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I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

@Rob369 as Emma said, you can always engage in some conversations with the person you're interested in prior to meeting to determine if they are open to what you're looking for. This is also a great time for post reading as well, especially the ones involving topics that are more affectionate or sensual in nature ie: kissing, touch, cuddling, playfulness etc. This will give you a deeper understanding of the person you wish to see. Websites, blogs etc. are also great indicators. It may take a little effort but your pleasure is worth it for finding someone who can give you what you want and need! When it comes to a partner wanting to indulge in the hobby, I have to say it would depend on the circumstances. Trust is definitely needed as is communication. If they are interested in pursuing this because they are not feeling loved or valued, than that is something that needs to be dealt with and not ignored because it can lead to many issues. If it is simply a matter of variety, interest or treat, as long as there has been open communication about things, then certainly. Indulging together can also be a great experience to deepen the relationship and keep the fires burning. I have had clients bring me a thoughtful gift or write just to say they were thinking of me. It's the simple things that mean the most to me. I am myself in what I do so anything genuine makes me smile. I care about people and it's nice to have that returned.

I love that this topic has opened such a great discussion. One thing I wonder, as some ladies (to be frank, as myself) have been in the business for a while, and to be honest, don't get as many reviews as I once did. I think this is due to avoid redundancy. I don't think this is because my service has declined, but more the idea that - "oh yeah, we know her, so no need to review anymore." I think this is true for some other local ladies with good reviews but because they are not "new" that clientele maybe figures that a review is not needed. If a newbie were come to the board and base their decision on "local and reviewed well" then there could be a fair amount of ladies that would be overlooked as their reviews aren't up to the minute. By no means am I implying anybody should review me or others to try to "bump us up." I am just making and observation. The idea of TOFTT is important too because a new lady shouldn't be denied clientele on the sheer fact she is new, but I do agree that the lady's fee should reflect her "starter" status (for lack of a better word) and once established a good reputation, adopt the standard/fair fee. just my two cents PS one more point - just because a lady is local doesn't always mean that your privacy is compromised. It just takes a bit of research to know that there are ladies that value their discretion as much as yours :)

Things that make me Happy: See senior couples walking in the park holding hands (lets me know we all have that chance to grow old with someone) Listening to my son try and teach me to count to 10 in French on FaceTime - he's 5 and when I don't get it he hangs up on me :) The sun shining - even on an awful winter day and the feeling of being loved - nothing beats that!

I'm local to Winnipeg and mostly see regular clientele here, some for 5+ years. I also travel to Regina/Saskatoon almost monthly (weather permitting), and have the same kind of clientele there. Mostly repeat customers, some for years. I think for me, the choice has been mostly about finding a connection, and true sexual fun. I'm a lover when you need me. Sensual Porscha

I don't know if my opinion matters. For me as a touring gentleman locally is from Ottawa, Ont in the east to London, Ont in the west. Seeing a companion has nothing to do with local versus visiting however. It has to do with whoever interests me, and second, if I can tour to the city (or cities) she is in to see her. To me touring ladies aren't a threat to local ladies nor should local ladies be considered a threat to touring ladies. Each lady just needs to present and market herself, as the saying goes there is someone for everyone. Instead of worrying about what another lady does, just advertise yourself, and who you are. Maybe a gentleman wants to see that other lady, whether she is touring or local, but also, by the same token, some other gentleman wants to meet you. And seeing a companion at least for me, is based on my interest in meeting her first and foremost. Not on whether she is a local versus visiting companion A rambling which I hope makes sense RG

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Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

The perceived quality of any date, longer or shorter, seems more to depend on knowing what you want and selecting the right sort of companion for that date. There are many ladies that enjoy shorter encounters, they find the 30min. option ideal as they prefer a more physical encounter and there is no shortage of clients that also seek that out. Then there are ladies that are uncomfortable in shorter time frames, have min. 1hr (or longer) dates because they like to go a little slower, ease into the date if you will. There are a number of clients that seek out this sort of companionship as well. A 1hr date can be entirely physical or it can be a little slower, where you have a little conversation and some time to sip wine or lie back and relax together. In that situation you really just need to know your companion, know what type of date she prefers as it will flow best when you are both on the same page. Figure out what you find most appealing, whether you prefer a date with more of a mental connection or something that is more of a raw physical encounter then seek out a lady that has similar tastes. If you connect with someone with a similar interest then it will be a quality date. :)

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When you run across people whether you know them or not that truly love and care for each other. I have a special affinity towards seeing elderly couple that cherish each other.

I would not. Those of us who are partnered or married depend on the support we get from our SO. Many times they help us book tickets, rooms and keep the home running while we are away. They also support us financially, if we have a bad week their paycheck is in the bank, guaranteed. This allows us not to fret about seeing X number of people and saves a lot of stress. In return for all this if my SO wanted to see someone else that is a treat he totally deserves.

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CMJ is totally right, massage industry is not what It used to be, everyday full service spas come into the business and all the magic of the sensual massage goes to other level. I think solution is for those spas to become agencies, and stop calling themselves massage parlors.

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I think you need to bear in mind that: Not all local ladies are established There are "new" local ladies popping up all the time who come and go or stick around and eventually become established or otherwise. Not all visiting ladies are new - there are established providers who tour. Those with recos/reviews are probably a better gamble than some new visiting lady no one has ever heard about. Whatever you choose, the bottom line is if it sounds too good to be true, or appears sketchy, it probably is.

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In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

I totally agree Ice4fun...and a true gent would never ask this! The one thing that stood out for me was that a client offered me a massage at the beginning of the appt (1h) and it lasted for 30 min :icon_biggrin:...omfg it was amazing! I felt like a queen!! And a client in NY brought me a BD gift before our second appt :), that was a very sweet thought!!!

Glad to hear that you had a good experience with her. Unfortunately, many have not had the same experience, and the shortfalls have been noted in other forums, were she interested in checking. You might want to give us a few details of your session, explaining how it was a positive experience. And, since it is your first post here, you could give us a frame of reference by comparing her to other SP's you may have visited. Maybe a little about the area she works out of, were facilities provided, fresh towels, easy parking. Its not the clients job to give advice or teach an SP. But if she'd like a little constructive criticism, she could work on her presentation on the internet. Declaring oneself as a student and then posting an ad with such horrible spelling and grammar, well, it does not bode well for a professional encounter. That and using current pictures (the very nice, professional ones she uses along with the phone camera shots are quite old, nice, but old, and saying they were taken yesterday whe we've seen them for years, well) would go a long way to enhancing her reputation. There, I've started the ball rolling, my two cents worth of free advice, as the quoted poster requested.

A lot of Sps are willing to offer last min appointment.. BUT please give us a MINIMUM of notice. Lately I had a lot of request from people who wanted to see me RIGHT NOW, not even able to wait 15min to get ready. For our appointment, we like to be fresh & clean. We are NOT vending machine, put 2$ Im ready. No, no, no.... Please, I, and a lot of others girls, are happy to accomadate you.. But please, we do have a life too.. Its not because Im available Im already dress in lingerie waiting for you..

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The phrase ``Are you available right now'' makes me want to cringe. Some people think we sit there pretty waiting by the phone or computer all day long. Actually it`s quite the opposite. I find productive things to do with my time. I need 30 mins notice to set things up and get ready. This is the way I run my business now because I offer half hour appts ( whereas in the past I didn`t), I`m aware that people want the SP who offers these appts to be ready on shorter notice. I always take a shower first thing in the morning washing my hair, shaving and doing my hair. I also take quick showers in between appts but before each client, I redo my makeup, fix up hair again, make the bed, light candles, turn on music. It takes me 15 minutes, One time I did it all in 8 minutes ( I hate rushing ) but if someone can`t respect my policy then it`s a no go. I`m not asking for a day`s notice, 2 hours or even an hour but for some, it`s still not good enough. I`ve had people ask me to be available in 10 mins and when I say i need a bit more notice, it`s not good enough. Yet, it will take them 20 mins to arrive from wherever they are travelling from. lol. Sometimes I think the little head takes over in these cases. No offense but it`s a two way street. Fortunateone, I can relate. Getting a phonecall from someone I`ve seen beforè saying they are right around the corner and if I`m free in 5 minutes. Sigh...it isn`t going to make a difference. I could be out running errands. While for the most part, I am pretty much ready in a short amount of time but``right now`` is n`t going to happen. I wish I could sit there all day and look pretty but it doesn`t work like that. I have a life and things to do.

I am back from TOFTT and can verify that she is legit and her pics are real, should that be helpful to anyone else who is interested in her.

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I think being kind and showing tenderness to a person should come naturally. Especially in this business. You can email or pm the person your interested in and feel them out. Ask them questions. Tell them what your looking for. Most of us like to engage a bit through Email before we meet.

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Thank you to everyone who posted. I ended up with a Samsung 40" LED Smart tv...picture is like night and day compared to my old tv A bonus, a week from Friday I'll have HI Def Cable and wireless internet (package deal with Cogeco) Total costs $20 more than what I'm paying now for conventional cable and old style phone line internet Anyhow, thanks to everyone who offered advice RG

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yay! thanks for thinking of me :) im available for downtown ottawa outcalls- however; I can do incalls- if you let me know a day or two in advance- otherwise incall location might not be guaranteed-ready and set for play (outcalls are good with or without advance notice; if time is available)

But you speak for a lot of them. I find I meet more men that have no interest in toys as ones that do:( I love to incorporate my vibrator and dildo into my sessions but it seems most men just want to play with body parts;)

Recos and repeat visits are both equally great compliments!

You are right Curiousm...for me beauty starts with a smile...then smiling eyes...then intelligence and a sense of humour, passionate,generous and caring...that for me is beauty! BJ

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OD that was awesome rant. Gents in case you think this is an exageration, which it is for effect/humor but honestly not by much. Think back to any number of times when you where planning to go out and you had to wait for your female companion (mother, sister, friend, wife, etc.). How long did she make you wait after the pre agreed to time that you were expecting to leave. Do you remember how more they made you wait? And this was a planned event/outing. Imagine last minute wardrobe change, because she loaned the perfect shoes that go with that outfit to her friend or any other number of reasons. How about it already being 30 minutes later than planned, you are about to leave, she looks in the mirror and notices a run in her stalking? Therefore what happens next? Well she may needd to start all over again. Now imagine, you are asking the same of an SP/MA at the last minute. She has to pick an outfit that you are going to like, make sure it is clean otherwise find some else. She then has to take a quick shower, dry her hair (trust me gentlemen although I have virtually no hair left on my head today, I once upon a time had long hair) which can take a while. Get dressed, put on at least the very basics of make up (do you know how difficult it is to put on eye liner and mascara, well I do). And if she tries to rush any of the process, it will look messy and or ruin the outfit. Some of those sexy outfits so many of us like and we like for them to take/come off easily and quickly can be quite delicate and are not as easy to put on. Guys the old adage still holds true... Patience is a virtue. I know that we live in a society where we expect instant gratification... The Internet has spoiled us in so many ways. That being said, quality cannot be rushed, and all these lovely ladies want to offer us is a quality experience for all those involved.

THANK YOU MOD! I dont know what is it so hard for some guys to understand that the GFE term describes a feeling.., the way how a massage session can be very intimate yet NOT NECESSARILY means that they will Get the so called "Extras" ... that the term GFE has nothing to do with An Specific Service... Is An Experience As a whole! THANK YOU AGAIN :)

Nobody can replace Mai, she was one of the best MAs ever. I hope she returns and hopefully sooner than a year from now :)