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When writing a pm, email or texting, please do not send one liners! Many times, it come across as being rude. Ive been on the recieving end of this threw txting, hence the reason why I do not text anymore to make a 1st appointment! WE can not hear your tone of voice, so when you send something like this: "WHEN CAN I SEE YOU?" It just sounds rude. First off, INTRODUCE yourself! Say hello, how are you, I am Mr.XXX. The reason why you are emailing or pm'ing: I am interested in meeting with you on this date and time for this long. A little about yourself, if your comfortable saying anything, some ladies actually request that you do, some don't. Then sign off... Looking forward to hearing from you, Until we meet, or what ever. When you write an actual pm or email, we WILL respond! When I see something that is not like the above described, I dont even want to put in the effort to respond, since you did not take the effort to say more than 3 or 4 words to me! And I am sure I am not the only lady that feels like that! And most importantly!! Read her Ads, website and profile!! They are very imformative. Hence the reason why we put so much effort into them! The effort your going to put in by pm'ing "Whats your rates?", "What time do you start?", or the big question, "What do you look like?" will be alot less than clicking your mouse on the link to her website/profile! You just look very lazy and disrespectful! We are not asking you to write an autobiography about yourself or a novel! 5-6 lines is not asking for much! I know some men are men of very few words, but if you cant take a few minutes to learn about us and say more then a few words, then imagin how we think the encounter will go with you?! Starting an email/pm politely can and will get you a better or if any encounter with your choosen SP/MA! ****************** I've searched and could not find a thread about etiquette on pm'ing, but found this thread, which only shows you how to START a pm: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15861 If I missed it someone let me know and Ill ask the Mod to add this post to it! Thanks, Tiffany Amber xoxo

It's seems to be very easy to forget SP's have feelings and we are people too. If I've seen a gentleman several times, have done my usual above and beyond service to do everything I can to make our time unforgettable and our time spent together is amazing, I Hope for a review, but it's not necessary. BUT If I later see that I didn't get one, but another lady did, I wonder what it is I DID WRONG. It's Personal. Not towards the gentleman, but for myself. Sp's spend countless hours trying to imporve our abilities, and be the best we can be. Reviews give Sp's a chance to see specifics of what we did Right and how we can Improve our Buisness. That is all beneficial to clients in the future. As is finding an SP because you notice she has some nice reviews written. Reviews don't have to be long winded or revealing. But please, Don't Under Estimate the Power of a Review. If a SP is amazing and you truly care for her livelihood and well being, it's just as easy to write a quick review as it is to post on any other part of the board. Laziness should never be the case if you are an active member. As for asking for a review: if the two of you have a report, asking shouldn't be a big deal at all. Ladies should just be tactfull and aware of who they are asking. It isn't always appropriate, but it shouldn't be taboo either. Just my 2 cents.

Getting tired of etasman2000's corny one-liners ? Does seeing his PM in your Inbox give you a bad case of rash ? You can now do something! 1. Browse to the member's Profile page. (Search/Search Members) 2. Under the member's handle just beside Send Message is the User Lists drop down. Click on the User Lists and select Add to Ignore List 3. Click "Yes" and you are done. Alternative: 1. Click User CP on the top left hand corner of the Forum. 2. Under Settings & Options click on Edit Ignore List 3. Type in member's handle, partial matches will show a drop down list. Go ahead practice with etasman2000. 4. Click "OK" and you are done.

While I understand we all have our own opinions....I strongly disagree with your statement, only because, I am an sp with ONE rec (been on here since November 2009)....and I do not believe its because I provide a shitty service and/or do not deserve one, because believe me...I DO!!! I truly think the reason for this is because a) the men I see do not bother with recs at all and/or b) are embarassed to post a rec which would indicate thier love for bigger ladies. I am able to back this claim up because I have quite a few friends from this site who have returned and/ or are ongoing. I realize my shape is not every one's cup of tea, so I fully admit my client base is smaller than most...BUT the clients I do see are happy, and highly doubt they are holding back on providing me with a rec because my service is whack...... I have learned to deal with this, because after all what I appreciate the most is when they return, and what I LOVE is the lovely notes they send to me privately, after it's all said and done :grin: Others have also said " if nothing is said on here about someone,it must be because there is nothing good to say' this too I feel is uncalled for, because it can give the impression that it's true, when clearly it is not. Not trying to be a Negative Nancy, so my apologies if I come off as rude. I just wanted to indicate the other side to why some ladies may not have any recs. Vanessa

One thing that I really want to clarify, I don't believe in writing recos out of guilt because the lady asked you to, and if the reco was undeserved.. Not at all... However.. In the interest in keeping a the board current as well as keeping the lady's name in demand in order to keep her business fruitful then it is really something that should be a priority. My view is this, Cerb is a great resource for clients to find what they are looking for for. And its a great place for ladies to advertize and meet clients. And it is absolutely free to use this resource for the guys. So I think it is the VERY least they can do is (if deserved of course) write a reco if they were happy. I just read a post today that bugged me about a lady we represent.. The post wrote how he "selfishly kept her to himself". How retarded is that? How many ladies could and would survive in the industry if guys didnt pay it forward and let other ppl know? Its not selfish, its extremely short sighted. This board is such a safe place for ppl to express how they feel, it is completely anonymous.. So why not? Really? The other boards tend to have a much more toxic environment, and have a much lower level of activity and participation. But with CERB this isnt the case.. Share your experiences and EVERYONE benefits! :)

I'm in the same boat - I've never written a lengthy blow-by-blow report, and I very much doubt I ever will. And I'm sure we're not the only ones. But at the end of the day, for me, the most important bit of information is "I saw X, and it was great, so you should too." All else is icing on the cake.

Barney if you have any proof of scams or druggies you should post that information in the Nova Scotia Warnings section http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=203 your general statement puts suspicion on all other ladies except the two that you have mentioned and is stereotyping the industry. While Halifax may not have the numbers that larger cities may have there are still many excellent and honest ladies here not to mention some of the most highly recommended and respected ladies in Canada regularly tour here. Just check out the reco section and the advertising section and you will find lots of lovely ladies to chose from. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=137 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=18

Not relevant in Ottawa? I wish! Posted via Mobile Device

I don't get the need for any sort of registration for anyone who provides sexual services. Only rules and zoning for businesses of importance size need these If someone can work from home as a researcher, a painter, an accounter, why not a independent provider? If one opens a big place, the owner registers his buisiness, not his employees. Why would he? Do bars register their waitresses, likewise for the resto? Hell no! Why us then? Great idea, let's abolish the gun registry and create a sex worker one instead! If we don't register, harper can throw us in one of his new jails. Why should i do time in jail if I don't register? Are the construction workers sent to jail when they work without permits? Hell no! Are they valuable reasons for a permit to work in the construction business? yes! Is there one for escorting? I can't find one! We don't need to change the laws, we need to abolish them. Just like New Zealand.

I had no idea not writing a reco could be such a gaffe on my part. Problem is, i`m not really comfortable with the almost 'kiss and tell' aspect of a reco. I don't generally discuss such a personal aspect of my life with anybody (and I don't mean the SP aspect lol, I mean being intimate with someone). Call me strange, but I feel that time shared intimately between 2 people is nobody's business but theirs. However, as far as the appreciation aspect goes, I'm pretty sure I was able to convey to the SP just how much I enjoyed myself and how much it was appreciated (which was a TON btw). Thankfully, there seems to be plenty of other people out there who aren't a weirdo like me and will share their experiences with others. Anyway, that's my oddball 2 cents :)

This whole issue is very perplexing. If you have the time to respond to threads, why on earth could you not take 2 minutes to write a reco? Actually, I am surprised that we haven't seen an influx of reco's since this issue has come up. No matter how popular the lady, a reco is still very important for many reasons. We are all human and certainly vanity plays a roll. Who does not like to read about how great one is? It is almost hurtfull when you know you had a great time and yet nothing was mentioned, especially when you have seen that person more than once! Furthermore, eventhough not every person reads the recos, alot do, so yes, it is a strong advertising tool. Such a board could not exist without the participation of it's members. This participation should not be limited strictly to the "fun" threads. Reco's are what inspired this board and what will keep it fresh and useful so....get on the reco train!

First impression: Beautiful. Elegant. Classy. As we conversed over wine: Smart. Interesting. As we got more relaxed: Fun. Approachable. Easy to talk to. Open. Friendly. As we moved on from conversation to the bed: Sexy as hell! I just spent the afternoon with this beauty, our first meeting. I was really impressed when she greeted me. I loved the way she carried herself; a dancer's body, I'd say, poised and toned. I liked her grey-green eyes, and her long hair, and her very attractive face. I enjoyed our conversation about her interests, and mine. We connected, and laughed, and felt at ease. And the anticipation built. She disappears for a moment, and comes back wearing sexy black lingerie that immediately comes off. I love this body, the tiny tits, the round ass, the long legs, the flexibility. The sex was astonishing, passionate, intense, a GFE++. She's very orgasmic, and I love that. I love feeling that I've given pleasure as well as received. Sophia is someone who clearly enjoys what she does, and does it supremely well. I had a great time with her, and by the end of the session I felt that I was with a friend I had known for years. I like it when that happens, when there's no pretence and lots of mutual enjoyment. This was a very successful encounter, with someone I really like, admire, and enjoy. I want to see her again. Often. I hope I can. One thing I should mention, as an encouragement to other cerb members: She's had lots of cancellations and no-shows on her current trip to Ottawa. I've heard this before from other visiting sp's. Of course everyone understands that there can be cancellations for good reasons; but some people book and don't even call to cancel, and she's just left waiting around. We can do better, cerbites. It's in our own interests to do so, or these visiting sp's will have good reason not to come back. I want you back, Sophia! Soon!

What's that -- there are only 30 Canadians!? Boy do I know a lot of foreigners! ;) I think that's really around $10 per Canadian. We were about 30 million in the 2006 census, and estimates are around 35 million now.

I cannot provide an opinion one way or another as to the advantages or disadvantages of being represented by someone else. I am probably too old to even entertain the idea LOL. I just prefer to be my own boss as I have been since my twenties (in my previous career). I cannot even fathom having any take control of any aspect of my life :) To each his/her own! Whatever makes you comfortable is AOK with me!

I always encourage members who send a positive PM to take the time to post a RECO if they feel it is deserved....why because it is nice to share with others...it help the gents decide where they want to go and it helps the ladies/business build a positive reputation.....it is a win/win for all....this is a recommendation board so spread the word :) The best form of advertisement is a happy clients opinion :) All of the ladies/business are very grateful for those gents that actually take the time to post a RECO! I absolutely do not think there is anything wrong with encouraging members to post a well deserved RECO.

I think we are going to spen $295,000,000.00 to have the exact same situation that we have now! I think they could have split that money equaly to all canadien citizens and givin it to us! That would be $9,800.00 each! But NO! they needed to have a f__cking election that we have to pay for. :troisdoigts::x:ablow:

Hi Tiffany. My comment box cut me off so adding here. I do all my first initial bookings online. An introduction is what I expect in booking. It makes me feel more comfortable to know that I am respected as a lady. Please treat us as one. To approach a lady with these one liners is disrespectful and in my experience, is indicative of a different kind of client that I won't take a chance on. I value my approach and so happy with the Gents that are here and treat us well. :)

The Ottawa police have the lowest rates in all of Canada for investigating sexual assault allegations. Last summer the Carleton University administration issued a statement on the rape of a student in 2007 saying that she should have taken precautions to ensure her own safety and therefore it was not the University's fault. Just a couple of months ago there was an incident in which the Ottawa Police called a 16-year-old girl's allegation of sexual assault a "hoax" Everyday in Ottawa, 50 women are turned away from women's shelters. Now, if the Slutwalk is not relevant in Ottawa, I don't know where it is relevant. As someone who works as a sexual assault support worker, I can assure you that this event is very relevant here. I can see how it's hard to make the connection here, but it's relevant nevertheless. Sky

Hey Gals and Guys. Not a post to expect any replies just had something to say. Cerb. What a cool community, great people and a great place to hang out ! My Mom had a heart attack today and was ripped to the city for surgery. For reasons I couldn't go, rest of family did and I was home here waiting for word......... Finally just got word and all is good. not your problem.....The point is I coulda done a number of things today...but....parked my ass in my office and off and on hung out on Cerb. Sounds lame I know but sex was the last thing on my mind but there are so many great people here. I read and surfed the threads. From serious threads and awesome opinions and insights, and more importantly the sharing of feelings to the witty, funny threads or shoutbox comments that brought a smile when needed. Once again....Pretty cool place to hang out! Thanx !

It's ironic we want to bump up corporate taxes when other countries around us are handing out multi-billion dollar bail out packages, we do live in a vacuum.

It lifts my spirit to see that more people want to contribute every day to fight hunger :) NEW YORK -- The National Hockey League is partnering with Rock and Wrap It Up! to fight hunger across the United States and Canada. This season, all 30 of the League's Member Clubs have committed to work with RWU to pack up all prepared but unsold concession food on game nights for redistribution to local shelters and places of need. Several NHL Clubs have long-established working relationships with Rock and Wrap It Up! and have donated more than 170,000 meals since 2007. As of Opening Night of the 2010-11 season, all 30 are ensuring that their excess in-arena food doesn't go to waste and that fewer families in North America go to bed hungry, making the NHL the first sports league to have all of its Member Clubs participate in Rock and Wrap It Up! "I am extremely proud that every one of our 30 Clubs will help combat hunger this season by teaming up with Rock and Wrap It Up!," NHL Commissioner Gary Bettman said. "Our players and Clubs are dedicated to serving their local communities and it is our League-wide pledge to be responsible stewards of our planet. There is no better example of that commitment than our partnership with Rock and Wrap It Up!" Rock and Wrap it Up! was founded by Syd Mandelbaum, a forensic scientist by trade, who in 1991 coupled his love of music and passion for wiping out hunger by collecting and redistributing leftover food from rock concerts. RWU was launched nationwide in 1994 with the support of MTV. It has since broadened its scope to include collaboration with more than 150 bands, 200 schools and universities and more than 50 sports franchises to collect in excess of 100 million pounds of food that have fed more than 200 million people. "Rock and Wrap It Up! recognizes how vital and valuable our partnership with the National Hockey League is," Mandelbaum said. "Poverty in North America is at a dire and critical point. The National Hockey League and its franchises will help feed millions more who hunger while keeping thousands of tons of food out of landfill. Food recovery has become part of the culture of the National Hockey League." http://www.nhl.com/ice/news.htm?id=540306

These aren't your real names?? I'm shocked :) Peace mrgreen760 jr

First, I'd like you to avoid paranoia and think calmly. :icon_wink: If you come to see me at a hotel, going to the desk and asking for Samantha Evans' room won't be of any use to you. Samantha Evans won't be registered there. But I will be, in my real name. (And, just in case you try to find out later, on your way out, if you ask at the desk who is staying in room #1105, they won't tell you. Ever. Unless you have a warrant, that is.) If you come to see me at a hotel, we will have arranged for you to call me from your cell phone or a pay phone nearby. I will give you my room number. You go to the elevator and up to my room. If, however, my hotel won't let anyone have access to the elevator without a key card, I will meet you in the lobby, the bar, or somewhere else. I only stay in five-star hotels. They're not necessarily better hotels in many ways, they're just more expensive and part of what I pay for is their manic dedication to preserving their patrons' privacy, whether it's just me, or Madonna. Unless you look like an entirely disreputable man, up to no good and possibly carrying dangerous goods, the hotel staff are not going to ask you any questions. Who you're there to see is none of their business. As a guest, I am entitled to my privacy, after all. Not quite the same level of privacy as at home, but almost. So, trust me, please. Try to remember that I am not your adversary. You and I are in this together. We each want things from the other and, what's more, I'm damn determined to make sure you have a wonderful time with me. Relax. Enjoy. Follow my instructions and all will be well. I promise.

Sorry , you are out of luck here , no agencies, very limited, also be very careful there are a lot of scam s here and druggies, if you are going to see anyone I would only reccommend Lady Lexy or Miss Voyeur, very safe and both very nice people. I hope this helps you out have a nice trip.

Thats exactly why I like recommendations. I don't really care what it does for my business but it's so flattering to read kind words someone wrote about me. It's a really wonderful feeling and makes me happy to be doing what I'm doing :)

I have only just returned to the hobby after a long break. I would concur with SA's sentiments on this. Communicate your concerns with whomever you choose to work with and I am sure something can be worked out. The well dressed sexy business woman coming to the door has always been one of my favorite ways to kick off a session which works as well during the day as it does at night. (just my mind wandering to the gutter) Cheers Play safe

I'm glad I didn't see this thread last week because I saw Ariel last week. Was there for a massage. The massage might have been a bit short but the bbbj was absolutley fantastic and she has a wicked body. Don't know anything about Mercedes but I would definitley see Ariel again.

I've been reading this thread and as others already explained those who have reputation points have earned them through their posts which other members here agreed on enough to either nominate their post or give them reputation points, which as previously mentioned can be good or bad. This however in my opinion does not make a member trustworthy, as Roamingguy said trust is earned and at least in my case I do not label/consider a member here trustworthy based in their reputation points. Reputation is 'the general estimation in which a person is held by the public.' Trust on the other hand is 'a firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of a person.' I consider a member trustworthy or not based on how he carries himself in here, the kind of posts made by him, how he interacts with people and yes, the reputation influences in the opinion made on someone but is not the only factor. Bottom line of what I'm trying to express here is reputation points most times represent our agreement or disagreement with what one has said or that's the way I see it. If you guys don't agree then I guess I'll get a few bad rep points but that won't make me untrustworthy, will it? ;)

I found myself having an unsually crappy week at work and decided I needed some well deserved stress relief. Michaella had caught my eye so I requested an appointment. She was quick at responding to my email and we set a time. I must admit that I was a bit nervous as this was my first time using an in-call MP. My heart skipped a beat when the door opened and I was greeted with a warm hug by the beautiful Michaella wearing some very sexy lingerie. Her soft kisses quickly melted away my nervousness and despite just meeting her I soon felt we had known each other for years. A shower together followed by a great massage with a great finish. The body slides were definetely the highlight of the visit. Michealla is really a sweet girl, intelligent and very easy to talk to. I have a feeling I will be seeing her again soon...

We must keep in mind that the Committe that found Harper in contempt was made up of a majority of opposition members. Of course they would find this way they wanted an election the only other way to do this was vote against the budget which they didn't want to do The contempt was based on they didn't give the cry baby Fiberals,NDP or Bloc certain papers it was confirmed in the hearing the papers they were in contempt for still had Cabinet Secreacy issues which is common in Govt and could not be released this was all about an election

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable