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It's clear that it's not your intention to discredit the ladies, but perhaps it would have been wiser not to post their names for the sake of privacy and discretion. Just my thoughts. To address your concers, yes, diet and healthy well-being do have an impact. Talk to your doctor about it; it might be testosterone, prostate, blood circulation.

Remember it's the big head that makes the little head work, as the old saying goes "it's all in the mind".Perhaps you were just having an off day/days, it happens,it's seldom any one particular reason, usually a few. It could be health, stress, diet, libido,or maybe you were just more tired than you thought, either way names should never be mentioned,ever, unless it's a reco in the appropriate section.Jmo.

All women, all shapes, all races, abilities, religions, all of it. You're all beautiful. I will echo what others have said; be respectful and clean and you'll do fine! I can't emphasize this enough--you have no need to feel self-conscious! After all, some of us CERB ladies are plus-sized ourselves ;)

I've watched the vote on both boards closely. This is a trixie dilema for many reasons; the main one for me are my ability to continue to earn an income in the event one of these occurs... 1. INCURABLE -Herpes 2. INCURABLE -Gonorrhea 3. SILENT-Chlamydia 4. INCURABLE-AIDs/HIV I don't have an issue with a gentleman having a preference but I prefer that I, as a provider, have the opportunity to get to know a guest before I am forced to make a decision. And it is "forced" as I was trained to always provide the safest service - ALWAYS - so anything uncovered is going against years of conditioning and brings concern to my mind. There are few sterotypes that we can constructively work against, STI/STD transmission is one of the ones that we can stand proud on being untrue with statistics to back it up. I do understand the preference and on this board I expected the results seen in the poll. I genuinely wonder how many men will enjoy it with the outbreaks that are surfacing. I know everyone has read the articles on the newest strain of untreatable gonorrhea that is currently under scrutiny; spreading globally and certainly wouldn't enjoy explaining how their SO ended up with chlamydia now that she is hospitalized with raging infection in her girlie regions and she is now sterile. Mitigating risk is an essential part of this business and I have concerns about the disregard most have for the health and well being of their providers vs. their own pleasure. I also am surprised at the nonchalance shown about the hobbyists own health given the fallout of incurable STD's. I've copied and pasted my response to this thread from the other board. What I would like to add is that if someone isn't in a relationship, contracting one of these will certainly alter your ability to get involved in the future. I have a seen it personally with acquaintances and it's not pretty finding someone who will overlook herpes or gonorrhea... cat

It's so hard with all the acronyms around to know what they mean. I emailed a lady and she said she was a "safe" GFE, so I responded so that means you don't do bbbj? She said yes of course, I mean I don't provide bbfs. In most cases you would assume, or at least I would, safe GFE means nothing without protection but what about daty? I find it's always best to ask, respectful questions are always met with respectful responses.

Hello my dears, I want to add to this conversation that some times getting hard or haveing an SOG doesn't have to be the end goal of an encounter. Some times an encounter can be about touch, connection and sensuality. It's possibly to laugh and f----k and get totaly blissed and never take your pants off. Sex is so much more than PIV. If you make capital L love to the whole person with pleasure as the end goal, you'll never go wrong.

I think the correct statement would be "99% of Caucasian women get mad if you tell then they have a fat ass"..... I guess us of ladies of colour are culturally raised to love our curves and accept them, since our bodies are naturally that way. Look at Beyonce, Kim Kardashian,Eva Mendes and even Nicki Minaj, all supporters of big round bootys. If you ever heard of the "TWERK TEAM" they are a famous group of girls, mentioned in lots of songs and always on interviews and in music videos, are famous for their large derrieres. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYot0uT_p2Q&oref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fresults%3Fsearch_query%3Dthe%2Btwerk%2Bteam%26oq%3Dthe%2Btwerk%2Bteam%26gs_l%3Dyoutube-reduced.12..0l2.8425.15221.0.16965.14.9.0.5.5.0.129.751.8j1.9.0...0.0...1ac.GJH1xAuS9q4&has_verified=1 Black Chyna a stripper, is so famous for her ass that Drake wrote a song about her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gWzVu_MRio&feature=endscreen&NR=1 Growing up and living in a society where where the standard of beauty is Europeanized, all models are slim and waiflike, women with my body type were starving themselves for years trying to fit that kate moss or cindy crawford look. I used to be a lot thicker, but since coming to Ottawa and being told i was too fat by gents, i slimmed down to suit this market, and have lost the large ample booty and about 2 cups sizes. i didnt loose the weight for myself, i loved my curves, but people here didnt love them i guess. When i went home for a visit, people told me to eat something, i looked anorexic, "gurl where'd your ass./titties go?" and old clients mouths dropped in shock, "where's the rest of you?' I'd explain to friends ad family that's the trend here, and that's what hey like, spinners and the like, so i had to drop the weight to fit it accordingly. Personally though, i prefer being thicker. An old club promotion flyer from a club used i to work in, pre weight loss, when i still had the ass and the 36G titties: However, nowadays, with a evolution in what is considered beautiful and the expansion of the standard of beauty to include women of ethnicity, women like the ones i previously mentioned were able to change that school of thought and now women pay big bucks to get ass implants to look ours do naturally!! lolz go figure :) Times have changed..... hopefully the trend will reach Ottawa one day.Truth be told when I am finished school and can travel I will be thick again, :) For ladies with the Badonkadonks, or "donks" for short: MAKE IT CLAP :)

This is where the true advertising comes into play! If a lady says she is full GFE then you find out that she does not allow DFK or DATY , well I personally find that misleading in her advertisement saying she is full GFE, and I wouldn't see her. As Mr.Green said earlier kissing is important to myself as well, it is part of the true intimacy with a lady.

Interesting question. I have always had fantasies until recent years. Now when I am in the mood to fantasize I find myself recalling past events as opposed to imagining something that has yet to happen, or is not likely to ever happen. For greater certainly, those "past events" I keep recalling are experiences I have had with certain Cerb ladies. That may sound like I am sucking up, but it is the truth (lol). From time to time I do wonder about an encounter with two ladies or even three, but really, such an event may not live up to expectations. I am in a small market so not likely to happen. I do fantasize about having a dinner date with one or two of my favorite ladies (you know who you are ladies), or even making dinner for a favorite lady, or a weekend away at some romantic Atlantic Canadian destination.

I go into "comfy" mode often. My "go to" outfits are mens long johns with wife beaters, a hoodie and cowboy boots. Sometimes I will add a mans tshirt. I am a "trophy" collector and have claimed all kinds of comfort garments from clients that hold special energy. I have a collection of tshirts, wife beaters, underwear, socks, ties and dress shirts from guests I have collected over the years and I still wear them when I want to relax and exhale. I love to feel "lost" in what I'm wearing so trophies fit the bill nicely as they are so comfortable AND have great memories attached to them. I'm fairly sure when I get anciently old I will be found dead in a rocking chair on a giant porch somewhere with stockings, garters, a man's dress shirt, cowboy boots and not much else on. .. cat

Damn Meg that sounda as sexy as it is comfy Posted via Mobile Device

I've got a long black cardigan that a lover gave to me, it's my go to for comfort because it's like being wraped in their arms again.

Hey Pete and Bigdawg - hope you also pm'd appreciative1!!! I'm now the fourth to participate in the thread hijack!! ..... on my way to visit at the original CMJ! waterat

Absolutely agree with you November. There is SO MUCH MORE to an encounter than sex. When you make that connection with a lady, there is chemistry, when you click, then the sexual side is so much more enjoyable. And to those ladies where that connection has been made, the encounter is more than a memory, it becomes memorable Woman are more, so much more, than just sex providers, they are, or can be companions in the truest sense of the word And to all those ladies and the memorable encounters I've had with you, a thank you RG

Well after months (yes told you I'm a long range planner) finally met a new lady last night in Toronto. Had an absolutely great encounter with her. Seeing her was a great way to end the summer. Will be writing a recommendation this weekend sometime RG

Kicking back with a good book.

The feud between two family members finally over. Thanks to my niece who is expecting a baby - can't think of a better way to bring people back together.

A good friend of mine not doing well. May end up in the hospital very soon due to heart problems.

She looked super cute. But she always does, just short and tiny and shapely lol For those who do not have After Dark (or follow jokersupdates.com), look forward to a special show on Sunday. :)

I always get my clients (if it is there first time meeting with me) to call after they arrive at the location I've asked them to go to before I give them my actual address. Only after knowing that they are at the first location will I give them directions to my in call location. I never just give my address out to a client without them calling minutes prior to our scheduled encounter.

Is this with me as the SP or me as the client? In either case, my companion(s?) and I would do all of that hot, sweaty stuff but while train-hopping from nowhere to nowhere, in a dirty dignified era of steam engines, stylish vagabonds hurtling into the sunset while air whistles into the shabby car drowning out our sounds. I haven't fulfilled this fantasy yet, but I think it has promise. With time I'll work out the finer plot points and do the story justice.

i would avoid going to an SP if there was no DATY offered. i like to get some of the details of what the restrictions are on SP's before i decide to see them. BBBJ is a must as well.

I recently stumbled upon Gia & Gabby and Gabriella Duos I don't know what to say...elegant, mesmerizing, simply stunning. My compliments.

Would daty with a dental dam be a deal breaker?

I think you may be right Angela. As clients we do very much enjoy doing that but in my case it's my version of YMMV :) I'm definitely more inclined on the second and subsequent encounters and only if there is mutual interest of course.

I would think there are more then a few women out there who would like being told they have a "big ass" since the invention of butt implants :p seriously has anyone seen pics of female rapper niki minaji or however you spell it? That ass has its own gravitational force! Posted via Mobile Device

I'm actually glad I started this thread. I've wondered if I was getting tested enough, now after reading the posts I've got things under control...well sexual health wise that is...my bank account on the other hand seems to take a beating, but for what I receive, it's one the ladies truly deserve There are no clinics where I live (smalltown Ontario), so I have to get my testing done through my doctor. But he is cool with me being tested, says it's the responsible thing to do. And he follows up personally on tests. So far nothing on my STD/STI tests, but on occasion my other tests required a follow up...he phones me personally...not his receptionist, him personally. And I'm assured he has my complete medical history. I'm also fortunate in a way, should I ever (touch wood I don't) test positive for an STD/STI I can personally contact the ladies I've seen and let them know. I know who I've seen, and their contact information. No little black book with hundred's of anonymous names here. And hopefully I never have to contact any lady. But, and this is important. If contacted I am not passing blame on anyone. We are all consenting adults here, and we all know this lifestyle has certain risks (yes we practice risk reduction). I just want the ladies who have provided me with a needed monthly escape to be tested for their health too. My morning rambling RG

Well, IMO, it's too bad that Brit went home. Danelle and Shane need to go next. I don't have a good reason except that for some reason they bug me. If Ian plays it right then he's a winner. At this time though I think Frank has it....or maybe Dan. I can't freaken believe that Dan had them all with his last speech. He's pretty good, but I can't believe they fell for it!

Britney sure looked gorgeous tonight, she always looks boobalicious but she looked like a little angel in her dress tonight. Did you hear the audience moan when Shane voted to evict Britney? Only in the BB house would a guy like Ian get away with yelling at a guy like Frank. I do respect Frank, he never gets personal, but never backs down. I watched last nights show again, it was one of the best ever for sure, Dan will become a BB legend now. For the record I love Julie Chen :)

I have heard it before from time to time. To me, that is a guy who likes more than 'just a bj', such a common request from the blow and go kind of guys. In for a minute, then out the door, imo. For some of them, they just don't like to be rushed, and what happens in many encounters is they enter the room, disrobe, and immediately, bj ensues. Almost like the sp is intent on his cumming now and getting out before his pants hit the floor. This type of client needs a little more time acclimatizing himself. If bj ensues down the road, it is usually just a bridge to the final destination. So covered or uncovered, usually makes no difference. Also benefit from cbj is a slightly less sensation, so more likely to last longer. Even more bonus, is CIM is always available with a cbj. No one has to stop at the ultimate moment, remove from the mouth and finish by hand.

I choose a provider based on many things but they have to do with how i feel the chemistry will be, not on what her services are or are not- with the one exception of kissing-thats the only deal breaker for me, when it comes to Bj,s covered or not i,m comfortable with what she is comfortable providing,its her choice not mine and i,ll accept that !

Jessie Sommers, an awesomely beautiful album, now updated http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3078

I haven't seen her, but want to after I saw her her new secretary pics!!