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It's the only thing I have to know who you are. Yes, it could be spoofed, but there are always risks. If I let someone call me from a blocked number, and give them my address, let them in here and they do something to me, I have NOTHING to contact the police with. Nothing to go on. To me, it's not different than being picked up by a stranger outside. So for my safety and security, I will never, ever book from the blocked number. I google the phone numbers, and cross-check the bad date section. Many spoofed numbers are out there on the internet, so i've caught many. I know a phone number isn't much, but it's something. What I tell guys who say they want to contact me from a blocked one is this: If you don't trust me with your phone number, i don't trust you with my address. It's that simple.

Regarding the "need to put this out there" thing, I'll give the benefit of the doubt to a long time member and take is as the "need" to bring up something he sees and thinks is of dubious value and it bugs him and he wants to know why it is still used. Regarding blocked numbers, allow me to digress for a bit - to smoked plastic license plate covers. IMHO people do not buy those to protect their plates. People buy them to obfuscate their registration numbers when they go through red-light and speed cameras. Whenever I see them, my first thought is "what other laws are you willing to break?" Back to blocked numbers. There are innocent reasons why someone might call from a blocked number. There are as whole host of nefarious reasons someone else would use one. Notwithstanding all the ways of spoofing and circumventing the blocked number thing, I side with the decision to err on the side of caution and refuse to answer such calls. No, it's not a foolproof was of avoiding asshats, but nothing is 100%. A final thought. If a guy is calling on a blocked number when, as noted, it is almost universally noted in SP advertising that no blocked numbers will be accepted, this guy is either seriously procedurally challenged (read: doesn't understand the rules) or disrespectful (read: doesn't care what the rules are). In either event, the SP who passes on the call is not losing a good client. Just my two bits...

Nothing like that exists here.

As I stand above you, legs apart, while caressing my bare pink swell in a most erotic way, I look down to see your master piece engulfed in your manly hand and slowly, being pleasured, up and down, faster and faster. What a beautiful sight! ... OK, enough lol Since I am a voyeur and also enjoy being watched, I find mutual masturbation very stimulating and very erotic! All that to say that it does not need to be a means to an end but simply an activity shared in between many others... I think most of you would be surprised at how many women actually enjoy the sight of a man pleasuring himself !

I think the beauty of not having a "menu" (like a restaurant menu for pizza and toppings lol), is that we can go with the flow during the time spent together and enjoy various sexy activities within the established boundaries. Your personal preferences for the encounter can always be discussed in private... A great thing about ladies who have an all-inclusive donation is that you never have to pay extra (except for Greek) for some things that might be considered "out of the norm" or considered a fetish (sometimes it's not) because you are paying for the lady's time. The old "I only want xyz, can I pay a reduced rate" is never popular with the ladies ;) Time is time no matter what you do during that time. Back to pleasure, masturbating, watching, being watched and orgasms :)

It's always a good time to sit back, relax and enjoy some sexy thoughts and pictures. :bowdown: Come join me in my personal exploration of sensual and sexy. :bowdown: http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ :twisted: Hoping to get the juices flowing now that September has returned which means new stories and ramblings. :twisted:

There has to be a level of trust on both sides. When someone calls blocking a number its a signal to us that you are hiding something and quite frankly if you aren't going to give me your info why would I give you mine. Yes technology has changed and numbers aren't fool proof or always reliable but they are a start. You have recourse when dealing with a reputable sp, if she causes you trouble we have a trail, with advertising, web pages, etc. When screening a potential client all we have is the info you give us. Certainly there are no guarantees with our screening methods, but we can only do so much. I rely more on instinct and again when blocking a number that only makes me wonder and wonder negatively. Your name and phone number are the basics and necessities for booking an appointment. If an sp were willing to book a client without those I'd be suspicious of him/her.

I would like to point out that NOT all girls have someone else there. I am realizing now that I guess many do, but the people saying how many girls do are just guessing. I do not know of any girl who keeps another person there for safety. My incall has another room, and I keep that door shut in order to keep the cat in there. Girls saying that almost all girls have another person there could only cause people to suspect that there is another person in my spare room, which is not true. If someone asked me to open that door, I would decline, as it's not their business to see into that bedroom (it might not be clean, it might smell like cat litter, etc). But that doesn't mean there is a person in there. If you do keep another person there for your safety, that is totally fine, but please do not state that most girls do this - I think that is simply untrue.

So it does sound like you were all the way out the door, door closed and locked behind you, before you heard what appeared to you, from all the way outside, two different people laughing. What I am sensing tho from this is you are also assuming that the sps were making a joke at your expense and laughing at you and about you. What you are missing is that there is a very good chance that once the door closed behind you, you were not the topic of conversation or humour. If the hair was a concern, you could have simply asked her about it. Oh, your pics showed very long black hair. Give her a chance to come up with a reason for the difference, and you can also say it was a reason for your choice. Many guys love long hair, and specific styles of hair, it is a valid reason for asking. I think that if everything went well in the session, and the 2nd person (you assume) was not intrusive or noticeable before and during and even at the point of exit, that this is the best possible way that someone can share their space and/or be working with a safety person at the same time. I think, to the point of you being actually outside, they (if there were really 2 people) did everything they could to reassure you of both privacy and discretion. You didn't see a 2nd person, and she didn't see you, both of you have retained your privacy in other words. There seems to be a small move for sps to tell clients that they have another person in the suite when they arrive, particularly another sp, for the reason of safetly. It might even be that there is no other person there, but the sp with a first time client wants him to think she has backup close by in case he gets any ideas. The reality is that some sps in some places see more bad date types of guys, and sometimes we get reports that there are people out there targeting sps. Even if it is not physical harm, there are some guys who deliberately make appointments in order to steal from sps. So for those sps, and some of us as well, a huge red flag to me is a new caller asking am I alone. I'd rather they don't ask, because I have to ask myself then, why does he want to know that?? I also am likely to turn down someone who sounds either overly paranoid (the sort who assumes someone is hiding in the closet or bathroom, very annoying), or up to something. We just don't take the chance on a new client, in other words, especially when, as even your story shows, you entered, enjoyed and left without being any the wiser about the 2nd sp. It was only after the fact it became an issue, and even then, imo, it isn't an issue.

16 days only until the social! It's incredible on how time flies!! As the social is sold out, your organizing committee is working away in getting everything ready for everyone to have a wonderful evening. As mentioned previously, ticket sales provides a drink to the ladies, snacks (we'll have a variety of plates to cover most diets, including some gluten-free ones) as well as door prizes. We are also preparing a music playlist for the evening! Thank you everyone that have contacted us (myself, Spud271 and Loneskater) so far about Social! Its great to see that these events keep having such a high interest from everyone!!! Cheers!

I often find myself acknowledging you in a thread or about a comment and enjoying what you have to say. You share yourself, are thoughtful and support everyone. I enjoy your playful sense of humor and I'm sure many love your sexy picture contributions. Thanks for being a great voice in the community.

For being so new to this community you have jumped right in and made yourself known and shared with us. It's wonderful to see new members doing this. Looking forward to many more and welcome!

Oh, O, O. I almost forgot Zombie Land. Rule #2 Cardio...poor fat bastard.

Almost definitely shyness and uncertainty. I bet if you asked hundred guys around here if they found it sexy to watch a woman touch herself, you'd get 103 responses of an emphatic "YES!" But ask those same guys if they think it turns women on to watch men touching themselves and you'll probably get "maybe", "for some...sure perhaps," "I suppose" and the ever popular "uhh..." Guys aren't great for knowing what looks sexy with them or not. And if an act may make them look silly, they're probably not going to risk it. But with a bit of encouragement... Also, I daresay a lot of us guys have spent our fair share of time touching ourselves, and so when there's an enticing, willing woman before us, our first (and second and third) thoughts of where we want our hands to go is probably not our own body. :)

The sp only access ladies currently can not see hidden profiles but this is causing issues with verification, because of this council has voted and we would like to grant any verified sp (sp only access) the ability to view hidden profiles (to help with the screening process) so this announcement is to let veryone know that in a few weeks (if we can get this working) the sp only ladies will be able to view private profiles (for screening and security). This way no "bad" clients can hide from sp only ladies. If anyone has questions or objects you can pm me or comment.

So interesting how people think in different cities, I am known for being open minded but only once was I ever asked for BBFS. I do advertise as open minded and a fantasy granter. Almost all my requests that some would consider "out of the norm " are mostly role play that hurts no one and can really be a lot of fun. I am not sure if geography, big cities or many more providers per capita brings out the rudeness and Gaul, lol perhaps a study someday is in order.

I never use this term in my advertising, for one reason - without fail, when a man texts me and asks if I'm open-minded, his follow-up question is if I offer BBFS. I am serious in this, without fail. So I hate this term, and will never, ever use it in my advertising. I am not saying that girls who use this term offer that service, I am NOT saying that at all - but just that to me personally, the term makes me get my back up and I don't like it. I guess my post is mostly a tip to the gents, lol - I would refrain from asking a girl if she is open-minded. If you want something specific, just ask - I think most girls in this business ARE open-minded enough to listen to your request and answer without judgement.

Watching a man jerk off I think is very erotic, it turns me on! Yet I find a lot of men reluctant to do this when visiting, why? Is it shyness, do some feel its a waste, meaning, they want the woman to do all the touching? Mutual masturbation can be a lot of fun, can't it?

Hi everyone, i went to see Selena at a massage spa on the 31st of august and it was worth while seeing her, she was fantastic and is very good to treat you and shes got good hands. I would reccomend to everyone to go and have a good time with her and i will go again more often, shes a very nice girl to talk too, she has a good conversation.

Some new goodies at Blogasms! :-) My new crush, Conner Habib, a gay porn star, talks to a sexual health nurse about the risks of HIV & BBBJ. :) Plus other random stuff, as per usual. Naughty photos, links, etc. www.blogasms.xxx

congrats:):)

Z - Zero time to waste Ms. Midnite - let's get at it!!!

Good Afternoon Gentlemen, I will be opening September 9th. For more information or to book a session you can visit my website. http://www.laramassage.com Lara

Ankle doesn't seem to be healing the way it is. I shouldn't still be in this much pain. I guess time to go back to the doctor and see what's up. I may end up having to wear this cast more than one more week.

I've done it, not many times because of the same reason other guys answered here. My most memorable time was with an MP, she got turned on massaging me and she got on her knees over my head and started to play with herself and asked me to masturbate for her. Her favorite part was when a man would blow is load and when I did so did she.

I was thinking it might be fun to perform with a lady on some cam site just for the fun of it. She'd have to be pretty hot though, cause nobody would pay to see me! :D It'd kinda be like virtual swinging. I'd want to wear a wrestler's mask though.

Thank you Mighty Jabba. Thank you for letting me know about the fish. I was wondering what that smell was. Now I understand why it is so hot here. Now that you have answered my questions, my answer is: Yes, I would come to a complete stop. However, I am still looking for Eva, it seems I am at a different 4 way stop then her.

Happy Birthday you sexy thing!

Happy Belated Birthday to a wonder and sexy lady :-) Best Wishes for a great year ahead

I left my cell phone charger at my west end location earlier today and when trying to book an appt earlier but not quite confirmed for the east end, my cell phone died. If the person who wanted to book reads this and wondering what happened to me, I'm sorry for the inconvenience!

Seriously, how come I was born good looking instead of rich? Jeeez, I was KIDDING, lol. Additional Comments: Another email just came in.....a new feed additive for my herd. Seriously, do they think I don't check this stuff? Less nutrients, less minerals and vitamins, and 20% higher price. I am so pissed right now at big business.

Happy Birthday fellow virgo love Raven xo

Hope you have a greeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaat day, Nicolette!

If you don't make it through the whole thing, I don't blame ya. So I'd like to thank everyone now. I really do appreciate you taking the time to throw your cents/sense in. Thank you, truly, to everyone who's come to my rescue and everyone who's got anything else to say for others in the future. I did indeed see someone else and it was beyond amazing. This second lady I saw was actually my first choice (things fell through) and the reason I chose her was because of the passion and consideration she seemed to give to her art. Whether it's music or boxing or architecture or whatever, doesn't matter, the people who will always be remembered as the best at anything are the ones who ask(ed), "What else can be done and how can I do what's been done better?" She seemed to do that, and god fucking bless anyone who takes that approach to anything. What was I talkin' about? Oh yeah! The waters were warm but, again, nothing happened. Saint beniger, who really has been an incredible pillar, thinks that the second flub might've had something to do with me not really eating or sleeping for the forty hours before the encounter. I created an experiment and tested his theory in a state-of-the-art laboratory. The results were inconclusive, but I'm staying positive. As far as flub #1 goes, I'm not down about that anymore, thanks to everyone here. Now I know that it definitely was, as a few of you have said, just a poor choice. It happens :icon_cool: Anyway, my second go at this was anything but a disappointment. It was a mind-bending experience and after some reflection, like a carpenter looking at a pile of lumber, I saw all of the incredible things that it could be. Not long into the hour, this girl, this unbelievably sweet and insightful girl, said with a big smile and sad eyes, "You just need love." It was so obvious to her but something I hadn't even considered because I have love, it's just out of town a lot... Alot :icon_sad: And when I realized how right she was and how lonely I was I got a bit weepy-eyed. We spent the rest of the time cuddlin' and talking. If someone had told me a week ago that I was just lonely I wouldn't be here, because I couldn't have imagined that an hour of anything with anyone would fix that. Right now, an hour of wanting and feeling wanted in the middle of a very lonely few weeks feels like it will always be enough to carry me through. I don't know yet if it's a cure or even true, but it's a wonderful feeling to know that if I'm lonely I don't have to be. Even though the best hour that I can imagine still probably isn't even close to as good as reality permits I won't do it as often as I could, but I'll certainly do it often as I need to. (More thanks coming up. I was worried that if all of this was at the beginning people would stop reading before they got to the meat) That's just a general response to some of what's been posted. I don't have much to say in my private life. Here, I can't shut up. I wanted to respond to every individual and every individual thing that's been said. That's how this post started but it got way too long. Poor beniger's been listening to my rants and revelations since Saturday. So this is a shout-out to that guy. Props? Is props still a thing? Either way, awesome dude. Anyway, I've read everything everyone has written and thought about it all. And when things were repeated I got to think about those things again with a brain that was a bit better than the one I had the last time I'd thought about it. With all of my heart, thank you.

Happy Birthday to a special lady!

I hope that this is the best birthday ever!

Happy Birthday Nicolette! Have a fantastic day & may all your wishes come true!

Happy happy, joy, joy...happy BD Nicki! Have the bestest day ever!

A new Honda Civic

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Perfectly said - thank you.

yes I have seen her. very polite, very nice, her English not so good. its was a quick one for sure. she get right to it and next..

How come the grocery store keeps moving their products around. The first layout and everyone knew where everything was. They rearranged things, and then it was a search to find things when shopping. Now that everyone got used to the new layout, you guessed it, they changed things around again RG

In my experience "open-minded" just like "GFE" means nothing. In this business many ladies will just use the "phrase of the day" in their ad's to catch a potential clients attention. NEVER make any assumptions in this business about what anything written in ad's mean. Always, communicate directly with the lady and express what you desire from your encounter and confirm that what you desire is what she provides and is comfortable with. If you choose to just take ad's at face value you might be setting yourself up for disappointment. Just as an example, a while ago I visited with a lady, last minute, "spur of the moment" and she advertised as both "GFE and open-minded". When I go there she confirmed after we entered the room that, there was no kissing, no anal play, and the service was completely safe. I could live with that so we continued. It was a completely mechanical, detached, zero eye contact session. In fact she even seemed a little put out that I lasted so long and said, "can you just cum already". LOL. Now I know for a fact that I am a fantastic client with a YMMV factor that is very high but in this case although she advertised as both open-minded and GFE I would classify my mileage factor as very low. Perhaps she was just having a bad day who knows. However, I learned that I'll never do "last minute" spur of the moment again. I'll always want to have ample opportunity to chat with the lady and convey to her what I like to experience in my sessions and have her explicitly confirm that she also enjoys all the same things from a session as I do. Communicate, communicate, communicate! FYI, you might be able to tell but I haven't had my morning coffee yet and I'm still a little short on the trigger.

You go for it ;) I just wouldn't, Regardless of the cost of the room. Also read this pointer through a forum which had this as a key point for a sleep over in a hotel.....now if it was a longer time spent together like 2 days or more things would be different. I just wouldn't, but that is your choice not mine.