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I haven't seen any reputable SP's that negotiate.

Maybe the lady was bored or had a cancellation and being dressed to the nines and ready for work..why not offer a deal to someone who showed interest in her earlier. Sometimes it's better making something rather than nothing...just saying..anyway I'm bored with this thread..too much speculation

This is really not for us to judge. Let's give these girls a break already. Sinister? Every single cerb member here, women and men alike, have cut a deal at some point in their lives for the sake of a client. SPs have to pay the bills like everyone else. Let's not assume a sinister element. If a jewellery store owner or a sports store owner decides to cut a deal for an item, should we assume his motives are altruistic? Perhaps the jewellery store owner has a drinking problem. It's really not for us to judge why someone is offering lower rates. If you feel comfortable taking a lower rate, go ahead. If not, hang up the phone. The onus is not on the SP to provide moral justification for her business practices. If you felt weird accepting a deal, that's on you. And it is not our place to judge why you accepted it in the first place. Your finances are none of our business. So are hers. If you have a problem with her business practice, why is HER reputation on the line? xoxo

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Well, I have been a member here for a good amount of time but it was only today that I realized you could see who gave you rep points by using the User CP. (Never scrolled down to the bottom of the page lol) It always puzzled me when people thanked me for giving them a rep. I thought to myself that perhaps I should spend more time viewing the posts that I made so that I could thank someone if they had given a rep to my post. So, for anyone who have given me rep points and I didn't notice (and therefor did no thank you) a great big THANK YOU!!! Blond moment (err couple of years) over for the day!

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First of all there is no such thing as the 'going rate'. If she has a certain rate and you find it too high, then decline. If she senses you're not comfortable and offers a lower rate, then you can't have it both ways: ie. not want to pay that rate but then be wary because she might sense that and then offer a lower rate. If that's the case, then seek out a gal who already offers a lower rate. Because obviously you've made it clear you don't want to pay higher. I find your question confusing. Seems like you're putting it back on the girl when in reality it is you who probably would like to suggest the lower rate perhaps, but because she does, suddenly you're wary? Sorry I don't get it. If I've offended anyone, I apologize, but I don't get what the OP is getting at.

I was rather disappointed that all of the gentlemen who practically begged me to come to Fredericton and Saint John did not contact me while I was here. And I do see gentlemen same day, time permitting, so it's not like it would have been difficult to book with short notice. I now understand why touring ladies insist on deposits. Sad, but true that if you intend on seeing a lady and then don't even bother to follow through, it does not instill a lot of confidence to return to that city.

I arrived on time and was introduced to Amanda. She had a warm inviting smile and I was instantly at ease. The place was spotless and smelled very nice. Amanda showed me to the getaway room. We discussed the options right which I prefer. The getaway room was great. It has a fireplace and hottub with music and perfect lightening to enjoy the eye candy. She ran a shower and told me I could get into the hottub when I was done. Shortly after my shower Amanda returned and joined me in the hottub. We had some small talk and I gave her a neck massage. The whole time I couldn't keep my hands off of her DDDs. After the hottub Amanda gave me an awesome massage. When I flipped over she continued to massage me in a sensuous unrushed way that I found very sexy. I won't get into specifics but her great set of boobies were absolutly amazing and made the finish even better. I will definately return to see Amanda. She is a beautiful woman with lots of class and did I mention, great tits.

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This is exactly how stereotypes are created and maintained. By people who assume, pass judgement and then claim to be devastated by it. The OP said NOTHING about needlemarks. Just because one girl who lower her rates reportedly has a drug problem doesn't mean all girls who lower their rates have a drug problem.

I can't agree with you, Amelia. People do cut deals all the time, but there are always reasons behind it. As a customer, you should understand the reason for the deal or you run the risk of making a bad deal. If someone undergoes a radical price drop in a short period of time, I think it's very reasonable to wonder why she's doing that. Specifically, I think he should wonder if the reason she dropped her rate (or her feelings about dropping her rate) is going to affect the quality of the session.

I promised Bianca a great reco, and she def deserves one. Beautiful girl with a fantastic body and figure. A little shy at first, not much to say, but really made my day. Earlier in the week I had been too stressed with life and basically decided "I need to get laid". A quick search around CERB and I found Bianca, read her profile and recos, and decided I could make time after work on Thursday. I sent her a text early that day, and waited a couple of hours - no response, so I tried again in the afternoon. She wrote back and after a couple of notes back and forth, the meeting was set. Easy enough. After the meet and greet, a small sweet kiss, and the business portion handled, I took a quick shower. Found her waiting on the bed, and began undressing and exploring a bit. She dropped down and showed her oral skills which are considerable. Deep but not DT. I would add a few tags to her profile - YMMV of course, but BBBJ, CIM/COF/COB - all were excellent. After round 1, she gave me a nice massage, and we tried some small talk. Round 2 started with more exploration and DATY, another BBBJ to get warmed up, wrapped the package then MPOS with some first class hard F'ing. Big finish with another CIM/COF/COB. Now maybe I have said too much with my descriptions for some of you, but this girl was amazing and I had a great time with everything I wanted and more, which is exactly what I look for in a SP. I hobby so rarely, that I expect quality, and that's what I got. She is not a clock watcher, and I actually ran a little over. Both of our phones rang a few times, but we were both too busy to care. Bianca is a sweet girl, so treat her right, and you will be rewarded. Enjoy!

This topic has been mentioned numerous times in threads,there is no harm is asking in a general discussion thread, as here is more threads on the topic. BTW here is some assistance for Ottawa for you Eve..... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=6189&highlight=friendly+hotels http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=55816&highlight=hotels+ottawa http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=25442&highlight=friendly+hotels http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=25720&highlight=friendly+hotels http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=8258&highlight=hotels This last thread deals with NOT using Hotel names in ad's which 99.9% of ladies do not. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=72447&highlight=friendly+hotels [url=http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=8258&highlight=hotels][/url]

Just a quick comment and question. Should we be naming the names of hotels on the board? Might be more discrete to keep it in pm's and e-mails RG

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Well there is not a lot of information in your question (nor should there be) but if it is it someone you have seen before and a lengthier appointment I don't see anything wrong with it. If it is tantamount to negotiating a better rate then there is something wrong with that as (oh I just hate to put it in these terms) but I always pay the "rack" rate and don't negotiate under any circumstances aside from asking for clarity. Sometimes I am looking to book 6 or 8 hours and this often puts me in the uncomfortable position of when inquiring of insisting on a firm quote (but better than the discomfort of a misunderstanding). If an SP that normally charges an hourly rate quotes me that hourly rate X 8 for 8 hours, well, I usually say thanks but no thanks. With a 8 hour appointment, 6 or 7 of it is going to be "social" time and I'm probably going to spend a couple of hundred dollars on a nice meal (for both of us and or some other event) so I find the rate I get quoted for such an appointment varies and yes, I have had to say "thanks but no thanks" (before it became a firm appointment) because I though it was unreasonable and then accepted a counter offer (but never ask for one): I have to assume because she figured out her "simple" math made it way beyond fair value and rethought it. As uncomfortable as it makes me (probably the most uncomfortable part of making an appointment), I only make one after a firm quote and don't argue or negotiate but if the quote is "over the top", way beyond fair then it is. I find ladies I have already met tend to be more reasonable about lengthy appointments as they do understand I'm pretty easy on the head and we just going to have a lot of fun. So to make it clear, a gentleman always pays what the lady requests and as a repeat client that is known to be zero risk (and will make more appointments in the future) I do often get preferred rates and see nothing wrong with that. If the lady doesn't know me and the published rate drops too much, yeah, I wonder why. Had to be said :) Hope that helps.

Excellent point and very true of smaller cities...like mine!

I suppose it "was" an interesting idea :) The "now-closed" kind of says it all (to me). I'm not sure what kind of clients they would attract for free and even though a brothel is definitely not my scene I'd be sure to avoid one with cameras :)

I don't think the ladies question that there are legitimate reasons for cancelling an appointment, the problem is when guys book when they know they probably won't show up. Maybe sometimes it's malicious and maybe sometimes they just don't realize that missing an appointment costs the lady money, pisses her off, she doesn't come back and tells other ladies of her experience here in NB. No shows are bad for all of us.

It happens to every hobbyiest at one point or another. My best advice is always the same, figure out a budget and stick to it! If you decide to spend more than your budget one month, best to cut back the next. If not, it can very quickly put you in huge financial trouble!!!!

This is a copy of a email I sent just now. Hi Angela, I am one of gentlemen who contacted you about meeting with you when you came to New Brunswick. I am truly sorry that I was not able to meet you for my appointment. I was involved in car accident and was in the hospital and I wasnt able to contact you. I was really hoping to see you but this was beyond my control. I hope that you'll understand. I meant to malice.. When I make an appointment I am there. This was something I couldn't control. I still feel bad about miss this appointment. I hope that you will indeed come back so that I can keep my word...

Really sorry to hear that from you Angela. We get very few touring ladies to Saint John but July is an unusually great month for us here! We have 4 ladies that I know of that are coming here. Jasmin Thai, Beautiful Anna, Emily Marie and Emily Rushton. So I say to the guys out there if you want these ladies and other ladies to come to Saint John you have to support them. If you can see more than 1 great but save your money and see at least one of the ladies. Don't book them unless you are serious about your encounter, it's worse to book and not show up than to not book at all. And let me say that I make these statements for completely selfish reasons, make no mistake about it, I like variety and I love to see beautiful women stop by Saint John to put a smile on my face.

Spending time with Angela, taking her to a few favorite spots in Fredericton:) Roof top patio, walk along STJ River....Finally some sun!! Poor girl must think the sun doesnt shine in NB...lol:)

I wouldn't count it as anything negative towards her. She may have had other people in the house / apartment with her at the time and needed to be discreet. Even if they were in another room she may not want to be discussing certain questions you might have had. As a side note, I have never met her so I am not giving any recommendation either for or against, just a reason why she might have not wanted to speak on the phone at that moment.

No need to apologize Meg. I used to send a thank you everytime I got a rep point or nomination. Then some CERBite's, in a friendly way, said no need to say thank you. One member and myself even had a little pact made up...no more thank you's LOL. And I slowly got out of the habit of saying thanks. BUT TO ALL CERBite's OUT THERE WHO HAVE GIVEN ME, OR MAY IN THE FUTURE GIVE ME A REP POINT/NOMINATION, HERE IS A BIG THANK YOU :-) RG :-)

This is more a highlight of the month to come. PEI being PEI, company is the norm through the summer. I have already had visitors and it starts again today. Friends will be here along with my daughters, my sister and her husband, and I pretty well know that I have only a few free days between now and the end of July. More than one person has said I should open a B&B, and actually that has sort of a nice feel to it. How about a CERB friendly B&B on my Island? :)

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I've been sitting here, reading some of the thought provoking threads regarding ettiquete, whether it be from an initial email, pm, initial meet and greet or an encounter. And one thing continually strikes me. In this service regarding intimacy, why is it some dont recognise the mind body connection? From the very first it begins with nothing more than a thought. Who is she? What does she look like? Will I find a gratifying experience? The excitment in a reply, the nervousness that comes with an initial encounter. Us ladies are no different. Our (my) hope is to seduce, enchant, charm, tease, entice and please you, not only your body but your mind as well. It shows. In the surroundings, the preparation, from the scent I'm wearing to the lingerie I've chosen. All to engage your senses. Sight, smell, sound, and then comes in the ability to have a thought provoking conversation. Now touch, once again, only a thought to begin with, I want to touch (her/him) here, or there. Ect you get the drift...lol I see no rush to reduce the pleasure that can be brought in an encounter from not taking the time to think about what will bring more pleasure. Even "that feels so good", is the mind only enhancing that pleasure. I may not kiss you during an encounter, but it wont stop me from hovering my mouth a half inch from yours asking you only to think about how much you want to.... We often want most what we cant have! lol Our minds are the biggest sex organ in our body. Why not utilize it to its fullest potential? Just my two cents :)

Well it sounds like the ladies have given Moncton more than a fair chance, but it sounds like the guys from Moncton who say they would like to see some of the touring ladies didn't do their part by keeping appointments. Why should a lady travel at her expense (yes, expense) to not make money A question to the Moncton guys...how many times are the ladies supposed to keep coming back to Moncton to give you guys a chance. If you really want to see one of the touring ladies, the door isn't closed to you. Moncton to Frederiction 89.97 miles, to St. John 94 miles and to Halifax 171 miles...all acceptable driving for this guy...I know, I do roughly that for almost every encounter I have A rambling RG

katherin you said it the way it is for sure. There is an expection to 3 members there, who is always pollite and does show up....but other than them, I have had an awful time to make Moncton work for me and..... I AM FROM THERE!! lol....I also experience too many ppl looking for discounts, trying to get a better deal, no shows....I think Moncton is accustomed to thier Agency girls,and strip bars and are set in their patteren. The market doesn't seem to support Indy Traveling ladies:( I was there not too long ago nbnbnb, did you not see my ad? It was like a month or so ago....ONLY 1 appt arrived!!! I had someone want 100.00 service....another wanted 20 min service...BOOOOO!!!! So wheather it is the rates that Moncton can not seem to understand....or they are used to the girls they have been seeing regularl bases?? I dont know...wish I did! But as I always tell ppl if you want me to come to see you, then book me the day before, and book for 2 hour session+ travel....then I will be there!