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Always, always at the beginning. This goes beyond etiquette and you have to appreciate what a highly charged topic this is. Think of it from a lady's perspective and paying after is basically holding a threat over her head the entire time that you won't pay her. That isn't a recipe to help with chemistry. And truly, far more often the lady has a whole lot more to worry about from the unknown client than vice versa! Pay for your time. If you don't enjoy it then don't repeat.

It also depends HOW you ask. a text "rates, available, restrictions" is completely different from "hello, my name is John and I would like to inquire about your one hour incall rate please". Sometimes some of us just don't respond to these types of texts.

Wow. Why are you asking to find ways to pay after? What is the reason? Does it really matter if you pay before then if you don't have an inappropriate intention? This isn't an appropriate conversation. If you're trying to find a way to avoid paying until after your experience to give less than the agreed upon amount that's pretty sad. Even if the escort didn't live up to your standards. That's a pretty greasy thing to do to a half naked woman. A deal is a deal. Sometimes the chemistry isn't there. No one is to blame for that. Opening a discussion to do a totally underhanded thing to back out of a deal is disgusting. What difference does it really make otherwise? We all take risks. Both parties involved. If you're looking to do something like this to an escort , maybe you should think about the kind of escort it is that you're seeing. This is the oldest profession in the world. For as long as it's been the customer pays first. Almost any other legit business requires you to pay first. Sent from my SM-G900W8 using Tapatalk

Another point to remember is that an unanswered text could simply mean that the lady in question was busy or is on personal time. If this is the case, for discretion purposes, I doubt they would text back after the fact unless you specifically gave consent to do so. I would follow up by whatever means requested (email, PM) or see if the lady perhaps has a website with more information. Good luck.

I would recheck the ad and make sure the info is not already there. If it is, some sps get annoyed to have a question asked that is already answered. Once you confirm it is not anywhere in the ad, then of course ask. Depending on the sp you may or may not also be able to ask or will receive services info. if you do not receive that info, don't push for it, if she is one who will not (due to recent law changes) then she will stop communication with you if you press for it. also, important is does she accept texts, or does the ad say phone call only, email only, no texts? another thing to check first lol

I am very glad to see everyone posting here in a positive way on this thread as it had potential to go very bad. I think londoncapers got his answer.

payment up front has always been proper etiquette, and I've been doing just that for over 10 years. I've had my share, and learned by experience, of the 'oh I forgot my wallet in the car' scenario and had the guy leave 'after' the fact and never return, therefore getting a freebie. I've learned since then. Sure there are ladies that do run off with the money, but you can't paint all ladies with the same brush. There are going to be experiences that are not exactly up to your standard or expectations, but we ladies also suffer from the 'lack of sensuality' from some clients. We go through with some experiences even though we don't want to. As it's often said on here, your mileage will vary. Chemistry is something that is very important to me when meeting with a client. I have turned down secondary appointments with some clients as I feel the chemistry just isn't there for me. For other clients I have had, they are just not into what I give, all they want is the 'wham bam, get in, get off, get out' scenario, which is not what I offer. Looking for ways to pay afterward is going to get you a lot of response in this forum. We all tend to look after each other. I, for one, will take payment afterwards for those clients which have a history with me. They are trusted clients and I would bend over backwards for them to fit into their schedule, so I give a little in this manner. Under no circumstance whatsoever would I ever accept payment afterwards from someone I have just met. Trust is a two way street in this business.

This happened to me many years back with a popular touring lady. In my excitement and nervousness, I totally forgot about the donation in my pocket until the lady reminded me when I was leaving. It was a big embarassment to me (probably to her too for having to ask)! Since then, I always make sure to hand over the envelop as soon as I arrive. To remind me, I even hold my envelop inside my pocket when I walk in the door. With the donation out of the way, the lady has now one less thing to worry about during the encounter. Of course, to avoid any bad dates who could potentially run off with my money, I always make sure I see only well established and reviewed ladies.

Well said everyone. There is nothing wrong with asking rates (assuming the info wasn't already provided) so long as you are respectful (very important) and discreet. It is necessary information to have. Remember that you are not paying for services, only time. Choose your words accordingly. Assuming you did that, I suspect she was merely busy or away from her phone. Good luck. Mikey

i agree , payment before is yhe only way to go , if you are scared about being ripped off listen to your senses and think twice about seeeing them . Payment before gives everybody a piece of mind

I never even thought of paying afterwards, i understand you don't want someone to run off with your money, but like cinelli said if you stick with known, reviewed ladies there is nothing to worry about. Always pay first or in advance. After spending time with some of these ladies, it's hard enough remembering my first name :P

I certainly can second the recommendation of Midnight... wonderful lady. I have not had the pleasure yet of meeting Katherine but certainly would like too.

I can personally recommend Midnite Energies and Katherine. I have seen both and wish I had the ability and time to see them more. Nothing I say here will be any different than the praise of many others, check out the recommendations section you will find all you could ever want to know. They are beautiful, sexy, welcoming and as for the time I spent, well let's just say it was everything I could want and more! I really can't say enough good things about the both of them! I suppose the only thing better than spending time with either would be spending time with both together! Now there is an amazing thought and fantasy! I've also heard great things about 50 Shades of Raven (she also goes by the Red Headed Raven here on cerb) but I have not had the pleasure of her company yet but I certainly plan to soon!

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Well, I took the plunge with this 40-something MIL* (Note: she doesn't provide the F part :lol:). (The $#@%^& censorship robot had to be circumvented). She provided me with a very detailed message describing her services, and I booked her for the most basic offering, just in case. I needn't have worried. She proved to be very friendly and highly skilled at her craft. I thoroughly enjoyed the build-up and the finale, which left me very happy. I will definitely repeat. Please note that she operates a legit studio in a multi-business building on a busy street a little outside of downtown, and she does not wish any info posted that could possibly identify her. Please be very circumspect on the public board, and very careful when sharing her info in private. I normally provide as much public detail as discretion allows, but in this case, I will err on the side of caution. I will not share details via PM either. There's no need for me to describe the session, since C provides all the info you need to know to book her, and she will deliver. Start by PMing her, and go from there. I'm sure you'll be happy you did.

Please pay before. I am sorry for your experience, really I am. I've had instances where I was counting the money and noticed anywhere between 20 to 80$ was missing. Luckily this was before play. Several decided to leave or ' were going to get the rest out of the car' and vanished. it's unfair for us to be put at risk also. As mentioned on here, see verifies independent members, reviewed members, or members who have been on here for a long time with photo sets and the like No client who wants to pay afterwards will be permitted to see me, and a lot o Sp's feel the same. It's not worth the risk to us Let's keep us all safe

I always prefer payment up front. I have a regular who assumed the half hour rate was half the hourly rate. So when he went to pay me after, he was short. He told me he would make up the difference and of course didn't. So our previous wonderful times were ruined with a bad taste in my mouth. For this very reason, all bookings are paid at the beginning of our encounter. No exceptions. Please don't make us ask for the donation. It really ruins the moment.

I'm quoting you not for any particular reason but just because this: sometimes sps get ripped off by their regulars simply because they switch to allow post payment, and that is what that bad element actually look for. at what point does the sp relax her policy, he wonders, and if you are there reliably paying after the session, it can actually influence that sp into relaxing that standard practice for any repeaters. so at some point, her new habit of doing that is going to cost her. If you truly have no intention of not paying her, i cannot think of any single reason for her to have to prove she trusts you. I can imagine a lot of worry and concern going thru her mind during the entire encounter that at the end even you will say that you forgot your wallet. I can't imagine anyone really wanted to put any sp that they do want to repeat with thru that worry. Pay up front, first visit or fiftieth, do not let her think it is OK to accept post payment from anyone. give her that consideration, and trust, and show her that it is not ok, no matter how many visits any of her clients have with her, she must always always get paid first. no one should have to prove they trust by changing their standard policy, if standard as we know is prepayment, then prepayment it is. all the time every time.

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I had a lady rip me off too not to mention a few bad dates believe it or not it happens outside of Winnipeg too....one (or a few) bad experience doesn't mean all ladies should be treated as potential bad dates. Pay a lady at the beginning of the date that IMO is proper etiquette RG

Nicolette congratulations. I have been on low carb ever since reading Wheat Belly. Now if I have a slip up and binge on carbs I feel terrible, much like a hangover. Very good motivation not to slip up for sure. I weigh myself daily and any ill effects from eating junk are readily apparent. Some things like muffins make me bloat and feel lousy. I measure myself every Sunday morning. To store gram of carbohydrate your body needs three to five grams of water. Eating a hundred grams of carbs can add four hundred grams of bodyweight.

I've always paid at the beginning of an encounter, sometimes, actually more so now, I pay even before the beginning of an encounter...I pay the lady weeks/sometimes months in advance via email money transfer When I started in this lifestyle this was explained as the proper etiquette to follow for payment Whether you have a great, good, fair or poor experience is moot, you are paying for the lady's time and companionship. Sometimes whether an encounter is great,good, fair or poor depends on the lady, more often than not it depends on both you and the lady...chemistry/connection is important and that takes two. Irrespective, my experience is the lady gets paid at the beginning of the encounter. She shouldn't have to worry if she's going to be paid. And no matter how good or bad a date is, she gets paid, so why not pay her up front to begin with A morning rambling over cup number one RG

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Hey guys! I posted some news on my profile, take a look if you haven't had s chance to. I really do miss you guys a lot. Maybe I'll see some of you soon. Xx Thank you for being so great to me and making me smile. Wgeh I started this I didn't think for a second that I would enjoy it so much let alone that I would make a few actually friends. So pleased that I was wrong. Big hugs and kisses and more gratitude than you know.

Always at the top of my list: The Perks of Being a Wallflower - Stephen Chbosky Most recently, what helped me get through a running block: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running - Haruki Murakami. All of his writing is lovely, I just finished Norwegian Wood and 1Q84 was excellent. Middlesex - Jeffrey Eugenides I Know This Much Is True - Wally Lamb

I actually just started Les livres prennent soin de nous (Books take care of us), about the idea of reading as remedy. I need to read more, obviously. Favourite authors are Suskind, Kundera, Dostoevsky, Woolf, Angela Carter, too many to list. Xxo

Pretty much anything by David Foster Wallace, Consider the Lobster was my first by him and it inspired me to read more of his work. IMHO he was one of the best writers to come out of the 20th century and we lost him all to soon as he had an incredible and unique view of the world which has inspired a number of others. http://www.davidfosterwallacebooks.com/books.html This is Water, originally a commencement speech about life is now a short book that I believe everyone should read at least once in their life. This is Water - full version An animated excerpt https://vimeo.com/68855377

I have seen Ms. Rushton a number of times now, and should have posted this review sooner. She is an absolutely extraordinary woman who creates a fantasy world you will completely escape into, where you can pretend you are the only two people on earth. For anyone curious, she is everything you are imagining and more.

Evening Folks Finally time to go thru more of Tom's stuff and to related some of the discussions he and I had at the end of his journey. My little brother, who hated when I said that, because he was born just a couple of minutes after me, really loved the community here. There were some very special people that he wanted you to know how he felt. I will endeavour to send out personal notes to as many as possible, it was a long list.....horny bastard! He did want to send out a special thank you to Marc (k) and Angie at Angels Touch and Paradise Spa. He said he was thankful to get to know you. Always spoke highly of the establishments and the ladies that were there and who played so well! To his friends on the East Coast, he loved the interaction through this venue. To his supporters that through the last couple of months gave him strength and encouragement, I say thanx. So I will endeavour to get the individual thank you's out over the next little while. House got sold, now working on stocks and stuff. His family is coping well, all still laugh at some of the goofy, stupid things he did while completely sober or after a dram or nine of his single malt! Keep well folks Charles

Maybe some ladies can not take the size. Congrats to Barbie for not being a racist.

My apologies to be so direct, but if they were so successful you are welcome to do the next one "By the way the Christmas social I spent thousands from my pocket to have it ready, you can ask loneskater or Mister T". When you do things you never expect things back, when is upset ask for everything in return" And yes loneskater has being very busy, and if you do send an email address he can refund your money, but if you don't where would you like to being send to? ALEXXANDRIA

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First for the record, the social has not been cancelled, it was postponed a second time to a date in the fall. Secondly, I did not hear a complaint when I took a few days to cash in the money to pay for said tickets. Thirdly , my last post suggested ppl, who already bought tickets, should let me know what they want to do about tickets. For the record, Ottanon did send me a PM which I saw this morning while packing my stuff. I had every intention to do the e-mail transfer today. However, these days I am helping a friend at a restaurant. Before 6 am I was awaken by txt from a server who was sick and could not come in to work. All attempts at finding a replacement failed so I had to take her spot. And it was a busy day so had ppl in till around 8PM at which time I had to interview a potential employee. Now why am I doing this post so late? well after the interview, I noticed the walk in cooler stopped working and temperature in it was rising quickly. So I thought getting that fixed and preventing the lost of thousand of dollars worth of food was more important than returning 45 dollars. So now, instead of taking 45 mins to drive back home, I will do the e-mail transfer, and just to show I am not cheap, I will send an extra dollars in interest. And BTW since its seems its the organisers who should stop living to contact everyone, I will make sure, in the morning, to txt the lady, who's ticket was also being paid for, and let her know if she comes in September, she now needs to buy her own ticket. THANKS TO ALL THOSE WHO MADE UNDERSTANDING COMMENTS!!! Additional Comments: Sorry folks guess the refund will have to wait. The only e-mail I have is the interact one (catch.interact...) Doubt I can send the refund there. Can I go home now???

Alzheimer's :-( RG

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Did you guys read this thread? THERE IS NO LIST!! And, guys who have been members for as long as 6+ years (shep6699) with zero posts until now aren't going to receive sensitive info from veterans until they prove they can be trusted. That applies also to several others in this thread who have zero or minimal posts. The way to become trusted members is to post useful info publicly and via PM. Give first, and maybe you shall receive. One last thing - THERE IS NO LIST!!

I'm doing the Atkins plan and it's become more of a lifestyle for me than anything else. I am very sensitive to carb and was dealing with adrenal fatigue and high cortisol issues. The way I was eating made it even worse. I was told I do not have a thyroid problem. Thank God! My doctor did not want to address adrenal fatigue because some think it does not exist. Many people out there are wondering why they are so tired. If you have vertical lines on your finger nails, it is a sign of adrenal stress. Daily stress accumulates and one day you feel so exhausted that you wouldn't wish your own worst enemy of having it. Just getting out of bed was difficult for a while. Hypothyroidism is a side effect stemming from adrenal fatigue as well.. I am fortunate that I don't have to deal with this. With the help of a naturopathic doctor, they actually listened. One day on this plan stopped all of that. I did go through the first 3 days of sugar withdrawl where I felt like I wanted to kill someone but I survived. lol. I have so much energy now and I'm never hungry. It says to start with 20 carbs a day on induction but I used to eat a lot of carbs so I didn't want to give my body a shock so I started with 40 carbs a day. I'm still losing. I feel very focused and energetic and I don't get that 3 pm crash. This diet has also been used for those with epilepsy. There is a misconception with Atkins that it is a no carb diet or that it's unsafe. This is simply not true. My carbs come from non starchy low carb vegetables and it is a high fat, moderate protein, low carb plan. You cannot gorge on protein all day long or it will eventually be stored as glucose. At the same rate, the protein you are eating does fill you up so in the end, you end up eating less calories. I use good fats such as butter, coconut oil and olive oil and the weight is coming off and clothes are becoming too big. On this plan your body stops burning glucose once its all used up and you then begin to go in what's called a state of ketosis where essentially you are burning your own body fat for fuel. If anyone is on this, you may get what's called ketosis breath ( burning ketones out of your mouth) so don't use mouthwash with alcohol as it tends to exacerbate it even more. I use alcohol free mouthwash and sugar free gum so my breath is good. lol. I also use the keto urinalysis strips from the pharmacy to see if I'm burning ketones. Being in ketosis ranges from a light pink to dark purple. It is definitely a good motivator to see if your body has keto adapted which means you're burning fat. I personally don't weigh myself because I don't want to feel like a slave to the scale or equate my worthiness to a number but will do so on my birthday in the next few months. I have gone down a size in jeans though. My face and stomach were the first things I have noticed that have slimmed down followed by my thighs. I cannot run anymore because the cortisol levels in my body become too high which leads to storing of abdominal fat so I started with restorative breathing, followed by yoga and now long walks because I'm trying to make my adrenal glands better. High intensity exercise will cause an adrenal crash and I used to be able to run long distances. :( I will soon try pilates. My goal is to go to 115-120 lbs whenever I get there and maintain it for life. It has to become a way of living for me now. Although I am only 5'3", I cannot go lower than that because I look really gross if I'm too thin. Bones start protruding, etc. It just doesn't look right on me and I look very tiny and sickly looking. I have always been used to have a bit of extra on me including my ample chest. lol. Wish me luck because it's something I plan to stay on. I've had to say goodbye to sugar forever and really think long and hard about this and my health. It is all or nothing with me.

Thats because Jasmin (the founder of CMJ) started the shower as part of the session when she moved to Ottawa in 2004. No one did it before her! C