Turn-offs for a lady

[squirtingmilf 1982]

Some guy texted me last night for an appointment and it was around 7 pm or so, late supper and I was famished. I told him I was about to eat supper, then he proceeds to text me and text me again. I wasn't rude but I wasn't nice either, I just simply said I'm eating and what does he do? Texts me twice again after that. Come on, if someone says they're eating or going to eat, give them a half hour or an hour and then message them back.

[Guest *l**e]

why not just say "I'm eating, I'll text you when I'm done".

 

by just saying you are eating, that doesn't meanto everyobe that you don't wish to converse. many people text while eating. be specific and maybe it will work better.

that said, there are some dumdums in the world...just ignore those.

[squirtingmilf 1982]

why not just say "I'm eating, I'll text you when I'm done".

 

by just saying you are eating, that doesn't meanto everyobe that you don't wish to converse. many people text while eating. be specific and maybe it will work better.

that said, there are some dumdums in the world...just ignore those.

 

I told him when he initially text that I was going to eat, he sent me a few texts after that .. then I got fed up and said I'm eating at which time he still proceeded to text. I thought I clarified that earlier in my posts, but guess not.

[PistolPete 61421]

Sounds like this thread should simply be put in this ongoing thread....which I don't follow but think they should be merged.

 

 

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=176753

[peacectryguy 12523]

I think texting has become the most intrusive thing in our modern society. People think that they can text and text and text some more. Honestly, sometimes I would just prefer the phone call. If I am busy, I can explain that clearly and just say the I will call them back when I am available. Now, for you ladies, I can't imagine the idiots you have to deal with on a daily basis but I know if I sent a text to a lady and she said, "I'm just sitting down to eat.", I would text one more time to apologize and just get in touch when you are available. Simple courtesy, imo, but I realize that courtesy and manners are getting rare these days, much like common sense.

[squirtingmilf 1982]

I don't mind texting as a general rule, I find it more discreet than a phone call, since I'm not the type of lady that sits around waiting for phone calls and am often out and about, so talking on the phone is a bit of pain and less discreet. But I do agree it is intrusive at times. As for common sense.. I think some people should buy it lol .. it lacks nowadays on so many levels hahaha!

 

When I change my name (since I won't be able to use it anymore due to the new laws and rules). I think I'm going to move to strictly email contact vs phone number contact.

[peacectryguy 12523]

Yeah, common sense is anything but common these days, it seems. I wonder if someone should start a course at the local community college to teach it to all the dummies out there. That could be my retirement job. Of course, most of my days would be spent in "facepalm" mode. :icon_wink:

[Ice4fun 78396]

Some guy texted me last night for an appointment and it was around 7 pm or so, late supper and I was famished. I told him I was about to eat supper, then he proceeds to text me and text me again. I wasn't rude but I wasn't nice either, I just simply said I'm eating and what does he do? Texts me twice again after that. Come on, if someone says they're eating or going to eat, give them a half hour or an hour and then message them back.

 

I really don't think this is a texting issue... it's more a matter of good manners.

 

I appreciate and try to respect the methods of contact that a lady may identify as her preferred method in her ad or on her website but when texting is an option it would be my preferred method. It allows me to converse discreetly with a lady even when my wife is around.

 

So I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with text... in fact i think that the people who are assholes via text will be the same when communicating in other ways too.

 

Just my Opinion

[squirtingmilf 1982]

Yeah, common sense is anything but common these days, it seems. I wonder if someone should start a course at the local community college to teach it to all the dummies out there. That could be my retirement job. Of course, most of my days would be spent in "facepalm" mode. :icon_wink:

 

bahaha .. more than likely on the facepalm mode, then again you might end up shaking your H so much you go into continual neck spasms :)

[lilly 10171]

"Are you available tonight? Do you have recommendations?"

 

Not a new member sadly.

[lender 110]

This is very useful information and good for all to know. Thanks

[Andee 220524]

When you have never seen me, aren't interested in booking me, but contact me to ask me about another lady. Not cool.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

"How does this work?" Really? I refuse to be a hand holder. If they have come this far, I'm sure they have an inkling of what it entails. I'm not there to give instructions on "how to figure it out". Directed the person to my website.

 

Don't use my hairbrush if you see it laying on the counter!

 

I have an age minimum of 30+, please don't try and twist my arm to make me see you. I have my reasons and they are legitimate. I am not interested in being with anyone under 30.

 

And the good ol' "Hey" will not get a person a response.

 

When a person has pissed me off and I don't want to see them for a good reason, stop serial texting the sh*t out of me long after I've begun my role as the Ice Princess and begun to ignore them. No self awareness whatsoever! Facepalm infinity!

 

A person who has done something to make me very unhappy through their actions or words and they know it. Don't EVER call me again and try to make me change my mind. I won't..ever! I have no patience for this... Manipulative actions and bad behaviour won't get a person anywhere.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

This has probably been said but here it is:

Don't text saying you have x amount and ask what you can get. This only ends badly.;) it's not something we would answer these days anyway.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

It's a turn off to meet someone who talks about all the other ladies they have seen. I never know whether it's to show me the standard I have to live up to, letting me know I haven't, wishing they were with the others, communicating how popular and connected they are or letting me know I'm lucky to be chosen. No matter malicious or innocuous, it completely throws off good energies and is a struggle.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Getting a call in January and it being the slowest month of the year asking for an IOU. Would a person ask their lawyer, accountant or dentist for that? No obviously not. I was taken aback when asked this. They got a polite "No". Lol.

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[LeeRichards 177238]

 

Don't use my hairbrush if you see it laying on the counter!

 

 

Ummm Forgot what they look like ? ;) We're good...........

[roamingguy 300291]

Ummm Forgot what they look like ? ;) We're good...........

 

Hair...or hairbrush???

If the former well, at least on my head I'm folliclly challenged

And elsewhere on my body well those spots you just don't use a hairbrush for

 

RG :-)

[FunAdventures 4501]

Getting sworn at / being called not nice names :confused:

 

Big, BIG turn off

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Being threatened to be violated in a certain way when I say I have an age restriction, using explicit language because a person can't asccept the word "No". I do not see anyone under 35 anymore. Accept it and move on. And I don't take threats lightly so if a person wishes to go down that road...I refuse to deal with any bull$it of the sort.

 

Don't tell me how many inches you are. That crap doesn't impress me. What will impress me is if you act like a gentleman.

 

When I don't respond back, it means I'm busy or not available. Ever hear of a day off? Dont send me a barrage of texts demanding a response. A person won't get one this way.

 

Calling up and asking for the address ( not the intersection but the actual address) and insisting on it and not asking for information, rates or anything of the sort. Suspicious much? Not going to happen.

 

Don't try to take the potato out of the steak dinner so to speak. When I offer a massage package, there is no cutting corners to get a discount on the rate.

 

If a person only has X amount of dollars, don't try to make it my problem because it's not. While I enjoy what I do, what I don't enjoy is someone attempting to negotiate my rates like I'm some sort of product. Thats where I end the conversation. As the saying goes "No money, no honey."

[Desiree Delights 2210]

biggest turn off?

cheap guys, cheap guys, cheap guys....

if you are that broke, that poverty stricken, used to cheap rates

or resent paying for company THAT much - then do not contact me.

 

if u are used to cheaper rates, keep seeing those that provide them

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

No word of a lie, I had someone recently call me and ask for $5 off of my half hour donation....He was dead serious, by the way. lol

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

guys that try to 'bargain' at all rates.

 

it's not only rude, but when I have already reduced the rate, wtf?

Best line ever? 'I'm so good you will WANT to give it to me for free'. bahahahahah!

What do you think? NO!!!! lol

 

I try now to get guys to PM me, so i can see who they are, this way I can report them.

Sure, I offer 'special' rates at certain times, but if your that broke/cheap/ or just want a bargain, go elsewhere please.

 

If you ask me if I will accept xzy amount for a 45 minute time, I will consider it.

No, I don't find that particular question offensive, but the consistent 'bargain hunters' really turn me off.

[roamingguy 300291]

biggest turn off?

cheap guys, cheap guys, cheap guys....

if you are that broke, that poverty stricken, used to cheap rates

or resent paying for company THAT much - then do not contact me.

 

if u are used to cheaper rates, keep seeing those that provide them

 

Those guys should be told this is the cheapest

 

 

along with a little of this

 

 

and a

 

 

All the companionship you'll get for under $20.00...maybe more if you buy a six pack

 

RG :-)

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Those that think they know everything about this industry. Even when many others try to explain they are wrong in their idea or belief, they keep saying the same thing over and over.

 

Unless you are

 

 

- A woman

- has taken that first call

- have had a client try to hurt you

- have been threatened because you refuse to do what they want,

 

you will never understand this industry from the escorts point of view.

 

So, for those listening to the guy who says "listen guys this is how you can get her to do ...I've been in this industry for x number of years and know everything, so follow my lead."

 

If you would not want your wife, mother, daughter or friend to be treated like being suggested, don't listen to it and don't do it.