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I think you hit the nail right on the head and I also submit that if you asked all the top rep. point earners here on Cerb they would say the same thing. It's nice but not required or necessary. They, rep. points, are just another way to show that you agree, disagree or in some cases are just playful with a member of the opposite sex. Are they meaningless...no. Are they the be all and end all...again, no! Bottom line if you go looking for them (rep. points) and are receiving them from others, you are getting them for the wrong reasons. They are a reflection of your posts, thoughts and beliefs...not who or what you are as a person/hobbyist/SP. There you have it...my opinion! Now I hope someone likes this post so I can get some more rep. points. Ha ha

I do understand the frustration - sometimes pearls of wisdom flow freely from a particular individual and it almost hurts when the system blocks you from recognizing that post. Sure, you MAY go back after you spread the love, but it's that feeling of instant gratification "you have nailed that response, I am so inspired" or something of that nature that you want to reward instantly. Posting something in a quote afterwards is like kissing your sister. It's like getting a gold star on a test... you knew that you aced the thing, but when the teacher gave you a gold star or a smiley face stamp, you just felt so much better. When a person recognizes your post, it just strengthens your sense of belonging in the community, gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling and generally makes you smile... and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!

No offence, but if you don't wish to advertise your services then don't - I have none listed on my website and it has never caused an issue. A gentlemen looking for a companion and not a pick your own menu can read between the lines as to what is available. A website is an invaluable tool and says a-lot about who you are as a companion. If you are that paranoid about getting busted and having things used against you, maybe you are in the wrong profession or need to re-evaluate how you are running your business. I am confused though, you would rather list services than a donation?

The Rep System has been a bit of a thorn in my side for a very long time. There has been many times that I have wanted to give rep points or just give a positive comment through the reputation for this post button. recent example on a particular post but I keep getting this insistent message that I must spread it around. Arggh !!! I am a long time member, please allow a little more flexibility to us. I am not necessarily on all the time, so it makes it hard for me to spread it around. I would hope that I'm not suspended tomorrow for bringing this up again but It really needs a change for the better.

Lol I have been thinking about starting a thread like this for a while. Posts definitely influence my decisions regarding which clients I see. If someone says something super offensive or ridiculous I have a hard time seeing myself getting along with that particular person and therefore I wont see them. Luckily, there are very few people that I feel this way about. Xo Sky

To me this entire industry is a fantasy. Whatching a man cum is THE BEST!:jackoff: I like to take it in my hand and watch or watch him finish the job. Cum can fly, splat, erupt, sail, spit, ooze, smooze, rush, Bam bam wow! Yumm! I love to dirty talk and turn a man on just by my voice and words! I crave my fantasy spanks, hard, then light and tickles. Having sex in front of 100 people AH-MAZIN!

And the faster her ex will get custody of her children and ensure supervised visitation forever thereafter no matter how much time has passed since the pictures were online. Everything we put out there has the potential to come back and bite us in the ass. The types of pictures made public by an SP are not a guarantee of the type of experience one will have when visiting a provider. IMHO. cat

I agree completely with whatsup. I keep on running out of rep points myself. As in real life, There are some members who deserve a lot more rep points than others and for those individuals once I give a rep point then I can't give another for a long while. So if I see a very valuable or true post I cannot give the poster a rep point. Sometimes I don't wish to quote and/or comment because I may not wish to bump up the post (specially in the recommendation or advertisement section where it is against the rules) or I don't wish to post but just make a brief comment of positivity. Leaving a message in his/her profile is only for member to see and sometimes I prefer a public brief positive comment. Btw, I think that rep points are great to have. It shows our appreciation to the posters when they make valuable comments. I must admit I do not agree or like the negative rep point system as I believe the reader is making a (negative) judgement or reviews the post. This is not a review board. No body should make a judgement on another member. Some use it to disagree with poster and give negative rep point simply because the view expressed is contrary to theirs!!!!!. This is a recommendation board and hence only positivity should be warranted and like every other community there is a diversity of views on every topic (to be expressed within the framework of cerb rules) and I believe that there should be respect and enough tolerence for other views expressed on an all-adult board lol, again in my view.

I would add that it's important to start with a butt plug, something small and delicate. A great deal of people I've met (including myself) enjoy anal stimulation, but not penetration. The nerve endings around the anus are extremely sensitive, and I think everyone can enjoy that area being slightly touched and massaged if they are open minded to the experience. Also, make sure to use a water-based lubricant, rather than a silicone based lubricant. Most toys (apart from the lovely glass suggestion) will be made of silicone and cannot be used with silicone based lube. Also, there's never too much lube.

My only comment to this thread is: For me, it's EXIT ONLY But I do have some friends who swear by it, saying they have the best orgasms that way.

The right person wouldn't be a Cerb member from Prince Edward Island who just happens to be a Red Sox fan would it????:wink: Pay close attention to my avatar and location before responding. Ha ha

I talk an alarmingly large amount of surfer considering how far away from any oceans I am. Favorite words: Dude Stoked Gnarly Totally Rad Epic As well, the word "Clearly" seems to pop up a bunch when i'm talking, not sure why.

I must say that we have some of the best MP's in this city and I often feel spoiled at the great choices I have when I decide to have a massage session on any particular day. thanks to the great ladies of this city for the smile on my face and the relaxed swagger as I walk around this city after spending quality time with one of this cities A+ MP's.

Posts (and not just posting advertisements) provide a good insight into a person's personality/intelligence and sense of humour. After reading a lady's writings, that first and foremost makes me think "I want to meet her" And as a sidebar, I don't have to agree with everything the lady says or not, but a lady who posts, and participates on this board, well she is contributing to this community, and that makes her someone I'd likely want to meet A quick rambling RG

The value of the threads here for me personally is huge. I know that I read a lot of the postings on a variety of topics, from the frivolous to to the serious. I will not say that I do not look at ads or recommendations, because I do, but what will take me to them are the forum contributions. As with many of the guys here who have expressed this on many occassions, to meet with an SP is a privelege, and for me a part of that privilege is her willingness to converse and let me see at least a part of the real person. For a supposedly well educated man, I have learned a lot of things about a lot of topics from the ladies (and gents) who contribute. I really do get the feel or sense that many of the ladies here are a part of a larger mutual support group and that many of the men are right there with them. Seeing what the women post demonstrates the personal characteristics that I value and seek and I would hate to be in a position of having to make a decision based on a shout box comment or an ad. To extend the discussion just a bit further to encompass the title of the thread, I have read and been a part of discussions that have educated me, made me laugh, made me cry, made me think, made me question some basic beliefs, made me aware of the silly stereotypes that I had/have, and the forums DO play an important role for me in many many ways. How else would I have have known that a guy like Old Dog can make such bad jokes and puns and then be the same person to write with such wisdom and compassion and clearly make his point of view understood. Are there TWO Old Dogs? Yes ladies, for at least this one member, the forum contributions that you make are important. I love reading them, and please don't go away from this aspect of CERB.

I like Old Dog because he takes the marshmallows I offer. Plus, he makes me laugh.

I like Angela because she thinks I'm funny and is ALWAYS there for me!

I like the way OD makes everything seem easy and always makes me laugh :)

Yes, so true, Ottawa Adventure, Why show it all, when this is what I get paid for? I dont want evryone to see all, then why come here to see me then, no mystery left to that. Most ppl find consealing a bit for the date much more excitting:)

I just want to add that Y'all rock and deserve a pat on the back, good times, good times. back to rep points, I just checked and I have more but have no idea where they came from, It would be nice to have an easier way of finding out so I can thank all the awesome supporters you know what I'm saying? eh? Well Thanks guys, you made me feel special. please proceed with your on topic topic happy ness files, thanks!

Blond moment! I was confusing the nominate post icon with the comment. Sorry bout that :icon_redface:

I also agree with Sophia. I had a website,and still got inquiries about services.I wouldn't say it's a waste of money but I do know for certain that if you were ever charged with solicitation whether it be a girl on the streets or an under cover police officer trying to crack down on SP's providing sex in there homes,the crown prosecutor would Most Definitely look into all your business and use it against you.(prostitution is illegal) and websites state rates,and services so if that's not a give away then what is. Not to say that websites are not a useful tool,however in my opinion(and I stress MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION) I took my down just because to me it was useless. I don't want every Tom dick n hairy knowing services I provide,rates, etc.. Maybe use a website that shows photos,services but not rates,to keep your mind at ease. OR just post on here? Your a smart girl do what is best for Sophia! And remember peoples opinions don't really matter when it comes to your safety,and mental well being. Additional Comments: Really? How many people are on CERB intentionally trying to get someone in trouble?? None! It's others out there that don't understand or want to about this lifestyle that can cause trouble. Enough said about this from me. Cudos to the ladies that have website,good luck wish you all the best,hope there useful to you,and for those who don't get used to typing your speal every time some one inquiries lol.

I personally enjoy the fact that some of the women do have their own personal websites. One can find additional information that is not as readily accessible through CERB and a website also gives me an additional "sense" of professsionalism. Furthermore, the websites that are self designed rather than the ones that use pre-existing templates always seem to me to give more of a sense of the person. All of that being said, if Sophia and Cat are correct and a website is something that can be used against you, then I could easily find my sense of the 'person behind the woman' through CERB postings and forum contributions. The way that an SP presents herself, through whatever medium, is a factor for me.

I like Alexandra sky bc... -she came up with this awesome possum thread -she is just a super chill girl -she is cool & unique like green tea ice cream -she is nice like rice (hey that rhymes) -she gives great imaginary hugs -she is pretty f'in cool Posted via Mobile Device

Fingers off my windows!

Yes, I would. Would you go to a KISS concert wearing KISS makeup if you were given prime seats for free?

I appreciate a website, whether it's beautiful or a homemade freesite. I like to find all the information about a girl in one location instead of trying to scan ads and search cerb or whatever for little snippets here and there. It's nice to know I can find photos and contact information in one location. As a small business owner myself, I would NEVER go without a website and I expect all business owners that are serious to have one. It's just how it is now. Things like Yellow Pages, newspapers, discussion boards (yes like this one) come and go but your website is your one constant.

I never even knew how to "do" the rep points thing until I was about a year in here - lol! I stumbled on it by accident!

when u watch porn movie and the girls bend over and spread there butt checks that is not a small whole must be all the anal they do so it must be the more you do it the more the whole get's bigger

That in itself would be worth the hours donation amount!

This post deserved rep. points but I couldn't give 'em to you...at least I tried!

I like Steve because he seems genuine. Oh, and he's considerate enough to cover up his cold feet when crawling into bed.

Why mess with perfection?

Have you tried anal sex on yourself, using a finger(s) or toys? That way you're in complete control of how fast and how deep you go. Glass toys are really good because they are non-porous and stay lubricated well. It would be a really safe way to experiment. It might be a good first step in determining if it's for you. As far as the mechanics of it go... (a) take you're time, (b) there's no such as thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex, and © stay away from vaseline or any oil-based lubes! As the saying goes, different strokes for different folks. If it turns out that anal strokes aren't for you, leave the anal strokes for other folks.

No I did not say small was bad , I clearly said whatever makes the female happier ! Anything is fine , as long as the female is comfortable with herself Additional Comments: That is just my opinion and my interest , everyone is entitled to their own opinion ..

these are good words ... I wish I could remember them without the help of wikiquote Annie Savoy: What do you believe in, then? Crash Davis: Well, I believe in the soul. The cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch, that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, overrated crap. I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment outlawing AstroTurf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. [pause] Goodnight.

ALL Natural, is the only way for me, I say either all natural or go home.

I love breasts...too the point of insanity:) BOOBIES!:D:D

Could you not just quote the post in question and reply with "I agree" or as others do simply state "I can't give you rep. points at this time but I agree with you."

My preference is for natural, but do whatever makes you happy, not the men (no offense guys).

I'm not partial one way or the other. I never look at a woman thinking she should get implants...and personally, why fix what isn't broke My only input, if you do get implants, get them because you want them. Don't get them for someone else (clients, SO's etc) What one client likes, another may dislike, and if for a SO, he should love you for you. Some thoughts, take them for what they are worth BTW after a look at your photos, first question I have, why? RG

Obviously I am not of the male persuasion but I prefer natural :)

Isn't CERB online shopping. :icon_wink:

Hello everyone, I may ruffle a few feathers but after reading many threads over the past several months in the General Discussion area, I have a few things I need to address and have faith that most of the hobbiests here are Gentleman I would consider spending my time with. First off, I have learned many new acronyms or Urban Dictionary terminology from the threads on this board. Do I agree that a vagina is a pussy or kitty? I do not, but the word surfaces daily on this board in discussion. I may just not be cut out to read these threads as I am a woman with substance and will not let you know how big my other lips are, if it's shaved or unshaved, or respond publically to any of these threads. Is it just the ignorance of grasping for the proper ways to ask a question? I"m sure I will quickly figure out the answers and have so far continued the faith that the Gent's who start these threads are respectful. However, I'm having a hard time just seeing these threads up even though I don't read them. So when I wake up with my morning coffee, log into to read the General Discussion area and see thread titles of "Daty vs Digits." "Greek or no Greek", etc. It really makes me question things here and a few have almost made me spit of my coffee on a few occasions. Every sensual, sexual erotic encounter is a gift for both the provider and client and I will use "YMMV" for this one. Please don't disrespect us, get to know us a little and ask us personally. Please always remember as well that we are women. If ever I had anyone in my personal life speak to me in this way they wouldn't be with me. Yet, here we are spoken to this way, asked very personal questions, menu item questions randomly thrown out there, etc. I may be old school but do believe old fashioned chivalry goes a long way, even here as we explore our sexual needs. I will always value and cherish my clients that treat me as Erin, not as a menu item or topic of the ??? day.. Hoping this falls upon understanding ears and do enjoy being a part of this board. I just had to get it off my chest as this has bothered me for some time. Cheers! Erin

I have to agree with OldDog, there are so many reasons, and I am starting to wonder if this might have been me! I have recently moved and it has been a little hectic at best! Though I am normally quite organized with weekends and getting settled it is possible I might have let a few emails fall through the cracks- I agree with everyone, highly unprofessional, but we are only human! Just because someone posts that they are available doesn't mean that they are %100 committed to working the hours they listed, often I'll post my availability but if no one books me right away or if something comes up (lately lots has!) I might decide shortly after to take the day off... Sue me for being a slacker, lol, I am normally quite the hard worker, just not so much in the summer! If nothing has happened to upset your communications apart from a couple missed emails, like others have said, send another email just to find out if this person might get back to you! There may just be a reasonable explanation for your crossed lines. If you are truly interested in seeing this girl I would suggest you keep trying, you are not choosing her for her office skills, more so her sensual skills! Some of the best MPs I have known have been terribly organized! In a perfect world we would all be perfect! In reality... Now, off to see if I missed replying to anyone:oops: Bethany Xoxox

Out of the blue but on topic I just wanted to say that Vulger words like hard cock and ass, soaking wet pussies,... or as I like to say"I'll have a pussy/ass combo, please" Turns me on! Yumm!

You have every right to your opinion, but I don't think that some of the guys who have spoken up have anything to apologize for. There's a lot of very good stuff here, but some of the guys posting here (and I would include myself in this group) are responding the way they are as they are likely getting a little fed up with the recent negative comments about how "many" of us (or is it "most" of us ... Smile) are objectifying women or are otherwise being jerks. That's a lot of baloney IMO and we have the track records here to prove it.

Guess we can close this thread and many others that have those awful words to describe a woman's body parts, come on seriously? Berlin, should I go back and post all your relative comments that you used describing your own ..vagina, or should I say clit, or can I say pussy..fuck what can we say without having our heads ripped off! While we are at it perhaps should we close all the recommendations too they have some awful words!....oh noooo.... he used the word pussy??fuck I think I see enough pussy in one thread and those are the four legged types!!and now those fucking cats are in just about every thread..DO you see me bitchin about that thread or others? No!! I just don't read it! So Danielle perhaps you should read any more recs, after all now you just insulted a good portion of the men that gave back to this site, and of course recommended a lady to other men...But no you think it is ALL shit! Nice Danielle!! real nice. And yes I know the ladies are not take out order..what a comment that was! Berlin...if I may "But CERB is one of the only places where us ladies are welcomed with open arms and encouraged to interact with clients. I'd like to think that I can use this venue and my interactions with clients to at least educate/enlighten/open your eyes to these things. I'm not expecting any of you to change, because I tend to suspect many of you will write me off as the cranky feminist in the house, but I like to hope that others will read this and realize that perhaps their behaviour or words are offensive." So I guess now you are asking us men to be reasonable mannered men, and stop using terms that are offensive, and use better behaviour. But yet it is okay for you describing very own 'vagina' well you called it 'clit' http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=235267#post235267 Turn-ons you used the 'fuck' and 'cock' http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=238399#post238399 So you see we are not the only ones that use words that may describe an action, or a body part that MAY offend some other ladies that are too delicate to this world. Lastly Berlin when you say... 'I think what Erin is trying to get at is that very often these boards and the men who post on them tend to convey this sense of entitlement--that because you have money and are anonymous, you can nitpick body parts, ask for discounts, and generally be ignorant dicks. Let me be clear, I am not saying that you are all like this, but that many of you ARE. EVEN ON CERB." Actually yes it is my entitlement to perhaps post in a thread, just like it is yours and everyone else here on the board. If you and I use the same term describing a 'vagina' so be it, am I to worry now that I have offended another lady because you and I said either pussy or clit? REALLY??? I do not like being called out that where you lump 'many of you are' looking for discounts, nit picking body parts,asking for discounts (That itself is a very low blow to many of us here that participate regularly and I'm insulted by your comment and generalizing MANY men) You are right we do not know "what it feels like" or for that fact to be in your shoes, but seriously these type of words are going change or help things? WIT said it right above " I strongly believe that there should be room for the clients here to enjoy themselves, too - and to vent a tiny bit of testosterone here and there. Testosterone is not entirely evil, despite its being, by its nature, occasionally "over-enthusiastic". Without over-enthusiastic testosterone, there'd be no demand for escorts in the first place." I just hope we can enjoy ourselves here,or perhaps it is time to move on.

Lots of guys and maybe some girls may hate this post, but here goes.... I used to browse CERB a lot, not because of all the wonderful women, but the boards had some intelligent, insightful conversations about meaningful things. It gave me insight about perspectives that I wouldn't have thought of, educated me about issues that I didn't know too much about, and sometimes even just was a thread for a nice laugh. Lately though, to be honest, people may hate this, but I think a lot of the threads here are $%#$. I'm talking about threads such as the Best Bums on the Planet, DATY vs DIGITS, How to get extras in a strip club, Red Head Appreciation Group, etc. I think they involve very little thought, and are treating the women here like they are on a lesser level. It's like they are judges on American Idol, and the women are contestants. I think the people think just because they have the freedom to write or post whatever they want, they have the power to nitpick on every single little negative thing about the girls. They might not think they are doing it with these threads, but let's be real, they are. How would the guys like if they were put on a stage? Spotlight shining right on them. I'm sure anybody put on that stage with the spotlight right on them, with a judge, judging them would find numerous negatives. I just don't think it's right. I think they are shallow. To be honest, I am sad that all these threads exist. Sure I don't have to look at them and I don't. But it saddens me that a majority of the threads when I open up the general discussion are exactly like that. I don't even look at the reco's to be honest. To be brutally honest, I think they're $hit. These girls aren't like take-out or delivery. You just can't pick out all the items on a plate and expect to get it from a girl. Every experience should be unique, and to be honest, when choosing a girl, it isn't because somebody writes they give expletive expletive expletive sloppy hot wet bare back blowjob, I'll choose her because I find a connection thru PM's, e-mails, whatever. These girls aren't just menu items, or can be replicated. They are unique, and each session is unique. Just because situation A happens with billy bob, doesn't mean situation A will happen with Willy Wonka. Each session is unique, and I'm glad it's that way. These women aren't robotic, they are real human beings. I wish guys started treating them that way. Sure, you have the freedom to write whatever you want. But whatever happened to simple common courtesy and respect?

I, for one, don't think that this is all that fair. I don't think that asking questions relating to a woman's body means that the questioner is equating the woman to a "sperm socket". Let's not forget that this board is an escort review board - not strictly a social board. While not all clients have preferences, many do. And that's ok. There's a way to ask questions in a respectful manner - for certain. And for many of us, myself included, time with a provider is an honor, not a privilege. Still, it's entirely fair for a client to want to know certain things before entering into a commercial relationship. And asking should be ok. This is, in the end, a board about matching clients with providers. For many of us, it's more, but in essence, that is it's main function. Some guys use the term "kitty", others care if the "kitty" is shaved. Who are we to judge. As long as there is respect shown, even in the eye of the beholder, I don't think we should chastise. We're all different. In the end, we're all here to have fun. Sexual and sensual fun. I would hate to see this place so sanitized that we can't be open with our desires, our questions, our preferences, and our fantasies. Sorry if this is out of line - but this thread hit a nerve. I have always loved CERB partly because I can be me here... Even if "me" isn't perfect.