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I doubt my experience is entirely unique. That is why I contemplated whether to make a post about it or not. After some thought I decided that I'd like to relay my experience and set it in the context of a big thank you to all SPs. So please bare with me and grab some popcorn cause this post is gonna be on the long side. Here's a little bit of background information. I first started seeing SPs a little over 6 months ago. So, I lack the experience most people have over here. I've seen four girls in total. The girl I saw first remained my favorite, though that's not to say anything bad about the three other girls. It's just that with my fave, I felt a deeper connection. At first I thought it was just me, but as I saw her more and more I found out from her that the feeling was mutual. It's kinda funny in a way cause on my first meeting with her, to put it quite frankly I was awkward as hell. I was extremely timid, so much that she asked me if I was a virgin. I assured her that I wasn't, I was just that nervous. Being the sweet heart that she is, she worked really hard at putting me at ease. My subsequent appointments with her went a lot smoother, and when I finally branched out to see other girls while I was nervous seeing someone new it didn't compare to the first time. Now let's rewind a little bit further back in time and get into why I started seeing SPs in the first place. My last relationship lasted for many years, by the end of it it was very soul crushing. As much as I loved (love?) her, that relationship really played a number on my head. By the time it was over, I didn't want to get into another relationship (I still don't). So months after that relationship ended I began to do research on SPs, the research phase took me months before I decided to initiate contact with the girl who I eventually saw first. Seeing SPs became therapeutic to me, it helped me get over that relationship that scared me. At the same time, the girls are open minded that I got to try things I've never been able to try in any of my past relationships. After seeing my fave SP a few times, she asked me about things I've always wanted to try but was never able to. It was... a long list. She listened to my list intently, and then she told me she'd be happy to let me try anything that I was comfortable enough to try with her. With the exception of my first booking, they've all been 2+ hours which is my preference. I found that I much rather have a longer booking than having multiple 1 hour bookings spread out. Recently I told my fave SP about one of the more elaborate things on my list. She said it sounded like fun, I told her if she really thought it was fun I'd love to do it with her. Without going into much detail, the thing in question is something I tried in two relationships I had prior but resulted in failure both times but it always stuck in my mind. It's not epic or grand like a threesome, though that is still in my list. But it's something far more intimate. The nature of my request required an overnight booking. I would not be exaggerating in the slightest if I said that my experience that night has been one of the most intimate times I've ever spent with another human being period. Not just physical intimacy, though that was there too, but mental as well. So, thank you to each and every SP out there, and not just the girls that I saw (I don't think they have a presence on this board being that I'm in BC). And to every guy considering seeing an SP but is too nervous to do so. Well, I was there not too long ago and I'm glad I made the leap. Just treat the girls well and they'll take very good care of you. I apologize for this very long post. Hopefully it's coherent and understandable.

Nice looking lady or not, she could use her own photos. Im sort of appalled that you or anyone would back someone using fake pictures. That is a clear insult to every lady that actually uses their own photos (and men wonder why those of us with REAL photos depicting ourselves get annoyed when people ask"are your photos real") This hobby is a fantasy not a bait and switch fairy tale. The fact people actually support women like this make me shake my head.

To be fair to all, I've summarized the questions in this thread as I did for the "ask an Escort" thread. Once again, I've edited some of these down and the originals may contain additional nuances. My intention here is to help resurrect some questions that may have been missed, simply prompt new answers, and avoid duplication going forward. Great thread! 1. What made you finally take the leap? Do you book mostly because ads? Recs? Pictures? or recs or pictures (mostly)? How important is non-CERB web presence? (Cute0aza0Button) 2. Have you ever looked at an ad or profile and thought, "wow, she way out of my league?" (SuiteEscapes) 3. Have you booked a session and not be able to perform as you hoped? If so, how did you handle that? (SuiteEscapes) 4. For married clients, did you ever feel like your hobby was obvious to others at home/work? (SuiteEscapes) 5. For married clients, does a session with an MA/SP leave you happier/better able to deal with issues at home? (SuiteEscapes) 6. In the course of your hobbyist experiences, what has surprised you? What have you learned or discovered? How have those things spilled over into other facets of your life? (AnnaSweets) 7. Have you ever invited a friend into the hobby? (SuiteEscapes) 8. What is the one piece if advice you wish someone had given you when you started hobbying? (Cute0aza0Button) 9. How do you, or would you deal with a Bait & Switch or theft? (SuiteEscapes) 10. Do you ever have fantasies of providers that may not be your typical/usual "type"? Have you ever acted on them? (LexyGrace) 11. How much value do put on what another hobbyist or sp has to say about another provider? Would it impact your decision to see/ or not see her? Do you also base decisions in other aspects of your life the opinions and comments of others? (cristycurves) 12. If the government does criminalize hobbyists, are you going to drop out of the community? What will you want us providers to do to reassure you that it will be safe to come see us? (Summer) 13. Do you form a significant opinion of an SP based on her writing and how she presents herself online? (Nicolette Vaughn) 14. If your favorite companion was to increase in size 15 to lets say 20+ lbs would your attraction change? (cristycurves) 15. What is your favorite thing about hobbying? (Setting up the meeting? The sex? The anticipation?) (kimmyxoxo) 16. What is the thing you hate most about hobbying? (kimmyxoxo) 17. In a session if you "blow" to fast, do you just want to run out right away or do you stay and chat, or massage, enjoy a beverage? (SuiteEscapes) 18. On some providers' profiles you post that you'll be in touch and want to meet. But you don't act on the promise. What's up with that? (cristycurves) 19. Let's say you go see someone for 3rd time, and she is just out of sorts that day. Will you give her the benefit of doubt and try again, or just say..." nah I will look for another"? (SuiteEscapes) 20. When you've seen a lady a few times and have a good connection established, do you feel comfortable talking about or requesting things you'd enjoy trying or do you leave it up to her to either broach or try? Or would you look for someone else who up front states they are into whatever you want to explore and not even mention it to the other? (Midnite-Massage) 21. Should ladies charge for social time? Should I include the option of free meet up before a date when someone books a certain amount of hours? (Amelie) 22. Why precisely do some gentlemen have their profile private? (Raven Rain) 23. WHY don't men a) read websites b) follow direction/instructions c) pre-book more often d) text things other than "hey" e) send out penis pictures? (cristycurves) 24. Why do some men confuse breasts with Charmin toilet tissue and/or loaves of bread? (cristycurves) 25. Hey! Guys! What about #12!? (Summer) 26. When contacting an sp, why do you give up entirely after the first attempt didn't reach her? (fortunateone) 27. For the young hobbyist here, say under 25, have you ever been carded by a SP/MA ? (SuiteEsapes) 28. Is the nature of the incall location important? and why? (Bianca Jaguar)

I was actually asked once in a job interview for large international corporation, "what kind of animal are you"? I said I was a bear, because I was highly adaptable like the omnivorous bear, generally laid back unless cornered, hard working, and when naked I kind of look like a bear: round, hairy, and cute. I thought the panel would piss themselves laughing. I was indeed made an offer. Ah, one of my better moments....

I did the exact same thing as some of the questions there wasn't really one "right" answer... And I got the same results. Beaver / Dolphin. How interesting.

Apparently I'm a beaver, well I have one anyways;)

Just got in from an awesome evening out seeing the band Chicago at the NAC. Thanks to a generous client, I was gifted 2 tickets, 5 rows back, centre stage. My girlfriend and I had a blast. That was possibly the best concert I have ever attended. Thank you GC!

Greetings Gentleman, I'm an outgoing seductress that loves to live life indulging in the senses. A finger tip slowly tickling down your spine? Long strokes and glides to ease your worries? Sensations that will seduce your mind and body? . . I'm playful with a feminine aura that is both provocative and sweet. I strive to relieve your muscular tension, stir the senses, arouse your sensitivities and delight in the simple enjoyment that draws us to one another on a connective level. I have an abundance of sensual energy and know how to use it! I seek longer engagements to allow us to fully relax without the trouble of the time. On that note, I do not offer sessions under the hour. I'm located in a private upscale and convenient haven in the west end. Monday-Friday 9:00am-2:30pm. My recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=sensual+erin Please send an email to [email protected] or by pm. I reply to all inquiries and look forward to hearing from you! Yours, Erin xoxo

Phew! For the benefit of others who don't especially want to read through 30 pages to see what questions have been asked, I've done the work and here's the list so far. ;) Some of these are verbatim; others I've edited down to something brief. The originals may contain additional nuances. I thought this might help get some buried or missed questions answered anew, and possibly prevent duplicate questions going forward. This is now one of my favourite threads by the way! 1. Why did you get into escorting in the first place? (Bmoc68 ) 2. What is the best thing about being an SP? (PisaqLove) 3. How do you react when a client says he loves you? (jafo105) 4. What do you like least about being an escort? (Ice4fun) 5. How do you shield yourself from emotional attachments? (curiousm7) 6. Do you ever want to take a client relationship further? (muncher459) 7. How did you feel after y our fist time as an SP? (PisaqLove) 8. After a while seeing the same person, do you prefer not to see that same person and move on? (frank97500) 9. Has it been important to have friends, confidants, mentors in the business? (Winnipegcub) 10. What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and doesn't think he is good enough? (frank97500) 11. Have you ever had a "date" that was so hot that it eclipsed your best experience in your civilian life? (PisaqLove) 12. What do SP's do to mentally prepare themselves for a session? (Jay67) 13. Why have I been asked if I was a former male SP? (frenchbrute) 14. What advice would you give a lady just starting out? What's one thing you wish you had known. (Cute0aza0Button) 15. What can a gentlemen do to make an encounter an enjoyable time for both him and her? (roamingguy) 16. How do you deal with a client you don't want to see again? (jg24) 17. If a potential client is interested in knowing if you enjoy/offer a given activity, is there a "best" way to ask? (Brad) 18. Have you even been recognized on the street? (ottawascout) 19. Do your line of work mean that lack health or dental insurance? Have you no income without work? How do you handle this? (Ice4fun) 20. How long do you plan on being an SP/MA/Dancer? (PisaqLove) 21. How do you determine which of your bedroom activities are YMMV? (curiousm7) 22. How are (some of) you able to make a guy feel you truly desire him every time you see him? (nlwoodchuck) 23. Do you all go to sexual skills university? Or are you all just naturally gifted? Does practice truly make perfect or do you need to study and learn specific techniques? Do you have a sexual move or technique that you tend to go with as your finishing move (emiafish) 24. How do I find out what really pleases a lady and what she actually likes or dislikes? How do I find out what I'm doing right, and more importantly, wrong? (qwertyaccount) 25. Have you ever had a bad encounter that made you question your occupation? (PisaqLove) 26. Has a client ever used a heretofore unknown technique that has rocked your world, and if so then can you share it with the rest of us? (emiafish) 27. How do you treat no-shows? (curiousm7) 28. How do you deal with a bad review? (nlwoodchuck) 29. Do you prefer a man's junk shaved or hairy? (defensedave) 30. Have you ever been turned off by a hobbyist look, attitude, and behaviour? And if so, how did you pull through the time with that person? (frank97500) 31. If you offer duos is it because you like them and are a little bi, or is it just part of the job? (Ice4fun) 32. What do you think has made you different that you can sustain a longer career in what can be a very tough business? (OutForFun) 33. How often do you get requests for costumes or roleplaying? (emiafish) 34. What has been the most surprising thing you've learned or done after being an SP? (piano8950) 35. How common is it, after a client leaves, to think "wow, that was someone I could see myself going out to dinner with."? (curiousm7) 36. What makes a pleasant review for you? (Magician) 37. What does it mean when after a session an SP asks "Can I put your number in my phone"? (qwertyaccount) 38. Is assuring a lady that I've just come out of the shower as good as actually taking a shower right there? (Gentleman11) 39. What is your preference in call, out call client hotel. Are client residences out-of-bounds? (Gentleman11) 40. What advice would you give to a client who is a virgin? And If you meet a client who is a virgin, how would you go about relaxing him? (Jay67) 41. For a paid encounter would you be open to going out to dinner or a movie, holding hands, or walking arm in arm? OR do you prefer keeping things completely private? (jafo105) 42. How important are recommendations to a lady's business? (roamingguy) 43. Is it fun when a man cums on your face? Do you have any private pictures with your face covered in cum? (Ice4fun) 44. Why do most ladies ads list all their physical stats (height, age, weight, measurements, eye color, etc.) but others are silent on most or all of this? (qwertyaccount) 45. What types of gifts do you normally receive and what would you like to receive? (Ice4fun) 46. If you show your face in your pictues here, why did you decide to 'out' your face? Did it result in any change? (piano8950) 47. What jobs/careers that guys have do you find turn-ons and turn-offs? (qwertyaccount) 48. Do you have clients that you are more excited to see than others? (PisaqLove) 49. If a client gives you a gift, is cash a good alternative to a gift card? (Luckyme) 50. What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? (PisaqLove) 51. Do you ever get tired of dealing with people? (frank97500) 52. Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? (Empty83) 53. Is there a kind of sex work you haven't done but would like to try? (dancer, Domme, escort, massage)? If so, why haven't you? 54. What's the strangest outfit/costume you've been asked to wear? (qwertyaccount) 55. What's the weirdest role-play you've been asked to do? (qwertyaccount) 56. Would it be fun to arrive at a date and be confronted with buckets of oysters? No, c'mon, seriously! (LeeRichards) 57. Do certain times of day attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference? (Empty83) 58. If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate? (Jay67) 59. At what point in a new relationship do you let a guy know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you? (curiousm7) 60. If a new guy in your life tells you he likes to see escorts, what is your reaction? (roamingguy) 61. Is it okay to contact you on days you don't advertise? (Empty83) 62. Do you prefer the first contact be discrete, or straight to the point? (Empty83) 63. Are sincere compliments on appearance acceptable? What such comments are unacceptable? (igab) 64. Are the apt descriptors "prostitue" and "john" inherently shameful? (mrgreen760) 65. Is writing a recommendation the ultimate compliment you can give a lady? (roamingguy) 66. What would be the circumstances of your retirement from this business? (OutForFun) 67. If a regular client and a CERB menber you've never seen both want to book you at the same time, who gets preference? (Luckyme) 68. What is the most memorable thing a client has done for/with you? (PisaqLove) 69. Have you ever had a client do something sweet/kind/nice that it made you cry? (PisaqLove) 70. What questions can I ask to get a sense of how affectionate an SP is likely to be during an encounter? (Rob360) 71. Would you have any issues with your own parner seeing an MA/SP? (JohnnyCanuck) 72. How many times have you fallen for a client? (Daniel Boone) 73 a, b, c, d.... How do I become the ideal kind of client? Do you generally like regulars more or new clients? What's your definition of a regular client? How long a session do you prefer? Is it cool for clients to contact you to say happy birthdays/merry Christmas etc.? How do you feel about a client sending you a brief thank you note after the appointment? If you contact a client between bookings, is that an open invitation to keep in touch between appointments? (A1B2C3D4E5) 74. What are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received? (qwertyaccount) 75. If there's something you offer as stated on your ads and/or website does it necessarily mean that you like to offer that service? Or does it only mean that you're able to tolerate it? If it's the later, why offer something you don't particularly like doing? (A1B2C3D4E5) 76. What unwelcome questions do clients commonly ask? (Darr) 77. Is there a good texting format for same evening booking request? (Darr) 78. Would you ever consider going on an all expense paid vacation to some exotic location, with no sex on the table, just as a companion for no other compensation? (gc1968 )

kinda think he's not talking about mammals as pets

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I would agree with Sophia on this, I am new to this sight but it does not take a degree in astro physics to understand that competition is healthy and allows for personal growth. Besides from what I have been researching so far I have come to the conclusion that when I do take the plunge into this hobby it will most definitely be with Sophia and Asia due to the constant professionalism that I see from her on this site. Cheers Sophia.

I'm a Meerkat...Hakuna Matata!

As mentioned above there are a few options for internet other than Bell / Rogers. If you are avoiding Bell and choosing you drop your home phone as well, you would be better suited to a company that offers 3rd party Cable internet. Most DSL providers are going to be forced to charge you 7+ dollars additional a month on top of the service fee for DSL without an active landline. In my case bell wouldn't even allow a "dry-loop" service at my home. I am a teksavvy user but I am currently considering my switch to a new provider called "vmedia", as they offer service with unlimited usage via cable for about 5 dollars cheaper than teksavvy for the similar service. They also have a tv via internet service that looks very interesting. Just an option Kelly xoxo

I am a Swan "Romantic and faithful - you make a perfect life partner. You also highly value family life and would do anything to protect your closest ones". I like the sounds of that. OK ladies, pm me with your particulars and we can discuss the possibilities over coffee. lol ;)

Remember! When choosing you professional descriptor, there's no more reliable source than the Dungeons and Dragons Dungeon Master's Guide "random harlot table". Simply decide your classiness for the day and choose the appropriate title... or go full-on Random Encounter and roll d00 before composing your ad!

WalMart has lots of Sony and Philips HDMI cables, those are all anyone needs. The only expensive cables I use are my 12G speaker wires. Pure copper, very pricy, but I'm not sure they were worth the money!

very interesting thread .. love the comments such a variety of input. I have a couple of comments...can't remember who said what and it's too much to quote, so forgive me not crediting those who said.... the bit about how women hate the idea of 'whores' being available to their husbands. Big time I agree with this. Wives who don't give their husbands sex are bound to be freaking out about the laws changing... you think? Sex workers stigmatizing eachother ... I am well educated and have never used the term 'courtesan' in any advertising. I have also never felt those using it were somehow making themselves out to be better, or classier, or more educated. The reason, for me, is that it simply sounds sooo serious. No offence to anyone using the term, it's classy and sounds nice. But I'm a fun, silly, relaxed person, and the term just doesn't suit me at all. I'm a temporary girlfriend, a pleasure provider, or something. I used the term 'hooker' on another board and got grief for using it, but it wasn't meant in any way to be derogatory. it's just a word, really. People used to look at smokers years ago, and it was a status symbol, a sign of wealth, of social standing. Now people look at smokers mostly with disdain, sometimes even with disgust. It takes years to change people's opinions of any behaviour.

Sorry about that ladies ; Was just surfing and in a rush , Totally not meaning to offend at all and in afterthought mat have been kind of callous by my comments , That particular Post just made me wander into a kind of fantasy world . My sincere apologies to anyone who has taken offense xo and very sorry . Also a note to the MOd apology as I didn't know that the providers pay a fee to advertise on the other threads , After a few PM's I get it now

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Thanks to all who replied to my question. I had brought up pretty much all the answers to my friend, about the lost wages, paying for the SP's time, chemistry, getting to know the SP first, etc, but he wouldn't listen to me. The more he thought about it the more he was convinced that every SP in the world would just jump at the chance to have that 'free' vacation as he thinks of it. Keep in mind he has never seen an SP (I think he may have gone to a massage parlour once), nor does he frequent any sites like this. Listening to him last night it started to sound like his idea of an SP is what he has seen on tv and movies. He looked shocked when I told him that not all SP's are those poor little abused streetwalkers from some lame cop show that would just love a chance to be taken away from all the low-lifes and spend a relaxing week or two away from them in the company of a 'gentleman'. (yes, I put it to him like that almost verbatim) I was trying to tell him the truth before he embarrassed himself by contacting any SP's with his proposed arrangement, but he was having none of what I had to say. Thank you all for the responses. I now have something to show him so maybe now he will see his idea was not as good as he thought. Additional Comments:

Absolutely and without hesitation... NO. I have extended times on my website, including a week, and might I remind you that upscale escorts, the likes of which you'll find here on CERB, don't charge for "services". We charge for our time which is valuable. It's time we are taking away from our family, our friends, OUR lives and that comes at a price. For myself, I have a set price for extended amounts of time. This is purely for my time only. I also require that ALL of my travel expenses are covered (meals, flight, accommodations). In addition, I ALWAYS negotiate an agreed upon amount of alone time for extended dates. I need time to myself as does the person I'm traveling with. Regarding chemistry, I wouldn't consider a weeks vacation with a client I hadn't established some connection with already. That means we've talked, we've had dates already, we've gotten to know each other and established ahead of time that we enjoy each other's company, sexual or otherwise. Hope this helps your friend :) xo

Not to sidetrack this thread, but I'd like to take a guess at that. I suspect the rationalization that goes through a gent's head is that whatever travel destination and activities he has planned will be so enjoyable that simply getting those expenses covered will be enough to satisfy the donation amount. If a fellow feels like the experience and vacation itself are going to be fun, they assume the lady will as well (and yes, she might) and that this enjoyment will be sufficient compensation for her time. The thought is likely that she'll enjoy the experience just as much as if she was paying--and controlling--her own vacation. Such gents may have the best of intentions, but what I think they don't realize is that this is a form of bartering. In the end, how is offering a trip for a lady's time instead of her donation amount any different than offering a dinner out, fixing her computer, bringing her some good books, or anything else other than her requested donation amount. It is true, the trip itself may be enjoyable. But then, most of us gents hope that a lady enjoys the time she spends with us! This doesn't mean we then get to request a discount because she had fun. :)

I don't usually post to this thread, as I'm able to shrug off most things if they aren't too serious. But today a true tragedy has occurred. I lost track of time browsing Cerb and burnt an entire package of bacon to an inedible crisp. That's right, you read correctly. The. Whole. Damn. Package. Oh I'd heard people warn there were risks to getting involved with escorts. But I laughed them off, figuring they spoke in ignorance, and that I would be careful enough to avoid whatever dangers there may be. And yet, my mind adrift with thoughts of beautiful ladies, reading their posts, so absorbed that I was oblivious to the smell of burning...the smoke coming from the kitchen...I did not--could not!--know that my time here would mean the end of my bacon. At first, stunned, I thought it could be saved. I tried performing mouth to mouth, ice compresses, massage, even some alternative medicines...but to no avail. The bacon is gone, forever, before I even truly had a chance to get to know it. It feels, quite literally, likes ashes in my mouth. So goodbye bacon. You deserved better. Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to go console myself by looking at some boobies.

Curious as to how the same photos are advertising two different ladies in 2 different cities at the same time? As someone has seen her, we know she exists, however clearly there is some photo theft here by one of the ladies in these ads. Toronto: http://toronto.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/80-80-80-100-independen-asian-baby-jess-real-pic-non-rush-top-service-25/17747100 St. John's: http://stjohns.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/number-1-asian-from-korea-horny-young-and-busty-and-eager-25/2112768

That being said, a laptop connected via HDMI cable to my Panasonic 54" 1080p Plasma HDTV renders certain umm... adult entertainment into a glory to behold. Oh, and HDMI cables? The only quality difference between a dollar store $5 cable and a $25 one is the connectors on the cheap ones are easier to break if you move them around a lot. If you are going to plug it in and leave it, $5 will do ya. The signal quality will be the same for the $5, $25, and $100 cable. It's a digital signal. It either gets through the cable or not. The signal only has two modes. It is there or it isn't. Chucking money at it will not improve it. If you are old enough, you can remember when cables carried analog signals that were susceptible to attenuation or interference. At that time it made some sense to put some money into cables. That was then. This is now.

Over Christmas, I upgraded as well. From a 15(ish) year old 27'' Samsung to a 39" Samsung. So, yeah, I hear ya...night and day! I'm actually watching more TV now. Rarely had it on before this.

I have two too - Today - I had another wonderful time with my beautiful lady! :biggrin: Yesterday - that was a pleasant surprise and it was my first! I received an automatic message from the mod informing me that my post on 20 essential facts dog lovers must always remember (Part 1) is amongst the winners of this cycle time topic nomination contest. And that I have received 1000 reputation points from mod. Reputation was given for this post. Thank you to those fellow cerbies who voted for my post. I really appreciate it.

I don't have texting on my landline phone, so when someone texts me it converts text to landline, in the form of a voice recording. So the 'voice' has had to reinterpret whatever the text was typed in and as we all know (we can see ad titles that use this) text speak is not in English lol. I've had a couple wtf what that supposed to be texts.

Personality, wit, sense of humor, and the chance that we have common interests and can just be ourselves and chillaxed when together. Mutual sexual attraction can naturally coincide many and hopefully most times as a result IMO. Now I could be way off on that too...don't know. My story sticking to it ! ;) The ladies that know me now most likely understand what I am TRYING to say. ha Every single lady that I have met, or may meet in the future I hope to have a connection with and ideally hope to meet many times over time if the stars align. The most beautiful bum in the world won't make me get on a plane or jump in the truck and drive hours to come see you. It's bigger than that. You intrigue me and I'll intrigue you ;) I love beauty but I truly don't have any particular physical attribute in a lady that attracts me more than an awesome genuine smile :))) and a laugh.

I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

CMJ is totally right, massage industry is not what It used to be, everyday full service spas come into the business and all the magic of the sensual massage goes to other level. I think solution is for those spas to become agencies, and stop calling themselves massage parlors.

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I like to use cerb for most cities (especially Ottawa, the Maritimes & Winnipeg). Terb and eros are quite good for Toronto. Escort-canada is another great site especially if you are going East. I'd advise to be cautious when using BP. Like some girls said, cerb is quite good for advertising, plus you can share with others and get to know them prior to meeting. :)

I think I should venture in here more based on some of the questions I've seen. It's okay to be nervous but don't let it rule you. Research the ladies and find the ones that interest you. See their contact method, view their website (and READ it), be respectful and articulate. You'll gain a lot of information doing those things and will be more confident when approaching a lady. If you contact someone and they don't get back to you within a couple days (check for a calendar on their website) send a polite note of inquiry to see if they received your first email. If you still don't hear anything, move on to someone else. Most serious ladies will answer within 24 hours unless away or on vacation. Most will catch up when they return. If nothing comes from it, there is probably a reason so let it go. There is someone here for everyone...sometimes multiple someones. We're not scary...promise!

Try to add details -Business name? Attendant? YMMV Massage? Services offered? Others may want to visit. Otherwise it just sounds like a poorly planned Shill. thanks Ping, and let us know man!