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While some folk may be in denial or sexually repressed, for the most part I think we each get to define our sexual identity for ourselves. To be clear I'm not suggesting that being gay or straight is a conscious choice. I'm just saying that the only person who can answer the question about whether they are gay or not is the person themselves. I don't get to tell another person that, because of a certain thought or act, they are gay, bi, or straight. Sexuality is not always a clear or unchanging line, which also confuses the issue. Whenever we try to categorize sexuality there are always going to be gray areas. But basically a stray thought or fantasy (or even deed) does not by itself define a person. Indeed, most everyone has fantasies about things they wouldn't ever have any real desire to do in real life, or perhaps only on rare occasion or under specific circumstances. How a person self identifies overall has more to do with their general, overarching desire and personality.

Im always excited to see my regulars. It's such a compliment when someone wants to see you more then once. That's a big turn on. Meeting someone new certainly is exciting but in a different way. I'm always hoping I live up to and beyond their expectations.

If a Nordic style approach was adopted, I am sure that established providers will still persevere. It's the new ladies coming into the game who clients will have to make sure are not LE. I am not personally not worried about it because I do not believe in the long run that the Police will enforce this anymore than they have been with the current laws. It would take too much manpower and resources.

I never used to show my face, when I came back into the business 4 years ago - I decided since those I consider family know what i do, I have nothing to hide. I feel it has benefited my business (i have not been walked out on for not being the woman in the photo) my photos get stolen less as I show my face and personally I think it helps establish a bit of trust from those I am yet to meet. I have never been recognized in public by someone I have never met (actually once but a joke of a news reporter stalking me in an airport does not count) Showing my face is the right choice for me, but not for everyone.

Another batch... Not planning on it, but as others have said, this is very much a wait-and-see thing. For established providers, I think the fact that you're an established provider will suffice. I imagine entrants to the industry would find things... hard. I've never been one to go chasing after whoever's the shiny new SP this week, so this wouldn't actually change things much for me, but it might for those who do. And I also imagine it'd be a significant deterrent to new clients. Yes, definitely, although for me I'm mostly concerned with how intelligent someone seems to be. Assertiveness or being passionate about some debate doesn't bother me, but coming across as stupid is fatal. No. Best? The variety, and the fact that I can not feel guilty about my aversion to any kind of commitment. Worst? The stigma which means I can't (OK, won't) talk about it, and my continued failure to win the lottery. The latter. I like to have a chance to chat to whoever I'm with. I try really hard not to post anything like this for precisely this reason. I don't want to be one of those guys who doesn't follow through, and I also don't want to be in a position where I feel I ought to go and see someone - that takes all the fun out of it! Yes. Everyone has bad days. Now if she started to make a habit of having bad days then I'd re-evaluate things, but a one-off is entirely forgivable. Probably the latter, but that's because I'm really horribly bad at asking for things. I don't see that you have any option than to charge for social time, or you'll fall prey to guys who will just never book for a "real" appointment and give you all kinds of crap when you turn them down. Quite a few ladies make it clear in their rates that longer dates are expected to be mixed social and private time. Also: if there's someone you've met and like, you could always ask him if he wants to go out off the clock. I've done this in the past with one or two CERB ladies... although it's ALWAYS been at her instigation. I work on the basis that it's fine for her to ask me if I want to go for a drink off the clock, but if I ask her then I'm either paying her social rate or just another douchebag looking for free stuff. And, of course, they've always been purely social dates; the rest of it is for paid appointments. It helps everyone to keep the boundaries clear. No idea. Sorry! Can't help you on most of that. On last minute vs booking ahead: for me, it depends how busy I am and how predictable life is being. Sometimes I can schedule well in advance and be confident of keeping the appointment, but quite a bit of the time the risk of having to cancel - possibly at short notice - is unacceptably high. Even if I cancel a day or two in advance, I don't want to be that guy who books and then cancels all the time. When I can't commit, I'll do last-minute stuff as and when I have the opportunity.

I posted this on another thread earlier today. If I understand the Nordic model at all it is just as crazy as the existing laws. Presently prostitution is legal but virtually everything that allows it to happen is illegal. The Nordic model would make prostitution legal but make it an illegal service to purchase? How crazy is that?????? However, my continued participation would probably be based on the same things that have guided me over the past three years. Technically every time I visited a lady at her hotel or home I was breaking the bawdy house laws but that did not deter me. For the most part my eventual meeting with a lady only happened after significant prior communications so that at least for me there was always a comfort level, and I cannot see that changing. I would not be concerned if I followed the same same process that I was going to be involved in any sort of a "sting" operation. For ladies I wonder how much more of their time would be taken with texts and emails in order to give clients that sense of ease. I know many ladies already do that but I wonder for them if that will now just add on one additional "chore" too do that will be required in order to do business. Right now it's all just thinking out loud.

There was a recent thread regarding good restaurants in Halifax but given all the traveling that CERB Members do what about the Best Restaurants in Canada... Ladies where do you like to eat.... where should we take you? I am in St. John's NL and I would recommend any of the following St. John's resturants: Atlantica Resturant - Amazing food wonderful ocean view and fantastic accomodations... enjoy a great meal then hang out in a jacuzzi tub overlooking the ocean with your favorite lady http://http://atthebeachhouse.ca/ Raymonds - Fine Dining in Downtown St. john's http://http://www.raymondsrestaurant.com/ Bistro Sofia - great food and excellent service at amazing prices... deserts are out of this world http://http://www.bistrosofia.net/ Black Sea - same owners as Bistro Sofia but more of a fine dining edge. Boutique hotel upstairs... 2 birds one stone http://http://www.blacksearestaurantbar.com/ Blue on Water... excellent food... great sea food.. boutique hotel.... see above lol http://http://www.blueonwater.com/ Portobellos - Great Dining... wonderful view http://http://www.portobellosrestaurant.ca/ That's a start... if your traveling to NL and want some advice on dining please feel free to PM me.. we gave amazing restaurants in this city. Now where should I eat in your City?

My vote definitely go PassionVitto at ALO. I rarely have wet kiss with service provider, but could not resist sensual PassionVitto's. Her cuddling was so warm I felt myself melt into the air.

And for what its worth, my submitted responses to the last three questions. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Sex workers should have the opportunity to conduct their business in a safe and professional way by being allowed to hire support staff, whether it be drivers, body guards accountants, investment advisers, and so on. They should be allowed to lease or rent discrete premises to operate from. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? The decision is rightly based on a desire to help ensure the safety of sex workers. Any law that is passed that causes the trade to be driven underground or into "hiding," will provide opportunity for exploitation and violence against sex workers. Canada already has laws that cover issues such as underage sex, slavery, illegal immigration, abuse and assault. No new law need be implemented that makes this trade illegal for consenting adults, be they sex worker or client. It should be treated as a business such as any other. Specifically, the law about bawdy houses was declared unconstitutional. This decision should be upheld to allow for sex workers to be able to conduct business in a known location that will keep them from having to go to "unknown" and potentially unsafe locations. Secondly, the law about living on the avails of prostitution was declared unconstitutional other than in "circumstances of exploitation." The exploitation factor can be addressed with existing laws in the criminal code. Finally the third law involving communicating for the purposes of prostitution should make public, as in on the street solicitation, illegal for both clients and sex workers. Communication on a personal level by various forms of media and telecommunication devices should be allowed in order for both parties to have confidence about safe encounters. 6. Are you writing on behalf of an organization? If so, please identify the organization and your title or role: I am writing as an occasional client whose wife has passed away who at times wishes companionship in a safe and non-threatening environment for all parties involved. Proper research will indicate I believe that many of the stereotypes that government seems to be acting upon are in fact untrue.

I really don't have any clients that their job is a turn off...really it doesn't matter. As far as jobs go that may turn me on i don't have that either...some jobs are very interesting though. I do find that guys that see me the most are the artsy type...artists of all sorts. Many doctors too. I guess being a doctor is an artist if you think about it. That being said a job is a job is a job.

How will I deal with it ? Won't change a thing.... I will visit with the exact same amazing ladies in the exact same cities as I do now ... life will still be good. Not what it should be legal wise ....but good good good. :) My name is John Happy is my first name. My Mamma didn't name me Happy but she sure as the dickens didn't name me John either. She shoulda said.... Lee You are gonna grow up and be a "John" Fuckin rights :bigclap::boobies::butt::69::bj::Cunning: CHEERS FOLKS :chug::chug::chug:

It's Hell to be retired. I have to fill my day by watching Canada win gold in Women's curling this morning and now watching Canada play the hated Americans for gold in Women's hockey.

I have bright pink hair, I have loads of tattoos, I do some fetish modelling,The Sex industry and the modeling are interrelate I have no family living in Toronto I don't think I've notice a lot of change from showing my face or not. Except that maybe some clients appreciate the honesty of doing so?

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For fine dining in Charlottetown there are a number of choices but perhaps a number 1 choice might be The Pilot House.

I have a few: Toronto: The Rushton http://www.therushton.com Saint John: Thandi http://www.singhdining.com/thandi/ & The Urban Deli http://urbandeli.ca London: Abruzzi http://abruzzi.ca/#italian-inspired-cuisine North Bay: Churchills http://www.churchills.ca Gander: Bistro on Roe http://www.bistroonroe.com Corner Brook: Gitano's http://www.gitanos.ca

Lone Star is great tex mex food. In Ottawa and Kingston not sure if its in any other citys.

No you were right the first time. According to this handy colour chart, purple is a colour: Guys, you should print this chart out and keep it in your wallet so that you'll know when a lady says "Please hand me the spindrift cami" you'll have a chance, albeit slim, of handing her the right one.

I was going to say the same thing.

I hope my response gives you some insight. I have a client who loves to have sex with me while watching male porn(man on man).The first time I met and experienced this with him I did ask him questions as it made me wonder, he just loves having sex with women and watching male porn. He did say he's never been with a man so... I have to say watching it turns me on as well. I love watching men have sex with one another, worshiping their parts, after all I love their parts as well. But I also get hot watching women with women, however I have no sexual desires toward women. I just think it's hot watching people became aroused and enjoying each other whether it be man/man, women/ women, man/women. People need not worry about labels, what is right or wrong(between adults) who's with who. They should just embrace pleasure and go with it. I hope my answer helps.

I agree that it would be difficult to enforce, but all they need is a few high profile arrests making news to put the fear of god into the rest of us. Also, how could we continue posting reviews of providers online? There's no issue now because paying for sex isn't illegal, but once it is we'd be admitting to a criminal activity every time we posted. Seems to me that sites like Cerb would have to evolve into pure advertising sites. The providers could post their ads, but the clients could no longer interact the way we do now. Using aliases is no real defense, after all.

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Sophia you forgot to mention you have one of the nicest bums on Cerb.

Thank you so much, Halifax, for the hospitality :) I enjoyed visiting with you!!! See you in April!!!! Xoxo

Originally Posted by cristycurves WHY? send out penis pictures WHY? Egads, who really knows but I can make two guesses. One is that the guy is an exhibitionist and get satisfaction out of sharing the image. For others, I wonder if it is because they think it will either impress or please the lady. After all, a lot of men would be thrilled to receive a picture from a lady of her private bits; perhaps they are automatically assuming the reverse is true. Either way, it's a shame that random men are either oblivious or immature enough to assume that unsolicited pics are going to win them any points. Better to assume if a lady actually wants to see a junk shot, she'll ask! :) .................. Originally Posted by cristycurves Please realize that breasts aren't charmin toilet tissue... Oh, you make me laugh and cringe at the same time. I think your question just shows how important it is to communicate. I think one of the best things a lady can do is offer instruction on how she likes to be touched, as (and this is both terrible and wonderful!) no two people are the same. And even the same person will be in a different mood day to day. Offering instruction need not be a negative thing, but can in fact be quite enticing with the right tone. After all, most guys want to offer pleasure, so coming right out and seductively saying how you like to be touched will often be both a turn on for the guy, and hopefully save the lady some uncomfortable groping. ..................... Originally Posted by Summer Could more of you please comment on what you will do if they implement the Nordic model? This is a real concern to many of the women here. Will you drop out of the community? What can we do to ensure that you feel safe booking? I'm mostly holding off until I see what actually happens and how it gets enforced. I'm anxious but hopeful that those who--like today--are discreet and respectable--will not generally be bothered, in which case it would make little difference. We'll see. .................. Originally Posted by Raven Rain can you Gentlemen please explain to some gentlemen have their profile private;other than the one worded answer privacy. I feel that being able to look other a potential clients profile helpful sometimes before meeting them. I often wonder if the people that do are either new or seldom visitors, who just aren't around enough to realize they can feel comfortable and secure without a private profile. How many of them set it to private when they first sign up and then never give it a second thought, not realizing they are mostly only hurting themselves by not allowing the ladies to visit their page in turn. I think a lot of new hobbyists are very paranoid about the industry, and it probably seems like a good function especially when they first sign up. .................. Quote: Originally Posted by Amelie I guess my question is, should ladies charge for social time? Should I include the option of free meet up before a date when someone books a certain amount of hours? Absolutely do whatever you feel comfortable with. At the end of the day there really is no "should" other than what works for you. Personally, I don't think you should feel guilty at all about charging a social rate; if anything, it's a nice bonus that you offer the option at all. If you choose to offer an option where some social time is available with a certain booking length/type, that is up to you as well. I think you have to accept that nothing you do will please everybody, so at the end of the day you might just as well do what you feel good about. ......... Quote: Originally Posted by kimmyxoxo What is your absolute favorite thing about hobbying? Whether it's setting up the meeting, the sex itself or the anticipation of meeting a beautiful stranger... And also what is the thing you hate most about hobbying? That one's easy! Best thing: getting the chance to spend time making wonderful memories with wonderful women. Worst thing: not being able to do it more often! I'm not in a position where I can indulge in a rendezvous very often. On the plus side, it's made the encounters I have had very special. But they've been such good experiences that they make me wish I was in a position where I could see even more ladies, and also get back to repeat with those that have been so good to me.

I don't think just watching gay porn means that they are gay or bi. It could mean that they are bi-curious though. Anyone else have an opinion on this?

Well, I had my first experience last night with a service provider in Moncton. I tried to connect with a couple and wasn't able to make it work for a number of reasons. I found it was incredibly nerve wracking at first as I had never done so outside of the comfort of my hotel room on the road. I must say I was satisfied with the experience and with the rush I had in doing so. I equate it to being a adrenaline rush for the nympho in me. I won't post a review as I didn't discuss it before hand with her but I truly filled a need that I had lacking.

Additional Comments: Sweet Escapes last post about not receiving clothing as a gift often made me wonder... What types of gifts to you beautiful ladies normally receive and what would you like to receive? The usual gifts (as I am travelling and have limited space) are VS gift cards, Wine/Champage, Air Canada gift cards, flowers, jewelry & books. As it is a gift and not required, I definitely prefer something that comes from personal thought as I enjoy things most when they have a meaning behind them.(that being said, if your not sure, I have suggestions listed on the FAQ of my website)

Here is the link again everybody: http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cons/curr-cours/proscons-conspros/index.html#2014_02_17 And here are my answers ;) Concise I am not, but then again, I am very passionate about this topic. I will be writing to my MP as well, and to the Minister of Justice. I do sincerely encourage all of you to let the government know where you stand on these issues ;) Thank you all in advance! 1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. No please no! Lots of ordinary citizens (your fathers, brothers, fellow employees, and employers) use the services of sex workers. They do so discreetly behind closed doors in ways that do not affect other community members. Lots of ordinary citizens are in sexless relationships/marriages that would not even endure if not for the availability of sexual services. Furthermore, there are disabled individuals out there, and others with poor social skills/social anxiety, or otherwise disadvantaged in the dating market, who could get no sexual relief were it not for the services of sex workers. Consensual adult prostitution should Not be criminalized. The government does Not belong in the bedrooms of our nation. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. No again! We are autonomous individuals. The selling of sexual services is very similar to that of other therapeutic services, e.g. massage/body-work, even chiropractic treatments. Often hands, elbows, knees, and other body-parts are employed in the delivery of these personal services. Often there is full nudity of the client and/or partial nudity of the therapist. Yet we don't criminalize any of these services (nor should we!), and we should not criminalize ordinary Canadians who choose to use their hands/breast/mouth/genitalia in the delivery of erotic services. To criminalize an individual's autonomous use of their body is a huge infringement on human rights. Please do not take us back to the dark ages. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. According to Toronto Police, there are currently 200+ incalls operating out of the city's many condo buildings. Additionally on any given day, individual sex workers or agencies rent out hotel rooms all over the city and the sex workers aka providers welcome clients there. This is all done discreetly. The clients of sex workers and the sex workers themselves value their privacy and most would not want to be seen walking in or out of a large known brothel. We also have massage parlours all over the city, many of which have become full-service operations. Even those offer a discreet and safe location for providers & clients. In my opinion, any limitations to sex work should be achieved through zoning by-laws. E.g. stand-alone brothels should be subject to the same types of zoning as the current massage parlours. Those operating out of hotels/condos should be left alone as they are currently tolerated. (Again, most have every interest to operate discreetly, but should there be any noise complaints, those should be dealt way the same way any noise complaint would be handled.) With regards to street-based sex work which still takes place in some cities across Canada, this could again be handled through zoning, by having the city designate certain streets as 'strolls.' If someone is caught soliciting in public outside of a designated stroll, they could be served with a public nuisance ticket similar to a parking ticket. We should Definitely Not criminalize these most vulnerable of citizens, which by the way only make up 5% of the total sex worker population. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. No again. There are professional agencies out there that are no different than a regular talent booking agent. They provide the women or men working there with a safe working location (hotel/condo), a professional web presence, professional photographs, and advertising services. For all this, they deserve a cut of the earnings in the same way an art gallery keeps 50% of the proceeds from the sale of an artist's painting. The only time a 3rd party should be criminalized is if they can be proven to engage in coercive practices (and Canada already has criminal laws against coercion.) 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Please understand that prohibition doesn't work. This industry still exists all over the US, and ordinary citizens (clients & providers) have to be extra-careful and perform additional screening just to make sure neither is dealing with LE (law enforcement.) Making criminals out of ordinary citizens for no other reasons than that they were exercising autonomy of their bodies without harming anyone or disturbing other community members is pure insanity, and no way to serve the people. The 'Nordic Model' of one-sided criminalization is just as bad. Most clients are ordinary, well-behaved citizens (fellow community members.) They just want to discreetly meet their needs without causing harm or interfering with anyone. The only clients that should be criminalized are those engaging in violence/rape or theft, and I know Canada already has criminal laws against assault, rape, and theft. Blanket criminalization of all clients as per the Nordic Model, would make criminals out of ordinary well-behaved citizens. Furthermore, to avoid being caught by LE, the activity would go further 'in the shadows' and lead to the same safety concerns for sex workers as the laws found unconstitutional by the SCC. Decriminalization is the *only* sane way to go re: consensual adult prostitution, just like we have decriminalized gay sex a long time ago. Pls. also understand that the human trafficking saga is grossly exaggerated by misguided moralistic groups. In real cases of human trafficking and coercion, we already have laws in Canada that deal with these issues. 6. Are you writing on behalf of an organization? If so, please identify the organization and your title or role: No, but I am writing from my perspective as a self-employed independent sex worker, who has been in the industry on & off for a few years. Throughout this time, I have worked out of many hotels, and out of three different condo buildings. Before working independently, I did work for a couple of escort agencies, which provided me with a condo location to work out of, a professional web presence, and professional pictures (all things I was grateful for as I wasn't in a position to pay for these things myself at the time.) I graduated university at the top of my class. I engage in sex work out of my own volition and have never been coerced by anyone. In my experience meeting many sex workers, we have been more concerned about being criminalized by misguided laws than by any perceived harms from clients or 'pimps.' I do not deserve to be made a criminal in this great country of ours, nor do my wonderful clients who are professionals and business owners from all over Canada. I beg you to listen to the voices of sex workers and clients. Studies have been done already, e.g. http://www.johnsvoice.ca. I pray that Canada continues to be a light-house of human rights throughout the world. Sex workers and their clients deserve the same human rights as any other Canadians. Thank you for reading, and for considering my opinion.

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This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.

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Ok, I admit my ignorance on how the legal system works in Canada, but answer me this: The SCC has stated that government must write fair laws governing prostitution which adhere to their ruling. We all know that the Nordic model will never pass muster when it is challenged again, and the government no doubt is aware as well. How then is it possible for unjust laws to be passed regardless, without any checks and balances at the forefront? In effect, it renders the SCC decision moot for a period of time until it is again dragged through the courts. In light of this, should not a law of this nature be subject to approval by the SCC prior to being implemented? It would certainly expedite the process and save everyone a lot of grief.

There are 2 independent MA's that I know of that tour to St. John's. I can't speak for them, however they do return often enough.

I have had the joy of trying it out (brother works for a ford dealership). It actually is a neat feature and since the computer has the ability to analyze and respond faster than a person does, it's a good feature for some. AFAIK, it does compensate for wheel spin and positioning, etc. All you need to do is select the gears, it does the rest. I agree that it does take a bit away from the joy of driving, but at the same time, when I'm parked on a crowded street seeing someone parallel park by my car, I'd much prefer them having this option than watching my bumpers getting dinged.

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I don't use email as a contact method because it's just 'too available' for anyone to use and a way to hide behind something. I always ask people who want to see me to call me even if they initially text. Psychic abiilities run in my family and I have a very strong intuiiton and sixth sense. I am very good at reading people, their body language and their voice. I know within 30 seconds in a phone conversation if I want to meet them or not. I base it on their tone of voice, how they speak to me and the questions they ask. If I don't like what I'm hearing, it's a no go. And I've also had those big bells go off and I listen to them. No exceptions. When they show up, at that point I am reading their body language and if they can't make eye contact or acting in a weird manner, I know they have something to hide. If something is making me feel uncomfortable and I can't put my finger on it, I will ask them to leave. It hasn't happened often. There are some people I haven't clicked with and wouldn't see again but they didn't make me feel so uncomfortable or felt as though I were in danger that I had to cancel the appt. I am pretty good at adapting to people so I just go with it and be professional. I don't judge on looks. Politeness, cleanliness and respect towards me goes a long way. I deal with many different personalities, fully accepting this and can adapt to it well while still being able to offer a nice encounter. If someone lies there like a dead fish or isn't interactive ( sometimes they just want to relax which I understand), I make the best of it. If someone is pushy or rude/disprespectful in certain ways like using rude language towards or doing something I don't like, I warn them. If it gets worse, I tell them it's not working out and ask them to leave. This is rare because I usually can tell over the phone beforehand esp with the type of questions where services are concerned such as the laundry list of acronyms. When people are rude or don't respect women in general, it often shows up indirectly in the phone conversation. I am very good at picking up on those things. I am a nice person and I have a lot of patience so someone would have to really do something incredibly wrong on their part for me to get very upset. I'm assertive but not in a threatening way yet I don't tolerate bullshit or allow someone to disrespect me. If a person no shows me or acts nonchlalant like my time isn't worth anything, I will make sure not to bother with them again. Act like a gentleman and there are no problems. If a person has done something and crossed the line, there is no going back even if an apology is issued. Their true colors have already been shown. I don't give second chances. It's ultimately their loss.

Swan said the law should target the demand for sexual services while helping sex-trade workers get the addiction counselling, mental-health services and training they need to get off the streets. I think I'm going to throw up. This comment is completely disgusting. I might have to join Facebook and tell him so. Everyone in Manitoba should be online completing this survey. It's a public consultation by the Justice Department on the future legislation. Have your voices heard! http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cons/curr-cours/proscons-conspros/index.html#2014_02_17

First thing to say... right now, I have no idea what I'll do, and no plans to acquire one. Entertaining though all the speculation may be, none of us really know what legislation - if any - will eventually become law. The fine details are likely to matter more than the broad direction of it, and the attitude of local LE will certainly matter more than either. Unless things change really drastically - which I doubt - I don't think seeing a well-established independent provider will be any riskier than it is today.

I agree its very nice when someone contacts you to have a post history to look at briefly. It really does help us get to know you a little bit. I am often disappointed when I'm approached for a date and the person has little or no posts. Its a lot more fun guys if you share a little bit about yourselves. At least from my point of view if we have something to talk about you are going to have a much better experience. :biggrin:

Congratulations Splitz on your first milestone Looking forward to many more posts RG

Continue to care. How could you not care at this point. But do it from a distance. Don't read her ads. Don't read her posts. Not until you can do so with some degree of dispassion, some distance. If you need to, leave CERB for a short while to give yourself a chance to be distracted by the Real World. In any event, the most important thing for you to remember is that this is your issue. Not her's. It would be tremendously unfair for you to look to her for help in this. I hate to be blunt, but it is like this. You broke it. You fix it. You are not alone. There are lots of people here at CERB that have been where you are right now. Most of them are willing to help. Chat with people - other people - not her. Good luck as you follow this path.