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I completely agree!!!! keep watch on him closely, he will probably sneak back in as he seems pretty passionate with a name like that! #getridofhim

Wow. This entire reply bothers me. Champagne/wine, etc. and conversation are foreplay. It is a necessary part of spending time with a true companion. It allows nerves to settle, flirting to take place and a genuine build of arousal on both sides. Forgoing that, for me, would mean you walking in the door, a quick hello and then wham bam thank you ma'am. Certainly not everyone's style. I believe the error here was that not enough time was booked for the OP and SP to get to know each other. ESPECIALLY when meeting each other for the first time. It sounds like things happened naturally which doesn't always happen and wonderful on both sides. The suggestion that she had "no motivation to end social time" is arrogant and rude, suggesting that we are all manipulative. In addition, the last time I checked, Companions are paid for their time, not for making you cum. I had one awful client who pinned me to the bed and told me time couldn't be up, as he wanted to have sex more and cum" (this was also after leaving me waiting in the hotel bar for 25mins past our appointment start time). I shoved him off of me and reminded him that I don't get paid to make him ejaculate. Be mindful of what your intentions and expectations are when choosing an SP, provider or companion. Regardless of whether she is independent or works for an agency, there are different types of us who choose to do things in a way that works for US!

Second that, watch him, keep him out!!! Good spotting to the Liquor Maybe a report of him to Mod to keep an eye on him in case he changes his name to something else (can still keep track the way multiple accounts are noticed) is what is needed Sounds like a sick f*cker RG

At the rightful age of 39, you would think a man would of have had MUCH more common sense then to come up with a handle as such. His presence/handle will not be tolerated among those that have established a rapport within this community. I say good bye and to be removed. Nice catch "the liquor "

We all agree that there is absolutely zero tolerance for this type of disgusting display. We pride ourselves on being a respectful, caring and safe online community. Mod, please send a message and remove this sickness.

Just joined today - I agree - remove him.

Funny... on his (her?) profile under Friends it says "killallwhores69 has not made any friends yet". Umm... yeah. Don't see that happening. My vote? buh-bye!

There is nothing better and no better cure for most things than a great orgasm. But sometimes it's just not meant to happen. I know at times I can get very frustrated when I am really turned on and want it to happen and..... nothing:( so boys, it happens to us as well. If there are no medical reasons and your health is good, relax and take relief in knowing that some of us just aren't meant to at our wanted times. So the good news, you get to try again, and again;( Here's a link on some of the myths when it comes to woman's orgasms- http://sogc.org/publications/female-orgasms-myths-and-facts/

Couldn't agree more! This kind of nonsense won't be tolerated around here - GOOD RIDANCE!! :vatefaire:

Pure Disgust!

Sorry gang, the name is offensive and should be reported to mod. This clown is most likely "troll" and by commenting on his name all you are doing is feeding the loathsome creature. He got his jollies reading your outrage. Next time, do yourself a favour and report him, but try and refrain from commenting. It will only attract more of his ilk, or even him to return using a different IP.

Wow!! That handle is pure disgusting, and not funny what-so-ever!!! This person needs to be removed right away...CERB is a very loving, friendly, and welcoming community but with a Handle like that, there is no one that is willing to be welcoming to someone like that!!! He/She needs to go, and needs to go now!!!

does anyone know if MOD can block IP#s? or just names? Would make it a LITTLE harder for Him/Her to sneak back in. I agree, zero tolerance.

it won't take long and he'll be gone

This is the reason I don't publish a number, you have to email. I don't like text messages unless they are from someone I know and even then I am not a fan of excessive messaging. Texters who are serial texters could call, but they don't as 90% of the time they are not serious to book at all. Think of a text like an email, if by the second one, you have not learnt anything about the man wanting to book, drop it like a hot potato and move on. If he is serious he will rethink his approach.

I installed a heat pump in my house this week, it works fabulously and the company owner was by today for his money and told me use this unit full blast and it will cost $ 100 per month to heat my home. Yes currently my oil bill is $400 every two weeks and its still not warm. Katherine is sitting in her house getting hotter by the minute ! :biggrin: :biggrin:

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I suppose your comment about being familiar with all the SP's of Fredericton, made us think you have met with all of us. This is a community that supports each other local competition included. I strongly believe in friendly competition, after all at the end of the day, this industry can be a small world and lord knows I would not want to burn my bridges with other ladies in my town as one day we may need each other:) I have often suggested ladies that are here and local to other Gent's as perhaps I am too busy or not providing what you are looking for. I think this is a great way for all of us to be. Sometimes these ladies also pass on my info to their clients too:) Makes it happy world:)

Some are just so lazy that they won't even take the time to learn a thing about us. Makes me wonder why they don't just stay home and watch porn.

Yes I agree, and didn't mean to come off as there's no other better Ladies in town. My first time with a wonderful escort. I'm hoping to have the privilege of meeting you Sophia, you seem very professional with a lot of class. :)

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I have broken my over 30 rule on more than one occasion. For me, it has more to do with their maturity, level of respect, etc. I have turned down a lot of younger ones due to a lack of the above, and an inherent assumption that they can show up, skip the pleasantries and "get their monies worth". Not gonna happen. I'm sure some offer that and that's fine, but NOT me :) Email someone you're interested in seeing. If you are able to demonstrate a level of respect and maturity, I believe there are SPs who would gladly see you (myself included). Good luck!!

It sounds like you both lost track of time. After the hour, everything and anything that happens is a bonus in my opinion. Your encounter just unfolded naturally the way it was intended. If you like her, see her again, and maybe if sex is important, keep an eye on the clock (wear a watch) and perhaps book a longer encounter too A rambling RG

You have to understand that many of us do not share our face for Privacy reasons... Most of us have family and friends whom not know about what we do.., or even if they know to protect them from other people they may know.. this can also affect people close to them at a proffesional level... Or even worse at a personal level.. ex: What it the MA or SP has a husband/BF he has a job and in his job he gets to meet different people and also he has a certain status within a company... we all know how the sexual industry is stigmatized by society... her face appearing on Websites, bosses, or clients finding out what his Wife/GF does for a living... can affect his career... Now what if the MA/Provider has kids... she meets the parents of other kids that go to school with her children, One of this parents runs into one of this Face pictures and recognizes her... This parent may not want her/his kids to Interact with the kids of this MA or SP...

One thing that I'm pretty certain makes slut-shaming of escorts from non escort females.. is a type of jealousy that underlies their fear that all their husband/boyfriend or potential mates have to do.. is make a quick phone call to book an escort and be unfaithful with (likely) zero consequences. With so many statistics of cheating spouses and cheating spouse websites.. this is commonplace anyway.. and you can easily view the drama on a number of reality shows or Jerry Springer type shows how volatile the cheated on party reacts. The fear of infidelity (ownership of a human being from another perspective) and tied to the marriage 'vows' and religious dogma.. adds to their belief that being 'betrayed' gives them the right to display 'the wrath of a woman scorned'. My female non-escort friends are very secure in the knowledge that I'm not 'after their man' and easily trust me.. but I think in general that it taps into the fears of insecure jealous woman that we are 'filthy whores' and can distance themselves from us with this mentality. If we don't exist we aren't a perceived threat... Having been previously a very devout religious person prior to entering this profession (I'm spiritual now.. but definitely not religious and happier for it) I used to be one of those people into slut-shaming for religious beliefs.. boy have things changed for me! But for all the previously mentioned reasons in this thread.. if we can label someone 'dirty' by connotation of the word.. we can distance ourselves and judge openly in an effort to curb the activity. Making it illegal in many countries and parts of it illegal in most just helps justify these types of opinions. Even in Australia where it's legal they still have laws (or perhaps by-laws rather) to preclude certain types of activities in certain states.. ie no BBBJ in Queensland I believe. In the states not even the whole of Nevada is it legal.. only in Pahrump outside of Vegas.. It's so hypocritical! If religion weren't such a major selling point in the political arena with voters there wouldn't be as much stigma in my opinion. Candidates are usually sure to pander to the puritans and increase the stings esp in the US around election time to satisfy the 'burn the witch at the stake' types. We become the scapegoats to appease the religious hypocrites for a while. Speaking of the history of witch burning.. most witches were women who tried to take their own health into their own hands with herbs and nutrition.. advising others to their own knowledge and power. Medicine being a mostly patriarchal business didn't appreciate that.. some similarities there.. and again of course religion being the excuse to discriminate and punish.. literally to death. I do think in the last couple decades though we have advanced the stigma by leaps and bounds. Having been in the business for a quarter century I've seen it for sure. I know several who work in the business though who still feel a strong need to hide what they do.. and it's so unfortunate. Of course many men who visit escorts can't be open either! But then again.. it adds to the titillation factor doesn't it really? A 'walk on the wild side' is part of the thrill of doing something naughty :P

In this lifestyle, speaking in generalities of course, with age comes with maturity. Where as a young man may think he's god's gift, with age comes a maturity, the realization that a gentleman knows he isn't god's gift, but he knows and appreciates that he is going to see one of god's gift, the Goddess he is sharing a hour or a few with. And he appreciates the time the lady has set aside to see him. He does not view her time as an entitlement for him. As has been suggested, contact a lady, build a rapport. When the time is right ask if she will see you. Offer to pay a deposit in advance (there are many well recommended ladies here on CERB in case you are worried about sending money in advance) plus volunteer verification information (your real name, board handle confirmed by PM, email, an unblocked contact phone number) a reference if you have one. She may need other information if you don't have a reference. And btw the ladies can be trusted with this information Be open, forthcoming, show you are more mature than your age, and you may get an companion agreeing to see you despite your youth. And if she declines your request, say thank you and move on. Even if you give her verification information, doesn't mean she owes you an encounter. Be mature at all times, even if you are declined A rambling from a fifty something bald man RG

Even tho everything may be on your website, you may find many contact you asking the same things. If many of those things are not in your ads for example, it might be a sign that more info is needed in the actual ad. Not everyone is able to go from an ad over to a website. The 2nd thing that happens when you get a lot of questions is simply that the person read the ad, and possibly the website, but they did it a few hours or even a couple of days ago. They wrote down the # to contact you because that all looked agreeable to them, but they don't remember much about the ad itself. They may have 3 to 6 different numbers. When they contact you, it is then part of your marketing job to remind them why they wrote down the number, even if it means repeating yourself. This is why i am a phone call only, no email no texting person. You can do all that in 1 minute or less, rates/description/location/services/restrictions, and no typing, no back and forth email/text questions, just one shot and done. Basically you can choose to be annoyed by their interest in spite of the info being available, or you can seize the day and make it your mission to remind them why they were attracted to your ad in the first place. Because they probably will, out of those 6 #s they wrote down, encounter at least 3 sps who are going to bark at them 'Can't you read my ad before calling???!!!!" and hang up on them lol Also, and also very important, the phone call is to confirm what they saw in the ad or site (which isn't necessarily written by the person they are contacting). if your conversation contradicts anything in the ad or site, they will be on alert seeing that as a red flag.

Nice looking lady or not, she could use her own photos. Im sort of appalled that you or anyone would back someone using fake pictures. That is a clear insult to every lady that actually uses their own photos (and men wonder why those of us with REAL photos depicting ourselves get annoyed when people ask"are your photos real") This hobby is a fantasy not a bait and switch fairy tale. The fact people actually support women like this make me shake my head.

I will raise my drink while down south in the Caribbean thinking of all of you! I look forward to the social after March 20th. If you're a gent reading this and have not gone before I would scoop up a ticket quickly and enjoy yourself! Quality people and a great time! I will miss all you stunningly sexy ladies :( but there is always the next one, and in warmer weather could mean sexy summer dresses :)

Why is it that men pm me on a post I made about a lady. I said "I'm not saying a word". Everybody knows what that means. Why feel the need to pm me for details. If u want the "skinny" book the lady and find out. Seems like people like the gossip. I'm not a rumour starter so pm somebody else and gossip like old ladies at bingo. Thx

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I'm glad you are doing this. fwiw, if the handle is banned, and they sign on with a different handle, I think the site will show a multiple handle match.

Yes Candy is the Best maybe they will send her back here again, I fell in love with her, Halifax needs more SP'S like this.

I wonder too if this is written as a story from a sociology motive too. I mean some of the story doesn't ad up. Would not an educated lady like herself look more into the way we work, specifically the common bawdy house statement. As we all know, how little risks there are involved with having a couple of friends stop in on any given day, especially a large city like TO. What about hotels? Also her agency experience, well I suppose could be true, but in my experience most agencies are not run by a mid life ugly pimp...well not if you doing a bit of research on who is reputable for agencies. The interview is not servicing ( from my experience) Just seems like she talking from stero types rather then her experience. I could be wrong, but just thinking it doesn't add up. I could see these experiences coming from a poor soul who did not know any better on how to research her business, but being a sociology student, research should be her strongest asset.

Why I like birds. They go into the water voluntarily. Some dogs will tho, they like to go into the river or lake, etc. Good way to get cleaned up.

If you don't control who a woman has sex with, you can't control whose children she ends up having. And without that, apparently it is just chaos out there :) Sex is still used as a weapon of war. Girls are still thrown out or killed if they have sex before their assigned marriages. Girls are still mutilated in order to ensure they are not capable of enjoying sex, because apparently they are so controlled by this that they will do crazy things in order to have sex with multiple partners. The mutilation, fear of death, ostracizing, keeps them in line, so, again, we can all know who's the baby's daddy.

First, I have not seen the video, but here is my recommendation for cat washing.. Cats generally should NOT be bathed. There are rare instances that it is required. But healthy cats that are brushed often and on a nutrient diet, enriched with omega's will shed naturally and they do groom themselves. Also by bathing your cat, he can " give up" grooming himself, making it a catch 22 problem.. Is the cat matting? This is a concern, because cats thyroid and hormonal balance could be off. Also, if washing, you could be stripping the cats natural oils from the skin and fur, leaving it more easy to matt. MATS SHOULD NEVER BE CUT OUT, but rather shaved out with a professional clipper, preferably by a certified pet groomer. If you insist on bathing your cat, then best to use a waterless shampoo. It has an enzyme base that kills odor and bacteria, but leaves a nice scent behind too. There are also wipes for the bum area. Trim the fur around the bum to prevent future cling on's. If your bathing to smell pretty, then use a cat cologne you can find at pet stores. Baby powder scent is nice:) As far as safely securing your cat, you can do the hot dog method, this is wrapping the cat in a towel, arms extended and legs, gently swaddle him rolled in towel. However, this is not effective when shampooing only for trimming nails and bum fur. Best to see a pro for this. Cats do suffer the more stress as dogs for this. In most cases, your cat is safer being sedated by your vet, and let the groomer do it. I never suggest bathing a cat. It is completely against their nature.

I have been a pet groomer for 15 years. I just retired from that last year. I agree that there are many awful grooming places out there. Here is what I know.... 1, be sure not to bring your dog to a place that I call " assembly line grooming" This means a place that has more then one table with 4 tubs and cages with the dryer attached. These places do not give the gentle care your pet should receive. I refuse to even work in a place like that. Choose a groomer that works one on one. You should be waiting 2 hours for your dog in this case. 2. When it comes to bathing, depending on the kind of dog you have, you should be able to do this as an owner. However, if you have a breed or the dog just is terrified of water. It IS best to have a professional to do it for you. In a dogs mind, you are the one to provide safety. This is one reason why a Vet can seem to do things to your dog that you can not. A professional is neutral to your pet. This goes with all aspects of grooming, if your nervous your dog will be too and chances are your going to teach your dog " that bath/grooming time is a stressful thing and he should be scared" The problem of bathing your own pet, is that most of you do not blow dry after, leading to hot spots, moist dermatitis. 3, Drying your pet is not easy and can lead to much unnecessary stress to point of seizer, this is why a professional should be doing it. I never agreed to the cage drying style. First because some parts will remain moist as the dog will go to the furthest corner away from dryer laying in one spot. But also, brushing the fur as it dries is important for the skin and fur integrity. 4. a groomer is not a magician, You MUST START GROOMING BEFORE 5 MONTHS OF AGE!!!! YOUR PET NEEDS TO BE TRAINED TO ACCEPT THE GROOMING WITH EASE!!! START THE WEEK YOU GET YOUR PUP! At home you begin with " desensitizing training" meaning touch the feet with forgein objects ( pens, spoon), cotton ball the ears, have loud noises like a dryer around the pup often. Touch all parts of your dog. Find a table to put pretend to groom, so he is not scared of the table. While you have him on the table, now is a good time to teach him about brushing him:) You should do this once a week. 5. DO NOT THINK JUST CAUSE YOU GOT HIM GROOMED YOUR GOOD FOR 9 MONTHS. A pup needs to return every 6 weeks, because he will forget what he has learned. Make sure the end of a grooming session feels like success to him. NEVER EVER LAUGH AT HIM ON HIS FIRST HAIR CUT! Dogs do get shy and embarrassed if you pick him up and laugh and carry on. Let him leave on a good note:) Be proud of your pup. 6. BE SURE YOUR GROOMER IS ACTUALLY CERTIFIED in a school course that is at least 6-8 months duration. Mine was 8 months. Ask to see the certificate. There are no real regulations for this, anyone can say they are a groomer, but to say a certified pet groomer is different. You would be amazed how many are NOT certified! 7. IF YOUR DOG IS STARTING GROOMING LATE IN LIFE OR HAS SUFFERED A BAD SESSION. If it is a bad case for your pet, and he begins to froth and salivate, stress pants and scream...You are better of having your dog sedated by your vet ( many vets also have groomers on staff) then groomed. It is about 50.00 more on your bill, but there is no point to terrifying your dog to a point of seizer! Many bad things can happen to a dog that is distressed and many dogs have week hearts and murmurs. Strokes can also be a risk at this point. Hope this helps anyone with grooming concerns? I did not watch the links, my heart would break if I do, and I have to work today, lol...so ... I just groomed my poodle yesterday, here is a pic:)

Hi Red Headed Raven Some of us do read your websites, so I would say two texts to set up the Appointment followed by a confirmation the day of the appointment either by phone or text your choice then a text from you for an address or hotel number, this system has worked really good for me this past year. All I can say be patient hopefully others will read your post and actually do what you ask!!!

Additional Comments: Shaking my head here at anyone supporting someone doing bait and switch...bait and switch is cardinal sin number one. Imagine the disappointment, to say the least at someone booking an encounter with a lady based on her photos to find someone completely different at the door. How can you say she is a nice lady when she is misrepresenting herself. If she is a nice looking lady, why fake photos. And you vouching for her, well at a minimum it puts into question any ladies you support and recommend RG

Glad you had a nice visit with her, sound great. However, I am NOT "shaking in my heels" from any kind of competition in my lovely city of Fredericton. For me, I do not stress over competition, but rather I embrace it as a chance to grow and develop my skills to the best of my ability!

I pretty much agree with you. The stigma comes from the old view of male/female power dynamics, and you're right that despite many advances in many areas of society, this one fiercely resists change. For a very long time in Western society, a woman's value lay entirely and exclusively in her sexual and reproductive powers. There was a long time even in English law when women couldn't own property and had no particular claim on her children; she and they were mere appendages of the husband. (Even today, the father walks his daughter down the aisle in the marriage ceremony and "gives away" the bride-object to her new owner, and how many people really stop to ask "wait, what?"? We're all too busy being caught up in the happy security of a familiar tradition.) When sex is the only measure of your value and using it to secure a husband is your only path to financial security, you do all you can to ensure it retains its value. Women will shame another woman who shares sex freely because she's devaluing the currency in general; and everyone shames, or at least pities, the prostitute for "squandering" her own sole value for the sake of an income when she should be conserving it to secure a husband. And from the man's side you're right; his value was measured by his ability to secure a good wife (and the access to sex and reproduction that entailed). A truly successful man should have a large supply of women throwing themselves at him in the hopes of securing him as a husband. Simply buying sex with money suggested he was incapable of acquiring it through merit. Everyone was supposed to stick to the rules for the sexual "transaction", or the authorities (and their peers) would come down hard to preserve the accepted order. Or at least... everyone should always appear to follow the rules. And that's the rub, because even in such a rigid society prostitutes wouldn't exist without men to secretly be their clients. And plenty of young women, and wives, experienced sexual attraction and acted on it outside of marriage. But when institutions hold sway and individuals are lesser partners in society, you maintain appearances at all costs lest that all-powerful community turn upon you. Essentially: the powers that be, and even the individual participants in a rigid society, won't tolerate others who challenge its rules. The same thing happened to gypsies, who owned no land and therefore were seen as rootless and untrustworthy. People who disregarded the rules of sex=marriage were like sexual gypsies and suffered accordingly. These things all sound silly today, BUT... traditions die hard, even when the reasons they arose don't apply any more. Most people still think that the standard life script -- marry in a church and have kids -- fundamentally rules any successful life, regardless of other changes in society. Parents and other authority figures are happy to reinforce this idea. So you get the dual behaviour of people becoming freer with sex to a point, but still buying into the idea of it as currency to purchase marriage, and that ultimately, sex should reside exclusively within that marriage. Anything else is a threat to all those who still buy into that idea. Still... there's change underway. It's had to wait until the Old Guard largely die off and those that remain becomes outnumbered by a newer generation growing up with different ideas. Just as same-sex marriage has unexpectedly begun to achieve normality, the other anachronisms about marriage and sexuality may give way too. This could be helping to pave the way for acceptance of sexual service providers too. There will always be a conservative rump who will never accept the change, but I think those numbers are changing. We'll see.

WHAT !!! ??? !!!! Lust ends ??? Tabarnack !!! ;) Oh ya right...it lasts until wedding vows. "As I slide this ring on your finger we vow now to have sex on our wedding night and maybe on the honeymoon a little bit and then never again until ovulation time. ;)" Now take out the garbage while I vacuum. And in a few years my lawyer will contact your lawyer Fuck. whether you fall for an SP or a bartender or an accountant or the sushi guy with the big knife chopping up fish. Doesn't matter. if you pursue it and she or he isn't interested move along folks. And "love" or "in love" doesn't really happen overnight IMO. It's just a word at that point. That truly takes a little time. And once it happens it never truly goes away. The "good and loving" memories are always there :)

First as I have already posted, there is a difference between being in love with a lady versus to love a lady, at least there is in my opinion Now being in love is a treacherous minefield to navigate. And for the purposes of discussion lets assume you really are in love Not infatuated, not in lust, it's not the fantasy, but this lady is someone you want to share your life with, not just the good times but the bad times too. Remember it takes more than being in love to make a relationship work. For example, can you deal with the lady being a professional companion. As for it being unrequited love, how will you ever know unless one person brings it up and says those magic words "I've fallen in love with you and want to marry you" or words to that effect...and herein lies the minefield but it is a potential minefield that not just exists in this lifestyle but in any intimate relationship. But if a client or a lady really is in love with the other person how will they know if that feeling is mutual unless it is asked. But be fully prepared, given the nature of this lifestyle that those feelings aren't mutual. And how will you deal with being turned down if the feelings aren't reciprocated. Could you continue seeing her as a SP. Or would you no longer see her. And if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, are you going to be mature about it or get angry with her. If you can't be mature about it, don't bring up the subject. Anyhow, a quick rambling from a happily single guy who intends to keep it that way RG

If I may interjet for a moment... clients only see SPs in a certain mode. She is offering the perfect fantasy being the woman the person wants her to be in that moment through the way of intimacy. They truly do not know her in everyday life. I don't think many people would want to see me in a bad mood when I'm not working. lol. I am a grouch! This isn't to say when you see her that how she receives you is a put on but everyday life is complicated and being an SP and dealing with this is even more difficult and awkward at times.. Two weeks ago, I had 3 clients ask me out off the clock. I declined because I don't get involved with clients and no matter how great the chemistry or intimacy was, it is not indicative of real everyday life. I enjoy what I do for a living for various reasons but it doesn't make me a nympho on the hunt for a f**k buddy or because I have a great chemistry with a client that a more serious relationship should occur. I'm not looking to date anyone. I think people who see SPs or MAs should just enjoy what they have and when they walk out the door to leave it in that special place between the two of them until they meet again. So many people get too ahead of themselves with what "could be" but life is so much more complicated than that. The purpose of seeing an SP is having those lust feelings and the chemistry with someone you enjoy but also being able to leave it just the way it is which is how it's supposed to be. That's when you know you've met a very good provider! ;)

I never know what I look forward to the most; the amazing conversations, the laughs, the boobs or the food. I'm lying we all know Im in this for the food.