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This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

Just asking this from curiosity. Hope to hear from ladies too if this happens to you a regular basis, and what might be in the minds of the gents. Often times I will book a session. Most often, men will say " I seen your posts on cerb" or what have you. But often, nothing is mentioned of CERB membership. It makes me a bit "gun shy" when I find out you are a CERB member but wish to not tell me. Does this mean you are hiding your handle from me, or just truly do not think it matters to me? See, if you book me on CERB and something happens that is NOT cool, then I guess I can report it, or ask others for a reference, but when not booking from CERB, then I do not have the site to help protect me. Is this the reason why some forget to mention that they are on CERB, so that there is no trace of us meeting? I do not know why, but it gives me the ebby gebby's to find out you are on cerb, but decide not to tell me:( Just as you wish us to be honest and open when booking, so do we. I do not like the idea of booking a handle that perhaps has pulled a bad one on another sp. That is what CERB is for, not just RECO for the ladies but the safety network for the ladies too. Curious to hear your input. I may consider a different rate for booking threw CERB, will this work?

While I imagine sometimes it is because someone has questionable motives, I suspect that often it is simply that many don't realize this is something that would give you peace of mind. This might just be one of those times when what seems obvious to your perspective and with your experience isn't to others. I think those of us who are very active on the forums are more likely to book through CERB. But no doubt for many guys it is simply just another site among many that they take a peek at to see different ads. For them it may simply not occur to them that sharing their Cerb handle is something that would be helpful and appreciated, and the fact that they say they saw your ad/pictures on Cerb is probably just a go to conversation starter. If they do indicate they found you on Cerb, I think it would be reasonable for part of your reply to be something along the lines of "Oh, you found me on Cerb. That's good to know, what is your username there?" If they don't answer, then you know there may be something else going on beyond just the person not thinking to mention it. I'm sure your idea of a discount would probably also do the trick if that works for you.

For what the the ladies provide, I am appreciative. And I never lose sight that while ladies and gentlemen are the opposite side of the same coin, for guys it is their escape, for the ladies, their livelihood. And the ladies so skilled and gifted in making what is their livelihood seem like a normal natural date that they want to be on, and you specially they want to be with...definitely only a very special lady could do that. And you feel like you had an encounter which has an intangible value far exceeding the donation she requests. With the bonus, discretion, and no strings. What do I do? I try to be the very best client I can be. Pay in full, plus gift and tip. Since I'm an outcall guy, offer wine (or some other drink) plus maybe h'ordeuvres, or dinner out or well you get the idea. If I cancel on a lady (once it happened) I pay her in full her donation...not her fault I cancelled, why should she, after booking and setting aside time for me, be out? And a postponement, well when our date rescheduled I increase our time so she gets a bigger donation I cringe hearing stories (I've heard some) about how some ladies are treated. And not just by some men, but some ladies too. So beyond being the best client I can be, if I read a post that seems to be more of an us versus them (client versus companion) attitude and bash of a lady, I'll comment. I'm a supporter of this lifestyle being respectful to all. And I do believe it is forgotten by some, that the ladies are working, to pay bills, pay the rent, put food on the table etc etc. This for them isn't an escape. They should be respected and supported for that. No shows, haggling, bashings, put downs, etc etc etc, that isn't respect or support A rambling from a supportive gentleman RG

There are lots of sexy colours (I'm partial to plum myself!), but the raw appeal of black is mostly symbolic and psychological: it's the opposite of white. White is about virginity and passivity. Black is about experience and assertion. Good girl and bad girl. Both have their place, but you can see why guys might ask for black a lot...!

Lol, very true:) I always laugh to myself when a gentlemen requests the full lingerie: garter, stockings, corsets. Because it's usually those men who then want it on the floor as soon as you display it;) If only they knew how long it takes to get into that stuff:) It's fun though to appease all tastes:)

I kinda like lots of different colors.... i think it kinda depends on the lady... her complexion, hair and eye color. So no in my opinion black is sexy but not sexiest. Just my opinion.

The MA undercover SP should go be an indy escort rather then confusing clients that go to massage establishments. Also, if the owner is turning a blind eye and allowing this illegal activity to occur due to greed, that individual is putting all of their other staff at risk of being charged, not to mention all of their clients and bringing unwanted attention of the entire industry. The laws are in limbo but are still in affect. If the owner isnt aware, then I would suggest sending an anonymous email and giving them the heads up would be highly appreciated I am sure.

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Posting this here because there doesn't appear to be a section in Halifax for just discussions. If you are an Eastlink customer beware as there is a fraudulent email circulating asking for info and for you to log into your account because of payment mix ups. I received it last night and called before I fell for it, thankfully. Just thought I'd pass on this alert.

@ cristycurves, Thank you sweetie. Let me tell you that I enjoy reading your posts very much. Your interesting comments, intelligent conversation matched with those curves is a huge turn on :). All my appreciation Lots of kisses my darling ! Eva xoxo

I just looked back on the pictures you have posted on your profile and I must say, you look amazing in them all (colors). :)

I have only recently started truly relying on SMS for doing business, as I switched from a cloud service to an actual cell phone earlier this year. I must say, I'm not impressed. I found out last week that I wasn't receiving text messages, nor were people receiving mine for... who knows how long before it came to my attention? And then I found out by looking at my usage that I was dinged 80¢ for two text messages to my daughter in the US, which she never received. First, how in the hell can they justify charging that much for a text message to the US? And then it wasn't even received?? Seems like the only thing my service (Telus) does well is billing. Then yesterday, my husband was just coming in around 2 AM when he received two text messages from one of his valued regular customers, timestamped around 9 PM. Obviously, he missed the business! And possibly left a good customer wondering if he was blown off. We're going to call Telus again on Tuesday and see if we can get to the bottom of this. Anyone have any been-there advice?

Black or white are the sexiest to me...but the type of lingerie is what makes the difference for me. Sorry to change the original question...just thought you might like to know.

I have met many providers while traveling to the States and even have friends there. From my experience, I feel that canadian girls are warmer, sweeter and more into having a great time while american girls are a bit more competitive and they place greater emphasis on looks and performance. Also, I noticed gentlemen in the US seem to appreciate Canadian ladies: I have been told often that Canadian girls are down to earth, open minded and always focused on providing you a great time. In other words, our approach is simply different... I believe and agree that there are beautiful, intelligent & warm women everywhere but I'm especially happy that us canadian girls have such a good reputation abroad. :) Eva

Actually vexing. For me, as part of offering my verification/screening information, I not only include my board handle, I confirm it through PM However I book through email (the ladies I thus far have seen prefer email) Board handle is just an added piece of information/identification If someone doesn't wish to share their board handle why mention they are even on CERB. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable or unsafe, don't book this client, potential client Anyhow a rambling RG

Most of us are guilty of overlooking and sometimes taking advantage of one another and what it takes for any of us to get through the day, especially in this line of work. I think some men especially, can take for granted, the hardships presented in this business and they are many. Even for those of us who do this on the side, so to speak and for pleasure it can be made difficult and cause us to question from time to time it's worth and if all it takes is really adding to the enjoyment of our lives. When you are a provider who wants to give more than just a quick roll in the hay(which is great and has it's place ) and offer herself as a true girlfriend, it takes a lot of planning, rescheduling, self maintenance, financial costs, confidence, physical strength/stamina, self awareness/strength of character, acceptance beyond the norm, along with all the other activities and must do's it takes to prepare yourself and ones locale. All this while fighting against the "do gooders" of society, catty girls, assholes who like to fill up schedules, waste time sending stupid texts, asking questions that are answered on webpages, cancelling for stupid reasons, cancelling last min, wanting an appt tout suite(because it only takes 5min to do all this!), men who want us to give them weeks of notice as to when we will arrive in their city then they want to give us 10 mins to get ready to see them, lol! Those who want to negotiate even after you tell them NO negotiating, even better those who tell you/me what we should be charging and are worth, yes they are the most loved;) Yes this is what most of us go through every time we open our emails, advertise and answer our phones. It is those men who treat us as if we are just another bus, forgetting that we are actual human beings, with feelings, responsibilities, needs and desires. To them I say take a step back because we ARE someone's daughter, someone's mother, niece, sister, friend, lover, wife, and maybe yours. So next time think before you speak and think even harder before you do-please. Then there are those wonderfully generous gentlemen who for no reason other than because they are gentlemen and thoughtful human beings take a moment of their precious time to send an upbeat note, make a post of thanks, keep their appts and make them ones you want to repeat, over and over, yes those are the men who make all those efforts worth it. The only problem is they are outweighed by the latter:( A thank you or kind word is such a simple thing to do and can give the receiver so much, why not pass one on today:)

It's most likely (99.9%) NOT a virus. Instead, it's an app you've installed throwing up "advertising" attempting to scare you into a purchase. Try to remember when you first started seeing this and what app(s) you may have installed around that time. Then, uninstall the app. Should fix it...

I just wonder how the person at the front desk doesn't know you are a guest at the hotel already, but you checked in earlier when other staff were on shift. As a general observation, having been to a few hotels (ok more than a few, both incall and outcall) in my day, both within this lifestyle and for other reasons, my experience is hotel staff ask questions for customer service, not to interrogate. Take the question as a customer service question because they see you as a customer. Remember hotels are in the business of providing rooms. They know people go there, whether for affairs, romantic escapes with a spouse, to see companions (btw for the first three, look at how many hotels on their websites offer romantic weekend escape deals), a place to stay while on holidays, a place to stay while on business etc etc etc. And a staff member making a customer feel uncomfortable is going to hurt the hotel's business, something hotel management doesn't want. Insofar as a hotel is concerned you are doing nothing wrong, you are a reason that they are in business. So more for future reference to anyone who feels nervous. Walk in like you belong there...because YOU DO BELONG THERE :-) A rambling RG

If anyone thinks the life of SP is all fun then they missed the fact that this is a business and their work. Just like all types of work there are positives and negatives and some SP'S are able to manage the ups and downs better. Bottom line this business is not as bad as those who want it to stop say but it also is not a bed if roses. I do know that I am very grateful for the wonderful ladies I have met and I know I appreciate all the effort they put in to make it all seem like a fantasy. Just my opinion.

I think that maybe at some sub-conscious level, black represents the dark side of our nature so it gets thought of more in terms of "sex appeal". Personally, I like some of the blues that are out there, blue being my favorite color. To echo most guys though, the woman behind the lingerie is the key, not just how she looks but how she presents herself. Her confidence and sex appeal will shine through any outfit she is wearing. One thing I will say, if you request the outfit, at least take the time to enjoy it. Like Cristy says, it takes some effort and time on her part to honor your request, make it worth her while and appreciate it. I know I will if I get the opportunity.:motion:

Black is sexy, so is blue, so is purple, so is red, so is pink, so is.....wait, it's the lady who makes the lingerie sexy, not the lingerie that makes the lady sexy No colour is really sexier, buy lingerie you like, it will be sexy A morning rambling RG

I've been known to buy lingerie for ladies, and if I happen to be buying bra/ panties, which I like doing :) there are so many " different sexy colours" as Ice4fun said, and I like bright yellow, because it is a favourite colour of mine, however reds,purples,pinks,black and even white lace ARE all be very sexy, not just black or black is sexier.

The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

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I will be flexible 5 minutes in either direction to account for watches maybe being set different. Arriving early is worse than arriving late for me though. My pre-session time is my prep time, and so if someone shows up 10 or 15 minutes early, I'm not ready and I'm not even going to answer the door. My location is near many coffee shops and restaurants, so if a client gets into the area very early, there's lots of options for killing time.

I don't get in to much discussion but it is so obvious and simple, I had to add my 2 cents (taken form RG)... Why even have a debate on this. If I make a 'Rendez-Vous' for 14:00, I will be there for 14:00... Not 13:55, not 14:05... Arriving early is not being a Gentleman and arriving late you are on your own time... It's that simple. Spare me the 'my watch says'.... or 'the hotel room clock'... most people have a cell phone. The time on my cell will be the same as the Lady. If she decides for some reasons to have you staying longer, BONUS!!!! Stop complaining people... Enjoy, life is too short for always complaining. It's a give and take! Smile and love! Just saying!!!!!

At the end of the day, no matter what type of business people are involved in, self employed or not, we all go to work because we want to earn a paycheck/make money so we can meet our weekly/monthly obligations (and then some). We all have the same motivations; I do not know of anyone who would gladly go to work 4-5-6 days a week for free (unless they are volunteering for something). BUT and here's my big BUT, some people are happy with only looking at the bottom line as long as it pays their bills while others care about much more than that: looking forward to going to work, loving what we do, feeling happy and comfortable and actually enjoying ourselves while earning that paycheck. In the SP context, some ladies will be happy to provide a quick, straight forward service to whomever. On the other hand, some of us rather offer an unrushed experience where a connection (and compatibility) is present. It's not just about the money. It's about much more than that. Two different extremes, two different worlds. There is no wrong or right here. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and how we get there is also very personal. As always, to each their own (and yes, I mean it just in case someone decides to insinuate otherwise). It's great that you have found what works for you and your clients. You (and them) seem to be on the same page and that's awesome! :) Many of the gentlemen who look for that connection are married or are in a relationship (and yes, some are single too) but it doesn't mean they are looking to get divorced or find a new girlfriend or a new best friend. They are simply looking for more than the exchange of fluids or sexual acts during an encounter ;) From a companion that finds one hour appointments too rushed and stressful and loves to establish that connection with her future patrons and cultivate the current one :) xox

I've posted in this discussion many months ago but have noticed some things happening with the 15 minute requests. What I don't like is it's become something that many men think it's the status quo. I don't offer them, I don't have anything against other ladies that offer them but lately I've had some uncalled for type comments after refusing them. "Give me a discount. I'm a student". "I only need 10 minutes and I only have xxx amount of money." " I can't afford your rates". Yet they keep on trying AFTER I said no. The self entitlement with some individuals is appalling. This is a luxury service, not a necessity like putting food on the table. Where are the boundaries with some of these people? To be blunt, this is what upsets me about 15 minute appts and with men who want them contacting me after it's clearly stated in my ad that I don't offer them. They don't take no for an answer. There is a new generation of clients out there and frankly I am old school where rarely did I see negotiations, the self entitlement and the rudeness. While there may be men out there who are polite when making these requests, I have rarely been addressed by them myself. Like I said before, I don't judge other SPs for offering them but I do have a problem when a lot of men from other sites think it's a given that SPs offer 15 minute appts. Many don't read the ads and they are very short ads!

I wanted to keep to keep this lady my dirty little secret, but thought that would be rather selfish. A few months ago I stumbled across and add that caught my attention. We exchanged several email, and with each exchange I was feeling more and more at ease. We all get nervous meeting a new girl, and this lady set me at ease after on a few simple exchanges of words. At this time she had an in call location that was easy to sneak in and out of. Seems she had thought of everything. Once I arrived I was absolutely blown away by her stunning and sexy physic. Such a beautiful face, and her curves are enough to thrown any driver off the road. If I were to describe her look it would be a combination of girl next door with a touch of wild movie star (the type of movie star we watch all by ourselves with the lights off when no one is home). I have met this absolute gem on several occasions. And each time she makes me feel like a king. I will not go into gory details, because this classy lady deserves better than that. If I could meet this girl every day I would. And I spend many a moment thinking of the next adventure that she will be taking me on. She is smart and sophisticated. Educated and real! The only bad thing I can say is there aren't enough hours in the week to spend with this absolutely amazing girl. But I guess that isn't her fault ;)

I myself turn my phone on vibrate, hold it up to my ear, and have a pleasant conversation with myself as I walk past any hotel employees. The likelihood of anyone interrupting me to ask me questions is extremely remote, especially if I am talking to my imaginary friend on the other end. Just a suggestion that works for me.

This a is a question concerning lingerie:) Is black sexier? The sexiest color for lingerie, if you think so why? Black is the most requested color I get:)

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I'm not sure if it's considered lingerie...what I think is so hot & sexy, are those one piece fish net body suits...must be hell getting one on but it was worth it. I didn't even know that about myself until I experienced it. I actually asked her to leave it the whole time...loved it! It was black...lol.

When I did a New England tour, the gentlemen all said that my approach to an encounter was like none other they had before. Not saying that I am all that, but this is what each one said to me. They would say I was more friendly, and they felt like we had known each other like old friends. That I was approachable and with out a "princess complex" So perhaps we have a different style when it comes to our endeavors? They were always surprised that I would kiss them. Saying that most escorts do not. Not sure what is different across boarders, or perhaps the ones I met were just not picking the right lady for them?

Note to self.... when I see Cristy.... practice self control....ahhhh who am I kidding.... lol

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I have asked this question before and the answer is definitely no there is no way to block a specific person from viewing your profile without completely crippling the access to it for everyone else and losing the visibility to potential clients. I am not sure of the complexity to make this happen but it really would be a feature I would love to see added. With the nature of this site and of this industry I have attracted on occasion creepy messages from members that made me very uncomfortable. It would be great to be able to filter them out to feel that one notch safer. Xoxo Kelly

There is nothing sexier than a woman that knows how to Misbehave ;) I am at Angels today, come and add some spice to my week!! We'll start with a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a deep yet sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide and let my fingers lightly explore you making you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes My Schedule for the Week of May 19 to May 22 Monday May 19- 9:00AM to 10:00PM Tuesday May 20- 9:00AM to 4:00PM Wednesday May 21- 9:00AM to 4:00PM Thursday May 22- 3:30PM to 11:00PM I am here today to heighten you senses today from 9:00AM to 10:00PM at Angels Touch call 613-274-7073, Private Message me or email [email protected] to book __________________

Best bj ever enjoyed by me was bare, conversely, the worst was also bbj. I've also had some wonderful cbj's. Ultimately in the end, a covered blow job is always preferable to a no job.

I tried a 30 min one time and found it was over way too fast so no, 15 mins for me would never happen. I rarely, if ever , book 60 mins anymore. It is usually 90 or 120 or longer. I find myself wanting more than the wham, bam thank you maam. I'm talking about something more than just getting off. There has to be some connection. A mutual feeling that comes from both parties involved. I don't mean some love thing here. After all, we know what this is, but there is an emotional, sensual connection that comes with a good sexual encounter. It's human nature and to deny that makes this all meaningless so why spend the money. I see many providers' ads that talk of an experience that encompasses body, mind and soul so it seems there is more to this for you ladies out there too. Most times I've talked to a provider about encounters, they seem to be put off by guys coming in just for quick sex, getting off and leaving. Cumming and going, as it were. It's probably why some ladies prefer to see 40-50-60's guys, (besides them being financially secure). Making money is the goal for most of you, obviously, but enjoyment in what you are doing has to be important. Believe me, if you don't enjoy it, we can tell (despite what you may think of us horndawgs).

Use thin condoms and put a little lube inside the tip. If you're any good, he won't know the difference.

I used to call myself a Nice guy. However, a little while ago, a lady friend told me: "You are not a Nice guy, you are a Good guy!". I asked what the difference was? She told me Nice guys are being nice, at least partly, because they expect something from a woman (consciously, or unconsciously), and when this expectation is not fulfilled, frustration may build up. A Good guy is nice because he enjoys to, he has his life together and is relaxed about it all. She picks up on this underlying vibe and is attracted to one and not the other. She told me that many ladies use all available signals (body language, energy, manners, how one dresses, etc.) to size up a man as quickly as she can. If you are, like me, a naturally quiet, reserved man, even though nice, it makes it more difficult for the ladies to differentiate between the Nice and the Good. Some are not attracted to the quiet guys, some are intrigued by the mystery. In my experience, the later are sometimes themselves a bit reserved and brainy, so maybe they have atomes crochus? Then she told me a secret: "You already have a golden heart and your life together. Simply work on being a playful (but not silly) bad boy at the right time and your social life will change forever". She had a mysterious but very attractive grin on her face while telling me this... like she told me the deepest secret of the Secret Women's Guild. :) Since then I applied myself to let this playfulness inhabiting my heart out, in the right way, at the right time. It is actually not easy, I am not quite there yet, but it is worth it lol. A companion told me that my new tag line described me well: "I am like good quality French vanilla ice cream, sometimes with exotic toppings such as spicy black pepper, silly jelly beans or sweet balsamic vinegar reduction". You know you should not have too much of it, but you can't resist (or that is what I hope anyway hi hi hi). Food for thought :)

There is no way that I would skip a bj. A covered one would be great, but a BBBJ is much more intimate. Having a gorgeous lady wrapping her lips around my manhood makes the experience much more pleasurable!

I have to say that this topic has always been very controversial in this side of the boarder. I will just share from my personal experiences and concerns, and situations that close friends have encountered with this type of sessions. I live in California; I've usually traveled from Southern California to Northern California and to other states. I have never offered 15 minutes sessions. If someone needed only 15 minutes, and he wanted to session with me; he had to pay for the half hour regardless if he stayed 10, 15, 20 minutes(they ended up staying longer than 15 minutes obviously). A few clients who have seen a close friend for quickies FS($60-$80); they have also visited me for $200Hh when I used to offer it. She thought many times because she was giving them a "good price" they will only see her. At the end, my friend ended up with bad reviews from the guys who once were her "quickie regulars" because they have felt rushed! WT...! what do they expect? It was damaging for her business because with bad reviews nobody would see her or they will ask for a discount or/and an explanation in why the bad reviews. 99% of the requests for 15 minutes here in Cali are men who are low-ballers and cheapskates who take advantage of the girls and manipulate them into lowering their rates and giving all FS for so little. Now, my concern is about the risks involved for every time a new person comes to their door. Here there have been girls killed, assaulted, raped, robbed by clients(or pimps), not including when they get busted by LE. They have to pay for hotel, advertisement, food, all the things needed it to run their business, beside their rent, bills, and personal and family expenses. Majority of the girls who do quickies don't check references at all because of the reasoning behind the quickie (the client just has a limited amount of time that's why he ONLY NEEDS 15 minutes). Let's not forget, the high volume of people who is coming and going, and she maybe getting unnecessary attention from hotel management. The health risks STDs/STIs, a broken C, a pregnancy. I believe this is a high risk profession and it should be treated accordingly! It is not really the time that one spends with a person that make it high risk, but the relationship between the high number of people you see and all the risks associated with SPs. In statistics, it is called Measures of association to be precise. On the other hand, the 15 minutes session is detrimental for female satisfaction! This doesn't really affect the SP, but it affects their future or current spouses/SO because the more they practice quickies the worse their performance will get overtime. BTW premature ejaculation is a symptom of ED "Practice makes perfect" they say. How fomenting PE could help an individual's sexual performance in the long run? This is just my opinion...

I would recommend Emily Oreo for this

I kinda think a lot of what we look for in this hobby is that element of seduction.... that feeling that we are seducing sexually a beautiful sexy lady or more often that the amazing women we meet are sexually seducing us through their acts of enticement and temptation. The ladies who I have met who are especially adept at the art of seduction have an innate ability to be charming ... to ascertain after just a few minutes of conversation or the exchange of a handful of texts or emails what makes us tick...what things will heighten our desire for them. They use their intelligence ... the ability to choose just the right word that will create sexual association in our mind ..., the use humour to relax us and make us feel comfortable so that we let down our inhibitions and and of course they use physical contact... a touch or a kiss and their amazing smell to arouse our interest. Seduction is creating that relaxed welcoming environment that is also highly sexually charged... it's really amazing because we know in this industry that sex will happen but yet we desire the seduction,,, the atmosphere of lust and desire... the undeniable feeling that the two people there in the room are being drawn together by something more powerful than just a sex act. Now maybe that is just me ... maybe that is what i have experienced and need... in my most successful encounters i have generally had significant contact with the lady before the meeting.. we have talked and gotten to know a bit about each other .... this contact by phone or text or email is like a pursuit... sometime me pursuing her .. sometime her pursuing me ... but in ether it creates an environment of seduction and passion that i find amazing. Sorry for the rambling... because all i really know is that the seduction is important to me the feeling of pursuit and attraction is very important to me.... the intensity is important to me... Just my opinion..

for me the time should start when the client says hello to the provider. The provider is offering time. When you go to a lawyer or accountant, the clock starts as soon as you sit down