I understand some SPs may struggle financially for whatever reasons, but it's just so unprofessional to approach potential clients who did not approach you first! It's been my personal experience that placing an ad (be it here on cerb, or EC or BP, whatever!) will generate visitors, no need to "harass" hobbyists. For the record, I would never want to be romantically involved with someone whom I met via this industry. Like some of the other SPs have stated, we kind of live double lives... and to be brutally honest here; if it's Alexxxis you are falling for, you're not in love with ME.

Many girls do (including myself), but there are two girls I personally have met who I know loooove couples sessions - Charlotte Sinclair - http://escortforcouple.com/ and Kathryn Bardot - http://www.kathrynbardot.net/consideration/

I don't blur the SP-Client relationship. All of my encounters I realise and recognize are at it's core, a business transaction, and that I never forget. That said, this is a very unique lifestyle and business, one dealing with intimacy and companionship, and has no comparison. For emotions coming into play, actually is IMHO natural. What you have to do, and I do, is keep your head on straight, and not let your emotions run you. I still recognize that the lady is a professional companion who sees other clients, and I have no delusions, I know I'm not the one and only LOL or the man of her dreams, but we are friends and I respect them, and they have shown me nothing but friendship and respect in return. There are for example, a couple ladies I consider friends. But the only time I see them is in scheduled paid encounters. No blurring of the lines here, I still respect the core boundary, that this is a paid business transaction, and that it the only time I will see them. But encounters are two friends getting together, not a SP meeting a client, if that makes sense. Does that lessen the friendship, IMHO no. It is just a unique friendship founded on a ongoing business arrangement. A rambling for what it's worth RG

Well, as others have said, I think the police have bigger fish to fry. But that is why many sex workers often have a disclaimer on their sites and ads that reads something like "money exchanged is for companionship only and anything else that happens is between consenting adults." I don't go out of my way to flout the law, but I'm not sitting around worrying about the cops either. If they really want to arrest you, they will.

Hey Mod, Quick correction. The laws regarding communicating for the purposes of prostitution in public were put in place before the advent of the internet, so we actually don't know whether advertising is legal or not. The paper Now Toronto was charged a number of years ago for solicitation, though the charges were eventually dropped. http://www.rrj.ca/m3837/