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Just a quick mention that could go into another area, but if you are a Tim Horton's customer, and want to feel good about a hug, then donate or give a buck for their September 19-25 (I believe) fund raiser for the snowsuit fund in Ottawa. You get a Smile cookie in return it goes to a very worthy cause,for those kids that are possibly underprivileged and don't have one, THEN GIVE YOURSELF A HUG! Last year in Ottawa we raised 80 k, do your part please.... it is only a loonie! BTW it is going on in every Province throughout Canada and all major cities and towns.

The operative word here is "SOME" men. Thank goodness. I don't even try and figure it out. I just avoid those kinds of people.

Very hot!! There's nothing like having that warm love juice all over my face, breast or a$$ but I love rubbing it all over me and sucking until I get that almost last drop, more comes out when gravity takes effect. I love to see that little quiver at the end too. YUMMY!!

Just like the ladies keep track of men they won't see, us guys do the same thing. I have mental notes and notes on my phone. Cancel on me once, no problem. Cancel on me twice I might try again. No show on me and I'll never call you again.

Unfortunately there are still racist people out there. I for one have been told I am too "ethnic" or when I have had an add in the paper, upon asking if I am white and I reply no, have been hung up on or a hasty "ok thanks" click. I'm not knocking people who prefer Caucasian ladies, but they don't have to be rude to me. As far as it "being all in your head" being treated different as a minority, it's not.Unfortunately some people are still stuck in 1950 lol. The fact is, some people are still very close minded and still believe us beige/brown/red/yellow/black people are inferior to them.However, the best advice I got on this issue was from one of my professors in school a few years back. She said" You have to accept your skin is a different colour, and some people, no matter how nice, smart, funny or kind you are to them will never get past the fact you look different. You can't please everyone. So make yourself happy in knowing you're a wonderful person." That always stuck with me. I am mixed race, and I am from a place where it's VERY interracial. I judge people on how they treat me not the colour of their skin or circumstances.I don't care if you're plaid, as long as you're good to me I'll return the favour :) Even though I have had bad treatment in my life, i know that it is their issue because they close minded, and I am a beautiful person and it's their loss not mine. There's alot of wonderful people in this world who care for me and see my differences as an asset, not a reliability or a fault. So to answer your question, yes my views have changed since I entered this wonderful world, I never knew people could be so judgemental and cruel based on my skin and the way I look, but then on the other side of the coin I have never met so many wonderful people who are fascinated by our cultural differences and treat me like a rare exotic gem they are entranced by. It feels so good to be me!!!

This is a crass generalization on my part, meant to offend no one, this is just based on my limited experiences, but it's really been baffling me lately. I had a friend over to my place, he' s a nice smart guy who's interested in me. My roommate is a pretty girl but she's a little heavyset now. She used to be skinnier and she actually has a picture of herself on the refrigerator that shows her when she was skinny followed by the way she looks now. He said, " Ugh, that's not possible. Those are two different women." Now I don't really have a preference when it comes to looks. I go by an individual basis when I date. I look at the whole package: the guys intellect(most important), personality, our compatibility. This friend in question is: skinny (like bony), he has very bad acne scars on his face, he's prematurely balding, and he's not ugly, but... he's not what you would call generally attractive either. A few notches below that. I entertained him because he's nice, persistent, and smart ( I'm not high maintenance. If a man can make me laugh, think, and entertain me I'll be attracted to him, usually regardless of his looks) but when he said that I immediately lost interest in him. Mostly because a facet of character that I find important is self awareness. Deluded people turn me off. Mind you this same guy complains about how he can't find a girl. It makes me wonder if it's because his standards are unrealistic? I mean... especially in Toronto. Women outnumber men here and I don't see very many obese people, morbid or otherwise, walking around. Or very many butt ugly people for that matter. At least in the downtown area. Shouldn't guys have it made here? Everyone has their preferences, and indeed ugly women can be shallow too, but I find this behavior more common with men. Especially with regards to age difference. I'm hardly one to talk because the last guy I dated was 44, but he didn't look his age. He looked about 15 years younger, went to the gym regularly, and kept himself in shape. Many older men will look at attractive women their own age and be dismissive, but they'll look at younger women and approach. The woman doesn't even have to be attractive all the time, just young. I don't know very many older women who feel comfortable chasing men half their age. Most would see it as undignified. I mean...you may deserve it, but can you afford it? (figuratively speaking) I don't really care that much but if I date older guys now, does this mean that when I get older and if I look my age, no one will want me? And I'll have to be like some creepy cougar or live my life alone. Makes me feel cynical to be a woman sometimes.

yes it will be one of those other sappy post:) I have been on Cerb for pretty much 2 years no (despite what my joining date say, it was a fuck up)...it has its up and down. up and down... I've been extremely annoyed at people, wanting to almost strangle them, ,some people make me cry of joy...learn that well being an Escort isn't being a street walker, or the high end class escort at 1000$/hr ( I though you only had those type when I first join). I've made some friends, whatever SP or hobbiests... Sometime I feel like saying, screw you Cerb, I hate your drama (cause there is plenty of it on here), but I still keep coming back because, well it's an amazing advertising tool and I can't be judge like a piece of meat, like some other erb website...it's a place where I get to voice my opinions and not be judge for it (well ok sometime I am)... I just want to thanks all those amazing people that have been in my life, private or escort-ing life for the past 2 years, most of you did touch me in a nice way, or random way that I still remember you BOOBIES FOR ALL:D and here is one of my random and brutally honest post:D

cerb's worst day is still better than any review board's best day, imo. When I found this site, it was like a breath of fresh air, frankly. Plus, GLEE is back so everything's all sunshine and slushies anyway. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WxPyUzWSPA&feature=related

You shouldn't feel like the string should be closed, and there's a lot of guys here who have been in your shoes, so no worries and that can be very frustrating as you get your expectations up, etc., especially if its with a lady you have been looking forward to seeing for a while. On the other hand, you said in your post that she did say that she would be in touch to firm things up, so I wouldn't have gone to the trouble to give her your personal info. until she gave you some sort of confirmation. If it was me, I would have e-mailed her Monday and asked her to confirm by either Monday night or this morning at the latest, and that you would assume something came up if you didn't hear from her. At the same time, if you had a series of active communications with this lady, back and forth, over a period of time trying to schedule appointments, and then never heard from her after finally setting something tentative up, that certainly doesn't seem very nice. As others have said, just move on. If it was a mis-communication, she certainly knows how to contact you.

Reverse the roles and I'm positive you would have appreciated a reply either way even if it was just a tentative appointment. It's not very difficult to take a minute, send a text or an email and say you cannot make it. If the roles were reversed I know I would have appreciated the gesture and that, sooner than later. Plain and simple, it comes down to respect and courtesy and in the end, yes, professionalism.

Not sure if this question is open to the guys or not but if it is I have always found a cigar calms my nerves and relaxes me. My brand of choice by the way.

I don't think this matters much... advertisers know the difference between 'members' and 'active members' :) I think the point about removing posts from threads if members are removed is important; and also, I think - but don't know - that if the member who made the first post in a thread is removed, the entire thread goes too. I vaguely recall PP re-writing a bunch of recos for ladies whose entire reco threads had vanished because of this, or something similar. I don't recall the details, but I suspect that we need to be careful before embarking on any over-zealous cleaning. Finally, this is a board (and an activity) that people may leave for a while, and then come back to, depending on what's going on in the rest of their lives. It'd be nice if people could resurrect their old accounts when appropriate...

Whoever causes extreme pain on the weak especially defenceless women and children (rape, murder, torture .....) deserves to pay an equivalent price (die with extreme pain). He killed 11 children as young as nine. He is not a human. It takes more than walking on two legs to qualify as a human. Therefore I agree with roamingguy and Elizabeth Saunders and this is called justice not revenge. There are so many good people suffering from cancer then why should I shed a tear for a beast or his kinds? We do feel empathy for the fellow humans but not a beast.

Sorry, in general, I don't like to see people suffer and die, but in Olsen's case (and some others) I hope he is suffering in extreme pain and dies a miserable death He is garbage, and his body shouldn't be buried, it should be thrown in a garbage dump There, I said it RG

I would say its pretty much true for alot of clients.. They just dont like to share... She has alot of regulars, so for sure theres no issue with her AT ALL. That said, a general comment is members need to get more involved and review on a regular basis, its good for Cerb, and its good for the industry. Its also very good for the morale for all of the ladies. I am sure very few ladies don't appreciate a kind word. This line of work is very emotionally Taxing and sometimes a reco can really give someone a lift. Its a win-win situation... You help out your fellow Cerbites, and you encourage a lady you had a great time with.

That's ridiculous. The gene that's responsible for red hair is recessive. Both parents have to have it, and even then, there's no guarantee that any of their children will have red hair. They will all carry the gene, though! The only way to tell whether someone carries the gene for red hair is to analyze their DNA. If the sperm donor lab is just going by donors' hair colour, they're not really able to make a guarantee.

Oh! I am sure that is true Emma. I am so dull I could not think of a single true or false question that is cool!

I hope all goes well for your mother!

Big Hugs to you Sophia. I know full well what it's like when your family is sick and wishing you could do more....it's very frustrating to not be able to help as much as you'd like. My thoughts are with you and your Mom.. And on a naughtier side I'd also like to give you a hotter, sweatier hug and thank you for your sexy, inticing post in the "cumshot-hot or not" thread! ;) Posted via Mobile Device

It is 600x440 to start with; isn't that big enough to give me a respectable size avatar instead of the puny one that is showing up? Thanks for the help but I am feeling smaller by the minute

I don't think I have ever been with an SP that old before, except once.

It's better to tell advertisers "We have 30,000 members" then purge old accounts and only be able to say "We have 10,000 members" I agree that deleted users should just be deleted, instead of having names like J***A** or M****P***** that just sucks. I think it's because once you remove the member, any posts they made go with them....then some topics will suddenly seem to not make any sense. I've personally inquired about defunct photos in the photo area that lead to nowhere when clicked but haven't really had any answer.... AND what SteveCurious said....he's right.

I was moving some files around and thought I'd show you these portraits. In my "other life," I'm a painter. I paint pet portraits sometimes, This is one of my cats. His name is Mozart. He likes to lie on the windowsill, so I painted him there. This was one of my neighbour's cats, peeking out of a shed. And this is Milo when he was about 8 weeks old. (He belongs to another artist.) I've sold a lot of coffee mugs with this painting on it--gifts for teachers. It's called "Milo's First Day at School."

Thanks ... that makes sense and sorry it didn't work out. Usually the "I'm going to assume something came up unless I hear from you by ____" expresses a sense of urgency without sounding rude. Its not going to change minds one way or the other, but it might help to get things moving.

The party just seems to be getting better and better!!! Thanks so much to Nicki and Angela for doing all of the work on this.... what would we do without you????

I concur,walk away...no better yet run away! There's no excuse for bad manners ever. And personally I wouldn't care to have an explanation at all. Peace MG

Megan's right...move on Trying to resolve a private matter between you and the lady in a public forum never turns out good for anyone And there are other ladies on CERB to see RG

Most of the time when I offer duo it's because I've made out before with the lady in question just to be sure that we actually get along sexually:)

Sometimes even Capitalman needs a hug.

Hey Buddy! Congratulations. What would we do without you on here. Cub

Came back from vacation and first thing I noticed was that the Visitor's box was missing, found this thread and I agree with most people that I'm curious about who visits my profile as well. It's a shame that one bad apple causes a feature most of us like to be temporarily removed until a solution is found. I suggest that the MOD add the visitor's box to the User CP section, this way nobody can see who visited your profile other than yourself. Personally when I visit somebody else's profile I've never even paid too much attention to who else visited their profile, its none of my business.

We all have our good and bad days and the same goes for our days with this board. At the end of the day you take the good with the bad and you pull through, some days are amazing others you want to just snap. All in all it is worth it for what you as an individual gets from this community. This board is unlike any other out there.

Lately in my place of work I've been fond of using "fuck-tard" quite a bit. Along with -shit, -dammit, -for-the-love-of-fuck (said as one word), -tabarnac, -calis, -usti de tabarnac de siboir de calis, -fuck-me-in-the-goat-ass (again said as one word), -loopy c*nt (I actually dislike this word but have been watching too much Deadwood). -and oh yeah...cocksuckah! (Said like Mr. Wu). Etc, etc. Posted via Mobile Device

For security reasons i have disabled this feature and i am working on a way to let each user hoose to turn this on or off....problem is this feature is being abused. Urgency to remove this is because one of the ladies has a real bad stalker we cant get rid of. he is watchng her profile and contacts everyone who visits her profile and says bad things about her so no one sees her. i have banned him about 10 times and he keeps coming back with new ip and sneaking in. its adding to his obsession and hurting her business too so for now i disabled it. also... some of the sp's post on every persons wall who visits them and this is also getting complaints. I am looking for a solution that would enable each person to turn on or off this feature.

Wow! Great review. I'll bet Diora couldn't have written it better herself!

http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/ This updates some of the common stds and transmission risks. (I note this because in the previous charts, bbbjs would be listed as medium risk to the giver, and low risk to the receiver, and now both parties are listed as high risk for most of the reported stds) The Health Nurse operates a sub forum on another site, but if you have specific questions on a topic, they are easy to contact and quick to reply and you can reach them thru the above link as well. The Health forum on the other site is filled with questions, some you might funny or obvious, others not, but all are quite serious. It boggles the mind sometimes just what people do NOT know, and can be a real eye opener to read some of the past threads. Pm if you want the name of the other site. (not sure if this is the right section for this topic, but if I put into General, it will get buried sooner)

I both agree and disagree, asking on initial contact can often make someone very uncomfortable and can be very offensive but it is often how you ask as well. I have had people ask me in an opening email by saying "Are you clean?" "How do I know you don't have a disease?" to which I usually respond with a link for the mens health clinic so they can get themselves tested (though I do giggle when the odd person replies "wait you're a man?"). I've also had others approach the subject by saying "I'm very new to this, I've never seen a lady and have several concerns do you mind if I ask you a few questions?" They will then ask about booking procedures, incall vs. outcall, health information (both testing for themselves - where, is it needed, etc. and for myself) and basic etiquette. In that context I do not mind at all and in fact appreciate that they are taking the time not only to inform themselves but to ask the questions they need to feel comfortable. I also had one very wonderful date that have made it clear that the only concern he had was the STI risks but it was how he asked it that mattered, rather than accusing me he approached it much like he would asking anyone for relationship advice. It was something like this, 'I have often thought about seeing a lady but have always been nervous, I am in a committed relationship and I do not wish to lose that. I know that I can get away for a few hours and see a lady but I've always had this nagging fear that if I see someone (not you specifically) I am opening up our relationship to the risk of disease. I can't really ask my Dr. about this but what types of activities are 'safe' and what are not?" Again I was not offended at all and I doubt many ladies would be, he was not accusing me of having a disease rather expressing a real concern that he would have seeing anyone outside of his relationship. I was happy to answer his question and provide him with whatever information I could, which also included how to get safe anonymous testing. I have also had the conversation with people I have visited over a number of times, it often just comes up and I think just like in any relationship it's good to have a conversation about it. We are all taking some level of risk and just by starting that conversation you are opening up the lines of communication. I want my dates to feel comfortable talking to me about their sexual health, it's important that they have someone to go to should they have a concern and if it may involve me or they have a concern about me I'd prefer they came to me. I understand they do not always have someone at home they can speak to so I think keeping that line of communication open is as valuable to my client as it is to myself. Now as to the fact that you never really have proof, it's true you don't but it's important that you trust your instincts as well. When someone contacts me I look at both what they say and how they say it and go from there. If I get the feeling that someone is being open, honest and is interested in a conversation then I am generally comfortable with their answer as well. In this specific situation having gone through the testing procedure I would ask open questions and start a dialogue, again you can never be too sure but at least I would know if they were knowledgeable and that in itself would provide me with some level of comfort. I have always preferred to deal with those that know their risks and make informed decisions rather than those that move forward blindly.