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I recently had some play time with some regulars of mine that I hadn't seen for a while. With these girls I have strong chemistry with and really enjoy being with. I just noticed that with certain girls when we say bye, We just hug for a few minutes and end it with some nice long passionate kisses. This too me shows that they genuine like me and enjoyed our times together. Thinking back over my many sessions. Some ended with just a quick hug and quick kiss, but the most enjoyable sessions ended with a nice hug and kiss. I'm starting to find the good bye kiss and hug important to me now. As with some girls, you never know if this is the last time you will see them or not. Due to them retiring or not travelling girls not coming back, or other personal reasons. Or the fact that I may give the hobby also. So with girls that truly mean something to me or have had a great time with. The final hug and kiss good bye shows me if there is some sort of connection between us and means something to me, just in case I never see them again :( I wonder if the SP's/MA's or hobbyist feel the same way.

I love that last connection before someone leaves especially as I genuinely enjoy (and will miss) many who grace my door. This is something I always feel the urge to do however with new clients (and some repeats) I will let them make that move as I have encountered those that prefer to just "go". As long as they leave happy, I'm happy but I do miss the final hug and kiss when it doesn't happen. In some cases you never know if it might be the last time. Life happens.

I totally agree with the last kiss being important. Its paramount as you really don't know if and when you may meet again. For me over the years its very important with my regular guests to be caught up on conversation as well. It's equally important to tell or hear that final funny story be it mine or my guests. So at my house or suite we usually linger at the door for some time talking before that final farewell kiss and hug.

Yes, the parting can be just as important and enjoyable as the middle and the beginning. When you've achieved a certain age, you are painfully and poignantly aware that the person to whom you are bidding a fond farewell may not be there tomorrow so there is some part of me that is imbibing just as much of this person as possible in the moment. And then... The next time you see her you are so full of joy that she's there you get to start all over again! But then, every new day sort of comes as a surprise to me.

I too very much enjoy the chat at the door and when the lady initiates hug & kiss - aside from appreciating the extra contact, I take it as the hint that I should get my butt out the door. Some of us are very shy and don't want to cross any boundaries - please don't hold back the hug & kiss!

For as progressive as people claim to be now, there is still way too much "ism" in the world and it seems everyone is more involved with technology to pay attention let alone stand up. We see and hear many examples of racism that impacts every race and creed, our elderly get treated badly in many situations as do our youth. Special needs, sexual orientation...there is so much judging, bias and hate. I often wonder if this is a long held taught belief and it's just accepted as truth with no questioning. Just as bad is the pity. Like Summer, I have a special needs child with many issues. If I have her in a normal situation most looks are pretty normal. She's sweet and cute and affectionate. That changes if her wheelchair is involved or she tries to communicate. The pity stares drive me. I try very hard not to judge and to instead understand. It's not always easy because there are many taught behaviors that linger from childhood, ones I still see in members of my family who haven't questioned them. For me, I focus on myself and changing my behavior. If I can do that, maybe it will impact someone else and so on. Sometimes the world changes one person at a time.

Like everyone else here, I do enjoy a long hug and some long passionate kisses when bidding a fond farewell. These long passionate hugs and kisses are equally important to me in the beginning and during the encounter. I find it not very memorable when she rushes to see you off without those acts. Sometimes, some other gestures could be very endearing as well. I remember after a lovely session recently with a reputable cerb lady here; when I bent down and put on my shoes, she lovingly touched up the hair on the back of my head and whispered gently "you don't want everyone to know that you just had sex!". It was such an adorable and unforgettable act that I will always remember her fondly!

I have to agree! Though it's usually the other way arround. I make sure to give the lady a big nice hug before leaving, to make sure she knows that i really enjoyed our time together and that i care for her more then just sex. I'm usually more a repeat kind of guy then trying new ones so it's almost always a date with someone i know.

I carry one of everything when it comes to body wash and for established guests I purchase their preferred soap; putting it in a soap saver with their monogram on it so they are the only one that uses it. I do believe that it's the little details that make an experience worth having... cat

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My two sons are quarter-Japanese and you have to look at them very closely to tell. Yet somehow, in high school, my oldest found himself being shoved up against a locker by some guys screaming about how he needed to get his GDF Jap ass back to Japan. This in a Midwestern town of about a thousand. You can find a-holes anywhere.

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Fake pictures are the first step in a bait and switch encounter. Not good, and no excuse for them RG

for someone who doesn't show their face, tattoos etc selfies can often present a challenge, which is why I update my pro shots so frequently. It's important to still stay up to date. I tweet the occasional selfie but they are mostly fully clothed or distant for discretion reasons. The 'mirror' selfie can often fail due to where the mirror is placed in the room. Mirrored closet doors next to the bed can be huge fun but if you're working with a bathroom mirror the effect isn't as classy IMO. I find it's most important that the pics be of the lady in the advertisement. I just read another review of a lady that was glowing and positive, and mentioned that even though the pics are fake, they are 'close enough'. Bullshit.

I choose to invest in my business so I only use professional photos on my website and ads, however I do post the odd selfie on twitter every now and then. I find the occasional selfie adds to who I am and allows others to see another side of myself. Keep in mind each lady is different and each one will do what is right for her and her business, personally I would not trust just anyone with a camera to take my photos (you never know what they will do with them afterwards)

I just want to bump this thread to remind people, if you have severe allergies, please make that known to your SP before arriving for your appointment. I just had a very nice fellow cut his visit short with me because of a severe allergy to dogs and cats. I put the dogs away before people arrive, and he seemed okay with that, but when Mina, my black cat, sauntered in to sniff his jacket, it was obvious it wasn't going to work. He left a generous cancellation fee, even though I told him it wasn't necessary. I have a lot of allergies myself, but luckily nothing so severe that I'd have to abort an appointment. If your allergies are that severe, please spare yourself and the SP any possible waste of time/disappointment by letting her know up front. Thanks!

I am kinda partial to this Fat Bastard brand soap Kate ;) It's extra stout....

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I too have special needs child. I have seen first hand the depths of peoples inhumanity. I have always campaigned and hoped to see changes in peoples attitudes, but I doubt I'll live that long.

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i am a mixed race person , you wouldnt know it to look at me or my brother , we are very predominately take after our father . much like my sister very much takes after our mother . to the point people are surprised that she is related to us . its funny how free people feel when , even when they dont know you they feel safe with what they see and will open up quit freely bashing other races . and than to habe them not beleive me when i tell them i am cree,but once convinced how much back tracking they try to do or try to convince you it was just a joke . i used to see it all the time as a kid with how people would treat my mom . be so polite to the person in front of us and than seem absolutely bothered by thefact that that they had to serve my mom . some one called the police on my grandfather becaise he was with 2 little white boys ( me and my cousin it would off been around '77-78' ) , my father almost got arrested for losing on the cops . of course it was different when we would visit the reserve , one of my uncles would just laugh and laugh over how easy it was to pick out the little redheaded boy in a group of naive children .

Welcome to the board. There is a ton of information here, and it would be nearly impossible to summarize it all. If you look at the top of this forum, there a number of threads labelled "sticky". This contains almost all the essential reading that a newbie should do. I would recommend the "advice for newbies" thread, as well as the "how to have sex with escorts" thread. The "Valuable information prior to visiting a service provider" thread really is a must read. Pay careful attention to the advice from the ladies about how to behave and how to contact them. Follow their rules, be a gentleman, and you will have a lot of fun. Porthos

well I showed up at the down town location,she met me at the door with a sweet teddy on. she took me to the massage aria, I got on table. she started by asking me how I to be massaged. that sweet soft voice made me feel relaxed. the massage was better then most I've had in Ottawa,and it was a full hour. some say no rush well we know that's no true She also gave me a choice of service. good price and great service.

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

So finally the day has come. It was a tough run and man I loved every minute of it. My choice for gold was too hard to make so I choose two wonderful ladies. SamiSweet Emily J I'm going to keep silver and bronze private and message the ladies privately. Also if you'd like to know why Emily and Sami won feel free to PM me.

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I do not think I could agree more. If an escort has new pics in the title of her posting I am clicking it for sure. Even if it is a girl who's profile I have viewed in the past and was not interested in. There have been times when the new pics have turned me around on a girl and I have gone and seen her. I think one of the features of new cell phone cameras that is under used is the timer. To 6Dave9's point about the poor quality of selfies I think that is one way to overcome that issue. Most new phone cameras have a more than high enough resolution for use on the internet.

My ads, like others who've been doing this for a while, started off in newspapers, usually weeklies. If our clients assumed the only time the ad was 'good' was the day the issue came out that would indeed be a LOT of money wasted, and one very busy day lol. i found that internet advertising, particularly sites like CL ES at the time, and now bp, have 'trained' clients that the only 'good' ad is one that is not just posted that day, but preferable posted within the last couple of hours. They may 'take a chance' and called someone with an ad over 4 hours old, but that seemed really rare, and possibly only if they used some kind of search filter. Basically an ad on page 2 was a dead ad, and in Vancouver and other busy cities, your ad was on page 2 within a couple of hours. I did however learn to put schedule in the online ads, so please take the time not only to look at 'today's ads, but all the ads, and you will possibly see the same kind of information. CL has very strict posting limits, and flagging and it may be possible a lady's ad gets deleted without her knowing, or she cannot post another one. With bp, the expense is so high, that she simply has to make the choice to not post daily, or utilize the less expensive sponser ad option. In fact i think there are some cases in some cities where it should be a huge red flag to see someone posting many times a day, or even once a day, when frequent ad posting is not necessary. It kind of starts to look spammy, if not a bit desperate, neither of which is attractive. So the sp may have decided to limit her ad posting, on a less busy site, in order to appear sane as opposed to needy lol

Selfies can be fun.. at best.. most are less than ideal simply because its such a poor quality shot; blurry, crappy framing, lousy exposure (in a photographic manner here plz) and the background in the selfy... a lot are taken in the bathroom and you see every single article of personal toiletry all over the ba-jesis place., it looks like a total disaster.. or in a bedroom that has 4 piles or dare I say mountains of laundry that needs attention... and that is supposed to be sexy..??? ..just generally unflattering to the lady in question IMO, and not the best to promote your business. Yes Pro-shoots have the biggest wow factor and yes, it can be expensive. What puzzles me, is everyone know someone ( another SP or MA, or just a friend that is cool) with a half decent DSLR and even a simple point-and-shot digi-cam.. right..?? So take an hour or 2 from your day, pick some of your favorite outfits, a glass of wine and have fun.. ;-) My 2c. D.

it really doesn't matter what kind they are as long as they are of the person posting the pic

I have a selection of soaps. From Dove to Irish spring, Nivea for men unscented. Some of my regulars also bring their own and I store it with their name on it:) The men that visit me really appreciate that I have gone the extra step to be sure to have a selection for them, it takes a bit of the worries away. If someone could invent a loufa that would have soap in it that would dissolve as you used it, I would be your biggest client! Cause the problem with bottle soap, it doesn't lather well on a face cloth:( I also have bars of soap which do a better job, and there was a study I had seen, saying bar of soap even after someone else uses it is actually cleaner then a bottle of soap as we touch the bottle with our hands..hmm? kinda makes since.

In the last 24 hours, and on two separate occasions, I have personally identified the pics of two well-loved CERB members that have been ripped off and used by scammers posting ads on BP in Ottawa. I have brought this to the attention of both CERB members. Here's one of those instances. As any security professional will tell you, it is impossible to eliminate theft but it is possible to reduce the incidence of it happening to you. So, I encourage you to watermark your pictures to protect your identity. You do not need photoshop or any special graphic design skills to do this! Simply open your pics using the Paint program in Windows, and overlay a transparent text box with your e-mail address, or name and last four digits of your phone number (n.b., keep the original non-watermarked photos handy should you change e-mail or phone number, and have to update that on your photos). Also, I recommend that you place the text somewhere in the middle of the picture, so that a scammer can't easily crop it out from the top, bottom, left or right edge of the image.

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put clear gelatin in the toilet bowl , a little water on top to sell it and wait for " it " to hit the fan .

That's the first I've heard of that one as I don't mind paying more for Asian women because they are awesome. Some people's kids.

I totally agree with Katherine .....You should be asking for ID

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Man, we are all waiting around to book. The ladies aren't that patient, give out two gold medals and get on with it..... lol

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we need more Marsha's out there, our oldest son is mixed and in todays society he still hears the racist comment and he only 23 and the comments all come when he leaves our small town to go to Ottawa or Toronto and especially when he is with his white GF. It for some reason does not bother him but it bothers everyone else around him. He just keeps saying that they are just ignorant, stupid and they need to get out from under that rock they are living in.

However I'm sure the label on some profiles will make some new members wonder why some are "valued members" and some aren't. It's my belief anyway that all members should be considered valued:)

Popularity contests will most of of the time cause some sort of drama.... Seem pointless to me. Peace MG

Always assumed the same as well. In fact, I thought ladies might find it a bit rude to be contacted when they weren't advertising as this might be bothering them when they wanted a day off. Up until now, I have never contacted someone who's ad I didn't see that day. Maybe I should re-think that a bit.

Good poll! Just today I got a txt, asking where have I been he had not seen my ads for while. I told him look to the right, I am there in sponsored ads, so do not feel the need to bump ad up everyday. I fins sponsor ads cheaper too, as it ads up if you bump every day:( I only bump ads up when I know I can expect a busy couple of days, other then that I stay in sponsor ad.

My vote for 2013: Most sensual: PassionVitto at ALO. Most therapeutic: Emily and Rosa at Bodycare.

I'm gonna include some people from this month too, since the year has barely just started. Most attractive: Luscious Lilly and her duo partner Lorie, Naomi @ALO, Maya @Angels/Paradise. Best therapeutic: Kelly on Cambridge, Lily from Studio Illona. Most sensuous: Marianne @ALO, Luscious Lilly & Lorie, Loraine Laney.

I think you are indeed 'New to this." if you believe that.

Nicolette Vaughn One of my favorites...a definite "hands on" approach to things ;)

And this one by Emily J is interesting and creative :)