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And I've had the opposite experience -- when I don't post an ad daily (or it's been a few days between), people seem to assume that I'm not available! (Point being, don't assume. We post or don't post for a variety of reasons :))

The role of Senate hearings may appear to be a further investigation into "facts" of the matter however their primary role is in looking at wording and grammar and legal/parliamentary language of the bill. In THEORY the Senate has the power to defeat a bill but in reality it cannot happen as it would cause a constitutional crisis as these are unelected officials. I expect that the hearings will be a farce, as were the hearings at the Justice Committee. It is clear that logic and sound argument will be ignored and the people that deliver the sex workers message will continue to be ignored and ridiculed. This is now in the hands of the political system. The ONLY way that this bill can be tossed out is for witnesses to throw away their logic and sound studies and use their time to call out the evangelicals and the Tory puppets to a degree that it will force news and media to look at this legislation. The public has no idea of the implications of this legislation. Anti Bill C-36 witnesses should use shock value or boycott the hearings entirely, because to appear with their message only empowers government to say that they have in fact listened and gives Conservatives validity. My two cents worth.

That was what I thought as well... the thing is, I've been in a few pretty messed up relationships. Then, when something happens that reminds you of the past, you may begin to think that you're still living in it. In any case, I decided to back peddle a bit and incorporate the good advice given here into my approach (thank-you all for contributing!) I sent her a text saying that I was hurt by the fact that I hadn't heard from her, but also that in the heat of the moment, I'd said some things on voice mail which I shouldn't have. Anyway, I still hadn't heard from her by late last night, so I decided to send one final text. To my surprise, she called me crying, saying that she had been completely stressed out about college starting up again, lack of sleep, the mess in her apartment, weight issues etc.. Personally I think she's gorgeous - perfectly proportioned IMHO, but I have a hard time convincing her of that for some reason. In any case, we've resolved everything and are still together. :) I just wish she would have talked to me about what was bothering her instead of disappearing. I feel positive communication is key in any relationship as it will help to avoid any misunderstandings, such as what happened in this situation.

This gentleman has proven 2 things: 1. He doesn't understand "specials". A company doesn't have to discount all of their products just because they discount one of them. Sometimes it IS actually cheaper to buy 2 of the small jars of peanut butter than 1 of the large ones when the small are on sale. (I'm not by any means comparing hobbying to peanut butter, but I do really like peanut butter!) 2. He is an ass. The fact that anyone would say such is thing to you is absolute irrefutable, beyond a reasonable doubt evidence that he is in fact an ass. Don't waste your time being upset about this as he is simply not worth it. Mikey

The briefs submitted at the Senate committee can also be found here: In English In French

Perhaps you can share what your budget is and some people can help you from there. One option to consider is going for a half hour (if you haven't thought of this). My only recommendation is since you mentioned money is tight, and you find something unusually low, just exercise caution. With your hard earned money, the last thing you need is a bait and switch. I would recommend waiting longer to save up ensuring that when you do see someone, it is well worth it. And before anyone assumes that I mean more money equals better experience, when I say unusually low, I mean someone offering $80-100/hour for fs, which is much lower then industry norms.

Another illustration of the utter pointlessness of attempts to prevent people from getting it on with other people, even when there's money involved. http://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/sex-marathon TLDR version: Porn star wants implants, fucks 25 guys in a night (on film) to fund it. Usual suspects try to shut it down, and fail due to some fairly simple "paying for X, not Y" arrangements. I really wonder when people in various positions of power and influence are going to work out that this kind of thing will happen, has always happened, and won't stop just because they disapprove? As far as I can see, their efforts to prevent this event had only two results: it was moved from an RV to an apartment (which doesn't strike me as a bad thing) and it resulted in a lot of free publicity.

Agreed ! The beauty of this lifestyle (for both gents and ladies) is the freedom to explore & discover pleasure without feeling restricted. :) Unless the provider is jealous/possessive, she shouldn't mind you seeing other ladies. After all, this lifestyle is non-monogamous and everyone is expected sooner or later to see someone else. Also, I don't recommend using the same lady more than 5 + times in a short time. I heard some ladies getting mad at clients saying they were abusing or simply getting jealous and thinking he was not interested in seeing her anymore... Personally, I always encourage my clients to explore with different ladies if they wish and will gladly recommend them a lady according to their taste & preferences. I'm always happy to provide a reference for a client I have met usually within 3 months ish. As a traveling lady, I do prefer being asked first, it makes things easier for me. Also, it allows me to remember you and be prepared to give the reference. Also, if possible, try to ask a lady you have met recently and not someone you have met a year ago or more. She might not remember you and you will end up with no references. (I speak from experience) Remember, if you are a good client and everything is done in a respectful manner, there should be no problem. :)

Definitely, that's why I said to contact the lady you are asking to give you a reference. She won't be contacted out of the blue about you, and (yes, you'll know if she'll provide a reference for you too ;-) ) And one thing to remember about this lifestyle. It is poly amorous. We all know everyone sees others, be it clients seeing other ladies, and ladies see other clients. Don't worry if the lady knows you see other ladies, she expects you to see other ladies A rambling RG

I have no ideas of her weight and this is irrelevant (plus 115 and at least D boobs is REALLY rare) but Gia Wren Marlowe is a spinner with more than lovely natural big breasts Saying they are a work of art is an understatement

I don't mean to be a dick but your priorities are completely out of sync. If you don't have the money to get massages, do not get massages. This industry is does not provide things that you need to survive, it provides things you want. It is supported off clients disposable income, if you don't have the disposable part, please use it on things you need, not things you want. Save up until you can afford it, don't lose self-respect and ask for handouts. Go to pornhub and rub one out when you are feeling the urge to spend money you don't have and tell me if that doesn't make you see the situation a little bit clearer. You can survive man, focus on the here and now, save up, work on getting more income, then in the future get all the massages you want without the dread of knowing you don't have money for food for the rest of the month.

This is the post of the year!

Interesting to hear these stories from the lady's point of view. There are lots of posts by these guys. They think they know everything! How many customers a lady sees, how much she should charge, whether she pays taxes, her annual income...they claim to know all this but have never met her. I'm saving my pennies and counting the days til your return.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/prostitution-bill-male-escort-among-witnesses-as-senate-begins-review-1.2755508

I am pretty sure CMJ gives a bd special.

As part of my regime I added 15 minutes to the exercise bike (total 45 minutes), upped the weights and reps and started doing push-ups, sit-ups and crunches...guess it's good I still feel motivated and pumped about this RG

Yes, only the ladies, agencies and spa's can post rates. Rates change all the time, if you want to know rates call or email or pm the lady and ask if not posted publicly.

First off, am not meaning to try to hijack this thread, but I've noticed over time some women who really do orgasm but there doesn't appear to be obvious signs - almost as if they're embarassed about it. Anyways, at the end of the day, PLEASE ladies, don't try and fake it, just be yourself.

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I say 25 and up for me as well, but tend to see those in their 30s as I'm more comfortable with them... But all depends the person, maturity level and who I find attractive.

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I find girls 19-21 a bit young for me. Prefer them at least 25. But recently have met some women in early 40's that have bodies of a younger woman. But they are sexy and have experience and are more passionate I have noticed then most of the younger girls. There are benefits in seeing older women I have found. But compare to me they are still young :)

Hello! First of all, thanks to the guys with kind words and I appreciate the criticisms and will adjust what I can :) Yes, no running water in suite is a bummer. I do fill up a fresh basin of water in a clean, washed bowl (I have several I change up and wash them well when the day is done) but I guess the "floaties" (omg that sounds terrible, lol!) you saw was when I would wash my own hands after your session in it first. Rookie mistake, yikes! I will have two bowls now instead, to ensure that doesn't happen again! Cancellations should not be an issue anymore. I ran into a series of unexpected events that were out of my control but should all be worked out now. I do apologize profusely for the level of frustration and disappointment you would experience from a cancellation and cannot express how embarrassing it was on my part to even have had to cancel anything. Anyways, live and learn, make mistakes & move on. That's all you can do! I hope to provide great experiences in the future for my regular gentlemen and maybe gain some others along the way :) Have a great day everyone! :)

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Some good advice above to your situation. I've been online dating on & off for a few years (not sure if that's how you met the girl). It can be a strange experience; I've dated women and thought things were going nicely - then they just stop responding to texts. I always assume they've met someone they like better; which is why i never stop my online communications with other women until things get serious (sex :) with one of them. Good luck - hope you hear from her ; you at least deserve an explanatory text.

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i see, but you know where she works? or just that she works somewhere in a certain area, and her schedule. that makes it harder for sure.

Thank your Catherine for starting this great discussion. As a new member and limited experience with SPs, I do not have much to add, but in time with a bit more experience I'm sure I will be able to add to the discussion. Keep up the good work and I'll keep up the good reading. Ron

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Single - already had my kids with my ex-wife and they're great kids ! And i'm with Roamingguy - if I'd known about this sooner, I would have saved myself the hassle of dating, expectations I couldn't (or wouldn't fill) , coffee and dinner dates etc and skipped right to hobbyist !

I think the key here is that you have NO INFORMATION except that she's been out of contact. It's natural, in trying to make sense of things, to fill that void with assumptions and fears. But there are lots of different ways this circumstance could come about. Just a few: It's possible there's been a tragic accident, so leave room for that possibility... but yeah that's not that most likely case. It could be a wide range of other things, including that she simply needs some space or is reconsidering stuff. In this case your behaviour in this interval is important. Don't inundate her with messages, just make sure she's aware that you're there when she's ready and leave her alone. It's also true she may have already made a decision and things are over, and who knows she may have made the decision a while ago... ... or even from the start. You may never know the answer. But don't get preoccupied with that last possibility, when there are still the others above that fit the available information. My only advice, knowing only what you've said here, is: send her one calm message that just says you care for her and are there if she's ready to talk again, and then leave her alone. The next step is up to her and there's nothing you can, or should, do to try to influence that.

Keep thinking positive, I'm sure things will turn out alright for you. Like others said keep busy leave her some space and if its meant to be it will work out.

If I may, and I'm sorry if I am overstepping my bounds with this.... Some girls get spooked if you push too hard, too fast. I'm not saying that this is the case here necessarily, but from what you have described, you may be pushing her to be "the one" before the relationship even got off the ground. It may be that you have come off as too eager, which sets off alarm bell for most. My best advice would be to give her a few days before trying to contact her again. Hopefully she will contact you in the mean time, but if not, be patient. When you do contact her, be casual, and don't be upset about her missing the date. She simply does not yet owe you explanations. The relationship is too new. If you do reconnect, don't try to be in constant contact with her all day every day. Give her some space and don't always sound like you are planning your futures together. Enjoy spending time with her now, and let the future fall where it will. Don't always be available either. Let her know you have friends and a balanced life outside the relationship. I'm sorry if I have misread the situation, but I am only going by what you have said. Good luck my friend. Mikey

First there may be a reasonable explanation, and she hasn't been able to get in touch yet. A broken or lost cell phone which hasn't been replaced yet may be a reason, and she has your contact info in there. Maybe she did think things were going too fast as Cato suggests. As for phone call frequency people are different. One girl I dated wanted calls every day, another just once a week. Maybe she thought the frequency was too much especially after being single and unattached (I'm assuming you met a single unattached women) Give her a week, let her get a hold of you. If she doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be, if she does, the reason she stood you up may be perfectly innocent. RG

Maybe something came up and she couldn't make the date. Give her a call next week and find out if she's OK and if she wants to go out. Maybe between now and then she'll call you Being taken for a ride. You've had a few dates. Dates don't necessarily imply long term commitment. Unless you loaned her a large sum of money or something like that even if she no longer wants to see you, that can hardly be construed as being taken for a ride...the early stages of dating don't come with commitments of being together for life. And if she doesn't want to continue dating, then she really wasn't the right one, and better to find that out now instead of a few years into a serious relationship A rambling RG

I've no advice that isn't a cliche, but just want to acknowledge that's rough. It's one thing for a promising relationship to (possibly) end, but to not know why or what's going on is a hard thing to swallow and makes it so much harder to know what to feel or, if it's come to it, move past. I hope you get your answers, and that maybe they turn out to be happy ones and it still works out. If not, then I hope you manage to put it behind you and find better luck elsewhere.

No. You've just had a revealing encounter with Modern Church: a combination club/community centre that's all about preserving privilege and enforcing rules. I think it's kind of funny that your brief rainy-day experience neatly encapsulates the reason why churches are dying today: you must meet them on their terms, or get out. At most you'll get a plastic bag as a token gesture of concern for your welfare. You got out. So do a lot of people, and not just on rainy days. There is exactly one hope for the Christian church today, and it's Pope Francis. And I say this as an atheist: that guy represents everything good about the church's potential. Go out and live in the community. Embrace people and love people, even those who don't follow all the rules you follow. Even people who are visibly deformed. Champion the poor and powerless. Provide an example of selflessness. Shun privilege, and live your ideals. And if someone approaches you in need, embrace them and help them. Don't put them to a test or send them into the rain. Because helping people is what you're THERE for. Now, ANYbody should be doing this; but Francis embodies this inside a Christian context, and suggests an admirable direction and potential meaning for a very large club indeed. In an age of corporatism, greed, and materialism, we've got exactly one prominent example I know of that reminds us how human beings SHOULD interact: not with fear, but with concern, caring, and even love. Your encounter with this dubious building that happened to have religious decorations was none of those things. And that's revealing. Shame on the place, although the individuals involved were only acting from recent example. I hope it gets better now that it has Francis' example for a possible future.

Patriots forever baby.....you know you are a successful team when everybody hates on you. Having said that, the Seahawks definitely look like the team to beat again after last nights performance. Here's to the return of the NFL...always entertaining.

Just do your research, check here and other sites and come to a conclusion. Lots of recos on here for providers but they also post on bp too. Just do your homework and you should be fine.

Congratulations Pete, this is a fabulous milestone !

Congradulation Pete! BJ xxx

I didnt specify or say anyones name...so im not putting anyone down....cept for the guilty SPs that come on board as a new member with less than 5 posts saying..."so and so is the best"..

You are not the only one who feels this way. You are not being picky or unreasonable because ultimately you have to do what is best for you. If it doesn't feel right then it means it's not for you. Always trust your instincts in this business. They never fail you. I feel the same way. Most here know of my dislike for BP. I've tried advertising there a few times and didn't like the clientele. Mostly low ballers, students who not want but expect a deal for 10 minutes. I have 20 year olds telling me my rates are too high and they can go get service for x amount as if they know everything.. Well why are they still talking to me? lol. I'm offering an experience, not a 5 minute bj that they seem to so desperately want. Then if I quote a rate for whatever length of time, they want to know the rate for a particular act. I'm an established SP. Granted, I'm not 20 years old but I believe that experience counts for something and some people appreciate that I take the time and effort for my clients. I'm sure there are some good SPs on BP but it's just not for me and I haven't had luck with it. The business has changed and while I have great regulars who appreciate spending quality time with me, I won't lie and say the thought of semi- retiring comes to mind. I don't like the direction the business has taken and I don't like being treated as though I'm someone who is a revolving door who just performs specific acts all day long. I see 1-2 clients a day since I have other things that pre-occupy my time. I have also moved over more into massage than escorting and it's something that I enjoy and that I'm good at. I am considering approaching that avenue in a professional manner. BP strikes me as one of those sites where some of the men (not all) who use the site as a get in and get out type transaction with minimal except for finishing to completion. Fast, quick and easy. What happened to the experience of being with an SP? It's just not there anymore and I'm not going to change how I conduct my business because people expect me to do 15 minute appts because other ladies are. That's their perogative and that's how they run their business. However, it doesn't mean that I have to just because someone else is doing it. The customer is not always right. For every 10 callers on BP, there was one decent client but in my experience that was also a long shot. I don't want to pay $12 USD EVERY SINGLE DAY to deal with some people who have no regard for me, that are rude, don't care for what I offer and only what is best for them. I've even had pimps try to contact me and other shady people trying to solicit their illegal business through the ladies on BP under the guise of being a client. I didn't sign up for that. There has to be a mutual respect and I certainly wasn't getting that vibe. I'd rather get a root canal 10 times over than deal with that. I can't tell you how many times I advertised on BP and wanted to rip my hair out that day. I have met many great clients on Cerb and there is more of an appreciation towards the service provider. And it's sad because most of what has been negatively said about sex workers regarding the new proposed legislation is in relation to sites like BP where it doesn't take much for someone to take a few pictures, with a cell phone number and call themselves a service provider. They don't take into consideration the community that is here and not some site where names and faces change on a regular basis.

I have used the Get-a-way Room several times. And the answer is...it depends. It depends on the MA, it depends on my mood, it depends on the amount of time booked. Sometimes the jacuzzi is a great ice breaker. You and your attendant have time to get to know each other face to face before you hop on the table. The room is larger than the regular rooms and it is kept at a comfortable temperature, just right for cavorting in the nude. Sometimes I prefer to get right down to business, so to speak. Times like that, the Spa becomes a distraction. So if you always wondered what it would be like to enjoy some quality time with a naked beauty in a hot tub, the book the Get-a-way Room. If you are pressed for time and want to get right to the massage, then the regular room is the way to go. Note: I have not seen any difference in the service levels regardless of the room.

As a newbie myself, this post is very helpful :)