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I believe what tempted Monk was trying to say is that there is inspiration in what has already been accomplished. I believe everyone, no matter what business they are in, gains insight, knowledge and inspiration from others. The good take this and build around it with their own flair and style and turn it into a unique presentation. Photographers may see lighting, posing or places that inspire something in them and they then use those ideas as a jumping point to something else. Online business may look at what other like businesses are doing in advertising and web presence. This does NOT mean anyone is coping anyone's content, it simply means they are drawing inspiration to begin their own design and development. Yes, there are people with no insight or imagination who steal ideas, thoughts, words, concepts but this is not the majority of people. I learn and gain from those around me all the time. I don't steal but I gather ideas and use them to create something unique to me. There are standards that most companion websites have to give the necessary information. Each of the headers means something different to everyone or provides a different vision. Using the same header with personalized content is not stealing, it's utilizing an industry standard. Every website has a donation page or a gallery page. There are only so many names to call this before people get confused as to the content. I think this was mainly a perception issue. When I read it, I read it as an idea jumping point. Those who have had previous issues saw it as something else and of course, everyone in between. It is NOT okay to steal content, copyrighted images or taglines, styling or whatever. I do believe ideas can be gained from research.

It is absolutely "an acceptable practice" ;) A lot of us offer social dates and are always happy to start off a date over a drink or two at the hotel bar, even for a first-time rendez-vous. It's actually a great way to meet for the first time! What I recommend you do, especially if you prefer not sending a picture of yourself to the lady is to describe yourself in details so she has an idea of what you look like (tall, medium height, slender, husky, short hair, bald, complexion, etc.) and what you'll be wearing. Also, reserve the seat next to you by asking the bartender to place a glass of water where she will sit. Place her gift bag next to it. These two are excellent cues to let her know exactly where to join you at the bar ;) Don't over think it and just have fun!

The Easter Bunny gave me an early present this year...the news I am now cancer free! The doctors called me this morning, and this certainly made it an Easter weekend to remember. I want to thank everyone for their words of encouragement and concern over the past couple of years. You certainly helped me keep my chin up through a difficult time! :D Thank you Spud271

This thread is another confirmation that the beauty of human being is a variety - we are all different. Some of us just sort of allergic to real world and practically live here, the others need to be loved and cherished (even if it is just for an hour), and some want to be with the woman of his dream (even if it is a couple times a year). And Ladies involved in this business are not less different. When two diverse person meet together and share some act of intimacy, the myriad of different outcomes is possible including good memories, friendship, and yes emotional involvement as well. It is all very personal. Who can give the rule which outcome should be avoided, what is right and what is wrong? Personally, I think that even illusion of fillings is better than nothing. And can we really define which fillings are real and which are just illusion...

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First of all ....... That Rocks !!!!!!!!!!! Secondly.... Who is MA ? Haven't been around much lately..........

I want to apologies for my first post on this thread. It was not my intention to suggest the coping of any other site. I was talking about presentation design having content out of scope completely. But it is clear to me now that most people don't separate content of web site from its presentation. And considering my post from this point of view I see that it looks inappropriate and it is completely my fault. It looks like recommendation to use other site content what was not my intention at all. My apologies.

You won't get into any legal trouble if you choose to walk away. I'm not sure why you would even consider that to be a condition to stay where you don't want to be. I mean the law is about staying & paying, really, so not staying and not paying, seems pretty simple lol there are a ton of 'how to walk away gracefully and politely' regardless of the reason, and roamingguy has hit every point that any client should follow. As an sp, I'd rather someone gives me a percentage of the fee and decline to stay, come up with a lame excuse if necessary, than to 'go thru with it' with both reluctance and the accompanying negative attitude. if it is a fee change on arrival, then no compensation, no reason to stay, no lame or polite reason necessary. You can just say that wasn't the agreed rate, so sorry, i'm going to have to pass. I know that if a client shows up and decides for any reason he's not going to pay the fee that i gave him over the phone, I show him the door. I tell him that his making the appt meant that he was agreeing to the rate that i quoted, it wasn't up to him to change it. I didn't agree to any discount in making the appt, in other words.

if the pictures are not of the person that opens the door (or the pics are 5 years ago and not what she looks like now) then you definitely have the opportunity to walk away. To me, that is false advertising. If the rate is different than agreed upon making the appointment, feel free to walk away. Rates are established when making the appointment, why would they change when you get there? Different is if the girl is reducing the rate as they may not be able to offer certain parts that were agreed upon, but they should never be raised unless you ask for longer time, more services than agreed upon, along those lines. Clients have just as much right to walk away if they feel they are being bamboozled.

Here's a short fun quiz you can do if you want to know your sex style? http://ideas.thenest.com/quizzes-and-games/quizzes/quizzes/whats-your-sex-style.aspx

BIG Happy Birthday Wishes.... May your day be amazing and full of Sunshine....

Hey RG, Have A Wonderful Sweet Birthday!

Happy Birthday RG!!! Have a fantastic day.

Happy Birthday RG And wishing many many more to come, xoxo

Happy Birthday RG!! And may U get spoiled or spoil yourself!! Bisous Barbara xxoo

Happy Birthday RG.

A Big Bithday to you Sir! Wish you the best day yet....

Happy birthday! I hope you enjoy your day!

Happy Birthday RG, have a great time today! Check that - Why not make it a whole week of celebrating?

Happy Birthday RG. Enjoy your day , it's yours !

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Happy Birthday RG, may it be a Magicial one.

Happy birthday hubby!

Have a Happy Birthday. Hope you have a great one :)

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After doing the test I proved to myself what I really am and this is the result: You're the "Porn Star" How don't you like sex? You're about exploring new sex positions and pushing the limits. Kinky outfits, sex toys, if-you-dare maneuvers and, of course, private sex tapes are all fair game to you. How can this short quiz be so right on?

Happy Birthday RG have a good one

Spending the day with the nicest and prettiest lady in PEI. The lovely Victoria Meadows .

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These ladies fit the bill: Nicolette Vaughn Bianca Jaguar Katherine (from Halifax who travels here) Luxe Mulvari Carrie Moon (from Niagara who travels here)

I hope you find that amazing lady to celebrate your birthday with but to be honest in my opinion what each of us appreciate differs greatly based on personal likes and dislikes so you might get better advise if you give us a better idea of what you are looking for in a companion. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Still is. I was there last Friday for a fetish evening. The space is really big (maybe 1500 is square ft??) Main social area has plenty of table with bar stools and a fair amount of couches. The main walls are all mirrors and lots of TV that show porn. The main bar seem to have a good amount of alcohol. I only drink wine, but bottle service seem alright. Bathroom are really clean. HOWEVER...I am not sure if that was for the fetish night only or if it is like this all the time, but the "private"/sex section wasn't so great. Mirrors everywhere, but it was mostly couches, but what I would think a sex club would have more beds for fun time...at least from my experience in other sex clubs, they have more bed/flat suraces Massive shower area, I think sex is allowed in it. Last friday there was roughly 120 ish people attending, mostly social, some BDSM play and barely no sexual activities but I was told that a fair amount of people there were regular. Surprisingly the average age was mid 20/mid 30 for couples and single women. Older random guys were there . I would assume that going with a lady friend ( or SP) would be a fairly good change of swapping/swinging

I would tend to think of connection as something more concrete, perhaps more mental (like the engine under the hood), whereas chemistry is more superficial, more physical (like the song that's playing on the radio in the car). I think that the order in which they come (if at all), is totally variable depending on the person, the setting, the weather...whatever! Needless to say, if both ties are present, oh what fun!!

Good question, connection and chemistry I feel go both hand and hand, but connection, I think is on a personal level, through communication, and chemistry is more the physical, when the two coincide, you have fireworks!! :) I have met people on Lyla, and have been so fortunate to have this experience! I have been fortunate to be able to communicate with the ones I have I met, and became great friends!

I made it split:icon_lol: But no worries, none of my gentlemen friends have ever, they all stay. and they stay because..... they enjoy my massage my talents:censored: my sweetness and sincerity my relaxed and positive attitude my locale-it's very comfortable and perhaps looking at my :oops: :body1:...figure? For whatever the reasons, many have enjoyed my companionship and I'm sure you would as well. Why not stop by for a visit. I'd be happy to make your acquaintance, or for those I've met , have some more fun! I'm available all weekend all you have to do is call -902-453-6323 and remember, no texts. Thank you and Happy Easter

Nice girl, pics are accurate. She has off-street parking, which is quite important these days...

I think this is totally in the realm of something to ask about. As someone who travels often I always think about ladies I meet in bars. One thing to keep in mind if that if arranged...you should be prepared to compensate the lady for her total time with you. PS, many ladies I know I love having a drink and just chatting with.

Anything can work provided the two people involved are communicating openly and honestly and both are aware of and accepting of the terms and conditions of the relationship. In some ways, this has more chance of working because of the communication involved. So many people enter into relationships with a tonne of assumptions whether personal, professional etc. But everyone has a different set of values and beliefs and experiences. In "normal" relationships most people don't say "Ok, I will monogamous only to you but reserve the right to flirt on occasion and don't view kissing as a sexual act". While the other person may be thinking "I will be monogamous with the exception of an occasional threesome and the opportunity to explore my bi side and view kissing as very intimate". They just begin and then react when things happen. We all have things we can accept or deal with, things we won't and then those up for discussion. If everything falls right within ANY relationship and the people involved want to make it work, it can and does. Mind you this also implies that the people involved take the risk of communicating their feelings in the first place.

This is a tough one. There could have been many different MA/SP ladies and then one day you may see someone new and `whack`!!! Right out of the blue. when you are least expecting, certainly NOT looking (like this is the last place one should look for anything but what it is) ---- and SHE appears. You "OMG" and she does the same----immediate attraction/connection. You both go WTF??? It has happened. Things happen that aren`t supposed to happen. Both of you try to keep in professional--but to no avail. You text more/talk more/ see one another a lot more.It becomes intimate in very real terms. talking, feeling, sharing ----- it goes beyond `business`. this is like a `twilight, danger zone`. You ask: Could this work? No way you say. But IT is still there. And you fall in love--OMG. But she continues to be in the business. Now this is stupid--how did i let this happen? And she loves you!!! Crazy!! Now--what does one do with that? it can`t work--can it?

Your website should represent you as a person and companion. If you ask anyone else what they think you should include on your site, you will probably get a hundred different suggestions: from having a blog to a private members' area, from detailed acronyms to general stats about your body, from selfies only to pro pictures and from-to everything else you might think of. I think the best way to go about it is to do some research, see what others have done, think about what you like and need, the type of image you want to put out there, etc., let your imagination run wild, get creative and come up with something unique and original ;) It's a fun project! Enjoy! :)

I have a few game acquaintances that for a variety of reasons I most likely will never meet and we kibitz a bit through email and twitter. There a couple of companions that I have seen and communicate with but most likely will not see again professionally or socially for that matter but we do banter, communicate and have a similar world view. I'm open and genuinely interested in people and have learned lots of personal stuff but by no means do I consider these to be friendships. After all it's a business relationship and when the business ends I have no expectation of anything else. Peace MG

When I began this lifestyle I certainly didn't expect that a true friendship could happen with a companion. It was after all at it's core a business relationship right. Well I have met a few ladies that I have connected with, and one very special lady, who has become a valued friend. Yes, at it's core, there is a business relationship. But friendship and business relationship, why are they mutually exclusive. Two other friends in my life, I met through work. Does that mean they aren't real friends...because we met through work? BTW we're all retired and stay in touch, at least once a week This lady is in fact one of four close (close defined as trusted without reservation) friends in my life. Friendships can develop in this lifestyle. Both the companion and client need to have their heads on straight emotionally. There has to be mutual respect and the relationship, both friendship and business wise must be mutually beneficial. Friendship is it's own reward, and boundaries still respected. The gentleman shouldn't expect "extras", and the lady shouldn't try to manipulate the man to get more money. I guess when I see this lady, I view it as a date with a friend, a friend who just happens to be a professional companion. Anyhow, a rambling. Hope it makes sense RG

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Thank you for sharing. So you have substance and feelings and concern, nothing at all wrong with that. This isn't a sign that you aren't meant to hobby. Every woman you meet will cause different feelings and create different outcomes, they'll all be original and what comes of them or how they continue is a private matter between the two of you. There are rules we all follow as far as discretion, but just as we all look and act differently we all have different boundaries and rules. You sound like a lovely gentleman, it would be a shame for you to stop hobbying or caring for a friend you meet. Enjoy and bask in the fact that you have feelings and aren't afraid to demonstrate them, just when doing so respect the boundaries of the one you are sharing with. Additional Comments: I used to think that too, when a married man I'd meet would confess his love for his wife. but I have wavered. Who am I to say. I'm am not in their head or heart so I think it best to allow the one speaking to sort out their true feelings without judgement. I appreciate and like your frankness and straightforwardness, lol, though:)

Great Question. I have met people here on Cerb that I consider real friends as well. For example in Ottawa and a few cities I tour into I am fortunate enough to have an offer to be picked up at the airport and I never feel stuck in any city I frequent . If I were in real need I have friends I can contact. That is a gift I treasure. Thank you ladies and gentlemen for being there. One other thing I really appreciate prior to a first date is a proper letter of introduction. I enjoy getting to know people to the level they are comfortable. I am a talker and love visiting so when I get that nice first letter I know its going to go well and I really look forward to opening my door to that person. For me connection is first and that means getting to know each other, I find chemistry naturally follows that.

Anytime I've been there (a few times this past winter), I have to say I was not impressed at all by this club. There was only ever 2 girls in (and not quite my type). They also seemed more interested in getting completely hammered with regulars and staff. The one time it looked promising, 4 girls left within 10 minutes if me getting there. All piling into one car and disappearing. Needless to say that was disappointing. The only thing I really enjoyed was talking with the bartender. And the price of the drinks can't be beat (too bad I always have to drive out there)

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