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Communicating with an SP is in its basic form a pretty simple thing.... one would think it would be pretty hard to fool up. In most of the cases you have an interested client trying to connect an interested service provider.... seems like a match made in heaven... what could possibly go wrong... lololol. Well in my experience it more closely resembles a mind field overgrown with beautiful flowers.... in our eagerness to run and pick the flowers clients tend to run right in without stopping to read the signs or get a map. Making it worse... us guys are pretty self centered so we don't stop to think that maybe just maybe we are not the only guy trying to contact the wonderful lady.... what do you mean she has a life outside of her profession.... you mean she is not just sitting by the phone waiting for my call... lolol... yea no doubt about it... we could do a better job of respecting the needs of the wonderful ladies that we want to meet. We need to remember to stop and think before we send that second text.... we need to relax and not get mad because she did not reply... lol... in most cases it just means she is not available... it's not a personal statement... she's not being mean or blowing you off. Remember she is running a business why the fuck would she want to piss off a client :). This should go without saying guys but I will say it anyway.... when we are drinking we don't always make the best decisions or communicate effectively. General rules for us clients: - Send a message if you don't get a reply don't take it personal just move along. -Read the ladies ad and website to see how she likes to be contacted and what her availability is. Follow the instructions... it is your map through the mind field. - Read her posts and website for clues about her personal interests related to ongoing contact with clients... some like it and encourage it others have no interest. -Don't be a asshole....be polite... and just to be clear I can tell you with 100% certainty that sending her a picture of your cock will not enhance the communication process. - Keep your expectations realistic... for the ladies this is their business and you are one of their many clients. Yes most of them are passionate about and enjoy what they do... yes they enjoy the company of the men they meet and connections they make... they will make you feel like you are the Centre of their world for the time you are with them but THIS IS THEIR JOB not their whole life. Now all that said.... for the wonderful SP's: - Remember we are just mere men lol... we love your attention and are infatuated by your sexy beauty.... you impact our judgment and cause us to do things that we should know better to have done.... not making an excuse here just stating a fact. - Help us by being as clear as possible about what your expectations are around ongoing contact...Yes we should know enough to not expect you to be at our beck and call.. but every SP is unique and the more you make it clear what your expectations are the better we will be in walking that mind field. Just my opinion

Have you ever seen home alone? Well I could of stared in it! Not 2 steps out the door and wham I'm flat on my back at the bottom of the stairs. Luckily I flew so far off my deck I missed the stair and the back of my head missed any steps. All in all only my pride was hurt. Where the hell is spring and the warm weather?

Wishing everyone a happy weekend! Available: Saturday 9am-4pm Hello Gentlemen and thank you for taking the time to check out my ad! My name is Mandy, I am 22 years young, super bubbly, brunette bombshell, with a tight body that will make you say OMG! My curves are in the perfect places and my seductive green/hazel eyes will put you in a erotic trance... My soft hands will paralyze you as I touch you in all of the right spots at the perfect pace, leaving you wanting more, more and more! My bodyslides will keep you moaning while I rub my C cup natural breasts all over you... yummy, wet and slippery :wink: Don't be shy to ask to massage me, I love to be oiled up and my purrrring will keep you going! If your the type who enjoys some sexy company in the shower I am more than willing to get steamy with you. I strive on making my clients feel satisfied! So... why not come over and enjoy yourself I am sure you deserve it! Once your gone you will be left with naughty fantasies and dirty dreams for days. If you are interested in any of the above you will find me at Paradise Spa, located in the west end of Ottawa. It is a place like no other! Very clean, friendly staff, discreet, with an atm on site. The rooms have private showers, fresh linens, soaps, oils/gels, & big mirrors to watch us from every angle possible :wink: To book your sexy session call the spa, 613-820-8887 & request me! Or feel free to PM me for my availability or service inquiries. Yours truly, CandyMandy xox

I have received one of my favourite gifts recently, and I was sincerely touched by it. After we have met in California, a gentleman wrote a poem just for me. In fact I have liked it so much that I have created a page on my website just for this poem. :) Genevieve  As I gaze into the boundless skies, I realize the distance at which the brilliant stars lie. To an untold, unreachable destination I peer, Pondering if ever my most coveted fancies shall appear. Alluring eyes that disguise no deceit, Thus, compel me to feel complete. Long, lush hair that induces a perplexed stare For all the radiance that it bares. A voice so soft, so soothing, that to only The voices of the angels in Heaven I can compare. And a smile, an unparalleled smile, For which an entire lifetime I would wait; For it perpetuates a shine that even all the stars in the sky cannot create. I need seek no more these euphoric traits, For, alas, I have stumbled upon them in utter disbelief, For I have finally found each and every one of these fancies In the form of the beautiful Genevieve.

Kim Crawford sauvignon Blanc Kim Crawford Pinot noir Both found in vintages area. Around $20 each Kelly

Here is one of my faves ;) Xoxo

I been in this hobby for about five years since I turned 18 I cannot think on how many ladies I have seen in my life. I would say about 90 percent of them have been nice and friendly during our time spent together but after out session if I want to message them days or weeks later just for a quick hi how are you or a chat I get blown off or just ignored. Yes I understand some ladies are busy but is it so hard to reply back with a hi?. Even though I am getting my ged doing homework plus doing what else I do with my life I still have time to chat to friends on facebook. Sorry I had to get this off my chest

I am Feeling Like Having A Magical Session Would You Come Over And Let Me Fall In Love Whith You Just For A Moment ? I Will Kiss You Everywhere The Tips Of My Fingers Will Enjoy Every Inch Of Your Skin We Will Close Our Eyes And Leave The Intensity Flow Sensuality, Passion and LOVE I Want Your Hands On my Skin Your Lips On My Neck Can't Wait Schedule Saturday 9-11 Sunday 10-9 Schedule Next Week Thursday 6-11 Friday 6-11 Saturday 9-11 Sunday 10-9 Paradise Spa 1902 Robertson Road (Bells Corners) 613-820-8887 Feel free to take a peek at my pictures at Angelstouchmassage.ca Kisses Sab

Well no where near as much as I will.. Step away from the mundane your used to and treat yourself to a sensual escape that will bring relaxation to your body and soul. As delicate as a flower with an intriguing hint of naughty behind tantalizing green eyes. Naturally soft curves in all the right places with flowing blonde hair. I have a lovable personality that will guide you to the escape you crave. You will experience my welcoming essence within moments of meeting me and with the calmness in my eyes, I will exhilarate your passion. Experience my young physique and enticing maturity letting my fingers explore your body for the Ultimate Relaxation. What can you expect? I'll greet you at the door with a warm hug and lead you to my domain. We will share some time getting comfortable until I lead you to the shower. Soapy roaming hands all over until I lead you to the table where I will explore your body bringing you ultimate relaxation. I will then share another soft shower with you until it is time for us to to say goodbye .. until the next time. My Availability This Week Saturday March 29th 10:00AM - 10:00PM CMJ EAST Sunday March 30th 4:00PM - 10:00PM CMJ EAST Not a Member? Be my Special Guest.... PM to make Arrangements Call 613-523-6199 Book Online www.clubcmj.com or PM me

Saturday Brooklyn 11-4 NEW aka "brooklynsfinest" Mandy 9-4 aka "Candy Mandy" Amanda 9-11 aka "Triple Delight" Sabrina 9-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Bianca 3:30-11 NEW aka "Sexy Bianca" Nina 3-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sunday Tia 10-9 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Bianca 10-4 NEW aka "Sexy Bianca" Brooklyn 10-9 NEW aka "brooklynsfinest" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 10-9 aka "SabrinaXOX" Paradise Spa and Angel's Touch are asking for any donation to aid the financial assistance of a great loss to two of our employees. NO AMOUNT IS TOO SMALL. Unfortunately they have no insurance coverage :( PLEASE HELP US to fund the funeral costs. All donations are greatly appreciated. For donations please call our receptionist or donate to the attendant you see next before Tuesday. You can donate by credit/debit/check or cash. Thanks from all the staff. P.S. You can donate at Paradise or Angel's location! Online Ad check it out http://www.cerb.ca/classifieds/ottaw...2014-news.html New Sexy Pics http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/the-angels/ Schedule Updated Daily http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/schedule/ NEW Hailie Starts Monday, March 31st ...to learn more....Complimentary Duo's http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8844 Come for a 4 hand massage in our getaway room....an experience you will never forget Ottawa's Best Room! Regular Room spacious and in room shower Single Massage: 30 minutes $55. 45 minutes on special for $65. 60 minutes $80. 90 minutes $120. Duo Massage: 30 minute on special for $80. 45 minute on special for $100. 60 minute on special for $130. Getaway Room Fee: Room Features a hot tub,6 ft custom shower and fireplace for your enjoyment Single Massage: 30 minutes $70. 45 minutes $85. 60 minutes $100. 90 minutes $150. Session time @ Discretion of MA Duo Massage/Couples Massage: 2 Attendant 30 minute $100. 45 minute $120. 60 minute $150. Couples Massage: 1 Attendant 30 minute $70. 45 minute $85. 60 minute $100. HST included in all door fee prices Longer Session times available and at the Discretion of MA Mandy's Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=120757 Brooklyn's Recommendation *** NEW http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=172010 Nina's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=N&t=148577 Amanda's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=46157 Riley Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=162336 HIRING.....We seeking attractive hard working ladies! You must be 18 years of age or older to be employed at Paradise Spa. We require proof of legal age and legal eligibility to work via a valid government identification and/or other documentation as required by law. Sabrina Mandy

True. However, even a board like Cerb, in a more active section like "Winnipeg", is plagued by the common malaise of "the lurker".. Such a tendency for 100 members to lurk, while only a dozen or so "full patch" members post any information of value or merit. I scroll down a thread, and dismiss the 'low count' posters. Why? Because many of them are shill accounts that are hyping a given provider, or are simply unreliable in their assessment of a provider in question. Harsh comment? Sure. But prove me otherwise.. When I started out on the boards a few years ago, I got shot down from time to time for my taste or opinion about a given provider. That did not deter me from sharing my experience, however. I kept posting my opinions, as I saw them and called them.. And after a while, people will recognize what a given poster says, and can base their judgement on their knowledge of that posters' established track record. Which means that lurkers need to leave the shadows and start to post their opinions and thoughts about the providers they have seen. Eventually, each one that does so will establish their own "street cred" here and will actually make a contribution to the information pool. Now that I've groused that out of my system, time to shuffle off to bed.. good night CERB.

Met Carmela last night (Friday). Very cute spinner about 5', dark hair, dark brown eyes, lots of body art and a great friendly disposition. Spent some time in the CR and enjoyed our time together. She fits perfectly in my lap and knows how to get my engine running :) I will definitely repeat.

A similar thing happened to me recently last week when I was away. This is someone ( not a cerb member) who dropped off the face of the earth for 2 months after meeting me every week.. I don't demand an explanation when a client disappears for a while. That's their business. I don't ask questions. Life happens. Nor would I ever cold contact someone. He reappears.. Day 1: Morning: "Hello?" Afternoon: Hello? 1 hour later: Are you there? Repeat everyday for 5 days (3 x a day) when I didn't even have my phone turned on. Day 5 Morning: Hello? Afternoon: Hello? Are you pissed at me? Late afternoon: Hello? Where are you? I DEMAND an explanation! According to him, I don't have a life or I could have been out of town, been sick or worse, dead. I suppose I'm not entitled to be any of those things. lol. And that's when I changed my phone number.... Goodbye.

I am a happily married hobbiest ... i love my wife and would do anything for her. We have so very many things that bring us together and make us both happy but you know I a Not sure I still believe like I use to that one person can meet all of our needs....perhaps seeing others provide a venue for me to meet needs for intimacy or connection in a way that is not possible with my wife. All that said if I was forced to choose....my hobbiest lifestyle or my wife the choice would be easy...i would choose her in a heartbeat.... i chose her 30 plus years ago and have not regretted that decision for even one second. I am not sure I deserve her but I do Love her. Just my opinion

I tend to only drink red wine now, my latest favorite is a Masi Costasera (Italian) I also enjoy scuttlebutt-shiraz/cabernet(Australian) and Peter Lehmann-Barossa(Australian). Both of these are less expensive but just as enjoyable. Tasting wine is so much fun:)

Man, people are weird. The subject of communicating with SPs completely aside, who on earth imagines that once any conversation gets to this point: ... that things can possibly go well? What happy outcome do they imagine is going to transpire from there? And the icing on the cake, following that with: ... uh, maybe because you've just been filling my phone with dickish, petulant texts? Sigh.

I understand this must be rather frustrating for you. When we have an intimate connection with someone, and spend a couple or a few hours intertwined with someone both physically and emotionally, it's hard to not have expectations or desire something more. (More is vague, but I think everyone knows what I mean). It's true that everyone is busy, but people (in general) are usually selective about who they are friends with. This happens both in the industry, and outside of it. I'm certain you don't talk to every friend on your Facebook, just the ones you really care about, right? I'm not suggesting these SPs don't care about you, but I can only imagine how frustrating it gets to receive these sorts of PMs, texts, and e-mails continuously from every client, when most of those clients never book an appointment with them again. We all learn from experience, and there are a lot of people in this industry who will see a girl once and then never see her again, but expect texts, e-mails, and friendly PMs. I don't think that's a fair expectation to have. Once you've established a regular connection with an SP or MA, that's a different story, but when you've only seen someone once? That's a bit more complicated to navigate, and will definitely be dependent on how busy the worker is (both personally and professionally). I know it sucks, but that's the way it is =( You're definitely not the only one that feels that way, but we all learn with experience. I really hope you find what you're looking for, Nat xox

I recently had some play time with some regulars of mine that I hadn't seen for a while. With these girls I have strong chemistry with and really enjoy being with. I just noticed that with certain girls when we say bye, We just hug for a few minutes and end it with some nice long passionate kisses. This too me shows that they genuine like me and enjoyed our times together. Thinking back over my many sessions. Some ended with just a quick hug and quick kiss, but the most enjoyable sessions ended with a nice hug and kiss. I'm starting to find the good bye kiss and hug important to me now. As with some girls, you never know if this is the last time you will see them or not. Due to them retiring or not travelling girls not coming back, or other personal reasons. Or the fact that I may give the hobby also. So with girls that truly mean something to me or have had a great time with. The final hug and kiss good bye shows me if there is some sort of connection between us and means something to me, just in case I never see them again :( I wonder if the SP's/MA's or hobbyist feel the same way.

I went to see Trisha 2 weeks ago for the first time. She is absolutely Fantastic! She came and greeted me in a very nice revealing outfit with a nice red thong. She is everything you expect from her pictures and i would even go far as to say she is hotter than her pictures indicate. She has a great intoxicating smile just like her cute soft lips and her soft body. She had very few restrictions and kissing was allowed. She is guaranteed to make your day feel better. Msog is a service that was offered which was great! She was submissive at first but when she got into it she was guiding my hand and showing me what to do and the positions were great. She started off on top, then we switched to missionary then doggy, cowgirl and i finished in a spoon position. She was absolutely fantastic! She never once looked at the clock and knew how the human body works, she was so good i saw her again in less than 24 hours. Definitely a recommend i plan on seeing her every week from now on!

Paradise Spa and Angel,s Spa are asking for any donation to aid the financial assistance of a great loss to two of our employees. NO AMOUNT IS TOO SMALL. PLEASE HELP US to fund the funeral cost. All donations are greatly appreciated. For donations please call our receptionist or donate to the attendant you see next before Monday. You can donate by credit/debit/cheque or cash. Thanks from all the staff. P.S. You can donate at Paradise or Angel's location .. 613-820-8887

Not sure that a Question that asks about "best escorts" can be even answered "best" is so subjective.

Awesome thanks you guys... like I said i've been a member of Cerb for some time, and i remember a time a couple years ago when i used to just chat with Lexi on the phone, but then crap in life kept keeping me from getting the chance to meet and experience her, but going in to this i've already shown lexi's photos to my fiance and she's basically has the same reaction as me, and i really just wanted to see if there was a selection but I had hoped that everyone was going to reccomend my reccomentation .. lol also i'm soo happy that this thread was well recieved after i posted it i was worried that it was the wrong area or that people were gonna be mad at me for n00bing out on the forums... And Lexi i totally don't expect you to remember our chats late into the night, as i'm sure you've got the attention of so many men and women out there .... but theres a reason for that... and the other girl that was reccomended by cristy curves i appreciate it i checked out her schedule and she's in chicago- touring everywhere but here it seems ... so i'm happy to think that my single fantasy of getting to share an experience with lexi will get to happen with my soul mate involved... just love all around... like i said i love CERB and everyone on here,, you'd expect it to be a pervy creepy atmosphere,, but its not clist or bp where you have no idea whats going on ,, people here care, and are cool as all hell.... ive always been too nervous or working to make it to the meet and greet parties,, but maybe soon me and the (soon to be wife ) will make it out to such gatherings.. Seriously, thank you everyone for your replies and thoughts/suggestions,, as this is a first time for us clearly its a nerve wracking fumbling wth is going on kinda thing... but i'm glad i posted.. ( usually i just lurk and wite the odd review here and there ) but i'm glad i posted this and i really appreciate the replies .. thank you again... I feel the love, and hope i'm sending it back in appropriate quantities ! =)

It is a beautiful day today, I could actually smell a little tease of spring in the air! Ohhhh, boy, another storm Sunday:( I miss hearing the little tweets from baby birds in the morning. Is so cute when they do that, makes me giggle in the morning waking up to that sweet tweet sound! Get out everyone, enjoy some nice weather, 10+ today! Good day for the farmers market!

i love "menage a trois" its a california wine. and prefer red over white too :) BJ

The initial membership fee at CMJ is $200, which includes a complimentary 30 minute appointment, which can be upgraded to a 60 minute appointment with an additional contribution of $50. So the net cost for membership is a one-time fee of $70. For this, you sign up, and are a known member of CMJ, which I am sure is a comfort for the people of CMJ, and therefore for you. There is a also a negligible annual fee of $10 for CMJ to keep their records current. CMJ and ALO Spas are well-respected for providing wonderful times and safe experiences :)

These are very nice White wine especially for the price.

As odd as it seems if you want it to be a Winnipeg thread you have to put it in the title.

Honestly... for me what matters is the MA, not the spa. OK, the spa might matter a little bit, but the most important consideration is who I'm going to be spending time with. Having said that, I've never had an issue with any of the establishments mentioned here. The one thing I would mention is the showers... if they're big enough for two (comfortably) and in the same room, that's a definite bonus. But I'd still go for a good MA with a bad shower over a bad MA with a good shower :)

The only Wine I have tasted in the last year was a wonderful red wine called "Alter Ego" it was very good I think it was a 2006 vintage. I certainly would recommend it.

This you sexy pants ? Nice catch ;) Giver er a bigger tug ....

Have you given any thought to having your gf talk to Lexy? She is quite stunning and you three would have a great time. Sometimes with women, they need to feel a connection of the mind before they can commit to a lady. Worth a try.

Does she even do the math? The CBC "expose" here in Ottawa claims the average cost for a session with one of these girls is $200. So at that rate the trafficked victim has to see 1300 clients (or sessions in a year) which amounts to 3.5 clients every day 365 days a year. FFS really? And of course the claim that there are at least 150-180 of these girls in the Ottawa area. So do that math and on the low end that means there are 195,000 sessions a year with trafficked women in Ottawa. Really? At least make the lies believable. I mean by that math, if no guy sees more than one girl in a 24 hour period, there are 520 men having sex with trafficked women every day in Ottawa. Who the hell are these guys and where are they hiding?

Yeah lexy seems to be the one for you. I have never seen her myself as i am not a big fan of the screening process but lots of recos on cerb for her.

I cannot really help regarding options but having met Lexy, I can guarantee she woul fit the bill perfectly. She is classy, sexy, and personable. She is also very open-minded and always interested in new experiences, as long as it is within her own options. What exudes from her voice on the phone, is only part of her charm. Explore the other one, and you two guys will be thrilled.

Il Re I may be naive but I really believe in some (many IMO and from my experience) cases natural remedies are better than any medicine. In this particular case Jafo mentioned not being able to have any dental care now so I suggested oil pulling as an alternative however I think you saying that it will not work is as presumptuous as if I would assure him it would but as I said I have heard that it has worked for some and it will for sure improve his dental health.

Sorry to kind of hijack the thread but Jafo, have you ever heard of/tried oil pulling? If not, you should really try it. Some people even say they stopped going to the dentist since doing it.

It is only natural that ladies like...make that NEED to keep their personal and professional lives separate. Many need to be as discreet as possible! As for busy: I once picked a lady up at the airport. She had been in Mexico for a week. She had 300+ messages on her phone! You can't expect her to reply to that kind of volume. And on top of those 300 messages she has university courses, family life, real job etc that all need attention. These ladies can have a big load on their shoulders without us guys trying to turn them into our girlfriends.

Roughrider, I think you're talking about the Madison who was originally named Bailey at those clubs. The tall and slim one, with large tatoos (like wings on her back and paws above her boobs) and beautiful eyes, right? If so, no, it's not the same Madison. The Madison at Playmate is a shorter blue-eyed platinum blonde.

I wonder if it is boredom or is it that it is easy to take things for granted when they come too easily? There is something lost when you can fulfill all of your sexual desires and fantasies without the art of seduction. Much of the excitement doesn't come from the sexual acts it comes from the anticipation and the dance to get there. An experienced provider will ensure the dance of seduction is a part of your session. Its seems the limits in this industry are fading or are shifting. It's imperative that the girls have boundaries. Not just to protect themselves but to protect the mystique of the provider. If it becomes just about the items on a pick list of services the excitement will fade quickly. If you know how every session will play out and everything that will happen there is no seduction that occurs. The excitement of mutual touching and teasing is missing. The need to seduce a woman with your charm and personality is unnessecary if you have already picked your menu. Even though this is a service, we are humans and without maintaining the art of seduction something is lost. A percentage of guys want something a little more than drive-thru sex. Maybe you are one of those guys and just have been looking for something a little more cerebral. Less is often more! Kelly xo

Everything can become mundane if done to much, to often or doesn't hold it's excitement or challenges any longer. The reasons may be many and varied, only you know. Nothing wrong with moving on, taking a break or just waiting. We all have to do what's right for us, but do it without blame and be happy:) Additional Comments: This doesn't sound like boredom, more fed up, or frustration. Yes our prices rise, they have to, as everything else does. As far as asking for pictures, if this occurs a lot then there are reasons. Remember we have to feel secure and safe with whom we meet, we also need to know we are meeting you-the person you say you are. With disposable phones and one use emails etc it's gets easier and easier for the game players. If I can't verify a gents info then I'll ask for an emailed copy of his license. I'm a professional, my job is discretion so to question my trust or another pro's isn't necessary. I apologize if services are being cut, this I don't understand unless there are issues at hand, hygiene or something else for example. In the end this is as exciting as YOU want it to be. The key is finding YOUR right girl/girls and I hope you do:)

This is one thing I don't like about my current premises. My guest and I have to walk through a sun porch with a wall of windows for me to see them to the door. The urge is always there, even if we embraced before coming out on the porch. And some times it gets the better of us. But that can't look good to any neighbour who might see it!

I'm new to all this, only being with one lady (twice) so far, but I found the final hug and kiss a little awkward. Not that I disliked it in anyway. Quite the opposite, really: I'd love a more passionate goodbye, I'm sure. :) But, as someone new to the lifestyle, I think the passion, friendliness, and genuine caring of the lady was a little bit of a surprise. One can read volumes on encounters and what to expect, but until it's actually experienced... Which is my way of saying to the ladies, don't let us awkward newbies stop you from being you and don't give up on us. ;)

I agree about the importance of the goodbye hug and/or kiss. It's the last thing you remember about the encounter and something you carry with you for the rest of the day if not longer.

I love that last connection before someone leaves especially as I genuinely enjoy (and will miss) many who grace my door. This is something I always feel the urge to do however with new clients (and some repeats) I will let them make that move as I have encountered those that prefer to just "go". As long as they leave happy, I'm happy but I do miss the final hug and kiss when it doesn't happen. In some cases you never know if it might be the last time. Life happens.

I totally agree with the last kiss being important. Its paramount as you really don't know if and when you may meet again. For me over the years its very important with my regular guests to be caught up on conversation as well. It's equally important to tell or hear that final funny story be it mine or my guests. So at my house or suite we usually linger at the door for some time talking before that final farewell kiss and hug.

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.