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I lift weights, do circuits and plyometrics 6 days a week. I try to spend as much time as I can outside :) But other than being active, if you wanna feel and see results you have to adjust your nutrition, eat clean/healthy! This will be the key to fuel and recover your body

Very good answer! If it is too questionable to share on the open forum, it's too questionable to share in a private section. If some members are too shy to post publically, they can continue to send pm questions. If they don't have any posts, don't reply to them, imo, because you have no idea who they are, what are they hiding, what do they want, etc. So if it is info that is readily available to them if they went to an ad or website, just add to your reco "I've been getting enquiries by pm about X and Y, and refer everyone to the sp's website or ad, or contact her directly about this." That way you aren't sharing sensitive info if you felt that it wasn't appropriate info to put in the reco in the first place. If you get a bunch of pms asking the same info and realize it would be OK to have in the reco, then just add a post that provides that info. Whatever you do, the sp will be able to see what you are saying in the reco, if it is a private matter she will let you know. If it is something that needs clarification or correction, she will also let you know. Doing any of that in a private section means there are some 'facts' posted that she is unaware of, and which may lead to issues when she hears "I read that you provide X under the right circumstances" or "Are you still at the Hotel XXX?" or even "You should know that cerb member W is telling everyone your exact address." But aside from the obvious, if you are inundated with pms, just post in the reco itself you don't want any, there is also the chance that it will redirect discussions away from the General lounge, and there will be less happening publically where everyone can participate. This could lead to disinterest from many members, and sps, and change the dynamics of the site the way it is. The way the site is now, even tho the site is focused on eastern provinces, I still make copious posts on a variety of topics just because I am able to read them all :)

watching the slow deterioration of a parent's health. Growing old not only sucks, but sometimes seems just inhumane.

Perhaps it's because we are bashed everywhere! The problem is that if a provider doesn't want these kind of details "out in the open" then it shouldn't be anywhere for any reason. I don't care if you are getting pm requests, if your provider doesn't want that information disclosed you are betraying her trust by doing so even in a pm. If she doesn't want that information in her reco then she doesn't want it discussed and shouldn't be in pm or a private area. It's one thing to have information exchanged between hobbyists but please know that it's easy for someone to disguise themselves as a client and collect info on a provider then have it used against them in a child custody case etc. My concern isn't about the bashing, it's about the open availability of information that could cause irreparable harm in one's personal life. I am a prime example. My work was used against me in a custody case and I lost my daughters. Not because I was an unfit mother but because I was a sex worker and details clients discussed were read in open court in front of my daughters who were all minors at the time. There is one detailed review out there and by the time I knew it existed it was already framed on my parents dining room wall for my children to have to see every time they sat down to eat. It is why there is so little out there on me. Discussing services that are offered but not publicized is a no no anywhere. Bash me all you want but don't ever discuss what I do behind closed doors... cat

How would you know? Do you happen to have a personal SP spy that reports to you? ;) Seriously though, there is no screening process to become a CERB member so anyone with a computer can get a CERB handle. Making an assumption like the one above is just, well, an assumption. Big difference: I do not go around saying so-and-so is to be avoided because she is B&S or she is (include whatever you want here) based on MY personal experience; when a member asks a question I will sometimes use a powerful tool called Google, accessible to anyone who dares to use it ;), and I will do a quick search and provide you with the extra information I find online so you can stay safe...

I've had mine, and I recommend it. Gardasil is now approved for use in Canada for all sexually active women up to age 45. This specific vaccine protects against the four most common main strains of HPV - the 2 (strains 16 & 18 ) which cause 70% of all cervical cancers, and the 2 (strains 6 & 11) which cause 90% of all warts. Like Jessica, I've also had the Twinrix (Hep A & B) vaccines. Both give me an extra tiny bit of peace of mind. Can you post this "respectable source" and what exactly you think is exaggerated? It's not an opinion that HPV can cause cervical cancer, or genital warts, it is fact. It's also true that you can have HPV with no adverse health affects at all. It all depends on the strain(s) contracted... But why take the risk? The medical community pretty much agrees that the results have been a staggering achievement in the reduction of HPV cases in people who have been vaccinated, cutting infection rates by more than half! Also, with very little adverse reactions to the actual vaccine. And actually most health plans do cover it. Alternatively, it is considered a health expense claim for self employed individuals (SPs) when filing our taxes. I don't know how common it is among other sex-workers, as I can only take care of myself, and do what I can to protect my own health as I see fit.

That we all need to be saved. Back off Captain Save a Ho! lol.

I'm definitely in! Each one gets better and better :)

Woke up and it was as hard as a rock , see a good looking girl it was hard , have a quicky at lunch cause it was hard, get highway head cause it was hard, before dinner of course because it got hard, get into bed and it was instantly hard ! Ahh the eighties how times have changed !

Hey guys! Just wanted to you let you know I'm still alive and kicking. I'm still providing my sensual amazing massage! However I'm currently only able to provide outcalls; I can come to you! Please feel free to message me on here or email me. Look forward to hearing from you! Once I'm able to provide incall will let you all know! ;) Thanks! S

My only exercise is sex and shopping :)

This is what it would look like!

Another option would be for you to leave a message, stating that you do not want a call back. When a call has been missed by such a short time, you will get some providers calling you back (a longer length of time, maybe not so much).

Add says she is 19 years old and that is incorrect by 8 to 12 year (my best guess). Can not swear if the pics on the add are really her ,and one time in her life ,because they do not show her face . However the girl that came to my hotel was 30 to 40 lbs heavier than the body pics posted on BP. Girl was in very bad shape due to drug abuse. I am not talking about a bit of weed smoking I am referring to hard core drug abuse. When I opened the door of my hotel to let her in I got an additional visitor with her. She landed with a guy who was her bodyguard / pimp whatever. He said he was there to collect money and make sure everything went ok. We had an exchange of words, ect and out the door he went. I am not sure if they landed with another motive but being the person I am , i didn't give them any chance. I believe this is a case of bait and switch because of the pics and info advertised . It is also a dangerous situation when a third unexpected , unwanted person barrels in through the door. I guess I can take part of the blame as I should have done my homework on the 24/7 agency. Either way everyone needs to be warned about the practices that this agency conducts. STAY AWAY !!!!!!

1) Oh boy... 2) Oh boy! 3) OH BOY!!! Somewhat more seriously: 1) I hope I look calmer than I feel 2) I hope she smiles when we first see each other 3) OH BOY!!! (yeah, that one is still the same)

Additional Comments: And one more :)

Could someone tell me exactly what the purpose of a "mens-only" forum would be? What would be posted in it? Who would gain access? How would we screen them? Access to the SP-only forum, per the FAQ: Like Cat, I am uneasy about what information could be shared behind closed doors. With a review or recommendation, I see what people write about me. I have the option to ask the member in question to change what they have written, or to contact a mod. Same with forum posts. I'm aware that information is sometimes shared via PM, and there is already the potential there for inaccurate or misleading information to be shared -- I don't think we need another venue for this. We have folks already posting private information on the forum occasionally -- addresses for incall locations, for example -- and at least in a public venue these things are flagged and removed quickly. How would a private forum be moderated, who would do it, and what would the rules be?

A big misconception is that we don't pay taxes and are part of the "underbelly" of society. In general anything negative about a person is usually attributed to someone who is in this business-lifestyle- a preconceived notion for many. Unfortunately many people will continue to think negativly about this profession-lifestyle until someone in government has the balls to completely legalize it, allowing it to be treated like any other business. It should be understood that any business has and is run by people- good and bad. There are doctors, lawyers, CEO's, CFO's, judges, people in all professions that abuse drugs, cheat, shirk the tax man, yet anytime someone is involved in the "sex" industry red flags arise and misconceptions are made. For those who openly admit to this being their occupation continue to represent yourselves as the ladies and gentlemen that you are, eventually and hopefully it will be yourselves that dispel all those misconceptions. After all, if we hold ourselves to higher standards it will be hard for others not to.

Easy ... First One is LEGAL: Most people in Canada think prostitution in Canada is illegal. It is actually perfectly legal (if you follow the law correctly). It is not a "gray" area either... if done in private (not in a bawdy house IE. Regular place of prostitution) like a hotel room or out call to the guys house... with no public solicitation with someone over 18 and no one other then the lady herself is making money from the call... it's completely legal here in Canada. People need to stop watching American TV and thinking we follow some sort of American law! Second: Drugs. People assume that all ladies in this industry serious drug addicts and are in it to support drug habits. I have never met a serious drug addict who owns a computer - let along uses one. Third: STI/STD's Probably 100 times more safe with a pro who uses condoms as opposed to the girl you picked up drunk in the bar and "took a uncovered chance with!" most of the ladies practice safe sex as being sick with a sti/std is not good for business!! Fourth: Pimps and forced prostitution Steetwalkers and escorts are often grouped into the same group. Not the same! Fifth: Ladies taken advantage of. Often people think this is done against the ladies will or she is being taken advantage of...

Good afternoon gentlemen, First I would like to greatly apologize to the CERB members for posting misleading photos on BP. My name is Nichole and I am a Quebecoise advertiser (Was on Escorts Canada but they removed my ad because I was using these photos on BP causing them to receive complaints). My description and pictures on Escorts Canada were always 100% real and truly me as I have verified with Escorts Canada. Some of the pictures on BP of costumes and fantasy pieces were not me and they have now all been ERASED. I WILL ONLY POST ACTUAL PHOTOS OF MYSELF ON ALL SITES GOING FORWARD. I will clearly state my services and restrictions so that there is no confusion. I will only be able to offer mild to moderate submissive services, no longer hardcore due to some traumatic injuries. I am apologizing and asking the members to give me another chance. I will work extremely hard to rebuild my reputation with this community. Thank you for this opportunity. Deepest apologies, Nichole :icon_cry:

Happy Birthday MellyBelly!! Hope you have a speedy recovery!!!

EC has agreed to let Nichole back online with us. Let's hope nicole no longer advertises on any site (Include BP or other sites like) with fake photos. This will be her last chance.

The lovely ladies from CMJ will be there as always :)

I use so many supplements and herbs for different things. I'm sure I'll forget some. For colds/flu/sore throat - oregano oil (capsules as the tincture is so horribly nasty), pau d'arco, vit C/zinc For bacterial infections - same as above plus goldenseal Homeopathic remedies as well but depend on the symptoms. Digestive enzymes with meals, acidophilus, and a new item for me - Histamine- Diamine Oxidase Enzyme (food intolerance support) product which I just started today. http://www.iherb.com/Naturally-Vitamins-Histame-Food-Intolerance-Support-30-Capsules/38748 Omega 3 oils, liquid multi, For energy I take a variety of herbs but switch them up.. rhodiola, licorice root, ashwaganda, astragalus. Eyebright for my eyes, Ginger for heartburn (sometimes I take the chewable ginger gravol or other ginger chews) I use a lot of herbs or other food items in my cooking, turmeric, ginger, cinnamon, coconut oil, coconut milk, raw cacao, cilantro, olive oil, grapeseed oil, garlic etc etc.. For liver detox, alpha lipoic acid, milkthistle/dandelion/artichoke. http://www.iherb.com/Now-Foods-Silymarin-Milk-Thistle-Extract-2X-300-mg-200-Vcaps/13870 I just watched a great documentary about herbal medicine/shamansim in the Peruvian jungle where participants with severe illnesses went for 30 days.. 'the sacred science'. Really good! http://www.thesacredscience.com/

Hello darlings, Cum get naughty in the eastend this week! I'm only working a little this week so don't miss out! Call 613 523 6199 or PM me to pre-book. Hurry before it's too late! oxoxo Wednesday 3-10 Friday - Halloween party in the westend! Saturday 9-10

Happy Birthday! Hope you have a good one!

I have only experienced it twice but i enjoyed both times very much. The first time the girl didn't know what had happened but i enjoyed it. Having it happen means i am doing a good job. Thats what i want. Having a girl enjoy herself with me is as big if not bigger than me cumming. Women are so beautiful lets show we appreciate them.

I am going to be in Ottawa the second week of June. I am visiting Kanata and would like to know good GFE and FBSM providers in Kanata and near the Ottawa airport. Any recommendations with phone number or emails or websites to connect with reliable providers will be greatly appreciate it.

I lost over 40 lbs almost 2 years ago, and a massage was my treat to myself...what a can of worms that opened up lol Anyway...eating healthy is probably 80% of the process. I do all the gym stuff (cardio, weights) 3x a week, hockey, golf etc, and also added HOT yoga in in the last 6 months....It's great! You may even see the odd sp or ma there ;-)

The manager Louise will welcome you with a hug. Gabby the bartender is hot and very provocative. Anita, well she looks like she should be dancing but is a bubbly waitress that will make you smile. The girls are down to earth and they won't jump you as soon as you walk in. Many can carry a conversation and are playful. The VIP rooms are more like cubicle that are open (too bad). But most girls are willing to go the extra mile - YMMV. If you want extra, ask them if they go upstairs.

Well, thank you for the vote of confidence on my baking skills, i appreciate it! I can sure give it a try .... but then again, while we are on the topic of not-so-secret ingredients, should i reveal my secret for ... cupcake frosting, then??? :icon_eek:

And I agree of course that the kissing analogy is not a good comparison. Your very explanation as to why it isn't a good comparison is one of the reasons I changed my view on the private section in the first place. So of course that comparison doesn't hold up. If I thought it did than I wouldn't have changed my mind. My reason for bringing up the comparison was to convey that Prior to my changing my mind about the private section my error in thinking was not inspired by malicious intentions but rather an unrealistic perception of how the private section would have run. I realize now that it wouldn't work like that.

It hinges, crucially, on the exact nature of these things that happened or didn't happen, and how reasonable it is to expect sexual services to be dispensed for cash like pushing buttons on a vending machine. Nobody here is defending the right of anyone to commit outright fraud -- arranging for a "boyfriend" to storm into the room and chase a client away, or to smack someone over the head with a lead pipe and steal his wallet. If that kind of stuff happens, then YES the client should have recourse. And you CAN go to the police and pursue the usual legal remedies. Instead, we're talking about something else: what specific acts took place during a session, and how/how often/how well as perceived by the client, and the discretion the SP has in the delivery of something agreed upon in advance. We're talking about the nature of ANY agreement for sexual services, and the ethics of considering such agreements to be binding (upon threat of withholding or reclaiming the fee). This is why I balk at the term "contract" to do X, Y, and Z, and instead would go only as far as "general, nonbinding agreement" to go there only provided she remains willing when the time comes. Regardless of the discussion up front, the fee, in full, buys only the SP's preparation, her time for the session, the setting she provides (for an incall), the personal engagement during that time, and the strong probability of some intimate play -- but never its guarantee. If you thought the money was buying you a list of acts, and everything else just came free, then you've misunderstood the transaction from the very beginning. It's the attempt to push the opposite idea: "no, I've paid, now you MUST do X! DO IT! Or give me my money back!" that I find unsettling and has that disturbing vibe mentioned earlier. 'Cause it's about exerting power over someone else regarding intimate acts -- and you just don't get to do that, not even as a sex work client. Nobody's money buys them that right.

My take on it ... A ladies private section is very valuable and provides safety among the ladies....cause they realllllly need it !!!! unfortunately.......and maybe even supports comradarie and soothes the atmosphere among the ladies working side by side in the industry ....I don't know...just surmising. Worst case a guy might not get his rocks off with a certain chosen provider or several maybe. Life goes on. A private section among the boys has the potential to destroy reputations and careers and livelyhoods of the ladies and in some cases their kids wellbeing. Even if moderated that sometimes will not and cannot prevent irreputable damage IMO. Life doesn't just go on and heartbreak and hard times can be involved..... Use the PM system and recco's fellas status quo is my opinion. That's all I got.

Thanks Cleo, the rest of the messages really were taking on the tone of "my way or the highway", or "because I said so". You are actually taking the time to explain the reasoning as you see it. Okay, I understand now, I guess my perspective was that most blocked numbers were just people seeking info, because that's what I would've done. But it looks like there's another group of people that are just creeps, which I hadn't realized were so prevalent. I wonder if these creeps show up depending on where you advertise? Where did you used to advertise before, and did it have an effect on which type of callers you got?

A treehouse? Really? I soooo want to be a part of this. I have a male patterned brain, does that count? I have a strap on with testicles? Please let me in? A tree house! I can bring beer, hotdogs and marshmallows; and I have mad cheap decorating skills. We could have a 108 flat screen HD, dish, pool table and antler chandeliers with lazy boy recliners all around! Wait, this is sounding very Fat Bastards... I'm not sure what purpose a male private section would serve but if our boys want it, I will support it. But I resent that I can't participate in it because I am so much better at understanding testosterone than estrogen!!!! cat

Aree about Nicole not very good. Tried Candance had a good time was gfe would repeat.

nice one lol - hate autocorrect, turned it off for similar reasons!

Believe it or not I saw Don Jon just the other day and was pleasantly surprised. What I thought was going to be a predictable film turned out to have more substance and less fluff than I had planned on. Joseph Gordon-Levitt wrote, directed and starred in this very enjoyable flick. Julianne Moores character was not what I was expecting and I really enjoyed what direction they went with her.

Just as I put in the other related thread, a huge turn on. I love having my face buried between a girls legs and having her squirt on me. I could do it all day :)

For me I like to have a little chit chat while I am leading them to my massage room, from there if they have questions or would like to discuss in room tipping or what to expect we can have a conversation (before we start with the time paid for room) from there it's off to the shower I like to offer my assistance, either way I start the shower and excuse myself for a second to let them disrobe and settle then I return to start our time together. I think every MA has their own way and preferences, but this is just my take. Kisses XoX

I, for one, miss her.

Not to mention a serious lack of agencies and spas in Saint John. Or ones who advertise on Cerb, at least. :icon_cry:

Saw "The Butler". Very good movie. Very heart warming movie about the black civil right movement. Thru the eyes of a Butler who served many presidents. Worth watching

Mod I understand that you saw verification photos but withpassions story is all to common with Nichole, in person she appears much older and nothing like the photos. If she's telling you no one has left her before she is not telling the truth. I have heard from more than one disapointed client, not just from Ottawa, from other cities as well like Kingston and out west. Can all these guys be wrong ? My advice to her is to be honest with herself about who she is and what she has to offer, there's someone for everyone and if she's more upfront about herself,she will appeal to clients looking for exactly that rather than promoting one thing and offering another. I'm all for second chances as well but it's not like she hasn't been made aware of the fact that the use of fake pics was not cool, yet she continued to do so over and over again NEVER in any ads explaining that the photos were for "demonstration" purposes she only came up with that when finally confronted by you. I'm so passionate about this type of deception not only for the customer who works hard for their money, but for the providers who don't play games, who use real photos and go to great time and expense to use real photos. When someone like Nichole advertises in a respected venue like EC it makes the customer question the validity and authenticity of the EC site and question every other SP's REAL photos. No surprise I voted no. Of course as I've said over and over it's your sandbox and I respect whatever choice you've made and will not raise the matter with her here in this forum. I will respect the popular consensus of this group and hope that she has truly reformed and can appreciate the damage she's done.