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Like every city my friend, it pays to plan ahead. It's saturday night.... and if no calls come early, it's a night off to enjoy yourself with friends. Just a helpful hint.

What signs? It has been explained elsewhere on this board about the process of getting a bill passed and into law. Even if they were going with the Nordic model, and that is a big "if", it would take months if not a year for it to get through the house. It is not even been drafted yet, let alone ever started going through all the steps. As for your estimate of how long before it is challenged, I think you are way off on that one as well. If the Government tries to put a law in place that clearly ignores the supreme court ruling in regards to the specific portions of the Criminal code that were struck down, then I don't think anyone would be convicted. First the Nordic model does not outlaw selling of sexual services, so then that is still a legal job, even though nobody can buy. But the Nordic model also outlaws brothels, and living off the avails, which is in direct contravention of the SCC ruling. One of the key conditions of that ruling was that selling sex was still legal. That condition is met in the Nordic model, so putting back the same restrictions would not be accepted. Judges would not convict, and most smart prosecutors would not prosecute because they do not like having their rulings overturned. The SCC ruling is a legal precedent that most defense counsels would use, and challenges and appeals to that would not take as long even if there was a conviction. The court has examined all the evidence and ruled. They will not try and put this model in place, they know what the rulings meant. However, as we see, even from the Liberal policy convention, everybody is trying to avoid taking a position. They are going to analyze it, and seek input, it will get delayed procedurally, it will die on the order paper. They know they have two choices, either outright criminalization, or regulation. They talk about Nordic to keep the uneducated masses happy, but they know it will not work.

I can't imagine any lady stay up waiting for a phone call for a possible maybe late night encounter. Just because the ladies are professional companions doesn't mean they are available 24/7...they have hours when they are available usually daytime to evening and hours when they can have their own life My experience, and I've seen ladies in small towns, like Ottawa, Hamilton and most of all Toronto, usually ladies' last call is around 9-10pm Perhaps pre booking a date with a lady is what you should do, she might be willing to accept a late night call RG

From my experience there are very few late night calls and even fewer "good" late night calls. From a business perspective, it's not worth being available when there are consistently no clients. Sorry your night wasn't enjoyable.

I hear you... the everyone wanting to book at the same time... sometime you can work your magic and make things work but lots of times is just not there.. I am an early riser.. I used to work day time before.. mornings. .. ow because I decided to go back to school I have to work evenings. ... I still get up at 5am... but nothing pisses me off more than calls at 1 or 2 am... I know I should put the phone on silent. .. but I forget because I pass out..and is that day this stupid calls come.... Now I make sure I get up and I send message to anyone that contacts me late at night to properly read adds (my hours are there) and it shows absolutely lack of respect to be contacted at that time.. I think Is simple common sense

I rarely answer my phone after midnight, unless it is pre-booked. The type of clients that call that late are generally drunk and dis-respectful. Pre-booking late night is the only way to ensure you get to see the lady you are interested in. Good luck! Wanted to add some examples of inquiries I've encountered from after midnight: 2:00 am Hey Lady, I'm horney, wanna fuck? 2:08 am Here's a picture of my junk, what can you do to it? 3:12 am Hey I have $20 do you have a car? 4:17 am Looking for some rock - do you know where I can get some? These are true examples from different people I have never met. Totally different then the ones I receive during the day. Yes, I am not in Halifax right now, but 2 of these examples came while I was in Halifax recently. Ill stick with my daytime callers.

Plagiarism (Coping text from another provider to post as your own) is NOT acceptable on cerb. Copying someone's text is the SAME as stealing someones photos. Stealing someone's text (even off another website to post it here) will get you in HOT WATER with the mods and members here on cerb. It could get you suspended or banned from cerb as well. So don't do it please. It's not nice... and I hate having my pm flooded with people telling me someone is copying someones text.

Sometimes I find during an extended visit of 2 or more hours I get the munchies lol... especially if the rendezvous happens to be right over lunch or dinner and we hadn't planned a meal. I always offer a glass of wine, a beer, or something non alcoholic depending on my guest's preference, or the time of day, and a snack is always a nice little extra. If you were offered some nibbles during an encounter, would you partake? if so, what would you most enjoy?

Following our two big hockey wins in the last two days I had to repost this.

Sorry for your "unlucky" night. For the past few months I've been up at 5-7am so not wanting or not being around for clients at 10pm or later is reasonable, imho. A spur of the moment appt , especially after 10 pm, is a shot in the dark. Perhaps pre-booking might solve your issue:) Better luck next time;)

i find the best way is to just not answer the phone. My quitting time is 9pm, but it isn't that unusual for me to sometimes just be weary of dealing with anyone new, and while i might give out my info, i am just likely to say, not available today, but I will be tomorrow. Sometimes the idea of getting ready for someone who may or may not show up is worse later at night than it is a say 2:00 pm . They may show up, and they may not, and if not that is about 45 minutes of waiting time to find out, and by that time it is close to 10pm, so my way of dealing with being tired of dealing with people for that particular day is to just not be available after 9pm. ;) Additional Comments: 9pm is my cranky time as well. My 'hours' are 9am to 9pm, with a maybe 9am in there. it depends on if i am getting up and dealing with my pets, my coffee, and opening up the drapes, blinds and so on before actually going to get showered and ready for the day. I think that some of the sps who are late night to early morning may be in hotels. Being in my own incall, I have found that day time is easily the busier time of day, 11am to 7pm roughly. But i won't see anyone after 10pm anyway, tho the phone does still ring at 2am, 3am, 4am 5am, etc. So there is definitely something happening at those times of the night. it is just a different type of client than i am willing to see. Additional Comments: Everyone has different rates. The rates for extended dates tend to be based on their full hourly rate for the first hour, and possible discounted or lower rate for the other 3. You might see her hour rate is 300, but for 4 hours as a dinner date, not full play time date, as $750. (300 plus 3x150) You might see her charge $1200 (4 x $300) . You might see her charge $600 (300 plus 3 x $100). Some sps have a 2 hour minimum, so that same sp would be 2x300 plus discounted rate x 2 If she has a $200 hour rate, same kind of mathematics will result in different rates lol. In any case, basically, as already mentioned, you will be paying a rate for all the hours she spends with you, not based entirely on what amount of that time is going to be spent on playtime. Regardless that the meal is paid for, she is a paid companion, being a companion has a rate just as providing services has a rate.

This article is by an adult movie performer telling her story, but I thought she made some really well-worded arguments and observations that many here would appreciate. http://www.xojane.com/sex/duke-university-freshman-porn-star

What's your criteria for booking an appointment with an SP? With the inspiration from Sophie's thread "NB Posters? Where are you? " , I created this one about booking criteria for a SP. Here is my ordered list for booking an appointment with an SP . 1) Reviews of the SP - The most important thing is whether the SP highly recommended. 2) Services Offered- Does SP provide services I need? 3) Personality- Best guess to determine if SP's personality suites me. 4) Attractive- Based on pics, do I feel attracted to the SP? 5) Schedule- Suitable schedule 6) Location- Discrete location is essential 7) Donation- not as important as the criterias above

Have to echo the sentiments already expressed. Plan ahead. But even if you do get in touch well ahead of time, many ladies might not be willing to book a late night appointment unless they have seen you before.

Good question. Me if being hosted I'll eat anything (no play on words intended). Usually I host and often I'll have a cheese tray made up of two or three different cheeses, crackers, olives, nuts well you get the idea I always bring two or three juices and bottled water. And before the encounter I'll email the lady asking what type of wine she would like to drink. And if she prefers something else to drink she can let me know One thing that really comes in handy seeing as I travel is a good cooler bag Anyhow, a rambling RG

Almost every day I get up and see that there were several missed calls in the middle of the night right up to 5 and 6 AM. Well I am getting up at 6 or so but I bet the person that is calling me at 5 AM is not someone I'd like to see. There must be some people out there willing to see "gentleman " around the clock otherwise requests like this would not be made.

The Daytona 500 is on! A different type of Olympics - without the snow!

WOMAN Your Body Makes you sexy Your face makes you pretty Your smile makes you beautiful... But Your Thoughts MAKE YOU ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!

I certainly cannot speak for every SP. However for myself I offer a rate for this very thing. My hourly rate is $350, however my rate for a dinner date (4hrs, 2 out 2 in) is $1100. However it TOTALLY depends on the SP, so check with the individual SP :)

From CMJpeyton's album :

Speaking for myself only my rate isn't for what I do it's for time spent together.

In regards to clientele and times of appointments, I definitely notice a difference. Business men tend to see me during their work day as it tends to be convenient. Couples I see in the evenings almost exclusively! As for my preference, anytime after 9am and before 9pm is great :)

Lee Richards I bet whatever you might have up your sleeve would be very cool. Go ahead baby push that envelope, we all love you !

Hmmm I haven't tried dancing but believe me you wouldn't want to see me dance either. I dance like Elaine Venus. Haha shhhhh your not supported to give out my secrets

Go Canada Go. Awesome of you westerners to be getting up so early to see it live. The Olympics bring people to many new sports, I have seen it at work, it is fantastic.

Absolutely, and hope very much that they book so I can :) hehehe As for nerves, I believe I have been more nervous meeting the women of cerb than the men!!

Well, I've yet to book with anyone, but I'd have to go dirk's slight reordering. Being new, I might also include "having a CERB presence" with #1. I won't be meeting with anyone unless I've seen and/or interacted with them on this site.

I would move #2 down to the #4 spot and move 3 & 4 up (the girl and therefore the experience are more important than the services offered, just my opinion), but other than that bang on.

Best wishes for a Happy Birthday Lee. Have a good one!!

Thanks for that laugh RG. I hear ya. Thanks for your patience over the last 17 days but sorry to say just two more years until it starts all over again.

Great question Jessica. I usually host and often have snacks. Fruit, chocolates, cookies/crackers, etc. I recall a special overnight once that turned into movies/popcorn in bed. That was fun! Trick is to not create too much. I once really over did it and looked like deli trays to feed an army. I realized she wasn't there for the food. Haha...but good to have a few light snacks.

Happy Birthday Lee Richards have a great day!! xo

Just make sure you wash your hands if you use A535! Cause if you take a piss you may be in for a surprise!

That's okay RG. It just proves that none of us is perfect. :)

happy birthday Lee have a good one

What does one give to a most unique and wonderful person on their birthday? In your case...anything you want *grrrr baby* Hope your day is full of pleasure and goodness and that you get a few spanks on that sexy rump! Enjoy!

Happy Birthday Hubby.... May you have an amazing day and I hope to see you soon....

Congrats and thanks, Frank!

Oh Frank, I do so love many of your posts and have quite enjoyed you from afar. Thank you for all you do and please keep it up. *kisses*

I bet we all would love to see you dance Emma RG

Ohhh are you ....Dave? Don? John? Mat? lmao...was so long ago I can't remember! hahahha UNO, the strangest part of this for me is.... was NOT the fact he was a client, that did not not faze me much, the fact he was much older threw me for a loop lol

I believe this is not going to affect us on this level of working. I believe they will be targeting street level workers. It is to appease certain groups to keep their votes, so by targeting the street level, it allows Harper's government to have the pat on their back they want and keeps it from eye view. They could not possibly "man" every escort/incall or out. That would just not be reasonable for the cost it would have. I think we will have more gent's sticking to just a few ladies that they have already met or who have tried, tested and true, rather then taking a shot in the dark on CL or whatever. I don't think it is going to be as bad as some are predicting, unless your booking street workers, minors and known trouble makers. Just a few more thoughts to add: Perhaps payment methods may change, maybe the way we advertise? I dunno the legalities, but perhaps payment for time spent only, if that is the case we probably wont want to say " I offer BBBJ, DATY etc..." as that would/could be used against you if court? Remembering evidence building, if you don't give them the evidence, then charges can't stick. No cash found on site? No ads or calls stating BBJ, DATY etc...then maybe it was for time spent only? Creating reasonable doubt? References are going to tight, both ways client and provider.

I personally do not care what colour people are but it is really not uncommon for people that are Indian or Black to ask me if I see them. I see everyone as long as they are clean and respectful. Multiple responses that I have seen over the years in multiple threads. -If the SP is indian or black and say she doesn't want to see people of her own color, it can be because they are sometime small communities and everyone know everyone and she doesn't want to be recognize. It seem especially for East Indian providers. -She may have a pimp. But to be honest, you CANNOT compare this industry to any other. Not food services, you cannot claim humans rights etc. A restaurant is public establishment that provide a service. An SP is a PERSON that provide a service. A person has feelings and preferences. You are kissing, touching, putting your penis in her vagina. this is intimate and cannot be compare. What if the SP may have try to have sex with black /indians/blue with red dots and is really not attracted sexually to them? In our civilian life it happen all the time that people states they may have sexual preferences for x races or y hair color. While I do understand it may be discriminatory you cannot ignore someone personal preferences. In my eyes... Would you enjoy having sex with someone knowing they are forcing themselves to be there with you?

This is a topic very near and dear to me and one I hope you all won't mind if I ramble about for a few :) As the subject of my post suggests, I firmly believe in there being a difference between lust and love, as well as arousal and attraction. And it is VERY easy for us, as human beings, to blur the lines between the two. I speak from experience when I say that... as I have blurred them in my past. LOVE is a choice. It is something that we CHOOSE when we commit ourselves to one other person for the rest of our lives. It is born out of history, respect, unconditional admiration and acceptance. Out of knowing things about the other that no one else knows. About seeing them at their worst, their most vulnerable, and believing that is when they they look their most beautiful or most handsome; Their most attractive. It comes from complete openness, complete honesty and complete trust. With it comes a desire to be a better person - for yourself so that you can be better for THEM. It comes a complete freedom to be yourself, no matter WHAT that entails - because you know that no matter what you say, or do; no matter how grumpy you get, or how crazy or silly, at the end of the day you are welcomed into the loving arms of your CHOSEN partner. LUST is a feeling. An intense, passionate feeling. It is born from newness, from sexual desire, from excitement, anticipation, anxiousness, intimacy and arousal. It is all encompassing, it is amazing, it is FUN. The reality of this is though, lust fades. Even in a relationship with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with (because you've made that CHOICE to do so), lust fades. This is why marriages ebb and flow, have their ups and downs, and often fail. Too many people believe that if the lust is gone, then the relationship is over. What they FAIL to see, is that if you make a CHOICE to love someone, and ride the rollercoaster through the next down, the next CLIMB is better than anything lust could ever allow you to experience. The CHOICE to love someone is a conscious choice that requires great effort, great committment and great amounts of work. The FEELING of lust is involuntary. It just happens. It is beautiful and natural and wonderful. But it just is. Let's face it: Being with someone we've CHOSEN to love, vs an SP/client that we LUST for is very different. Even the SEX is different. Sex with someone we lust for is fun, yes. It may even be intense, or passionate. It may leave you reeling, thinking about that person and longing to see them again. It envokes all kinds of strange thoughts in your mind that you are left trying to make sense of. But really, it IS just sex. It is erotic, enjoyable and wonderful -- as is the connection that precedes it. But it does nothing for the soul in the long term. On the flip side, SEX with someone you've CHOSEN to love, and have a history and committment with is the kind of sex that relaxes you and makes you feel all warm and loved inside. The kind of sex that makes you want to stay in bed all day naked. The kind of sex that can make you cry because its as much of an emotional release as it is a physical one. The kind of sex that makes you want to crawl inside them and you still wouldn't be close enough to them. NO SP or client could ever replace that very thing with someone you've CHOSEN to love. And that is why although the client/SP relationship may be good... no, GREAT experiences, nobody will ever be better, or replace the ONE person you've chosen to let in your heart. No matter how good the physical connection between SP and client, they will never replace that very same thing in your bed.